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Please come back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/22 02:40 PM
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I have pepper spray on my keys and a tazer next to my bed. Also, if a man/group is following you, cross the street. If they cross, run into a store/nearest safe place you’re about to get robbed or worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:29 AM
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I want to echo the comment that someone else wrote because it reframes it in a way where this shouldn’t be a concern: Even if he’s 100% truthful and can pass a polygraph on every claim, if a potential partner starts off your relationship consistently talking about any ex—abusive or not—they probably aren’t ready to date yet and need to take a step back to work on themselves and that emotional baggage/trauma until they’re in a good enough space that the topic won’t dominate a conversation or be t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 10:34 AM
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I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again, if sex work were empowering for women, the women leading that narrative as sex workers need to be restructuring beauty and sexuality standards that are not inherently patriarchal. Revolutionize sex work to focus solely on the female orgasm and not the satisfaction of men and I’ll say it’s empowering. The money and power dynamics of sex work have not changed. They have simply adapted to satisfy the emerging financial/consumer market that is becoming in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 04:06 PM
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He’s allowing foreign fighters into Ukraine, including far-right Neo Nazi groups to assist the Azov Battalion. https://www.vice.com/amp/en/article/3ab7dw/azov-battalion-ukraine-far-right These far-right Neo Nazis don’t believe women are equal. I know it’s a war and they need people to fight, but this is just as bad as a country allowing jihadist foreign fighters into a Muslim country. These groups are going to get battlefield experience, become stronger, and then migrate back to Western Europe i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 06:27 PM
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My golden rule for life is to never apologize for something a man could do unapologetically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 10:42 PM
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Just look at Lala Kent from VPR. Went from mistress, to girlfriend, to engaged baby mama and then got cheated on. Luckily she kept her cash flow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 04:06 PM
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THIS NEEDS TO BE HIGHER UP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 05:31 AM
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When I came to my breaking point there was a song that deeply resonated with me called “Crying Over You” and the lyrics basically lay it down: You don't, you don't care like you used to You don't want me there like you used to I keep wasting every night waitin' for you to say goodbye But if you won't, you won't, I'll make the first move I choose cryin' over you I choose silence over being lied to I choose drinkin' alone, drownin' in my tears in my bedroom 'Cause it'll make me happier than you do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:15 PM
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This is why I find platforms like OnlyFans to be so problematic. It isn’t empowering. Women are conforming themselves to the beauty and sex standards that have already been created, curated, and established by men in the mainstream porn industry. Until women on OnlyFans are defying the mainstream and changing the standards of what “sexy” is, they are also enabling the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:10 PM
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What I hate the most about porn is the misrepresentation of the female orgasm. Women pretending to cum from violent penetration. I’m convinced there’s a correlation between porn use and men that have no idea where the clit is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:07 PM
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I came here for the tough love and reality check, I respect all of your responses!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:58 PM
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Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:57 PM
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Surprisingly they’re some super conservative branch of Presbyterian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:52 PM
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Unfortunately my boyfriend can’t lie to save his life and when his father asked for the truth he was forthright with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:50 PM
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I’m not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:49 PM
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After staying up last night talking it seems like his brother and him are scared about the position having this fight is going to put their mother in, but they’re going to sit down and talk to their father about setting the boundary on him basically pushing his antiquated views on virginity towards them, out of fear of it happening to their youngest brother. Apparently this has happened with previous girlfriends. I basically told him I can’t marry a guy who let’s his father disrespect me like th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:11 AM
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“They value a small patch of hymen way more than an accomplished woman.” Fuck me up, sis. This is all I needed to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:05 AM
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Absolutely agree with you. If this man wants to marry me, the least he can do is garner a shred of dignity for me. If not, I’ll walk. I’ve been through way worse than a break-up. Men are aplenty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:22 AM
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Thank you. I feel awful about it. I really love my boyfriend and I know he has suffered from the trauma of being raised in such a religiously suppressive household… things he’s working through on his own time in therapy. It’s just awful because I don’t want to be the scapegoat his father points to when he tries to find the reason for why they ultimately have a falling out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 04:55 AM
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If the consequences of excessive porn use is the reason why they’re giving it up, I have no problem with it. We don’t shame people for giving up junk food because it made them fat. So I’m not gonna shame a man for giving up porn because he came to terms with the fact that it’s causing him PIED and ruining his sex life/romantic prospects. It’s progress regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:45 PM
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👏 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:53 AM
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If he wanted to he would. You can literally send a text while you’re pooping. Stop being delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 08:50 PM
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Full concur. My boyfriend is incredibly attractive and fit and we can’t take our hands off of one another. I stare at him constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 08:25 PM
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You deserve to be with someone who treats you like gold AND who you are attracted to. What makes your significant other your significant other entails having sex, and you should be attracted to your partner. No man would ever face the same scrutiny. Don’t settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:07 PM
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OH let me tell you about the most abusive man I ever dated who had demons tattooed on his body, an ambigram on his forearm that said “Life is Pain,” a German flag from Imperial Germany that’s technically a Neo Nazi dog whistle that said “German Pride” under it in German, and also the words “pain” and “anger” on his chest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:33 PM
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I moved recently and bought an Ikea dresser even though I hate Ikea. Bought some beers and had 3 guy friends come over to build it. Wood was splitting. It was a mess. They wouldn’t even read the directions. I kicked them all out, drank the beer, and had it built by myself within 2 hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:39 AM
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This. I’m in a LDR and he travels to me every weekend. I’ve gone down to him once during our entire relationship. He writes me letters, schedules flower deliveries, Facetimes me every night, orders me Doordash and we do “dates” during the week. Granted we’re both in the military/defense civilians so it’s a ~~lifestyle~~ for us but we make it work and there’s an understanding that we’ll be married within a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:44 AM
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Yes, that’s the exact point that Ayaan Hirsi Ali makes in her book “Prey.” They bring their oppressive views towards women with them. The book’s summary: Why are so few people talking about the eruption of sexual violence and harassment in Europe’s cities? No one in a position of power wants to admit that the problem is linked to the arrival of several million migrants - most of them young men - from Muslim-majority countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:01 PM
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Highly recommend everyone read the book “Prey” by Ayaan Hirsi Ali. It’s about immigration, Islam, and the erosion of women’s rights. Surprisingly was a top 5 book in Amanzon’s feminism section despite going against libfem narratives. Summary: Why are so few people talking about the eruption of sexual violence and harassment in Europe’s cities? No one in a position of power wants to admit that the problem is linked to the arrival of several million migrants - most of them young men - from Muslim-…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:00 PM
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I dated a guy who had the words “pain” and “anger” tattooed on his body and “life is pain” on his forearm. He was really toxic and obviously really angry. Tons of childhood trauma. Abusive in every way. 0 accountability for anything. Like get a therapist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:06 PM
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I wish we could normalize men getting filler injected in their dicks for some girth lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:39 AM
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My mom works with urology surgeons they’re all extremely great men and super humble/family guys. Nerdy but devoted to their wives. Blast kidney stones all day and operate on penises lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:11 PM
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Ding ding ding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:33 AM
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Welcome to Washington DC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:54 PM
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They also beef with other men the way women are accused of fighting with/hating other women for no reason. I work with mostly men and I can’t tell you how many times I have had to wage fights on their behalf over the pettiest shit. Due to a grudge from something that happened YEARS ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:13 PM
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The amount of dudes and even women who make fun of me for having a Chihuahua (calling her a rat or “Oh you have a chihuahua? Of course you do, Elle Woods.”) is so damn high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:28 AM
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I had Moderna, last dose Feb 8th. I have been on Yaz for over a year no issues. I got my period in the second week of my pill pack out of nowhere... like bleeding last two days. Now I’m wondering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:55 AM
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I’m not in Utah, East Coast. But totally understand the rep which is why I caveated that statement haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:45 PM
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The Morman men I know are very very family-oriented, despite the bad rep the Morman church gets. I work with a few and they’re all so loyal to their wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:33 PM
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I watched Legally Blonde the other day and was shook that Reese Witherspoon had natural, real teeth. No full set of bleached veneers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:33 PM
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I kept eyeing those golf clubs behind him, he could have bashed her skull in...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:53 PM
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She’s the friend. That’s his girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:48 PM
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Thanks girl I appreciate :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:54 AM
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Deleted! Sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:39 AM
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Watched it last night by myself! I loved it, one of the best movies I have seen in a very long time and the soundtrack is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:36 AM
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This is word for word what I went through; it got to the point where I couldn’t even celebrate my success such as bonuses, pay raises, better offers/promotions because he would literally pick a fight with me so that all my energy was focused on that instead of my own success. I even did his entire job application to help him apply to a better job and he went out drinking with his friends when it was due and never submitted it, missing the deadline. He didn’t want to make any effort to better him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:16 PM
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God damn I’m glad my worst decisions at 18-years-old couldn’t be monetized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:12 PM
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I love it! Could you link where you bought it?? I really want one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:37 PM
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I did see that haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:06 AM
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https://twitter.com/kysportsradio/status/1347031398176223233?s=21
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:41 AM
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There is a female presence in groups like ISIS but their roles are defined as “raising the next generation of the Caliphate.” Al-Shabaab in Somalia also uses women as suicide bombers due to the fact that they fly under the radar of security forces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:53 PM
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They also destroyed bookshelves of history books on the role of women in politics...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:51 PM
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Idk the pics of the guys with zip ties makes it pretty clear to me at least some people may have wanted to take hostages. Not to mention the fucking pipe bombs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:56 PM
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Yeah there were a few women but it was mostly men—not to mention that the wannabe Grunts/LARPing soldiers stood around with their dick in their hands while she bled to death on the ground. Tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:38 PM
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But also that there were hardly ANY WOMEN. All angry fucking men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:26 PM
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Nothing to do with FDS? You realize Proud Boys literally identify as male chauvinists, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:38 PM
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Every guy on OLD with “moderate” as his political affiliation is just a Republican who wants to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:15 PM
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I have a friend that supported her boyfriend all throughout his residency, etc. She is also a doctor but does psychiatry. She put his career above her own (took shittier jobs so she could live with him through his residency etc.) because he was going into surgery and she clung to this idea that they were “both going to be doctors and have an amazing life and be wealthy together.” Well guess who didn’t place after his residency? And guess who got depressed and dropped out of his program and is no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:42 AM
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Not your fault! She has a huge following and is even a Truman fellow so somewhat legitimized in terms of platform. Fortunately a lot of people know the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:06 AM
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Look into #StopClymer. Charlotte was once Charles and known for a lot of shady shit at the time and during his time at West Point as well. https://www.salon.com/2014/12/02/fast_company_promotes_live_chat_with_creepy_male_feminist/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:55 AM
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Can someone explain Jordan Peterson for me? I Wikipedia’d him but I don’t mind polarizing issues... what are some of his talking points etc that attract LVM? My toxic ex legit went to go see him live by himself but I didn’t know who he was at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:59 PM
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They’d rather spend the $$ to know he’s home playing PS5 with the boys instead of him being out with the boys & cheating lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:52 AM
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I was the girl from Midsommer for Halloween and my chihuahua was the boyfriend in a bear costume LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:57 AM
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Ugh someone please tell this to my 24-year-old friend who thinks she is “so mature for her age” dating a married 33-year-old guy who swears to her him and his wife are going to get divorced any second (while the wife is happily posting how much she lovessssss him and can’t wait for the next 100 years together on Instagram). I’m like... yeah he’s targeting you because women his own age know he is full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:00 PM
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Look up UN Bosnia sex trafficking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 11:07 PM
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You should look up the stories of UN forces that rape and traffic women in war zones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 04:31 AM
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It’s always the ugliest one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:11 PM
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“Something something, staying active, tacos, and the Office” “swipe right for my dog” “fluent in sarcasm”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:10 PM
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Laying in bed next to someone and feeling lonelier than being alone is truly awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:27 AM
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I wonder what men would do/how they would react if a woman filmed herself putting itching powder in his boxer briefs before a run...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:50 PM
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Best comment on the thread and what all of us deserve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:21 AM
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High quality bedding, like designer sheets, cashmere blanket, and duvets. My bed is my sanctuary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:39 AM
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“Fluent in sarcasm” aka I’m an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:29 PM
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Her target audience is girls 16-25... concerning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:40 AM
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Saul from Homeland, Nate from Gossip Girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:36 PM
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Same here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:10 PM
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My ex did this to me. He would cheat on me and even have the women he cheated on me with be part of his gaslighting tactics/abuse because he would tell them I was his “crazy hypochondriac ex.” It’s been exactly 1 month no contact and I honestly feel so much less negative energy. The mind games of an abuser make you question your own sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:08 PM
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Yes girl!!!! Every guy is a 38-year-old man-child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:13 PM
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My old Pickme self bought the guy I was dating new sheets... he was sleeping on ratty Walmart bedding and his comforter was a fucking fleece blanket. His bed smelled like his 130 lb doberman (with dog drool and dog smutz stains on the bedding) no matter how often he washed the bedding. Good luck to the next girl!!! Have fun sleeping in a king-sized dog bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:53 PM
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Gemini men are compulsive liars and chronic cheaters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:39 PM
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Found this on my Timeline. The sad part is that she used to intern at our graduate program’s Human Trafficking Center...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:49 PM
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DMing you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:11 AM
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My motto
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:46 AM
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That’s what I said to her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:30 PM
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Omg her replies are even more ridiculous... saying only “Them fake hoes love having big ass friend groups of girls who all talk shit about one another...” um get better friends lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:34 PM
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I don’t mind it if we’re dating but it’s too low effort for a first date IMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:00 PM
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I cackled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:19 PM
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Yup!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:47 PM
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Totally agree it should have ended there, and to be honest I was kind of raging and had no fucks left to give so had no problem showing my hand because he was gonna be blocked anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:01 PM
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I just can’t get over that I purposely steered the conversation to “restaurant” 3x and he still didn’t connect the fucking dots. Or he did and just doesn’t care. Some of me Pick-Me friends said I was way harsh but fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:41 AM
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Wants to “hang out” Wants to “be outside” and “go hiking” “Activities” Actively avoids the idea of paying for food at a restaurant Won’t call it a date Likes FREE THINGS (cheap) He never texted back, but I was never gonna go anyway. Blocked. I can’t believe some women would even entertain this shit (though I’m guilty for even that).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:37 AM
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Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:41 AM
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Where are you that it’s illegal to have pepper spray?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:27 AM
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Oh girl I’m in DC and the dating scene here is sooooooooooo bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:43 AM
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I cried. Judge me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:33 PM
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Two weeks ago I was driving on the highway and saw a couple pulled over to the side fighting. They were outside the car. The man raised his arm and slapped the woman hard across the face. I honked and immediately pulled over in front of them. I called 911 and stayed there until police arrived. I’m not sure what the outcome was, but I would have wanted someone to do it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:45 AM
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Men will do anything (including lie and mislead women) to have sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:24 PM
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A lot of guys put that on their profiles just to get women to feel better about sleeping with them... because it’s “for a potential relationship.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:14 PM
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Too bad his dick will always be the same size...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:48 AM
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We just ultimately weren’t compatible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:48 AM
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My HV ex used to have a list in his Notes app of anything I mentioned, even once. It was amazing for birthdays and holidays. He always had such thoughtful gifts for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:53 PM
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Money for what???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:02 PM
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Oh I also want to comment that my NVM toxic ex had a dog and legit would use girls he was fucking to watch the dog for free when he had drill for the military. Even while we were dating, old PickMes would offer to watch the dog because I refused. He was prob still fucking them too. When I found out the “baby-sitter” watching his dog was his ex I flipped a fucking shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:02 PM
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He doesn’t even care about how his dog is doing? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:00 PM
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Please take my advice from a woman who works with all military guys and was engaged to one and had dated a few: 95% of them are trash. They either have PTSD and serious issues or feel demasculinized because they sit at a desk all day and never deployed like the infantry types and will try to over compensate for not feeling manly enough by treating you like garbage. Stick to civilian men, at least some of them can acknowledge their trauma and deep-seeded issues. The military institutionalizes tox…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:40 AM
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My toxic ex cheated on me and when I asked him to get tested with me he said he “could tell” the girls were clean. He was from Kansas, so I doubt the sex ed there was that great, if at all, but what the fuck?!? I was like... “Oh, you can see AIDS?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:47 PM
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I’ve been here. You’ll always resent them for not being able to discuss your feelings and they will say you’re miserable/unhappy but not want to address the WHY. When you’re good with someone, conversation and communication and respect for how you feel is natural and easy. Get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:16 PM
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Yes and the breaking point was when my gay bff found his pics on Grindr. They didn’t have his face but he recognized them as the same pics he has sent me!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:25 PM
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The worst part is the heart necklace she’s wearing. Lol you kno he got that shit at Kay’s for like $100
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:22 PM
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Or Denver. They call it Menver for a reason. I regret settling with the first dude there I dated, there were soooooo many.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 12:22 AM
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Yeah I fucking can, I’m just asking a dude to treat me on the same level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:43 PM
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I’m fucking DEAD lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:42 PM
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Exactly. Women are good partners when their partners are good to them!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:37 AM
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I just ended things with one of the most if not the most toxic relationships I ever have had. My heart is destroyed. My self esteem is destroyed. I hung on through lying, manipulation, multiple instances of cheating (because it wasn’t “cheating” since we were so hot and cold he says), gaslighting, etc. because I tried to justify to myself that we had a true connection since the sex was so good. And once he hated being around me, because I was “negative” and “crazy” (wow I wonder who made me this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:38 PM
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I was legitimately talking about this last night. I think had the Monica scandal happened in 2020, she wouldn’t have been dragged. She was 22 years old and being exploited by the most powerful man in the world. There is no way she had free will in that power dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:32 PM
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The Navy or any branch of the military for that matter does NOT require anyone to be married. He wanted those sweet dependent benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:30 PM
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There’s nothing stopping him from ordering from a restaurant and bringing that food to the picnic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:29 PM
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We’ve been conditioned as women to believe that “sex isn’t everything” because society doesn’t prioritize the female orgasm. How many times do you hear MEN ever say “everything about her is wonderful but I’m not sexually attracted to her, but it’s fine, sex isn’t everything.” Fucking never. You can have BOTH. A great man that you are sexually attracted to. The two are not mutually exclusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:58 PM
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Maybe this is why he hasn’t had any serious relationships :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:11 PM
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Were there any good books you read that helped?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:06 PM
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Wow it’s like someone made this for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 02:36 AM
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I am in a toxic, abusive relationship cycle. Last week he was making me cry every day and I was chasing down some girl on Instagram to find out who she was (probably someone he cheated with). I cried to my friends. I’m sick of it. But this week he’s being nice, sweet, and kind. The High. I know another low is bound to come. I’m going through a lot emotionally... isolated, teleworking (haven’t been at my desk since Mar 16), and now the protests (I live in DC). I’m also moving apartments in a week…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:10 AM
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God forbid we recognize established toxic behavioral patterns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:20 AM
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Yes girl, THANK YOU. Seriously. I wish more women were like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:55 PM
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I have been her. Thank you for being a kind woman. We need to have each other’s backs. There is nothing more painful than having another woman shame you and taunt you once she finds out she is the other woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:52 PM
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As soon as you tell them that you’re never having sex with them, suddenly they stop being such a great “friend.” Had a guy friend who I thought was above this recently drop off the radar. We worked together during some intense shifts and he always would text me a “You good?” text when I would kinda go MIA. Told him last week I don’t ever want to have sex and risk ruining our great friendship. Haven’t heard a peep from him LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:09 AM
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Hey babe read up on r/CompulsiveSkinPicking
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 04:26 AM
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Northwest DC is absolutely walkable what are you talking about? The metro system in DC is great. I’m 29 in DC and none of my friends own cars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:54 PM
4

I am referring to people who actually live in DC. Arlington is not DC, Alexandria is not DC. My definition literally is “a lot of people IN DC.” IN THE DISTRICT OF COLUMBIA. No where did I ever mention the DMV at large where people claim DC but are not living in DC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:34 PM
5

DC metro area is NOT DC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:33 PM
3

In what world is Blake Lively a 5 LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:25 PM
3

A lot of people in DC do not have cars either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:48 PM
1

My breaking point was being told for 6 months by this guy who I held up on this giant pedestal that he “wanted a relationship” but wasn’t “ready” because he was so torn up by his ex and was depressed etc. Guess who fucking texted me to say he wouldn’t be continuing relations with me because he had been talking to a girl for a WEEK and intended on pursuing a relationship with her?!?! Proof that when a guy wants to make you his girlfriend nothing will stop him, not a previous heartbreak, “not bein…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 07:17 PM
30

I one time had a brunch date with this guy like two years ago. I ordered a crab cake egg benedict. I do NOT look at prices when I go out to eat or even on dates. If I’m with friends, I’m treating myself. If I’m on a date... it shouldn’t matter. When the check came, he insisted on splitting the bill. My mouth dropped. Okay, this isn’t a date I figured. Or at least I will never go out with this guy or consider him to be a romantic interest. When they came with our split bill, he insisted I owed hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:15 PM
4

That’s fair when you put it that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:07 PM
-6

Ever? So every contact initiated is always on the man? I usually don’t text first 80% of the time but a ton of guys I know say that if they are 100% initiating every convo they assume the girl is uninterested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:57 PM
-9

So if he had given an exact restaurant and time for instance and still didn’t “follow up” it would be fine? Why is she completely unaccountable for following up? He showed up and texted asking where she is, to me that says effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:56 PM
-12

Sounds like he made the effort, it isn’t “pick me” to send a damn confirmation text...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:45 PM
29

Am I the only one that gets insulted when ugly guys try to hit on me or think they have a realistic chance of dating me? Like we are NOT the same, boy. You’re delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:06 AM
30

Ding ding ding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:16 AM
3

Yep. My ex did this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:12 AM
12

Damn I am shocked I didn’t read anyone mention Future Faking or False Futuring: Future faking is when a person lies or promises something about your possible future in order to get what they want in the present. It could be as basic as promising that they will call you later, and then never calling. I’ve noticed a lot of guys on OLD do this. They create a false sense of safety, intimacy, and closeness. You mention you love crab cakes? “Oh I know a great place for crab cakes, I’ll have to take yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:04 AM
6

I would just leave it there so he can enjoy his shit-clogged toilet. And put a lock on another bathroom so he’s confined to that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:16 PM
2

I dated a guy who really fetishized female solo masturbation porn and squirting. He was so pissed when I broke the news that it was just pee...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:01 PM
13

I know two. Putting a moratorium on dudes named Nick. 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:17 AM
141

YEP and all the men would be like “lawyer up immediately, she isn’t entitled to a cent.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:54 AM
15

Patronizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:55 PM
182

No, it does not in fact “sound good.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:24 AM
2

If you only had $10 and lost $6 of it would you throw the other $4 on the ground?? That’s your 20s. Go spend your $4 on something worthwhile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:31 AM
29

Wow, we need a US equivalent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:33 PM
3

“I’m very sarcastic” always means “I’m a fucking asshole”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:18 PM
8

You know what’s fucked up? Is I’ve been the girlfriend to approach the other women and THEY would either 1. Not believe me or 2. Block me and keep talking to him... LOL like what?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 11:53 PM
54

Read How to Win Friends and Influence People. The idea is that you create a false sense of intimacy (kind of like LVMs lol). You tell them what shows you watch, what restaurants you love. Lame ass superficial details. But it makes you look more “personable” and “trustworthy.” Don’t ever give any personal details because you need to assume everything you say WILL be used against you whether it is good or bad. Never say anything you wouldn’t be OK with being read in an e-mail by the whole company,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:51 AM
11

Something someone told me to do when you feel alone and want someone else’s validation is to write a letter or text to yourself telling yourself all the things you want to hear from someone else. I wrote this to myself the other night: I don’t know if anyone has told you this today, but you are a beautiful woman, inside and out. Anyone would be lucky to have you in their life as a romantic partner, a friend, a mentor, a colleague. You have spirit and passion that drive things most people could n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 05:11 PM
32

I would swipe left for him being a Scorpio alone lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:16 AM
82

If she were charging him for her time and his use of her body, he would owe her thousands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:38 AM
19

I highly recommend everyone read this article: https://www.glamour.com/story/why-is-nobody-talking-about-marilyn-mansons-fantasy-of-killing-evan-rachel-wood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:47 PM
55

Miranda Priestley in the Devil Wears Prada.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 03:33 PM
7

They also hate the fact that due to experience, the woman’s going to know their sex is trash lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:34 AM
86

Is this a fucking joke? True does have a sibling. The little boy Tristan’s ex was 9-months pregnant with when he had an affair with Khloe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:12 AM
14

Always subtract 2 inches from their stated height lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:57 PM
6

Unapologetically love what you love and don’t feel bad for it. I work in a very-male dominated field, with mostly military guys. Although a lot of women I work with take pride in “not wearing make-up” and have given me shit for it, I beat my face every day for work (slang for making yourself up). I wear that winged eyeliner, I wear my lipstick. I get my nails done. I embrace the fact that I like make-up and I truly enjoy the ritual of doing it every morning. I always wear heels too, because I li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:22 PM
63

Men will fuck anything. Literally anything. See this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:15 PM
1

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:08 PM
37

Popping positive on a military drug test can get you dishonorably discharged if he’s already a shitty soldier. A positive urinalysis result can impact one’s military career and may even result in court-martial charges. The outcome of a failed urinalysis test will vary by rank, service, and the type of drug. However, any service member who tests positive will be in a fight to save their military career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 04:32 AM
9

I think most intelligent men know all that shit is smoke & mirrors... a lot of guys have been catfished by girls who filter the fuck out of their pics & show up looking like a troll. My ex used to scroll through my feed and be like “photoshop, photoshop, photoshop.” Men that are actually getting laid know what a real woman’s body looks like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:32 PM
30

Move around. Leave your hometown. Go to college or grad school or get a job across the country or even in another country. There is nothing more liberating (albeit terrifying) than starting over somewhere, alone, on your own. And then being in that place a year later with a life, friends, your own apartment. There’s something about proving to yourself that you can make it on your own, anywhere, alone that really is inspiring. I’ve done it a few times. Have no regrets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:19 PM
16

After reading the Jessica Simpson memoir on how crazy & manipulative John Mayer was, I think there’s a LOT more to the Taylor/John story that’s publicly known. I mean the lyrics to Dear John are seriously some of her most depressing lyrics she has ever written.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:12 AM
13

These type of men are compensating for their lack of feeling adequate enough. They are uncomfortable because they are NOT real men and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:59 PM
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