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thegameoflovexu/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 04:44 PM
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thegameoflovexu/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 07:25 PM
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The most important lesson: Men aren’t objects of success and women aren’t objects of beauty. We’re humans.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 04:05 PM
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I think you're misunderstanding, I understand that part and completely disagree with dehumanizing women that way. The comment above claimed that mammals are not animals which was confusing me.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:41 PM
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I don't agree with TRP bullshit or calling women "females" but I'm curious, what's the difference? From my understanding all mammals are animals, but not all animals are mammals if that makes any sense. As in mammals are a subset of animals.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:27 PM
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One word. Facts.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 03:50 PM
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The end game is your empty pocket if you're a man. If you're a woman then the end game is being a slave to said men.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 03:49 PM
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Thanks very much, I'll check it out.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/23 05:02 PM
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It's self-value and hope. When I experience these moments, I feel worthless and helpless/hopeless. Turning to redpill is a quick source of feeling valuable and like I am doing things right, which then gives me hope for the future. I'm struggling with not turning to redpill. Every time I experience this, it feels like the only thing that can help me out. To be clear, I don't actually start watching redpill stuff, but it certainly feels very tempting and I don't like that.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/23 05:00 PM
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I don't personally know "how to talk to women", but my approach is to not see them as women. I frame it in a way where I talk to a person, they might be male, they might be female, I don't care. This might have it's own pitfalls when you're trying to talk to someone for the purpose of building a romantic relationship, but generally speaking this served me well. I use this framing because I believe it's unfair to treat someone differently based on their gender. If this question is more about, aft…
/r/ExRedPill27/03/23 04:41 PM
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Yes officer, this person right here 👮‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 09:03 PM
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I think there’s nothing wrong with it. These type of YouTubers are never satisfied, women will always be the problem in their eyes. Pay yourself? Too independent. Don’t pay? Using for a meal. There’s nothing a woman can do to be right. So fuck that, do what you want. If you want to pay, pay. If you don’t want to, then don’t. Paying for food doesn’t entitle anyone to sex, that’s just a ridiculous assertion. These are my thoughts on this, hope I could help. Have a nice day
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 08:51 AM
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Hey, I‘m also an ex so I exactly understand the way they frame this. So let’s reframe it: First things first, you’re NOT a beta/cuck/loser/whatever for CHOOSING to be in a relationship with a lovely woman that has a child. If you decide this is fine with you, there is NOTHING wrong with this. Everyone has a past. Some people mind, some people don’t. I actually believe there’s strength in this. Society and redpill specifically frame guys and gals like you in such a negative way, yet you don’t car…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 12:22 PM
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It honestly just feels like a cult thing. Cults benefit massively off of the us-them mentality and that's exactly what red pill is doing. When I left the red pill all my red pilled friends tried to A) Convert me back or "see reality" or B) Straight up ended our friendship. The same thing is the case for cults, when you leave everyone in the cult cuts you off since now you're part of the outside group. It's just a strategy to keep you in the red pill and damn it is effective.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/23 05:24 PM
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Sounds like a whole religion. I don't care to read all the tenets but some seem reasonable, although not really related to being a man. It reads more like a "how to be a decent person" but from the 1900s.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/23 04:36 PM
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I think blue pill exists to have a us-them world view. Everyone that isn't part of our group, red pill, is part of the enemy group, blue pill.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/23 03:59 PM
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I agree, when I was in the red pill people pleasing or being a "nice guy" was usually "treated" by telling you to be assertive (to the point you're just being an asshole) and to always hide your feelings. It felt like a either you're nice or an asshole type of thing, there was no way for any healthy middleground. The book "No more mr. nice guy" is being recommended very often in these spaces - I haven't read it yet but it looks promising.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/23 01:47 PM
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It was more of an anger towards the world for lying to me and hiding all of the red pill "truths" from me. I would say that women were a particular target, I'd blame them for many dating struggles I'd face.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 07:22 PM
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That's a difficult question to answer. My exit from the red pill is rather recent so I haven't fully explored yet. ​ I think it was a combination of factors. For once, I've always been a scapegoat of some sorts for my family. All the negative emotions would be channeled into me and I had no way to let them out or process them, so there was just a lot of anger and frustration lingering around. On top of that, my family is also very traditional and putting down women and seeing them as less (and s…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 07:09 PM
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THIS. It‘s truly a terrible cycle to get stuck in. Funny thing is: I was really good friends with multiple women at that time. So I knew from first hand experience that they’re just people and nothing „special“ in the red pill sense. And I also knew they didn’t care much about money or status. Yet I was still believing in these ideas, it’s crazy to think about
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 05:01 AM
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Yeah that makes sense, unfortunately money ruins it yet again for all of us. There are actually some channels that sometimes talk about this and try to give young men advice (for example hasanabi) but in my opinion it's mixed with too much mockery. I also think it's straight up not possible. Theres a ton of nuance involved that simply cannot be generalized and applied to a lot of people. This is a dad's job for a reason. Just sucks when you don't really have one, or a bad one, cause theres no go…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 07:57 PM
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It sucks but it is how it is. I think we both learned a lot about ourselves and about how these people are able to suck us into their toxic world. At the end of the day we're a better person than before
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 07:54 PM
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I agree. The red pill isn't wrong about everything but just the entire system is toxic. They say that women wanting the best possible partner is bad, but why? Who wouldn't? Their ways of handling these facts just isn't healthy in my opinion.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 07:31 PM
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I believe there should be more male role models that are able to guide young, lost, men like myself, without all the red pill crap. Unfortunately most people choose to make fun of red pillers which only makes it worse.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 07:29 PM
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Well it was just the feeling I always had. Throughout the whole thing it felt wrong to see and treat people this way. Eventually I realized that when I actually interacted with others, I forgot all this red pill stuff. Like it didn't matter, it was all theoretical. That was a big red flag which eventually lead to me looking up issues with the red pill. There wasn't really a concrete alternative. From within the red pill theres this very popular choice between the red, blue and black pill. I supp…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 05:08 PM
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