Yo Guys,
I wanted to just quickly mention this game principle that I've picked up over the years that is one of the keys to generating attraction in a woman and making the interaction sexual in any circumstance or environment.
This is something I've seen that is something I possess when I'm on point or in state or feeling myself. I've also seen its a trait or quality in most guys who have either have game or when they are in the zone and have game in that moment.
Intensity. (you might have another name for it but hear me out)
What I mean by this is when you talk to her you have that feeling inside yourself like "you are mine and I will have you right now". That kind of energy comes through in your whole demeanor from your eye contact majorly, your body language, your tone, everything.
It generates attraction because game is essentially the transfer of your emotional state (shout out to Jeffy from RSD). so when you feel that way, she will feel that way. If she was a girl that COULD be attracted to you, then when your in this mind state she WILL be attracted to you. It gets her on your wavelength and willing to follow your lead... ideally to a bed or a date or whatever your next step is.
The thing with this is it can be hard to master, but essentially it comes from you having 3 things:
- sexual intent
- confidence
- physical energy
- sexual intent - you have to feel and know you want this girl SEXUALLY, none of this friendly first or trying to go under the radar bullshit, you gotta literally in yourself feel turned on cos after all you are trying to transfer your emotional state, and if you don't feel it she won't. This to comes from actually having that sexual energy in yourself and owning it and not being ashamed so you can allow it to come through in your behavior,
- confidence - this is crucial because if you don't feel confident in yourself, if you don't feel WORTHY of this girl then you will naturally be hesitant with eye contact and other body language cues but thats a whole other topic and this intensity topic is more for people who struggle to make things sexual. In simple terms though, confidence comes from the belief you are on her level, in fact everyones level and no one is better than you.
- physical energy - this one is also super important but is a lot more basic, how are you gonna be intense and giving off the vibe you wanna fuck if you seem like you're bout to fall asleep or something
the good thing about this is, its' all sub-communication so you don't even need to say anything sexual but you'll probably end up doing it anyway if you're in this headspace.
Anyway, thats the general point, i've realized this idea because i've done years of nightclub game and if you don't have that intensity (NOT CRAZY MANIC ENERGY BY THE WAY) then you won't get through the background noise and you won't actually keep her attention or get things going where you want.
You have to be in the zone of "I'm a Gangster and I'm gonna have your ass now" and girls just feel it, it's essentially the combination of confidence and sexual intent. You gotta have both but I feel a lot of guys focus all on confidence but forget about sexual intent and so they end up having hilarious, fun FRIENDLY conversations that go nowhere with women.
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