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I didn't realise how bad my childhood was until I saw how normal families interacted. My girlfriend comes from a happy family and the difference is night and day. She loves her parents, her sisters, her grandparents. They meet up every week, she goes to dinner with them, they take an active interest in her life. They smile, they laugh, they have fun. I will never know how that feels and that will haunt me until the day I die. As for the sociopath bit, I'm not like that. I certainly have some tra…
/r/askTRP21/07/17 10:05 AM
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I didn't ask to be like this. I just feel so fucking bored all the time.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 09:56 AM
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Sometimes it feels like I haven't made any progress at all. Sometimes it feels like it doesn't matter if I've made progress or not. I just want to scream my fucking lungs out but I never can.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 09:55 AM
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Well delivery is important, it's obviously said in a faux-apolgetic tone, always makes her giggle
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 10:49 AM
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"It's not my fault I'm handsome" is my go to line
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 08:59 AM
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What games has she actually played, really? You acknowledge in your original post that you projected all of this shit onto her. It takes some serious strength to get back with this woman and not have oneitis again. Wish her the best and forget about her, as a gentleman would. No reason to end it badly.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:19 PM
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Fun? People enjoy the music, dancing and meeting up with their friends. It's really not all about sex
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:46 AM
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I literally got that text last week and replied in that exact way. "Yeah don't think we should talk anymore" "Ok, if that's how you feel" Turned off data, went to the gym. Got back to 5 missed calls which started 5 minutes after I sent that message. Didn't bother replying to her until the next day. She was angry at me for being an asshole / not calling her enough. She didn't have any real intention of leaving me. It was due to failed comfort tests and complete lack of attention rather than the o…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:32 AM
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Same here. I was a depressed loner porn addict in high school. I wanted to kill myself. I was surrounded by Neanderthal retards and I was completely unchallenged by my school work. Since going to college, I've grown to 6'3, dropped body fat to the point where I'm very attractive, gotten a beautiful classy girlfriend who comes from money and I'm studying electrical engineering with a high GPA, while working sales jobs on the side. I want to end up in technical sales or investment banking. Going b…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:44 AM
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Emotional affair? Lmao
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:28 AM
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I'm 10 years younger than you but I feel the same way. I have a lot of people I would consider acquaintances. I'm confident and I have good social skills. When I go to social events I'm often the centre of the room and the centre of attention. When it comes down to it though, I don't have a lot of real friends and I find it incredibly hard to make them. The only people I'm friends with are people I've known from childhood. Even then, I never talk to them about anything personal. I had a very dif…
/r/askTRP09/07/17 03:02 PM
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TRP is a toolset, and you have acknowledged its usefulness. Do as you please. You don't want to get to the top, you don't want to get it all, fine. That's completely fine. Do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 12:09 PM
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That's an extremist view to take, and if you ask me it comes from a place of cowardice and fear. You don't want to get into a close relationship with a woman because you're afraid of being hurt. You can be nice and dominant at the same time, believe it or not. Most of the time you should be having fun with girls, not worrying about whether you're being nice/dominant. You need to be dominant when she crosses a line. Not even dominant if you ask me, you just need to have some fucking self respect.…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 11:58 AM
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I think you've already made up your mind and you should have broken up with her by now. You can't have a relationship and sex with different plates at the same time. I prefer a relationship, even if I could have sex with a different supermodel every week. Not even lying. That's the kind of person I am. I like having an actual connection with someone and that's what makes me happy. You want both, and it's obvious which one you prefer. So go for it and don't look back. If things go wrong, or you w…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 11:03 AM
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Without having to worry about being alpha This line right here. This tells me everything. You shouldn't need to worry about being alpha. You should just be alpha. That's what you need to think about. Why don't you want to be? Being alpha isn't a negative thing. It's being a man, and women want a man. Not a spineless cuck. That's nature. So deal with it. Like some other dude said, it's like being mad at trees for growing.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 09:51 AM
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She's your soon to be wife, mate. Allowing your "friends" to call her a slut and not apologize for it is just ridiculous and imagine how that makes her view you as a person. Your friends sound like immature losers and you should have broken it off with them a long time ago.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 09:46 AM
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Can't understand this shit. How the fuck does it get to the point where you are marrying her until you start making a decision about this? I can't even comprehend it.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 09:43 AM
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You sound like an annoying, vain douchebag. Whatever about your girlfriend's body, if you don't like her as a person, which you obviously don't, then do both of you a favour and break it off. Why would you be in a relationship with someone you don't like? She should be a plate, especially if you're tempted to cheat. There's plenty of damaged women out there looking for empty sex with shallow people like you.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 09:35 AM
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Yeah, it was after sex. Seems like the only time she's comfortable telling me anything.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 01:07 AM
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You seem fucking creepy dude
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:09 PM
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Too much texting will kill attraction. I suppose the key thing is not to project your insecurities onto this girl. That's going to kill the relationship. She has no idea how you're feeling right now. I feel addicted to my girlfriend, but I try my best to control it. This means refraining from texting her 24/7 and also not rearranging my life so I cam spend all my time with her. I do this because I care about the relationship and I want it to work. It takes discipline and self control not to just…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:07 PM
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Ireland?
/r/askTRP28/06/17 02:20 PM
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Yikes
/r/askTRP28/06/17 08:54 AM
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Well the thing about talking less is that when I have something to actually say, I'm listened to. I don't feel like I need to show it, it's just there. I'm very confident and secure in myself, which shows in the way I walk, talk and act. Like most women, she is insecure and not very sure of herself. I also draw bottom lines with her when necessary. I'm generally fun and playful with her but when I need to be harsh or I need to show her that something wont be tolerated, I do so. And she listens, …
/r/askTRP27/06/17 07:15 PM
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You're right.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:48 PM
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Yeah I mean that's pretty common, I'm not from the US.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:37 PM
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Suits me down to the ground. Then again my gf is actually entertaining to listen to (straight A law student, won awards for debating) so I don't mind it. We are like ying and yang really, she talks her ass off and I just chill. I get entertainment, she gets someone to listen to her. I find it hilarious how such an accomplished woman can basically turn into a child around a dominant man.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:09 PM
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That's actually a very good idea man. I think I should definitely utilize the work gym in some way. If I had a car things would be much easier, thats the next goal. I want to start BJJ training too but its not practical without a car.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 02:04 PM
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Good advice in theory but my local gym doesn't open until 7am and I need to leave at 7.30am to get to work on time due to the buses and what not. Otherwise I definitely would. We have a gym at work but it's shitty, no free weights or anything.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 01:18 PM
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Spoke to my dad, but he's very little comfort if I'm honest. Sometimes you just need to fucking vent, all he does is tell me to suck it up and grow a pair. Which just makes me angrier and feel even worse. Today I locked myself in the bathroom and lied down on the floor for 20 minutes, staring into space. I have male friends too, but I hate unloading all this negativity. Feel like it just pushes people away. I don't tell people about my mental health problems, maybe that's a bad thing. I hate adm…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 01:17 PM
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That's such a simplistic view of relationships, they are much more complex than that
/r/askTRP27/06/17 12:38 PM
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Oh shit, perfect response
/r/askTRP27/06/17 11:13 AM
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What if, as a high value male, you find a woman with a lot of red-pill qualities (shy, low n count, traditional values, strong father figure, good work ethic, intelligent, loyal) and lose your virginity to her. Being seen with an attractive woman is very good for your social status. It actually makes you more attractive to other women. Then you can still talk to other women, generate attraction and improve your social skills, while not going all the way and cheating. Also you can naturally come …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 10:32 AM
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Thanks and a smile. That's all you have to say. For me it gave me huge self assurance and helped me become more relaxed and confident in social situations. It also allows you tick that box so to speak. The knowledge / belief that you could get 90% of women you meet if you wanted becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Your confidence and demeanor reflects this belief. So when I go out I just go to have a good time and have fun. I'm polite and courteous to people, even when people are jealous and nas…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 06:08 PM
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Are you afraid of getting into a deep relationship with her? People here will tell you that a LTR is not a good thing, I feel like it is, you need to try it at least once. Why not allow yourself to be vulnerable with this girl and see how things go. You're very young yet. If she makes you happy then what's the problem? Enjoy what you have for now and when she stops making you happy then move on. If you're dead set on moving on, then I'd recommend ending on good terms, especially when you have mu…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 05:32 PM
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...what? I don't think you know what a whiteknight is. I don't like spending time with horrible people, pussy or no pussy. To each his own though. If OP wants to do that then that's his choice. Wouldn't enjoy spending time with a bitch like that though, actually she would repulse me. Even if she was hot.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 09:44 AM
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Takes time man. Looks like you're on the right track. Try to be genuinely interested in the people you meet. That's the hardest part for me. I was too self absorbed to really give a shit about about other people, which made me unlikable.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 08:25 AM
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Wouldn't like spending time with a person that horrible tbh. Not many things worse to do to someone psychologically if you ask me.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 08:10 AM
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Same here. Mother was bipolar and a zombie due to years of meds, dad was a psychotic ex military asshole. So much of this stuff hits home. Especially this line : Even if I show someone a lot of warmth, it doesn't take much for me to turn it off like a switch Stuggling with my LTR atm because of this. Shes a great girl, a lot of girls would have left me by now from lack of comfort / affection. My heart is in the right place but I just find it hard to be affectionate. I'm trying my best to become …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 06:29 PM
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Disgusting tramp. That poor kid.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 03:02 PM
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This early on, you need to wait for her to message first In the mean time, work on yourself
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:06 PM
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Well first off I'd sleep with her. Duh. Keep that going for a few weeks, see if you like her as a person, then escalate to more.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:10 AM
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What's with your obsession with quotation marks?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:03 AM
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Here's a funny story for you. I lost my virginity at 20. The girl I was gaming was so convinced of my act of being a player that she made me stop just before we were about to have sex. Both her and her friend thought I was a man slut because I carried myself with confidence, teased them constantly and didn't take any of their shit, hot girls don't expect that kind of behaviour when they're around men, because most men are shit scared of them. I made my move in a room where we were watching a mov…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 05:53 PM
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Please do this OP
/r/askTRP31/05/17 03:02 PM
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He makes some good points and is obviously intelligent but yeah, poor writing style. It feels too rushed, like you're racing from one thing to another far too quickly. I can relate to it myself actually, it's how a ruminator would explain their thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:52 PM
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No, the opposite. Playing it cool makes them : more eager to impress you shows you have more options than just her shows that you are comfortable/confident enough in yourself to take her or leave her. Neediness is unattractive. Your ideal situation is one where you want her, but you do not need her. Bottom line is, if she wants to cheat, she will cheat. Nothing you can do about it. I said the above, then I told her I'd ring her the following day. Surprise surprise, she was sending me paragraphs …
/r/askTRP30/05/17 09:08 PM
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You can if you'd like man but I'm only just gone 21. Not much life experience to go on yet. I did have a strong father figure though, even if he took it way too far and pushed me WAY too much.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 06:28 PM
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This is like a girl I'm seeing who's travelling Europe for a month with one of her friends. The trip was organised before we met each other. I'm really not into messaging so once she left I didn't message her much. We talked on the phone for 2 hours before she left and she came down to stay with me for the week before she left. We had a lot of sex, I make her orgasm every time, often more than once. (bit like yourself, years of porn made me very good at sex, I have +7 inch dick and I dominate he…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 06:03 PM
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Same here. Went on them for a few months, knew I'd become dependent, went off them again. I think they're good to get you over a hump but long term use is not good.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 04:44 PM
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Been on lexapro and mirtazapine. Started at 17, finished at 19, I'm just turned 21. Lexapro was a life saver. I was at the stage where I could barely leave the house. I was a paranoid, anxious mess. 10mg of Lexapro killed all of these feelings completely. I didn't feel bad anymore, I just didn't feel anything at all. Sometimes that's a good thing. This allowed me to start college and get myself grounded in a solid degree, which would have been almost impossible if I didn't have it as a crutch. T…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 04:40 PM
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Everything in this life is impermanent. You can still love, and feel loved. But you will know that these things can not and will not last. This extends into every aspect of life. Enjoy whatever you have while it lasts, because nothing in this life lasts forever.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 10:35 PM
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Don't really know man. I had a very critical father and a depressed mother. I grew up a loner despite being physically attractive and successful academically. I hated myself and I didn't want any attention. I didn't turn up to an award ceremony where I was getting an award for the highest results in maths and physics in my class. I don't know what I even wanted back then. Nothing mattered to me. I wanted to die, I hated the world and everything in it. I don't know when things really started to c…
/r/askTRP27/05/17 10:11 PM
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I was seeing a girl for the last three months or so. I was / am madly in love with her. She told me she loved me first, I reciprocated a while later. We spent all day together for a full three months as we lived close to each other. I mean we literally didn't go 24 hours without seeing each other for 3 months straight. We had a lot of sex. I would say an average of 20 times a week. We had amazing chemistry and we both loved each other. I'd make her orgasm every single time, sometimes more than o…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 09:19 PM
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"Is that right?" as I grind my cock on her clit, usually works pretty well
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:54 PM
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"We're not having sex" What I hear ~5 seconds before I enter a plate
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:36 AM
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As an incredibly cynical person, I enjoy women's spontaneous nature and their generally over-emotional, dramatic way of going about life. I find it entertaining and it makes it easy to forget about the harsh realities of life. I can enjoy being "in the moment" with them, instead of constantly thinking about money, my career or my progress in the gym. Obviously they're also nice to look at and to have sex with. I've accepted their true nature and this makes it easier to enjoy their company. I no …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 11:11 AM
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Awesome man
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:25 AM
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Point taken I've fucked her since I posted this btw
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:14 PM
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She messaged me that and I didn't respond to her.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:31 PM
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Note the word : foolishly. Everyone fucks up sometimes
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:27 PM
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So you think I should argue that people od'ing on drugs is just natural selection at play, when her cousin is a drug addict? We have mutual friends, that's not an option. That's just autistic.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 01:22 PM
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Her exact words : "Thanks for apologizing but I really have lost a lot of respect for you" You're definitely right. Oh well, onto the next one. I could actually notice her getting more annoyed the more apologetic I was.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:45 AM
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Struggle and hardship is what builds men. I had my first "thing" with a woman over the past month. I lost my virginity to her, and we had sex ~15 times a week for the last month. She had plenty of red flags (overly dramatic, heavy drinker & partier, law student who loves arguing, probably a strong feminist) but the situation was convenient for me and I was getting a lot of sex. Anyway I started to go a bit beta because I didn't want to hurt her feelings, she thought I was using her for sex (comf…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 08:08 AM
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Buddhism
/r/askTRP03/04/17 11:23 AM
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No but I've had sex about 15 times in the past week and I can't actually finish with a woman, too much death grip or something. This means I can last for ages which is good but I can't just relax and let go.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:54 PM
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No but I alternated between lexapro and mirtazapine from the age of 15 to 19
/r/askTRP20/03/17 04:50 PM
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I made a new plate orgasm by fucking her missionary but at an angle where I was also grinding on her clit. Making a female orgasm feeds my ego and makes it easier to get sex whenever I want so I make it a priority. I guess it's a power thing.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 11:59 AM
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Take pretty much nothing they say seriously, tease them constantly and be dominant in bed.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 11:54 AM
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Not my personality, I don't like loud places and dealing with drunk people. I have no issue with those who enjoy that, but it's not for me.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 12:52 PM
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I'm 20, 6'3, amateur boxer, part time model, electrical engineering student with a 3.9 GPA at a difficult technical university. If you're like me, your biggest issue won't be attracting women, it will be making time to spend with them. Trying to keep your discipline to study and train (for me I abstain from alcohol completely, which makes socialising hard) is very tough and requires a shit ton of will power when you know you could be out getting laid or making friends. Also expect a shit ton of …
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:13 PM
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I just fucked my housemate. I don't spend much time in the house because I'm always busy. When I'm there I just make small talk, keep everything light-hearted and funny and just generally pretend that nothing sexual happened. I find this easy to do and I'm probably a sociopath, but whatever.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 04:44 PM
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I lift because I like looking at myself in the mirror and it helps me to destress. I make more money to have more freedom to make the choices I want to make. Money = freedom. I read because I enjoy it. I dress well because I'm genuinely interested in fashion and I like playing around with different colours and textures. Taking pride in my appearance also makes me feel better. I meditate because it makes me more calm and relaxed. None of it is to do with women for me.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 04:58 PM
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Thank you for posting this, I needed to ask myself this. • What stops you from letting the world know you enjoy sex? A (completely irrational) fear that my inexperience and poor social skill will get me the reputation of a creep and this will somehow ruin my career and aspirations, which is much more important to me than women. • What stops you from using women for your benefit? • What stops you from ensuring your always being seen in the best light possible even when your underlying motives are…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 04:28 PM
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Keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:33 PM
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I grew from 5'8 to 6'3 from the age of 17 to 20. A friend of mine was 6'1 first year of high school and now he's still the same at 21.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 10:16 AM
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Fellow aggressive little shit here. Even as a child I was very competitive and I hated losing at anything. I'd get into a lot of fights with my peers and I hated any type of authority. I figured out early on that teachers hated someone like me and it would cause me a lot of trouble at school so I became very quiet in school. Very similar to yourself, I hated school intensely, I had to suppress my true personality so I wouldn't get in trouble. I played basketball and that's where my real personal…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 10:12 AM
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Knock her out
/r/askTRP08/02/17 10:46 PM
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Wrong as fuck. Moron.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:11 PM
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It's too nice otherwise. You want to make it clear that you aren't putting up with his childish shit in a cold, formal manner.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 05:35 PM
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Im busy Easy mode
/r/askTRP07/02/17 05:19 PM
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Why not coldly and calmly explain to him that you happened to notice that he seems to wait until you are starting to speak before interrupting you. In a polite but cold manner, explain to him that this makes things less efficient and you would prefer if he could stop doing it as soon as possible, before you have a problem with him.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 05:17 PM
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Lmao
/r/askTRP07/02/17 12:41 AM
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I'm 20, 6'3, an amateur boxer, a part time male model and an electronic engineering major with a 3.9 GPA. I've never had a woman be really friendly to me. However I get iois from almost every woman I meet. I'm an intense, aggressive person who hates losing. That probably makes me intimidating. However I like being this way and I'm not changing for anyone.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:15 PM
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My parents were both miserable fuckers who never had fun, in fact I was almost shamed for trying to have fun I can see this is going to be an issue with women
/r/askTRP05/02/17 10:57 PM
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He needs self respect, badly. Tell him that he needs to start respecting himself first. That's essentially what TRP is anyway. Respecting and loving yourself above all else. It doesn't even have to be about women when you are talking to this guy. Work with the "I am such a bitch" line. Explain to him how this negative self image is the reason he's unsuccessful with women. You don't need to mention TRP in any way shape or form.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 10:15 PM
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I'm a classic introvert, I'm also more confident than pretty much anyone I know. I just don't have a lot of time for small talk. I enjoy my area of study (electrical engineering), reading, watching films and going to the gym. I like socialising with my 2 or 3 close friends but other than that I probably won't want to talk to anyone else. I'm friendly to everyone but generally I keep people as acquaintances and I prefer it that way. My close friends are all highly intelligent, mature, hard workin…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 01:52 PM
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Bad - Lil Reese The guy is dark triad as fuck
/r/askTRP02/02/17 10:14 PM
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Work smarter. What was this girl studying? I see people killing themselves working in degrees that really aren't going to get them anywhere. Makes me feel bad for them because they blindly followed the "follow your passion" advice and now believe that they will get the rewards due to hard work. The real world isn't really like that. If I went that route I'd be studying philosophy. But thanks to a very well read, red pill father I'm studying electronic engineering, which I hope to follow with a m…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 02:48 PM
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This. The bigger the city the better. Women are so much more disposable and easier to cut ties with. Much easier to practice game / pickup without getting the name of being a creep, which you would get in a small town.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 12:48 PM
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All I have to say is thank god I found TRP Im in an elite position academically, for that I had to sacrifice a social life. I no longer have any doubts that I'm making the right decision. I will be successful because I am willing to give up more than other men are willing to give up.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 11:05 PM
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This is the most important one if you ask me. There's so much focus on looks here. I have no intention of spending time with shitty people, even if they are attractive.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 11:31 AM
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Also 20 M. Focus on yourself and the pussy is easy. Just from the way I looked and carried myself, I had the only 2 girls in my engineering class both lusting after me, despite there being 30 other dudes in the class. This place will give you an enormous edge. Almost any woman I've met since coming here gives some indicator of interest. I'm in a similar situation to you, went to an all male Catholic school, didn't have any interactions with women until 18/19, was depressed as fuck in school and …
/r/askTRP22/01/17 11:24 AM
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Same situation with a roommate, it took me way too long to realise that she was nervous around me. I don't get nervous.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 11:08 AM
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It's not like it's something that's taking up a lot of time. I just wanted to have a decent friend base for when I get out of this little country and stop being a loser.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 06:05 PM
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I'll be starting this pretty soon too. I was pretty much a friendless hermit in high school. After I started college I added the very few people that I knew well and then just spammed friend requests to people with mutual friends. I got to 400 friends then stopped. Then I deactivated my account and I'll keep it deactivated until I build myself into a beast.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:36 PM
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This is so true. I am / was the same as you. Completely cold, my friends joke that I'm like a rock with no feelings. I don't show anyone my feelings about anything. I had a very rough upbringing and it made me very distrustful and paranoid of others. I had a hyper masculine father (trade union official, ex army) who pushed me to excel in everything I did. He was relentless. I'm reaping the benefits now in a lot of ways, I would consider myself elite in terms of SMV at my age group. However, most…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 03:21 PM
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You represent everything I hate about the world
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 01:17 PM
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When I read, mentally I can read maybe 6 or 7 words in a sentence with 10 words, just as an example. From there, I can mentally fill in the gaps for the other 3 or 4 words, using my intuition and years of reading. This is all done at a very fast pace. So I can "read" a passage of 1000 words by only actually physically reading 600 or 700 of the words. As a result I can read roughly 650 wpm. I was able to read before I started elementary school and I had a reading age of 12 at the age of 6 accordi…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 01:06 PM
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My IQ is somewhere in the mid 130s I think it makes it hard to relate to others, particularly if you have a more analytical, calculating personality. (I was INTJ, these days I get ENTJ) It's hard not to turn into a manipulative person because you want to have the things other people have, (particularly loving relationships and emotional connections) but you can't attain them in a natural way, in a way that seems so fucking easy for everyone else. Personally I see everything in terms of input, pr…
/r/askTRP20/01/17 03:47 PM
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Some here might see this as strange, and maybe even think that I'm lying to myself. I purposefully don't pursue women because I feel it would make me fall into a comfort trap. I'm an EE student who works part time as a male model. I'm 6'3, I lift daily, I play basketball and I'm also an amateur boxer. I don't lie when I say I have at least one woman giving me the eye any time I'm in public. Pretty much anywhere. I went out for a meal with my father recently and he told me that literally every wo…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 04:57 PM
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This is amazing bro, its the.autistic way of getting laid at maximum efficiency, exactly the kind of thing a nerd like me would do
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 04:38 PM
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holy shit, same here dude I was trying to game this girl who is probably well below me in terms of SMV, it was almost like she thought I was pathetic for trying to hit on her. She is by far the most insecure and low-esteem person I've ever met, which is sad to me. I liked her because she was a top law student, naturally pretty without makeup (one of the few girls I've seen that looks better without it) and when she wasn't trying to be a bitch as a defense mechanism she was a nice, kind person. S…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 01:12 PM
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One thing I've noticed is the correlation between confidence and hard work. I consider myself a very confident young man. Why? Because I grew up with one of the worst childhoods my counselor has seen. He said he would have expected me to drop out of high school and become a shut in. Either that or a drug addict. Instead, I stayed the course. I forced myself to keep going. I needed meds to leave my room. I slept 4 hours a night, I barely ate (i was forced to eat food when I didn't want to as a ki…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 12:36 PM
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Short term : I want to bulk up to over 80 kg, im currently 73kg at 6'3. Get a part time job at the weekends where I have to deal with other people. Ace my next set of exams. Get an internship at a financial firm. Long term : Move to a different country away from my shitty parents, I'm only now realising how awful they were. Graduate with a first class honours degree in electronic / electrical engineering. Get into Oxford for either computer science or mathematical finance. Land a job in a high f…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 11:42 AM
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Good luck man, but just a heads up, engineering math gets pretty tough
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 11:33 AM
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Sounds like you met a particularly horrible bitch who manipulated you from the start. I'm all for AWALT, but there's no way most women are this ruthless.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 11:20 AM
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That's real man. Your brother sounded like a good dude, may he rest in peace. Can't emphasise the importance of finding the good people among the hordes of shitty ones. There's a lot of shitty people out there, particularly at college age. From then on, people either mature and turn into good people or else they learn how to hide it better. The cynic in me tells me it's the latter. Insecurity, jealousy and nastiness are rampant in your late teens, particularly in girls. That's just been my exper…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 11:08 AM
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Stop talking to them, be busy. I only make time for hanging out with people I like.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 03:05 PM
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I live with a girl like this. She sits beside me on the couch when there's a group of like 5-6 people around, I'm sitting in the middle of the room, cracking jokes and generally just enjoying myself with my bros, she's really quiet and barely says anything. She laughs at any joke I make, she gradually moves closer to me until her thigh is pressing against mine, catch her staring at me a few times. I pretty much ignore her as I'm having a lot of fun and one of my good friends is just back from th…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 12:35 AM
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There's something you're leaving out here. I'm suspicious of this post, because you do not come across as intelligent from your writing, I hate to break it to you. That may be why you're not getting any replies. On top of your general victim mentality. First off, you have wealthy friends whos families obviously have some bit of influence. Why the fuck haven't you asked them to put in a word for you? You're a straight A accounting student. I'm guessing you went to a school with a bad reputation, …
/r/askTRP14/01/17 11:54 PM
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Same here, nobody knows I browse TRP and I intend to keep it that way
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 03:13 PM
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Living with a narcissistic father gave me a pretty good idea of what it was like to be hurt by someone I trusted. It was a weekly reminder at least, whenever he had his outburst of rage and hatred. One of his favourite games was to send me looking for a tool in the shed, but the tool wasn't actually there. I'd go look for it, naturally I wouldn't find it. I'd tell him this, his face would swell with rage, to this day I've never seen the same look of pure anger and hatred in anyone's eyes as I sa…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 02:57 AM
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Jesus man, its not a "good boy mentality" to care about other people's feelings and to have some bit of empathy. That's called being human. I get no joy out of manipulating others to get what I want. It makes me hate myself and god knows I have enough self hate already.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 08:44 PM
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Thanks for the reminder. From a pussy-starved EE student living with a 6/10 who won't leave me alone Escalating would be a disaster
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 05:21 PM
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I have moved forward leaps and bounds over the past year or so. My teenage life was a living hell. I don't know how I didn't kill myself. I slept four hours a night, needed heavy medication just to leave the house, ate less than a 1000 calories a day (at 6'3), jacked it 3 times a day to fucked up porn. I could go weeks without speaking to anyone other than my parents (I don't have a good relationship with either of them). I have no positive memories of my life from the age of 13 to 19. Since get…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 12:14 PM
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You're right, I don't really want to play the game. I think my social time would be better invested spending time with my bros and developing deeper relationships with them. Fuck women.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 11:52 AM
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So do I give in? Fire up a tinder account, start being a pushy douchebag to maximise the amount of pussy I can get, manipulate women into getting whatever I want? I have all the tools to do this, but I don't think it's going to make me happy. It feels like selling my soul to the devil.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 11:51 AM
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Counseling and (arguably, I'm against it) medication combined with a healthy lifestyle with plenty of sleep and exercise. You can manage it, sure, but I think there's a ceiling to how happy you can be when you grew up in an abusive environment.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 11:32 AM
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I actually want to be a decent person with morals, though. Being a nasty piece of shit doesn't make me feel better, it makes it worse. To be perfectly honest, it sounds like you've purposefully destroyed your humanity. I've thought about doing this before, just saying fuck everything and manipulating others into getting what I want, and rationalizing that they deserve it because they are horrible. This will only make the loneliness and alienation worse. I'm actually quite good at manipulating ot…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 11:12 AM
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My dad is borderline and was very abusive, my mother is bipolar.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 09:31 AM
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I already have a very stoic mentality and these moments of weakness are becoming less and less frequent as I get older. I'm 20 so I have a lot of learning to do about life. From what I've seen here, focusing on lifting and my career are the best things I can do right now, even if I'm not particularly happy. The few women I have met in college have been pretty horrible people for the most part, even if attractive. I've had my chances with them but I can't fake liking them just to have sex with th…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 12:25 AM
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For the most part, I'm happy without women in my life. I have two or three close friends that I enjoy spending time with. I'm studying a difficult major and doing quite well with it. I'm set up for a successful career financially. There are moments of weakness, however. And they hit me hard. I get this deep deep feeling of loneliness, a loneliness that feels like my heart is being ripped out of my chest. I start to believe that nobody likes me, that I'm repulsive, that I'm not worthy of being lo…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 09:17 PM
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Yep. Like anything, the people who get good at it are good at it because of practice and hard work.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 06:39 PM
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Not him, but firstly, SMV trumps everything. You have to be on her radar initially. When you meet at first, let your eye contact linger for a split second longer than you would with anyone else. Then pretty much ignore and treat her like you would treat anyone else in a social situation. Early on, never give her more attention than the other people around. Enjoy everyone's company equally. This shows you're not needy and will make you more liked within the group as a whole, which is essential. M…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 06:32 PM
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Any chance you could PM the specifics of these devices? Fucking gold mine if you make this into a mainstream product that's efficient enough to be used by your regular joe soap.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 05:57 PM
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Looking for some advice on my current plan. I want to have a net worth of +1 million by the age of thirty. I'm 20, sophomore ECE student with a 3.7 GPA, well the European equivalent. My university is a modern technical university with a good reputation for STEM. It's in the top 50 under 50 rankings done by QS . It also has the best reputation for electronic engineering in my country. I'm set up to graduate at 23 with a 1st. No student debt. 5000 euro in savings. I have a few different paths in m…
/r/askTRP06/01/17 01:33 AM
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I've never had any emotional crutch in my life. My mother has bipolar disorder and she was basically a zombie from anti-depressants. I never got any maternal love or warmth from her. She was in and out of a psych ward during my early years. My dad is and was a dark triad alpha. Real evil bastard. He used to tell me he and my mother were going to get divorced and it was because of me. He would also constantly compare me to my aunt (who has paranoid schizophrenia), telling me that if I wasn't care…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 08:06 PM
1

You let her pick the location. Other than that, you did quite well given that its your first real interaction since going full TRP. It was a shitty situation for her to put you in, but it doesn't surprise me in the slightest.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:50 PM
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I was never a morning person either. I had a streak of getting up at 5.30 am every single morning for 3 months. It's all discipline. Your body will get used to it.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 06:26 PM
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you look like a beta bux and now you dress like one too SAVAGE
/r/askTRP27/12/16 11:13 AM
1

I think going out and just generally enjoying life is the number 1 thing you need to focus on. You also need to work on becoming a high value male, but you need to do it because you love yourself and you want the best for yourself. Loving yourself + being high value = enjoying life Everything else takes care of itself.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 10:21 PM
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I was ridiculously sensitive like this as a teenager. Its his problem, not yours. Im not surprised I was a loner growing up, I would get annoyed at not being invited places even though I never fucking went when I was invited. God, I was such a bitch.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 06:56 PM
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Working or studying overtime, long past decent performance and concentration level, mistaking working time with productivity and income. Let me give you an example of this. I'm an electrical engineering student. This past semester, I made a decision. I decided that I would sacrifice everything I needed to sacrifice to get a 4.0 GPA. At the beginning, I was going to the gym daily, eating good food, relaxing at night time with my roommates after a long day of work, sleeping well at night. I was do…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 01:43 AM
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Jesus christ man, not on christmas
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 04:01 PM
1

I've been like this pretty much all my life. I try to convince myself Im some kind of lone wolf type who doesn't need friends, but at the end of the day it's just not true. Deep, deep down, there's a fear of rejection and a deep shame that comes from being criticised and compared to others all the time by my narcissistic asshole father. Now, he gave me a winning mentality that has given me a strong work ethic and a never say die attitude, but I have a lot of extra baggage mentally that I need to…
/r/askTRP25/12/16 03:47 AM
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That's true, at least we are finished a degree after 4 years. You guys are in it for the long haul. At least you have some women in your classes, no? We have a total of two girls in a class of 30 plus (they aren't very attractive) Personally, I have zero time to interact with women and my social skills are definitely lacking as a result. I went straight from an all-boys catholic school into an EE program, can't get much worse than that. Might fire up Tinder next semester, I guess I could organis…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 03:26 AM
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I think if you work at a very efficient level you can get free time but last semester I had zero time off. I worked 10 hours a day on weekends. Every day was focused on work. Granted, I wanted a 4.0 and was willing to sacrifice everything else to get it. Conceptually, electrical engineering is in my opinion the most difficult major to understand, outside of theoretical physics maybe. While med students might have more actual work (not by much), the brain power required to actually understand the…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 03:08 AM
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My dad is RP as fuck and patted me on the back for basically manipulating a woman into doing all of my homework for me He told me that I had turned into exactly the man that he had wanted me to be. He said he used to worry about me, but he doesn't anymore. He pushed me HARD, never really let me be a kid. But I think its paying off. I feel light years ahead of my peers and I have this presence that lets me attract women 4 to 5 years older than me. (I'm 20) Most women my own age seem intimidated.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 05:25 PM
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My grandmother told me to play the field, also told me to go back to the gym as I lost weight after a semester of electrical engineering (shit is hard). Told me I looked better with a developed ass. T-thanks gran
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 05:21 PM
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As an electrical engineering student, we are the ones who desperately need something like this. I might just be in the most nerdy major there is.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 04:16 PM
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I'm 20. I made a conscious decision to sacrifice whatever I need to sacrifice to get a first class honours degree in electronic engineering. Everything I do is focused on the end goal. I go to the gym mainly to keep a clear healthy brain so I can work more efficiently when studying. I socialise very minimally to make sure I don't go insane. I will graduate at 23 years old. With the ground work I've put in, and the ground work I will put in (extra curricular activities, fluent in 3 languages, aca…
/r/askTRP23/12/16 03:05 PM
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Money. Power. Social dominance. Looks. Height. Level of fitness (how big you are, not a marathon running skeleton). Success with the opposite sex. Hobbies and whether you are really good at something. A combination of all of the above. I'm working on acquiring all of it. Its pretty self explanatory if you ask me. Isn't it obvious to you when you look around?
/r/askTRP23/12/16 02:32 PM
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Isn't it self explanatory? Practice. Open your eyes and watch. Go to a coffee shop, get a seat at a window looking onto a busy (ideally pedestrianized) street. Sit and watch the people go by. Look at their mannerisms, their body language, their interactions. Start to pick up on patterns. This is where intelligence comes in. I was born with a very high abstract reasoning ability, so patterns and concepts have always been easy for me to see. Practice your facial expressions, first in a mirror, the…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 12:47 AM
2

Ex-addict here, I'm talking 3 times a day from the age of 12 to 18. Real degenerate shit that would make your skin crawl. Bad for an adult, absolutely abhorrent for an alienated teenager. Watching that shit fucked me up no end and to be perfectly honest, almost completely destroyed my humanity. I struggle greatly with empathy and just generally dealing with other people in a sincere way now. I may have been born like that though, who knows. I've always struggled with people. I tried cold turkey …
/r/askTRP22/12/16 12:06 AM
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Befriend the guy, downgrade your GF to plate status. He seems pretty redpill and that's hard to find these days. Being unattractive yet banging lots of girls at work makes me think he has good game and chances are you could learn a lot from him. You cannot control her. Remember that. What you can do in this situation, is make a new friend. One who, from the sounds of it, has money and power. Go out and banter about women, show abundance mentality, make it clear that you dont really give a fuck e…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 11:49 PM
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Same here. I respect a man more when he is honest. One friend of mine told me point blank that he had to postpone his exams because of depression / stress. My respect for him went up 10 fold, because it takes balls to admit that to a fellow man. I've been struggling with clinical depression all my life and I have nothing but respect for any man who is also fighting it. Unfortunately it seems many people don't share my view and it would take me a long time and a lot of built up trust (likely year…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 11:28 PM
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What are your thoughts on someone with mental health issues just "being themselves"? Id come across as a psychotic, sex-obsessed nutcase
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 02:44 PM
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That's unheard of in Western Europe, actually.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 12:58 PM
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I'm in western europe studying electronic engineering and we have none of these courses in our 4 years we spend studying.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 12:55 PM
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As someone who had terrible social anxiety and overcome it completely, I agree wholeheartedly. I'm now genuinely fearless. Nothing scares me or intimidates me. My anxiety came from my childhood and it was from a fear of my father, who was a domineering cruel man. However, he was the only person I ever truly feared. Any other fear I felt was a projection of the fear I felt of him. When I overcame that fear, I realized that I was now fearless. I had spent everyday fighting my fears by even leaving…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 01:05 AM
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