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I don’t get why you’re being downvoted. Oh no! Self improvement! Scary stuff apparently.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 01:32 AM
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Twitter is a cesspool. I don’t even need to click the link to know what degenerate bullshit lies beyond.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/21 11:29 PM
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Kind of late to the post but from doing research into trust issues, which is what this seems to be, it comes down to having issues in trusting yourself, in my case it certainly is. Do I trust myself enough to see the signs? Do I trust myself enough to recover from the pain? Do I trust myself enough to be able to walk away if I feel my boundaries are being crossed? When I had raging trust issues I didn't trust myself to do any of this. The more I fix these things the easier it is to throw trust o…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 08:28 PM
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seeing as 1 in 3 girls are victims of childhood sexual assault i assure you that is most certainly not their first run in with men's attraction to them. but let me guess you think those little children are lying for social clout right?
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 05:49 PM
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essentially what youre picking up on is that women are told from an extremely young age men will use and manipulate them, this is not communicated to young men and they find out via experience. with the playing fields leveled now, or more level then they were, men are now having to deal with the same manipulative bs that women have had to deal with for a millennia. feel free to correct me if im not understanding you correctly but i gather this is what you mean. why anyone thinks you cant be used…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 04:07 PM
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id LOVE to know where he gets these numbers because i guarantee you they won't accept his ass as a reliable source. also if EVERYONE you meet is an asshole and this horrendous you need to get some goddamn therapy either to get yourself a good look in the mirror or to figure out why it is you gravitate to god awful people.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/21 02:55 AM
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Oof. That relationship is gonna go south real quick. Or he'll end up as a divorce stat later down the line. That is assuming she has any self respect which I can't speak on but she's absolutely setting herself up for abuse and if or when she wakes up it's not gonna be good for their relationship.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 03:24 PM
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Id suspect they all have daddy issues. No I'm not just saying that. red pill as far as women are concerned probably comes from a place of wanting male acceptance. That's the only way I can see a woman benefiting from the red pill. It would result in a lot of self hatred but women like that always seem to somehow think they can escape the negative press the red pill gives women. Furthermore I definitely know women who have had abusive mothers and I think red pill would also cater to that as it's …
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 03:15 PM
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shrodingers sex...life?
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 03:41 AM
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look, it sounds like youre viewing this content specifically to put yourself in a shit mood. it borders on emotional self harm. none of us here can really control the absolute garbage content hollywood puts out aside from ignoring it and choosing to not engage with it. yes. not talking about it, not viewing the content is the best thing you can do for yourself and to show your distaste of said media. quite honestly, the only reason i know about this is because of this sub. I havent seen talk of …
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 07:05 PM
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studies indicate that the veteran is more likely to cheat then the non veteran, gender being irrelevant to said rates two second google search man.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/21 04:17 PM
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a surprising majority of the red pill leaders/'thinkers' have either been through divorce or are a product of divorce. divorce rates have climbed in the west however, ironically a good chunk of that is due to repeat divorces (ie: the same clump of people who divorced the first time are more likely to get divorced multiple times driving up the average)
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 06:56 PM
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I'm going to disagree with the other user here. red pill doesn't blame women for the ills of society it blames men for not controlling women, it infantilizes women and reduces them into robots who are slaves to their hormones where as men have the ability to become conscious of said bodily functions and should rise above it. which is far worse. in short, awalt. granted this is more an ideal of mgtow but the fundemental principle runs along all red pill ideology, that women are at their best when…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 05:14 PM
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the same reason people fall for get rich quick schemes.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 05:03 PM
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the venn diagram between red pill men and this woman is a circle.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 05:18 PM
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Oh ya red pill is filled to the brim with thought traps like these.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 07:55 PM
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I'm sure you were, hell most people do try and help others, it's in our nature. It's ridiculous that being a feminist ally results in having to be self depricating. That's not healthy, it's not okay and it causes people to walk away from certain movements. And that stretches beyond feminism as well. I'm not surprised you got burnt out and mentally collapsed. Being told your evil and you need to make up for that despite having never done anything wrong yourself is taxing on the majority of indivi…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 02:48 PM
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I mean I have to agree here. Critic doesn't mean we have to slander or be malicious about it. And in fact is most likely a turn off to others who are trying to find a way out and results in keeping people from growing and leaving red pill behind. It's hard to listen to critic especially if on top of that they're being called various derogatory terms.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 01:53 PM
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You wish
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 01:02 PM
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i think this is also just an artist insecurity as well. lots of artists, men and women, feel this way about their art, the core insecurity being a worry of making good and quality art. you could rephrase this question and fear slightly, drop it in an art sub and nearly everyone will relate. even higher level artists will relate to the feeling of insecurity here. it is possible to rise to that level, you just have to want it. hell, all my professors/teachers were always married, that included the…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 07:25 PM
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and that fellas is how you fuck up a woman approaching you
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 07:04 PM
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debate isnt really the best way at establishing a solid argument, there are so many varying tactics that can be used to make a shitty argument look good especially when debating people who dont do so for a living. and any debate from a professional that is towards a random person usually ends up in the random person getting fucking demolished. youll see it on redpill, bluepill, feminist, mra, christian, atheist channels all the time. the average person is just not equipped to debate someone who …
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 08:43 PM
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its textbook financial abuse
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 08:34 PM
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i honestly believe its tied to the rise in narcissism and a lot of the leading red pill men seem to be gen x or older millennial (with maybe a handful of very young boomers but i have yet to see any that go to the extremist end of it) with both having over arching themes of high individualism and higher rates of narcissistic behavior (for both men and women). a lot of what red pill talks about circles around these dark triad behaviors either by practicing them or by pointing them out in certain …
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 08:30 PM
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i mean i think its a pretty basic principle. plus you will just feel all around better about yourself. if you take pride in your appearance you will feel better about yourself as youre treating your body and presentation with care. working out, having clothes that fit you well, a nice hair cut, grooming/oral care (beyond basic hygiene, ask any woman and theyll tell you nothing is better then a guy who smells amazing or has nice white teeth) it all helps to enhance your presentation. I know i fee…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 08:12 PM
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im sorry you grew up with that. its awful and very damaging, i experienced it myself, im lgbt and it really did a number on me, obviously its a different dynamic but its still under the same umbrella in my opinion. i get what you mean for sure. ive definitely heard conservative/evangelical/fundie types try and argue that they are "feminist" in that they value "true feminity" or whatever nonsensical bs they like spewing out their ass and their crazy word games they play, but thats definitely not …
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:11 AM
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Not to completely insert myself, I'm not sure if you're firmilar with 'purity culture' at all, it's a very specific term used by exchristian fundementalist but there are some pretty good videos that highlight some of the ways men's sexuality is demonized. Obviously that's a semi niché example but as far as systematically being supressed its a good example. I believe God is gray on youtube did a video on it. If I find it I'll come back and link it. Her channel is awesome and she's a very thoughtf…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 01:37 AM
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i mean thats just growth and change which i did also mention at the end of my comment. older women may view those interactions differently. women are allowed to grow and change and view things different in retrospect as well. you just wont get the ability to go back and interact with them and see how their view has changed if theyre no longer in your life. i mean i could but its a waste of time. people have miscommunications, have projections, get emotional, get defensive and whatever else every…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 12:20 AM
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Well following someone around the store if they're very clearly shutting down the conversation is creepy no matter who does it. It shows a lack of boundaries and is a giant red flag and is just plain annoying. And the question is inherently leading 'what is a bad place to do x' is going to cause someone to think of times that were negative interactions. If you asked the question 'when was a time that a guy left a good impression on you' then they'll think of positive interactions. For years I us…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 11:59 PM
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The approach method matters more then the place. If a woman has her headphones on, head down or is trying to escape you in conversation it's a safe bet she's not interested. I think when prompted with this specific wording women will think of the times men approached them with an inappropriate method and just assume the place was the problem. If a woman is at a bar it's pretty much expected there might be some creepy guy hitting on them, it's expected rather then when out and about, getting hit …
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 11:33 PM
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i believe it would fall under the abuse tactic crazy-making. pushing someone until they explode and then proudly proclaiming they were right about you being unstable or some shit like that.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 05:02 PM
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ah ok i see i see, i 100% agree in that case
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 06:55 PM
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i agree with the general statement of it being part of the grieving process but i dont think it has anything to do with being "blue pilled" its very obviously a response to narcissistic abuse these men have gone through at the hands of women. a lot of the qualities they accuse women of having are all very much dark triad traits and are extremely common in narcissistic individuals. thats why i find it interesting, a lot of the red pilled leaders are these same types of individuals, and once abuse…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 05:22 PM
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Same. Im thoroughly convinced feminist or redpill parents automatically create a child who is insecure and hyper fixates on sex/gender furthering the problem they're allegedly trying to fix. I have yet to see someone raised by either type of parent who comes out completely sane and secure with their gender/sex. Man or woman doesn't matter.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 04:57 PM
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Huh fascinating I didn't know that. Im actually a huge fan of pyschology myself and would've gone into that field had it not been for my extreme introversion so I'm all for the arm chair pyschologist haha. Ill have to look up this dmn thing, never heard of it and my interest is peaked for sure. I think your assessment is accurate, coupled with their own honest admissions about their mental states. Quite a few of the mass shooters they've created seem very obviously on the spectrum. (Keep in mind…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 09:19 PM
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I have to agree. Even just looking at incel forms (specifically incel forms not the blended mgtow/incel forms) it's very apparent they have multiple layers of mental health issues going on. (No shame I deal with them myself) but I think 'back in the day' there was different forms of escapism that usually resulted in being physcially around like minded people. And I would say it's no secret that those who struggle with mental health do better when they have some support network, especially irl. T…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 06:40 PM
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I dunno man, might be the women you're hitting on. Over half my exes loved deep conversations. Topic didn't matter. May very well be the place you're picking them up. If some girl in the bar tells me she likes deep convos it's probably safe to say she just wants to sound deep. Same thing with dating apps, it just sounds good. Most people who actually love deep conversations don't mention it until right after a deep conversation. At least that's what I've noticed anyways.
/r/seduction09/06/21 02:24 AM
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My question is why do you spam multiple subs with this question.
/r/seduction10/05/21 02:25 AM
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Ok so you have to be a bot got it.
/r/seduction10/05/21 01:52 AM
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Answer my question and I'll answer yours
/r/seduction10/05/21 01:46 AM
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What exactly are you trying to get at? You know asking random individuals is far from getting accruate info right? So why your constant obsession with this. if you're gay go be gay? I don't understand how you have this much free time
/r/seduction10/05/21 01:44 AM
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Lmao I feel the same way. I thought maybe it was some weird ocd obsession thing, where they just have to ask the question or have a weird fixation, but that doesn't make much sense if it is an AI, or some sort of bot. It's odd. And sometimes its really active and then there's a lull and they disappear. Weird shit
/r/seduction03/05/21 03:51 PM
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They do seem to add some subs occasionally, it's really odd.
/r/seduction03/05/21 03:49 PM
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I mean I don't doubt it but how do you know? And more importantly why on earth did someone make an ai to ask the same damn question?
/r/seduction03/05/21 03:14 PM
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This dude is a troll. Oh and I reported all your bs again.
/r/seduction03/05/21 03:07 PM
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Naw my ass gotta life, yo ass comes to reddit because you're so dysfunctional you gotta start random bs for attention. you acting just like the bitches you hate. Start some bullshit and can't even clean up after yourself. Fucking pathetic. Have fun with that floppy ass vagina. You're boring me now. I'm out 🤙
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 09:01 AM
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At least I'm not a beta cuck who gave his balls to pokimane
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:58 AM
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Only one bowing to the pussy is you since you keep bringing it up.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:57 AM
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Hey im not the idiot who rolled into a sub to call random internet strangers pussies because they're a lonely beta
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:56 AM
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Naw I didn't even bother to read your brain dead dribble. Come correct then we'll talk you didn't earn my respect so you get the shaft
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:55 AM
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Bruh just admit your a beta cuck it's really not that difficult
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:54 AM
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You're the dumb dumb who came here you soy beta cuck
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:53 AM
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Naw I don't need to read the same mindless dribble over and over again. It's fucking mind numbing. Come correct and then I'll bother to read your worthless bullshit
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:53 AM
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I sleep at night just fine but hey at least I'm not some looser who need to have an internet tantrum to feel special
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:52 AM
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You're the one who brought up pokimane and simps so if anything you the simp the projection is so thick I need a fucking chain saw to cut through it
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:52 AM
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Aw are you butt hurt the hot insta model ghosted you?
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:21 AM
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Dude you can't even save yourself
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:20 AM
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Hard to be a cuck when I'm single and definitely not as cucked as you. Your emotions got you cucked women hot you cucked red pill got you cucked. Your everyone's little beta bitch
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:20 AM
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Me shitting on you only has to do with you coming into a space to start shit. That ain't got nothing to do with the pussy you keep talking about. You're so cucked you can't even go a second without thinking about it Low self control complete beta cuck
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:19 AM
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Oh ya. It's pretty hard to get people to join with that. Plus a lot of the youtubers got pulled as well. At least the prominent ones. Hard to find, and only seeing people leaving gives an illusion of less social weight
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 01:01 AM
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Probably. Hard to shill bs ideas when there's a bunch of people who left the flawed ideology.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 12:54 AM
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Cause pokimane didn't answer his dms after that 5k tip
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 11:35 PM
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I think you simping for us since you care so damn much
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 11:32 PM
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Bro you cringe for starting shit with random strangers
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 11:31 PM
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Bruh you a lonely mother fucker with no where to go in life cause the most action you got in your life is starting shit on reddit 🤷 As if grammar matters on a personal platform. Just take that L
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 11:30 PM
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Hey at least I'm not starting shit on reddit 🤷 still better off then you
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 11:27 PM
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Bruh wut 😂 whatever drugs your on they're destroying your brain
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 11:26 PM
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I've been single for 2 years to work on myself. I don't need a girl to be happy 🤷 you on the other hand... Oof
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 11:22 PM
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Imagine an emotional state so fragile and out of control that you have to take it out on random internet strangers. Oof.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 09:39 PM
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Yo I needed to read this. Also if that's a goal of yours you'll get there brother.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 09:01 PM
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Why did feminism come about? That also doesn't explain how conservativism gives love by the way. Removal of market place in the home doesn't mean people can't or won't weigh cost and benefits to someones place in their life. To assume that would not take place shows a fundemental lack of human nature. Edit: unless that is you're convoluted way of saying women having jobs is bad. In which case that's a whole different can of worms we can get into.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 07:14 PM
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Great. Now how does the right wing of that create 'love'
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:57 PM
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Great. Now how does the right wing version of that create 'love'.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:56 PM
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What is facism?
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:38 PM
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Great. I'm not arguing for feminism. I'm a centrist. You don't need to be a feminist in order to not be red pillers/facism. You think of the world in such absolutes it's like the middle doesn't even exist to you. Edit: also you answered a question I didn't ask. WHAT IS FACISM.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:34 PM
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Sure kid
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:33 PM
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Love is inherently a false concept. Ayn rand said that pretty well. Seems you're upset the fairy tale concept of love is false. I mean even parental love isn't actual 'love' in any meaningful sense. Love between people has always been inherently selfish. If you think otherwise then you clearly have a very rose tinted view of history. 'love' was never any grand concept. Sorry to burst that bubble for you. That would be considered a highly flawed study and be thrown out you should know that. All t…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:33 PM
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Link the evidence to which you are basing your world view. Actual science. Not personal anecdote. As far as debating and science goes you have raised no evidence so we don't need evidence to refute your claims. You really don't know much for apparently shooting for a phd. Your scientific process is completely shit.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:23 PM
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How quaint. Ironically I'm not a therapist and I do think since the 2000s therapy has gone to some really woke shit. But I'm assuming you're saying this to hurt me which is hilarious because unlike you my internal self worth isn't based on others.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:21 PM
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Ultimate suffering from success lol
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:14 PM
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You came to us asking to change your mind. Ethics has nothing to do with that. Okay? Good for you? Do you want to change your mind or did you just come here for a dick measuring contest with internet strangers.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:14 PM
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I mean dude you keep repeating you fucked 800 people. Like are you bragging? I don't get it. You're more angry that the system was made for someone like you and you seem pissed about it. Suffering from success? Why are you pissed at a system that seems to work for you? I have less success and I seem to have way more inner peace then you my dude. You're main issue seems to be that you're hedonistic. You can't control yourself and so you indulge in every whim and since you can't control yourself y…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:10 PM
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You're looking for us to cater our answer to save you. We can't save you. Only you can save you because you know best how to change your mind. The responsibility lies solely on you.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 05:42 PM
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I've fallen in love with people others think are ugly perhaps. My watch was real. Rich people could recognize it but I couldn't. They have their own symbolic world. I'm going to call bullshit here. You claim to have 'fallen in love with ugly people' yet you're also clamouring to get into high society which has objectively more attractive people as they have the extra time and resources to make themselves more attractive. You're blowing smoke. You have yet to demonstrate you even know what facism…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 05:39 PM
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Out of curiosity do you know what real facism is, not this BS strawman 'everything slightly right is facism'? Because if so I can gaurentee you that you personally would not benefit from that system, as would the far left not actually benefit from the socialism they think they want. Additionally, have you looked into narcassism as a personality disorder as it seems the women you are attracting would fall right into that category. Further more you must also accept the premise that all dating (eve…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 05:14 PM
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The women who are pouring buckets into their appearance is usually a good indication. Probably better understood as a 'high maintenance' woman.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 01:05 AM
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I've also seen women go nuts for the guy who pushes back against the bully/bad guy. That's it own little niche.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/21 09:02 PM
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So I mean if that's the case is it really a shit test or is it crazy making and moments of insecurity and lashing out at someone else that are misdirected because that individual is an object of romantic/sexual attraction? I've had 'shit tests' too but I've also dated really shitty women who weren't the best for me emotionally and had their own sets of emotional problems (more so then the average person). Who knows maybe I need more experience or maybe I don't pick up on the little shit tests wo…
/r/seduction07/01/21 05:07 PM
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This is just my professional opinion but I don't think women shit test men (or anyone). It's either 1 of 3 things. She's flirting with you in a banter type manner. Usually playfully mocking manner, but all in good fun You or her are misreading something and the guy thinks it's a shit test when really the woman is just... Existing She's actually abusive and guys think she's just testing boundaries to be sure she's dating 'an alpha's or whatever, when no, you're actually dating a crazy narcissisti…
/r/seduction07/01/21 05:24 AM
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i mean that particular phrasing is shit and I dont know why someone would use that analogy. ive heard the analogy its like asking a fish how to catch a fish. from the women I have talked to none of them will out right say what they are actually attracted to, they will say things that are secondary to a primary set of traits that they arent acknowledging they are attracted to. thats not to say all women are like this, and some women are very in touch with what they find attractive and what they d…
/r/seduction04/12/20 07:01 PM
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If you don't want it to head that way it might be overkill.
/r/seduction04/12/20 05:04 PM
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I doubt it. We crave human connection innately. Itd be no different then having a puppy (a fuckable one may be) but psychologically its not the same. A band-aid sure may be but not much more then that. Also consider if this did work and people preferred this and shunned human connection because we all don't learn how to compromise. We would have engineered our own extinction because sex is required for reproduction at this time and given your hypothetical doesn't account for if we just become im…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:21 AM
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