[29,M]. Hey dudes, I’m a pretty stable, clean cut, engineer. With some decent dating experience, looks, love to exercise etc. I’m super positive and ambitious and love challenging myself.
Let me tell you about this woman [24] I met 8 weeks ago. We’ve spent essentially 4-5 days a week together, sleep overs, cooking, etc. I was infatuated with her early. But about 2 weeks in I noticed some big red flags. Let me list them:
She told me she tried to kill herself in February, she told me her last 4 year long relationship she cheated on the guy for years while living together and eventually he dumped her (big surprise), she has disrespected me multiple times being rude and selfish (has said stuff like “if you would take charge for once in your life”), she appears almost bi polar and will flip on a dime for example will invite me over to stay the night and I tell her I’ll come by but can’t stay and she’ll literally just say “fine don’t expect me to ask you again” and hang up.
The sex is average, she’s not very intimate and doesn’t initiate shit. She talks negative about her ex only, and still has money disputes a year later.
What y’all think?? Im definitely acting beta and BP because I presume a real RP would have left a while ago. Agree?
Oh and she ended it with me once (I said ok cool) and she came back 4 days later and I let her back in.
So, would you run like hell? She’s pretty hot and I have a bit of ONEitis, but I’m starting to spin some plates.
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