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I think any technique will only get you so far. It may get you laid but that's about it I think
/r/seduction04/05/20 04:56 PM
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If you can't attract her right away. Distance yourself from her. Either she will show interest in you later (likely) or she won't, and that's ok. One thing I learnt with all this recently is that the process of attracting someone does not have a due date. I personally always though if it didn't happen immediately or in a short period of time it was done. I could not be more wrong, be patient.
/r/seduction20/04/20 09:17 AM
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Thanks bro
/r/seduction06/03/20 05:32 PM
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This is pretty deep. You have a very valid point, I guess somewhere down there I don't feel like it but I crave it none the less. I have gone through phases where I told myself this is the day, the first cute girl you see you will approach..Then I will find some excuse on the moment, she doesn't live near to where I live, she looks too young, etc. In the end I never do it
/r/seduction06/03/20 05:22 PM
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Ahaha interesting suggestion xD I guess I have become a little narcissistic in the last year as I have focuses 100% on my depression, low self esteem and confidence. I value your opinion, thank you.
/r/seduction06/03/20 05:15 PM
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I work and travel a lot. Means I cannot consistently meet a therapist :/ So the advise from reddit seems to be my best bet
/r/seduction06/03/20 03:37 PM
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I dont want to be in a relationship with someone I am not attracted to physically or emotionally. I don't want so sound like a douche, but the women that seem to notice me most (smile/eye contact/playful head movement) are the very attractive ones. I think I would be into older women too. I have had a good looking older woman ask me back to hers in a club and I refused due to pride (I was second pick) and I had another good looking friend tell me she had no plans for valentines day (day before) …
/r/seduction06/03/20 03:34 PM
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Yes I personally think so. At least for people that don't have banging profile pics or witty bios/messages. Been on multiple apps for 4 years or so. Probably have had less than 40 matches in that time across several apps. 6 matches that resulted in dates. Never led to a second date (probs because I didnt/don't know what I am doing). In any case, imo lots of girls on apps like tinder just seek validation by posting their IG accounts, so I don't think it's worth investing time if you are a pretty …
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:43 PM
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So if I can up to you asked about your day, we had some random chit-chat about the whether, and I told you I was looking for something casual you would understand what I mean? Surely you would have to establish some sort of flirting and break touch barrier etc Or have been on some sort of date before one of the two brings up what they want from the relationship?
/r/seduction25/12/19 03:03 PM
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But tbh if you just told a girl out of no where that your not interested in anything serious. Wouldn't she be like OK why is he telling me that, how does this concern me, this is random?
/r/seduction25/12/19 09:33 AM
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That's never happened to me. You need to work on projecting intent in a banter/flirty way because iv struggled with this my whole life and I think many introverts have
/r/seduction25/12/19 09:31 AM
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I'm the same but consider a guy that's introverted, had little to no matches in 3 years on any online dating platform.
/r/seduction25/12/19 09:28 AM
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In that aspect agree. Didn't think so many people would be deceiving like that. Apart from not lying; any tips on how to communicate those things bc it's quite hard for me to articulate those things to a girl I am interested in hence why we become friends at most. Trouble making things more sexual too by fearing being labelled as some perv. Also don't know how to do it subtly or funnily. Probs something to do with my flirting as all I can do it eye contact, smile and drop some compliments
/r/seduction25/12/19 09:25 AM
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Aha I am the male version of you it seems :P I struggle communicating that I am interested in a girl I guess. Building sexual tension. Talking about sex. Going in for a kiss. Flirting instead of throwing out blatant compliments. And most importantly due to age and probably embarrassment of lack of dating experience; approaching girls at all these days. Probably the worst person for dating. Merry Chrismas BTW don't let dating get to you enjoy the other parts of life :)
/r/seduction25/12/19 09:09 AM
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Perhaps you can explain how to be genuine and honest with your intentions. So should I walk up to a girl say hi and let her know that I'd like to maybe date her and fuck her? Somehow I can't see that working
/r/seduction25/12/19 09:06 AM
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Like ask if they want to come back to yours?
/r/seduction23/12/19 08:04 AM
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What fo you mean by ask if they want to fool around? Do you glst out ask if they want to have sex at the end of date or are you more sutle?
/r/seduction22/12/19 10:51 PM
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This sounds like some good advise. I think I am the opposite of needy, still a little socially retarded though I think. Think I am to passive and lack motivation to go approach. Also it's pretty pathetic but I am afraid the interaction will go well..I just feel awkward / don't know how to communicate that I want to have sex with a girl. Also am kind of scared of being judged on my lack of sexual experience. Not sure how to get through this. Other that am confident, can hold conversations, start …
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:38 AM
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That is interesting, thanks for sharing. Aha I think having a strong lively personality are traights people might be born with.
/r/seduction09/12/19 11:48 PM
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Iv been told I am handsome and confident by a small amount of women. I rarely make the effort the approach due to a mix of fear, cba-Ness and skepticism that the girl will react positively and is not some indecent human being. Really enjoy meaningful, serious conversations or witty humour, but turns out many people like what I would consider basic humour that I cannot find funny. Or sexual/dating talk, especially on nights out that leaves me awfully silent. Been on dating apps for years, changed…
/r/seduction09/12/19 10:49 PM
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Thanks for your answers guys. Will get trying again, hopefully will actually commit and hopefully see some results :)
/r/seduction26/11/19 08:15 PM
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I can make eye contact once but then I tend to get shy and avoid making eye contact again. Often they smile on the second time we make eye contact. I don't know how to fix this.
/r/seduction12/09/19 12:58 PM
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How did you build up the courage for your first approach? I approached a girl before but pussied out and changed the premise of my approach. I can talk to girls fine, I am quite confident. But for some reason I can't find the balls to go up to walk up to a random girl and introduce myself or start talking. How did you tackle this?
/r/seduction12/09/19 09:16 AM
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Still doesn't teach me how to make out lol
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:26 PM
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You are light years ahead, also sounds like you are confortable and confident in your abilities. Also have enough trouble getting a first date, not ever got more than a second date Will definitly give it a read thanks :)
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:16 PM
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On the second date? Don't think I would ever be comfortable trying to bang a girl so soon, or know how to push so hard/fast for it.
/r/seduction03/09/19 11:25 AM
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Never too late man! Just don't give up :) I have one relationship u der my belt in almost 25 years. Never made out with a girl have kissed and banged though. Everyone is on their journey, don't give up!
/r/seduction01/09/19 07:15 AM
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You don't have to get a jooker. Find a.nice girl that you are confortable telling about your sexual experience about, obviously once you have gone on a couple dates or so
/r/seduction26/08/19 02:59 PM
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The kind of reactions that you are getting from girls indicate that they are into you. I have a tiny bit more experience then you and from what I know you will have to find the courage to at least talk or dance with a girl. This will probably not happen immediately. Set small goals; start with being able to make eye contact. Hold eye contact with any girls that look at you for about 5 seconds. When you are comfortable with that, see if you can add a smile to the girls you make eye contact with. …
/r/seduction26/08/19 02:55 PM
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Sounds like a success. Never had a date like that
/r/seduction04/07/19 04:56 PM
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I am sure the mom will wing for you xD It's not her dad or anything
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:39 PM
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Forget social media and dating apps. Go talk to girls in real life, improved my life 100%
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:09 PM
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Thank you, that does make sense. Still don't k ow how to judge situations. Example scenario the bar girl tonight called me handsome when referring to me earlier. I complimented her on the multi colored hair after getting my drink, but would not know how to progress from there. I tried to make our conversation as fun as possible but could not get her to laugh
/r/seduction24/04/19 08:02 PM
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Sounds like some good advise, I have tried and have had awkward conversations and/or cold shouldered. In the end still persisting. I think I know how to talk to girls given the opportunity, subtle or not so subtle compliments, teasing etc. Although with online dating somehow I feel to much pressure to do it as well as when being spontaneous. What I am lacking I think is the the balls to initiate the cold approach in the first place. Like today a good looking girl came to my empty bench at an emp…
/r/seduction24/04/19 08:48 AM
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I think your clinging on too much to something she made relatively clear. She answered to your issues because that may have been her humane, kind part. But she ignored the relationship bit because she is either unsure or not wanting it. If she was unsure she would probably make a move at some point. Otherwise take it that she isn't into it for x reasons, which is most likely.
/r/seduction04/02/18 06:31 PM
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Haha nah I'm 23.i see what you mean though. Im in my service faze so training and all the formal stuff is over. I just do my work and then I'm free. I don't know what clubs or activities I could do now though. It's hard to start stuff and iv never had any real passion or activities I pursued before apart from going out and stuff. However I feel as I get older it will be a bit less socially acceptable to go to raves or that sort of thing xD I don't think I would have a problem interacting with wo…
/r/seduction27/01/18 09:44 PM
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A bit cocky perhaps or imposing? Idk I tend to not be confident enough so I could be wrong. Usually I would go for some light compliment and greeting, follow with some mild banter if possible, then go for the date setup. Feel the type of humour she has, etc
/r/seduction11/01/18 12:19 AM
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Aha doing that in a context that implies your looking for more then friendship has rarely worked for me
/r/seduction08/01/18 10:12 PM
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Do elaborate? I imagine not really asking a the groceries girl if she had more carrots round the back? ;)
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:12 AM
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I'm starting to understand that it's basically anywhere. In broad daylight. At the train stop, in the train, at the bookshop, etc. It's about approaching a girl you like giving her a compliment and seeing what happens. Hopefully I will soon grow the balls I need to approach, I'll let you know if it works :P
/r/seduction03/01/18 02:46 PM
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Wow I suck as speaking to women, that guy makes it look so easy. Although I find his approach quite douche bag like
/r/seduction18/11/17 01:57 PM
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