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What word is blanked out after "One"?
/r/RedPillWives02/09/18 12:04 AM
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Reading: Faith of the Fallen by Terry Goodkind Making: Hugs and Kisses crochet baby blanket Watching: American Ninja Warrior Listening: Any sad playlist in Spotify I can find 😂
/r/RedPillWives18/08/18 02:20 PM
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I think that would be wonderful! I love Pinterest for how easy it is to follow, and I think a private FB group would be a really good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 06:16 PM
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Actually, this story is the first time a pussy pass was used in a good way. 😂
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/17 06:29 PM
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Thank you for the response. I was also on anti-anxiety meds the first time I was on anti-depressants, but I quit them when my cardiologist realized that the 'anxiety attacks' I was having was actually tachycardia. We fixed that surgically and that's when I dropped those meds. I have never been to counselling, but I have heard that if I were to take medicine it would be recommended. I just feel like I'm at the end of my rope, and have exhausted all other options. Hopefully I'll be able to find so…
/r/RedPillWives29/04/17 12:21 AM
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This definitely is a last resort option for me. I have the amazing privileged of being a SAHM, which affords me the opportunity to be outside working in the garden, make balanced healthy meals for my family, and exercise. I feel like there's nothing else I can do to alleviate the imbalance. Like you said, I feel it being chemical, and I feel like I'm detached from myself. I'll sit there crying uncontrollably, while at the same time trying to explain to my husband that I'm NOT mad or sad at him a…
/r/RedPillWives28/04/17 03:25 PM
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What does RPWi think about anti-depressants? I've come to a point in my self-improvement journey where I realize a big part of self-care I need is counselling and more than likely prescription anti-depressants. I was on one a few years back, but weaned myself off because I didn't like the way that drug made me feel physically. I've talked to my OB and a counselor, and they agree that it's something I need to look into. I feel like I don't have many people to talk to about it since my family is s…
/r/RedPillWives28/04/17 02:20 PM
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My husband is a kitchen manager, so yesterday was the busiest day of his year. He worked pretty much 9am-11pm. I made him some bacon roses (https://imgur.com/gallery/fLjbU) and brought them to him for a snack. When he got home he gave me 6 roses, so I call that a win. We're pretty low maintenance. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 03:32 PM
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Normally I'd agree with you, but hear me out and let me know what you think about my theory. Wouldn't saying something akin to "My penis doesn't work right" be counterintuitive if he were trying to enter a sexual relationship with her? It sounds more like he regards her in the "family" sense than a possible lay. The only situation I could see saying something like that to be the means to a sexual end would be if he were playing to the woman's want to "fix him" or prove him wrong... But that stil…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 12:48 AM
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I wouldn't label myself as a traditional conservative, but I suppose it's close. I'm a civic nationalist with family ties to some of the South's more unsavory groups, so I grew up with a certain bias. I am open to liberal concepts (I am pro-choice, support marriage equality, want freedom of or from religion) but also have little tolerance for more of the CTRL-Left concepts like 3rd wave feminism, giving hormones to children, or legalization of marijuana.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 11:18 PM
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Fellow coconuts represent!
/r/RedPillWives15/10/16 06:00 PM
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I suggest Moogly.com for your refresher! One of the best websites for crochet I've found, and she had YouTube tutorials and a Facebook group as well!
/r/RedPillWives09/10/16 09:46 AM
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My great grandmother made so many things with crochet but no one else learned in my family. Everyone says I'm "so much like her", so I decided to give crochet a try. Took to it like a duck to water and now I'm addicted! I'm not quite as good as my great grandmother, but maybe when I have 80 years to practice I will be. 😀
/r/RedPillWives08/10/16 10:00 AM
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Not weird! I do the same thing most of the time. Either the baby or the little girl or the crochet project I'm working on take up my time. Then when he gets home I'll say "I missed you", which he responds with "Then why didn't you tell me?". Men are so fickle! 😂
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 11:15 PM
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Well, that was hypothetical. We have gone in the past, but my husband has no desire to frequent strip clubs. My real question was about your 'check your motives' comment. 😀
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 10:31 PM
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Question! As far as what your motives are (treat or 'tricking him into thinking about you vs the booty), does it actually make a difference, if you stick to the single sext rule mentioned in the original post? Everyone's hamster runs (or at least paces) little at times, and him being at a strip club world certainly be something that would jump start that for me. If you send him something naughty, there are only two outcomes: he replies, or he doesn't. It would be up to us to deal with either. I …
/r/RedPillWives07/10/16 09:23 PM
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But that song is about heroin...
/r/RedPillWives13/09/16 01:07 AM
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It's a lot easier to destroy someone's self-confidence than it is to build it up. It might take a hundred times of showing him you trust him for it to really stick. If you're ready to work for it and try, I wish you the best of luck. It sounds a little like you're already feeling like the situation is hopeless, though. As far as his parents go, maybe they aren't too thrilled about how you have approached your SO in the past about issues, whether they're 'right' about those feelings or not. Once …
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 06:04 PM
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Perhaps only telling him isn't enough? I've had the same issue with proving I trust my husband. I suggest moving forward, and maybe looking for an opportunity for them to spend some quality time. Double points if you can use your free time to do something for yourself! i.e. "I'm going out to get a haircut/work out/shopping for a few hours. Could you guys hold down the fort for me while I'm gone?" You're showing you trust him, and actions are a lot harder to misinterpret.
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 02:51 PM
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If it was a one time incident, chalk it up to a learning experience for all three of you. If he thinks you're wary of him spending time with your boy, it might be because you only told him how much you disliked what happened and neglected to forgive him afterwards. Men have an uncanny ability to know when we are still holding something against them or harboring bad feelings.
/r/RedPillWives13/08/16 12:10 PM
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Thank you. I've done some serious reflection and decided that it is in our best interest that I go ahead and do that. If he grows to resent me for it, so be it. I would rather have him living and mad at me than see him die, or have our kids grow up without a father. I thought I lost him in 2009. The grief was overwhelming. I don't want our family to go through that again.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 07:50 PM
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He doesn't want it brought up. He told me that explicitly. When he was hospitalized in 2009, no one outside his family knew what the real cause was.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 06:03 PM
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None of our friends know about the severity of it, or even that it's happening. It's not something he wants other people to know about.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 06:01 PM
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Everything I possibly can. I don't bring it up publicly. I tell him that I'm proud of how he has made an effort to better himself. I make myself available to him. Not sure what else I could do when he was feeling more embarrassed for himself than I ever was for him. Do you have any suggestions?
/r/askMRP12/08/16 05:56 PM
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That was referring to askTRP, sorry.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 05:54 PM
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I have kept myself from nagging him or doing it for him for fear of him hating me afterwards, or permanently labeling myself a "nagging bitch" like the majority of women in my family are. Your post made me realize that I would rather be a nagging bitch with him alive, than a 26-year-old widow. Thanks for that reality check. I'll wait till the end of the day (he said he would call), and if he hasn't made the appointment, I might just go on and do it for him. It's definitely something I'm going to…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 05:53 PM
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I think he is embarrassed that he is in this position to begin with and it'd easier for him to ignore it than to accept there's a serious problem that needs to be fixed.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 05:37 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 05:12 PM
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RPW is good about giving advice for what they think a woman should do, but I was more curious about what a man would prefer done. I have tried in the past telling him that it scares me, and that the children and I need him. I'll try bringing it up at a more intimate time, though. As far as being okay with the possibility of him choosing to do nothing, I accept I can't control him, but I don't think I could ever be "okay" with losing my husband over something like this.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 05:04 PM
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His older sister has tried talking to him, but has so many other things going on that she either doesn't "care" anymore, or he disregards what she says. His younger brother refuses to talk to him about it. I agree that repeating myself would useless and only add more stress. I just feel like if I give up completely, I'm being a shitty wife.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 04:31 PM
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Thank you so much for this post! I read it this morning, and not even two hours afterwards, had my own little experience. https://sli.mg/a/VvB6rZ Your post helped remind me that it's not about me, and with that fresh in my mind I was able to support my own hubby!
/r/RedPillWives04/08/16 03:17 PM
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Already done. He just looked at me like I was crazy (I am) and nodded back off. Sent hubby a sexy text after reading your post, though. Thanks for the reminder!
/r/RedPillWives15/07/16 04:02 PM
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emoji emoji emoji " I laughed way too hard at that and woke up the baby. 😂
/r/RedPillWives15/07/16 03:51 PM
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I am more attentive and affectionate after having the baby than I was the entire pregnancy. We both commented on how much closer we feel after going through labor and the "magic hour". We make out and flirt and play like teenagers. However, saying that the baby is more important than him, or he more than the baby, is rediculous. Which is more important to you, your hand or your foot? They are equally important but both needed and appreciated differently. And honestly, saying my husband is jealou…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 10:41 PM
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I wasn't peaceful within when I asked him that. It was midnight by that point, and I was tired. I think I asked as neutrally as possible, but I was also holding back tears. If I was really bothering him, it was completely unintentional. All I wanted to do was feed the baby and put him to sleep. And no, he doesn't call our daughter names. He adores and spoils her, even. Hopefully, this will stop soon and none of us will ever call each other names. Thank you for your insight. I'll work on being mo…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 07:16 PM
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He has a few coworkers who are new dads, but he's not really close to them. One is a muscle head philanderer and the other is a slacking pothead, neither of which he has any respect for. Both of us have a bit of an issue finding and maintaining close friends, him a little more than me. I wish there was an easy way to find a 'new dads' club for him.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 06:59 PM
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For some background on that, I had never heard him say it. He actually got mad at ME when I was pregnant and before for talking like one playfully with him. He said it "was horrible and if you act like that karma is going to bite you in the ass". So the word doesn't bother me; what bothers me is that I KNOW he hates that word and its connotation and he used it anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 06:20 PM
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That's something he would have to do for himself. I can't make him exercise or eat right when he's not at home, and it isn't my place to tell him to do any of that. Is there maybe a way to give him the information he would need without me ordering him to look into it?
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 06:15 PM
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Thank you! I will not do that. The more I thought about it, the more it seemed like a good way to begin a fight.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 06:12 PM
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I guess the best example was last night when I asked if something was bothering him and he snapped "You!". That was the first and only thing I said after he called the baby a fucker. I try very hard not to attack, because I learned early on it would end up badly. But sometimes just addressing that there is an issue is enough to make him defensive.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 06:07 PM
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I honestly hope not. At 34, I feel like he has enough life experience to know better, and I tell him every day how proud I am of him and how much he means to me.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 05:59 PM
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Since the beginning I have made it a point to encourage him. I think I will a little more today once he gets home from work. We didn't talk too much this morning because I was still too hurt and didn't want to go hyper-emotional on him. After reading these wonderful replies, I feel a lot more calm and think I can go back to being a loving and supportive wife. I've always been his number 1 cheerleader, and maybe a little extra encouragement will help this pass quickly.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 05:57 PM
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He said the baby was drinking like a retard when the baby had stopped crying and was going hard after the bottle. He called him a fucker while I was nursing the baby. This wasn't in the heat of the moment or a crying spell. Things were relatively calm.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 05:36 PM
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This behavior is somewhat new. He's talked harshly to me before, but I always felt it was either justified or not big enough of a deal to make a scene about it. I never heard him call anyone names before, especially 'retard'.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 05:23 PM
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Number two is dead wrong. I actually dreaded having an infant, because I remember how terrible those sleep deprived, crying with the baby nights were. I told him my experience before hand, trying my hardest not to let him go in blind. But I never, never said anything like that to either of my babies. If anything, my frustration was directed at myself and I thought I was a shit mother because my little girl wouldn't stop crying. Right now we're pretty much alone in that regard. I've asked if he w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 05:02 PM
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We did speak about it, and we made plans. However, with him lacking the actual experience, I think saying what we will do is a lot harder than him actually following through.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 04:52 PM
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When I found out I was pregnant with my little girl, her biological father said he didn't want to be a parent. I respected his decision and spent about a year in "monk mode" while raising my daughter alone. Once my husband and I got serious, he stepped in as a father figure automatically and we have always referred to her as "ours". I honestly don't think he'd become violent, but even getting comfortable with ugly name calling is too much for me.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 04:18 PM
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He did go to the gym a year or so ago, and has commented about wanting to go back since he's still paying for a membership, but has yet to do so. His main hobby is selling off his cards he's collected over the year, and going to shows or private sales is the most that gets him out other than work. I'll try to ask about the bullying, and hope it doesn't start a fight. He has the tendency to get very defensive and tries to turn most things around on other people.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 04:14 PM
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He is being a good father, but he says these things within earshot of our daughter, who is 6. I don't want her picking up on that, because she would remember that. I guess something worth mentioning is that his father was abusive towards his mother (who has mental health problems). I don't know if it started with little naggings or insults like that, or if it was always physically abusive but part of me is wary of him accidentally falling into that pattern and this becoming a bigger issue later …
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 04:05 PM
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He doesn't have many guy friends. The only new dads he talks to are at his work. He's the kitchen manager and doesn't feel too connected to his employees on a personal level. I think it would benefit him to spend more time with his brother, but his brother doesn't seem too interested. :( Since we've had the baby, most of our attention goes there. Since I'm breastfeeding on demand, I get nervous about being gone too long. The baby is still very dependent on me. I know he is frustrated, but I need…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 04:01 PM
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