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The 6 B's man Beans , Bullets, Bandaids, Broadcast (radio), Bitches, Booze In that order
/r/seduction23/03/20 02:21 PM
1

I'm a dory finance student and I've never had an issue with the "Jocks" Hell they all want me to invest their money for them and teach them how to trade stocks. Be friendly with the guys, easiest way to "disarm" them. Then when the gals see you aren't threatened and just a friendly guy who is headed to the top of their field and confident, it's smooth sailin.
/r/seduction10/09/19 01:32 PM
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Im in college now. Best thing you can do (imo) is to just try to be top of your field. Lead student orgs around it, etc. Whatever you enjoy just try to be the best. I have a utterly dogshit GPA (improving that) but because I am pretty good at what I do, I get invited to all the honors events and all the admins talk about me. Build a reputation around success, but don't be the goody two shoes USGA 4.0 GPA perfect student and nothing else type. Make some waves and the fish will come in with the ti…
/r/seduction10/09/19 01:29 PM
4

Just like a boxer, train how you fight since you fight like you train lads.
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:33 PM
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If she wants to be with you, she'll make time. And quit watching porn. Learn to have some delayed gratification and actually pursue what you want.
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:47 AM
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I'm trying to say that as you get older the gap isn't as big of a deal. And that's good that your somewhere with sensible drinking laws.
/r/seduction22/05/19 03:16 AM
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Yea but it is nice to be able to grab a drink with her even if you're not buying hers. There are alternatives but it's just what happens.
/r/seduction22/05/19 03:15 AM
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Try thinking about it as a percentage. E.G. 5 year difference @ 25 is a 25% difference, but a 5 year difference @ 50 is a 10% difference. Also, she probably wants to go to get drinks and shit, and you can't do that unfortunately. This is gonna sound bad but enjoy fucking ditzy 18 year olds while you can.
/r/seduction21/05/19 04:56 AM
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I mean...............
/r/seduction21/05/19 04:54 AM
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Because your viewing things as black or white, when they are a spectrum of greys. A girl can think it was nice to meet you and still walk away. Hell, a girl can be attracted to you but not be looking for anything, and unless your extremely skilled, she can walk away.
/r/seduction21/05/19 04:48 AM
2

I knew it was RSDTyler before I even clicked the link lol.
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:56 AM
1

Flirt and build tension, kino, then at the end of the shift take them to coffee or your place depending on the girl / vibe.
/r/seduction08/03/19 04:07 AM
1

Bars and clubs as well as daygame. I have spent many a night in the freshman dorm, I actually prefer it.
/r/seduction08/03/19 04:06 AM
0

Don't take girls on dates that you are not actively sleeping with
/r/seduction06/03/19 07:59 PM
5

Hope it all turns out well for you my dude. Just remember that if you keep doing what your doing, you'll keep getting what you've got. If you have any questions or anything feel free to hit me up.
/r/seduction06/03/19 07:57 PM
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You my friend, have one-itis. Inside of your head, something is telling you this girl is special, this girl is different, this girl is the one for you. That is a logical fallacy. To quote Ross Jeffries, "The only time to put a girl on a pedestal is if I'm looking up her skirt". You did not properly control her frame. Game is not only about controlling your frame and subconscious, but about influencing her frame and anchoring states of her subconscious to you. You didn't do this, so when she got …
/r/seduction06/03/19 04:52 PM
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Yea honestly when you approach college as "I'm a badass, they are all dumb college thots, they need to qualify for me" and keep that internal, it works out really well. Then just have fun and don't be a dick and you surprise yourself.
/r/seduction25/01/19 03:26 PM
7

I've always viewed it that my perfect girl does not exist, so then I don't really care about the outcome. Outcome independence and all that.
/r/seduction25/01/19 08:51 AM
11

I'd need to quantify it but I think it's easier for me to make money than get laid. I work in finance though, so money is easy for me.
/r/seduction18/01/19 03:21 AM
1

Which Birmingham? I'm in the magic city.
/r/seduction14/10/18 09:09 AM
1

If your fit, doing something exciting. I'd If your dad bod like me, in a suit in front of a rented maserati.
/r/seduction03/08/17 05:02 AM
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I PM'd you. Hope it's alright, it's some pretty heavy shit.
/r/seduction06/06/17 06:29 AM
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Life is A okay other than 1 thing I would not post in a public comment but has got me super upset. I shouldn't have drank today. I had a problem last year with alcoholism but I relapsed today. I had some real bad shit happen that I got reminded of today and I cracked open a bottle of scotch. It'll all be alright tough. Your welcome to PM me if you want.
/r/seduction06/06/17 06:01 AM
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Brrreeuuuhhhh I'm aaaaallpha as fuuuuck
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:38 AM
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Nah amn od course not do you actually wanna fucj that beach? I'm dreenk and can rull your not doing it right. Fuckingj get that shit dawwwwwg.
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:37 AM
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Bruh I'm 19 and fucking slay so much mad poon you would be so fucking jealous. But im half a handle od scotch deep so who thw fucj nows O do slay mad loon thos dawg
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:36 AM
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Yea. Real and meaningful relationships in high school don't matter at all. College is a whole different animal. Just wait, you'll see.
/r/seduction31/10/16 06:19 AM
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Just started college a few weeks ago. Just fucking talk to everyone you can. You just go and introduce yourself and hang out with them and just be enjoyable to be around, and your golden. Also, a fraternity helps if your about that.
/r/seduction12/09/16 03:54 AM
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The fuck you on about?
/r/seduction10/09/16 02:59 PM
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Rushing next week. Wish me luck boys.
/r/seduction06/09/16 02:24 AM
6

Just talk to her, kino, make out, take her home. It's pretty much the same as being at a club.
/r/seduction04/09/16 07:34 PM
61

Just gotta stay confident and roll with it. Make out with her and be like "I've never kissed a girl named Suzy before" (obv. Suzy isn't her name) then hit her in the head and drag her back to your cave like a fucking neanderthal.
/r/seduction16/08/16 03:03 PM
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If you say her name alot in conversation it builds trust between her and you. And you get to remember her name lol. I feel your pain. It's happened too many times.
/r/seduction16/08/16 02:21 PM
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Your making shit up to try and get her to like you. You already done goofed. Move on, apply what you've learned so you don't do it again. Be congruent in your actions. You can't pivot on her if she isn't into you, at best it confuses her.
/r/seduction02/06/16 06:48 PM
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START BOXING GRIZZLY BEARS AND HUNTING LASER SHARKS AND SHIT not really The way I see it, just be the man you want to be. There is nothing manlier than being who you want to be regardless of whatever the fuck anyone else thinks. That is truly being a man.
/r/seduction26/05/16 03:18 PM
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Jesus Christ I see you every where in this sub and it's really annoying now
/r/seduction13/04/16 03:13 AM
1

Thanks, I am going to need it. I think I am going to start looking at some of the "forbidden arts" of the old pickup community, and see how they work out for a while, then move on from that to try and get my own game going. Its going to be alot of reading and alot of testing, but I just want to try and give to the community something that will knock their socks off.
/r/seduction16/03/16 09:30 PM
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I am just saying we need to go back to the old style of testing new methods.
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:17 PM
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Right, I completely agree with everything you are saying. I think that "techniques" and what no can go hand in hand with all of it. And I am not saying we go back to all the old stuff, I am saying we adopt the old spirit of scientific methodology that is what I think is lacking from the modern community. Trust me, I am not learning pickup for the sake of pickup. I am interested in psychology so it beckoned to me in a way nothing else has, and it has been more of a hobby than anything.
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:16 PM
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Why can we not use both though? I am extremely confident and very self validated, I do all the same stuff on here you guys do. I think that combining the "technique" aspect of it plus the confidence and self validated aspect of it can go hand in hand, and that is what I would like to see more of in the community.
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:08 PM
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Im not complaining about lacking material I am complaining that the community has gone stale. It looks like it used to be a scientific community but now it is not. I guess I am saying that the whole "mind games" aspect of it has dissipated. I guess I kind of want more psychology based stuff, and I myself am working on some stuff in that area, but the community seams to have shifted away from it.
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:06 PM
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I think confidence is important, but I think that both confidence, being a great person, etc. can be heavily upped by playing the "tricks" and "mind games", which kind of get a bad rap, but are useful none the less.
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:00 PM
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I guess I am looking at it as more of a psychology thing than a personal improvement thing. I feel like there is always room for improvement in techniques, or new techniques. While we can say "it boils down to x" all we want, we can always build off of it.
/r/seduction16/03/16 07:52 PM
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Know of any forums that are still kind of like the old ones? I like this sub and RSDnation for its own reasons, but it doesn't really feel like the seduction I read up on when I first got into this. I am thinking about writing an open letter or something kinda sharing my thoughts on it.
/r/seduction16/03/16 02:22 AM
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I think its interesting how people in the community have shifted away from alot of the older methods that are tried and true, and work like nothing else (granted different things work in different situations, I still think mystery method etc. works pretty great)
/r/seduction14/03/16 07:31 PM
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Bring a wing who will metaphorically (or physically if need be) kick your ass if you don't approach.
/r/seduction01/03/16 03:05 AM
1

I don't know if they play it near you, but they play a Coca Cola commercial where I live where the guy goes for the arm around the girl, and a couple variants of that. Fucking golden opportunity, works every time.
/r/seduction24/02/16 01:22 AM
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Lol, I might be. We probably want to go the same places in life. Personally Mark Cuban is my idol and if I could become some mixture of him, Buffet, and James Bond, that would be my goal in life.
/r/seduction21/02/16 11:28 PM
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It doesn't matter you missed her call, in fact that's a good thing. You cannot be available 24/7, just reschedule and escalate during the date.
/r/seduction13/12/15 03:35 PM
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I'm in the same boat brother, but in the halls are a really bad place to approach. You usually have to come up from behind them, which is a big no no, its hard to make good eye contact, and its difficult to kino since everyone is carrying books. My advice would be to hit the lunch room hard, just sit with random groups of girls you don't know, be the life of the group, it will lead to things with girls, it always does. Just don't do it to girls you already know, since then it can be a little wei…
/r/seduction12/11/15 02:07 AM
1

If you want to be a Badass McPimp then be one, if you want a girlfriend, have one.
/r/seduction11/11/15 05:04 PM
1

Who the fuck pays that much attention to everyone else in a coffee shop?
/r/seduction11/11/15 06:46 AM
1

Just be you and don't let being around her affect your emotional levels. It's unattractive if you get needy, its attractive when you radiated happiness and are always enjoying life. Look up Real Social Dynamics, I'm sure there is something in there, I ripped this straight out of one of their videos really.
/r/seduction11/11/15 06:42 AM
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Your using her to validate yourself, you should be self validated.
/r/seduction11/11/15 06:35 AM
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Maker her comfortable around you
/r/seduction10/11/15 10:05 PM
3

Just try to talk to people. If you don't know them just make up some crazy shit. Ask questions. Comment on things. Tease people occasionally. Be you.
/r/seduction18/09/15 04:08 AM
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I GOT YOU BRO
/r/seduction18/09/15 02:10 AM
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JUST DO IT Give her the eyes back and just do you. Ya feel me?
/r/seduction18/09/15 01:03 AM
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If you talk to her she might not like you, but if you don't talk to her, you failed anyways. Its the possibility of failure vs absolute failure.
/r/seduction18/09/15 12:50 AM
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Punch the biggest guy you see and get some tats. Hang out with a gang of people of your own race. Wait that's prison, where were those notes on college I had laying around. Just do you, you don't have to do anything. Get your shit in order like others have said. Most importantly after doing well in your studies, get some friends. Your not going to have any luck getting a chic to stick around if you aint got no one to hang with.
/r/seduction17/09/15 01:08 AM
1

Golden advice right here. I'm gonna have to start living by that.
/r/seduction16/09/15 09:42 PM
1

Why am I in the game? I like sex, I like girls, I like sex with girls. I like improving myself, I like what I have become, I don't want to go back to what I was. Goals for the future? Do what I want, don't let other people influence me. What inspired me to get into the game? At first it was I wanted to get some, but then I realized it was more about improving upon myself, and making myself into the best me I could.
/r/seduction30/08/15 07:32 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/aSKwKfg.jpg And an upboat for you sir!
/r/seduction30/08/15 07:20 PM
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BUH DUH DUH DUUUUUHHHHH ARE YOUR READY FOR THIS SUNDAY NIGHT WHEN WWE CHAMP JOHN CENA DEFENDS HIS TITLE IN THE WWE SUUUUUPEEERRR SLAAAAMMMM BUH DUH DUH DUUUUUHHHHH
/r/seduction30/08/15 07:16 PM
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If I keep kissing her she might want to have sex tho Wait...........
/r/seduction30/08/15 07:14 PM
5

I want to send this kid some potato salad
/r/seduction30/08/15 06:07 PM
2

Something fancy, but not something absurd. Be sure you have wine that compliments it so you look like a badass.
/r/seduction18/08/15 10:06 PM
2

Whenever I roll, at the beginning I really want to find someone to dance with, but by the end of it I'm not on the earth until I'm out.
/r/seduction14/08/15 02:53 AM
4

Does that mean you can't dance with her and grab her number?
/r/seduction14/08/15 02:50 AM
6

There are three types of people when it comes to this, guys who cower and make excuses, guys who take the advice, and guys who will get confrontational with you about it. I've seen people get ridiculously tilted over a guy trying to help him out.
/r/seduction14/08/15 02:49 AM
1

Thats what Im saying. There is no reason to do it if she isn't in immediate danger.
/r/seduction07/07/15 03:01 AM
1

Nah I know they want to fuck, its just kinda looked down upon. They respond pretty well to my advances, but I think alot of people here have not been exposed to alot of guys that act like this. I have friends who were marrying their third or fourth girlfriend/boyfriend in, I don't know what it is. It is a dynamic I plan to try and use to my advantage, just have yet to find the perfect balance of it. I usually play by ear though, alot of girls here fall head over heels for the James Bond type if …
/r/seduction07/07/15 02:37 AM
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Yep I completely agree. I was just saying that it would be nice to have another way to come into contact with them, summer break has been slow thus far. I usually number close and set up a date for the next day or few days, seems to work well enough. Im just looking for yet another way I can meet new people, besides wandering the mall aimlessly talking to every girl I see.
/r/seduction07/07/15 02:03 AM
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No shit sherlock, I was asking about tinder not about getting girls in high school. Never know when a new tool can enter my arsenal, you feel me?
/r/seduction07/07/15 01:53 AM
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If I lived on the coast the beach would be my go to Ive got all the areas around me scoped out for the one lucky night I might get while Im still in high school. I can't wait to get an apartment or something though, I just want MUH FREEDOM! WILLIAM WALLACE!
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:59 AM
3

Its like the ending of scar face but instead of cocain its pussy
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:56 AM
1

Make them prove their value, your shopping they aren't. Your the guy that approached them, now make them show you why they are more than just looks. My favorite line when they get all "better than you" where they act like they are out of my league. "So if you didn't have your looks where do you think you would be in life" It either pisses them off or makes them think, or impresses their friends. And if they get mad, Im not really that interested in them anyways. Don't say it aggressively, try to…
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:55 AM
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This is going to sound really bad and I know the community will probably say something but I would like to look back on the methods of old. Mystery method, remember that you have to make them prove it to you, your no longer the guy acting all needy. It sounds bad but if your uncomfortable with them you can do one of two things 1) Tweak your own damn mindset to not give a fuck and get in there (I like this one) 2) Make them feel uncomfortable and go all alpha and shit (not as effective and not as…
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:51 AM
2

Take her back to her place, or find a nice place off in the woods. Or the car So many options, I always found houses quite boring tbh.
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:48 AM
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Hey one question: Is there a tinder option for if your in high school? I talk to alot of girls anyways but I can't ever get enough.
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:45 AM
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I have had the same thing sort of happen in high school. Im really bad at getting high school girls, and to me they seem really shallow, so I end up getting lots of chics in college I know I can't date for extended periods of time, and most don't want to continue after they find out Im in high school.
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:44 AM
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I don't know if you live in America or another country, but have you thought about throwing in random bits of spanish here and there? I took a couple years of spanish and am able to get around mexican restraunts enough to impress whatever young lady I am with.
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:42 AM
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Any idea how to keep it sexual in a hyper religous enviroment? I love Alabama but a lot of people here are embarrassed/ just plain don't have any sexuality that they talk about. Im sure there is a way to do it.
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:39 AM
1

I agree with the fading feelings part 100 percent. Even I don't really want to date a girl after a couple days have passed. I would like to compare this to the star wars movie. They showed the trailer forever ago, and now I am not as excited for the movie as I was.
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:38 AM
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Yep had to learn that if they aren't taking initiative after I have already met them, they aren't that into me, and so I should just move on. Plenty of fish in the sea. You cast a big net you catch alot of fish, but sometimes a fish jumps out of the net. I just make myself go out and get 10 more phone numbers for every girl that rejects or goes cold on me. Im in the hundreds backlogged but it keeps me motivated.
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:37 AM
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Is that a good or bad thing? Also it could just be the girl I have met multiple girls that just go full on psycho meltdown after a breakup. Also if you think she is gonna hurt herself, call the paramedics and ask them to admit her to a psych-ward, or get a friend of hers to do it.
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:34 AM
0

I'm 17 and on my school's bowing team is that close enough?
/r/seduction12/06/15 07:39 AM
5

Hell no that was the best part.
/r/seduction11/06/15 04:31 PM
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Your preaching to the choir man
/r/seduction11/06/15 07:09 AM
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I'm not saying its not deplorable. I don't find it effective at all because that isn't who I am. I was just saying that it does work, and its shit. I hate using the "mystery method" of old because you are disregarding them as a person and simply relying on their own insecurities, which is a horrid thing to do to a person. I like to treat people like people regardless.
/r/seduction11/06/15 06:46 AM
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That feeling when she didn't text back at first felt bad, but then I had an excuse to get back out in the field. Saw her a couple weeks later and got all her friends numbers and shut her out, then guess who texted me right after they left? I couldn't stop laughing
/r/seduction11/06/15 06:36 AM
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To be fair that shit works on women with low self esteem
/r/seduction11/06/15 06:33 AM
1

Yea I'm with this guy
/r/seduction08/06/15 04:31 AM
1

Ohhhhh okay that makes sense. I wouldn't let them hold it though. And really the only person you would be lying to is yourself. Id ask a mod how they feel about it though, their in site is probably better than mine.
/r/seduction06/06/15 06:04 AM
1

Let me seduce your money from you. Also I wouldn't do it with internet strangers. Prolly a bad idea
/r/seduction06/06/15 05:39 AM
1

Yea man I am in high school and realized I am not as bad as it as I thought for what I get out of it.
/r/seduction25/04/15 06:00 AM
1

Mystery method works on groups but usually only in nightclubs.
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:16 PM
1

He did it. ROLL FOR CHARISMA!
/r/seduction10/02/15 05:01 AM
0

Just download it illegaly instead of begging for it bro.
/r/seduction02/01/15 08:24 AM
3

Not to young though, otherwise youll be back here asking for how to be confident in prison.
/r/seduction02/01/15 08:21 AM
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Those college girls would have never knew i was in high school if i didnt have to get my mom to drop me off at the coffee shop.
/r/seduction02/01/15 08:19 AM
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Take some MDMA and go to a techno party.
/r/seduction02/01/15 08:07 AM
1

yea i know. I have been thinking besides this though now, what if there was a way to be able to use NLP on a whole group of people?
/r/seduction02/01/15 06:06 AM
2

Hey man, keep posting. I am sure most people here are cool answering questions, even if you are a novice.
/r/seduction01/01/15 09:26 AM
2

Been gaming for around a year, just found this sub about a month ago. Cold approaches are kind of eh in high school, because it is hard for me to get a follow up out of it. If you can work your way into the conversation, then you will seem more natural and less out of nowhere. I rarely do cold approaches, except on the hottest of the hot. You play into it, something like "hi my name is, and I could not help but notice how beautiful you are", then neg them. " beauty is common, but what sets you a…
/r/seduction28/12/14 08:12 PM
1

I am still learning, but using situational openers works most of the time
/r/seduction28/12/14 07:15 PM
1

Okay that makes sense
/r/seduction28/12/14 07:14 PM
1

Of course, look for the ones that isolate themselves or are just playing on their phines
/r/seduction28/12/14 07:14 PM
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Junior in high school and i am running the game all day. It is just so easy, these chics have no clue what hit them. Of course i feel bad that they are young and impressionable, and it feels like i am cheating the system of being socially akward at this age, but who gives a shit i get way more than everybody else in that school.
/r/seduction28/12/14 07:12 AM
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Im 16 myself, and am currently running game all the time. Mainly because i was socially akward and need to be able to actually talk to people, but getting the ladies is nice too. Dont let it define you, let it be a way to help explore who you want to be and who you want to hang around with.
/r/seduction28/12/14 07:08 AM
3

How do you aproach them at the mall, just out of curiosity?
/r/seduction28/12/14 07:01 AM
1

I figured there are certain spots you can touch and she will either respond with affection and attraction, or just pull away. At that point you have to figure out how to get in there and figure out how to get her to be attracted to you, be it boosting her up, letting her think you have lost interest, or whatever you are reading off of her.
/r/seduction28/12/14 06:42 AM
1

I have been solo gaming my way through high school so far, so i may not be giving the best advice, but usually if i dont have a friend on me, which i rarely do, i will try to approach people who are alone and bring up something that they are doing or wearing or whatever and just jump start the conversation then go through with your basic game.
/r/seduction28/12/14 06:37 AM
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I one hundred percent agree, but if you go and sit with someone at lunch or something who you do not have classes with then it could work. But for real, if you can stomach it and are up for the challenge, church functions are crawling with girls who are free.
/r/seduction28/12/14 06:27 AM
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So you seduce their friends first and make those chics fight over who gets to go out with you. God damn im going to miss high school.
/r/seduction28/12/14 06:24 AM
2

In high school right now, and I get more than anybody else simply because i put the effort into it. I am presuming you are in high school, so if you want some tips. 1) Do not approach them in class, especially if it is quiet. They turn to their friends for approval and will try to cold shoulder you if all her friends are watching. 2) Try to approach them when they are isolated, and don't let them brush you off. 3) Do not neg them in front of their friends, and try to only neg them when things st…
/r/seduction28/12/14 06:24 AM
1

Is it just me or is half this sub trying to give life advice and the other half all about actual seduction and getting your game on. Is there another sub where people exclusively discuss the game?
/r/seduction27/12/14 07:23 AM
1

I have this problem since currently I'm in highschool. U had to recognize that who gives a shit about it, I won't ever see them again nor will they likely remember me if I do see them again. What is the worse that can happen from going out and hitting on Ransome strangers? They won't remember you even a day down the line
/r/seduction27/12/14 07:12 AM
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Best thing to do is just to start interacting with everybody you come in contact with. Take for instance a cashier. Most people will just say thanks and leave, but you have to learn about the cashier, what days they work, how they feel, how their kids birthday party went. You start interacting with everybody and eventually you will become a well oiled social machine that can talk about whatever with whoever. It took a lot to get myself to the point where I started to take note of the people arou…
/r/seduction27/12/14 07:09 AM
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