thering_2002 Archive

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1	[deleted by user] The relationship just seemed very centered around me and what I was doing. What I was up to, etc. I was fine with that, that may not be your cup of tea, however I didn’t have any problems with that dynamic. At the 10th month mark, with my closest friends at least, there is very much a back and forth. Reciprocated emotional energy, emotional boundaries and mutual respect for the other person and their feelings. However with this relationship, it felt very one-sided. I tried to provide what I coul…	/r/seduction	11/07/21 11:23 PM
1	[deleted by user] And on another note, I’m perfectly okay with my boundaries being the way they are on an emotional front. I don’t see why I would have to develop anything for another person to feel more comfortable inside a relationship. It is nice to feel like things are more open, because that involves i feel a more dynamic bond of trust than just simply the notion of putting your partner on a leash. I don’t know, do you understand that I just am communicating here that I have certain boundaries that I feel mo…	/r/seduction	11/07/21 11:02 PM
0	[deleted by user] I hear what you’re saying, completely, but that doesn’t mean that rationally I wasn’t looking toward a future with him. We joked about getting married eventually and I was really okay with that. I don’t know. It sounds like from your comment, your understanding is that I wasn’t taking our relationship seriously. I did. I just don’t think it met the emotional standards he was looking for or expecting from me. After ten months it just seemed obvious to the both of us that he had more concerns with…	/r/seduction	11/07/21 10:58 PM
1	[deleted by user] omgg saving ur comment this makes so much sense to me!!!!!!! i was writing about this today and i wrote in the margins of my class readings that i’ll know when the moment comes. question: what do if life is actually boring and i just now realize????? i’ve been doing coke to pass the time lolol this stress of a comedown helps but im like not at all the kind of person to follow through on things halp might start horror video gaming (did a thesis project on this) but also super brokey	/r/seduction	03/10/19 12:39 AM
1	[deleted by user] okay :) i can work on that next time. maybe when im in a better balanced place :) ... I didn’t even have the hugest crush on the guys I was into at the time... I just ramped it up to myself and my friends too much for ... i guess a conflict to have at the moment? lol i’m getting into yoga and other extracurricular’s i can maintain at a decent enough pace... i don’t know if i’m ready to start dating now ... it’s weird and I know i’m only 21 but yet, i kinda wanna start savoring the time I have be…	/r/seduction	01/10/19 04:40 AM
1	[deleted by user] can i get a tl;dr? lmao i can’t read all of this stuff right now knowing it all ramps up to the fact that i’m basically karen from mean girls with the emotionality of gretchen wieners	/r/seduction	01/10/19 01:20 AM
1	Terrible social skills = Surprising outcome?? Also took the 16personalities as a video I watched instructed, [imagine yourself on a happy, normal average day, and answer the questions as you would then]. and i got INTJ. So whoopie-doo-dee-da. Lol. Does this help my situation at all? Follow up question: Am I fucked?	/r/seduction	22/06/19 11:06 PM
1	Terrible social skills = Surprising outcome?? Au contraire. https://youtu.be/Nd6YmCFUrgE	/r/seduction	22/06/19 09:58 PM
2	Terrible social skills = Surprising outcome?? Yeah that’s not so hard i’m learning. But what about just casual demeanor? Like participating in group conversation when a hottie you like is apart of one. follow up question (if your answer is what I think it is): Does everyone just self-monitor themselves for posterity?	/r/seduction	22/06/19 09:31 PM
2	Terrible social skills = Surprising outcome?? Obviously; but thanks.	/r/seduction	22/06/19 07:58 PM