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LESSON LEARNEDthedollparts/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:44 PM
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This was great. Thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:06 PM
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And this has been pointed out by several black female social media commentators, but every black male who has created BLM art featuring women and children are married to non black women and have non-black children. Isn't that interesting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:18 AM
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It's definitely a parody account. As stupid as Umar is I think he would be conscious of how this messaging compromises his MaScULiNiTy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:55 AM
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I have so much to say on this but I am debating on whether or not it will it my podcast theme. The recent protest and the number of women and *fully black children** I see out there...infuriates me. It's pure indoctrination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:53 AM
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I know I'm not the only one who read your story and thought I would have done the same thing you did to be nice. Predators rely on that. Thanks again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:18 PM
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I also want to thank you for sharing, and I'm sorry you experienced this. The fucker has probably tried it more than once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:06 PM
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Needed to see this today. Back to work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:22 PM
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Please don't underestimate a man's ability to tell you what he thinks you want to hear. Just head's up. Time and observation area always the best tests. Test his enthusiasm for getting to know you and your interests, and actually REMEMBERING the things you say. This is why non-home dates are so important. Test each other in these environments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:02 PM
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You will never heal from this if you keep hurting yourself by looking at his page. Block him. Don't worry about what it looks like to him or other, people this is for you: Block block block the fucker now. Your logical mind knows it is unlikely he has changed much, even if he is putting on a show during the idealization stage of the new relationship. I wonder why it's so "easy" for these types to find new women too. It's easy because women are conditioned to want relationships, so many will over…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:34 AM
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Facts. I just watched as a LVM on my timeline was congratulated by all his friends for finally getting into a relationship (after stringing a bunch of women along). Of course, several of his friends alluded to him having some sort of super human pimp powers like... For a split second I was annoyed but then I just realized I feel sorry for the girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:13 AM
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Maaaaaan this post is amazing. Thank you! Bookmarking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:03 AM
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Right. I was amazed this was published in a "respectable" paper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:42 AM
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Great post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:18 AM
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"If she's so fine then that's where you should be, your eyes better not wander while you're walking next to me" -Nicole Wray LOL. I dont know why we internalize the BS in music but I never really internalized these lyrics until recently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:14 PM
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This was just published in the Guardian today: I’m in a long-distance relationship – will porn stop me being unfaithful? https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/sep/08/im-in-a-long-distance-relationship-will-porn-stop-me-being-unfaithful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:11 PM
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My cousin is about this height and she has no problems, but let me tell you the key: If you are insecure and it shows in your body language, for some reason it's magnified when you're tall. You are a beautiful tree. You have to hold yourself upright with confidence. If you bend, if you look weak, it will show. I think it shows more readily than if you're short/little/insecure. There are plenty of men who are your height and taller, they will not mind your height especially if your body is nice. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:01 PM
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You say this as if the line between consensual and coerced is thick and bright red with a "Stop" sign. I assure you it's not. A lot of these "sex workers" are being pimped too. Trust me on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:25 AM
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Forgive yourself. Be your own best friend. What would you say to the girl sitting next to you, beating herself over this? Write it down and repeat it to yourself. I don't know a woman who hasn't compromised herself in this way, we're practically socialized to do it. We give these dummies way too much credit, and give ourselves way too little. He's a leech. You peeled him off. He's gonna wiggle around stupidly until he finds another host.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:03 PM
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If I even get a whiff that a guy I'm dating has used sex workers, I'm automatically done. I've come to accept 90% of guys in the military have done it at least once. I just wish I knew ways to figure out other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:32 PM
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Unfortunately, they're doing it...even earlier than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:18 PM
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I would be suspicious and wouldn't feel an ounce of guilt. The nanny cam thing is a good move regardless of the sex of the sitter though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:52 PM
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Thank God he showed his ass before the marriage. If this girl was smart she's bolt. Imagine trying to buy a house or raise kids with this creep?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:44 PM
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I am gobsmacked. This girl is TV pretty, smart, hardworking, and willing to put up with his shit. And even now she's defending the hell out of him. I hope she doesn't even think about marriage for another 5 years. She has no idea what she's worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:35 PM
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"making it so hard for mens mental health to be taken seriously" ​ Drop this dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:06 PM
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Great post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:04 PM
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It never ceases to amaze me how they have no problem doing boyfriend shit until it's time to be a big boy and commit. Don't let him crawl back either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:25 PM
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Let me dig up my twitter account to follow this chick. I'm so glad she mentioned skin tone too. So many of us dark or "dusky" girls are gaslit for pointing this out. I know a few guys who got into serial situationships with brown skinned girls, but were only trying to seriously date mixed race women or women of a different race. These were almost all darker skinned black men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:19 PM
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If a man doesn't have a job he needs to be looking for one, not looking to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:49 PM
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This is so true. And be wary of women who are in too long and very male-identified. They will cover for the guys, make excuses for them, become rape apologists. I was kicked out of a facebook group after cursing out a chick for claiming female marines rape/assault men just as much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:46 PM
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A lot of them are looking for partners to submit to servitude with little pushback. Some are also looking for ego boosters and easy sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:14 PM
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Now I want donuts smh...but that's the first thing i thought too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:12 PM
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Don't bother. It's masturbation material for aspiring sociopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:01 AM
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Once again for the kids in the back of the class: "Emotional manipulation is the way LVM get sex from women" "You wouldn’t like him if you knew who he really was inside." And he KNOWS this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:04 AM
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I think your location in the US is something to consider. In more conservative/religious areas people get married earlier. In places like NYC or LA a never-married 39 year old woman is not unusual. I can't answer how things go on apps because I haven't used any in years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:14 AM
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We love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:55 AM
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You love them so much but they do their best to make your life miserable. I know other mothers with this experience. No one talks about it, it’s taboo. Kids are supposed to be innocent angels and the parent must be the bad guy. This is why no one believes you until your kid is an older teen and starts breaking the law. I'm not a mother yet but I empathize. There are whole facebook groups devoted to motherhood regret, unfortunately we are conditioned to just believe we're supposed to do it. As yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:16 AM
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I am so sorry, and I hope you're on the mend. ​ 2 books that always have me raising my eyebrow with guys: the 5 love languages and the 48 laws of Power. They're like guidebooks for covert narcs lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:54 AM
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lowers, does not eliminate risks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:45 AM
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She's amazing, and I'm so so happy for you. Whenever I felt myself slipping into questioning the entire situation, I listen to HG Tudor and force myself to remember: my power is in choosing logic over emotion, and living for my (very bright) future!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:37 AM
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And plenty of life-threatening and permanent sexually transmitted diseases...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:30 AM
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Same! Unfortunately she was able to call the entire situation because (like so many of us) she's been through it. I owe her for hours of free therapy lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:29 AM
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Definitely! I'm only recently beginning to study the subcategories of narcissism, and i can't imagine growing up in a family like that. However, I did grow up in a family that also made me a narc magnet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:57 PM
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You're right. I actually appreciate this response lol. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:32 PM
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Exactly! I had no idea there was an entire framework to understand a lot of the behavior we see in dating culture. I'm lucky this situationship didn't last long. Unfortunately I'm long-winded so I know this might not reach a lot of people, but it's so important for girls to understand the narcissistic cycle and break it before you get in too deep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:24 PM
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Given the number of ways men (and even some women) mock others for the way their genitalia looks, I say do you boo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:09 PM
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Calling a child ug? Did you parents know about this? Someone should have knocked him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:04 PM
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Get a creepy male roommate with no boundaries and I'm sure you'll be fine in 2-3 days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:02 PM
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lmao!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:49 PM
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So cute! I can't wait to get mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:14 PM
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Just posting a much-needed reminder that social media is never ever the whole truth, and he is likely intentionally posting the highlights to create and maintain the narrative he wants ya'll to see. You will never be privy to the private ways he deals with her, and that is much harder to fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:23 PM
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​ Is this why she created the summary/booklet? I would like more information on this. My intuition tells me it's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:31 PM
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First of all, block him and don't ever communicate with him again. Secondly, forgive yourself. We've all been there and it could have been much worse. He should feel like shit for being a user but it's unlikely he has the emotional range or empathy to do that anyway. Good riddance to him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:20 AM
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