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mediatheulysses/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 06:34 PM
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No worries my friend.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 06:25 PM
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They are concurrent.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 06:06 PM
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Exactly.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 06:06 PM
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Like he would want anything to do with her.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/23 11:35 PM
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Please start a new Reddit space and let me know where it is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 06:52 PM
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Have you seen the average woman on OK Cupid. LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:17 PM
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A poll by OK Cupid staff a few years back found that women found 80% of men “below average” in attractiveness. Which is of course checks math statistically impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:48 PM
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Can’t answer your question, but I took my son to a bookstore a few months ago and I saw some interesting things. The workers had picked out books to put on display and merchandise in the children’s area and most of them were “girls can do anything” and “girls in STEM” and “girl power” types of books. I didn’t see one single book about how little Emma can have a career in public sanitation or construction. I understand that we’re in an era of correction of past mistakes, but how is hand picking c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 12:03 AM
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If you move away from your home state, it’s hard to make friends as a man, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:03 AM
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https://www.cbsnews.com/news/missouri-lawmakers-implement-a-stricter-dress-code-for-women-in-the-state-house/
/r/MensRights17/01/23 10:36 AM
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But in Italy you can’t get a job unless you’re Italian.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 07:35 AM
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A great example of their infiltration is that it wasn’t enough that they have r/mommit, an often toxic space, but they are growing in numbers over at r/daddit and I feel it’s only a matter of time before they’re policing it.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 08:34 AM
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Should’ve said you’re gay and that the thought of vagina literally makes you queasy.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 07:04 AM
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I keep interviewing for jobs. Despite my experience, good interviewing skills, and education, I continue to be turned down. I always check LinkedIn for who got the positions and 9 times out of 10 it’s a women and/or minority with a lot less experience than me. I keep telling myself that it’s not personal but it’s hard to not start to get bitter about it. Most of my fellow grad students from 10+ years ago are directors or senior VPs now, except for the white males. Recently my current work starte…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/22 07:13 PM
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I do not feel safe anymore sharing my thoughts on men’s issue on platforms that do not protect your privacy and/or are not somewhat anonymous. I have in the past and have lost some friends because of it. I will post things supporting women’s causes and get a hundred likes. I’ll post something about men and boys and it will be crickets. I worry about something taken out of context or someone I work with mistaking me for something I’m not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/22 07:05 PM
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I’ll also add that although I’m married and not on the market, my taste in women changed as I got older, not necessarily because I lowered my standards, just that my tastes actually did change. Once I got older I started finding older women more attractive. I also like women with a little extra weight on them. Like not 50 lbs overweight or anything, just a little bit thicker. Don’t know why but I’ll take a mom bod over a rail any day of the week. Not so when I was in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:07 PM
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It’s not universal, but I see tons of older women start settling with men who are making good money regardless of how the dude looks. Seems they tire of raising their kids on a server’s income. I almost never see it the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:02 PM
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Thanks for the take. What about the situation when she literally has higher earning potential than me? I’m maxed out in my job minus COLAs but her pay scale in her current job goes 20% higher in pay than mine.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 07:34 PM
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So by this response, assuming you know this to be true, does that mean that if we both chose to work part-time for lifestyle reasons, any required support would be based on our actual income as part-time employees and not our potential incomes? There would be no gender-based differences?
/r/MensRights17/03/22 07:05 PM
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Any woman in public relations. Had an ex who was literally a physical abuser and was still able to spin the narrative in her favor, even with my closest friends and family. Because she played a professional victim and sold it so well, to the point of faking emotions, it took video evidence on my part to be believed as the actual victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:36 PM
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I’m an educated man. What I found was that the odds were good but the goods were odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:03 AM
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Women have a much better chance of spreading a parents’ genes on. There isn’t a woman alive with functional womb who couldn’t have a child if she wanted to. Women spread ugly genes in our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:44 PM
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Great job with this. I have been trying to help my wife understand the issues that men face since we have a 3 year old son, but she is not having it. Complete denial that boys and men experience these societal difficulties at alarmingly higher rates than women. It’s incredibly depressing thinking about the world my son will face as an adult in 15 years.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/22 03:25 AM
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My wife is objectively much better looking than me. I guess I’m maybe a 6.5/10 on looks? Not really sure to be honest, but I don’t feel like it would be any higher than that. Wife to my eyes is at least two points higher than me. Wife says she liked my sense of humor, my height (6’ tall, though she usually dated taller), highly educated and have a decent career (upper middle class), sensitive/empathetic/do gooder, and I was ready to have a family. A lot of it was timing. She says I’m handsome bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:28 AM
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Loved reading this answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:20 PM
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I like this theory, interesting take. I can’t change your view, but on the last example, there are many men who support women who do not have good domestic skills. Have you seen people these days? They’re slobs. We care more about filling our houses with junk than we do living well. It‘s fine until the love goes away and the sex drops to 2 or 3 times per year. That’s when SHTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:51 AM
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When I was single, I really didn’t like meeting people at pubs. Women basically never go out alone, so them being with their friends could go well but it usually made things awkward. Like, maybe they’re actually just on a girl’s night and don’t want to be bothered. Maybe their friend is into you but the person you’re into doesn’t fancy you back. The noise also made it really hard to talk. My favorite place to meet women was always in my classes at college and grad school. After that, it’s just o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:45 AM
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I use this same argument. Women HATE when I use this argument.
/r/MensRights27/02/22 10:17 PM
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I have never even considered this. Thanks for the insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:46 AM
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I’ll start by saying I don’t think that this is a universal truth, not even close. But for those who are averse, my guess is that it might have something to do with the fact that men generally have way more to lose if she cheats. Past sexual activity doesn’t necessarily correlate to future outcomes, but the fear that it might is probably enough to deter some men. One of men’s greatest fears in relationships is getting married and raising a kid he thought was his but isn’t biologically his. Anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:11 PM
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No, it doesn’t. That is why I led with “some surveys” and not “it’s a statistical fact”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:45 PM
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This was not Tinder, it was OKCupid, and they have literally thousands of compatibility questions. You think men have worse pictures than women? They are equally terrible across the sexes. But even if true, at least they are often a reflection of reality. If anything, the female photos are just more disingenuous, hiding weight, crossing legs while standing to try and make their curves look better, only showing photos when wearing makeup at a wedding, only certain facial angles, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:43 PM
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I understand your views on the feminist pieces, and I expect that to a degree from many disaffected male advocates. I guess the overall point I was trying to make is that you could be a feminist and support men’s issues and you’d still be a nazi incel.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 09:28 AM
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Some women like tall men with crew cuts, cargo shorts, and conservative views while others are into leather, lace and water sports. While physical attractiveness is subjective to a point, it’s a lot more easily agreed upon than character. And if the subtext of your reply is that women care more about character than looks and men are the opposite, this doesn’t explain why the top 20 percent of men statistically are having a whole lot more sex than the bottom 80.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:19 AM
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Perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:06 PM
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This does not explain gendered differences. Men’s view of female attractiveness is a perfect bell curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:17 PM
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Some studies have shown that women find 80% of men below average in attractiveness….and then go on and date them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:42 PM
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Some surveys have shown that women find 80% of men “below average” in attractiveness. Men are much more generous in the other direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:42 AM
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No. I married my wife whom I met online (OKCupid). I’m glad I did, too, because it gave us a percent match that proved to be pretty accurate. We’re both moderate liberals and this weeded out the extremists. I live in the PNW and there are way too many whackos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:19 PM
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It’s not only that, it’s been shown that men receive worse grades for the same work. It’s a scandal and needs to be addressed, but it won’t be, because it’s impossible for boys and men to be victims according to the establishment. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this and I wish I had something positive to say, but I’m pretty jaded about it, too. I’m more scared of the world my 3 year old boy faces than my daughter.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 06:54 AM
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I only follow it, which is not an endorsement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/22 03:52 AM
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Hilarious when women stumble in here thinking they know shit about shit, like they aren’t up against years of direct experience with this sort of thing. But I’m glad you’re here. Pull up a chair and learn something. Might help change at least a perspective or two.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 07:01 AM
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Asia Argento. She was also Anthony Bordain’s girlfriend when he killed himself, if that tells you anything.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 10:40 AM
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I’m thinking about all the things my wife does and doesn’t do. Like the shit that I consistently need to make disappear because if it weren’t for me we’d live in a dump. Or taking care of anything related to the exterior of the house, our automobiles, our long-term finances, things that many (not all) women do not seem predisposed to do. If she has to empty a couple bathroom trash bins or close a cupboard door, so be it. She knows for the most part we both pull our weight in different ways. The …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/22 03:44 AM
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I had to look up what a “call out” is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/22 11:56 PM
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Hard to pick up here, but I meant it tongue-in-cheek to make fun of FDS, one of the places you’re most likely to run across the use of incel in a very derogatory way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/22 08:25 PM
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It actually sort of brings me joy to be called an incel because it just shows me that I’ve won the argument and there’s really no reason to engage with that person any further. I don’t seek out these kinds of toxic people, but they just tend to find you when you’re sharing an honest interest in men’s issues. It’s socially unacceptable to care about men, of course. I’ve had dozens of sexual partners and now I’m happily married to a beautiful, high-value woman and we’re raising a family. To be cal…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/22 06:37 PM
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People make mistakes all the time, myself included. Not exactly sure what I would be copping out from.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/21 12:21 AM
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As mentioned previously, I’m against anything that isn’t a personal choice and didn’t mean to have that connotation. Just not editing the post.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 10:18 PM
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Na, i’m against anything that isn’t personal choice and didn’t mean to have that connotation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 10:17 PM
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Good to know. Hopefully we can get it 100% reversible in the future.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 08:03 PM
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Any idea what that percentage is? This is news to me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 07:40 PM
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I understand your POV. Still, if given a choice between reversible vasectomy and conscription, I’d prefer the former every time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 07:30 PM
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Came here to say this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/21 09:02 PM
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I never do this. I don’t think most men do, either, they just limit who they show it to.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/21 07:37 PM
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One of the MANY positives that will come if all officers are required to wear body cams.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/21 05:46 PM
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I hadn’t until you mentioned it. Thank you, I really appreciate it!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/21 01:23 AM
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Anyone else getting so tired of being dragged just for being a dude that it feels like the only spaces left to go are to the right? I feel so exhausted and alienated by my left-wing circles for just being alive. It’s almost like a lesser of two evils at this point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/21 06:33 PM
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My wife is a feminist but is always telling me about all these things that need to be finished around the house despite my already full plate. I sometimes tell her to “get on it”. She never does.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/21 04:33 AM
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I have been letting things go to hell more TBH. I just don’t physically have it in me anymore to keep up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/21 03:33 PM
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That sounds really rough. Can she not get on your health insurance? How was it that she had the baby without health insurance? Are you in the US? I thought for sure everyone was entitled to COBRA for a year or two after separating from employment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/21 03:13 AM
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She does not have ADHD.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/21 03:11 AM
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She’s my wife and we live together so I don’t really have the option to kick her out :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/21 10:13 PM
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Thanks for the tips, and for the validation. I believe I need to figure out new ways to talk about this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/21 05:02 PM
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I have. Her response is usually “well that’s just life with a toddler” and literally does not care about how the house looks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/21 04:44 PM
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Two things came to mind as I read this: An OK Cupid study found that the majority of women find 80% of men as below average in attractiveness. That means an 8 out of 10 male is worse-looking than medium. But then they go ahead and date them anyway. If they thought they could do better, and if their stock was so high, why would they do that? Because society overwhelmingly says a man’s value isn’t in his attractiveness, it’s in what he can provide. By this metric, sex isn’t the goal (duh), but ins…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 09:15 AM
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They seriously take issue with calling yourself egalitarian over feminist. You are automatically a right-wing misogynist in their eyes if you call yourself egalitarian. But that isn’t really surprising now, is it. Having a safe space for men to discuss our own issues without having to police our own thoughts or be moderated by feminists is exactly what they don’t want.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 06:29 AM
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Thank you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 04:00 AM
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Thanks
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 03:59 AM
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Finding this sub and reading this entire conversation has helped me feel so much less alone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 03:49 AM
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Hallelujah.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 03:42 AM
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I’m having trouble trying to deduce what you mean by larper. Not sarcastically or critically, just purely moronic misunderstanding.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 03:35 AM
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About 10 percent of all FGM involves clitoral removal. But even the symbolic nick of a clitoral hood is illegal in all states while cutting off an infant boy’s entire foreskin can literally be done by anyone anywhere (unregulated) and that’s just perfectly fine! Never mind the completely lack of consent. Female nick: sexual assault and pedophilia. Lopping off what later becomes an index card worth of skin, carry on.
/r/MensRights01/09/21 07:32 AM
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This exactly. It’s like these folks have no reading comprehension.
/r/MensRights28/08/21 07:57 PM
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Those scholarships went to women, who outnumber men in college more and more every year. I heard on NPR’s the Takeaway the other day that there are about 100 scholarships in total for men nationwide.
/r/MensRights11/08/21 04:55 AM
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The UN person not getting IMD
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/20 07:05 PM
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r/woosh edit:(woosh intended for the UN, not the OP)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/20 05:15 PM
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This post is the exact reason a sub like this even needs to exist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/20 01:22 AM
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This woman is ugly inside and out.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/10/20 01:22 PM
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Perfect opportunity for bear spray
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/20 06:04 AM
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Assault
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/20 11:12 PM
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Right on. My deadbeat father left when I was 2 and died when he was 44 because he lived an “alpha” life. My step dad has many “beta” characteristics but he raised me from 10 onward and taught me hard work. He retired last year when he was 55 and is a millionaire. We have a great relationship and we enjoy spending time together. Not much for that man I wouldn’t do. I’d probably wipe his ass if he were too old to do it himself. Not much beta about that.
/r/MGTOW24/01/20 04:05 PM
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I thought the same thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/20 04:21 PM
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This is exactly what Dolly Parton has done her entire career...owned it.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/19 10:19 PM
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I went to that twitter user and it doesn’t exist. Banned?
/r/MensRights27/09/17 04:56 AM
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