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What, infield daygame? Search and you will find http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZHulT62RAVU http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_R1tAmnAnPM
/r/seduction08/09/13 04:45 AM
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He has a video on "getting laid by playing imperfect game" where he talks about this.
/r/seduction08/09/13 04:32 AM
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This is from 2012.
/r/seduction08/09/13 12:22 AM
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You guys remember that Nick Sparks video? This is how you do it. Edit: Some points I get from this from just watching him talk to the girl, I understand why my conversations get so stale, fake and end very quickly now. When I talk to people I keep digging deeper while he just lets things go. For example when she says she hates her job, my knee-jerk reaction would be to ask why, he pauses and lets her finish. She talks about tree roots and I would keep talking about tree roots, he kisses her. Thi…
/r/seduction07/09/13 09:13 PM
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He has excellent delivery and good intent.
/r/seduction14/08/13 07:13 PM
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Woah, there's an audio version?!
/r/seduction30/07/13 09:41 PM
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If the link doesn't work, it's at 05:09.
/r/seduction30/07/13 09:28 PM
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You make it sound like "the rest of seddit" are only made up of nice guys who's game consists of meditating and giving girl's compliments. All of what you discuss here is either bad for your game (having or showing traits of psychological unwellness, being truly unconfident at your core) or it's already discussed a lot here. Machiavellianism for example, Julien from RSD often talks about "the emotional rollercoaster" and giving girls that "full range of emotion" whether it means they cry over yo…
/r/seduction30/07/13 10:51 AM
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A really immature way of looking at it all with silly and uneducated questions from the reporter or whoever was asking those questions.
/r/seduction29/07/13 05:11 PM
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User queefawngelo has done a good job responding to this thread already, but I just wanted to fill in some things. Please stop counting your approaches, it dehumanizes the girls in your own mind to simply being a number. It's fine if you do it afterwards and manage to keep track of every approach, but for the sake of your own well being just go with the flow and stop worrying about how many you approached that day. It's better to simply enjoy the act of approaching itself instead of going in and…
/r/seduction28/07/13 04:40 AM
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I just wanted to say you inspired me to keep a diary. Thank you. The story was very inspiring.
/r/seduction22/07/13 11:08 PM
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When girls ask me why I'm out alone, I usually tell them I was going to go out with my friend but he bailed so I just decided to go out by myself (which is usually true since I prefer to have a wingman but will go out without one if I have to). Girls react really positively to it. They all call me brave. Awesome story. Better than anything I have done before, hope I'll get there soon.
/r/seduction22/07/13 11:05 PM
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Thanks for not beating yourself up over it or thinking "I'M COMPLETELY WORTHLESS AND DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO", you know what to do. Get up and dust your shoulders off. You only have good times and adventures ahead of you.
/r/seduction22/07/13 12:02 PM
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Damn now I really want a taco.
/r/seduction21/07/13 10:27 PM
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Getting laid after 2-3 dates and getting laid the same night or in an hour are different levels of game. It's not. Read this again: If you have your game in check it can only grow more solid and more smooth.
/r/seduction20/07/13 04:58 PM
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Exactly. While I agree with OP that inner game is a bit overplayed, I don't like routines and lines either. I prefer telling people how to do stuff, giving examples and showing that there are 1000 of different ways to do it while encouraging them to use their own imagination and creativity. Seriously, there is no "higher level of game", it's all the same. You either do it or you don't. The difference between people who are really good at it and newbies is that the newbies don't have all of their…
/r/seduction19/07/13 10:07 AM
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I don't agree with there being different "levels" of game. You either seduce girls or you don't. Or are you using routines? Then yeah, you always need someone else feeding you new material. If you have your game in check it can only grow more solid and more smooth.
/r/seduction19/07/13 08:56 AM
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First off, the book Models by Mark Manson talks about this and will probably help you solve a lot of other issues in your life as well. Check it out. When you're having a conversation you should really try out this concept called "cold reading" which means you tell the girl about herself. If there's something people love more than talking about themselves, it's hearing about themselves. Instead of asking her where she's from, tell her where you think she's from. "You look like a typical Californ…
/r/seduction19/07/13 08:38 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_5FQAkai5Pg
/r/seduction17/07/13 10:34 PM
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You should read up on pacing & leading. Jump in that conversation, take over and then bring it down to your level.
/r/seduction17/07/13 09:32 PM
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Because it makes people really uncomfortable and they feel that they have to apologize, say something to lighten up the mood, explain that they weren't serious or whatever. It makes people scared, so you tell them to hold that line. Have some balls.
/r/seduction16/07/13 09:25 PM
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Getting good at game, or being good at being "social" at all means you learn how to become comfortable in environments that used to be very uncomfortable to you. That is how you become great.
/r/seduction16/07/13 09:23 PM
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Overthinking it? The guide is literally as simple as it could be. If you're into pickup material at all, other people will probably see you as "overthinking it" because they seem to get by just fine.
/r/seduction15/07/13 04:10 PM
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Yeah, this. Also being an "oppa" comes with certain responsabilities.
/r/seduction15/07/13 12:36 PM
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What makes you think that?
/r/seduction15/07/13 07:47 AM
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The very idea of calculating what to say into micromessages to manipulate her perception of you is the exact opposite of what most people need to be doing. Instead of waiting exactly 7.5 minutes to reply to her, why not just be busy in the first place? Instead of piecing words together to come up with some witty one-liner, why not just read or socialize more such that you are just witty? The whole thing is superficial and limiting. What I said was actually: Use your personality in real life inst…
/r/seduction15/07/13 07:26 AM
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I practice what I preach.
/r/seduction15/07/13 06:13 AM
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Be careful. Having good tonality might make girls attracted to you.
/r/seduction15/07/13 05:15 AM
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It doesn't fucking matter. It does, actually. Show a girl two messages written in different ways and she will feel different things. If it doesn't matter, why are you even here then? I've yet been convinced that anything is different over a phone, and I'm not sure why anyone thinks it is. It's different when your conversation is purely through text. 90% of human communication is non-verbal. When all you have is text, shit can go down real bad and texting a lot with a girl usually makes her less …
/r/seduction15/07/13 05:11 AM
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Apocalypse text
/r/seduction15/07/13 03:13 AM
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GG WP No Re WATCH OUT WE HAVE A PLAYER OVER HERE
/r/seduction14/07/13 11:45 PM
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Sure, if you're writing something important. "Let's have drinks on saturday" IS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL. I know this probably isn't your post originally, I'm responding to the English teacher.
/r/seduction14/07/13 11:43 PM
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but it just gives a more entertaining vibe Exactly. Which is why I said skip punctation, because people LOVE to use "?", "!" and "..." WAY TOO MUCH (even occasionally can be detrimental if she reads it in a certain way WHICH YOU CAN NOT CONTROL AND THIS IS THE IMPORTANT PART HERE) which ruins the mood for the girl if you're trying to seduce her. Punctation is not necessary for chats/texting. Seriously. Use your personality in real life instead. Texting should be "avoiding mistakes" instead of tr…
/r/seduction14/07/13 11:19 PM
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WHAT DID HE SAY
/r/seduction14/07/13 11:09 PM
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First of all, it's not about "faking" a smirk/smile. I don't see anyone doing this unless they were a sociopath. If you aren't currently happy and enjoying life you should probably work on your inner game and read books from Eckhart Tolle and the like. I used to enjoy life a lot, but I never showed it. So people always thought I was upset/angry/not enjoying the activity we were doing. I had a neutral face on all the time unless something extremely funny happened. Now that I smirk/smile more, I a…
/r/seduction14/07/13 06:42 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction14/07/13 05:03 AM
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I agree with what you have to say to some extent, however, it all depends on the context. Trying to be an interesting and intelligent human being in a night club won't get you very far and walking up to a girl reading in a quiet library and speaking nonsense to her won't get you very far either. There's always some sort of a middle ground however. If you can form coherent sentences that have some sort of meaning, it really doesn't matter what you say as long as you say it in a good way that will…
/r/seduction14/07/13 04:53 AM
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Sure, if you want to have a relationship it's important to have things in common and have her care about what you have to say. But if you're not going for a long term relationship, the vibe she gets from you is more important. Also the tip "it doesn't matter what you say" will help people who have anxiety over what to say next and free their mind a bit. Personally I have no problem holding interesting and fun conversations with people. But it really doesn't matter.
/r/seduction14/07/13 01:11 AM
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Oh man, your skin is kind of half nerdy? Better not do pickup at all. It has to be at LEAST half nerdy before you start to go out. Always. Kidding. Just do it.
/r/seduction13/07/13 08:26 PM
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We say "hold" for a reason. You literally "hold", you don't just pause, you hold. Your face, your expression, your eye contact, everything. You do NOT react to the stress building up inside your body at all, you just hold that line until she breaks it first.
/r/seduction13/07/13 08:20 PM
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Nice. Apocalypse going OFFFFFFFFFFFF in this FR. GREAT. GREAT JOB MAN. HOLD THAT FUCKING LINE @_@
/r/seduction13/07/13 07:20 PM
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I know man, I'm just being silly.
/r/seduction13/07/13 07:13 PM
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I'm practicing Ryan Gosling game and so should you.
/r/seduction13/07/13 06:46 PM
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"Yah chews bubble gum they finish last"
/r/seduction13/07/13 06:16 PM
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No, don't play into her reality. Make her come into yours instead. Your frame should always be the strongest one. Your frame is whatever you believe. Also OP I can't tell you how to seem like lesser of a nice guy unless you recorded your interaction with her. Give us more info to go on.
/r/seduction13/07/13 05:00 PM
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The second one. It makes you look inviting (for example if a girl spots you before you walk up to her and talk), more good looking, people will come up to you and talk (ask for directions or whatever). It also makes you really photogenic. You will be like an emotional oven everywhere you walk. First impressions are everything. Remember to keep your frame the strongest. Edit: I will add some smiles and smirks from Ryan Gosling to demonstrate what I mean in the original post.
/r/seduction13/07/13 01:12 PM
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Yeah only do it because you feel like it. Because you love doing it. Then it's not beta. If it's like "I hope she likes this" or "I need to do this so that she will like me" it might not be coming from the right place.
/r/seduction12/07/13 07:47 PM
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All pimps throughout the history of mankind will tell you that no, they will never go down on a hoe girl. If you ask R. Kelly, Nelly or any other RnB artist, they will say hell yes they go down on a girl. I hope that helped. It's not about doing it or not, it's about why you're doing it. Are you doing it because it's a win-win situation? Are you doing it because you feel like you have to? Is it fun for you? Do you want to do it?
/r/seduction12/07/13 06:59 PM
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You can contact Brad about it.
/r/seduction10/07/13 07:51 PM
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Yeah, if you want to seem in control. Everyone has a different style.
/r/seduction10/07/13 07:07 PM
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Eventually, when you do it enough times, it becomes second nature. Of course you can keep stuff like this in mind and still live in the moment. Being "inside your head" is usually stuff like over analyzing what she says or does, or if you shirt is stopping you from approaching a girl.
/r/seduction10/07/13 06:18 PM
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Well since you're from RSD can't you answer this? Haha, just kidding. That's not my perception anyway. It's like, don't look like you're TRYING to convey value. HAVE value, BE the guy and show her, don't talk about it trying to impress her.
/r/seduction10/07/13 06:06 PM
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I'm not Brad so I can't speak for him, but after watching a lot of his videos and some infield footage, this is what he does.
/r/seduction10/07/13 02:56 PM
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The girl "getting you" is a little needy because it takes for granted that any hot girl is a "good" girl for you. It means you have no standards and will accept anyone if they are hot enough. Instead, you should examine every girl if she fits your standards. You shouldn't worry if she likes you or not. Here's a quote from Models (by Mark Manson) that I like: Instead of thinking, “I wonder if she’ll like me,” think, “I wonder what she’s like?”
/r/seduction10/07/13 02:51 PM
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I think "always know the next step" is about showing the girl that you always know what to do next, even if you just came up with it in the moment. So, even if it's spontaneous, it seems planned and it seems like you always know what to do and how to handle a situation. If you believe in it, anything can be fun. Also, the bold statements are there to polarize her and quickly make up her mind about you instead of dragging the interaction on even if she doesn't like you. It saves you time and effo…
/r/seduction10/07/13 02:48 PM
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If we're going to help people we can't assume that they're already as good as they could be.
/r/seduction10/07/13 07:53 AM
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You're not as good at speaking to people (even men) as you think you are. I realized this because I used to have the same belief. It's not just beautiful women. And yeah, downvote this if you want to but I'm just trying to help you and all others reading this. My new mindset is being non-apologetic for your actions, polarizing and controversial, unique, really putting yourself out there with no filters and not being afraid to do so. No hesitation in anything you do, and everything is controlled …
/r/seduction09/07/13 09:32 PM
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Yes. The more I read the more I realize that being non-needy is the way to go.
/r/seduction07/07/13 07:54 AM
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No need to be afraid of people trying to cock block, you will have to learn how to deal with them as well. There aren't any lines or behaviors that will work every time so just learn from experience and judge every situation individually. Go out there and approach mixed sets, if doesn't hurt to ask "are you two together?" or "are you guys a couple?" (the more clear you are, the more likely it is that the girl will say "oh no he's just my friend"). Talk to the guy as well and acknowledge him for …
/r/seduction01/07/13 10:28 AM
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You got it all wrong. Read "Models" again more carefully, it goes into great detail when explaining stuff like this. It is all about making your intent known and not hiding it, being authentic and clear about your urges and desires, but not being needy about it.
/r/seduction01/07/13 01:07 AM
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Seems like bl1y is doing research and stumbling on a lot of interesting material!
/r/seduction30/06/13 11:47 PM
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After reading this FR I feel like I'm turning FRENCH!!!
/r/seduction30/06/13 11:45 PM
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Oh wow, this is great advice.
/r/seduction30/06/13 11:37 PM
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Mixed groups are different because the guys might have crushes on the girls even if they aren't together, you know friendzone and all. So you're going to have to deal with really protective guys who never stood a chance anyway but will do everything to make sure you don't get "their" girl.
/r/seduction30/06/13 11:36 PM
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I think that was part of the joke. Still true though.
/r/seduction30/06/13 09:16 PM
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I am wondering should I have pushed more for the F-close? No, you did the right thing. You made your intentions clear, she didn't want it bad enough yet, so at least now she knows what you want. Don't force it lol. Attraction often creates attraction. Don't worry about it, sounds like it will happen soon anyway. And don't give in to the devil, don't text her. It's SO easy to get carried away. You'd much rather meet up with her in real life and have an interaction with her.
/r/seduction30/06/13 05:49 PM
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One of the most important posts, really. Deep down we all know this. But do we act on it? This article inspired me to actually turn off my TV and take out the chord as well.
/r/seduction26/06/13 11:50 AM
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Wow. Best roommate.
/r/seduction26/06/13 11:20 AM
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Sometimes, the simplest tips are the best.
/r/seduction25/06/13 08:38 AM
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I think its funny how I try to act all cocky and funny how I'm forcing this AFC to come dance with the girls with me while I'm panicking myself. Oh man, this is what it is all about. Eventually this will BECOME you. Think about it. Love the FR. Thank you. Enjoy the high.
/r/seduction24/06/13 08:07 PM
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Try making bold statements on general topics or, preferably, personal ones. Say things that make presumptions about her and force her to either affirm or correct you, e.g. "It must be hard being so shy around dudes." Wow @_@ This is great stuff
/r/seduction24/06/13 05:32 AM
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Do you have the same problem with guy friends? Usually we don't (I say "we" because I'm in the same situation), but it's hard to just transfer all of that ease when talking to an old guy friend to when you're talking to a new hot girl you just met at a club. I can't even figure out what I'm doing different myself.
/r/seduction24/06/13 04:12 AM
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You don't. You can't change other people, no matter how hard you try. You will know this if you've ever tried to bring your friends to the gym with you, they might be all for it at the beginning but in the end if they did not make the decision themselves they will drop it real quick and start making excuses for why they can't go. Same thing applies here. Your friend needs to realize everything by himself.
/r/seduction24/06/13 04:07 AM
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Could you write an article about avoiding interview style questions? That's my biggest problem.
/r/seduction24/06/13 04:00 AM
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Landed a job, picked up the gym again, bought new clothes and booked in a few nights out with da boyz. Met a few new ladies as well.
/r/seduction23/06/13 09:16 PM
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Honestly, you need to stop... posting so many awesome articles because they are keeping me awake! Love it
/r/seduction23/06/13 09:13 PM
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This FR made me so fucking happy that next time I'm going to dance for you
/r/seduction23/06/13 03:53 PM
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Yes, we all need to keep this in mind.
/r/seduction21/06/13 08:55 PM
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I think my problem is that I think I have to keep texting/talking to girls online so they don't forget me. But like you said, they probably won't and it's much easier to just meet them in real life. I think you should make that a bigger point however.
/r/seduction19/06/13 03:58 PM
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This is not a solid post, to me, we all know it's good to make the conversation sexual but you didn't really give out pointers like you said you would. You just explained how good it is, and yeah it is.
/r/seduction07/06/13 08:44 PM
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After becoming more attractive myself: Yes
/r/seduction27/05/13 12:49 AM
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For guys, it is less about how your face looks and more about how muscular you are (to a point) and how you dress/present yourself with bodylanguage and the like. If you do all of those and put in real effort to taking care of yourself you will see your results skyrocket.
/r/seduction15/05/13 06:55 AM
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I am really stoked for part 7, I've read all of them so far, but damn, can't wait for #7. That's what I need right now, at least the first part of it.
/r/seduction06/05/13 09:03 PM
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First thing I thought of, you're escalating too hard in the club/outside of the bedroom.
/r/seduction06/05/13 07:34 PM
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Don't hate yourself, that won't get you anywhere. Do whatever you want with the 100 sets, don't even expect people to talk back to you. You can just drop comments to people like it's nothing, you just need to get comfortable talking and opening your mouth anytime and anywhere. Example You're waiting for the bus and you ask the girl waiting with you if the bus shouldn't be here by now, she says something along the lines of "yeah", you then take that wherever you want to. Want to leave it at that?…
/r/seduction03/05/13 09:15 PM
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It's all about self-amusement, watch this video (especially the intro proves a point): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kd3Rs9FxguA You want to have fun for your own sake, not anyone else. You may be there with your crew, you might talk to girls, you might talk to guys there, but you have to be in that state of mind that everything you do is hilarious and you're constantly getting "higher and higher". That's how you bring the party to others, especially girls. Do not calibrate to "their level" whe…
/r/seduction03/05/13 05:55 AM
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People you know since before will notice you change and will be weirded out, they might even call you out on it or call you weird/dumb for doing it or whatever. They just want you to keep being the same old you because they're comfortable with your and their position at school/in life and they don't want you to come out on top or better yourself when they aren't doing the same thing. They're lazy, they don't want to change, so they will take it out on you. Good thing is that this only lasts for …
/r/seduction03/05/13 05:38 AM
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Loved the freeze out, this is also quite good for beginners, but more about the process of learning game overall and not really any game advice. Good post though.
/r/seduction29/04/13 05:26 AM
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Good shit, made me realize a few things
/r/seduction26/04/13 04:40 AM
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But, I can't just wait for a volleyball joke. How can improvise on the spot and learn to adapt? Try it out next time you're talking to someone, anyone. Find something that you can joke about in that way. Don't limit yourself, say whatever comes to mind.
/r/seduction22/04/13 07:50 AM
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Isn't Tyler from RSD a similar height? I constantly see him with taller chicks. If you are a boss it does not matter.
/r/seduction22/04/13 04:32 AM
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