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I lift 2-3 times a week and ride my mountainbike once a week. Yes, I have been and continue to be far too reactive, I'm working on being more proactive and in cases where I've done that things have gone better for me. This is a good point to keep in mind, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 03:04 PM
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Yes, I recently got that and have read the first few chapters.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 03:02 PM
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I understand what you are saying and agree that it is strict TRP. Her being a slut means I get the sex of my dreams, whatever I want whenever I want. While we are happily agreeing to be monogamous, with the possibility of FMF threesomes. That is really fucking cool. She rode the cock carousel, she hit the wall, and she wants a family. I want awesome sex, and while not mandatory it sure is nice having a partner especially for the kids. She's hung with me through some serious shit, including me be…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 04:45 AM
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It's really hard to keep the long view sometimes, but as the boys are getting older this shift is already occurring, especially with my 9 year old. He has sometimes asked that a dinner-only night turn into an overnight with me, and then my 5 year old asks for it too. I believe it will continue to shift this way, but it feels like it's so far away while she's doing everything she can to keep them as babies that need her to take care of them. I do anticipate being back in court at some point, I'm …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 05:37 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story. I've learned a lot about how to better handle my ex's constant invasion of my boundaries. I used to get angry and tell her to leave me alone and stop sending me all her mundane crap, now I ignore it and just archive the emails. I'm letting go of my expectations that she will ever be reasonable and "fair" with me and to not have expectations when I ask for anything that deviates from the bare legal minimum I've been given. It has affected my view of all women, unfor…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 05:34 PM
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I spend hours a week between therapy appointments, doctor appointments, responding to emails, dealing with the decision maker, meeting with my own therapist. I keep expecting it to become less and for the situation to get easier, but through some poor decisions and just plain bad luck things continue to be difficult. But things ARE getting better, the kids are getting older and beginning to find their voices, and many of the professionals we are working with are seeing things in a way that I per…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 05:42 AM
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"Embrace the suck" is a term I've heard before and agree that I need to internalize. It's harder to find the practical techniques to do that when in the throes of some new ridiculous situation with the ex, but I continue to try.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 05:36 AM
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Thank you, I hear nothing but truth in your words. I do feel I need to be an advocate for my kids because my ex is over-protective and unnecessarily holds them back, but I am consumed by conflict and anger much more than is necessary. I'm so afraid of being unheard and ignored that I overcompensate to make sure I'm heard. I must find balance. I don't like relying on the internet for support and advice, but I have a small social group and am just learning what and with whom I can share this stuff…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 05:33 AM
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I feel like I'm in that place now, everything she does just pisses me off, her attempts to do things for me are never good enough. I'm finding it so hard to be assertive about my needs yet remain open with her.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 02:49 PM
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Thanks for your perspective, and good point that I should have offered my own thoughts initially. For some background, I'm in the midst of figuring out if my current LTR is ending or not, I've been thinking of writing up my situation to input from the good men here but haven't done so yet. Reading TRP doesn't always feel like it's the best thing for me, it's easy to get caught up in others situations and lose sight of what's happening in my own. MRP feels like a better balance for me personally …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 06:16 PM
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