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thedarkline/r/seduction17/07/12 09:24 PM
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Thank you! It's undoubtedly common knowledge for many advanced users here, but some of the FRs and posts I read indicate that an explicit structural way to think about the simple approach to getting to the day 2 would be useful for greener members. Having something visual, I think, is a useful tool for comprehending topics that seem linear, but in reality are multidimensional If you have any suggestions for this or future posts, I will do my best to include them.
/r/seduction18/07/12 01:03 AM
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Brother's got game. Good job, man--looking forward to more field reports.
/r/seduction17/07/12 09:34 PM
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Two good ways to do this: 1) Deny, deny, deny. If you haven't "given up" your game yet, i.e. not made it explicitly that you're actually hitting on her, immediately throw up the "whoa! slow down, girl, where is your head at" line. Listen, I just want to hang out. 2) Forcibly friendzone her. "That's excellent. We're going to be good friends." This is incredibly mindblowing for a chick--where she's trying to half-friendzone you (or at least negate any possibility of a sexual interaction), you're s…
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:24 PM
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Get the idea out of your head that you need to feel a certain way to do certain things. We exist in a feedback loop--if you just begin to do, get stuck in the present moment and become wrapped up in whatever you're doing, you'll naturally begin to pick up that energy again. If it's a purely lifestyle thing--get enough sleep, 7-8 hours (not too much less or more), eat well-balanced meals, go outside daily, say hello to a few people daily. Realize that your energy levels match your level of activi…
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:19 PM
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Don't follow--lead. If an interaction doesn't have you polarizing and leading an interaction in a way that is beneficial to your attraction, either bring up something new to do, increase your specific attention on the chick, or bounce. "Listen, I'm having a great time, but I have to get some things done tonight. Let's do this another time."
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:17 PM
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Seriously. It's just a cat. You want a cat? Get a fucking cat!
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:14 PM
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Brother, this actually makes a ton of sense. Where normally a chick would friendzone you, you essentially completely friendzone her--but worse, effectively threatening to remove yourself from her life entirely. If she was on the fence, she has an "oh shit" moment and decides to come back. This won't happen all the time, but with the right type of girls, it does.
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:13 PM
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AwkwardMusician is right on this one. It's a big 'ol UHM in this thread. It's never socially acceptable to stare at someone, men or women. It's aggressive and/or predatory behavior. Why would you try to STARE at AMOGs when you can easily identify them as such? Are you trying to get your ass beat? No kidding that you attract trouble if you stare at fucking everyone. Don't count, don't make it weird--just look at people, make eye contact, make it either neutral or friendly.
/r/seduction14/07/12 03:49 PM
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Dude, chill. Don't overthink this. You feel like an asshole because you said something retarded. We don't immediately feel better just because someone tells us it's okay. You're going to feel like a dick for saying it for a while, until you finally accept it and get over it. You're projecting your own insecurities when you think she should be getting more pissed at you--you're putting your own dislike of what you said into her personality, but it obviously isn't there. You apologized like a good…
/r/seduction14/07/12 03:47 PM
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Yeah, man, you're moving way too fast. You're going from 0 to 100, firing the gun without loading a mag. The first girl you lost because you had secured a tenuous set of logistics and she was down to test the waters, but you flaked in a silly way by unwittingly double-booking yourself. She decides to pass. Second girl, just too fast. Imagine you're at a speed dating conference, and the interaction goes like this: "Hi, how are you?" "Good, how about you?" "Good! Let's date!" What? Before you can …
/r/seduction14/07/12 03:42 PM
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That's not a problem. Always agree and amplify, calibrate. If she seems weirded out by your humor or doesn't get it, just call it and use that as a launching platform to try again.
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:30 AM
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The problem is that you pushed way too much. You told her--"I like you! I want to hang out! Let's do X!" and offered her no other routes to make an acceptable compromise. Obviously, as a high value female, she had plans, and told you, "I'm interested, but I'm busy tonight, I'll let you know." You told her, "I don't care if you're busy or have plans, you should be hanging out with me." Predictably... she tells you, with 2 hours of silence, "You're a pushy fucker," and then to keep things amicable…
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:13 AM
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Uh, yeah, duh. Of course you can be affectionate. If I'm supposed to be a mad player and not get to hug it out and cuddle afterwards, I'll be an AFC for the rest of my life. The only thing is that you make sure it doesn't come from a place of insecurity--just that it comes from a place of genuine, well, affection.
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:08 AM
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You know how to do this, brother. Just breathe. Shit's good. Don't second guess yourself. Give yourself no time to guess about it or even think--just call her as soon as it's an appropriate time (usually 4-7pm on weekdays, 11am - afternoon on weekends), have a nice conversation, catch up, and see if she wants to kick it some time. You'll be fine. Let me know how it goes.
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:05 AM
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Naw, man. You just have to make sure that the chicas don't think that you're exclusive--make it very clear what your intentions are from the beginning, whenever possible (which is always). If you want a relationship with HB9, tell her. If you don't want a relationship with HB7, tell her. There's no harm done so long as you're not portraying something that you aren't.
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:02 AM
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Brother, there's nothing to do for it but to grab your nuts and do it. You feel uncomfortable, stiff, and cold because on some level, you're afraid. That fear is the fear of being rejected after putting too much in--being too funny, too smart, too whatever, and getting put down nonetheless. However, if you don't give it your all, there's no way you can expect a girl to, either. Take the leap, and go for it.
/r/seduction14/07/12 06:01 AM
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Don't ask her if she got back all right. Next time, tell her to text you to tell her that she did--an easy test of compliance and emotional involvement, and something that builds it super easy because she'll probably feel more compelled to make sure that you don't think she died in a ditch somewhere. Don't end the night with a hug--kiss it out. If it seems inappropriate, you're not building enough attraction to make the night wild--it sounds to me like you had a sexual moment and then it became …
/r/seduction14/07/12 12:30 AM
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Just search YouTube--you'll find something pertinent, and some shit that's not so pertinent. Listen, kissing properly is all about passion--whether it's fast, slow, wet and wild, slow and intimate, pecking, tonguing, lip-biting, whatever, okay, maybe you're not quite there yet if you're asking this question. The most important thing is suction and locking those lips--both of you should keep contact by lightly sucking while you kiss, exploring the contours of each others' lips. Don't be afraid to…
/r/seduction14/07/12 12:25 AM
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If you're bored in social situations, it means you're understimulated, and I'm willing to bet it's because you're not really connecting with the people you're talking to. Don't be afraid to broach deeper conversational topics once you've opened sets--look for your own interests, the things you thrive on, the things that compel you. If you meet people you actually click with, you'll be able to spend straight hours with them. As for the girl, the way to proceed is just to strike up a conversation …
/r/seduction13/07/12 11:22 PM
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Understand that when you become a new person, it takes people who knew the old you a while to catch up with the new you. It's not going to be easy to integrate the new personality with old friends and family, but you either tough it out--or realize that you've got some shitty friends, and find new ones. Most people can't respect growth; cherish those that can.
/r/seduction13/07/12 11:17 PM
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It really doesn't matter what you say. The most important thing comes across in the nonverbals--that moment of recognition of shit about to go down. The most important thing is the attraction, comfort, and rapport built previous to the moment. An interaction could really go like this, if properly set up: "Chicken banana orange." "What?" "Don't worry about it." kiss Have fun!
/r/seduction13/07/12 11:12 PM
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It doesn't. If they have had nothing happen in 5 years, it doesn't matter. If your friend has told you she doesn't care about him, it doesn't matter. If he's vehemently denied having feelings and agreed to grab drinks--it also doesn't matter. Dating is the standard modus operand for most people--make sure you have an emotional connection and you'll gravitate to a relationship naturally. Have fun! Feel free to pm me if you have specific questions.
/r/seduction13/07/12 08:53 PM
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It sounds like your straight social game is solid. If you really want to take it to the next level, you should work on nonverbal (or verbal) sexual frame--pushing the interaction to the max, seeing if you can push kino to slight erogenous zones (remember: light touches, calibrate to response, push further, or back off, and reattempt later), talk ambiguously dirty, and use those eyes.
/r/seduction13/07/12 08:48 PM
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Always agree and amplify. "I'll have you know that my mom is an amazing fry cook. Don't make me discipline you."
/r/seduction13/07/12 12:30 AM
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If you want to be present but also take action, think of it not just as being present, but "being potential". That sounds weird, but frame yourself into: I am in a place of potential action, and I act upon the impulses I have in response, or as direct action to my surroundings and feelings. Mix in the feelings of being aware and open to what's occurring--and actually engaging it.
/r/seduction13/07/12 12:04 AM
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