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You answered it yourself, you can't do anything to change it so why let it effect your happiness. Focus on other areas of your life for self improvement and it'll eventually outweigh the negative self talk.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:25 PM
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You maybe over thinking. Consider the fact that for a month they possibly were busy with something and just happened to not reach out.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 04:29 PM
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A year is nothing bro. Just think of it as long term investment. The sooner you get em off the sooner they'll be off and you'll have a better smile.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:09 PM
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That typically means no. Time to move on, my dude.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 11:39 PM
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If she has a plethora of red flag why make that a LTR? Don't be jealous she probably had her "bf" on the sidelines while you both were talking for 6 - 7 month. I think you made the right choice she seems like she's for the streets.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:50 AM
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It sounds to me like you're doing all this self improvement for the wrong reasons. You should be doing those things for yourself and not the validation of women. They probably smell that from the jump and hit you with the "I have a boyfriend" response. Everyone gets rejected bro it's about how you react to it that matters the most. After each interaction look at the good and bad, don't go in with a specific outcome in mind. Take a step back and find some inner peace my dude. It's not the end of …
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:11 PM
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I'm 5'5" also. My best advice is to gain confidence in other areas of your life. Raise your SMV until that little voice in the back of your head goes away. Life is too short to worry about shit you can't change dude.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 09:32 PM
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Along with not saying anything bad about them. Don't listen to the rumors it's just unnecessary drama. You should be focused on yourself (school, work, hobbies) and not worried about why someone hasn't gone to church for 3 weeks/toxic friendships.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:39 PM
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It's out of your control so why worry about it? Find other areas of your life to be confident about (hobbies, finances, etc).
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:17 PM
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Regret. The idea that I'll be too old and not able to do the things I'm able to do today. What goals are you pursuing that require you to push forward everyday?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 11:36 PM
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Like other's have said before and I'll say in my post. Don't shit where you eat. It's not worth your income for a little action with a co-worker. If she was interested in you she'd be hitting you up as much as you are coming to her. After the first two times she said no you should have dropped it and moved on. A clear sign she was just using you for her validation was her asking you to add her snapchat. Can you imagine how many other dude's ignored and given her snapchat? Also she lives with her…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:46 PM
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Bro you need to look yourself in the mirror and find some self-respect. She cheated on you the first time and you forgive her instead of just ending the relationship. She clearly only cares about material things and not about you. How have you not figured this out after you said you have been on the red pill for 7 years? She didn't care about you on your birthday, doesn't want to look good for you but puts on make up for others, she puts you down by calling you childish, useless, and not a man. …
/r/askTRP23/09/20 10:47 PM
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Never had any success pinging after they lose interest or not talking for a while. It's better to just delete the numbers and find other girls who are interested.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:08 PM
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She's just filling her time and feelings with other dudes so the break up doesn't hurt as much. Don't look to deep or call her out on anything, it's a waste of time. Focus on your purpose instead it will be time better spent.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:11 PM
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It sounds like you didn't vet enough with this Gf and like she has no respect for you. Do you have any other chicks on the back-burner? It's time to end this and for you to learn how to hold frame (not looked butthurt) when situations like this occur. A simple response to her "none of your business" would've been "alright" while keeping calm body language.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:47 PM
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I've been there. I dated a BPD for 7 months. I heard something once about dating someone with BPD, "they'll bring you the highest highs and the lowest lows". It gets better bro just focus on your purpose and don't go back.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 03:18 AM
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She's talking to other dudes, slow to reply and lack of attention why do you want to turn that into an LTR? Also I wouldn't consider sending nudes a "sexual act" she just wants validation/attention and to pull you back in and for you to just be another one of her orbiters. Move on and find other plates.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 07:22 PM
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General advice: just stay on your purpose. Sounds like you got a game plan with the side project and working out at home. The only way you'll fail is if you don't follow through good luck. Your gf will either see you're a man of your word or bail. But you can't control that.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 03:31 AM
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You may have a small window to get the date you're looking for (if that's what you want) but look at it like this, you may be 1 of dozens of guys she's done this to. If she doesn't bite on the offer of a date or you guys don't smash then i'd call it a loss, unfollow her, and move onto the next one.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:31 AM
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Personally i never shit where I eat. Ask yourself are you comfortable with possibly losing your job if things go bad between you two? Second, if she's flirting with everyone what makes you any different? She's probably just looking for attention and validation, don't feed her ego.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:28 AM
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I've dated a girl like this before for 7 months. I ignored the red flags and woke up to a smashed window in my car. You're 8 weeks in and i'm seeing a ton of red flags. (She tried to kill herself, she cheated on her bf of 4 years, and is trying to control you by saying things like "fine dont expect me to ask you again".Disrespecting you in a variety of ways.) Ask yourself what you want in a partner/plate because she sounds low value. It sounds like you have your shit together and she'll just pul…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 02:25 PM
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She's trying to have her cake and eat it too. She doesnt want to commit to cutting shit off and wants to keep you on the backburner. Keep ignoring her and focus on yourself. Read, lift weights, get hobbies whatever you do don't respond to this girl. She wanted to break up so let her go.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 02:53 PM
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The best thing you can do is move on and focus on yourself. She's already broke up with you and if you stick around trying to get back with her she's just going to lose respect for you. If you stick around she has all the power to decide to get back with you or not. Best thing you can do is go no-contact with her and fill your time with school, work or hobbies eventually the feelings will go away. You say you can go fine without her, prove it.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 02:47 PM
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If she doesn't see you as a mate that's all the info you need to get back in. You don't get back in. Unless it's on her terms and even then it'll probably be because she feels obligated to give it up because you spent all this time and energy on her. Your best bet is to spend less time with her cut her off and find someone who sees you as a mate.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 12:22 PM
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A relationship like this was only gonna work for so long. Honestly it headed down hill once the physical fights happened. She lost interest cuz if all you did was treat her like shit she's bound to find someone else who shows her what she's missing with you. You sound like you have/had an obsession to control her and be the center of her world. Who cares if she found another guy. It was just your turn and now it's someone else. Move on and find another damaged girl if that's what your into.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 08:24 PM
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I been there bro. I felt safe by just being in my room all day, jerking away every problem i had. But only dulled that feeling and afterward i still felt empty. I knew what i wanted and refused to work on myself to get it. Here's my advice. Anything worth having takes time to get it you know that already. You're right in thinking it's not rational to lock yourself away and work on yourself because you miss out on valuable feedback. How do you know if you're making progress if you don't get out t…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 02:30 AM
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If you already know several languages. Why not passively learn a 4th? If a girl asks if you speak "insert language here" just say "a little bit" in whatever language you're learning. In my experience, if a girl is feeling you she'll try to bridge the gap with body language (if its for a hookup) or try to speak in English even if she knows a little. I think of learning a language as survival first (if i'm in a place for several years) and getting laid as a cherry on top. (A sign that you've put i…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 01:18 AM
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Just text her to confirm that you guys are meeting, you're time is valuable. If she flakes, next her and find someone who values your time.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 12:52 AM
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She probably wont ever comeback if shes already enjoying the CC. You need to re-evaluate your life, realize you fucked up and move on. Get those tattoos removed and find some fucking self-respect bro. If you're going to do NC stick to NC and dont look back. There's more to life than 1 female.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 04:55 PM
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She's probably telling you not to come and just wants you to come anyways. Next time feel out her humor before making jokes that they might take literally cuz getting out that dog house is a bitch. It's super early in the relationship you can soft next and see if she comes around.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 04:03 AM
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Ask yourself if you're willing to have a relationship without sex. If sex is a deal breaker just end it. If it's not then drill it in your head now that you probably won't have sex with her. Unless it's on her terms so she doesn't "resent" you. I've been in a relationship without sex. You guys might as well be bros.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 12:09 AM
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You did fine by just saying thanks at the end. The best thing you can do now is focus on yourself (gym, hobbies, talk to other girls) and don't unblock her/reach out to her through mutual friends (if you have any).
/r/askTRP08/12/19 01:56 AM
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Woah bro way too much roller coastering and in the future a TLDR would be appreciated. You're right about focusing on yourself now and not worrying about women for a while. Find your purpose, work on yourself, ditch the alcohol and anyone that isn't in your favor. If you're abusing alcohol like that you need to find out why you feel the need to drink so much. If you wanna cry, fucking cry. If you wanna yell, then yell. Express how you feel and move on don't run to substances to numb how shit you…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 12:37 AM
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She wants your non sexual attention. If you're fine with being her "friend" keep texting her. Keep things brief if she wants to follow you on Instagram and like your posts go ahead. If you wanna smash then find another girl bro.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 03:16 AM
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I don't think it really matters when it comes to having an abundance mindset and self improvement. I'm 30, have reflected numerous times on my mistakes and wish I started when I was your age.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 09:17 PM
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Who cares what they think bro. Especially if it was 6 years ago. As a black dude I'm not hung either. I've slept with girls who told me they've had bigger but always come back for more. (Watch what they do not what they say) It's something that's out of your hands and you're gonna let one moment in life bother you this much? Life is short get over it and focus on your purpose.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:13 AM
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Ignore her and focus on yourself. She's got too much power over you if your 'getting weak' cuz she found someone new. You said you blocked all her social media but not her emails obviously. Block her emails, get some goals and focus on them.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:02 PM
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