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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
222	Freedom is exactly what I'd hoped it would be, and more	FDS SUCCESS!	thefruitcakebasket	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/21 10:19 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
72	I’m not gonna ask on relationship advice subs to get gaslit, I’ll ask here if allowed. Do you think I should leave because he didn’t stand up for me, or is it trauma? I would be LEAVINGGGGGG. If a guy can't won't see my point of view on the degradation of women, he won't see my point of view when it comes to the degradation of myself. End of. I'd leave, no matter how perfect he's seemingly been before. Honey, what if that song had been written about you? Or your mother? Or your best friend? Would you be happy still with your boyfriend defending this kind of thing?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 09:28 PM
8	Reasons I changed my mind on having children and all the aspects of motherhood society does not want to acknowledge: That last line hit so hard.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 10:58 AM
54	Hmmm, Am I Crazy or Are Women Wising Up? before the great panini Definitely here for renaming Covid 'the great panini'. It makes everything that's happening so much less hurtful lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/22 12:04 AM
11	What've you rediscovered about yourself since being single? Omg your last bullet point!!! He would literally make us all sit down for 3-5 hours (when I was supposed to be working from home??) to discuss the latest progression in what he thought would happen next during the pandemic, or in politics. It was like he got some weird, disturbing high out of 'telling us' how it was all going to go down. Just very, very disturbing, really. He would tell us, with glee biting behind his voice for some fucking reason, that certain leaders who had proved to be detri…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 04:08 PM
15	Is He Negging You? 10 Signs He’s Trying To Secretly Destroy Your Confidence Meanwhile he looks like a geriatric, fatter Ricky Gervais. OH God noooooooo....... omfg GIrl I would be rUNNINg	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/22 07:31 PM
6	Do not refrain from running a background check, snooping his phone, or showing up uninvited — trust but verify. Which tactics have you used to check his credibility? Quick question, how do you actually run a background check? I've always heard that advice, and it's clearly the right thing to do, but I literally don't even know where to start. I always felt that previous relationships moved too fast to even allow that sort of thing - which is a massive red flag, looking back! They didn't turn out to be murderers, but let's face it, none of them made it past casual dating, so they weren't that great either way. If they appear to be really knowledgeable about s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/21 10:31 PM

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