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I suggest you read this article by Mark Mason. It’s a short read - less then 10 min. You don’t need to be more of a dickhead. You just need principles and boundaries and the strength and maturity to stand by them. (i.e., A willingness to say no). https://www.google.com/amp/s/markmanson.net/fuck-yes/amp
/r/seduction23/06/18 02:11 PM
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Then do it. Being friendly never hurt. In my experience, women often flirt less directly. Usually, they will complement a gentlemen on his watch or an item of his clothing. That way she ovoids risk of overt rejection. Speak her language, complement her on her earrings or an items of jewelry (I'd avoid complementing her on a physical attribute like her hair, eyes or smile in the first go around). If she's attune, she'll "get" the gesture of your complement and react accordingly or at the very lea…
/r/seduction22/06/18 08:11 PM
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General eye contact approach signals. You two make eye contact and then she breaks it (never you - you never break eye contact first - this is a shit test and if you break it first, you fail). The best result is when she breaks it, she looks down for a second or three then back up to your eyes again. She should offer a slight smile on returning to your gaze. She should then preen, touch her hair, adjust her clothing or jewelry... Looking to the side means she is interested but hasn't made up her…
/r/seduction22/06/18 02:44 PM
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It can be an approach signal. However, the best result is she looks down for a second or three then back up to your eyes again. She should offer a slight smile on returning to your gaze. She should then preen, touch her hair, adjust her clothing or jewelry... Looking to the side means she is interested but hasn't made up her mind about you yet. Looking up (as if an eye roll) generally means my mistake, not interested... Approach the first two and move on from the last.
/r/seduction22/06/18 02:34 PM
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This!
/r/seduction22/06/18 02:28 PM
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This is truly a danger area. As they are essentially paid to be nice, friendly and welcoming, some men misinterpret the intentions of a service position worker. I think we've all seen that creepy guy at the Starbucks or the bar who hangs around because he "thinks" the hot bar tender (who's really just fishing for tips with her flirty ways) or the friendly barista (who is trying to impress her boss so she gets a better schedule, or whatever) goes about her work day. Don't be that creepy guy. On t…
/r/seduction22/06/18 02:24 PM
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True. But then, I’m a bit older then her, so it fit the moment...
/r/seduction22/06/18 10:27 AM
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Nope. :-) Just someone with a few extra arrows in my quiver that I can pull out when needed to keep the interaction flowing...
/r/seduction22/06/18 10:26 AM
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Nailed it!
/r/seduction21/06/18 06:33 PM
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I heard you are all accountants but you work for a steel mill? Bit of a disconnect... so, that must mean you’re all hardcore accountants... There has to be a better accounting joke I could have used but this was the best I could come up with on the fly.
/r/seduction21/06/18 12:52 PM
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I don’t necessarily disagree with you. But this was more then just a fool’s mate. She had her choice of any one of the three guys at her table. My routines are more for me then for her. They give me an easy 3 to 5 minute conversation after an open. As I’ve used them before, I know how a women should react during each segment of the routine so I am able to use it as a metric of interest of sorts. Ultimately, they allow me to enter our first conversation with confidence. Yes, they may be a crutch,…
/r/seduction21/06/18 12:47 PM
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I’m “average” and kind of doughy. Just approach. Just do it. Use a situational opener or a scripted opener. But just do it. Remember, it’s a numbers game and if she shoots you down, it’s not the end of the world. Heck, you never have to see her again and there is always another girl around the corner. As for body language indicators, I don’t trust them until we’ve started talking. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar... If you walk into the set with a sex close on your mind, she’ll know. You’ll nee…
/r/seduction18/06/18 12:18 PM
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You look fun, but are you friendly...? If she say I am - good, let’s find out if you’re right... If she says no - good, I fucking hate friendly people, can’t trust them...
/r/seduction18/06/18 12:06 PM
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Take an acting class/workshop. It will help with projecting your voice. And they can be kind of fun to take.
/r/seduction13/06/18 01:53 PM
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No connection. As I was leaving the bar, I overheard her friends telling her happy birthday. When I came back, I made a show walking up to her like I knew her and offering her the shot. We were too far away to be overheard but target could see us.
/r/seduction09/04/18 05:38 PM
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Good advice! Thx!
/r/seduction09/04/18 05:35 PM
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Fake it until you make it. The more you act confident the more you become confident. Then, one day you wake up and find that you’re not faking it any more. Read up on confident body language and eye contact. You can do it man. Have faith in you.
/r/seduction06/04/18 09:49 PM
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