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No she wasn't but she was good as someone to hang out with etc so maybe for the best if she doesn't come back into my life.
/r/seduction04/08/19 07:51 PM
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I think she had issues to be honest and that's why I don't want to crawl back to her. I want her to come to me so I've got the power this time. But yeah it's probably better if I forget about her and concentrate on other women and if she comes back she does but on my terms this time.
/r/seduction04/08/19 07:46 PM
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Sound advice man cheers! Yeah i think you've summed it up there and is exactly what I need to do!
/r/seduction04/08/19 07:42 PM
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It's not as easy as that. This woman used to say I was beneath her and I shouldn't aim as high next time. If I went about that way she would see it as weakness. In fact she said something along the lines of you'll be back once you know you can't do any better.
/r/seduction04/08/19 07:11 PM
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Great advice thanks! I've just downloaded Hinge and I like that you can comment on the pics and not just like them.
/r/seduction19/07/19 02:23 PM
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Hey man thanks for your reply. Fantastic help once again! Regarding the meets. No I've not actively done anything with that but I'm going to once I get back from my holiday. Regarding the alcohol issue. Yeah I know exactly why I started drinking at 15. I have a very rare medical condition and my mother really concentrated on this throughout my childhood. She would call me special so I believed i was special and different. I've had therapy for this and I've done a lot of self improvement to try a…
/r/seduction19/06/19 09:04 PM
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Thanks man really appreciate the advice.
/r/seduction15/06/19 02:04 PM
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Yeah that's true. Sometimes i have conversations with guys at the gym who are in their late teens and I find it very different to talking to my generation. I feel pretty uncomfortable sometimes as if they are looking through me and they seem very nervous. I guess it's the use of social media etc rather than rl interactions.
/r/seduction15/06/19 02:02 PM
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Wow good work mate! Sounds like you've been enjoying yourself :)
/r/seduction15/06/19 01:59 PM
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Cheers dude fantastic advise!
/r/seduction15/06/19 11:23 AM
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Thank you. Yeah my ex who was 24 was pleased that the sex was less selfish. Plus I could hold an intelligent conversation. She would say men her own age repulsed her hahaha her words not mine.
/r/seduction15/06/19 11:22 AM
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Thanks for your comments mate.
/r/seduction15/06/19 11:20 AM
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Thanks man that is some fantastic advice! I signed up with the Meet up website. I keep getting emails but I'm not opening them! I'm going to be honest here and it might go against me. Since the age of 15 i have had a alcohol problem. I struggled with this until I was around 35 when I left my son's mum. I stopped smoking, cut my drinking down, lost 45lb, kicked my depression, sorted my high blood pressure out and started exercising / lifting. However, I was still a dry drunk. I joined AA last Sep…
/r/seduction15/06/19 11:20 AM
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Thank you for this. Very helpful :)
/r/seduction15/06/19 11:06 AM
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Yeah I'm trying to go down the path of been happy and fine being single and see what that attracts instead of the pushy needy route.
/r/seduction13/06/19 08:43 PM
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I'll bear that in mind for next time dude 🤣🤣
/r/seduction13/06/19 08:26 PM
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I said older i didn't say old. 30 compared to a 18 year old is older just like I'm 40 and older compared to you. How would you have preferred me to have put it?
/r/seduction13/06/19 08:08 PM
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Yeah I'm seriously thinking of sacking the dating apps. The effort for return is too high.
/r/seduction13/06/19 06:27 PM
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Yeah what I'm going for now is well fitted plain tees that are tighter around the biceps. I try not to go for the younger look. I'm not very good with shoes. Could you give an example of the kind of suitable shoes? I'm in the UK unfortunately.
/r/seduction13/06/19 04:37 PM
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Good for you! I've only been lurking on here so think i need to keep passing by more often.
/r/seduction13/06/19 04:31 PM
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Yeah it's just about not coming off as creepy though I think
/r/seduction13/06/19 04:30 PM
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Brilliant story and I'm happy for you dude :)
/r/seduction13/06/19 04:29 PM
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Cheers man. I lift 4 days per week although I don't look like it unless i wear tighter fitting clothes. I'm working on my dress sense and i tend to keep my hair short.
/r/seduction13/06/19 04:28 PM
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Cool man thanks for your comment.
/r/seduction13/06/19 04:25 PM
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Through the power of Facebook haha. Her mother introduced me to her.
/r/seduction13/06/19 01:47 PM
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I'm in the UK :) I think there's a lot of younger women dating older guys here in the UK to be honest. I'm not surprised to be honest with the chav population these days :)
/r/seduction13/06/19 01:45 PM
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Go on tell hahaha. Isn't there a guy called Jeffy from RSD who's in his 40's and openly dates much younger women and he's from the US
/r/seduction13/06/19 01:28 PM
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What you've described is intermittent reinforcement and it creates a trama bond. I think she had some type of personality disorder. I've gone fill no contact with her. Blocked her on everything. I had to do it to try and heal. She's mentally messed me up with the love bombing then discarding.
/r/seduction10/05/19 11:32 PM
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Thanks for this! I will do better than her i am determined. I told her before that push me too far and I'll be gone and that's what i did. I'll come out of this on top. She won't and she's already down graded.
/r/seduction10/05/19 11:04 PM
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Thanks for this!
/r/seduction10/05/19 12:18 PM
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I need to move on man. I don't need closure. I refused to get back with her after she had broken up with me for the 30th time!
/r/seduction10/05/19 12:18 PM
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Thanks for this. I think the triggers are just when I think of her been intimate with him. She was a big part of my life for a long time & its hard for me to think of her been intimate with anyone else but me. She could be very loving, caring & we got on really well. But, the negatives outweighed the positives. She broke up with me 30 times in 2 years & she called me some nasty cruel things. She could be verbally abusive telling me to f**k off d**k. She said I was a league below her & I shouldn’…
/r/seduction10/05/19 12:17 PM
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I have a long long list of the shitty things about her that I keep reading when my mind tries to trick me into thinking I miss her.
/r/seduction10/05/19 12:07 PM
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Cheers dude I'm going to make a conscious effort to look everyone in the eye from now on.
/r/seduction23/04/19 06:11 PM
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Yeah that's what I try to do. I want to be the other 10% which looks like by not adding kisses. To me it's more masculine and isn't coming across as begging for validation.
/r/seduction21/04/19 03:05 PM
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Yeah good advice thanks.
/r/seduction21/04/19 02:09 PM
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So would you open up with a kiss? I'm in 2 minds here. Im thinking I should to show interest but then I'm thinking I shouldn't to keep her guessing and not be like the 99% of other guys that message her kissing her ass.
/r/seduction21/04/19 01:53 PM
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Every time I do this I feel weird or as if I'm some pervert especially as I'm 40 and I'm looking at chicks younger than me. Suppose I need to have the who gives a fuck attitude!
/r/seduction21/04/19 12:48 PM
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