theloneliestpua Archive

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–	Stop what you're doing and ask yourself, am I mentally healthy? On top of the inner game aspects that therapy can help with, I would say that at least in my experience it also helped me to discern why exactly I pursued women so relentlessly (read: virgin to 40+ sexual partners within 3 years). Since working on my self through different avenues, including therapy, I feel like I have a much healthier attitude towards seduction and women more generally. And while I'm not gaming anywhere near as many ladies as I used to, I now attract more quality women in a muc…	/r/seduction	18/10/18 08:44 AM
2	I began meditating in order to move towards banging a ton of women all the time, but now after about 5 months of meditating I am more interested in just finding a girlfriend Yep.	/r/seduction	31/07/18 01:15 AM
4	Sleeping with girls is actually very simple. Ew. Only a small percentage of men want to sleep with that many women.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 01:56 PM
–	We All Derp Sometimes Solid post.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 01:15 PM
1	Stop Texting Her! NOICE.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 09:27 AM
1	10 Years of PUA: A More Nuanced Case of One-itis Fantastic advice. Thank you very, very much.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 08:59 AM
–	10 Years of PUA: A More Nuanced Case of One-itis Yeah I do mention this in another comment - I’m really not a PUA at all. I have just always followed the community and value its advice. I also just have a personal aversion to using the terminologies most of the time.	/r/seduction	19/07/18 05:59 PM
–	10 Years of PUA: A More Nuanced Case of One-itis Nice. Have you got any material you could link me to on the early stages of relationship building, or I suppose general dating advice. I’m guessing by vetting and screening you mean about her general situation etc? Semi-recently out of a long-term relationship. Doesn’t want to rebound into a fully formed thing right away in order to fully heal/not taint a new relationship. Wants to date and have nice/fun times and see where it goes; I’m happy with this IF the communication patterns start to work…	/r/seduction	19/07/18 05:41 PM
2	10 Years of PUA: A More Nuanced Case of One-itis I like that response. I do lose my head when I fall for a woman, it’s something I’ve always struggled with but I am glad that I can still feel that rush for a quality woman - it’s only happened ~3 times during the last two years where I have been single. Regardless, thank you for reminding me that I should continue to work on my overall self even, and perhaps especially so, when I develop the feels.	/r/seduction	19/07/18 05:25 PM
1	We made eye Contact so I Decided to Flirt with You - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 38 Nice, this is awesome.	/r/seduction	19/07/18 03:50 PM
3	10 Years of PUA: A More Nuanced Case of One-itis It's all the same my brother. This is the trap I was in for years - I thought endlessly watching content would flick a switch in me. And maybe it did to some extent, but I definitely think there are diminishing returns. Max looks great, I would probably go for The Natural program if I were starting today. I think he has a good healthy approach to game relative to some others. I also like Todd.	/r/seduction	19/07/18 03:49 PM
–	10 Years of PUA: A More Nuanced Case of One-itis I bought Julien's PIMP program but didn't end up watching any of it. I also went to a HotSeat which I thought was actually really useful and entertaining, but I don't think it's necessary at all. It really is all experience. Then again, I do feel like a bit of a fraud lumping myself in as a PUA - I basically watched all of RSD's videos in a dark room for 4 years and then something clicked and I became a quasi-natural. So I can't really help you there to be honest. But if I were to start over aga…	/r/seduction	19/07/18 03:43 PM
–	Any advice on going out solo? Let's go out boi. But yeah, if you are going to do this then I like all of the old RSD advice: 1) Establish 'friend' groups around the venue you're at to pop in and out of between approaches - this allows you to get out of your head and not be overwhelmed. Also, the social lubrication it provides is golden in my experience. 2) Try to enjoy yourself. If you drink, drink. Have new experiences. Go wild. 3) Smoking areas. I don't think I have ever pulled a single girl with a wingman. I just go off a…	/r/seduction	19/07/18 03:32 PM