thedragonwithinxo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
47	Is this LVM/NVM behavior?	SEEKING ADVICE	thedragonwithinxo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 02:51 AM
1	Listen to your gut ladies and walk away to that which doesn’t serve your highest growth!! 💕	REMINDER 👑	thedragonwithinxo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 06:47 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Preach it! Reminder ladies that you can say, be, think, act however you choose and desire regardless of what men or women or society in general think. Some women and men hate the feminine qualities/attributes because they were mostly shamed or saw other women shamed for it when they were children. The divine feminine is rising. Don’t let other people’s trauma steer you away from how you want to show up in the world. 😘😘😘😘	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 02:11 AM
18	Factsss Why are they all the same??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/20 04:25 AM
10	Factsss Omg my ex except he had a ton of friends or so it seemed...a lot of his friends were drug dealers and drug heads. He was a dealer so maybe they weren’t real friends? 🤷🏻‍♀️ but he always had ppl over his place	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/20 04:24 AM
11	Accurate 👌🏻 🤮🤮🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/20 04:20 AM
2	Oh manlets and their requests Ewww 🤮🤮🤮🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 01:40 PM
3	“I need help understand why men watch porn when in a committed relationship” Bf never initiates sex due to his porn addiction and gf feels unattractive. Most of the comments are telling her she’s insecure and that it’s normal for her bf to watch porn. Omg I really hope someone told her how fucked this is and that she needs to leave him. The comments are fucking horrendous I could barely read the first few without getting sick and furious! 🤮🤮🤮 it’s so obvious that he’s porn sick and now she probably believes that it’s all bc of her “self esteem” issues. What the fuck.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 01:39 PM
2	“My (24F) [pedophile] husband (38M) keeps sexualising my childhood trauma even tho I’ve asked him not to.” Further analyses of the husband in the comments are even more disturbing. Absolutely disgusting	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 01:34 PM
56	My heart breaks for her. Wish I didn't read this. Fuck him. I really hope she leaves him. This is beyond fucked up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 02:12 AM
14	I can't even... (reposted thus because I didn't post the full Screenshot on accident) I’m so glad you left. These type of men need serious help.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 02:05 AM
97	Two brothers see a woman paying for gas with pennies, and give her money from their pockets. They had no idea that her husband had just died and she was struggling. HIGH 👏🏻 VALUE 👏🏻 MEN 👏🏻 Period	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 12:45 AM
3	I can't even... (reposted thus because I didn't post the full Screenshot on accident) Yup yup!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 12:30 AM
8	Need advice on whether I should break things up or talk it out with with him You need to listen to your intuition. Your feelings and your rational mind will try to get in the way of your intuition. I highly recommend meditating so that you hear your intuition clearly. You. Are. Not. Crazy. This shit has been so normalized in our society and so many women fall for it because they fear they are overreacting/being too sensitive. We have been conditioned to think this way. Wake up. This a program to make you be subservient to sexually impulsive men. There are so so sooooo SO…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 12:25 AM
5	I would die before I text first Facts sister	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 12:03 AM
4	I would die before I text first THAT PART👏🏻 PERIOD	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 12:02 AM
5	Picked up more domestic duties around the house bc I’m WFH and he (gently) reminded me he’s a grown man and I shouldn’t feel pressured to pick up more chores. Yes girl yessssss. And I can’t wait until my gym opens back up 😭😭😭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 12:02 AM
87	I can't even... (reposted thus because I didn't post the full Screenshot on accident) I don’t know bc my ex couldn’t cum for anything unless it was super rough and aggressive. There were so many times he didn’t cum bc he was so addicted and used to hardcore porn that little me couldn’t match up to. And he’d always tell me how hot I was bc I think he was embarrassed that he couldn’t cum and was afraid I would be insulted that he couldn’t cum. Honestly I was more grossed out by the fact that he can’t get off to normal women. So glad I left.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 06:27 PM
10	Ladies, the bar continues to be so deep beneath the floor that it is in Hell Ewwww nasty. Next.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 06:21 PM
3	What a keeper. Wish I could find me a man like this. 😍 That’s what it seems to be right?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 06:19 PM
2	Do complacent men ever change? Omg this is such an important point to consider.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 02:22 AM
3	Do complacent men ever change? Being in lockdown is no excuse. Men don’t know how to creative these days I swear.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 02:09 AM
4	I was told to wait, but tonight I had to blow things up. Omg I’m so glad you got out of there and are safe!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 01:53 AM
4	If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him. These guys are emotionally illiterate. They play games and then when you get tired and see through all their bs and stop feeding into it they’re shocked and like, “wHeRe DiD yOu Go??”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 01:48 AM
12	So ladies, I have a red flag, identifying activity. That part	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 01:37 AM
6	If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him. Thank you love I appreciate that. I am glad and proud I left. It had to be done if I wanted to grow.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 01:34 AM
9	If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him. I’m so glad you got out it. You deserve consistency and someone who is 100% available. It’s hard to leave when you have that emotional connection, I can relate as that was my struggle leaving my last relationship. These relationships can be SO draining. We deserve better.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 01:32 AM
26	Listen to your pets!!! My car had ultra anxiety when I was dating my ex and would throw up every other day. I took him to the vet and they couldn’t find anything wrong him. Got all the tests done on him, everything came back clear. He continued throwing up and acting so so anxious all the time. I broke up with my ex and he stopped throwing up and started cuddling me again. My ex either put something in his food every day or my cat could not stand his energy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 01:27 AM
13	I was disappointed this OP thought this was sexy, but the first comment said everything I wanted to say. Glad to see smart women on other subs! Cognitive therapy ain’t even that deep 😂 he doesn’t know what he’s talking about. Plus this seems predatory as fuck. Gross. Next.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 01:23 AM
7	If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him. Curious about the red flags he had! And did, we all have our moments. Don’t let this one situation be the image you associate with your character and who you truly. We do stupid shit, but forgiving ourselves and doing better goes a long way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 01:16 AM
34	If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him. With everything going on lately, I have felt like reaching out to my ex as sort of a trauma response, wanting some sort of safety and security. I have been thinking about him a lot this week ever since I heard about George Floyd. I’ve been wanting to know his process, if he’s thought about me or reflected on the relationship at all. I was pretty upset that he didn’t reach out once to see if I was okay during covid-19. My mentor told me that if he was in the process of changing himself and improv…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 01:13 AM
1	The bar isn’t low. It isn’t even on the floor. The bar is in hell. Omg	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 11:36 PM
39	What a keeper. Wish I could find me a man like this. 😍 Sis dooooo NOT do it. This was me. They are lazy and entitled af!! I will never date another man who’s main hobby is VIDEO GAMES. 🤮🤮🤮🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 11:33 PM
10	Second disappointing man in one week. My major, apparently, is cute. Facts 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 11:30 PM
8	The fundamental reason men will never get FDS is because they mistake patriarchal social conditioning with innate female desire. Word	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 01:15 AM
8	"As a rape victim, is it okay that I’m not into rape play?" The fact that any young woman asks this question is disgusting evidence at the harm a man who watches porn causes. NEVER do a sex act that isn't pleasurable for you. Boom. You nailed it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 01:09 AM
1	Is this LVM/NVM behavior? Right?!? Same! I couldn’t believe she stayed after that...then I started second guessing if I was being too sensitive?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 05:42 PM
6	Anyone else weeding out prospects (and friends too) during this time? Did you know black owned businesses were looted and destroyed? That’s what saddens me the most. Some people DO want to loot and they don’t actually care about BLM.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 02:57 AM
2	Anyone else weeding out prospects (and friends too) during this time? Exactly!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 02:54 AM
3	Reminder: don't be anyone's free trial Oh shitttt see this is where I’ve made mistakes. Good call ima keep this in mind!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 02:10 AM
5	Reminder: don't be anyone's free trial Sis, same	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 02:06 AM
3	Is this LVM/NVM behavior? 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 06:41 PM
16	Is this LVM/NVM behavior? Thank you for responding 🙏🏻 my intuition says this kind of behavior shows lack of respect. But my old pick me beliefs still come in from time to time and try to hook me back in.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 03:05 AM
20	Is this LVM/NVM behavior? Right? I was so upset for her. She told me she felt anxious for weeks and replayed him saying this to her in her mind over and over and then told me that SHE needed to work on her self-esteem issues, like wtf!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 03:03 AM
4	Boyfriend made me anxious about my breasts and triggered an emotional flashback Yup	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 03:01 AM
44	So many women are in relationships where they are just thankful the man doesn’t hit them, control them, rape them or cheat on them. That’s how low the bar is for men. Ugh so true. I see so many women allow and excuse shitty behavior.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 02:41 AM
3	some wholesome content for yall <3 Aw the bestttt 💗💗💗 so happy for you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 02:39 AM
3	some wholesome content for yall <3 Awwww ❤️❤️❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 02:37 AM
5	If you catch yourself having any of these thoughts, end the relationship and work on your self-esteem Jesus, I have said all of these things. Every. Single. One. These thoughts are the number one indicator that you are devaluing your worth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 02:36 AM
22	sniff I'm so proud of her, whoever she is. ♥️ Fuck yessss	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 02:31 AM
22	THIS is why you don’t engage in BDSM. Some of these men are deranged! YESSSS. I stopped watching porn in 2018 and it’s seriously been the best thing I’ve ever done!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 02:17 AM
10	Living out of a suitcase at my mum's... Still higher value than that idiot. Proud of you. We’re here for you. You did the right thing. Love ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 02:05 AM
7	Fuckboi in his 40s, a starterpack Why do they get pretty women?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 01:51 AM
10	LVM are always going to look for excuses My ex was a gaming addict and porn sick. Why is this such a common theme amongst men these days????	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/20 02:08 PM
3	It's annoying when a LVM wants to manipulate a HVW Lmao this was my last relationship. I did not let him win and did not submit bc subconsciously I knew he was playing in a lotta ways. Women, we know, we sometimes just want to pretend we don’t and go into fantasy. Glad she didn’t let him win.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 12:23 AM
8	Should I be concerned about his financial situation? Gambling can easily turn into an addiction, be careful	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 12:13 AM
14	PSA: Guys who start checking out of dating & texting want everything to come easy and want to prove that they CAN do the LEAST amount of effort, and you’ll still be there These are the type of men that women need to stop entertaining. These men get away with it bc women let them!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 12:08 AM
-1	I found my divine masculine incarnate YES GIRL!!! Queen!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 12:04 AM
9	Helped someone learn they’re dating a LVM today. Sent her his dating profile and screenshots of our date plans for this weekend. So glad she listened to her gut and hit you up!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/20 11:57 PM
2	Just ewww. LVM picks his nose and scabby lips and gf doesn’t know how to tell him it turns her off. Comments telling her to CoMmUniCAtE Ew never ever ever dating a guy like this again. 🤮🤮🤮🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/20 05:14 PM
10	Desi Pickmeishas be like LOL yup	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/20 01:31 AM
8	Porn is not normal. It is not expressing sexuality. It is an industry that thrives on the exploitation, abuse, degradation, and trafficking of women. He’s your friend? He is obviously porn sick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/20 02:11 PM
4	Never date men who self-identify as “Gamers.” Exactly. I have suffered from depression as well as seen my family suffer from it. It’s nothing to be ashamed about. The thing about some of these men who are depressed is that they don’t have any agency to seek help, and to be honest, it does end up being incredibly selfish especially when you know your depression is effecting all of your relationship yet you still won’t get help. That’s the type of thing I’m talking about and my ex did this and I later resented him for it. Although he had a ba…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/20 01:57 PM
27	Never date men who self-identify as “Gamers.” EXACTLY. He would always be like, “I’m trying the best I I can.” And “i do care about growth you just don’t see the work I am doing.” Uhmmmm 🤔 And then they will guilt and shame you for leaving and tell you that “relationships take work” LOL BOY BYE	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/20 12:10 AM
7	Porn is the fast food of sex LOL exactly	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 11:48 PM
17	Never date men who self-identify as “Gamers.” Agreed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 08:48 PM
21	Never date men who self-identify as “Gamers.” Ugh it’s soooo gross.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 08:45 PM
51	Never date men who self-identify as “Gamers.” I literally went through the same thing. My ex was a hardcore gamer and addicted to porn. What infuriated me the most was I would get up at 5am to get ready for work and school and he would still be up from the night before playing video games, then he would wake up at 3-4pm and do it all over again. Then he would wonder why he was so depressed and unmotivated to do things. It was such a turn off and I’m sooo glad I’m out of that relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 08:42 PM
70	Porn is the fast food of sex I was talking to some of my friends last night about this. When I speak on porn and the dark side of this industry, people automatically assume I’m anti-sex. It’s fucking wild.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 08:31 PM
7	Doing my best to internalize this when reminiscing of how 'nice' they are in the beginning. Yes and imagine how many porn addicts covid is making right now.. really sad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 08:28 PM
6	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020 Honey I don’t think he’s gonna change. If he really cared about growing and cared about the relationship he would’ve stopped. He is unconscious of how this effects him and you. Dump. His. Ass. Please. You can do so much better. He’s lazy af.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 11:30 PM
7	Are you sureee you’re looking for someone smart? Are you positiveeee you’re only 27? Ewwwww 🤮🤮🤮🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 05:16 PM
8	How is this gem still single? Ew 🤮🤮🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 05:12 PM
2	Whats with men feigning weird eye health issues to excuse their bad behaviour? Yes!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 05:09 PM
4	Pornsick boyfriend doesn't find his girlfriend sexy or beautiful because he's "been conditioned" to only appreciate porn stars. Scumbag	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 05:09 PM
9	And this is how you spot HV relationships: 💚🚦💯 Exactly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 04:49 PM
1	Fabian Thylmann, the pornsick pig and founder of Mindgeek, the worlds biggest porn enterprise. Let that face sink in, lmao We he’s so gross	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 03:19 AM
9	I love how scrotes will call any woman that disagrees with them “triggered” while they’re the ones behind their computers bursting a vein while angrily reflecting their hatred onto other people lmfao. Idiot	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 03:13 AM
6	@ this group For real though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 02:35 AM
37	Whats with men feigning weird eye health issues to excuse their bad behaviour? Lies. Also, I really think the whole “men are more visual” is a huge lie made by scientists who are porn users. One day it’ll be debunked, watch.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 02:34 AM
10	Broke up with BF over Instagram girls Honestly I wonder the same thing from time to time..I feel either they never grow up, live really dirty lives, hop from one girl to the next or wake up one day and get therapy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 06:05 PM
27	Broke up with BF over Instagram girls Exactly. He’s an addict!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 11:16 AM
24	Broke up with BF over Instagram girls Ugh so gross. I’m glad you bounced on that, they’re pathetic to say the least.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 11:15 AM
42	Broke up with BF over Instagram girls Ew that’s so sleazy, I remember when I was with my ex, one time he showed me something on his phone and I saw that he had an Instagram, I never asked him about it honestly I was too scared to find out the truth that he was one of these types of dudes. I always wondered what that was all about, he was hella porn sick though, would take hours to cum which you think would be nice for a woman but it was just ridiculous, he would have to slam me hard in order to, I’m so glad those days are over. He p…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 11:13 AM
135	Broke up with BF over Instagram girls Yup I was gonna say. The dude is 39, changes of him changing now is slim. Gross.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 11:09 AM
9	I might give him a whole dollar if he acts right That part 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 02:43 AM
5	Not having a father to show you how to be a man is not an excuse to be a piece of shit. Fatherless men can be good men if they want to be. Love this	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/05/20 03:07 PM