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The man all the other girls want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 12:09 PM
6

A woman as kick-ass as wingnut needs a real alpha lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 08:44 PM
10

Leadership, assertiveness, masculinity etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 06:56 PM
8

locked down a rich beta and were fucking a real alpha on the side RPW want AF/BB united in one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 06:45 PM
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'Valuable man' is relative to the woman, valuable to her meaning he represents the upper limit of the range of what she is able to attract. And we don't LTR 'Alphas' our men are high betas with alpha qualities where they matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 06:28 PM
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Being valued by someone valuable and keeping him. We are getting exclusivity from a quality man and in exchange we aim to avoid shit-testing and overemotionality, remain submissive, and work to bring more to the table than sex. What may have been advantagous for ancestors isn't necessarily so in our current climate of abundant choice and oppourtunity for a quality man, so a RPW wants to make herself worth the commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 06:05 PM
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We are females (with a female nature) who accept the reality of TRP and are conscious of our drives and actively chose against those that are detrimental to us in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 03:25 PM
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The concept is a bit hyperbolic but it's derived from the tendency of women to be excused from her misbehaviors and to expect other people, usually men, to emotionally regulate her (he makes me so happy!). Women also like to run to authority with problems instead of handling them ( like police, courts, HR).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/15 05:18 PM
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Its not a female safe space because females are immune from critisism there, its a female space because the content and subject matter is distinctly female. You are conflating two different concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 08:44 PM
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Relflect on whether not being married or having kids is something you are willing to live with. If so, you accept them's the terms. Don't keep bringing it up and don't dog him in the future or hold out hope that he'll change his mind. At the same time, work hard, demonstrate to him that you are a worthwhile investment, remain loyal and add value to his life and perhaps he will one day.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 05:20 PM
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Dr Laura is the bees knees. And 'Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands' is good even for a single girl, since it gets her in the right mindset from the outset.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 04:01 PM
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It seems like everyone in their life is a narcissist. They are victims everywhere they go. You're right about those communities attracting narcissists, just look at the rules. "Do not derail the posts of others", "When you comment, assume a context of abuse to all posts", "No posts about N-kids" (I like this one especially, because Nkids go against the narrative that parents bad, kids good; and totally gives creedence to the speculation that its all a bunch of teenagers posting there).
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 03:54 PM
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Yeah, I went over there after I just posted that to see if its any different and I find this *editted to remove link, sorry. Her sister is a narcissist because she didn't help her cut onions? wow dude
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 03:30 PM
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Really? Maybe I am alone in not liking that sub then. IMO, It comes across as a bunch of petulant teenagers butting heads with (frequently reasonable) parental authority and critique, they seem to think a parent is out of line to expect obedience and accountability from their dependent children. I'm not dimissing the valid cases of narcissistic abuse, but i don't think that is the case very often over there. Then again, maybe I am just a narcissist and can't see it lol.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 03:23 PM
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He's totally oppressing you, you are being abused! Get out while you can!! But seriously, being valued for your efforts and knowing you earned it is so satisfying. Keep it up!
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 08:26 PM
1

Also, /r/raisedbynarcissists is an amazing resource. /r/raisedbynarcissists is a very blue pill place with all its triggers and victimhood stuff, not refuting its usefulness as a resource to you, just suggesting caution for other rpw if that sort of thing is as abhorrent to them as it is to me.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 07:31 PM
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The exchange you had with that user was oddly personal, I don't know why either of you made it personal, but it seemed like that user was calling you personally a liar, not everyone ever who presents an outlier anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 01:24 AM
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No one is saying you are lying, just that you are statistically insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 01:01 AM
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Ask anyone what color a banana is and everyone will tell you yellow. Bananas are not always yellow. But anecdotally majority of people agree they are yellow, eventually enough anecdotes become consensus. We could argue where that line is but that's a fools errand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 11:38 PM
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I understand women having a vested interest in not wanting unflattering generalizations floating around about them, but that comes across as fairly typical solopsism. "Its not true about me, so stop saying it" even though the generalization contains enough true information to be useful in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 05:52 PM
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Bananas are generally yellow (though sometimes they are green or brown). Water is generally wet (though sometimes its a cloud or ice). We all know generalizations aren't 100% true 100% of the time, but they are usually reasonable to make. If everytime someone said 'Bananas are yellow' everyone wanted to talk about green ones and brown ones, that would be annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 04:55 PM
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Women aren't more selective to avoid slut shaming, they are more selective, and always have been, because they have a higher biological investment in the consequences of sex (pregnancy).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 04:43 PM
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Not at all clear if TRP is the ideal supply for it, I would think rather not, too jaded, too dark, too angry Reality will do that to you. Very rarely in life is there a happy, fairy tale ending to a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 12:32 PM
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xNTJ types (he's ENTJ) have such a concise and punchy way of phrasing things, and give excellent advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 12:15 PM
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A one off fantasy style experience isn't as likely to alter her expectations as much as the push pull of a fwb or plate style relationship where she deluded herself that she can secure that type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 12:35 AM
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Correct it will vary from woman to woman. A poor girls high value man might be the trailer park pot dealer, and a trust fund baby's would be the son of a CEO of a fortune 500.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 12:18 AM
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My rich gay uncle has a relevant quip: the only opinions that matter are the ones of people who "feed me, fuck me or finance me".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/15 05:57 PM
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What are your thoughts on redpill marriages (he's the leader, she's not bitchy or fat) that have a deadbedroom that is caused by the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 05:50 PM
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This is absolutely true; in the case of breast implants for example, you can choose under the muscle (more natural looking) or over the muscle (more porn star looking) high profile, low profile, etc. People who think all fake breasts look like porno boobs wouldn't know a good boob job if they saw one, they'd just think "nice tits".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 07:19 PM
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I cluster plastic surgery in with any other form of self-improvement. If you have a glaring personality flaw, you attempt to fix it and I don't see physical flaws any differently. I've been with my husband for 10 years and have been through 2 pregnancies, and my breasts were demolished, so I got a boob job. I'm happy, he's happy, everyone is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 06:13 PM
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So my question is, with all the hate against women, why don't the red pill men ever bring up hate against what men are doing? If this were a sub about international child rape then they probably would, but its a sub about heterosexual male sexual strategy and women are the target.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 12:15 PM
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I liken romantic gestures to "peacocking" in the animal world. The male demonstrates interest with plumage or a dance and the female sits back and assesses worthiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 06:30 PM
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I know about their theory so how do they know more than me ? Aren't you like 19? Some women over there are 40+ and have been in their relationship longer than you've been alive. That accumulation of experience certainly accounts for some wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/15 12:14 PM
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There is OKCupid data out there confirming this also, but OKC is blocked at work so I can't find it for you, sorry.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 06:57 PM
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Some women are just confrontational and provocative and sometimes they do shitty things because they are crazy. Stop assuming she's a victim just because she's female.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 12:32 PM
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I just wanted to advise you to be cautious in babybumps. I had a baby late last year and spent most of my pregnancy there and got into arguments constantly. That place is an entitled feminist nightmare. Plates coming in to cry about the baby's father not committing, women expecting their SO's to drop everything and cater to every whim, women being divas about the delivery and trying to micromanage everyone about everything. Take care if you do linger in those parts.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 02:57 PM
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If she can't see that a relationship with someone who beats her is unhealthy and destructive, I doubt passing words from a random dude in a gas station will matter.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 12:56 PM
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/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 01:50 PM
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once they're 40 with 2 divorces and several love children under their belts, they'll wonder what went wrong ... they'll wish they had a warm home and decades long marriage to go to. This sums it up. The whole having the cake and eating it too. They don't want to invest their pretty in one valuable guy, but they do want the valuable guy, but without any work or investment on their part.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/14 05:42 PM
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Guys have sex because they are horny, girls have sex for different reasons.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:10 PM
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The reason you want a woman with a low number, as I understand it: the more partners a woman has had the harder she is to satify. If she has had dozens of alpha partners, she will always be chasing the tingles and will be less likely to be satisfied in a LTR/marriage.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:49 PM
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