Need some help framing my career better when I talk to girls

IdeaActionUtterance · 2022-02-27T12:43:43+00:00

You could always fib a little bit - play up your companies role, you know?

You aren’t contract admins for construction project management, you’re developing B2B Infrastructure for land/real estate/construction firms to navigate their complex client contract databases

… or something like that.

Liberaler · 2022-02-27T13:02:45+00:00

Find analogies to dumb down what you do.
describe it as one big adventure, change the angle you look at it.
your description does not have to be 100% precise, it's more about getting an idea across. One can describe anything in an exiting way - it is not only about what you say, but also how you say it.

dropping out of college

Why the focus on dropping out? Isn't it more important, that you went there, even you did not finish it?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-02-27T13:52:17+00:00

1 - Doesn’t matter at all how uninteresting the industry is because it’s irrelevant when it comes to seduction.

2 - It also doesn’t matter if you are good at sales or not, because it is also irrelevant when it comes to seducing women.

”I usually segway about my journey dropping out of college to build startups, bla bla bla”

This is boring, talking about your job is also boring no matter how interesting or uninteresting the industry you work at is.

You need to be fun, and I don’t mean having a fun job, no! What I mean is the way you talk about things needs to be fun, they just wanna vive, they want to see your personality, they want to laugh. The reason they get bored to death isn’t because your job is boring it’s because you start talking about facts, objective things and logic…

That’s what dries them up. That’s what bores them to hell… the fact that you start exchanging factual objetive information without any grace, without any sense of humour, without a unique personality trait that makes you engaging or charming…

The fact that you are acting like you are in a job interview with a girl, rather than teasing her, joking with her, messing with her, playing with her, bantering with her and roasting her or flirting with her,…

The fact that you state things in a logical way that doesn’t distinguish you from the rest, you could use humorous analogies to describe what you do or give her answers that she doesn’t expect, for example:

She: “What do you do for a living”
You: “I’m a porn actor and you?” (more funny if you look the opposite of a porn actor in terms of looks)

You can also say:

She: “What do you do in that construction company?”
You: “* I make those long ass construction contracts that everybody pretends to read, before they end up signing their death sentence and selling their soul to assholes like me, pretty fun and you?”*

Can you see how that can be more fun, than stating technical facts about contracts, engineering plans, administration tasks, city council permits, and all that boring stuff?

In other words, don’t get into the technical stuff, they don’t care, they just want you to come up with a funny thing that makes them laugh and that’s it.

The woman will only focus and insist on what you do technically, if you establish a frame where you just say objective boring things…

That’s because since the woman isn’t laughing with you, then she has no other choice than to fill silence with more logical boring questions to pretend like the date isn’t as dull and awkward as it is.

But let’s say after you said:

You: “I make those long ass construction contracts that everybody pretends to read, before they end up signing their death sentence and selling their soul to assholes like me, pretty fun and you?”

she tries to insists on what you do, like:

She: “haha, really? What do you make them sign exactly?”
You: “That’s classified information. If i told you, I’d have to kidnap you… And you are too cute to get kidnapped”

See? You took the opportunity to be fun and also flirt by saying she is “too cute” while also avoiding getting into the technical boring shit that i promise you she doesn’t care….

She will enjoy more of you come up with funny stuff, than if you state facts about your job.

ChoppedBelAir · 2022-02-27T14:46:24+00:00

Honestly it sounds like you're trying to over seek how fancy your job title is. It makes you seem like one of those d-bags who has some bullshit home brew company that doesn't actually do anything or even turn profit.

Just keep your job stuff to the simplest layman description you can. Almost like you're talking to a kid. Don't get more specific unless they ask.

Be careful using your job to draw women as you'll mostly attract gold diggers and they'll only want transactional encounters, ie sugar daddy/ sugar baby type shit

Elbynerual · 2022-02-27T18:02:12+00:00

Tell em you have an emerging maple syrup conglomerate.

mightymite88 · 2022-03-02T06:24:39+00:00

Do not talk about work at all. Problem solved.

Title	Need some help framing my career better when I talk to girls
Author	the_cute_brigadier
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	February 27, 2022 12:29 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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