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I will admit a 9/11 Spongebob picture is not what I ever expected to find on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:52 PM
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Yeah. Asking men to feel guilty over what other men did is like asking women to feel guilty for Margaret Thatcher.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:11 AM
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This to be honest. I've seen women do a lot to get a fraction of a very attractive guy's attention. I've seen women give the most tepid of responses to the full attention of a regular guy. A relationship where both parties are not mutually attracted to each other is usually awful and should not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:24 AM
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Yeah they can make what they want and I'm fine with them doing their own thing It's their annoying advertisement techniques that piss me off. But that's not necessarily an Only fans only thing, that's just advertisements in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:42 PM
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I don't have a problem with them. I do have a problem with them approaching people online and talking to them to get them to subscribe, or going on dating apps to promote the OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:29 PM
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Yes they're absolutely worse. You get to be rejected in real time just like the apps, except you pay money to do it. You know how the top few men get most of the attention? That's how it is at those events, and it feels like 100% of your attention is worth less than 20% of theirs. At least with dating apps I can get rejected at home for free, instead of going out and paying to get turned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:45 AM
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"The way I think about a lot of men at this point is probably similar to the way lions behave. Male lions do pretty much nothing. He fights other males for his spot and relies on the females to get work done." You should realize that male lions do a very important job of defending the pride's territory from competitors like hyenas. And yes, hyena groups can actually pose a large threat to lions and lion cubs, and are able to steal kills from lion prides.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:04 PM
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I've done speed dating and singles events and the dating apps are basically played in real life there There's a small handful of guys who the women all want, and a few women who pick 1 of the remaining guys. When the women are not made to talk to the regular men by the rules they don't. It's very disheartening and it honestly feels like 20% of a top man's attention is worth more than 100% of a regular bloke's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:12 AM
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Pretty uncomfortable if I didn't settle for them too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:00 PM
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It's just a nice thing to have someone sympathetic to your issues. A lot of people appreciate such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:54 PM
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I always found in these hypotheticals, add a "black" in front of all the men/male/man/etc and the scenario suddenly becomes extraordinarily racist and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:52 PM
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That video is obviously a skit But in a real scenario I'd say offering sex overtly like that to anyone is gross and the woman is in the wrong for doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:51 PM
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Set the bar wherever you want Just expect others to do the same for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:04 AM
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Have the standards you want I'll have mine and you'll have yours, respect mine and I'll respect yours
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:36 PM
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Well one trait I find both men and women agree on is no smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:22 AM
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The end goal is to get more women interested in the men who are telling them to lower their standards. But they shouldn't lower their standards if others demand it. Women should lower their standards if they want to, and that's that. A decision like standards is not something someone can lower unless they genuinely want to. However from my experience lowering my own standards, it doesn't create the healthiest of dynamics. So honestly? I say keep the standards high as you want. If no one meets it…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:20 AM
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Speed dating is the same. They don't want success because it means their customers leave. Except it's worse because you need to pay to even try speed dating. Anything that tries to portray itself as "for single people to find love" is really a mechanism to keep people just desperate enough for their platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:13 AM
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Men early on who aren't very attractive don't have many options for frequent sex. They can't even use prostitution if their income isn't high enough so that won't work as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:55 PM
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I suppose you could consider it chivalrous but I'm not a knight of the round table here. Women have never really helped me all that much outside my family, so I don't think I'd be hankering to help random women much either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:42 PM
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I wouldn't do either of those things for a woman friend just cause I'm a guy I would pump and pay for gas if a friend drove me someplace because that's them doing me a favor. But not because they're a woman. I ain't walking on the outside, if I end up on the outside while walking that's fine but I'm not going to intentionally do it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:37 AM
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Romantic relationship, no Casual sex relationship, yes As for raising a kid, I suppose they just take turns like a divorced couple
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:34 AM
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There's many batshit crazy Republicans in the US who are women. Margaret Thatcher in the UK was a woman when she lived. Yet group guilt never applies to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:38 AM
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I like how you have "people" in the title but almost exclusively speak of men doing it in the OP. It gives the impression of being a clickbait headline.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:23 AM
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I thought by the title you were talking about couples into actual cuckolding where the wife fucks another dude and the husband watches I feel like what you label as cuck men is an improper use of terminology
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:33 PM
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Okay well, I've found I've never tried to treat someone lesser for being attractive. I was always upfront if I wasn't interested and never insulted them for their unattractiveness. I cannot say the same for other men, but my experience with women is that they treat men they find unattractive with the fake niceness. So that's my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:31 PM
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I've found there is a lot of "fake niceness" from women. I've been on dates where the woman is very pleasant, polite, and then she unmatches or ghosts out of the blue. I'll be honest, ghosting like that is very rude and pretty bad treatment- just text that you're not interested. However I do not know if it's purely physical attraction or not as she may have found my personality incompatible during the date so take it with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:57 PM
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True but I noticed people were calling Ukraine on the same level as Afghanistan and Saudi Arabia here. So I thought okay, bring up another country that many people consider civilized and safe (since there's lots of tourists in SK).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:15 PM
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You should also add South Korea having mandatory military service for men. It's also a very Western aligned country too, so you can't argue it's a backwards ass place like Afghanistan or Saudi Arabia for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:08 PM
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South Korea has mandatory military service for men I believe, and they actually are forced to do it for a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:56 PM
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I might've appreciated dating young so I could realize how flaky some people can be
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:11 AM
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Would the only solution be escorts, for the average man to sort of experience his own fun? Average dudes can't pull girls for casual sex easily. But they can pay an escort. And escorts are usually very good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:01 AM
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I went to a speed dating event. 20 women, 10 men. You'd think every man would talk to at least one woman after? Wrong. There was the 5 minutes with each person, where the woman was socially obligated to speak with a man. And then after everyone had a turn speaking to everyone else, there was some free time that anyone can talk to anyone. All the women crowded around the 2 most attractive/wealthy dudes (I talked to one before and his job was a very high paying one) and talked to them. Approaching…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:35 AM
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That would require they deal with being rejected and that isn't something most people enjoy experiencing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:04 PM
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Social status? A lot of people like to get married for the optics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:41 PM
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People make whatever stuff suits their fantasy. Like Adam Sandler and all the movies he is in where his character has a wife that's way hotter than he is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:06 PM
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You can set your price as high as you want for something, just don't complain if there's no one buying it at that price
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 11:21 PM
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Why don't you film yourself approaching several men trying to hook up with them? I mean, you want men to risk rejection right? So you should be willing to risk it yourself too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:31 AM
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I've seen it on speed dating. 10 dudes, 20 girls. Free time after the speed dating to talk to whoever you want. You would think every guy would have at least 1 girl who wanted to talk to them. But no, all the girls gathered around 2 of the dudes and ignored the other 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:00 PM
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sure, if she shows me all her past Internet posts too give me those cringe 13 year old philosophy posts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:16 PM
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Just make your own equivalent? Like, "women prefer non-overweight men with stable jobs and who aren't terminally online"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:15 AM
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I will give her as much detail on my sexual history as she gives me on hers. Fair is fair. If she wants me to go into detail on what I did with an escort, she better be ready to give me details on what she did with another guy. In fact, if you're asking for someone's sexual history, you should offer your own first. Since you're the one initiating the topic, you have to show you're honest and forthcoming by putting your own history out first. Now, I don't think 99% of women would ever agree to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:03 AM
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By the OP's logic: Evolutionarily men should not reproduce with women who have difficulties giving birth or whose ancestors had such issues (such as needing C-sections or other surgical interventions), since those women are genetic failures whose lineages only survived this far due to medical technology. Also men should reject any woman who has had any surgical work to make her look better or who wears makeup, because those women are genetic failures who need medical technology or artificial enh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:53 AM
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No because I'm allergic to pollen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:02 AM
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I feel like non-top tier men are invisible at those events until suddenly no guys show up at all, and then suddenly not having any guys attend has the women complain. The 1 or 2 attractive guys find someone so they aren't returning, and the others don't feel like blowing their money to have women only speak to them out of obligation for the event before being ignored. I talked a bit with the new friends I made. They all agreed they felt the women were just humouring them until they get a chance …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:23 AM
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