Haven't really been able to find a clear post about this, but I am just wondering if an "average" guy has had any luck closing on their first interaction. I am not gorgeous or stunningly handsome, but I am also not unattractive that I haven't noticed some girls staring back. I'm 24, never had a girlfriend, and I have extreme approach anxiety which is why my encounters always end with just some stares back and forth. I've read about "body language" signs and I am also certain one girl was spreading her legs and was showing interest, but I just had absolutely no clue how to escalate anything further. Should my mindset be looking to close on this first encounter or take it much much slower and just get her number? Any advice is much appreciated