thecaveman08 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
91	Keep approaching fellas	Inner Game	thecaveman08	/r/seduction	30/12/25 04:28 PM
54	My 3-4 approaches this week. Saying Hi, Reading Vibes, and Walking Away	Field Report	thecaveman08	/r/seduction	16/01/26 06:13 PM
12	Is Cold Approach Even Effective in the Long Run?	Fundamentals	thecaveman08	/r/seduction	02/02/26 06:32 PM
9	Being Shy Is the Absolute Worst	Conversation	thecaveman08	/r/seduction	21/01/26 08:02 PM
7	A Week of Approaches, Two Numbers only..	Inner Game	thecaveman08	/r/seduction	13/12/25 10:07 PM
1	The Hesitation That Came Back	Inner Game	thecaveman08	/r/seduction	21/12/25 06:18 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is Cold Approach Even Effective in the Long Run? I’m guessing you approached them in social or get-together environments?	/r/seduction	02/02/26 06:53 PM
0	Is Cold Approach Even Effective in the Long Run? Exactly, man. Getting to know someone naturally and building intimacy is actually enjoyable. Cold approaches, though, often feel like they lead nowhere. After enough straight-up rejections, it starts to mess with your confidence and makes you question yourself.	/r/seduction	02/02/26 06:48 PM
1	Strong first date, agreed to see each other next day, then flake day of. What happened? Yup! Same thing happened to me once. In her texts she sounded super excited, saying things like, “Why not? I’d love to go out again.” But as the day got closer, suddenly she wasn’t feeling well lol.	/r/seduction	02/02/26 06:25 PM
1	Keep going, its best what you can do Have you seen asking them out?	/r/seduction	27/01/26 07:04 PM
1	Men chase, women choose: the reality of attention in dating But by then, they’re already run down lol.	/r/seduction	27/01/26 05:29 PM
2	Okay 100 approaches to learn is cool. But how do you guys deal with the fear of being labelled as creepy or guy who tries to hit on every girl? I approach people at colleges, and sometimes I run into the same girl again. I’m always a bit worried about approaching the same person twice lol, but in a college setting it’s totally fine. I never approached at gym! Women in my gym are too egoistic.	/r/seduction	18/01/26 10:37 AM
8	A lot of attractive guys go home by themselves.. Do you go to these clubs alone?	/r/seduction	18/01/26 10:04 AM
4	She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking? Yes, I was the one initiating every time. You can sense it after a while, if you don’t reach out, the conversation just fades. She was kind and seemed interested, but when the day to meet arrived, there were always reasons it couldn’t happen. When it starts to feel one-sided, it’s usually best to let it be. If she doesn’t reach out on her own, that’s often your answer, and it’s okay to move forward. There are many other women out there.	/r/seduction	17/01/26 04:29 PM
5	She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking? I can tell you’ve got some solid experience, haha. It’s kind of crazy how similar these situations always end up being.	/r/seduction	17/01/26 04:18 PM
14	She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking? I had a similar experience once. I met a girl in a relaxed outdoor setting, we talked, had a beer, walked around, and she gave me her number. A few days later I reached out to see if she wanted to meet, and she was kind and said she’d love to. We picked a day, but when it arrived she said she was busy and maybe another time. I checked in again, and she mentioned being busy over the weekend and possibly next week. We talked a little after that, but meeting didn’t really come up again, so I took i…	/r/seduction	17/01/26 04:16 PM
2	My 3-4 approaches this week. Saying Hi, Reading Vibes, and Walking Away I do find myself using this line quite often, so maybe it’s time to evolve my approach and try something new. I don’t approach purely based on first impressions or physical attraction. If I did, I’d probably be clocking 20–30 approaches a week like some people here haha and that just doesn’t feel aligned with me. Instead, I keep a simple intention, one or two approaches a day. That’s it. I stay present, move through the day, and if someone feels kind, open, and grounded in their energy, I allow …	/r/seduction	16/01/26 08:04 PM
7	My 3-4 approaches this week. Saying Hi, Reading Vibes, and Walking Away I genuinely don’t know how people pull off that many approaches lol. You’d have to be saying hi to every woman who walks by. Even 2/3 a day feels intense to me lol.	/r/seduction	16/01/26 06:55 PM
4	My 3-4 approaches this week. Saying Hi, Reading Vibes, and Walking Away Exactly! Also, I can’t help but wonder if buzzing my hair was a mistake. When I had longer hair, I was getting numbers. Or maybe it’s just my mind looking for patterns where there aren’t any.	/r/seduction	16/01/26 06:25 PM
5	Why tf Cold approach is fucked up in UK Nah, it’s about choosing better, not doing more. Limit yourself to a couple a day so your energy stays clean. Too many approaches and a few bad reactions will throw you off, and then everything after feels forced. Be selective. Analyze who’s actually worth your time and energy. If you only go for 9-10s, it usually won’t play out well.. they live in a different reality, with hundreds of men always around them and flooding their DMs.	/r/seduction	15/01/26 02:45 PM
1	Why tf Cold approach is fucked up in UK Do you mind telling how many approaches you have done so far?	/r/seduction	15/01/26 12:37 PM
1	How do some people do it? You have to get comfortable with rejection. If you take it personally, you’ll burn out fast. I got turned down twice the other day, one woman said she was taken, another was kinda rude. It happens. Not every interaction will be positive, and that’s okay. Some people are kind, some aren’t. What matters is knowing your boundaries and respecting theirs. Approaching someone doesn’t make you a creep, ignoring their response does. Confidence is being able to try, accept the outcome, and move on to the…	/r/seduction	09/01/26 02:37 PM
4	Be very careful of who you tell about game. True. Once invited a friend to hang out, thought he’d be my wingman while I did approaches. Turns out the whole idea shocked him like it was a foreign concept. Five minutes in, I realized it was way beyond his comfort zone.	/r/seduction	08/01/26 05:21 PM
53	First date fire until kiss, then abrupt exit. Misread? She probably messaged her fridge friend from bathroom and got some half-baked advice that didn’t help anyone. Some people in the comments are quick to judge and point fingers, but don’t let that get to you. This isn’t on you. If she chose to step back, let her go. What’s meant for you won’t require you to beg or chase. There are plenty of paths ahead.. no reason to linger where you’re no longer met halfway.	/r/seduction	07/01/26 08:01 PM
1	Why 10s Are Biologically Immune to "Game” Most 9s and 10s are pretty run-down.. they’re emotionally drained.	/r/seduction	01/01/26 12:15 AM
6	Keep approaching fellas Lmaoo	/r/seduction	31/12/25 11:33 AM
42	Finally approached Love to hear that, man.. keep it up. My first approach was scary too, but after that it became way easier. You just have to keep the habit alive, because when you stop, the momentum fades. I go to the gym as well, but the women there often feel very closed off or high-attitude, so I’ve never really approached anyone there. I’ve learned you can kind of sense who’s actually open and worth approaching.. and when you do, it feels good just to take the shot.	/r/seduction	30/12/25 04:40 PM
1	The Hesitation That Came Back It is purely by luck yeah, crazy odds haha.. The thing is, she’s stunning, and part of me worries she might never see me the way I see her. Nice pickup line btw.. Idk if I’ll use that.. idk if I even see her again lol.	/r/seduction	21/12/25 10:03 PM
1	Most approaches you’ve done in one day? How did you feel afterwards? Probably max two for now, I’m still pretty new to this. I don’t approach everyone haha.. it usually takes a bit of time before I find someone I genuinely feel something toward.	/r/seduction	14/12/25 12:42 PM
3	A Week of Approaches, Two Numbers only.. Yeah, that makes sense. I think when I rush the interaction and ask for a number too quickly, it usually turns into a rejection. When I slowed down, exchanged names, talked a little about our backgrounds, and built some comfort first, asking for the number worked better.	/r/seduction	13/12/25 10:21 PM