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And you think I'm the first in this discussion to do so? Goodbye.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/19 07:55 PM
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I think you give her too much credit when you assert that her comments reflect a genuine and specific understanding of the troubles besetting the gay community. https://patch.com/img/cdn20/users/22878230/20160615/060853/styles/raw/public/article_images/ckswjfvuoaalroh.jpg Being a gay man, I think I'm the one who gets to decide that. I think they reflect a perhaps unconscious sexism on her part, I think you are a hammer, so everything looks like a nail to you. And I think you start an awful lot o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/19 05:05 PM
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Yes. Both are true. I am a fan and have biased opinions of her comments because she earned it with me. I don't have as strongly good an opinion of my other senator, even though he was a well liked congressman here and is doing a perfectly good job as senator.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/19 02:00 AM
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You clearly don't know her very well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/19 09:44 PM
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As a gay man, I'd assume it was a guy too, because 99% of the people who give that particular insult that she was talking about are guys. Women tend to blather on about god or disgustingess (without mentioning anything in specific) or such, but when someone makes that particular complaint, it's almost always a guy, so in this case, it wasn't so much her being sexist, as her knowing enough about it to know that the bigots are usually sexist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/19 07:47 PM
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When I saw you were providing links, my first thought was "how many hyperlinks before he links to Warren Farrell?" 3. Warren Farrell is an idiot. If you'd ever done work with women who are victims of domestic violence, you'd know why women are often just not counted, so there are no good statistics on the matter.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/19 11:15 AM
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But actually being a victim of direct violence, like when he got hit in the head with a sign, mostly happens to men. It happens to both genders. Men are generally up front about it, while women generally try to hide it so you don't hear about it and you don't count it. I don't think it's correct to say that women have it worse, but I don't think it's correct to say that men have it worse either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/19 10:02 AM
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I don't want to be sitting near anyone of any gender who relates to that. Honestly I think it's far too silly. (Insert Graham Chapman here.) Yeah, I can see not wanting to encourage such people, but if that's really how they feel they need to get rid of almost every previous batman movie on the basis of the same argument, and while I can see the case that Triumph of the Will is garbage and shouldn't be generally viewed, I think saying the same about Batman and associated characters is really jus…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/19 10:00 AM
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I had one employer first fire a woman who worked for me, over my very strenuous objections (which only ended when they told me to shut up about it or I'd be fired too), and then accuse me of misogyny. (I forwarded to them copies of the emails of me objecting to it, and their emails telling me I'd be fired if I didn't shut up about it.) I'm a manager in programming departments. When I've had an open position, the first thing I do with the pile of resumes I get is eliminate all those that aren't r…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/19 07:14 PM
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I ran their alumni and fundraising database.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/19 07:19 PM
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I was fired from my job at Harvard, over the objections of literally everyone in the staff, by the dean, who told them at a staff meeting (out of my earshot) "I think I'd like to have a woman in that position." They all advised me to sue Harvard and her (and without me even asking half of them offered to testify), but instead I just charged them a lot for consulting services to do the same job after my replacement turned out to be incompetent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/19 09:43 AM
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This should be enough data: https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/9/93/Total_deaths_in_US_mass_shootings.png If that doesn't convince you, I recommend you not go out in public without adult assistance.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/19 12:39 AM
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Yeah, mass shootings are another thing. I don't quite know why they're increasing in frequency, but I'm actually pretty skeptical it's because of Trump. Recent mass murderers have said outright that they were inspired by Trump. One of them released a photo before the shooting of the word "Trump" spelled out of guns. https://opmagazine.media/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/trump-1024x518.jpg Trump himself is blaming it on mental illness, but he is personally responsible for revoking rules which would …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/19 07:06 PM
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He made it normal again. Yeah, it was always there, but at least for a while racists knew that openly expressing their racism would be social death and didn't feel empowered to murder people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/19 11:20 AM
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The fact that racism has become normal in this country again is deplorable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/19 10:08 PM
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No doubt. I seem to get downvoted every time I comment on this sub, I've come to just expect it. It says it's for "left wing male advocates" but it seems to be for "right wing male bigots who want to bitch about how badly white males are treated and blame all their woes on women but still claim to be left wing".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/19 10:01 AM
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I moved into a new area where what feels like half the women are lesbians. Where is it? My lesbian friends will want to know. With machines taking our jobs and college statics showing that we are falling behind in school it feels like we have no reason to exist. There's something I came to believe as a small child, and as a middle aged computer programmer I still believe: any job that can be taken by a computer is so stupid that no human being should be saddled with doing that job anyway, becaus…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/19 06:48 AM
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It would be interesting to see a study of how much they care about the education itself versus how much they care about the perceived income of people who have the education they care about. In other words, is caring about the education a primary problem, or is it a secondary symptom of caring about the person's income?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/19 09:46 PM
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Second time you've referred to the disabled yourself as cripples. FTFY. Hate speech. Reported. ROTFLMAO!!! Grow up and smell the coffee!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/19 09:23 PM
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Ah, so you think Orange Man did all that then?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/19 09:21 PM
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Find me a left wing newspaper showing the same awareness of young men's problems and i will gladly link to it. https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/11/style/rock-masculinity-men-emotions.html https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/30/opinion/sunday/boys-men-violence.html https://www.nytimes.com/2019/07/30/style/theyre-mad-as-hell.html https://www.nytimes.com/2019/04/03/learning/what-is-hard-about-being-a-boy.html https://tinyurl.com/y4247u82 That took me about 3 seconds to find. (buffs nails) Gee, that was …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/19 03:42 PM
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Yeah, I'm a cripple. I'd show you a pic of me walking with my cane, but I make a point not to doxx myself. And I find it is to my benefit for me to call myself "a cripple" instead of "differently abled" or some such bullshit, both because I strongly believe in facing reality and because the shock value of it (and I'm not unaware that it has shock value) helps people to see that I'm not interested in being coddled and that it's okay to just talk to me like a human being rather than walking on egg…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/19 03:33 PM
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Please show me where I mentioned orange man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/19 03:29 PM
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so instead of citing where i'm wrong you resort to attacks? You know, at some point, you've managed to show me that I can't be bothered to answer every little detail you say, because I already see I can't expect a coherent response and that you're not paying attention. Some people read to comprehend, and some read to respond. When I'm dealing with the latter I lose interest in answering what they have to say. and you also haven't answered me. Nor do I intend to. You don't have that much respect …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/19 08:19 AM
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And honestly. I don't see anywhere that the point is made that we should revert to the past. And that, in a nutshell, is what is wrong with you. You shouldn't reject an idea just because of it's source. As a middle aged crippled gay atheist, I learned that that particular argument (not rejecting an idea because of its source) is bullshit about 40 years ago. Incidentally if you want people to take what you have to say seriously, you need to learn to use correct homophones.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/19 05:50 AM
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No, I don't. I read it all, and the article seems to be about pushing the idea that "this is the fault of the liberal agenda", rather than "here's a problem, let's look at how to fix it." It gives big lip service to "yes, racism and misogyny are real problems" but then in every case goes on to say that it's the fault of trying to deal with them that we have become a misandrist society and things were just so much better for men in the past (in a time when women and black people were horribly dis…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/19 04:12 AM
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I got as far as "Many pointed to the relatively new buzz phrase 'toxic masculinity' as emblematic of the liberal and media elite’s reflexive contempt," before I said "oh yeah, this is published by the NY Post, they're a right wing rag more interested in pushing their political viewpoint than in reality." As soon as something starts bitching about "media elite" I know it's full of shit. Bluntly, this is supposed to be a discussion for left wing male advocates, and you've given us a right wing scr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/19 03:30 AM
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Uh... what are FGM and MGM? I'm assuming you don't mean the movie company...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/19 07:54 PM
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The left wing solution should be to value the person by brining back socially enforced "for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health, till death to us part" values. Or not. Another left wing position would be to decide that it's perfectly okay for young people to be randy and to hook up, and that if someone chooses to be a "nice guy" and not hook up that's their own decision and they have to accept the consequences with the actions, and not all young men are going to be seen as attractiv…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/19 02:35 PM
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Holy shit are you an idiot. Holy shit, I grammar. Trump did no such thing. At a rally, one of his opponents used innuendo that suggested Trump had a small dick and the media piled on, having a grand ol time. Do you know what I say when someone ridicules the size of my privates? "It's none of your business." Everything further is inappropriate. (ask Bernie about that) No, you ask him. Here's what he has to say about her: http://www.cnn.com/2016/07/11/politics/hillary-clinton-bernie-sanders/ Trump…
/r/MensRights21/08/16 07:57 AM
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Get off of treason with the Hillary defence. Some more constructive criticism: when you sling around the word "treason" with obviously not the slightest clue of the meaning of the word, you make yourself look like an idiot. Some research and saying what you mean instead would do better at advancing your argument.
/r/MensRights19/08/16 08:08 PM
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They put up a Donald doll with no balls and a micro penis and we are the haters? When he brought up the size of his endowment out of the blue in a debate, he made it a legitimate campaign issue for discussion or ridicule. His choice. I don't see Hillary remarking on her breast size. I do, however, see a lot of negative remarks about her appearance, even though she hasn't made an issue of it.
/r/MensRights19/08/16 07:59 PM
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"typo" short for "typographical error", a misspelling due to typographical error, not due to some other cause one randomly wishes to attribute to that. If I mean to say "red" and instead I say "blue", that's not a typographical error, I didn't mistype it, that's just wrong.
/r/MensRights19/08/16 06:46 PM
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In the 70s, I learned to be a feminist - "Free to be you and me" and all. In the 00's, I learned to be a mens rights activist. I was still a feminist, in the 70s sense I had learned, that I believe in the equality of men and women and apart from some biological functions any man or woman can do anything. However, feminism had left me behind, and my 70s feminism is no longer the misandrist feminism of today. That said, the MRA community has made a real point of being sexist assholes that I have a…
/r/MensRights19/08/16 06:43 PM
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Actually, they do, that's why it's called a "typo".
/r/MensRights19/08/16 10:48 AM
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Oh and... no thanks, you're not my type. I prefer to blow people who have a dick.
/r/MensRights19/08/16 10:27 AM
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I don't for a moment believe "satair" is a typo. Particularly since the letters aren't remotely near each other on the keyboard.
/r/MensRights19/08/16 10:27 AM
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Satair Satair? SATAIR? ROTFLMAO Satire. Try not to make yourself look like such a fool.
/r/MensRights19/08/16 10:20 AM
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Hillary doesn't go around protesting to all who will listen how virile she is, how big her endowment is, or what size her hands are. She also isn't known for wearing an obvious wig or painting herself to look like an oompa loompa. Frankly, Trump's own remarks and behavior invited this sort of thing. My only real complaint about it is that it's painfully obvious. In every other regard, it's a pretty good gag. I especially like the way they made them just materialize across the country overnight. …
/r/MensRights19/08/16 10:19 AM
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A friend of mine was divorcing in MA. He and his wife had made an agreement 17 years before that he gave up his great career to take care of their child, while she kept her great career and supported the family. She made a few hundred thousand dollars per year, and he made nothing, and he had been out of his field for so long the tools had totally changed and he was no longer able to work in the field, even though he had been a director before he left to be a house husband. At the divorce, her l…
/r/MensRights15/08/16 03:24 AM
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Proof or you're a dirty liar.
/r/MensRights26/07/16 06:34 AM
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You're talking heterosexual marriages. 24% of gay male marriages fail. 18% of lesbian marriages fail. We don't want to prohibit heterosexuals from marrying, but perhaps they should look to us for how we're successful.
/r/MensRights26/07/16 06:34 AM
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It's Breitbart. They lie all the time. If it's so easy to check them against other sites, why not just use a link to one of those other sites? Rotten Tomatoes shows it as the #3 movie in theaters this week, with 73% of critics like it. Doesn't sound like a total flop to me. I was at the theater seeing something else this weekend, and as my movie let out, Ghostbusters also let out in one of its (four) theaters, and there were a lot of happy people in the hallway. And some friends I respect saw it…
/r/MensRights25/07/16 07:35 PM
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How about a legitimate source? If breitbart said tomorrow will be sunny, I'd start looking for my umbrella.
/r/MensRights25/07/16 08:47 AM
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I go for very few things as well and that has more to do with my lack of interest in seeing it than anything else. I think I'll go see "the secret life of pets" sometime this week. I saw "finding dory" last week. This is a huge month for movies for me, I don't think I've seen two in the same month for a number of years.
/r/MensRights18/07/16 08:35 PM
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I'm just not really interested in it. I'm also not really interested in re-watching the original right now. I'll probably see the new one someday, I just don't care to right now.
/r/MensRights18/07/16 08:34 PM
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None of my friends did.
/r/MensRights18/07/16 08:29 PM
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All of my friends who have seen it (about an even split of genders) loved it. I'm not planning to see it because I'm not especially interested. YMMV.
/r/MensRights18/07/16 04:26 PM
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*Fined FTFY. (If we want others to take our complaints seriously, we need to get the little details right.)
/r/MensRights06/07/16 05:24 AM
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The time to be compassionate and logical is not when someone has just approached you in public in order to be a royal asshole to you.
/r/MensRights27/06/16 03:17 AM
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Saving Private Ryan is his biggest, most successful and critically acclaimed movie. Ok, where do I find some statistics on this? Cloud Atlas isn't even top 5. Maybe even top 10 of his movies. It may, however, be the one he is most intimately associated with, as he personally lobbied all the investors to invest in the movie, and he played 5 roles in it.
/r/MensRights26/06/16 09:39 PM
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This does not entitle you to simply substitute "all" and argue with what you wish us to imagine was said, instead of what was actually said.
/r/MensRights26/06/16 09:35 PM
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They don't help anyway. And, since when have men been willing to acknowledge the sexism women are subjected to regularly, such that you can state that based on any sort of actual evidence?
/r/MensRights26/06/16 09:33 PM
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In what way is that his "biggest movie"? He also starred in, and was a major force behind, Cloud Atlas, with two (of three) trans directors. She didn't mention it. She said "a lot", not "all". Honestly, you may not agree with it, and I've seen other statements from her I thought were a bit more extreme than I wanted to support, but her above comments are relatively realistic and speak to the experiences of contemporary women. Until and unless we are willing and able to acknowledge the sexism wom…
/r/MensRights26/06/16 06:27 AM
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ell I know I was doing that because I'm still in a lot of pain but what pissed me off was that in the entire train car we were about a half dozen and there were way plenty of seats available. That's when you have to open your mouth and very loudly (so everyone else can hear) tell her "yes, my legs are spread because I just had surgery there and I'm in a lot of pain. You're frightening me. Would you please stand somewhere else?" Make sure everyone can hear you say she's frightening you, so if she…
/r/MensRights26/06/16 06:12 AM
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The article is barely longer than the title. :/
/r/MensRights22/06/16 11:10 PM
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There is no such thing as a male role or a female role. Stories can be rejiggered so either gender can play any part.
/r/MensRights10/06/16 06:33 AM
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I don't know one damn thing about OneNewsNow / American Family Association Clearly.
/r/MensRights17/05/16 12:18 AM
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You don't think CNN, MSNBC, NYT, Huffington Post aren't also horribly biased and therefore "not news" sites either, to be pulled from Google and Facebook? Are you fucking stupid, or were you merely dropped on your head as a baby? You're really stupid enough to place OneNewsNow - the propaganda arm of a right wing hate group - on a pedestal with the New York Times? Seriously, when did you lose your mind?
/r/MensRights16/05/16 01:07 PM
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Since we're facing reality here, we should acknowledge there are a lot of conservative "news" sites which are anything but, like OneNewsNow or Breitbart - which are openly political and often deal in falsehoods. It's not censorship to remove these from listings, they're not "news". They're just the propaganda arms of various conservative organizations. I've tried unsuccessfully to get Google to pull them from its "news" offering.
/r/MensRights15/05/16 06:13 PM
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Have you not noticed that many people lead overly soft, coddled lives? At least she learned something. She could have not learned, dealt quietly with the cognitive dissonance and not spoken to the press, but instead, she learned something and is trying to communicate it to others. Kudos to her for learning.
/r/MensRights09/05/16 04:20 AM
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All it takes is a judge that's sympathetic to her.
/r/MensRights09/05/16 03:19 AM
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Are you opposed to people learning?
/r/MensRights09/05/16 03:18 AM
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It's NJ. The family courts exist to punish fathers. They don't give a fuck.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 08:47 PM
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He is male.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 05:45 PM
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Racial discrimination, or gender discrimination. If he was a white woman with long blond hair, they never would have bothered her.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 05:40 PM
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I hope he's suing the pants off the airline for this.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 05:05 PM
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Dads don't "pull double duty." My parents are both still alive. I haven't spoken with my mother in 24 years. I spoke with dad for 3 hours last night. The truth is I need my mother, now more than ever, and my father simply can't fill her shoes. But I don't call her because I don't wish to invite that much crazy back into my life. And I'm sure for different reasons my father feels the same way. So we both go about our lives as best we can without her. Single dads don't "pull double duty." There is…
/r/MensRights08/05/16 05:03 PM
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Many gay bars have a dress code. Don't dress like the dress code? No admission. The dress code can be unisex. So, women not wearing at least two articles of leather and shoes, not sneakers or pumps, may be refused admission in some venues. (I have had doormen check me.)
/r/MensRights16/04/16 07:22 AM
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Seriously, why are you going to a bar that is specifically designed for men who like other men? There's no rational reason. They're going to a gay male bar so they can act like whores without actually attracting men who will treat them like they're acting.
/r/MensRights16/04/16 07:19 AM
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No, they should offer a set of cutting services regardless of gender; if a woman walks in and asks for a complex womens' cut, she should be told "we don't offer that cut here." If a woman comes in and asks for a #3 buzz on the sides and a #5 on top, she should get it, with a smile like for any guy who asked for it. I have a female friend who for some years dressed in mens' clothes. She used to have the darndest time with barbers refusing to serve her, even though she just wanted a flat top, and …
/r/MensRights15/04/16 05:47 AM
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My parents divorced when I was 13, and I went with my father. The judge kept referring to me as "the infant child of the marriage", refused to meet with me, and essentially made it plain that he intended to give me to my mother. At the last minute, in court, the judge gave me to my father, and for some reason my mother agreed to it. I didn't learn for about 27 years that essentially, my father bought me from my mother. He made a deal with her to split my college fund with her - I got half (admin…
/r/MensRights15/04/16 03:06 AM
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And why a man should think to join the womens' group.
/r/MensRights13/04/16 08:37 PM
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I had my 8th or 9th birthday party in the Playboy Club arcade, with one friend. The bunnies brought us hamburgers and milkshakes, and made a little fuss over us - we were about the ages of their kids, after all. I think one of them was my class mother. They were completely dressed. It was all very appropriate. I can understand how my mother saw that as appropriate. I don't get where this other mother gets off hiring a stripper.
/r/MensRights01/04/16 05:48 PM
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If Breitbart told me the sun will come up in the morning, I would prepare for a day of heavy clouds and rain. Find a real source.
/r/MensRights28/03/16 05:36 AM
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My mentally ill, paranoid mother tried to kill me 8 times. 5 times were during court-ordered visitation. Courts don't care. Social workers don't care. They're just not set up to handle a mentally ill parent, so they act like it's a non-reality.
/r/MensRights15/03/16 03:41 AM
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I was in the Marines before and when "Dont ask, dont tell" was repealled. It had nothing to do with "performance." The military consistently cited "combat effectiveness" as a reason to keep out gay people, and said that allowing us in would consequently make troops less safe.
/r/MensRights08/12/15 02:47 AM
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These seem like the same lame excuses the military made when they didn't want racial integration and when they didn't want to integrate gay men. Set standards and norms for skill and ability for specific jobs, test everyone, let men and women who meet those standards and norms participate in the same way men do, and exclude men and women who don't from jobs they don't physically qualify for. Then you'll have no excuse to bitch about women making a squad slow or ineffective because you'll know da…
/r/MensRights08/12/15 01:15 AM
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And exactly what is your problem with Metro Goldwyn Mayer?
/r/MensRights27/11/15 09:31 PM
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Are statements like these grounds for a Title IX action? File the complaint and see what happens. You clearly feel that you are being harassed in class on the basis of your gender, so it seems reasonable to file the complaint. Personally if I had a professor making those kinds of remarks regularly, I would be unable to be confident that my grades would reflect my work rather than being downgraded because of my gender, and I would be filing that complaint immediately.
/r/MensRights23/11/15 04:09 AM
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I am not a big fan of the "everything will get you fired" ideology which is happening more frequently now. She should not be fired, but should be charged with assault, and battery. When a university employee threatens or carries out violence against a nonviolent person on campus, it's actually pretty necessary that the employee should be fired, because otherwise if there is any problem with them again in the future, the university could (and should) be sued for an awful lot of money on the basis…
/r/MensRights13/11/15 04:15 AM
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So, gender discrimination is legal in canada?
/r/MensRights11/11/15 04:13 PM
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Do they have a feminist group? Yes? Then file a title 9 complaint against the university for gender discrimination. They won't have a leg to stand on.
/r/MensRights11/11/15 12:16 AM
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Gay marriage is still a pretty new invention. In the US... Denmark has had it for, what, 20 years now? And, we've had it for over a decade here in Massachusetts. The gay divorce rate here is the same as the heterosexual divorce rate for couples that have been married the same amount of time. Then again, we have the lowest divorce rate in the union, so there may not be that many cases to study. None of the married gay couples I know have ever divorced, so I don't have any experience to draw on th…
/r/MensRights11/11/15 12:02 AM
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Is my sister supposed to not engage in any relationship with a man just because my father is a scumbag? That's her decision to make.
/r/MensRights10/11/15 12:13 AM
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It really doesn't change a thing. Yeah it does. If you get divorced from your gay male husband, he won't get special treatment in the courtroom for being female.
/r/MensRights10/11/15 12:05 AM
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Even if they did, it's their freedom to tell a story like that if they want to. Yes. Yes it is. AND IT'S EVERYONE ELSE'S FREEDOM TO COMPLAIN ABOUT IT. Don't invoke bullshit defenses of freedom of speech as an excuse to exercise against other people exercising their own freedom of speech. And I don't want Disney to be filled to the brim with hideous characters for "diversity". Some of us haven't forgotten that "variety is the spice of life". If they're all the same they get boring. And what the h…
/r/MensRights01/11/15 12:42 PM
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Let's face reality: disney films used to be really sexist. Now they're... somewhat sexist. It used to be that disney women were all helpless victims, waiting for a man to come rescue them. They ran away, they cried, they suffered, and then a big strong powerful man came along and took them away to get married, which was presented as the end goal of a woman's life. It's okay for some stories to be about that, but there were NO disney stories of women solving their own problems or living their own…
/r/MensRights01/11/15 03:25 AM
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How is it that only a small minority people believe that political correctness is not a problem, yet it's such a huge problem? If so many people are so convinced it's a problem, why aren't they just not being politically correct? Frankly I think the biggest problem with political correctness is all the people who feel it's a great idea to constantly bitch about political correctness and blame it for all problems. I'm sick to death of hearing about it. Grow up and take some responsibility.
/r/MensRights29/08/15 07:18 PM
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The frat members should be suing the hell out of the student union and the author of the "tip sheet", instead of just complaining about it.
/r/MensRights24/08/15 07:09 PM
2

It set me off when I saw it on FB too, but not the same way: women are sexual objects. So are men. And teens are horny beasts. As long as we go around prudishly insisting that "ohmigawd how dare you look at me as a sexual object", we're going to have this bullshit. How about we wake up and smell the reality and teach our kids that "yes, people are sexual objects, and that's just fine, so you should get used to it and learn to behave with good manners now that we understand this".
/r/MensRights22/08/15 02:49 AM
4

I have unfortunately lost respect for him for being beta. I have unfortunately lost respect for you for being an ass. You disrespect your father because he doesn't happen to be a naturally dominant person? You trivialize rape by referring to a man getting an unfair deal in the courtroom as rape? What the hell is wrong with you?
/r/MensRights17/08/15 03:00 PM
1

Their.
/r/MensRights05/08/15 03:09 AM
-3

Breitbart is not a reputable news source.
/r/MensRights20/07/15 04:29 AM
10

That is very seriously not an unbiased or acceptable source. Frankly, if they said it was hot and sunny out, I'd reach for a jacket and an umbrella.
/r/MensRights12/07/15 05:05 PM
3

Additionally, their reasoning is such BS... Because everyone is welcome, and because some of the gender-based assumptions we carry are deeply ingrained, we may still see examples of behaviour from patrons and volunteers, including: • double-checking the work of a female mechanic with a male mechanic That's just not okay, but instead of discriminating against men, the solution is to tell such people their behavior is not okay, refuse to let them do it, and throw them out if they don't learn to be…
/r/MensRights29/05/15 04:49 AM
0

No, you're doing the right thing to file a complaint with the human rights commission. That is the absolutely correct first step. I'm so tired of hearing people complain about discrimination, asking them "did you complain to the (local anti-discrimination agency)?" and them saying no... I'm so happy to see that you're not just complaining, you've done the right thing already. Kudos to you for that! Were I you, I would also write to the owner to let them know that they've permanently lost the bus…
/r/MensRights29/05/15 04:40 AM
3

You dodged the question. If she can get a good lawyer to involve a higher court for violating her 1st amendment rights by forcing her to state her agreement to the procedure against her will, she stands a good chance of getting a court order forbidding the surgery. That would be a much more straightforward and definitive method of helping the child than by desperately trying to convince every single urologist in the nation not to do it. I'm not saying you should stop your effort, but I think the…
/r/MensRights23/05/15 11:03 PM
16

So what is being done to help the mother, who needs a really good lawyer to sue the hell out of everyone involved for violating her civil rights, and get full custody over her child?
/r/MensRights23/05/15 02:16 AM
-3

You know, if you want to find an example of a woman who behaves inappropriately regarding men, perhaps you might find a better example than a woman who wrote a world-record-bestselling set of popular novels in which the good guys are men and women, boys and girls, straight and gay, who act like human beings but generally behave in appropriate, caring, healthy ways toward each other. Jo Rowling is the kind of woman we want on our side, not someone we should be chastising over nonsense.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 04:49 AM
1

A lawyer is your lawyer if you have hired them and they have accepted the work. Being on retainer only means you paid them in advance, more or less. Generally you'll eventually have a family lawyer who helps you with things like wills and purchasing a home, and you'd probably consult them first about any legal concerns because you have an established relationship with them. You'd generally consider them to be "your lawyer". If you don't have one and want one, you can ask your friends if they wan…
/r/MensRights08/05/15 06:08 AM
1

Call a lawyer immediately, and talk to the lawyer about suing the cops for violating your and your husband's fourth amendment rights by forcing their way into your home when you're demonstrably well.
/r/MensRights06/05/15 08:38 PM
2

Thanks for explaining, that was very helpful.
/r/MensRights21/04/15 12:43 PM
8

Does anyone know why the original post is locked?
/r/MensRights20/04/15 07:27 PM
17

If they accessed his student records and used that to track him down and harass him, as is implied by OP's posting, then they very seriously violated the law, and they might have a rather difficult time continuing to attend the school while they're in jail.
/r/MensRights20/04/15 07:27 PM
0

I really don't think this is a Mens Rights issue. I think this is an issue of moronic teachers and school administrators who have no concept whatsoever of the relative importance of what the kid did to the computer, or of the real world consequences of their actions on their students, or hate kids and don't care. There is no reason whatsoever to believe that if a girl did it she would have been treated any differently. Yeah, those teachers, school administrators, and cops should all be locked up…
/r/MensRights12/04/15 02:59 AM
-1

This is not going to be the time for liberals to be cowed into not opposing Clinton by accusations of sexism. Men's rights is rising, economic populism is rising, there's a growing schism on the left between the real liberals and the identity bullies. Now is the time to push back. Okay... who do you propose to be a democratic party candidate who is viable to beat the republicans - who universally oppose civil rights for gay men? Hillary Clinton would not be my first choice for president, but I w…
/r/MensRights11/04/15 04:01 AM
1

Some of the gender wage gap has been attributed to negotiation skills so they decided to fix that by removing the ability to negotiate. Negotiation skills are an important professional skill, so by removing the incentive to have good negotiation skills, you reduce the general ability of the staff to negotiate and thus reduce the group's professional abilities.
/r/MensRights06/04/15 10:44 PM
3

I have literally just been told that my internship will not be able to take me back like they thought they would for the summer because I am a white male. File a gender and racial discrimination complaint with the state's nondiscrimination office.
/r/MensRights06/04/15 10:41 PM
-32

As this article comes from a site that, if you follow the "about us" links, declares itself to be "part of the conservative movement", the article is not a reputable news source.
/r/MensRights30/03/15 05:23 AM
2

It's an invented word to promote another supremacist agenda. Bluntly, if you believe that you're a fucking idiot. We actually created the word "homophobia" as a reaction to all the bigots who kept saying "I don't hate homosexuals, I just...". Oh, you don't hate us. I see. Then you must be terribly afraid of us to want to do such horrible things to us. So you have homophobia. And you sir definitely have homophobia. Maybe you should stop and ponder that gay men are the natural allies of the mens' …
/r/MensRights22/03/15 04:27 AM
2

Lesbians face the stigma of... being the boner piece of blue-pill men? Lesbians get sexualized by heterosexual men who, because of it, come to feel that it's their god given right to use lesbians sexually, and mistreat them for not playing along. Also, many people hate lesbians as much as many people hate gay men, they just don't talk about it as much. Further, because many people view women as being weaker than men, many bigots feel more empowered to commit crimes against lesbians in an attempt…
/r/MensRights22/03/15 04:16 AM
2

Lesbianism faces different stigma from male homosexuality. Homophobia is a form of hate. Hate is generally pushed by people who have low self esteem and enjoy hating others because it gives them someone to feel superior to.
/r/MensRights20/03/15 03:35 AM
1

She's saying that gay men are a bunch of sex maniacs and we should give up on getting our marriage rights, shut up, and let the bible thumpers walk all over us. That's full-on male homophobia.
/r/MensRights27/02/15 05:01 AM
1

"gays should stop bitching about Southern Baptists exercising their constitutional right to free speech about homosexuality, which is condemned by the Bible, despite the tortuous casuistry of so many self-interested parties, including clerics." - Camille Paglia
/r/MensRights27/02/15 04:43 AM
1

"history shows that male homosexuality, which like prostitution flourishes with urbanization and soon becomes predictably ritualized, always tends toward decadence." - Camille Paglia
/r/MensRights27/02/15 04:43 AM
1

"I am troubled by the provincialism and amorality of the gay world, and as a lesbian, I'm sick and tired of the gay rights movement being damaged by the cowardly incapacity for self-examination of many gay men." - Camille Paglia
/r/MensRights27/02/15 04:42 AM
1

"I think [gay marriage] is a flash point for antigay backlash…. That’s the problem: calling it a marriage. If you ask the working class guy on the street, ‘Do you believe in gay marriages?’ it makes him absolutely have a convulsion of revulsion. Marriage was traditionally meant for male and female. It was a bond for the raising of children, so it always had a procreative meaning too, and it has a long sacred tradition behind it. I hate any time that gay causes get mixed up with seeming to profan…
/r/MensRights27/02/15 04:39 AM
0

That doesn't mean she doesn't hate gay men... google it.
/r/MensRights26/02/15 04:06 AM
-5

Seriously? That horrible anti-gay bigot? Trying to quote her as a reason to justify mens rights will drive people away from supporting mens rights.
/r/MensRights26/02/15 03:00 AM
2

Bluntly: you need to get a lawyer. You need to ask these questions of your lawyer. A lawyer can probably help you, but the only person who can tell you for sure is... a lawyer. You're wasting your time asking us further, because all we can do is speculate and say "get a lawyer."
/r/MensRights15/02/15 11:57 PM
2

Then the man should be suing.
/r/MensRights15/02/15 01:15 AM
2

want men & women to (theoretically) be shoulder to shoulder, whether it be by raising women to that level, or by pulling men down. So, I used to consider - and call - myself a feminist. I did so because I believed in a particular definition of feminism: "The belief that, aside from biological reproduction, men and women are essentially equal and should be treated as such in the eyes of both society and the law." And, you know, I do in fact remember when women used to be at a legal disadvantage i…
/r/MensRights10/02/15 11:34 PM
1

So, you've already filed a formal Title IX complaint, right?
/r/MensRights10/02/15 03:54 PM
34

Can we have some other sources on this please? This one is clearly biased (which doesn't make it false, but does make it questionable) and I can't find any other reports on this.
/r/MensRights09/02/15 03:46 PM
27

Unfortunately for him male votes do count. Not for him they don't, he won't be up for election again.
/r/MensRights09/02/15 03:45 PM
1

No, because by saying there's something unique about men, they could construe that to mean that you're saying men are superior. It has to be couched in the language of equality (which, frankly, is what it really should be actually about) so that if they argue with it, you can say "why are you arguing that men and women should be unequal? That's very sexist. I'm filing a legal complaint." Forcing them to argue against equality to argue against you puts them in a defensive position, so they're mor…
/r/MensRights07/02/15 07:08 PM
2

You don't have to like it. It's not a word I choose to use about myself... but I do observe the fact that people don't really try to use it as an insult the way they used to.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 01:06 AM
11

First, I would like to say that I understand your viewpoint and am upvoting you for expressing it. 20something years ago, the gay community decided that we were tired of people calling us "queer"... so we started calling ourselves "queer". We didn't exactly manage to turn it into a positive term, but we did very much manage to disempower those who used it as an insult. There is a certain value to adopting the terms of the oppressor and turning them around.
/r/MensRights06/02/15 09:41 PM
10

I suggest you come up with a real definition for it which is innocuous, so if the school gives you a hard time you can say "this is what it means - why are you giving me a hard time?" For example, if I were you and they called me in for discipline, I would say "the shirt indicates that I am a person who believes in equal civil rights for men, and that men are just as good and valuable to society as women." If they said anything about it being anti-women, I would point out that it doesn't say any…
/r/MensRights06/02/15 09:39 PM
2

To make a bullet list, use an asterisk to delineate each bullet, and put a blank line before each. Otherwise it'll run them together as a paragraph as it did for you.
/r/MensRights06/02/15 09:17 PM
3

Or it is legally binding, and the university is open to a lawsuit.
/r/MensRights14/01/15 02:28 PM
1

Feminist would have screwed him. No. Police would have arrested him... and he would deserve it. You make it sound like you think a man who murders multiple wives deserves to get away with it - please tell me that's not what you meant. Yeah, this "black widow" serial killer got away with it because she was under the radar. But if anyone had noticed, she would have gotten arrested earlier too. "Feminists" don't dictate to the police who they may and may not arrest for murder. This is not about men…
/r/MensRights11/12/14 05:36 AM
1

What does this have to do with mens' rights? This is about a serial killer, not about achieving quality for our gender.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 07:26 PM
1

That's the kind of case you find a lawyer to take it on contingency, because there's a pretty high chance of a win.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 03:04 PM
1

Another way would be for the victim (the guy falsely accused) to sue the living daylights out of whoever made the accusation. File it as a Jane Doe suit, subpoena everyone from the university to tell who made the accusation, and crush the accuser in court for slander and/or defamation. I'm sure a lawyer could come up with an excuse to make the university liable too, especially if they participated in the public shaming of the victim.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 11:35 PM
4

I would tell her that if that's so, then obviously it is because their mothers did a poor job of raising them. Then again, I wouldn't be dating such a person, so it's easy for me to say that.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 08:05 PM
10

The real issue here is that Salvation Army discriminates against teen boys, just as they have a history of discriminating against gay men. They have every right to do so, they're incorporated as a church, but we can choose not to donate.
/r/MensRights03/12/14 04:58 PM
1

I'm a gay man. If I had a coworker parading around the office in the shirt he was wearing, I'd feel sexually harassed. I think it was wildly inappropriate, especially for the occasion. I don't feel it's something we should be defending. I disagree with feminists who are lambasting him for it in one particular regard: I don't think it's an inappropriate shirt because it sexually harasses women. I think it's an inappropriate shirt because it sexually harasses everyone.
/r/MensRights16/11/14 03:17 AM
0

I make handmade shirts. I have given handmade hawaiian shirts to friends. If any of them wore them on the occasion of the announcement of an enormous scientific achievement such as this, I would rip them a new one for not choosing their attire more sensibly.
/r/MensRights16/11/14 02:49 AM
1

The dude landed a robot on a comet. He has just performed one of humanity's great accomplishments, and he's the public face of the scientific agency that paid for it. He could have the common sense to put on a business shirt and look respectable.
/r/MensRights16/11/14 02:47 AM
-13

You know what dude? I never said otherwise.
/r/MensRights17/10/14 11:52 PM
1

The article says there is a judgement against her; it doesn't say to whom she is required to pay it.
/r/MensRights17/10/14 10:01 PM
-12

It would also likely negatively impact her ability to have a spouse or family, as who would want to marry someone knowing that if you did, all of your income would get taken and given to her victim?
/r/MensRights17/10/14 09:59 PM
1

(facepalm) We are never going to get anywhere if you don't actually try. First you try to make the legal complaint and see what happens. If they blow you off, you talk to an attorney. You have to try using the system and fail before you can do anything about the failures of the system. And if it doesn't fail, then hey, you won.
/r/MensRights12/10/14 04:04 PM
5

Where are you? All 50 US states have laws against gender discrimination, and a state nondiscrimination office. If you are in the US, file a complaint with your state's nondiscrimination office over their "suggestion" that you should have left for the crime of being male.
/r/MensRights12/10/14 02:26 AM
1

Sex is a protected group so you can't do that legally any more than with race. Funny, that hasn't stopped half the states from prohibiting gay people from receiving the over a thousand legal benefits of marriage. Yeah they do that too, but there's a problem with suing here. The college's are going to rightly say they were simply following the law so you can't sue them. Sure you can, you sue them under the law that says they're not allowed to treat men unequally. And you sue the state.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 02:49 AM
2

So, I'm gay, which means I've been in one big civil rights fight my whole life. We gay guys used to think "as soon as this starts affecting straight people they'll ban it." Nope. It doesn't work that way. What we learned is, as soon as it starts affecting straight people, they ban it... against straight people only. The only thing that has actually brought us any remedy is suing the pants off of people who mistreat us. For 30 years we protested, we argued, we tried to get civil rights laws passe…
/r/MensRights05/10/14 08:48 PM
1

Don't be naive. Of course it won't. It'll either be treated as a total anomaly, or dismissed outright. It will only end when enough men have successfully sued the living daylights out of a university for fucking them over. When someone walks away with a couple hundred million dollar judgement against, say, Harvard, universities will start to make noise about putting a stop to this kind of thing.
/r/MensRights05/10/14 05:34 PM
-3

So file a legal complaint for gender discrimination with your state's anti-discrimination agency, instead of just complaining about it.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 05:45 PM
3

I repeat: you are suffering delusions about what I have said. Please see a professional.
/r/MensRights11/09/14 07:42 PM
2

You think gay people are the only ones who get senselessly beat up or unjustly fired from a job? Or even murdered for that matter? You think you have a monopoly on injustice? No dude, you are the one who is under the delusion that I am saying that only gay people are oppressed. That is completely in your imagination. I never said anything of the sort. Your remarks have reached the point of disconnect from reality that I must seriously recommend you see a psychologist about your delusions, and I …
/r/MensRights11/09/14 02:21 PM
2

Keep digging, you've almost reached six feet. Did you go to jail just because you were gay? I have friends that did. Actually, I not only could have been jailed, but could have been legally put to death for being gay in the United States until 2003. Up until about 2010, if any guy wanted to kill me he'd get away with it, all he'd have to do is tell the jury I made a pass at him and he'd be acquitted, and even now while it's no longer a certainty he'd stand a good chance of getting off. So don't …
/r/MensRights11/09/14 05:23 AM
2

You're trying to destroy gender identities. Whatever gender you identify yourself as is your gender identity. I'm gay, and I went through a phase of flouncing around in brightly colored poofy silk blouses, and it was masculine because I did it and I felt masculine. You are trying to force your idea of gender identity onto everyone else. Feminists are CLEARLY trying to shame women who choose to be feminine. Hello pot meet fucking kettle. Yeah. And none of us can tell if you're the pot or the kett…
/r/MensRights11/09/14 03:44 AM
6

Whether you like it or not a "butch" look is a "butch" look. Again, what constitutes a "butch" look is entirely a construct of our culture. Hell, here in the United States pink used to be considered a male color, too passionate for women and girls, and blue was a girls color because it was considered more sedate. Here is some of the BS in what you're doing: 1) You're pushing culturally accepted separated gender roles. The whole idea of separate gender roles is harmful to people of both genders b…
/r/MensRights10/09/14 05:46 PM
1

Well short hair and hairy bodies isn't exactly feminine. That's entirely a construct of our culture. There's ancient persian love poetry praising the beauty of the silky hair on the legs of women. For you to accuse women who don't shave their legs of being lesbians is both sexist and homophobic, and I'm disgusted with you.
/r/MensRights10/09/14 05:01 PM
1

No, women respect gay men just fine...
/r/MensRights10/09/14 02:10 PM
38

So he should sue them, and make it plain to them that they can charge her (and it will cost them money), or they can not charge her (and it will cost them a lot more money). He may want to support his child after the mother gets convicted of rape. Heck, he may want custody. There's nothing saying he can't choose to support his child voluntarily. It's just wrong that he's being forced to support his rapist.
/r/MensRights05/09/14 06:15 AM
2

That's a pretty small date range, you'd be able to make a better argument if you could show a longer duration, and preferably have a good explanation of why the change in direction.
/r/MensRights02/09/14 04:39 AM
1

Who are you to pretend that OP said that being male is more of a burden than being female, or that men have a harder time than being female?
/r/MensRights30/08/14 04:26 AM
3

You got assaulted, in front of a witness? Report it to the cops immediately. Don't wait another minute, you're already going to have to explain to them why you waited. Call the cops NOW. Report it to your employer AFTER you have reported it to the cops. Make sure your employer knows you have reported it to the cops AND that you have a witness. Should the employer attempt to retaliate in any way, immediately call your state's labor department and inquire about how to file a hostile work environme…
/r/MensRights19/08/14 11:50 PM
1

You may be overreacting a little. That said, you shouldn't have to feel harassed at work, and it's not okay for her to have touched you to force you into a selfie. The first step is to tell her bluntly that she is making you very uncomfortable and making you feel harassed and you want her to stop it. You have to do that, because she can't be expected to read your mind and realize you're actually really upset and not just not playing along. You have to reasonably inform her that she's upsetting y…
/r/MensRights10/08/14 02:26 PM
2

I was kind of speechless. My sister starts college in a year, and my mom can't leave her home alone because the roofing guy might be a rapist. Ridiculous. How would she like it if someone said the same thing about me? It was just so insulting. You need to be saying that to her. She needs to hear from her family how sexist she is being, and how it hurts her family as well as others.
/r/MensRights30/06/14 08:28 PM
1

So, what's sexist is the idea that only men apologize with flowers, which the ad doesn't state. Also sexist is the idea that only women want flowers, which the ad also doesn't state. I'm a gay man. If any guy I'm with ever feels the need to apologize to me, flowers would be nice. I like flowers. I used to work in advertising. In my professional opinion, the target market for this ad is: humans. I think your reaction to this ad is a lot more sexist than the ad, in that the ad mentions no genders,…
/r/MensRights28/06/14 08:44 PM
2

Yes, they prove the need for lawsuits: one of the students in question should sue her for calling him a rapist. Libel is still illegal.
/r/MensRights22/06/14 01:18 AM
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