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What is cringe advice? Telling guys not to try to control but put boundaries up not to be controlled themselves? If you cringe at that, you should check your testosterone levels. They might be lower than zero.
/r/seduction21/01/22 11:15 AM
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No. It is not exactly that. Your first sentence was a weak excuse. And then in your second sentence you said that you wanna change. People like you in my work environment, I eat up and spew them out. With that first sentence you give away that you are weak. So again: take my advice and the advice above and stop being a girl in your communication.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/21 03:05 PM
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Trying is something that losers do. Your bad writing style was pointed out by a fellow man. Just say, „Got it, will improve next time“ instead of bullshitting yourself and others with excuses like „I am not a writer“. People don’t care about your excuses. Just do better next time. That’s it. Nobody will blame you if you improve.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/21 02:59 PM
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Yes. Anything else to add that is worth my time?
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:35 PM
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You talking about false Moralismus? You just guilt tripped Op a bit above and recommended to go to a female therapist because as a guy it is obviously wrong to think that a girl with a umhingt partner count is rotten (hint: she is and she belongs to the streets). Hypocrite.
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:06 PM
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Read the blogpost in mental point of origin by Rollo Tomassi. Every day! Read it everyday. Until you completely understand it. Then read it some more.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/21 08:51 PM
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There is a good (or it seems there was?) website by a female psychotherapist called gettinbetter dot com. It has huge amounts of helpful articles for victims of BPDs. In addition check out something called complex PTSD. Being with a bpd is like a series of PTSD events. EMDR and IEMT are methods of psychotherapy that help immensely with that. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 06:27 PM
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Ha ha ha. You are hating everywhere. Good luck in your life mate. You will need it. Because discipline and responsibility is nonexistent in your world. Most of luck kiddo.
/r/seduction02/08/21 10:11 PM
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Also: SHE got lucky. Not you. Change your mindset and stop putting women in a pedestal. It only leads to disaster.
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:44 PM
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Stop giving yourself the negative belief “I am not going to be fuckin 20 year old forever”. Because: how do you know? Fact ism you don’t. Now keep improving and don’t become lazy and fall back into old habits again. Well done man!
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:43 PM
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Quit porn.
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:21 PM
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You need help man. You do. Learn a skill. Get a job. And to answer your question: you are whining.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 06:38 PM
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I want to work. Most men want to work. If you grow up and become a man as well you will see that. Stop whining
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 05:16 PM
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Don’t. Feed. The. Trolls.
/r/seduction21/07/21 06:12 PM
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Still. The most amazing word to show that you are higher value, is the word „no“. Just drop that a few times and you’ll see how this changes her attitude
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 08:01 AM
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Don’t tell her that. You can. Tell her stuff like „if I still like you after this evening we might go to a trip to the beach together“. This works, because it short circuits their brain. They mostly immediately reply with something like „you mean, if I (bold I) still like you next week“. Then smile and continue the conversation on another topic. You ONLY implicitly tell them that you are the price, doing it verbally it has to be very indirect (see example above).
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 08:00 AM
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That was my first thought already at screaming at the cashier. I would have stopped the date there. I find people who shout at waiting staff, are the most disgusting human beings ever. Biggest red flag.
/r/seduction17/07/21 06:01 PM
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That was my first thought already at screaming at the cashier. I would have stopped the date there. I find people who shout at waiting staff, are the most disgusting human beings ever. Biggest red flag.
/r/seduction17/07/21 06:01 PM
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The original question was IF men 50+ bang 20 year olds. To that the answer ist not no but yes. And just because you think it isn’t achievable for you, doesn’t mean it is for guys like me. Stay in shape, accumulate wealth, be good in bed. Don’t read studies that keep yourself down. Also: the 4% might be true but those girls have MULTIPLE partners during their college years. It isn’t like this „I find one guy and fuck exclusively him“.
/r/seduction15/07/21 07:41 AM
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It is irrelevant who YOU (ONE woman) are banging. You don’t make the whole population. If you are in college do yourself and favor and take stats 101. it will help you to understand what I said.
/r/seduction14/07/21 05:55 PM
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Nope to your nope. You obviously have no clue.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:10 PM
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Of course. Not all of them. But more than enough.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:10 PM
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More reps doesn’t equal more success. Even the 10000 hour study (which is partially refuted, partially shown true) was on DELIBERATE practice. Not just practice by doing more practice.
/r/seduction10/07/21 08:10 AM
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Ha ha ha. Grow up Brooke (best advice you will ever get on Reddit).
/r/seduction08/07/21 09:48 PM
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This is YOUR interpretation of two words. Yours. Not mine. And yes, you need help.
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:54 PM
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You are confused. Correct. Which is why you shouldn’t post but read.
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:01 PM
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You should improve your game because you love YOURSELF And you wanna share it with women. That’s what your last sentence should say. You are basically entering the feminine frame. Do this and no women will LOVE you. But try it out for yourself if you think that you are clever.
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:00 PM
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BECAUSE there are MANY women, GENERALIZATIONS like the above are possible in the first place. (If they are Right is a different thing, but making generalizations about big populations is why statistics exists). Take stats 101 and you will learn this basic fact.
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:59 PM
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This is one of the things that girls actually admit that they look at. So yes, it is a real thing.
/r/seduction08/07/21 10:25 AM
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Neither is 45 or 50 if you are in shape. And A LOT of girls enjoy it. Not all, but enough.
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:01 AM
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Yes, YOU haven’t. But exceptions don’t make the rule, they validate the rule. Open your mind and look at the whole world. Not only the small piece of it That is in your current view of the world.
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:00 AM
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Obviously I talk about 18+ year olds you creep. Don’t project your insecurities on me. Get a therapist.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:59 AM
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LOL. That’s not creepy. I am around that age and approach young girls. Just because you personally don’t like That, doesn’t make it true for all girls. In fact more girls than you would think love it. (But you need to have an open mind for that girl) Sidenote: This is an example of a „well meant“ but nevertheless bad answer. Most women just cannot give advice on what other women look for in men. The rare exception to this doesn’t make the rule. Most women just cannot give good dating advice to m…
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:24 PM
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That’s why I started lifting. Nowadays I lift because I enjoy the feeling of an workout and after a workout. And I guess that this is true for MOST guys who lift consistently. You cannot do that without intrinsic motivation. And this can never come from a woman.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/21 11:07 AM
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„Rejection is better than regret.“ - Pook
/r/seduction28/06/21 09:39 PM
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Exactly. When she asks you „don’t you wanna know about my former partners“. Just say „no“. You really shouldn’t care. She won’t give you the truth if you blatantly asked anyway. But she definitely will trickle truth you during your time together. And then you can make cocky and funny deep dives into her past. And this will oftentimes reveal a lot of deep shit.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:44 AM
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Don’t stare on the pics. She got all the validation by you clicking on them. Send her a text. End it. The end.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 10:17 AM
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Yes. Had this happen a few days ago with an fwb. „I’ll send you pictures about the long weekend with my sister.“ We had a fuck date planned this evening. I texted her yesterday, her replies were bland, I knew she broke off internally, so I just ended it then and there. Too much drama some women. Will feel weird for a few days, but making the decision of not being dependent on a women and her emotional Hamster is an even better feeling.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 10:16 AM
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You are now in the top 10% of guys (probably that 10% is way too conservative) who ever cold approached a woman. Remember: cold approaches are always hard at the beginning. Also after a Long pause you need to get into it again. But you did something that MOST men will NEVER do in their entire lives. You were bold, you didn’t hide your dick, congrats bro.
/r/seduction19/06/21 06:43 AM
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A society with men who get together with single moms, a society with men who support feminism, a society with men who are way too emotional. Do I need to continue? It is actually quite obvious.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 07:08 AM
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Had this discussion in another thread recently. No one gets 10% lays. No one. 10% is probably the number for girls he got a number with. Lay ratio is more like 1%.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:02 PM
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Ok. That makes sense then.
/r/seduction11/06/21 06:39 PM
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If you lay 1 out of 10 (90%) or 1 out of 20 (95%) of girls, than kudos to you. But I do think that this number is not achievable for most (close to all) of the guys. You need a good combination of rapport building skills and attraction and probably a million other things to get those numbers. Or did your 90-95% didn't refer to "closes" (aka lays) but to something else.
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:48 PM
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Like someone mentioned above. Cold approach is nearly 99% rejection. Very similar to cold calling in sales. Absolute percentage wise, looks will lot matter much. Relatively perhaps. But this is of no interest. Stop whining. Approach.
/r/seduction10/06/21 01:52 PM
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You miss the matrix. And that’s ok. Just realize. You cannot go back. And this hurts. Read The Odyssey by Homer. Look how he struggled for years on end. It will give you perspective. You gotta persevere. Wake up everyday anew. There is just no other way than keep moving forward.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:26 AM
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You are saying what I am saying. Don’t compare yourself to others, especially not to worse people. Reread your initial answer and the line that I quoted. It seems you figured out your own mindset blockage in your last answer to me. Good!
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 10:12 AM
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This. Like in literally this. When I found this out for the first time in my life I was surprised. How hot and wet women get when they know you have fucked someone else is amazing. That’s also something you don’t get from females, even if you ask them.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 09:57 AM
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„Just compare yourself to people your own age bracket“. No. That is exactly what the above poster DOES NOT do. And THAT is why he is successful. That would be like learning chess and then only play 4 year old children. Yeah, you feel better but it doesn’t help. It’s a mindset issue you have there. Fix it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 06:43 PM
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„I mean that“. If you have to clarify your post, then your post is shit. Which it is. Your post says „title“ and your title is unspecific. If I would be a mod, I would just delete this thread without even warning. Explain your question. Give a specific example. THEN we can help you.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 10:01 AM
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Dude. There are WAY LESS top shelf men than top shelf women. Learn a solid skill, earn six figures, don’t be fat. There: you are a top 5-10% guy. (100k probably is top 3-15% in most western countries, not being fat is easily top 30%, 0,15 times 0,3 is 0,045, so top 5% - yes, those distributions are not completely independent, but they pretty much are approximately) So a napkin calculation shows you how simple (but not easy) it is to become a top shelf guy. Why on earth would you think there are …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 09:37 AM
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Wrong. The horniest women I have been with were the young ones. Yes, there are horny cougars but in average they cannot compete with top of the shelf young women.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 09:27 AM
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There are probably „anonymous“ phone numbers (meaning, you can stay anonymous) where you live, that are staffed by counselors and therapists. Call them. This will give you the emotional support during the time until you are 18. ministry of health in your country might have some information on that.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:04 AM
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You LTRd a far left girl. And she doesn’t like guns. Who would have thought. Be glad that it is over. Take solace in the idea that she will never be happy with that ideology anyway. Move on brother, she wasn’t worth the effort.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 04:59 AM
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Thx for sharing this guys. Gyms opening again in my area. Great motivation and tips there.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:45 PM
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This. Simple yes. Easy no. Follow this advice anyway. Lost frame is basically impossible to recover, there might be instances where it works. But most of the time it doesn’t. You’ll just prolong the inevitable.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:16 PM
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This is tough. First of all: get some professional help because this is not something you just „sit out“. Therapists can help in such cases. To the girl who didn’t understand you: girls don’t understand problems. Only if you have solved them. But even then this might lower your frame a ton if you are not good at holding frame. Also (and this is last but definitely not least, and actually the most important here): if the girl gets mad at you for having been raped, then you leave. Immediately. Dro…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 07:21 PM
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You still talk too much. The explaining that you explained it is a good example that you don’t have your shit together. If you would have ever done martial arts with a good sense, you would know that a silent nod would be ok. Or something like“got it. Thanks“. You are still miles away from bettering yourself if you continue this wobble wash. Just act man! Stop talking for some time and do stuff.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:14 AM
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Yea. He read it. You are spouting out excuses in ever second sentence. Hence his advice makes sense. You need to realize that the real world doesn’t give a shit about you. Or me. Or anybody else. Hence the advice above. Better yourself. That’s it. There’s nothing more to do. But: it will take effort. A lot of it most likely.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 07:50 PM
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Yes. It is possible. Proof: myself. Caveat: you might need a very painful event to happen in your life before you realize THAT you are and adult now and that YOU need to grow up. There is nobody out there to help you. This sounds harsh. But the concept will help you. You basically only need to get to the point where you’ll realize that whining about your past won’t help. Yes, you can overcome your past. It may not be an easy path. But it will be worthwhile!
/r/askTRP07/05/21 06:32 PM
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„chill“. Whenever posts start like this, the person should get a mirror and tell exactly that to the person they are looking at.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 07:08 AM
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Do NOT follow your passion. You have a bunch of passions anyway. There are plenty of jobs out there that pay well and give you a 40 hour work week, lot of jobs in IT or the trades. I still have time to learn how to fix my bike, do sports and hang out with friends. ​ Plus: I have a healthy 6 figure salary and I do not miss much. Following my passion stole approx 3 years of my life in between careers. Total bollocks, I learned some skills during that time, but I had to let the business model go be…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 02:21 PM
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You just say her this: "Honey, I looked at the offices for name changes (whatever it is called where you live) and they are open again. I booked you an appointment next week". Exactly like this. If she reacts negatively, go to a lawyer because she doesn't respect you now and she will never. If she says something like "ok" with a submissive tonality, she might fall back into your frame (which you have just reset by the first sentence). I doubt that the latter is very likely ´though, considering w…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:53 AM
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This is the only answer OP needs to read. Facts!
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:50 AM
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So are women evil? No. Learn to understand written sentences. Nobody does Briffaults Law state that women are evil. Women are inherently solipsistic. This does not mean they are evil. Just the fact that you ask that question means that you are not a man yet. Women are not evil. They are just women. Accept their nature and act accordingly. But first: get a mission and make yourself your own mental point of origin.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:46 AM
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I see some coding answers already, but this will be diluted in the future (you will still get jobs, but rates will drop). IT skills that are in high demand are the "dirty" IT skills, like devops, network tech, IT security, IT audits,...basically...all the shit that is not considered cool (like webdev or data analysis). Don't do web development. Everyone who can code, can do web dev (not web design, but web dev). Learn IT skills where there are many more job oepnings than applicants.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:23 AM
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Why would you tell her that? Not negotiating with terrorists mean that you don't negotiate with them. The message is in the framing, not the talking.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:20 AM
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I'll keep this shit short and sweet for the bros. You should keep in short and succinct. Nobody gives a crap abotu sweet. Your post is a good example for a really shitty post. Here is your post in short and succinct: TLDR: went on 1-week vacation with LTR; great trip except one thing: once we landed in the vacation destination I pulled out Insta, a girl photo popped up, she got mad, did I handle it correctly? (next paragraph: explanation of how bad I handled it) ​ I told her I can't control what…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:19 AM
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It will not become 90/10. it will become more like 99/10, maybe 99/5. meaning 99% of women will go with 5-10% of guys.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 11:01 PM
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Get friends. Male friends. This is the reason why BJJ and kickboxing gets recommended as well. It helps with stress and it helps in finding male friends to hang out with. Another thing. Maybe even more important: you need a mission. If you would have one, you would not worry. (I only found out after I found mine. If yo do not have a mission yet, make it your short term mission to find a mission. This also will help you to stay focused)
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:03 AM
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Bachelor Pad Economics Start with that. Read it multiple times. Will make you think about finances properly. Will give you advice on not taking out student loans, and specifically not for non stem subjects.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 02:16 PM
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„All I actually need is one girl that fits my standards.“ If you are still suicidal go to a doctor. Immediately! Meaning: now. As in: right now. From reading your post, you don’t seem to have standards. All you talk about is a girl who left you. Read Rollo‘s article about mental point of origin. After this read „the burden of performance“. This feeling for your ex will pass. If you wanna work through it. You say that you might never find another one like her. Good for you then: a girl who pushes…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:14 PM
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Recently watched this again and thought the same. The way how Mick holds frame, without even trying, is such a good example of this concept. He just is his own mental point of origin.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:46 PM
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I don’t wanna care about breathing. I don’t wanna care about taking a shit. I don’t wanna care about eating. (See Michael1962 answering above) Maybe you get it now. Also: Stop crying, life is unfair. Persevere.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:03 PM
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