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I'd choose to be a man on the basis that men have a greater capability for achieving inner contentment and peace of mind. Furthermore men have much greater emotional stability and are generally left the fuck alone if we don't want to be bothered. In other words, I like that I can be invisible and people don't bother me in general cos no one gives a fuck about men, it certainly has it's benefits lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:38 AM
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That's still for their vagina's. One of the main motivators for the average man to get into a relationship is the more consistent supply of sex. Keep in mind the AVERAGE guy is not getting hook ups left and right so they have a strong motivation to lock it down with a girl just to have sex on tap to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:39 PM
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Samoans?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:20 AM
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terrible advice. ​ introduce yourself directly or indirectly flirt with her depending on the situation. (i.e. random street approach be direct get to the point but at a social gathering be a bit more lowkey about it) if she seems interested keep going but if she doesn't then stop. ​ Don't overcomplicate shit for no reason, its just awkward and wasting your time and her time. Once you get some decent level of social acuity it becomes glaringly obvious when a girl is attracted to you or not. You g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:32 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:58 PM
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I always say only about 5% of men actually have any game, these days at least, not sure how it used to be. I don't consider it game unless you are pulling girls that you wouldn't be able to pull based off your looks alone. So based off that definition then definitely no more than 5% of guys have game. As you say, the rest is women choosing them or just luck. That's actually very good news though cos it means if you have game and are at least not terrible looking, then you will pull so easily its…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:26 PM
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WOUJO, shout out to you man. I'm not gonna lie, I'm flattered that you appreciated my post. Yes I agree, I think you make a good point with that. That feeling of intensity is a lot like a kind of "full steam ahead" kind of feeling mixed with excitement and general happiness. Frankly It's an addicting feeling which is why I love the game so much, I kind of carry that vibe with me in general but it kind of amps it up when you're chatting up a pretty girl.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/22 06:07 PM
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I'm not married but i have done a lot of PUA, approached thousands of women and probably got a notch count around the 40 to 50 mark. I thought I'd just try answer the bitch shield point. In my experience the way to deal with the bitch shield is to not even acknowledge it, it's completely normal because at the end of the day this woman doesn't know you. Everyone has a bitch shield when a stranger approaches them, as they should. As far as technique to get past it, there is no technique, the techn…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 06:49 PM
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No lol. The right response is to tell her you know what she's doing and to cut it out. Keep it simple
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 11:15 AM
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if they give compliments or not. It is irrelevant. approach motherfucker. assume attraction.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 08:02 PM
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i mean i wouldn't call 5'5 short for a girl. that's pretty much average height for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:59 PM
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you are legit a shamelss hypocrite. it's quite something to see
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:48 PM
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it was just an example, god damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:43 PM
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yes but no one is stopping you from talking to people in person. ​ go to a bar, turn to the girl next to you who you know would not have matched you on tinder. Then you say "Hi my name is 4_spinning_triangles, I like your dress". ​ lets say you start having a few minutes of conversation. BOOM. you just cheated the system, even though she would not have matched based on looks, you are officially talking to a girl who is "out of your league". ​ online dating be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 06:11 PM
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it's true. Usually good looking guys don't have much game. you know why, cos usually GUYS IN GENERAL don't have much game. ​ the reality of the situation is, guys with legit tight ass game. flirtatious, charming, confident, no approach anxiety, fun, knowing how to lead, and handle logistics and handle a girls friends. Those qualities, very few guys have all that in one package. ​ if you do, regardless of your looks, you will crush. problem is it's A LOT harder to develop a rockstar personality t…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 05:59 PM
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your problem is not what you do. ​ it's who you are. you are fundamentally lacking passion about life, to be honest, as someone who has been depressed before, you sound a bit depressed. Like there is no colour in your life. ​ There is a phrase "wherever you go, there you are". What that means is you can't escape yourself, you can go do cool stuff in exciting places etc. etc. but you will never escape yourself if you fundamentally are not happy. Someone who is content, happy and joyful, can feel …
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:44 PM
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You can definitely still fuck at white collared office jobs. Half my office are fucking each other, openly.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 07:12 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 gangster ass answer
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:58 PM
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Edited: ​ i'm 5'8 and skinny with a fairly good looking face. physique wise i've ranged anywhere from skinny, skinny fat or chubby with some muscle all through my "game career" so to speak. i've never had an attractive physique. i don't have broad shoulders, i've got an ectomorphic build. the only positive about my physique is that i'm not fat, that's it. The thing i know though, which is important is that i only started putting effort into my looks AFTER i'd slept with most the girls i'd slept …
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:09 PM
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honestly PUA to me is about the inner game. you can learn the outer game stuff in a month. But going out in the field and using "reference experience's" and then taking them apart in the right way, and actively changing the way you think. that's what took me from socially awkward to confident and cool. no lifting involved. literally. I think Game and PUA is so important especially for guys who are not so good looking who can only get so far with changing their appearance. I mean i feel like this…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:17 PM
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I'm not even saying this to be argumentative but i've actually had the most success at clubs out of those 3. followed by raves, then festivals. There's a logic to the order of it as well. Clubs are a meat market, the music usually sucks, everyone probably doesn't live too far from the club and they probably don't have massively cool plans the next day. so you being a fly ass mofo is probably the coolest part of her night and so she's much more likely to go home with you, especially since she ain…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:18 PM
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i gotta disagree bro, i've done most of my pulling at clubs, raves, festivals etc. If you're confident, dominant, feeling good and fun, you can pull so fucking easy especially cos their Buying temperature is already high as RSD used to say. ​ obviously you need to get creative sometimes when you want to talk more, maybe to go to the smoking area etc. ​ but the shit is easy as fuck. IME though the key to it is your inner game, big time. The club is very intense so you gotta be very congruent and …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:02 PM
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THIS IS GOING TO BE A LONG RESPONSE. I've got a different take on this shit. you can absolutely go out to a club etc. with the sole purpose of getting laid. and still get laid. I do it. i've been going to clubs etc. for years doing it and i'm not particularly good looking overall. I've got a handsome face but I'm kinda short (5'8) and my physique is skinny. ​ However, I think a lot of guys missed out on the Real social dynamics pick up stuff,which is a shame cos they were all about bars and club…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:49 PM
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Bro I'm not gonna lie that sounds fucked up but I've seen dudes who are short af and skinny etc. Who are still confident cool guys who are well liked. Of course its not as easy for them but they still seem to do well enough in life. I'm kinda struggling to picture how you could get this bad of a treatment for looking young, what do you look like? Are you like super short with a child's face or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:37 PM
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You will get bitches if you are like that
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:14 PM
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Currently where I am at. But mine is due to frying my head with drugs. Its getting better with time though. Overall I would say, get your testosterone checked The desire to pursue women should be natural, its the most base biological urge. If you don't have that urge, its probably a chemical imbalance. Atleast thats what I think. I'm currently trying dealing with this shit, barely any libido. Its not fun, I quite like liking girls.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:06 PM
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You should stop telling people how to think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:23 PM
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Ignoring the one you want is the oldest trick in the book. It works a charm as long as you calibrate it
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 05:54 PM
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my guy, I also think women are pretty cool. that's not the funny part. it's the way you started using all the buzz words that feminists and the like use to shame men. I doubt any of us are going to accidentally become misogynists or something. The times in my life I hated women were when i wasn't getting any and struggled with them. Now it's easy as shit for me and I still don't think they are wonderful. i think they can be fun and can be cool but they're just people.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 08:46 PM
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you had me till the last paragraph where you went full retard lol.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 07:47 PM
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that awkward moment when you raise your children in a way that you don't even like them.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:28 PM
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since I was in school I actually have had girls taller than me be into me for some reason. keep in mind I was awkward af at the time. then I when I started doing PUA I got girl my height or taller as well (I'm 5'8). but I was always insecure about it lowkey and hated being seen with them. ultimately though I realised, after a few different experiences, that it doesnt matter and they really don't care. my ex was like 5'11, I've slept with a bunch of girls in the 5'8 to 5'11 range. they don't care…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 08:34 PM
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been there , it sucks bad
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/21 08:04 PM
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I'm in the UK been doing cold approach 5 years. slept with about 40 women. met my ex girlfriend from cold approach. basically 90% of my results with women have been from cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:38 PM
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cos no woman every told a guy what he wants to here just to get a ring on her finger. all you need is "open communication tm"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:37 AM
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fucking tell me about it bro, i'm literally dying to just be AROUND some sexy girls. Even just to watch.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 10:00 PM
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withdraw attention is the answer. however not as some sort of technique, i mean don't get me wrong in your case it will have to be a technique, but you want to get to a point where it's natural. the way you would make it natural is that you become a guy who feels so good in his own company that when you hang around people who bring you down, like how your GF was today, you naturally don't want to be around them as much. It's not even an ego thing, it's just like "i have more fun alone than with …
/r/askTRP19/09/20 12:03 PM
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to what end, what are they trying to achieve by abolishing fathers and their authority. ​ whats the goal? ​ genuinely want to hear your thoughts on this,
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 08:28 PM
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how does it reduce murders?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 08:17 PM
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your problem is deeper. ​ it's an ego thing, how you feel about you is dependent on how other people see you. so then you end up giving a fuck about this shit. Picture this. your brain gets rewired tomorrow to a point where you are COMPLETELY indifferent to anyone else in the whole world's opinion of you. Do you think at that point, you'd be having this problem. ​ the answer is no. meaning that your problem is actually that your sense of self worth depends on other people's approval, in this cas…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 08:24 PM
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laziness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 09:53 AM
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damn, that's bad ass too. you date some interesting girls
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 07:26 PM
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you go say hi. lol. ​ don't even think about this shit. ​ if you see a pretty girl you want to talk to, go talk to her, no ifs no buts. the world isn't gonna catch fire if you do it.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 07:05 PM
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whaaat, why would you wanna hide heterocrhomia. that's such a fucking cool feature to have.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 06:59 PM
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yup. for all intents and purposes it's a win for me bro, most of life is spent with a shirt on so yolo.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 01:45 PM
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welcome to my life bro hahahaha. it's annoying but truthfully I much prefer this to the other way round cos it means we can get away with bring chubbier and no one will know until we take our shirt off a d quite frankly by the time you're I a situation with girl where your shirt is off. you're probably bout to fucka anyway lol
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:39 AM
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true, i think some people just store fat differently too though. ​ for example i have never been shredded my whole life. ever. i've always been either skinny fat or fat. I've always kept a very defined face when i was skinny fat, even though under my clothes i had no abs or anything. I have friends like this also. I think it could be an ecto thing (i'm probs talking out my ass tbf). ​ but some people look chiseled in the face before even having abs (me and guys i know). but some guys need to dro…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 06:57 PM
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facts
/r/askTRP30/08/20 08:31 AM
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literally. ​ let her watch me bleed, fuck it, i wasn't looking for her approval anyway so i don't really care what her opinion is on the matter. That's not a technique by the way, that's really how i see it.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 08:05 PM
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173cm club checking in, waddup ​ i can second this as my gf was 2" taller than me actually ​ also i've slept with a handful of girls who were in the 5'9 to 5'11 range. ​ i used to get zero pussy, then i worked on my confidence and here we are. keep in mind i also looked average af with a skinny fat body lol. so confidence does make a night and day difference. ​ the thing about confidence is it's hard to explain but it is easy to spot when you see it. and let me tell you, i rarely see properly co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:07 PM
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the idea behind it is that you get to a place mentally where you GENUINELY don't want to associate with flakey women or women who act wrong. ​ it's not petty if it's a personal standard. it is petty if part of you hopes it will hurt her.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 08:41 PM
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bro it wasn't that much effort tho that's the funny part. it was like 6 months of training lol. like twice as much only means I throw in extra sets of lat raises etc. everyone has weak muscle groups they gotta train extra that's nothing new bro. I never measure my bideltoid and I'm 5'8 but I can tell you that they have gone from narrow to doable in 6 months. give it a year and they could he broad.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 02:51 PM
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to be fair bro i always thought i had narrow shoulders, then i did fuck loads of lateral raises and focused HARD on shoulders. trained it twice as much as any other muscle group. ​ now i actually have average shoulders. ​ what you don't realise is that a lot of guys who have broad shoulders actually just have a genetic propensity to store muscle on their side delts. it sounds crazy but it's true. ​ i've seen it particularly with black guys, where they are skinny as fuck don't even lift and yet t…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 08:17 PM
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a lot of the time these situations are really simple but we complicate them because our mind is thinking of 50,000 different ways it can go wrong. i.e. you're scared. ​ here's what you do. ​ you tell her not to talk bad or make fun of you to other people ever again cos it's disrespectful and you won't stand for it. then she'll say a whole bunch of bullshit which is IRRELEVANT. you just say your shit and leave it, then she can choose whether or not to listen. get me? ​ life is a lot simpler when …
/r/askTRP17/08/20 06:28 PM
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it's cos you're 19. ​ i'm 22 but you'd be surprised what difference there is in those ages. ​ people up to like age 20/21 act like fucking retards over bullshit. ​ don't get me wrong there's retards in all ages but it's exaggerated at your age, among guys AND girls by the way. ​ i remember when i was 15-19 at parties the kind of bullshit that would happen cos everyone is still basically kids and brains aren't properly developed. fighting over NOTHING and guys are suuuuuper beta and white knighty…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:43 PM
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many girls won't fuck on a first date. i mean keep in mind bro you have known her for like 2 hours total.... and you're already expecting to be insider her. yeah i know some girls fuck on first dates.... you could even say a lot of girls fuck on first dates... but lets be honest it's actually MORE normal for her to not fuck a guy she literally met 2 hours ago lol. ​ so don't stress it. ​ and yes i know maybe "chad chaddington" will fuck her in 5 minutes but guess what... who gives a fuck. also t…
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:55 PM
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exposure and meditation.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:48 PM
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and it seems like that system worked better than the shit show that dating and relationships is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:17 AM
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sounds so morbid but then again you are 67. ​ out of interest how have you come to terms with death, like what's your view on it. cos it's easy to say for a 20 year old "we all die someday" but at your age it's like a lot more in your face so you can't push it off and pretend it's ages away either.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 09:12 PM
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it's cos you don't actually like them. ​ fuck girls who you have good chemistry with and could imagine yourself enjoying hanging out with WITHOUT having sex, then you won't have this problem.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 06:13 PM
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changed
/r/askTRP07/08/20 06:12 PM
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true one of the best things i ever did to become confident and good with women was to study the behaviors and mindsets of guys i knew who already were confident and good with women and see what they were doing. ​ i never dealt with envy. ​ envy and inspiration are 2 sides of the same coin. if you can humble yourself, then you can be inspired instead of jealous
/r/askTRP05/08/20 07:37 PM
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not even settling, i just genuinely can't feel that WOW factor level of chemistry if she isn't beautiful cos i need that pretty face to make me get the butterfly feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 09:42 PM
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nah not really cos it's more like all the boxes have to be checked for me to feel that sparks flying type chemistry, it's not like one can make up for another. as in everything has to be on point, she's gorgeous (TO ME, that's the key), she's very positive and feminine, and our persnoalities really click. you can't have one missing. i mean that's the whole reason it's so good cos it's that feeling when everything is just right. i don't find it hard to find though to be honest, cos i approach a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 09:21 PM
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i'm strongly red pill, none of that blue pill BS. ​ however i do know that when you simultaneously are very physically attracted to a girl and she is a lovely person and your personalities click really well.... it does quite literally feel like sparks are flying. It's AWESOME. It's the reason that in spite of hating a lot of things about women, i could never not be with them. That feeling when it just all clicks and you're on a vibe and you think she's gorgeous... phewwww. it's electrifying. in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 08:56 PM
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SHE BELONG TO THE SCREEEETTSSS
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:56 AM
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facts lol. it's like a club that's really hard to get into but once you're in it then you don't even have to try anymore
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 11:57 AM
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i.e. insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:17 PM
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congrats, no one disagrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 07:30 PM
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that would be weird, no i wouldn't want a woman who could beat me up lol. that's retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 09:34 PM
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yup, they raise boys to be cucks then ask where all the real men are. retards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 06:08 AM
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the whole "relationships should be a 50/50 partnership and it's disrespectful to be the one in charge" lie. ​ that one fucked me up. ​ I remember being so proud of being "Equal" with my Ex-GF and that we are "partners" and shit. And i'd feel guilty for being the man in the relationship. Like I was pre castrated from taking the lead. It was so retarded cos societal messaging encourages you to be a bitch in the relationship. ​ then i'd see my friend who very very much owns the frame with his GF an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 07:05 PM
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it's more a matter of who gives a fuck. tell her, don't tell her, whatever. don't stress it basically. you can do practically anything and a girl won't lose attraction as long as it's apparent her opinion of you means zero. the key to it is to not seek her approval. by all means have a crying session in front of her, if you don't care what her opinion on it is then how can she lose attraction, it's against woman logic. the only time a woman will lose attraction is when you need her or care what …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 07:30 PM
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i think the key to it is to not need her. ​ you can tell a girl all your problems no matter how fucked up, but as long as you aren't emotionally leaning on her then it's no problem.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 06:59 PM
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beta males can't be trusted when it comes to matters of women. ​ straight up.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 10:39 PM
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be in the 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 12:04 PM
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it's weird to be honest. i'd ask him to elaborate on his thought process behind why he think this is going to solve anything.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/20 07:12 PM
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plenty. guys really don't care about "experience" that much if she's an attractive girl, who's really into us and has loads of great personality traits. as long as she's atleast open to learning some things sexually, that's fine, not even anything crazy. for example the sex i used to ahve with my exGF was vanilla as fuck compared to how i used to fuck all the girls i would sleep with. but it was wayyyyyyyyyyy better cos you know love and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:57 PM
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it's very simple, we want girls who desire us who aren't whores. there seems to be this myth that a girl with "experience" with loads of guys is so much better for sex. yes their techincal skills in bed will probably be better but for us guys we don't actually require all that technical shit. we just want a girl who really really wants us and can't keep her hands off us, we can figure out and practice and learn what the other likes sexually over time in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:51 PM
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a slut that will fuck you is better than a good girl that barely fucks you at all. ​ they both are shitty options but one is just retadedly shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:46 PM
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it's not messages. There's no conditioning. its guys experience. one of the most common Male experiences is being the beta who gets led on and emotionally leaned on but no sex. this then leads to men not wanting to wait anymore cos they don't want to get played. it's a natural response to womens behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:26 PM
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not particularly. it is a fact that TRP strategies will get you laid quicker than anything else. every guy i've seen get laid a lot uses TRP strategies whether they have heard of TRP or not lol. only on the internet can people deny this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:44 PM
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lol no. TRP applies to all women, even your mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:43 PM
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you said the girls negs work on are the ones that have the ability to lose confidence. implying there are certain girls that wouldn't lose confidence. any girls confidence can be wrecked. I've never met a girl who wouldn't be hurt if you matter of factly said you think she's ugly. girls are heavily dependent on external validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:49 PM
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I'm yet to meet a girl who doesn't have the ability to lose confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:03 AM
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also i forgot to add that negs are mainly for hot girls. as in girls that are used to being fawned over, cos they can take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:41 PM
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women are biologically and psychologically wired to be insecure. It's literally what they are. That's why they seek security from men. ​ women. are. chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:22 PM
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literally lol, i don't understand how women don't understand this. it's like plastic surgery though, when it's done well you can't even tell it's fake. ​ negging done well just looks like someone stating a negative opinion to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:17 PM
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negging absolutely works but only if you come across genuine, dominant and confident. If there's any sense of "omg is it working" coming from you when you neg a girl then it will fail miserably. ​ basically you have to actually mean the neg. ​ for example a girls shirt has some stupid design, you then say "your shirt is terrible" and actually sound like you mean it. Then she gets all angry and emotional but simultaneously excited by your confidence and not giving a fuck. then you just say you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:15 PM
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indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:00 PM
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AWALT never meant every single woman anyway, it means most
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:07 AM
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you don't need a balance. that's the funny part. you'll do very very well if you just be full asshole. women respond scarily well to that, even the nice girls. being nice is more for your sake if you like being nice. you certainly don't need to be nice though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:04 AM
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it pisses me off because some of those beta men are my friends and family who are being categorically mentally raped by their wives and girlfriends and all you wanna do is bitch slap him and tell him to grow a spine but you know that won't do shit. ​ it's not fun watching people close to you suffer.... surprisingly
/r/askTRP15/07/20 06:26 PM
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and women are willing participants
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:36 PM
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very simple, when you raise a generation on the fucking internet. ​ they are going to be socially awkward screen addicts who live their lives online, cos it's fucking easier. ​ i'm lucky i'm late Gen z so I JUST made the cut for people who didn't have an Ipad in their hand at age 4
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 09:14 PM
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sounds to me like you've attached your identity for your looks which is a very very very common thing that happens with good looking people, particularly women. ​ basically what happens is that because your self confidence is based on your looks, if they even SLIGHTLY slip you literally feel like you're less valuable as a person. ​ you need to start placing your value on the internal, as in who you are as a person. Looks fade, it is what it is. ​ although obviously do still take care of your loo…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 07:17 PM
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i would disagree, i've had plenty of first dates where we didn't fuck become second dates. PLENTY, in fact most of the hottest girls i've slept with i didn't fuck first night even when i came very very close to it. ​ it's more about who you are as a person as in if you're charming awesome guy, girls can tell and they will wanna see you again. it's not that complicated. ​ they think with their emotions, and if they feel awesome around you, then you will stand out and they will want to see you aga…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 07:08 PM
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still weird behaviour even from beta guys. it's just socially awkward behaviour to be honest. just cos you're beta doesn't mean you have to be... well... rude quite frankly.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 07:05 PM
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normal guys don't say shit like that.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 06:33 PM
1

it doesn't confirm anything you're just making a false statement about how men and women are not different. we are, we relate different. guys don't cuddle their bros and never will, we don't fucking want to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:10 PM
0

it's not socialization. it's just gay as fuck for straight men to hug each other the way girls hug each other. men aren't women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:31 PM
3

lol i see that from your comments. check out the book "the rational male". it'll get you started.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:20 PM
2

not gonna lie it's quite funny that they were that scared of divorce that they wouldn't commit lol. I agree with them, its just funny to see it plays out when a girl who is genuine gets fucked over by it. but y'all feminists and your bullshit enablers made your bed. you gotta sleep in it now. hahahaha we're so fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:40 PM
5

nothing funnier than when girls speak as the authority on what men want. just lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:34 PM
1

like the mafia, only make calls from payphones and keep it vague "you talk to the guy?" "which guy" "the guy who owns the place we was at a couple weeks ago" "oh no I can't find him he's up north doing a thing with the other guy"
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 04:24 PM
0

ahem.... its called progress... God you're such a bad bad misogynist.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 04:15 PM
3

its literally a game. however guys who are good with girls naturally just picked it up through social experience. but please do me a favour and never ask girls for game advice ever again, it's only gonna confuse you or demotivate you. you don't ask a fish how it wants to be caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:12 PM
3

trust me it's the PUA journey. it's how it goes. every guy who's gotten into PUA has had the same experience
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:11 PM
2

if she's responding well, escalate. if she tenses up or gets a bit reserved, back off. then just keep vibing till she is more loose and receptive, then escalate again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:42 PM
4

so, he can work on it. it's a skill I did it. I literally sucked ass and now I'm dating girls I never thought I could and I look pretty much exactly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:37 PM
5

please don't listen to this chick, she's wrong. if they kissed you then that means they find you attractive. that also means if you develop the rest of your game then you can get laid. trust me I had that plateau as well where you can even make out with some hot ass girls but you don't have the solid frame and confidence to maintain it though the interaction long enough for them to come home with you. keep working on it and getting advice and completely ignore womens advice on this. they will ei…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:35 PM
4

what a load of horse shit lol. don't listen to this crap OP. I was getting one night stands with pretty girls as a 5'8 skinny fat dude with bad hair and crappy facial hair. game.... game.... GAME. they don't need to be drunk or on drugs either. drunk girls and drugged up girls still don't fuck guys who they don't find attractive. if a girl is so fucked up she's willing to drop her standards that hard, you should also anticipate some sort of sexual assault accusation. don't bother with really Int…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:27 PM
5

basically, that sexual shame dhit comes from not believing yourself to be worth shit. I used to have that too now it's like idgaf I'm tryna fuck you and if you don't wanna fuck me that's fine, on to the next one. add some charm to it and vavavoom you're in business. but you're gonna have to accept you're gonna go through a socially awkard phase of coming off weird. baby steps. also get some self esteem. believe yourself to be the shit cos you said so and fuck everyone else's opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:26 PM
4

step 1. don't ask girls for advice on how to fuck girls
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:24 PM
0

do you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:24 AM
15

you attract what you are. the more positive, peaceful and generally happy I became, I attracted similar women. life is a lot easier now. as a girl there's always gonna be guys who just wanna fuck, that's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:09 AM
2

well obviously for the guys who don't take no for answer that's different. I'm just saying that I've seen pretty girls who are still nice and down to earth people and those are the qualities I see in them. you keep your head together the same way any human would, learn to only require your OWN approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:04 AM
6

I found that many very pretty girls end up very neurotic and narcissistic. but then the ones who are really nice and keep their head together are the ones who have a sense of humour, don't take life to seriously and generally just are kind people. its rarer with very attractive girls but they always seem to be happiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:53 AM
4

learn to be graceful
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:46 AM
2

some of the founders of this sub are male. ​ if a majority male space had a bunch of female founders as well, then suddenly after ticking along for years the space said "no girls allowed", there would be anarchy, and rightly so. You don't bite the hand that fed you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 03:48 PM
2

😂😂😂😂😂 ​ "if you in love with a hoe, you ain't never listen to me" - nate dogg RIP
/r/askTRP10/07/20 10:39 PM
5

dating apps are for girls and very good looking guys
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 09:21 PM
7

so true bro, it must take so much mental gymnastics to believe the worst in women, they never do anything that makes me question them. ​ /s
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 08:47 PM
0

once you don't take women seriously.... frankly people seriously... their little games become adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 08:32 PM
2

I've had that same feeling after fucking even hot ass girls. that's the game. I thought with really hot girls it would he different. it wasn't. external stimulation provides pleasure but it don't make you happy.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 10:05 AM
25

🤣
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:04 AM
2

definitely not common, sounds like a headcase.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:02 AM
2

literally. ​ i'm so bored of drinking. and drugs. and every other poison i put in my body. ​ it's just wasting your life away for a cheap high. why? ​ i could be dead tomorrow and i'm here running away from the present for a cheap high.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 06:57 PM
1

cos they think you won't leave
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 11:12 PM
3

agreed, confidence doesn't come from knowing you'll succeed. ​ It comes from not giving a single fuck if you fail.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 06:00 PM
2

preach
/r/MensRights05/07/20 05:56 PM
9

yup, it's definately seeped into the mainstream more and more. ​ 4 years ago when a girl makes an accusation people were like "omg believe her". ​ now it's slowly going more toward "hold up, a lot of these hoes be lying"
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 05:42 PM
1

no no, there's something wrong with the system that profits on stretching out the process of slowly destroying a family
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/20 10:41 AM
13

people don't mention this enough but NOT LOOKING MISERABLE. I swear ome of the most attractive things is when a girl walks around with a face like she's actually happy. it literally makes them glow, it stands out A LOT. now look obviously being hot is very important but as long as she's hit the threshold of prettiness to me then if she has a smile on her face and some light in her eyes then that makes them very very attractive. it's rare to see this because most people walk around in a haze of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:39 PM
48

it's kind of irrelevant to be honest. The kind of girl that doesn't realize cheating is a red line, is also the kind of girl you wouldn't want to LTR. ​ If you're with a girl where you feel she's got such a warped view of the world that you need to explain to her that cheating is a no go.... you probably shouldn't be with her.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 04:50 PM
2

I've lurked on this sub for a while and i can tell you that your story is the most common reason women come here. Independent strong minded woman types who realise that it just doesn't work for their marriage. You can't have two captains and if you keep trying to be in charge, then when of two things will happen: ​ you'll just keep butting heads till you hate each other and the marriage goes down the shitter he'll eventually submit and then you'll lose respect for him and once again, your marria…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 01:00 PM
2

if every girl you meet is boring, it's likely that you're boring. ​ girls react to your energy, If your energy is wack, you'll get wack energy back. ​ i've been in your shoes and frequently wondered what the point was of being with said girl. Then I realised that the fact of the matter is that women will never make you happy but if you are already happy they can make you happier. they're like the icing on the cake, not the cake itself. ​ Now that i walk around feeling good and shit, i find mysel…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 03:00 AM
3

I've come to realize something. ​ The only, AND I MEAN ONLY, reason that the red pill is "depressing" or anger inducing, is because of the contrast between it and the comforting lies we get raised on. ​ It's the CONTRAST between what we are taught and what reality is that depresses you. ​ if we were taught that women can be bad too, men are disposable etc. etc. from day 1 then we wouldn't be depressed because it would just be what it is.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 02:47 AM
-1

SOCIAL MEDIA. it's going to be the death of modern dating. ​ we're going to create babies in tubes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:41 PM
1

he's not wrong, women are very boring if you try to interact with them like men. OMG SO SURPRSING CN'T BELEEEV THAT WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT LEL. ​ seriously, talk to women like they're women and it's fun. Trying to be platonic with them like they are "One of the bros" is just fucking awkward. ​ womenz are womenz and there ain't shit you can do about it partna
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 11:09 AM
18

just saying, and I'm a guy saying this too, be careful about having kids with a guy with a porn problem. cos then you're trapped and as with most additions many people never shake them. I'd be careful.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 10:03 AM
3

the next few generations of guys will probably see women as whores purely on the basis that women in the younger generations are raised to be whores and they literally advertise themselves as whores. ​ the red pill is becoming so mainstream that it's not even the red pill anymore, it's just the norm. ​ my 14 year old brother and all his friends call each other simps (and know the definition) and call other guys simps all the time. They know fuck all about the red pill btw, it's just the word sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:41 PM
1

interesting stuff. yeah, so i can't fight for shit but people sometimes start shit with me when i'm out so i eventually had to figure out how to de-escalate things pretty damn well. I found just not reacting to their energy in an almost zen like way while standing your ground, make them run out of steam. I'm gonna learn how to fight too though incase de-escalation doesn't work. out of interest how did that making out with a dudes GF story go cos it sounds like an interesting one.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 09:33 AM
12

wtf is wrong with these people in the comments. It's completely ludicrous. There's so many girls talking about how the boyfriend is in the wrong and how they'd also leave him or be terrified of him.... THE FUCK?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:35 AM
3

cold approach is awesome, been doing it 5 years, i love the whole thing. I've done thousands of approaches, slept with around 40 women, who have increasingly gotten hotter and hotter as i've gotten more confident. admittedly the first thousand approaches were very unsuccessful but i've gotten exponentially better results over time. ​ now it's just so fucking easy lol, not draining at all, barely feels like effort and it's so much fun. Cold approaching is like breathing to me. ​ but ultimately th…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 10:56 AM
2

yep, when my ex started becoming less interested in sex, it also coincided with the time she was less responsive to texts, didn't care to see me as much etc. it's not a coincidence. women becoming less interested in sex is one of the tell tale signs shes not so into you anymore.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:18 AM
8

you need a different perspective. trust your gut even if she isn't cheating, there's no point staying with a girl that isn't 100% into you, which she clearly isn't.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:40 AM
2

you're a massive statistical outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 09:38 AM
1

what accusations did you get? I got a sexual harassment at work accusation once. it was hilarious though cos literally no one believed her, the higher ups immediately just assumed she was lying and it was water under the bridge lol. P.s she was full of shit btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 09:37 AM
3

i remember i used to think being awkward was endearing to women. ​ LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:53 AM
1

man don't listen to these people. ​ you don't have to change if you are happy with your current results, but understand that if you want different results you will need to take different actions. ​ "just be yourself" won't get you better results than you're getting now, but if you're content with where you're at then fuck it, be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:52 AM
13

tbf women as a collective do seem to have a hivemind element. ​ i bet you guys have a little portal in your room that you walk through to meet up and drink tea with all the other women and discuss how you're going to take over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:43 AM
5

fuck em, it really doesn't matter, the guys sound like snakes so this would have happened. eventually. As far as abundance, it's a mindset. Part of that mindset is that there's plenty more people out there, relax. ​ your real problem is your mindset, you don't feel complete and comfortable with yourself so you feel like you need other people to prop up your self esteem, i been there i know the feeling. ​ i only have a few close friends i always hang with as well, but i never worry about social c…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:43 PM
1

legit, i think it's when your face gets masculinized basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 12:41 PM
2

very true, i always looked like my mothers spitting image then after puberty look like my dads spitting image. It's actually insane, i one time found a black and white picture of my dad when he was 18 and my first thought was "i don't remember taking this picture". Then i asked my mum she told me it's a picture of my dad and i was like "DAMMMMMMN".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 12:35 PM
2

well there's the problem, it ultimately comes down to being confrontation averse. you said yourself you're no stranger to a punch up, but that's a bit different cos that's a physical thing. the confrontation with those kinds of women will be social, there will be a lot of judgement, maybe some shame, a lot of social pressure. i think your problem and frankly everyones problem is that they don't feel confident enough in themselves as people so they give a fuck about other peoples opinion of them,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:26 PM
3

honestly man, sometimes you gotta call out the wrong shit even if others won't. ​ if everyone takes the attitude of "i wont' do it till someone else does" then no one will do anything. ​ for me personally it's a matter of being pissed off at how girls feel like they can do whatever the fuck they want just cos wahmen, so for me i'd definitely call it out cos they need to know they can't just get away with that shit scot free. ​ make a scene, fucking cause some chaos. It sounds to me like your pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:39 PM
7

i got a 14 year old brother too. ​ EXAMPLE. EXAMPLE. EXAMPLE. i swear to god the only way to lead is by example. ​ i'm 22, my brother is 14. I've known about PUA since i was 16 so i've been approaching girls since then. He's seen me do this since he was like 8 years old. I've also brought pretty girls home and around him, he's met my very attractive GF who i met from cold approach. So i've set a solid example to him that if you go and approach girls, if you're confident and outgoing, you will ge…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 12:31 PM
1

Usually I get really giggly then shit myself, my GF thinks it's hella cute. ​ she loves cleaning up my shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:03 PM
2

tbf women have to deal with grabbing and shit like that when it comes to the nightlife scene a lot too. it comes with being around drunk people and it's never gonna stop being an issue. it is what it is. but in daily life it should absolutely be talked about. and honestly man fuck how everyone else feels about it. if they don't wanna take it seriously that's on them cos I'm sure there's plenty of guys who would love it if more people spoke up about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:25 AM
2

as time goes on men are more and more emasculated and feminine making them less attractive. also kids being raised on the internet have no social skills, social skills that men need to get laid assuming they don't look like Chad chanson also women have more options than ever cos of the internet. so where gonna have an ever increasing number of socially awkward, emasculated failure men who will seriously struggle with women while the top 20% of men slowly becomes the 10%
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:21 AM
1

and that's exactly why you should leave the relationship.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:19 AM
1

i find the teasing part comes naturally when you have a certain view of women. ​ I'm a mindset guy, i always wanna know what mindset do i need to have so that the correct behaviours follow naturally. it's less effort that way. ​ that's why i find when you view women as cute and silly, you tend to tease them and complement them at a perfect balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:59 AM
1

if you're charming .... then yes compliments work very very well. In my experience giving even very pretty girls complements actually makes them all giddy and stuff. ​ At the end of the day girls love getting complements whether it's for their hair, eyes, lips, smile, the way they walk, way they talk etc. etc.when i'm with a girl, frankly even girls that i'm not tryna fuck, i tend to shower them in complements like giving complements is gonna be outlawed tomorrow. i just like giving girls comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:49 AM
1

please elaborate, i'm very interested. ​ as in what are you saying womens REAL attitude is toward trying to get what they want in dating, inspire of what they say? ​ lets go with this current thread. All the women here are giving long lists saying stuff along the lines of doing their own thing and looking for this, that and the other, right. But what is their actual thought process in your opinion as a red pill aware woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:39 AM
3

man fuck the way it's gonna go, you can't just let people sexually assault you in a public place like that and not say shit. i mean you can but i'm sure as fuck not letting that fly. i'd understand if they were in a big group with guys there too with no one else around so you just want to de escalate it and leave. yeah fair enough. but on a crowded train, the fucking cheek they gotta have, that's some nerve
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:29 PM
8

IME this is because women can read your subcommunications WAY better than you think. so when you're not that into her they can sense this and they kind of shut down and don't get all giddy and girly and feminine. They won't open up and let their guard down if you don't. No matter how good you think your "genuinely good time" act is, trust me. she can see through it, girls are like hypersensitive to your vibe, it's actually retarded + you're not as good as hiding your true intent as you think, yo…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:05 PM
2

ok lol that makes more sense, also it is incredibly fucked up of course, you should give em a slap next time they do that or atleast embarrass them in front of everyone. I live in England too, knowing english people i'd be willing to bet people wouldn't even take sides they'd just be in shock but fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:58 PM
4

you do you but i'd strongly advise against making a decision this permanent when you: ​ don't have any kids already literally are wired to have that Paternal instinct kick in at some point later down the line, it would suck if it kicked in and suddenly you can't do shit about it. ultimately, IMO, it's not worth it if you haven't got kids already. ​ use condoms, use plan b, DON'T FUCK TRASHY/CRAZY bitches, and more than anything else just don't think with your dick. Vet your girls a little bit, e…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:48 PM
3

indifference doesn't work here, These things require you to put your foot down. ​ comply or goodbye
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:42 PM
4

its just so mrp 😂 😂 😂 😂
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:33 PM
19

i feel like that's gonna start becoming more and more common these days lol
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:26 PM
21

yeah. dey hoes.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:25 PM
1

62 years old or 6 foot 2 lol. ​ cos if you're 62 years old and this is happening..... the fuck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:07 PM
1

sounds right to me bro. i always just say thank god i didn't end up any shorter lol.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 01:16 PM
1

i'm 5'8 and become 5'9 in pretty much any shoes i wear that have a regular heel or wedge, so most shoes basically. ​ Do you think this is a height at which the awkwardness of walking in the shoes + the fact i'd feel like a retard, is worth the objective advantage of being say 5'10 in shoes instead of 5'9. ​ like to me it just feels kinda pointless, I just don't really see how being an inch taller is gonna make or break me. in my 4 years of pick up, 40 lays, sleeping with like 6 or 7 girls rangin…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 12:15 PM
1

go have a serious talk if you want to. it won't work. there is no talk. you just tell her to stop being annoying and that she can come back when she's decided to get her act together. that's it. if you go explaining shit it's just gonna make you look weak. she's not stupid she knows she being a little shit, she just keeps doing it cos you don't punish it. tell her to get her shit together then ghost her until she comes back with an apology and a CHANGE OF BEHAVIOUR. you need to be ok with the fa…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 10:42 AM
11

face has an element of subjectivity. ​ height is very simple to perceive and has zero subjectivity. you're either tall, short or average. ​ although i do find it funny how much guys talk about height being the be all and end all seeing as MOST guys are not that good looking in the face. As i see it having a really handsome face is what really separates you from the crowd cos it's rare. ​ like it's much more common to see a tall guy than it is to see a guy with a very handsome face and good physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 03:01 AM
1

well they have no choice really cos once they've racked up a high bodycount they've already fucked everything up cos now most quality guys won't want to settle with a girl with a high body count. so their options are lie, die alone or settle for a shitty guy. can't really blame them for lying. ​ what we can blame them for is being whores but once again if they are whores then it's already too late for them usually. ​ the fuck up occurred when they got 50 trains ran on them and they only realize …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 11:15 AM
2

there is no way to win, because the problem is CULTURAL. we live in a culture that involves women being sluts for attractive men and so that basically ruins it for all the women and men who want something real. ​ our culture is great for short term consumer gratification, terrible for raising families though as we see with all the weak ass bitch men these days and slutty women with daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 11:13 AM
11

sex with a girl who's objectively hot, sexy as fuck and you are in love with...... oooooh mama, it's like Heroin. You might fuck your whole life up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 11:18 PM
24

i don't get how so many of you mofos go raw lol ​ like it's so simple for me to not go raw, i have no desire to go raw and it's just really fuckin cut and dry for me. ​ put it this way, i've slept with around 40 women, a good few of them ranged from pretty hot to very hot, and i've never, ever been so horny that i was willing to go raw. the idea of putting my dick in these girls pussy and risk getting them pregnant and catching an STD makes me have a near heart attack. WHEEEWWW, fuck that shit s…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 02:15 PM
3

he makes a point, plain janes IME are usually ver promiscuous cos usually plain jane means "not that good looking" and uglier girls are usually sluttier in this day and age because they need to be easy so as to make up for their lack of looks. ​ although ironically hot girls are ALSO easy just for a higher standard of guy SMV wise. i.e. the 6/10 girl is easy for guys who are 7s and 8s out of ten but then the 9/10 or 10/10 girl is easy for male celeb types, actors, rappers, artists, you get the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:35 PM
5

if i met said woman at a time when i was open to having kids, then yes i'd be okay to wait. ​ the key issue men have with girls who "make them wait" in this day and age is very simple... they don't make you wait cos they are respectable women, they make you wait cos they're not that into you and VERY likely have fucked other guys within a few dates/the first date. ​ in other words, guys don't believe the "make you wait" shit because they've been played too many times and have seen other guys get…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:32 PM
19

i'm all for being skeptical and talking about the bitter truth about women but to imply they are ALL going to backstab you and cheat no matter what you do or how tight your game is, seems a bit defeatist. ​ sure they all have back up plans, sure they all will cheat if you drop the ball etc. but there still is a cause and effect element. ​ but you seem to be implying that no matter what you do they will almost definitely fuck you over as if you have very little control over it. Frankly if that we…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 03:47 PM
7

men are coddled. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you must be joking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 11:39 AM
2

from what i've seen women at 30 generally look worse than men at 30. women generally age worse than men. this effect is magnified by the fact that womens social value is MUCH more related to their beauty than men. either way the bottom line is that as far as sexual market value goes, women's declines faster and earlier than mens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 03:48 PM
4

ok but let's not pretend everyone hates it. some girls like it when a hot guy talks to them and asks for their number at the supermarket.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:28 AM
6

been there. basically you're externally validated I.e. how you feel about yourself is dependent on external things. so you see these hot girls having all these external things and think "damn shes hot and has an amazing life and cool friends etc. so she must be like amazing, I'm not cos I don't have those things". when I started thinking "I'm the shit cos I said so" I didn't have these thoughts anymore, no more intimidation. now you could have the coolest life In the world and I'm still cooler t…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 10:49 AM
2

there must be a lot of confirmation bias at play here cos my experience is women are much less likely to admit when they fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 10:33 AM
1

that would be interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 10:32 AM
0

well there is science behind it and it's a logical theory. when you come up with a better one I'm all ears
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 10:26 AM
2

that's fair, i probably should of said it's my theory based on the data instead of saying it like it's fuckin gospel haha. ​ however i'd say it's a pretty damn good theory if i say so myself. it makes sense, the steps are very logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 02:17 AM
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well it's just a potential explanation, there could be 50 different potential explanations. ​ however mine does make a lot of sense so i'm inclined to go with it and i'm sure for a lot of people reading this they'll go "well damn, that's a good theory and seeing as i have no better one, then i'll go with this for now".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 02:13 AM
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i'm just connecting the dots but frankly they aren't hard dots to connect. ​ taking responsibility for mistakes and problems involves criticizing yourself -> insecure people are bad at taking criticism from others and themselves as their self esteem is low -> so insecure people will avoid taking responsibility to avoid having to criticize themselves ​ so seeing as women are scientifically shown to be generally more insecure, they will also be more likely to show the behavior of not taking respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 01:50 AM
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it's untrue. because the stuff these blue pill guys will tell guys to do is stuff that will factually not work. telling for example, an ugly guy with no confidence that if he was more respectful of women he'd a get a girlfriend.... is wrong. so their perspective is incorrect and so they are gas lighting other men. maybe not with bad intentions but they are still doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 01:36 AM
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because they usually say incorrect things when they gaslight you, as i described in my previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 01:20 AM
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i'm not sure what you're trying to say with that comment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 01:07 AM
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yes. blue pill indoctrinated men will also gaslight other men on these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 01:01 AM
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women and men both shirk responsibility. ​ women however do this A LOT more than men. to ridiculous levels actually, it's almost comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:21 AM
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i agree completely, if women took great care of themselves, ate right, didn't get fat, didn't smoke or drink to excess, then their wouldn't be this pronounced wall. ​ problem is that the VAST VAST majority of women (and men, it just hits women earlier) in western society do not in fact take decent care of themselves. ​ they basically beat the shit out of their body with terrible lifestyle choices and so shit starts going downhill REAL QUICK after like 25. then by 30 they've probably dropped like…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:18 AM
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lol, that's not why they've got girlfriends. ​ i hate this "if you didn't hate women maybe you'd have a girlfriend" sentiment. ​ i know plenty of guys who have serious resentment and hate toward women and they get laid just fine. it's called charisma and yes you can fake it and if you're good looking, even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:05 AM
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AWALT is hyperbole. it's more of a treat all guns as loaded kind of thing. ​ the level of sluttiness, self esteem, brokenness etc. just INCREASE the likely hood that a woman will do some bullshit. a well raised high self esteem girl still might cheat on you or dump you or get bored of you or whatever, it's just less likely, BUT IT CAN STILL HAPPEN. So your best bet is to treat both the slutty girl and the nice girl with the same level of caution, just in case. that's the essence of AWALT. ​ and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:02 AM
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oooh yeah. ​ whenever i'm pulling a girl back to my place. ooooof. whether we're going back on the train or the bus or a taxi. it's fuckin exciting. cos you just know it's about to go DOWN when you get home hahaaaa ​ and the hotter and cooler she is the bigger this feeling. in fact it's only ever exciting if i find her really sexy and delicious. i live for it. feels like when you've almost beat the boss on a video game.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 09:22 PM
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man i used to and still do go to the club alone ALL THE DAMN TIME. ​ start doing it, you'll want to cry at first. then it gets easier. then you stop giving a fuck. then it gets really really fun. then you realize you only ever needed yourself to be THE MOTHERFUCKING PARTAYYYYYY.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 09:20 PM
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it's funny cos these women are so insufferable while simultaneously trying to end misogyny. ​ it's like they want to stop hatred of women while simultaneously acting in a way that makes me really really really hate women. (obviously not all women but these types for sure).
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 09:17 PM
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yo. tell those girls shaming you to jump off a cliff. ​ you're in your early 20s and they are shaming you for dating 18/19 year olds............ NIGGA WHAT. ​ i'm sorry but those women in your social circle are not fucking normal people man. ​ LIKE WHAT. i'm still sat here scratching my head. seriously, tell them to go choke on a shotgun barrel or something. ​ i think america is different cos i'm in the UK and guys in there 20s dating girls who are under 20 is very very normal here. keep in mind…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 09:11 PM
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if the only bargaining token you have is your fucking looks... and you're short... then ABSOLUTELY most girls will not look at you twice 99% of the time. That's why being jacked isn't the answer. ​ if you're short you don't get to fuck girls based on looks, sorry, that's how it is. ​ and frankly same goes for if you're just average looking. say you're 5'10, average ass face, decent physique, no personality, guess what you will still get MINIMAL pussy. ​ the only guys who get easy pussy off their…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 08:58 PM
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its interesting cos I'm 5'8 and like girls ideally between 5'7 to 5'9 for that exact reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 12:21 PM
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don't know why everyone talks about jacked being the answer I'm 5'8 and fucked multiple girls in the 5'9 to 5'11 range while skinny as FUCK. cos of game, swag, charisma. that's the great equaliser lol not being jacked ffs 🤣🤣 they would not have got with a guy shorter than them of I wasn't secure in myself and didn't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 11:32 AM
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online dating wasn't made for most men. I'm 5'8 and have had some success with a couple girls ranging from 6/10 to 8/10 but they were all weird as fuck and frankly I can do better. I want 8/10 and above in looks, I also want then to have awesome personality. so in person is WAY better for that. even my good looking friends dont get anything special from OLD. if you want hot ass girls who aren't fucked in the head you need to be talking in person. unless you're a 6'2 ripped model but like no one …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 11:28 AM
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the idea of some other guys dick in her mouth, some other guys cum in her. etc. etc. its completely disgusting, makes her feel cheap to me and it's just viscerally disgusting imagining some other dude fucking her while we're supposedly in love
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 11:12 AM
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not true. I've the VAST majority of girls I slept with I gave not one fuck about. of course I pretended I did to get them in bed but I didn't actually care. I only ever actually cared about my girlfriend at the time it's called pumping and dumping for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 11:08 AM
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it's more for when they wear ridiculous amounts that make it seem like they are insecure. Guys have no problem with girls who wear subtle make up to HIGHLIGHT their features just like seasoning on a meal. However, when the whole meal is seasoning it's not so good. ​ similar comparison: if a guy is wearing shoes with a large heel which make him like an inch or slightly more, taller it's not that big of a deal even if it is for the express purpose of looking taller. But if he starts wearing 2 to 4…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:00 AM
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Yo my ex was an open relationship situation. from the start i made it VERY clear from her that i would not commit and she was totally cool with this and STAYED totally cool with this for the year and half we were together. ​ it was surprising to me how cool she was with this in spite of us being all lovey dovey and shit. ​ come to find out she had cheated on both her ex's before me. ​ so my anecdote does go along with the idea that women who are cool with OLTR's tend to be cheater types.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 12:32 AM
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hey man do you think you could elaborate on your predictions for where this is gonna go next. ​ As in do you think they are going to make it illegal for older guys to date younger girls in a few years time etc. ​ like how do you on a tangible level see this playing out in the future. ​ what will this 'closing of the boundaries' look like in your opinion?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 08:11 PM
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i'm sorry but to imply this was even close to rape is beyond ridiculous. Yes the guy is a dick and it's fucked up that he led her on for 9 months just to sleep with her, but to say it could be rape or that she "may not know if she consented" is just ridiculous. She's not an infant and you're spreading a very dangerous message.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 07:38 PM
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