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I said it was. Yep, was just agreeing, tough to pick up my tone in text though. There's some quote about not attributing to malice what can be explained by ignorance, or something like that. Politicians are mostly stupid puppets who grew up in a life of privilege and are engaged in feeding their own narcissism and pockets. If that means championing gender neutral bathrooms or building a wall, that's what they're going to push for. It isn't in some grand plot against men or something. Yes, men an…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/21 09:54 PM
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That is a bit of a rant and it seems like it's trying to paint some puppet master behind the scenes, manipulating the population for their personal gain. I think there are kernels of truth in there, but to string it all together in order to place the blame on a certain group of people doesn't sit right with me. For example, we should consider the feminist movement as one which wants to eliminate unfair treatment, and not one which drives single females to consume more or whatever you're getting …
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/21 07:27 PM
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It's ok. It's ok to fuck up. It's ok to be an asshole. It's ok to be a pussy. It's ok to make enemies. It's ok to throw some money away. It's ok to get hung up on a bitch. It's ok to demolish relationships. It's ok to let people down. It's ok to let yourself down. The theme being, it's ok to make mistakes or fall short or whatever thing you're worried about. I worried way too much about all that shit for way too long. As long as you can accept your fuck up, learn from it, and move on, you're gon…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 04:00 AM
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Nah, come back with "lol why"
/r/askTRP28/08/20 06:36 AM
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I had a good relationship fall apart due to being a depressed cunt and realized I had to make changes. I fixed my diet, didn't drink, worked out 6 times a week, hiked 5 times a week, listened to audiobooks during those workouts/hikes, bought a new wardrobe, tried things I've never tried before, and just tried to generally throw myself at the world. That launched me into being petty badass and I had zero issues landing beautiful women and living great experiences. I've since calmed down, in a ltr…
/r/askTRP14/08/20 10:22 AM
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You seemed concerned I was "encouraging drug use on a well known honeypot site"....
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:23 AM
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Always has been. What I'm talking about should pretty much be on the lowest of low priorities; that stuff has been given breakthrough status by the FDA for treatment of PTSD and depression. It would be like coming after me because I recommended a guy take Tylenol. I'm not one bit worried and you should check your paranoia.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:23 AM
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I don't follow
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:17 AM
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I've been there, and honestly I'm still working my way out of it, but I'm far better off than where I started. I've put a lot of work in, but I would say the most efficient work is accomplished with the help of drugs. For me it was mushrooms and Ayahuasca, but I've heard a lot of good things about MDMA, ketamine, and even LSD as well. They provide a shortcut to working through your issues. And I wouldn't listen to the people patting you on the back saying you're supposed to be stoic and don't ch…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:00 AM
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One thing you might be coming to realize, is there is no singular way you "should" live your life and I recommend you continue to explore this idea. The younger we are, typically the more limited our experiences are. So at your young age of 18 you've probably only been exposed to a handful of ideologies and mainly influenced by the one your parents/guardians hold. This is like the tiniest sliver of ideologies out there in the world and you don't have to hold onto the ideology you were raised by.…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 07:07 PM
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Look into this "calorie thing"? Dude, if you haven't been tracking your calories and ensuring you're eating a surplus, you don't even have the basics formed yet. Go hit the fitness and other lifting subreddits and read the sidebars. Basically, diet is just as important as exercise. You could be doing the best program in the world, but if you aren't eating the food to replenish your body, it's not going to do much. Get a calorie tracker like myfitnesspal and start tracking everything you're eatin…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:42 PM
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Oh fuck off, you're young, go have fun. Start thinking about LTRs when you're 30. If you're dead set on having a LTR at your age then you'll have to be upfront about it and search for people who are upfront about it as well. They're out there, it's just gonna take some work. You can say that about anything you want it life really.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:08 AM
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Explain this to him in a factual and nonjudgmental way. "Listen, I appreciate how much you're into me, but you need to take care of yourself and put yourself first. I am fine, I don't need to be babied, I don't need you to be there every second for me. I love you and I need you to take care of yourself" Even if he grasps that, it's going to take time and effort to change. Whenever he does something clingy you need to factually state that that's what he's doing. "Hey, I appreciate the thought, bu…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/19 07:57 PM
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Maybe not necessarily in Iran, but with Iranians on vacation, definitely.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:34 PM
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Phew, glad I'm not alone on that option 2
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:07 AM
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Call authorities, collect information, ask questions politely, rally others to your cause
/r/askTRP01/10/18 01:15 AM
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Talk. Confidently. Don't approach it as a taboo subject, approach it as a fun activity to do together.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 11:05 PM
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Try a bunch of different stuff until you find something you love. For me, it was sky diving. The biggest thing is to just, "do". If you sit back and just read or think or contemplate, you're never going to get anywhere. You have to get out and do shit, no matter what.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 10:51 PM
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Confidence is cultivated. That predeterminist bullshit is the same bullshit that OP has been chewing on his whole life and only serves to prevent people from making changes in their lives.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 10:48 PM
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Make light of the situation is a good way to go. I was at a party and there was literally what looked like a line of guys waiting to talk to this super hot girl. So I sat at the end of the line and then yelled over to her, "Hey! Is this the line? Is this the line to talk to you?" The people around laughed and then this other girl came up to me and grabbed my arm so we left and spent the night together.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 12:01 AM
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Take it easy on them though, they simply don't know. You wouldn't walk into a kindergarten classroom punting kids and proclaiming your dominance. Be good to those around you because you'll help them, which helps you, and also it just makes them look more of an asshole when they're being an asshole because that's what they are at that point in time and hopefully they'll realize it and become better themselves.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 10:40 PM
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It's a defense mechanism and/or crab in a bucket mentality. Whenever anyone gives you any shit for anything, you shouldn't take it at face value, but ask why are they giving you shit. There is a social stigma for older men going after younger women and you're breaking it. They're jealous that you've broken "the rules" and they don't have the balls to do so, so they give you shit to try to bring you back down to them. This happens whenever you try to break out of the social norms: Spend a year so…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 08:19 PM
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Exactly. Nod, grin, and say something like, "Oh yeah, we're gonna be the very best of friends" in a way that insinuates more than friends. Maybe add in a cheesy wink. Then get excited that you guys are vibing enough that she would say something like that, treat her like a friend, and make silly sexual advances, "We're just really good friends!" wink wink. I fuck a few of my lady friends; wouldn't call them anything really like plates or fwb, they're just friends that I have sex with from time to…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:11 PM
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Eh, it's tough to judge tone over text, everything would be in a sarcastic or exaggerated tone except for: Statement 4 : “I’m really tired I don’t feel like doing anything” Have fun Statement 8 : “Your friend is really hot” Yup, he's a good looking dude Statement 14 : “You should respect me (after saying something she seems as disrespectful)” I do. I think with those statements I don't want to continue the conversation down that path, everything else I don't mind drawing out and playing with. I …
/r/askTRP24/08/18 03:31 AM
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Statement 1 : “You seem like a fuck boy” That's an interesting thing to say Statement 2 : “I’m waiting till marriage for sex” That's literally the saddest thing I've ever heard Statement 3 : “You probably have a small dick” How did you come to that idea? Statement 4 : “I’m really tired I don’t feel like doing anything” Have fun Statement 5 : “I just met you” (Excuse for not allowing certain escalation) What's that supposed to mean? Statement 6 : “You probably use that line on every girl” Ahahaha…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 12:59 AM
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Should, but won't. I wanted to get at people who try to fit in, who are at the jobs where they have to shave and keep short hair, who are terrified of standing out for whatever reason. There's this voice in a lot of people's heads that says, "fit in, fit in, fit in" and they do their best to look like everyone else. You'll increase your chances when you stand out.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 02:21 AM
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As well as tall, jacked, tan, and buying people drinks. The more of those boxes you check, the greater your chances will be of finding a mate.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 12:25 AM
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I ignored my emotions for years if not at least a decade and the food gates opened while at the tail end of a relationship. It destroyed the relationship about as badly as one can be destroyed and it kicked my ass for months going on into a year. I did a lot of learning and soul searching and have arrived at a mindful place where I can swim in my emotions and be perfectly fine. You have to acknowledge them and handle them, you can't continually ignore the elephant in the room even if you've been…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 07:38 PM
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Eh, I think you're being too harsh, serious, and constricting in your views. Live life how you want to live it, learning and changing as time goes on, and do your best to hold back your judgements of other people. Or whatever. I just know that I used to hold similar views and they held me back. A big thing that helped was learning to manage my expectations of myself and others.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 11:21 PM
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How would he know better? That's one thing I used to do a lot and would like other people to think about as well; assuming just because you know something, that everyone else should know it too. You should understand that we all come from different backgrounds affording us a wide variety of knowledge. A large amount of people aren't raised with the knowledge pushed by this community which is really why the community is here in the first place. I would say Billy is naive and/or ignorant depending…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 10:03 PM
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There was a time that I would have held the same opinion. Just trying to challenge your thinking a bit because I think it's useful.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 10:39 PM
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So anybody who doesn't hold a prestigious position is wasting their time and life? If you don't make six figures you're a loser? Don't get me wrong, I'd love it if everyone aspired to be doctors or engineers, but that's just not how it works. People need entertainment and some of that entertainment is porn and someone has to supply the dicks. If there weren't "losers" "wasting their lives" doing porn, you'd have nothing to jerk it to.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 10:09 PM
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I disagree. We all love sex right? Like it's a hobby that we love doing right? Now if you could make a living out of any other hobbies that you love that would be awesome. Like If you could get paid to work out you would seek employment for working out and that would be totally cool. So what's the difference in getting into porn just for the sex? Well it's your opinion on what sex means to you. I just thought your opinion on the matter was a bit harsh and could use some outside perspective.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 06:52 PM
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Depends on the context really. I had this conversation with a fwb once several years ago. Basically we enjoyed each other's company, but weren't ready to settle down yet or get into a serious relationship. Now in our late 20s she is getting married and I'm still single which is totally cool with me and I'm very happy for her. One of the best decisions I probably ever made was to not force relationships and not worry about finding a significant other.
/r/seduction21/10/15 01:42 PM
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That's a reasonable analogy. I just like bringing it up because I changed my view on it and would like to spread the word.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 04:19 AM
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I was in the same boat, did my research, weighed the consequences, thought about what I want, and went through with it. I feel it has a negative connotation and it shouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 09:21 PM
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Oh yeah, absolutely. If I could snap my fingers and get the vasagel over the Vasectomy I would, no doubt. I'm just saying we have a perfectly viable solution in addition to the two op presented.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 08:49 PM
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Good thing I'm into butt stuff ^^^^^^<sup>fuck</sup>
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 05:11 PM
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I'd like to point out that a Vasectomy is a relatively cheap, extremely simple, extremely safe, and extremely reliable form of birth control. While not 100% reversible, you still have a pretty good chance of conceiving after a reversal and there are other options too. Cost of a Vasectomy ~700 with no insurance Cost of kid you don't want ~250k and 18 years and everything else Cost of having a kid you do want ~3-20k Totally worth it. Only regret I have is I didn't get one sooner
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:52 PM
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Just wanted to touch on a point you brought up. I have never met a woman who didn't want to be dominated or wasn't turned on by neck/ear play.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:32 AM
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You must be in college? This was a typical date night and minimal energy was expended. This is what you should expect in the real world.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:19 AM
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With your feet in the air and your head on the ground
/r/seduction23/03/15 02:57 PM
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76.4% close ratio? What a NUB. If you can't pull a 360 noclose while rocking an 80.2% close ratio you don't belong in the game.
/r/seduction23/03/15 12:58 AM
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I was trying to point out this sub seems extreme, not evil. Neo Nazis may have been a poor choice...
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 01:16 AM
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That's a good point and obviously there is a demand for it. I find it a bit over the top at times, but here I am. I don't see it as an obligation to come forward in a relationship and divulge my sexual past, unless I have a std or something like that. If my partner wants to talk about it then we can, but I don't really care. It's like everyone has this thought process of the more people someone sleeps with then the less value a person has. How is that the case? Maybe many people share that belie…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 09:09 PM
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Gotcha. I was just giving the benefit of the doubt.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 08:25 PM
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I was under the impression that she didn't actively try to conceal it and that the topic never came up. If they did talk about their sexual history and she decided not to bring it up then he had every right to be mad about being lied to. He has every right to feel however he feels about her actions in the past as well.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 08:12 PM
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Everyone is entitled to speak their mind. If you attended a neo nazi meeting you'd probably see why they have their certain reputation though. I believe it is the man's fault for not bringing it up. The woman is at fault for not coming forward, but at the end of the day, if that kind of stuff was important to him, he should have covered the issue. I'd say 60% man's fault and 40%woman's, just to quantify it. So if I don't divulge something I deem not important, I'm lying by omission? If they neve…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 08:02 PM
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Browsing through the comments I can see why trp has its certain reputation. I wouldn't say I have swallowed the red pill or the blue pill. I like to consider all sides and form my own opinion so here it is. Both these people fucked up. One of them should have brought this topic up at some point in the relationship assuming that one of them cares about it. Obviously the man cares about it so I'd say that he should have brought it up and it's his fault for not doing so. If the woman got upset abou…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:55 PM
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That's what the friendzone is for and friends are valuable too. One of my girl friends helped me expand my wardrobe and she's also a cool person to talk to about a bunch of shit.
/r/seduction20/03/15 03:01 PM
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I don't have any problem with short people and I may have cracked a joke once in awhile back in the day, maybe, but I'm very indifferent nowadays. I honestly don't think anything negative, or anything at all really when I see a short person. However, when I see a dude with a Napolean complex it really pisses me off. I suppose anyone with that kind of attitude pisses me off. It's tough being around that kind of attitude because you feel like you're competing and I definitely try to compete too. I…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 08:07 AM
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That's kind of the typical response I was talking about from my friends when I ask them for help. "You got it made bro, suck it up, it's easy for you" I was looking for help/advice
/r/seduction07/02/15 06:18 PM
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I'm tall, handsome, intelligent, in decent shape, and make a lot of money. I feel incredibly guilty about all of this and I don't want to make people feel bad. Whenever what I do comes up, I'm really hesitant about going into detail about it. Whenever I bring up this issue to my close friends they laugh it off telling me how easy I have it. What do I do? I really want to put myself out there, but I don't want to put people down or make people feel down.
/r/seduction07/02/15 09:08 AM
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I'm a dude and I understand wanting someone to be blunt. I've been on both sides of this issue. I think it's just part of our society to be as polite as possible, in general. Think of how many times someone has done something that irks you a bit, but you just brush it off and smile... Some people would just rather be polite than blunt.
/r/seduction25/12/14 08:08 AM
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When I do it, it's usually because I don't care, but I'm polite enough to carry on the conversation. I would assume women do the same thing sometimes. Of course there are many other possible explanations.
/r/seduction25/12/14 06:58 AM
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"own" implying 90 yards for a TD or a 100 yard field goal.
/r/seduction04/11/14 03:53 AM
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Maybe a better way to put it: act deliberately
/r/seduction03/11/14 08:25 PM
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"Thousands"
/r/seduction05/10/14 02:27 AM
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Guide to hooking up with endless girls anywhere: improve yourself on a regular basis and open your fucking mouth.
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:08 AM
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have a few drinks, go to the bar, buy a drink, start talking to people about anything, buy a round, find some people you like, and eventually something will happen if you keep on doing something along those lines.... Nothing is ever going to happen if you don't put yourself in position for it
/r/seduction25/04/14 09:47 AM
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If you're in a college atmosphere, just say something, say anything.... It's like teaching someone to breathe
/r/seduction23/04/14 11:05 AM
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...Like with enough time to spare... or what... was it the second time or did you jerk off earlier in the day? I pretty much always use the pull out method and I'm just wondering if you were "typical" or "perfect" use... sorry for prying
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:16 AM
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Thanks for posting that... I just didn't care enough to back up my point.... condom typical: 18%, perfect: 2% pull out typical: 22%, perfect: 4% personal experience: 10 years, 20 something partners, no pregnancy scares, couple STD treatments though never tested positive. I've used condoms with maybe 5 of those 20 something partners.
/r/seduction25/03/14 03:04 AM
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Pulling out is a form of contraception and its effectiveness is close to that of a condom if used properly. I'm guessing it wasn't used properly....
/r/seduction24/03/14 10:49 PM
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there can be an incubation period.... get tested on the regular
/r/seduction24/03/14 10:47 PM
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Grab the bottom of her shirt and start pulling up. If her arms go up, it's on. Keep taking off her clothes and match her level of nakedness if she doesn't take off yours.
/r/seduction12/02/14 07:43 PM
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Mid twenties with a few girls I see regularly as friends and more: I just talk to people, represent myself honestly, and see where it goes. This has resulted in many fun nights with random people and a few girls I can hang out with and sometimes we have sex. My objective is to have a good time and sex isn't my end game, but a nice bonus. I don't buy into a lot of the stuff on here, but I would say I operate on a numbers game...just honestly. I am who I am, try to meet a lot of people and eventua…
/r/seduction01/02/14 05:04 AM
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Yes, it does. I was talking more about when you initially meet someone. Once you get to know someone you can both start opening up and showing each other who you really are and figure out if you want to stay with each other. Let's say you've been with a girl for six months and you have a great loving relationship. You step into a time machine and go back to the first time you guys met and try to talk to her like you didn't just go back in time; you're fucked. In her eyes you'd be this really swe…
/r/seduction19/11/13 09:39 PM
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Give compliments and flowers, but diversify. Preferably without stalking and murder.
/r/seduction19/11/13 09:12 PM
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Put yourself in their shoes. Someone comes up to you and is really nice, compliments you on whatever, and is just really really pleasant. That's all well and good and you nod and say thank you and laugh at a joke maybe, but do you want to hang out with this person? no. I dunno about you, but all my friends talk a lot of shit to one another and we have a lot of fun being assholes, but we're not malicious. When a chick says she wants a nice guy, she means she wants someone who isn't malicious, lik…
/r/seduction19/11/13 08:53 PM
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Look good Speak up Don't give a fuck Don't give a fuck Don't give a fuck
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:24 AM
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Approach mostly everyone. 3 chicks and 2 dudes, approach. Any kind of situation where there are more girls than guys, you should approach. Are you ever going to see these people ever again? probably not, bust out whatever. Hit the town and hit it over and over again until you find yourself. straight up, fuck everything else.
/r/seduction27/07/13 01:51 AM
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I might. I've never been told one way or another, but I do think I blush easily. You just have to put it out of your mind, like ignoring anything else that's "wrong" with you.
/r/seduction26/07/13 10:48 PM
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Give her shit or bring up something controversial.
/r/seduction20/07/13 09:04 PM
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Currently 24m dating 37f. Didn't do anything special, just showed interest and I think that's key. They know, and they generally know better than the younger girls. If you sat down next to her and started chatting her up she would know exactly why you're there.
/r/seduction16/07/13 09:31 PM
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Wat? How is that even possible?
/r/seduction28/06/13 03:26 AM
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Ummmm instead of "wait", just put your hand on her cheek and go in for the kiss. Thumb in front of the ear, palm kinda on the cheek, and fingers on the back of the neck. I can just picture someone lightly putting their fingertips on a cheek or something...
/r/seduction29/05/13 09:40 PM
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I have traits of each stage. You're either where you want to be or not.
/r/seduction29/05/13 08:55 AM
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It's not tricky, everyone has a line. For instance, if a girl pulls out her phone at dinner I will tell her to put it away. I will tell, not ask. You lose when you let shit slide that crosses your line. "Dam I hate it when she pulls out her phone to send a text when we're in the middle of a conversation, but I'm into her so I'm not going to say anything about it". Fuck that.
/r/seduction23/01/13 06:13 PM
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If I'm flirting with someone I blatantly make up shit. If I'm on an actual date I'll blatantly make up shit, but give some real details as well. for example: I'll be a hitman cereal rapist (as in lucky charms) who lives in an Amish community and volunteers at the soup kitchen on Tuesdays. That kinda stuff makes for good, fun conversation
/r/seduction19/01/13 06:34 AM
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It's Brazil....
/r/seduction15/01/13 11:47 AM
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You came here to vent and I only have criticism for ya. You acted like a bitch and you're 28, get your shit together. Or not, it really doesn't matter.
/r/seduction11/01/13 08:34 PM
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Gonna disagree on the friendzone, I live in the friendzone. It's not for everyone, but I work a lot with no time for serious relationships so I find it's the best place for me. Completely agree with you on "nice" guys. Nothing wrong with being nice, but don't be a bitch. If you think it's time to kiss, then go for the kiss. People think about this shit way too much, it's just a kiss. I destroy girls when they pull out their cell phones at inappropriate times, it's my biggest pet peeve. I also st…
/r/seduction11/01/13 08:17 PM
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Use your head. I actually don't think you'll run into your typical "crazy girl" girl here. However, I do think you might get stuck caring for this girl, fixing her. She is in a shit situation, she knows it, and she lives accordingly. The thing is she probably still has normal emotions, they're just tucked away. If you break the shell she has built up then you're likely to get attached, wanting to change this girl's life and encountering all the struggles that come with it. I'd be more worried ab…
/r/seduction07/01/13 12:34 AM
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Then I'd just call it bad luck and maybe you haven't been in the right mind set lately. There are times where I'm just not feeling it for whatever reason.
/r/seduction24/12/12 01:24 AM
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You do have gorgeous eyes... but that doesn't go too far when your other areas are lacking. I honestly can't say whether or not you're boring, but obviously whatever you're saying and how you're acting isn't working so try something different, anything. I don't follow any material, but I am constantly trying different things and finding out what works and what doesn't through experience. Start hitting on every girl you see, change it up every time, and take whatever works. Not that I can be cert…
/r/seduction23/12/12 09:51 PM
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Do something with her outside of class. Stop caring about whatever she has going on in her personal life and go after other women. You need to get out of this mentality that she is your target, she is an option. If you make her your target then you act differently around her, but if she's an option among many other girls then you should be able to be yourself.
/r/seduction23/12/12 09:41 PM
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The fuck is wrong with you people. "Here is your instructional video on closing" "Get her drunk" "Check out my blog on LMR" and "I have no idea what I'm talking about, rub dat shit til it opn up" I'm going to assume you're in your teens and this girl is visiting for the holidays, maybe your neighbors or some kinda family deal or some shit like that. You guys are young and want to experiment hence why you've made out. Given the situation I presume, she really doesn't want to go further because sh…
/r/seduction22/12/12 08:10 PM
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I agree. It's like asking, "Can I kiss you?"
/r/seduction14/12/12 11:11 PM
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Mainly because I want that person to change. I want him to wake up and say, "holy shit I'm a douchebag and should probably reevaluate myself". Probably because I had that realization myself and believe I am now better for it, yet I'm still arrogant enough to believe that I can easily change other people? I dunno dude lol
/r/seduction13/12/12 06:53 PM
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Haha yeah... I see your point. However, there are people out there who just won't respond to words.
/r/seduction13/12/12 06:33 PM
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Wouldn't call it brave, I just don't put up with shit. I'm easy going and very respectful and I expect others to show the same courtesy.
/r/seduction13/12/12 08:22 AM
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"Aww, he has a crush on you. What's it like to finally have a guy like you? This is a new feeling for you isn't it?" Also, you know what games they're going to try, call that shit out "Watch, he's going to try to touch the small of your back and pass a backhanded insult on me." I dunno if you said that stuff loud enough for the guy to hear, but if you did, be careful with that shit. If I heard you say something like that I would whisper something into the girl's ear about you being a complete do…
/r/seduction11/12/12 10:23 AM
1

... Dude
/r/seduction21/10/12 07:20 AM
1

I agree there are no "rules". I also agreed with the first part of your statement. However, you don't ask permission as you described in the second part of your statement. You can, but it's likely to yield a negative result. I'm gonna go out on a limb and say English isn't your first language and we've probably just misunderstood each other.
/r/seduction21/10/12 12:17 AM
2

"Actually, when you reach a certain age and comfort with flirting, sometimes it is fun to deliberately create a little awkwardness and tension." I can agree with this. When you're in a situation where it's comical to ask and you use that to be funny. Like "soooooo, should we kiss now?" when it's obvious that you're going to and you let her know that you're aware of the situation by your tone and attitude. "And sometimes the vibe you are getting from a woman is not so clear. Especially if you've …
/r/seduction20/10/12 10:24 PM
1

Sorry for the shitty metaphors
/r/seduction20/10/12 10:16 PM
2

I wish I could slap the "seduction", "keno" and "trust test" out of you. All of that is a scaffolding for you to use in order to build yourself. You shouldn't adopt that shit as a permanent structure. I believe you focus way too much on that shit, otherwise you wouldn't have your little play by play transition to ask a girl if you can kiss her. Like I said before, fuck rules, but if there is one "rule" to follow, it's don't ask.
/r/seduction20/10/12 10:15 PM
17

"I tell her I think she's really cute and I want to kiss her" "(34m)" wut You have money and no attachments, go down to South America and start fucking all the dime pieces down there and do not come back until you can walk up to a girl and kiss her. I hate "rules", but rule number fucking one, you don't ask. Rule number two, if she says "no" you stop and play it cool.
/r/seduction20/10/12 11:44 AM
6

I'm in Japan. I go out with money and nothing is a problem
/r/seduction26/07/12 05:56 PM
1

Read your thread title and then read what you just wrote.
/r/seduction03/07/12 08:05 PM
1

Even better. Go out and get laid every night, do some party drugs and live it up.
/r/seduction02/07/12 04:02 AM
5

"it was the last day in school" keyword here is school.
/r/seduction01/07/12 05:34 PM
0

I think I'll pick up fashion one day, but not for awhile. I love not having to worry about what I'm wearing or spend a lot of money on it. When I walk around a lot of times I feel liberated, like I'm not trapped in the game like everyone else and I feel really good about it. I'm also very successful and I believe I wear my success pretty well. I believe those two things allow me to dress like shit and still pick up girls. For the record, I have had steady women for the last couple years and I ha…
/r/seduction30/05/12 06:42 PM
3

how long you had that problem?
/r/seduction25/05/12 03:54 AM
1

I disagree with the friendzone being difficult to get out of and one of the worst places to be. You obviously don't automatically jump out of the friendzone, but being in the friendzone gives you opportunity to show who you are over time. Say you hang out with a girl one time and she isn't into you and you don't become friends, that's it game over. If you become friends and hang out more and more you have several chances to show a girl the different sides of you and develop attraction. I would s…
/r/seduction23/05/12 04:14 PM
1

Same shit every time I go home. All my friends bitch about "I'm so sick of partying", but it's good for me since I don't get to do shit at work. So yeah, still going strong after college.
/r/seduction18/05/12 04:15 PM
17

You're in college, go hit on everything that moves. Right now. And by right now I mean right now.
/r/seduction18/05/12 02:06 PM
3

I don't mind clubs. I usually get drunk, shove my way through the crowd until I find a 1 dancing by herself (no dude on her), and just start dancing with her. If she isn't having it then I move on to the next until I find a girl I can dance all night with. My objective isn't to get a name or number or get laid, it's just to get drunk and dance to some bumpin music while dry humping some reasonably attractive girl.
/r/seduction12/05/12 08:38 PM
1

Yeah.... It's kinda like Jersey.... but not as bad.
/r/seduction11/05/12 04:52 PM
1

oh.... boston.... that explains a lot.
/r/seduction11/05/12 04:11 PM
4

"Don't be yourself, be yourself" Ok bro
/r/seduction11/05/12 01:26 AM
23

It's all about your mindset. You need to learn how to tell yourself "fuck it" all the time. Being drunk is basically "fuck it" autopilot.
/r/seduction07/05/12 06:42 PM
3

If it makes you feel any better, I've been there too. Work has made it so I can't completely move on at the moment, but I do believe I'll just have to wait it out a couple more years.
/r/seduction07/05/12 06:03 PM
-1

First things first, get a fucking education.
/r/seduction06/05/12 03:56 AM
5

THANK YOU. I've been saying this shit for years now. She's either a 0 or a 1. Although I do enjoy telling people a girl is a 1 and they look at me like dafuq
/r/seduction16/04/12 09:34 PM
8

college/highschool should be tagged easy mode as well, maybe even work if you work with women. In fact, the only time you should be in hard mode is when you're ugly, broke as fuck, and an asshole.
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:55 PM
3

knowing people, I probably should have put a disclaimer in there. However, I have way too much faith in the human population for some reason.
/r/seduction23/03/12 05:53 PM
-1

uni stopped reading there. wish I went to college.
/r/seduction23/03/12 05:49 PM
6

I know, but rapey gets you laid one way or another
/r/seduction23/03/12 03:05 PM
6

Pro tip: the words "I'm not having sex with you" mean "I'm having sex with you". Of course nothing is absolute, but it has been in my experience.
/r/seduction23/03/12 02:16 PM
1

with great pussy pulling ability comes great responsibility
/r/seduction10/03/12 10:23 PM
-6

"I'm THE guy, you know, the motherfucking guy" If they don't play along then "You must be out of your god dam mind, I'm the fucking guy ok, that's all you need to know" If they do play along then roll with it. It's really very circumstantial, but I would try to keep it as lighthearted and funny as possible.
/r/seduction10/03/12 08:42 PM
2

It should be whatever the fuck you want it to be. Forget about all the outside bullshit society has thrown on you, sit down, and think about it. Do that a few times, see where you stand, and go.
/r/seduction04/03/12 10:40 PM
2

had to look up pedantry
/r/seduction03/03/12 08:46 PM
16

We go over this on a regular basis.
/r/seduction03/03/12 01:31 AM
2

Are you me?
/r/seduction19/02/12 03:43 AM
1

It works. You might think too much.
/r/seduction18/02/12 10:31 PM
1

That's a horrible lesson learned. The lesson learned here is that some girls really care about that shit and you have to be more assertive. You shouldn't go into dates now bringing up who pays as some kind of rule now.
/r/seduction18/02/12 10:28 PM
4

I kind of agree. I mean, you didn't hop on a bike and naturally know how to ride it. You got on it and fell and fell and fell until you figured out how to stay up. You figured it out by doing it which is how anything really comes "naturally". The problem I have with the seddit community is I feel there's way too much emphasis on reading up on different things in order to consciously do something for a result. It would be like reading a guide on riding bikes, hoping on, and saying to yourself, "n…
/r/seduction18/02/12 08:58 PM
2

Look at them like a normal person? I dunno, if you're really sitting there with a girl and concentrating on how much you look them in the eye, then you got some kind of issues. Just don't think about it and let it come naturally, like shes just another normal person, which she is. When I'm clicking with a girl I get some kind of look in my eye that just screams I want to fuck them and they can see it and it drives them crazy. I have no idea how I do it, I don't think about it, it just happens. I…
/r/seduction18/02/12 05:35 PM
1

South America? Super fucking jealous, haven't gotten down there yet. I would agree with you there, much like how the average American admires the celebrities. I think it falls kind of on the same line, like we want to have that kind of lifestyle so we would want a celebrity over a normal person given the chance, though the normal person may have more actual value.
/r/seduction17/02/12 10:44 PM
1

When I can't hear what they're saying, I scream at them "I can't hear a fucking word you're saying" and continue to dance like it doesn't matter. This works because I let my body do the talking. 99% of the time I'm behind them grinding on them, not doing some stupid shit in front of them like I see some guys try to do. When I'm dancing I do a lot of different shit to show the girl I know what I'm doing sexually, like where I put my hands, where I breathe, where I bite, where I move her hair. Lea…
/r/seduction17/02/12 06:00 PM
14

I suppose with me being a sailor, we may have gone to different places in Thailand, but from what I recall, the people there want you because you have money. This has been my experience with much of the world. "You're American? You must be rich, gimme all your money", in lamens terms. I agree that it's about a 180 from America where you're automatically socially shunned, but I believe it's because you have something to offer them. Pussy to us is money to them. The second I walk in the club I hav…
/r/seduction17/02/12 05:55 PM
4

First one of these I've read where all the shit they say isn't retarded. I mean, it may sound retarded, but it's the stuff that actually works. It seems like everything else I've read has been about some bullshit like sincerely compliment her eyes and then tell her your life story. Fuck no, you go up, say something stupid, analyze her reaction and quickly and wittily respond. You would think more people would have figured this shit out already, maybe the stuff I'm talking about was written by wo…
/r/seduction16/02/12 11:45 PM
0

So are you the motherfucker who created all the stupid fucking acronyms?
/r/seduction14/02/12 10:17 PM
0

you know nothing of my personal life
/r/seduction12/02/12 01:56 AM
-6

Be a stripper in seddit get instant upvotes
/r/seduction11/02/12 09:38 PM
1

Of course it's ok to show sexual interest, how else are you supposed to get to the sex?
/r/seduction11/02/12 09:37 PM
2

If shit isn't going down, start buying rounds of tequila and not giving a fuck. A few months ago me and my buddy met up with this chick who I had met once and her friends. I was a little sheepish because I didn't want to give the wrong impression to her friends like I was just there to bang her or something. We get to a bar and everyone is like "lol, wtf are we doing" (not literally, but no one was taking charge and everyone was standing around just kinda chillin). So I said fuck it, started ord…
/r/seduction11/02/12 09:25 PM
1

It's not mine. I sail as a civilian for the government... kinda like being in the navy, but I get paid a bit more.
/r/seduction30/01/12 02:39 AM
2

I live on a boat too! Except it's a little bigger and I can't bring girls back to it :( I was hoping you were a sailor and had some trick for sneaking somebody on...
/r/seduction29/01/12 08:31 PM
3

Say something she'll remember you by, good or bad. "You have awesome tits", for example.
/r/seduction28/01/12 10:29 PM
8

"Seduction" goes far beyond your physical appearance. While looking good helps, it won't take you all the way (you'll get laid of course, but you won't be a pua or whatever). As of right now I don't do anything for my appearance. I'm tall and reasonably good looking, but those two characteristics don't carry me alone. They are even negated by the fact that I have an average body, pretty white skin, and don't do anything special with my hair or clothes. However, I am intelligent, funny, a gentlem…
/r/seduction22/01/12 08:07 AM
1

You didn't turn her on. Learn some physical game.
/r/seduction21/01/12 03:11 PM
2

Well congratulations.
/r/seduction19/01/12 01:42 PM
-1

Me. but I'm going to bed so maybe I'll write something up later
/r/seduction19/01/12 02:50 AM
6

Soooo you went to college....?
/r/seduction19/01/12 02:28 AM
3

There is no such thing as the friendzone. There is only never being in the right place at the right time and failing to present yourself as the desirable person you are.
/r/seduction18/01/12 05:58 AM
2

I come from the same train of thought. I don't really study seduction, but I like sharing my thoughts on how to get women. You don't need to be alpha male or a douche bag to pick up chicks. All you have to do is be a good guy. There is certainly a difference between a good guy and a bitch and I believe most people don't understand the difference so they think they have to be an asshole to get women. Being an asshole will get you random women for a night. Being a good guy will get you any woman t…
/r/seduction18/01/12 02:15 AM
0

You're doing it wrong. You're supposed to let them talk. Just joke around, make sarcastic remarks about where she's from, what she does etc etc. From there you can generally keep some bullshit about some crazy adventure you guys would have going or something along the same lines, but about something else. Like what if hamsters ran the government or what if you guys went on a road trip with no money. You'll get there through your conversations and you just have to improvise. When it comes down to…
/r/seduction16/01/12 06:00 PM
8

Wait. What?
/r/seduction16/01/12 05:46 PM
29

There is a time and place to open up to a girl and it's not right after the first time you have sex. You should always try to keep the appearance up that you're the shit and you're invincible. We all have insecurities, but just because a girl opened up her legs doesn't mean it's alright to let them all out like you just got passed the impenetrable barrier and you're in for good now. I'm more into keeping women around because I like sex and I'd rather be in a position to have more sex. After I br…
/r/seduction16/01/12 05:45 PM
3

No, you finally understand one girl. They come in all different flavors. I do agree with the whole be a good person and success will come to you though. That's how I've been successful, pretty much everywhere I go I find a girl to be with (I travel a lot).
/r/seduction14/01/12 05:27 PM
1

Join activities.
/r/seduction12/01/12 04:12 AM
1

I've hooked up with a couple. One I didn't know about until the next day and the other was an ex I was getting back with and I knew they were on the verge of breaking up. Nothing special.
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:52 PM
1

"How long ya had that problem?"
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:50 PM
3

whoa whoa whoa. My good sir, you must warm up the oven before sticking the bread in. I can honestly say that my game is as simple as: get them to the point where they want to kiss me (not fuck me) and then kiss them until they want to fuck me. If I had to talk my way into fucking, I'd probably get laid once a year.
/r/seduction11/01/12 05:11 PM
6

It depends on the situation. If we're alone then I always escalate. I put one hand on the back or side of her head and kiss her hard, then after a little bit I move to the neck or ears while my hand is either pulling her head towards me or rubbing her neck or ears. Other hand usually goes to the hip and works it's way around depending on what position we're in. Public situations depend on the location and surroundings. In a place where public making out is acceptable like a club/bar then I basic…
/r/seduction11/01/12 03:15 AM
20

If I'm asking myself, "should I kiss her", then I kiss her. If you're asking yourself that with every girl you meet then it's probably wise not to go with it, but I think that most people should be able to simply feel when the time is right.
/r/seduction10/01/12 05:39 PM
22

And it's not because you're ugly. I was actually just talking to my ex and she brought up how guys are either too aggressive and overbearing or too shy and never take control. There's a happy medium and when you find it, you'll have women just lining up.
/r/seduction10/01/12 04:30 AM
3

Just keeping track of all 14 is impressive to me.
/r/seduction07/01/12 03:27 AM
1

That works, but then it's more about how you say it and how you look.
/r/seduction06/01/12 05:43 PM
2

I feel the best way to approach a girl is to say something different. Don't go over and introduce yourself. Take in what's going on between her looks, her actions, and the surrounding environment, then make a sarcastic comment in a confident voice to her. It's that simple, then take what she gives you and run with it. You can approach and introduce yourself, but that requires the right tone in your voice and overall presence. It's just easier to make a clever comment.
/r/seduction06/01/12 12:51 AM
2

Great use of the firetruck game. place hand on girls knee "Let's play the firetruck game, say red light when you want me to stop" run hand up thigh "STOP" "Firetrucks don't stop for red lights"
/r/seduction06/01/12 12:38 AM
1

Date several girls at the same time. For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Date one girl, she thinks you're dating 20. Date 20 girls, they all think they're the only one. Works for me, but that's mainly because I don't have the time to get into a serious relationship.
/r/seduction27/12/11 05:59 PM
1

I like giving advice. Once in awhile I'll see something that really strikes me and throw it into the mix when I go out. I also like to argue about some of the shit that gets discussed here, particularly the stuff I feel promotes douchebaggery instead of self improvement.
/r/seduction27/12/11 05:50 PM
12

Then slowly give a creepy grin and stroke your manhood...
/r/seduction27/12/11 05:45 PM
4

Brilliant!
/r/seduction15/12/11 10:28 PM
-7

Most of them look like Asians....
/r/seduction11/12/11 09:02 PM
1

I'm just about as great a guy you'll find, but I basically meet all my women secondhand, like through friends or something else. Rarely is it me picking up a random girl I just meet out of the blue. I'm currently in a place where I'm not gonna meet any girls seconhand so it's all on me. What can I do to meet women now? I don't have a car or place to go back to, but I have plenty of money for going out. Are any girls ok with this?
/r/seduction05/12/11 02:59 AM
1

I would usually go the route of playing off "good" instead of continuing a regular conversation.
/r/seduction05/12/11 02:21 AM
1

yeah, sorry about that. I just felt that the original post was a little over the top and decided to take it further. 4 dates or 10, it's far too long.
/r/seduction23/11/11 08:58 PM
2

you would win that bet... because that never happened lol. I don't think I've ever not gotten a kiss on the first date and typically shit happens before we even start dating. I thought my statement would be over the top enough for people to pick up on it
/r/seduction23/11/11 08:42 PM
1

it was a joke...
/r/seduction23/11/11 08:38 PM
-6

I've gotten a kiss after 10 dates, sometimes you just have to wait :)
/r/seduction23/11/11 11:13 AM
6

I believe it is overly simple and by all aspects of life I'm talking about all aspects of life, not just getting women. The thing with people today is they're focused on tv and internet and a whole bunch of essentially useless things. Then you have our leaders investing in their own interest instead of the interest of the general public. This has created the situation we have today. Yes we have the OWS guys "doing something about it", but they're not really doing anything besides drawing attenti…
/r/seduction21/11/11 09:02 PM
9

Now if only the majority of the population could realize this and apply it to all aspects of life...
/r/seduction21/11/11 07:11 PM
12

Female [FR]: Went out and got laid! Yay!
/r/seduction21/11/11 12:51 AM
3

This guy clearly doesn't understand the difference between a nice guy and a bitch.
/r/seduction20/11/11 05:41 PM
1

It may exist, but not in the sense people usually think of it as. I feel like people think the friendzone is this inescapable pit, but anyone can get out of it.
/r/seduction20/11/11 07:21 AM
1

That actually explains a lot since I generally slow play women as in I'm pretty chill and quiet to begin with and work my way in. I don't really do the typical peacocking and hit on girls strongly type deal. I have a very high success rate, but I also believe I can attribute that to the types of girls I attract too.
/r/seduction20/11/11 07:20 AM
4

You can usually change your life and make yourself more desirable. Not that you should change yourself for a girl, but there is certainly nothing wrong with changing yourself for a better life in general. People's opinions of other people are constantly changing and honestly all it takes is some attribute, new or not noticed before, to be noticed at the right time and you can be in. It could be simple or complicated, easy or hard, but it can happen. As with anything, nothing is absolute, and if …
/r/seduction20/11/11 12:35 AM
10

like I always say: there's no such thing as the friendzone From here you just have to play it cool, it's not a big deal, don't go into bitch mode.
/r/seduction19/11/11 10:15 PM
4

Now that I think about it, I generally hook up with girls by earning their trust. That may seem like a no brainer, but I believe it's a far cry from running around the bar being fake. This is why I believe that going out and genuinely being yourself is the best route to go when picking up women.
/r/seduction19/11/11 12:59 AM
2

Wtf is the claw? Depends on if you're going with friends or not. If it's a bar I chill and if it's a club I dance. Dancing I show a girl I'm good physically and then work into a conversation later, never go around grabbing asses (guys actually do that). At a bar I basically go up to girls and just say "what up" and then adapt to what they give me. You basically want to give off a vibe that you're better than every guy in there, but you don't have to act like it to prove it.
/r/seduction18/11/11 12:17 AM
1

That means we're each other!
/r/seduction17/11/11 04:27 PM
1

Yeah, I was just saying that's the only thing I have going for me in the appearance department. Usually when someone tells this story everyone assumes they're some hot rich dude or something special.
/r/seduction17/11/11 01:44 PM
4

THANK YOU. I have pretty much the same mentality as you and can relate to just about everything. I just kinda wish I went to a normal college so I could've done what you do for a little bit. Also, I don't dress well and I'm pretty average looking though I am tall which I feel helps.
/r/seduction17/11/11 12:15 PM
1

I make them believe I'm the best guy ever through sincere actions and words. You have to become an ideal guy for your ideal mate. Figure out what qualities you look for in women and then figure out how to become someone desirable by those women.
/r/seduction13/11/11 05:35 PM
11

Club, alone, Asians. Even I wouldn't touch that shit. Seriously, don't get discouraged. Start striking up conversations everywhere you go, don't worry about anything else.
/r/seduction13/11/11 05:14 PM
2

Not that I do a lot of preaching on here, but this is almost exactly what I preach. I agree with pretty much everything he had to say other than the bit about the kanye hater shouldn't be himself. There isn't a set criteria that girls are going to like, it could be anything. Maybe you're the biggest star wars geek ever and you go out and hit on the biggest female star wars geek ever but you put on your facade and she turns you down where if you were just yourself you'd be the happiest man on ear…
/r/seduction11/11/11 09:11 AM
17

It just depends on what you want. If you've been an outcast your entire life with little interaction with girls, read up on seduction, and decide to go out and apply it, yeah you're going to come off as creepy. You'll eventually get what you want and you'll eventually level out as a normal person. If you're already a pretty normal person who has problems talking to girls then there is no need to walk around creeping girls out. Simply strike up a normal conversation and be you, we're all interest…
/r/seduction11/11/11 08:01 AM
2

I don't do game. I've read an article here and there, but nothing more. I have been on both sides of the fence so I'll give a little info based on my experiences (on my phone so not too detailed). In HS I was poor with no car, but I was outgoing and pretty good with women. I was able to hook up with girls relatively frequently and able to date girls who had cars and money. I felt that my financial situation affected my ability to get girls in that it made it more difficult, like I had to be proa…
/r/seduction07/11/11 11:28 PM
0

Yeah actually my 1st engineer met his wife at a bar and the first words he said to her were "Fuck you". They're doing great, 10 years, 2 kids, good people. Just generally I don't associate bars with wifey material, but theres always exceptions.
/r/seduction20/10/11 05:33 PM
2

you mean amusing.
/r/seduction20/10/11 04:54 PM
5

Because that's the only kind of guy who EVER makes any progress at a bar. I've gone out doing the same bullshit and you have girls all over you and everybody loves you and you get laid, but I'm not actually that type of person. So I've gone out and been real and genuine and polite and all that shit and it simply doesn't work at the bars. Lets think about it, bars are loud and crowded right. So how is anyone suppose to go up to a random girl and impress her without cheap fuck fuck jokes and actin…
/r/seduction20/10/11 04:53 PM
1

Word.
/r/seduction15/10/11 05:14 PM
2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JMOh-cul6M
/r/seduction15/10/11 08:05 AM
0

I like to say that there is no such thing as the friendzone, but I should really say there is no such thing as the friendzone as a place that automatically and forever prevents you from hooking up with a girl, which you have so elegantly proven. Also, I understand you feel great after all this and you're on top of the world and that's all well and good. However, you come across like the typical nerd to douche bag newly transformed faggot. Like you just found a hack for your WoW account so you're…
/r/seduction15/10/11 07:42 AM
-6

All this can be learned by getting out, growing some balls, and talking to women. If you have gone out and talked to every woman you've wanted to talk to every day for the past year and have learned nothing nor made any progress then I would strongly suggest studying "seduction". However, if that isn't the case then I would like to suggest just getting out and learning all these things for yourself. There is a difference between being educated on this material vs knowing this material. I only sa…
/r/seduction14/10/11 12:36 AM
2

Stop overthinking EVERYTHING. I don't even understand how theres a whole business built around this shit. All you need to do is say fuck it and do shit you'd normally be afraid to do and then learn from what happens. Thats it, thats all, no more,
/r/seduction11/10/11 02:20 PM
11

Don't be a retard.
/r/seduction09/10/11 11:29 AM
2

I would say something along the lines of "Obviously.... Have you seen this girl's eyes?" or "Dude, I was going to tell her." or just something that is light hearted and playful. You just need to be able to come up with SOMETHING. Don't act like it's not true and try to play it off like they're joking and don't put your head down in embarrassment or anything like that.
/r/seduction28/09/11 10:33 PM
1

Well if you get into a relationship under false pretenses then it won't last. Nothing wrong with becoming a different person so long as you're true to what you want and believe in though.
/r/seduction27/09/11 03:17 AM
1

I suppose this is where I clash with the rest of this subreddit. Learning game in order to get laid, especially by applying what you've learned as a lie, is low as fuck.
/r/seduction27/09/11 12:18 AM
1

Yes he can be happy about getting laid, but this isn't r/checkitoutijustgotlaid.
/r/seduction27/09/11 12:14 AM
1

I actually do have a beard. When you have to shave your face every day for four years you tend to let it grow when you get the chance. Hasn't stopped me from getting any girls though.
/r/seduction26/09/11 08:29 AM
1

If you're bad at something, at someone tells you you're doing good, how are you ever going to know you need to get better?
/r/seduction26/09/11 08:26 AM
1

Unless I'm directly confronted, I stay away. They stick out like a sore thumb and so do the fish they attract. No need to compete for those fish as they're worthless and will be taken by the shark anyway. If I am directly confronted then it's best to strike without warning, punch it in the nose, and it will quickly learn its actual place.
/r/seduction26/09/11 08:25 AM
1

Welllll it's pretty comparable to learning how to do anything. If you want to learn how to swim then jump in the water and figure out how to stay afloat. You can start in the shallow end and work your way to deeper waters once you feel comfortable.
/r/seduction26/09/11 02:31 AM
0

I dunno, it just seemed like you were really ecstatic about how things went down, like everything was new and exciting and you were surprised with how it all went. I just want you to know that these things happen and to not expect these results with every woman you bring over and what happened is rather typical in the grand scheme of things.
/r/seduction26/09/11 02:27 AM
-2

I like giving people advice and helping people. I do that based on the knowledge I have from personal experience. I don't think the whole, "Great job on laying an HB8 bro! Just for future reference I think you should try more kino and work on being a pua though. Again great job!" is constructive. I don't believe that mindset is constructive. I'm gonna tell people how I see it and hopefully that can take something away from my constructive criticism. Like for this guy, he needs to work on his phy…
/r/seduction26/09/11 01:35 AM
2

If she really meant something to you? Time. Just try to keep busy and keep your mind off of it.
/r/seduction26/09/11 01:15 AM
2

Well now you have to figure out what you want. If you want this girl to be your wing girl then you should hang out and dive deep into the friendzone. I think that would be the most beneficial move for you right now either way; you earn a good friend who you can really talk to and once she sees that you're an awesome guy and getting girls she will probably want you at some point. I think you did a good job working with nothing because it doesn't sound like she gave you anything.
/r/seduction26/09/11 01:12 AM
2

I'm gonna assume kino means physical, and yes. it has never ever failed me.
/r/seduction26/09/11 12:55 AM
-1

The whole being a typical guy when it comes to physical interaction. Yeah he lead, but no more so than anyone else she has ever met, nothing that's gonna stick out in her mind. The whole presentation of like lol we had SEX haha, gives me the impression that there was nothing special going on there and just the whole presentation of the story gives me the impression that all he cares about is getting laid. And I certainly agree that means they're almost certainly dtf.
/r/seduction26/09/11 12:48 AM
-3

I wouldn't call myself a gamer, but I have always played halo and just recently I really enjoy gow3. I'm 6' 3", 215, played 3 varsity sports, got my BS, start work in a month, and currently have a couple fwb while living at home and sharing my mom's car. I love playing halo and so far I love gears 3, but in no way am I that guy who hits the game store all the time to try new games and in no way have I ever associated myself with wow. Everything I've learned about picking up women has been throug…
/r/seduction26/09/11 12:40 AM
-2

I really don't think any of them are too far of a stretch.
/r/seduction25/09/11 11:58 PM
3

Get over the number scale and get over the lingo. What you need to take away from this is you completely misread the situation. All the shit she told you should have pointed out that: 1, she likes to get down and 2, she is self conscious about appearing to be a slut. You went for a walk and made out and immediately asked her if she wanted to go back to your place, I don't know if you know this, but just because a girl kisses you doesn't mean she is going to sleep with you especially if she is se…
/r/seduction25/09/11 06:47 PM
-11

Dam dude, you guys had SEX?! .... I'll get on to some constructive criticism then. Shit like this happens all the time if you just put yourself out there. So if this is like a "omg I can't believed this happened to me" moment for you, understand that you can make this happen all the time by simply doing what you did on a regular basis. Secondly, don't be a faggoty ass douche fuck and lead this girl on. I say this because you sound like you might be a faggoty ass douche fuck and as such, you prob…
/r/seduction25/09/11 05:49 PM
1

I dress like a scrub. It just makes life easier when no one thinks you're a threat. As far as getting girls, I've never had a problem.
/r/seduction21/09/11 01:35 PM
1

I smiled :) and thinking about it more, I just loled
/r/seduction19/09/11 09:44 PM
1

First of all there is no such thing as a 10, a girl is either a 0 or a 1. Secondly, fuck "negging" altogether, fucking just talk to girls and try different things and actually learn how the fuck you're suppose to act as a person
/r/seduction19/09/11 08:10 PM
1

Stop thinking of everything in terms of levels and steps. Go, talk to a girl, do what you want to do regardless of what you've been told, assess what happens, and adapt what you did for the next girl. Its that fucking simple. (And by "do what you want to do" i do not mean rape or abuse)
/r/seduction10/09/11 12:52 AM
7

stop thinking about kino, stop thinking about your manners, stop thinking about fucking up, stop thinking period. There are thousands of hot women, start hitting on all of them, and figure your shit out
/r/seduction04/09/11 07:12 PM
0

at least 17, I don't really keep count though
/r/seduction04/09/11 02:19 AM
1

Arm goes around her and then I feel it out from there. literally.
/r/seduction04/09/11 02:18 AM
3

I think I've spent just about my entire life learning about women. I hope you're just referring to the 5 years as being a coach or whatever. I agree with step two and the last point you make about "game" becoming second nature. However, I believe your look and the people you go out with only determine the amount of difficulty you're going to have in picking up girls. Looking good and being surrounded by good people only make things easier, like it would be very difficult to not get girls under t…
/r/seduction30/08/11 08:43 PM
1

I wouldn't walk up to someone and say that. I originally brought it up in response to what OP said. Like if I was the guy coming up in OP's story, then I would say my peace. If someone were to dog on me because I'm wearing ghetto clothes, then I would shit on them with everything I've been talking about, but I don't go around starting shit. I think you may have misinterpreted my original response.
/r/seduction24/08/11 11:39 PM
1

I'm just taking you through my mindset, I don't walk into a room and yell, "Hey faggots! Who here has a nuclear engineering degree from an ivy league school and/or makes six figures a year? No one? Well guess what, I'm better than all you bitches and you better fucking recognize". Nah dude, I'm very chill, very nice, very approachable in actuality. It's not a display of wealth, it's a display of accomplishment. The rest of my wardrobe is very modest. I still wear practice shirts from my soccer t…
/r/seduction24/08/11 08:19 PM
3

Well I ended up back at her place for drinks through mutual friends. I kept my cool all night, staying pretty neutral, and really just analyzed what I should do with the dialogue between her and our friends. From what I gathered I knew I was in so when everyone went to leave I made an excuse to stay behind and then asked her to show me her bedroom.
/r/seduction24/08/11 07:49 PM
2

I did get tested/treated about a month later. Something was wrong and it went away after changing my diet and getting treated. Test results came back negative so I'll never know for sure.
/r/seduction24/08/11 07:39 PM
26

First and only time I went to a strip club I added "fuck a stripper" to my bucket list. Later that night I ended up at a stripper's house and subsequently fucked her. Fastest bucket list achievement ever.
/r/seduction24/08/11 12:07 PM
1

Essentially I'm saying that everything you're wearing doesn't match up to the little thing that's on my finger. I spent a lot of money on it because I earned it, not because I'm trying to show off how much money I might have. I wouldn't say I am any of those. Certainly not petty although I do get pretty annoyed with people who are and I think that's a lot of people in America. You may believe I'm arrogant and boastful because I believe when I step into a room I'm usually the most accomplished pe…
/r/seduction23/08/11 11:05 PM
1

I sail commercially which is really good money and I don't have any living expenses while I'm working so I'm able to invest a vast majority of my earnings.
/r/seduction23/08/11 09:59 PM
0

Except when you point to my class ring and I explain how it's worth more than everything you have on together and almost surely exemplifies what you will be happy to accomplish in a lifetime. I'll then make fun of you for shopping at some kind of upper level store where shirts are like $50 while I shop at fucking goodwill and spent $50 on my entire wardrobe. Then I'll go into how you care too much about material things and you're stuck in the same bullshit as everyone else and will be lucky to r…
/r/seduction22/08/11 10:35 PM
-6

I completely agree with you and don't even know what most of the fucking acronyms stand for. I kind of view it as a bunch of people over-analyzing how to walk. Just fucking walk.
/r/seduction11/08/11 10:11 PM
1

your tldr is kinda just as long as what you originally had to say.... it just bugs me when it's in the middle of the box. Anyways, play it cool, and don't go all lovey dovey we should be together bullshit. Just maintain what you've had and keep looking for openings.
/r/seduction04/08/11 09:36 AM
1

I mean if you walk in there and she jumps on you and sticks her tongue down your through I wouldn't push her off. Just go in there like you're the shit and you don't need her for anything because you're getting it elsewhere. Don't flat out tell her that though, just act like it. Hanging out with her should be no big deal. When she presents herself to you, make a move and get her going. If you know what gets her off then go with that, otherwise this is what I do: kiss, makeout, grab the back of h…
/r/seduction02/08/11 01:09 AM
-1

Don't tell her shit, friendzone her, and then fuck her when shes begging for your nuts. The only way you're getting laid by asking her beforehand is if she already has it definitively in her mind that she is absolutely set on fucking you. Up to you. In my eyes i think it's worth it and for the record i do believe i get laid more than the average guy with less effort because i do shit like this.
/r/seduction01/08/11 06:03 PM
1

Don't tell her shit, friendzone her, and then fuck her when shes begging for your nuts. The only way you're getting laid by asking her beforehand is if she already has it definitively in her mind that she is absolutely set on fucking you. Up to you. In my eyes i think it's worth it and for the record i do believe i get laid more than the average guy with less effort because i do shit like this.
/r/seduction01/08/11 06:03 PM
1

I really haven't noticed a difference.
/r/seduction26/07/11 04:08 AM
1

I think it'd be more interesting to hear how people would close katy perry. Also, anyone can do it.
/r/seduction26/07/11 04:06 AM
7

Super-Ultra Highly Condensed Seduction Process: DGAF
/r/seduction26/07/11 03:41 AM
2

Educate yourself on economics/finance and do some traveling.
/r/seduction22/07/11 07:11 PM
1

If a dude cannot "kino", as you guys call it, properly then you should probably gtfouta there. I think a lot of guys who try to implement this kind of shit over think it way too much and end up doing it entirely wrong. It's like they approach with a checklist and steps to follow and accomplish which really isn't the way approaching girls should be done.
/r/seduction22/07/11 07:08 PM
-1

I'll leave my hands completely open to air them out and then I'll put them on my thighs to warm them up. I dunno how bad you have it, but mine just get a little sweaty here and there.
/r/seduction22/07/11 06:19 PM
5

You prove one of my points I always try to make: Just because a girl turns you down or isn't receptive doesn't mean you can close later down the road, just don't get all bent out of shape about it.
/r/seduction21/07/11 12:12 AM
1

I dont even know what the fuck PUA stands for.
/r/seduction20/07/11 10:28 PM
1

By that logic, I must be worth nothing.
/r/seduction20/07/11 10:19 PM
2

because i missed out on a possible opportunity to make out with her or do anything physical with her, do you think i too heavily gave off the erroneous aura that i want to be just friends? no. it's just that i worked hard to gain her attraction through hxc kino, got through qualification pretty well, now i'm in comfort and i just want to barrel through stop thinking about this shit, it's entirely unnecessary. i don't want to blow it and be friend zoned (because to my understanding, being friend …
/r/seduction20/07/11 07:36 PM
3

I've asked and I've taken. There really isn't a difference between the two, but taking is probably your best bet. If you take then you at least get a moment to show her that you know what you're doing physically and she has to say no whereas asking you miss out on the opportunity to present physical prowess and she can just say no. It's one more little thing on your side. The most important thing you need to do is just stop caring about it either way. You're going to do this and there is going t…
/r/seduction20/07/11 07:47 AM
1

pick up better guys.
/r/seduction20/07/11 07:35 AM
2

Don't try to hide the fact that you're trying to hang out with her. Hit her up, ask her to hang out, don't bring up the past. If she brings it up then factually explain what happened. Only say sorry if it's appropriate.
/r/seduction20/07/11 07:31 AM
1

I dunno. I personally believe it's easier. I don't go out of my way to spit game or anything and I seem to pick up girls just fine.
/r/seduction04/07/11 10:45 PM
1

Exactly what I was gonna say
/r/seduction30/06/11 08:13 AM
1

... props for the whole motivational context but otherwise meh.
/r/seduction30/06/11 08:00 AM
1

Actually, I think the 1 scale is where it's at.
/r/seduction29/06/11 06:37 PM
1

with more cocky-funny....
/r/seduction26/06/11 08:41 AM
1

Make a physical move, see where that gets you, then take it from there. If all goes well you guys can talk it over and enter the glorious FWB realm.
/r/seduction17/06/11 12:56 AM
1

Nope, you're doing great. What you have now is a revolving door and you just need to wait for the right moment to step inside. Keep doing what you're doing and the opportunity will present itself.
/r/seduction17/06/11 12:53 AM
4

I wouldn't get too giddy about # closing. A lot of girls give out their number with no intention of any follow up. You really shouldn't be sincere until a couple dates down the line. So when you're spitting game, joke around. When you text her, joke around. When you go on the first date, joke around. You want to show her you're funny and fun to be around. Anyone can be sincere, you got to show what you have to offer that sets you apart. Also, fuck rules. Don't say to yourself "I gotta wait x min…
/r/seduction17/06/11 12:26 AM
6

I always smile and tell them there's plenty of alcohol back at my place.
/r/seduction17/06/11 12:11 AM
1

I didn't know you were in China. Goodluck with that.
/r/seduction14/06/11 04:08 PM
5

Fuck reading shit. You are going on a good amount of dates and at the rate you're going you should be able to figure shit out. Go on a date, try something new, figure out what went right/wrong, apply to next situation. I guess you're applying the same shit to all your dates which only gets you something 20% of the time. I mean that has to be the case. STOP FUCKING THINKING. STOP BREAKING DOWN PERCENTAGES. START SAYING "FUCK IT" AND DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. I just can't imagine anyone going on 60 …
/r/seduction14/06/11 07:38 AM
1

My first relationship ended badly so that threw my through a loop and then I pretty much went straight to a military academy on the other side of the country so I've just kind of taken them where I can get them. I'm getting out now and pretty much going straight to a ship for the majority of the year so this is how a chunk of my life (~10 years including the past 4 at school) is going to be. If I think too much I'll get depressed about what could be or what I could do. I guess it's been good in …
/r/seduction13/06/11 06:36 AM
0

She could be on her period or she could just not want to go that far yet or she could be self-consciousness about something down there. You did the right thing. Try for it next time. If she does it again maybe ask her if shes on her period or something.
/r/seduction13/06/11 04:41 AM
3

Shit's normal. Chill out. If she turns you down at a reasonable time like when her parents are gone, then you can start bugging out.
/r/seduction13/06/11 04:37 AM
-2

I understand. However, I feel like you might as well report that you woke up this morning and will go to bed tonight.
/r/seduction13/06/11 02:01 AM
0

So it's cool if I post about every girl I get with? What if it's my girlfriend?
/r/seduction13/06/11 01:58 AM
-7

So you got a foreigner, who had to stay at your place, drunk and then fucked her. I don't know the details so I won't give you too much shit, but I would definitely say it's nothing to brag about. I dunno, I just imagine this subreddit as a place to share stories of amazing feats or advice.
/r/seduction12/06/11 05:39 PM
1

You're in. Just go down there and be funny and confident and whatever you've been doing because apparently she likes it. Make a move when the opportunity presents itself and if nothing has happened by the time you get into bed with her, cuddle and then start rubbing her back, if she doesn't roll over then start kissing her neck, if that doesn't work then you're sol though it's never happened to me before.
/r/seduction24/05/11 08:16 PM
1

Who gives a fuck. You shouldn't be concerned with being this or not being that. Throw yourself into the fire, that's all you have to do, and you will figure it out for yourself.
/r/seduction20/05/11 02:13 AM
1

I'm pretty average looking. I don't have a car, a place to bring girls back to, a lot of free time, I don't dress nice, and basically don't have anything material to offer. As far as years, I was referring to my friend's sister who I eventually got with. This is just an alternative method. I'm not saying it's the best way or only way or the way you should do things, it's just a way. I don't use this for every girl I hook up with and I wouldn't suggest this to anyone as their main source for pick…
/r/seduction17/05/11 09:40 PM
4

http://i.imgur.com/jBdJ1.jpg couple small corrections, otherwise pretty accurate
/r/seduction09/05/11 04:42 PM
2

I completely and entirely agree with this stuff. I tried to actually convey a lot of this a few days ago, but it's much better explained in this video.
/r/seduction18/04/11 08:20 PM
1

Tell that to the judge!! lol. But seriously, from a legal standpoint you need clear sober consent. Any consumption of alcohol negates any consent and just because she is sober and didn't say "no" doesn't mean she wanted to. I still go until she says something and I still get with drunk bitches. I just wanted everybody to be aware of what could happen. I guess my point is asking isn't ignorant, it's actually pretty smart, but its still lame as shit.
/r/seduction04/04/11 08:24 PM
-7

da fuck is a hb9? bitches are bitches, no need to classify them.
/r/seduction14/03/11 03:27 PM
3

Maybe I should have worded my thoughts a little better. By "chasing pussy" I mean trying extremely hard and acting completely different than normal. I consistently "friendzone" myself because it makes it easier and I don't have to be fake. I don't believe in the friendzone as it is normally perceived, to me it's just a staging ground.
/r/seduction28/02/11 12:20 AM
-3

Dear reasonably attractive female, all 500,000,000,000 of you, I enjoy being a nice guy friend. I pride myself on not chasing pussy like the world ends tomorrow. I pride myself in not lying to you or manipulating you. Don't worry about my sexual needs, I have plenty of women who are crazy about me because they took the time to see all sides of me. If you want to get to know me then props to you, but it's no sweat off my back if you don't, I have plenty of options. I'm surprisingly good in bed an…
/r/seduction27/02/11 06:52 PM
3

It's kind of funny, any time I've actually put some effort into a girl, it's backfired. So now I just put myself into position to be around a lot of girls and have a good time. I basically friendzone myself so that girls can get to know me in an easy atmosphere and get to see who I really am. However, I don't believe in a friendzone, I believe any guy can get any girl and the "friendzone" is a great stepping stone. Once we're hanging out a lot I just wait for an opening and go in for the kill wh…
/r/seduction13/02/11 11:17 PM
11

I don't even hit on girls anymore, it's my new tactic of getting any girl I want.
/r/seduction12/02/11 07:22 PM
2

you should completely forget you sent the text and act completely normal the next time you see her. Say whats up and everything, but don't pursue unless she mentions it.
/r/seduction10/02/11 12:28 PM
12

Wait it out, pursue other interests in the meantime.
/r/seduction10/02/11 12:28 AM
1

yeah, I'm just trying to be funny. and no, I won't be using root
/r/seduction26/01/11 06:48 AM
1

That was a little sarcasm...
/r/seduction25/01/11 08:54 PM
5

Thanks guys. Im sure Ill be rootin the shit out of her after I tell her how much she smells like roo pouch.
/r/seduction25/01/11 08:10 PM
2

You can get the girl you want, you just have to remember what worked for the girls you don't really want. For instance, I met this chick over the summer who I really wanted and acted towards her like any other girl. I came home again for thanksgiving and we hung out some more and I kept up that image. When I came home for christmas the opportunity presented itself and I finally got her. Now she really likes me and I'll be seeing her next time I go home. Point is, I didn't actually try to get her…
/r/seduction08/01/11 05:57 PM
3

I swear I get about 10 times more women when I don't care about getting women. In fact, I get infinitely more women when I don't care because I don't think I've actually ever gotten a girl I actually tried to get.
/r/seduction07/01/11 01:38 AM
3

well played good sir
/r/seduction15/12/10 03:39 PM
3

Talk to every girl you see. You'll get rejected a lot, but you'll also find a decent amount of girls willing to have a nice conversation and once in awhile you can get a date out of one. If you don't have talent, play the numbers game.
/r/seduction10/11/10 05:04 AM
13

wat
/r/seduction10/11/10 05:03 AM
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