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I was thinking about it today, and I was wondering if the 6.5 was validating possibly giving me her number had I asked since she said "but we've only been dating for three weeks." Fuck it. It's in the past.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 02:00 AM
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Shit you not... both hands firmly around my face and turned my head from the 6.5 to her direction. That has never happened to me before and it definitely caught me off guard.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 01:56 AM
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I agree, BMI is not a good indicator. Arnold Schwarzenegger's BMI would have read as extremely obese being under 6'3 and over 300lbs. The man was Mr Universe. IMO — Don't look like a skeleton and don't look like a beached whale.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 08:39 PM
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would I be wrong in asking her, "why?" or "are you not happy with how much we see each other right now — if not you can try and do better." (dread game). Or is this a situation where you agree and amplify and joke saying, "Great. I'm gonna call you everyday and we can talk for hours about our feelings until we are completely bored with one another."
/r/askTRP19/02/14 07:15 PM
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That relationship you had is dust. I was in a very similar situation. I'm not where you are, I haven't gotten any better at game because I haven't implemented it. I'm reading up and studying, learning, and bettering myself. I don't know if it was the last LTR that makes me not want to get hurt or if I'm insecure about myself and my ability to make a woman love me. Regardless, what I am learning is you need to be more focused on yourself. Date more. Go out and enjoy life. As you become more natur…
/r/askTRP19/02/14 07:08 PM
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GOLD. I couldn't agree with akthero more. If someone is judging you or your actions, you should not validate those judgements with concern, unless it is critical feedback in which you know that you can choose to use and better yourself or improve yourself in some way.
/r/askTRP19/02/14 06:58 PM
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I recently moved to the Michigan area and I've noticed a plethora of young single moms out here compared to my old stomping grounds. I haven't tried talking to any of them though.
/r/askTRP18/02/14 07:49 PM
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Or desperate and hit the wall.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 12:28 AM
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And when she comes back — tell her she is a swing back. Remind her that she had her chance and she thought she was too good for you to give you any time so now you don't have any time for her.
/r/askTRP08/01/14 03:52 PM
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Your suggested titles make a lot more sense.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 02:43 PM
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My personal opinion. My friend and I are both alpha's but in certain situations, lets say sports, my friend is more dominant then I am. If it's art or cultural conversations, I am more dominant. I wouldn't worry about being alpha more then another guy in your group, just worry about your frame and being the best in your beliefs and goals. If the other male in your group is like my friend, he is respectful of you and doesn't throw you under the bus around other women or whatever the case may be. …
/r/askTRP06/01/14 07:16 PM
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can he do that and not risk getting served divorce papers and get taken for half?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 11:51 AM
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Have you considered speaking with a lawyer? I don't know the laws in WA but I assume if you divorce you'll be giving her 2,000 a month while she gets her rocks off. I'm almost 30 myself, single, was in a 7 year long LTR but never put a ring on the finger. Do you suggest, hindsight-wise, that a prenup is worth it.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 11:48 AM
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I wonder if the base of religion (Christianity) with the rules, no sex before marriage and no adultery, where created for a specific reason to control the masses and have a balance amongst human nature and chaos. I'm not making this out to be about religion is right or wrong, I'm saying if the foundation is about morals, empathy, and love - we are now in the plane (society) which is spinning into descent because we no longer have balance against the pressures of the world. Religion also had cons…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 12:35 PM
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I'm almost pissed you just compared my dark humor sarcasm to the likes of an obese feminist hamster rant. Almost. Kinda. Like one hair on my arm stood up, limply.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 03:19 AM
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Aww shucks, all those dollars spent on sarcasm books were a waste because one person doesn't get it. Guess I should give a fuck and change myself based on your opinion... Right?
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 03:05 AM
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This dude probably let's his wife peg him. You are right.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 03:02 AM
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Yeah dude. Internet sarcasm is a bitch. But thank you for clarifying for everyone the details behind Agree&Amplify.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 02:55 AM
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How much do you make? I'm a white male, I do very well for myself. Where I live the average salary is around 34k/year. I'm well over double that, I don't know more than three women who make more than I do, and they topped and hit the ceiling in their career. I can be a director before my mid-30s at this rate (add another 20k), but I aspire to be a VP (add 40-60k) as well as starting my own company with another college buddy (possibly pull in 160k). What woman my age who lives in a 50 mile radius…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 02:03 AM
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Can he agree and amplify? Tell his bitch, "sure baby, you can make me a cuckold if that's your fantasy. Just as long as I can live out my fantasy of being R.Kelly and piss on you before you do it." Too much? Hahaha.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 01:36 AM
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It's hard for me to say what's the definitive answer. Red Pill isn't black and white. There are 16 different personalities, then you have high self esteem and low self esteem, and then past history and religious upbringing. All these things from a person's personality so the question is - you can't change who she is. Do you accept her behavior or not? Do you trust her or not? Me - I always assume they are cheating but my heart is hardened because I've had women cheat on me when I was vulnerable.…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 12:00 PM
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I'm not saying women are illogical. They can be at times when they want to be. If you try to reason with them it has an air of 'giving in' or 'giving up'. Do you know what I mean? Tell her what you want. Ask her what she wants. If the two don't line up come to terms if you are willing to change for her and if by doing that will she look at you in a different light. Personally — don't change who you are for anyone but yourself. Case in point, lets say you are a gangbanger, you meet a girl who mak…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 09:22 PM
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I haven't read the married man's sex life but I always see it posted here so it could be a good start. I'm a big guy as well, 6´@290lbs. I used to be 350 and I'm working to get it all off within the next two years. Here's the thing — I can see how she may not be as sexually attracted to you as she once was but that passion is still there. Get her worked up. Kiss her on the neck when she isn't looking. Don't go and over do it but every now and then joke with her and slap her ass or something then…
/r/askTRP30/12/13 09:05 PM
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the_mustache_rider said it best. Basically, like I said before — if you keep doing what she wants to do (playing into her frame) you won't make her want to have sex with you and soon enough you'll be fucking her how she wants and when she wants. Want some examples — she cries and complains that you went out instead of hanging out with her like you do every friday. She is going to pout, complain (most likely passively), then she is going to withhold sex or attention, and she is going to be a bitc…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 08:47 PM
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So you want to know how to attract an alpha male — but the problem is the alpha male will chose you if you are what he desires. If the only thing you are good for is sex then that is all you'll get from him. If you complement what his life goals are and if he feels that you both can be in a balanced and harmonious relationship then you'll get that from him if that is what he desires. If you try to be something you're not he will notice it in time and then move on to the next one. If you wear a f…
/r/askTRP30/12/13 08:36 PM
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Dude — get off that path immediately. I'm not saying next her but you better put your foot down and realize that she is trying to dominate that relationship and soon enough you will be married to her, doing exactly what she wants, eating where she wants to eat, going where she wants to go, having the sex she wants to have and when she wants to have it. You'll become her little lap dog and she will cheat on you or leave you — kicker, you might even have to pay alimony. You are your own man. She d…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 03:03 PM
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The hamster wheel may spin slower but it never dies.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 02:53 PM
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Dude I wish I could help ya. I don't have all the answers, but I wish I did. I'm trying to find some enlightenment so I don't end up with a one way ticket on the titanic like 90% of the other men in my life. I think you just need to have some kind of reasonable understanding that if your current paradigm isn't working then you may never find that unicorn who will meet all your expectations. You might want all those things in your dream girl and you owe it to yourself to find her. Just don't sett…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 04:54 AM
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They all hit it eventually. Question is, will she understand or take responsibility for why she's knee deep in shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 04:44 AM
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I'm by no means an expert PUA, but you are missing a big point IMO. Have you ever been given something and didn't really care for or appreciate it? Now the opposite, have you ever worked hard and invested a lot of yourself to achieve something and once you got it you appreciated the hell out of it? Same goes for relationships, women, and attraction. You have to be intriguing, magnetic, alluring. Don't go fishing and throw all your bait in the ocean right away. You can have all the things you wan…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 04:09 AM
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I have one question. How old is she? I'd love to see the car wreck she becomes when she hits that inevitable 30+ year old wall and no one wants her used old ass.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 03:39 AM
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This cracked me up. What do you care?
/r/askTRP27/12/13 02:57 PM
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This is awesome. It's like a physical form of Agree and Amplify.
/r/askTRP27/12/13 02:52 PM
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Thanks for the insight. I do see a lot of SRP in this site so I can see how things are mudded and confusing to new members like myself.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 09:45 PM
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Do you have more information on SRP?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 01:37 PM
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Dude, what do you look like. You have a hunch back? Rhinoplasty? Do you look like that mutant from the Goonies? If you're not that ugly then it's your self-doubt. if you do look like that mutant from the Goonies and you do have loads of money let me introduce you to something called plastic surgery.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 02:25 PM
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thanks man. Did breaking down the semantics of wanting something versus needing something make sense to you. I've been talking to this married chick - 21/30 (Patrice O'Neil Scale) - whom I work with and I gotta say, I know that I want a woman like her. She is funny, outgoing, kinda bitchy, and sexy in a lot of ways but I realize that I don't need this bitch. I need sex, I need a attention, I need to be desired and loved, I need to be praised, I need to be somewhat idolized (somewhat), but I don'…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 07:12 AM
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This makes a lot more sense.
/r/askTRP12/12/13 08:54 PM
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That's my point. I don't care. It's my decision to go to the movies and then after to go get a drink. It's a logical decision on my part as a man to check out the bar this chick mentioned because she could be there and if she isn't then there are other women that will be there to talk to.
/r/askTRP12/12/13 07:33 PM
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so is that bad?
/r/askTRP12/12/13 07:32 PM
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So is that bad?
/r/askTRP12/12/13 07:32 PM
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I've been reading a Female Psychology book that was endorsed here. I think it's fine, she is trying to validate herself with you, just be aware that she may have LSE. I don't mind dating a chick with LSE, but keep in mind if you want an LTR with this chick she could end up giving you heavy doses of drama, sabotage your relationship with herself and others. I dated a woman with LSE and I have to say, it was rough, especially when her libido dropped from her 'not feeling sexy'... just know when to…
/r/askTRP12/12/13 06:32 PM
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In other words, get lots of practice in. Don't get oneitis. Like learning to dance, at first you are awkward as shit but after doing it repetitively you'll get it and it will be natural then you can start adding flair to what you do.
/r/askTRP06/12/13 06:33 PM
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I've done good mornings and deadlifts on back days but I've never heard of this haha. Maybe more wide grip pull-ups?
/r/askTRP05/12/13 08:38 PM
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that is the greatest analogy I've read this week. kudos.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 03:24 PM
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Doc said I can't have them ... fuckin HIPPA laws.
/r/askTRP05/12/13 12:17 PM
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What if these women are admitting the truth to this guy, but normally they would answer they want a nice guy who treats them right and listens blah blah blah blah blah... I do see plenty of chicks who want a man who is strong in his frame and accomplishes his goals, one who works hard for what he wants and what he believes is. I've also seen women with LSE who date losers, drug addicts, and abusive dick heads because people in general (men and women) will only accept the love they think they des…
/r/askTRP05/12/13 12:14 PM
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To be honest with you all - I had my heart ripped out and dismantled from my last LTR and I've been trying to bounce back ever since. Instead of going out and trying to rebound right away I sat at home and wallowed which I see now has had a long term effect on my outlook. Reading NMMNG is helping.
/r/askTRP05/12/13 11:58 AM
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I agree with you. You only learn from action and failure. Also I have noticed a lot of the paper alphas you're talking about. I honestly don't give a fuck if I get a woman with this knowledge or not. I do want to better myself, become more of a leader, be stronger in my frame, go out and build my empire, take what I want. For now I'll keep reading and befriend a good alpha to study as an example.
/r/askTRP05/12/13 12:42 AM
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Is there a test for this? Or should I just show women a script from my chiropractor?
/r/askTRP04/12/13 10:27 PM
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Very true. I do feel 10x better then I did three months ago. I feel more alive and way more confident. I guess I just want more. I want to be the best me possible and I see that I'm still a long journey from that point. I just need to keep working hard and enjoying the process along the way.
/r/askTRP04/12/13 08:04 PM
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Personally, my opinion, you can't save them all. Some people you can try and show the truth, you can try and give guidance. To me that brother was doing what he felt he needed to do, protect his family from getting hurt. I'd do the same exact thing for my younger bro — hands down. What sucks is that the world needs a bad guy and it is easier to place blame on the brother, a man, then it is to place blame on the cheating ho. I don't get it.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 08:01 PM
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Thanks! I do agree I knew the source of my self consciousness was my weight and I have dropped 60lbs so far from hard work, eating healthy, and cardio. Unfortunately I'm at the mercy of time and I'm working towards my goal to be in the 220s by July. I guess what I should have asked is — are there any books or things that I can do to keep me motivated and assure that once I reach these goals that I will not only feel better about myself but that I will actually believe that I'm on the pedestal an…
/r/askTRP03/12/13 02:43 PM
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Reverse all the roles so that the fiancé is a dude and the guy writing is a chick crying about how her sister hired a PI to find out if the fiancé was cheating. If the sexes were reversed the man would be ridiculed and everyone would be saying get out. No one is saying shit about the chick and her amateur porn career. It's pretty sad.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 02:28 PM
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I agree. Video games, like porn, food, television... are vices that can become an addiction. The point is — maintain a healthy outlook on life and don't let one thing consume all of your time. Go to the gym, eat healthy, educate yourself with new books and topics, read about current affairs and news, take up a hobby (guitar, piano, painting, poetry), join a sports team (mens rec basketball league, flag football, fucking kickball). Don't believe your own negative bullshit because you will try to …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 09:33 PM
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Tell her you and your boys are going to the city, a strip club, gambling in Vegas for the weekend... anything. See if she reacts. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. If you can trust her like she says, then she can trust you, am I right?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 07:50 PM
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A good friend of mine was accused by this salty ho back when I was in college. This chick wanted to be seen as little miss purity and claimed she never had sex. She would have some alcohol and then jump at the dick real quick. But instead of saying, "oh I was drunk" and not be viewed as a slut, she would rather lie and possibly damn a man's reputation and put him on the sex offender list. She had sex with three guys I personally knew in college who I was friends with (but they were not all in th…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 09:54 PM
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