theunamerican Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Debunking the Black Pill		theunamerican	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/22 04:56 AM
1	Being Anti Red Pill Does Not Equal Feminism		theunamerican	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/23 12:03 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Dating today is difficult because we prioritize Physical/Sexual Attraction (rightfully so) And yet most men in the manosphere always shy away from outright calling for the reinstating of the old patriarchy because they don't want to get called insecure by thots lmao. Don't support capitalism and then cry about results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 06:17 AM
1	Why Don't Passport Bro's ever ask Guy's living in PPB Paradise for advice? " But I’ll never remove myself from my friends family and home country. " Dude it's called a phone, facetime and passport LOL. Just say that you don't think it's worth travelling abroad to find a gf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 06:48 AM
1	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? No why would it make you misogynist? These women are offering a service and you’re buying it. Both parties are happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 05:39 PM
1	Women have total control of the dating market There’s a temporary solution for that. It’s called the brothel. Just because you don’t have a gf doesn’t mean you’re not entitled to sexual release.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 03:59 AM
–	Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits. Typical incel with no original come back. Take it from a someone who understands stats much better than I. It’s the video I linked you which discusses this study. It’s somewhat black pilling, but not to the degree you think it is. So again, all this study proves is that men need to pass the minimum looks threshold. Says nothing how good looking he has to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 08:31 AM
–	Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits. No. You learn how to read statistics. Yes—people did choose the most attractive but the variable is not very high, which means that you don’t necessarily need to be a chad to pass the looks threshold. In other words, incels are running out of excuses for their predicament.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 05:25 AM
1	Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits. I feel like most people who cite this study don't actually read it in its entirety. All this proves is that women--like men--have a minimal looks threshold and honestly the threshold doesn't seem to be that high. Alex from Datepsych goes over it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0ciCVQRLXc&t=1044s	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 09:20 PM
1	Q4W: Based on these videos of nightlife in Thailand, could you honestly blame a man for wanting to experience it? An escort will do almost anything if your price is right. These Thai women aren’t doing this shit for free lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/23 03:28 PM
27	Q4W: Based on these videos of nightlife in Thailand, could you honestly blame a man for wanting to experience it? Bruh you just described every strip club in the world. I live in Canada and guess what? I’ve also been harassed by some of these women for dances. Any man an go up to these women and just shoot the shit with them. You’re not a predator or loser as a man if you go to a syrup club once in a while. But I feel like you were trying to write an in depth essay about this “unique” experience at a Thai strip clubbing when it’s all strip clubs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 08:02 AM
1	Beauty standards for men are far more unrealistic when it comes down to dating I didn’t know that telling people they do indeed have options was cope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 07:13 PM
1	Beauty standards for men are far more unrealistic when it comes down to dating Dude I’m sorry but for the most part, this is just cope. 75% of men in the US are overweight by BMI standards, about 80-85% of men are below 6ft and the average income is about 50-60k/year and yet the vast vast majority of straight males have sexual experience by the time they reach 30. And the average man does have options—it’s called a passport. It’s definitely more expensive for the average man to have the same amount of options as a Chad or any girl, but it’s possible. As I’ve always said in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 02:34 AM
9	Western Women hate it when men have sexual access as easy as they do CMV They’re not going after children ffs. This is not predatory behaviour and these women know exactly why these passport bros go over there. Last time I checked, most people in these countries have access to the internet. There are many female pro passport bro YouTube channels, on tiktok and so forth. There are even channels mocking Western women because their men have to travel to their countries to get a feminine rife. Brutal. This whole thing about “preying on poor women” is just a shaming tacti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 08:18 AM
1	Self improvement is a joke not even Napoleon the greatest incel in history could get a loyal wife. That’s a good point. Makes me wonder if some of these incels who are “transmaxxing” aren’t just doing so to become part of the victim club.	/r/AllPillDebate	31/03/23 07:35 AM
1	Self improvement is a joke not even Napoleon the greatest incel in history could get a loyal wife. Not necessarily "woke" but more like feminism for men. Some of these incels are just like the typical modern woman who hates taking responsibilities for their failures which imo is the real reason women hate incels. It's not because women are scared of incels for their personal safety. Incels are a mirror image of these women.	/r/AllPillDebate	31/03/23 06:40 AM
1	Self improvement is a joke not even Napoleon the greatest incel in history could get a loyal wife. "It is possible to be in a relationship for a ugly guy, but its definitely harder for them compared to good looking people." Dude most people don't deny this basic fact. Being against the black pill doesn't equal denying the fact that attractive people generally have an easier time with the opposite sex. My beef is with self described incels who use this fact as an excuse to not do anything to improve their situations. If you think your inceldom is due to your unattractiveness, there are many th…	/r/AllPillDebate	31/03/23 06:38 AM
0	Self improvement is a joke not even Napoleon the greatest incel in history could get a loyal wife. Don't let the facts get in the way of his victimhood.	/r/AllPillDebate	28/03/23 04:32 AM
1	Nail in coffin for lookism According to bp, the looksmatched females should be chasing after chads as well and the only reason she's with her looksmatch is because Chad rejected her so she's settling. The fact is that most people end up with someone in their "league", per se in terms of looks, status, income bracket and so forth.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/03/23 05:45 AM
1	Nail in coffin for lookism Thus debunking the bp.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/03/23 03:01 AM
1	Nail in coffin for lookism As per my previous post, black pillers only started saying that women didn't only go after chads when the evidence against the theory was too overwhelming to ignore. Then you changed " ah well plenty of average joes get GFs but it's just easier for chads" which is what everyone's been saying since the beginning of time lmao.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/03/23 02:56 AM
-1	Whats the next best thing if youre not an alpha physically? Because that's what they have to tell themselves to justify their NEET lifestyle. Blaming the "modern woman" is much easier than getting in decent shape, going to a trade school and subsequently a good paying job. If they think they're so horrendously ugly by Western standards, they can always save a ton of money and become a passport bro. There are solutions but it takes a lot of time, effort and sacrifices.	/r/AllPillDebate	23/03/23 03:42 AM
1	Nail in coffin for lookism Yes I do. And it’s up to you guys to prove that non chads with girlfriends are mostly betabuxxers.	/r/AllPillDebate	19/03/23 12:32 AM
0	Nail in coffin for lookism You see what you want to see. Less than fuckin 10% of males are 6’5+. Tons of average looking young dudes with GFs. Chads themselves are a rarity.	/r/AllPillDebate	18/03/23 02:02 AM
2	Nail in coffin for lookism Nope—the black pill only started saying those things once the evidence against lookism became too overwhelming. They went from: “Bro if you don’t have a squared jawline and are not 6ft + it’s over for you”. They used to say that most ugly girls would rather be single than dating their looksmatch. Then they changed to: “Ah well it’s only only if you’re below 4/10 and even then most of these guys will get a looksmatched gf” LOL For example, go search Wheat Waffles earlier videos. It’s essentially …	/r/AllPillDebate	17/03/23 05:16 PM
-1	Nail in coffin for lookism You see that the minute you leave your house. It’s just that you probably think any guy with a gf automatically makes him a chad.	/r/AllPillDebate	17/03/23 05:09 PM
1	Just want to remind you that normies are NOT doing "better" than inkwells. "Most sought out for what....a relationship, OR just to get dicked down and then leave? LMAO. No, chads FUCK average looking women in hookups/ONS, and if they want a relationship with a woman, they go for their equally attractive counterparts AKA stacy, not average beckies. " Dude a virgin chick--especially if she comes from a very religious background--won't just give up her virginity with a man she doesn't plan on being in a relationship with. The vast majority of sex happens in the context of…	/r/AllPillDebate	17/03/23 03:34 AM
3	Just want to remind you that normies are NOT doing "better" than inkwells. Now you’re just backpedaling. You complained that it’s not worth sweating your ass off for someone who’s not as attractive once they reach 30. The implication is that a man should only work if they a good looking virgin wife. There’s nothing wrong with wanting this but you also have to be realistic. A young virgin woman—even the average looking ones—is sought by the most amount of men. They have unlimited options—from doctors, athletes and so forth. This is your competition if you want a virgin …	/r/AllPillDebate	16/03/23 11:17 PM
1	Just want to remind you that normies are NOT doing "better" than inkwells. Ok well let’s turn the question around—why do YOU deserve to be with a hot young virgin when you have a low smv yourself according to BP ideology? Why should she sacrifice the prime years of her life for a non high value man (by black pill standards)? If she’s hot in her 20s, chances are she’ll still be hot well into her 30s. You’re just assuming that the person she had sex with before you is/was a chad which is statistically unlikely given how few actual chads there are out there. You work hard…	/r/AllPillDebate	16/03/23 10:05 PM
6	Women admit to hypergamy and advocate culling incels: Lool I’m willing to bet my house none of these women have ever had a loving father figure or even a positive male role model. They’re bitter cat ladies.	/r/AllPillDebate	12/03/23 10:59 PM
3	muh looks Some people are born into wealth while most of us have to work 50+ hours and save up for a retirement. I view dating the same way—chads are genetically gifted while the rest of us have to work to make ourselves attractive. That’s just life man. No use complaining about it.	/r/AllPillDebate	06/03/23 03:20 AM
1	Chadfishing is the strongest argument for the blackpill. They can swipe right on 100 men and get like 80 matches, but only 1 will become her bf. That’s what I’m trying to say. So because of the ratio no matter what the standard she uses, only 20 of the guys will find a gf.	/r/AllPillDebate	05/03/23 09:37 PM
1	Chadfishing is the strongest argument for the blackpill. I’m strictly talking about dating apps, not real life. And most people on tinder are looking for relationships, not hookups. Dating apps are superficial so obviously the chads will get the chicks.	/r/AllPillDebate	04/03/23 09:11 PM
-4	Chadfishing is the strongest argument for the blackpill. Most dating apps are like 75-80% men. So even if women only went after personalities, you would still have 80% going home empty handed.	/r/AllPillDebate	04/03/23 06:33 AM
1	60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills" The reason we're in this state of affairs is the result of the Christian capitalist West. Western christianity teaches that because we all have an immortal soul, we are therefore all equal in the eyes of God. This has resulted in the civil rights movement for women and the eventual disenfranchisement of men. Men only have themselves to blame. Do you honestly think the technocrats who created the dating apps did not know that only the top tier guys would have access to the ladies? Women controlli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 05:39 AM
-1	No one talks about the loneliness men go through. It depends on what you want, I guess. Most men in general would not mind having all these options and happily have sex with them. They will not feel used or objectified.	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/23 10:15 PM
-1	No one talks about the loneliness men go through. This is one of the best responses here yet. Most incels that I know don’t blame the female sex but the overall capitalist technocratic structure that’s forcing us further and further into a solitary existence. There’s a reason this is affecting men more so than women and it’s because as you said—women need to vet their options, which results in fewer and fewer men having access to sex. There was a PEW poll that just came out which showed that 60% of men b/w 18-30 are single in contrast to 30% in…	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/23 05:44 PM
7	im a girl and i kind of got over learning about it but what i cant really get over is that "every guy wants every girl and wont stick with one girl since she ages and guys want a young girl who he can impregnate" This is a RP cope. I can’t even imagine a 25 yo woman at the prime of her life dying to go for a 45 yo guy LOL. I still think physical attraction is the most important factor in relationship initiation but afterwards everything equals out.	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/23 04:00 PM
-4	No one talks about the loneliness men go through. Whether they’re “somewhat attractive” is subjective but the point is that at least there’s a body positivity movement for women and women of different shapes and sizes are being represented in mainstream culture. According to my own life experience and their admission, many women are celibate BY CHOICE. Very important to put emphasis on that. If a woman is an incel, it’s because of her own standards irregardless of her looks. I’m willing to bet this woman would not even think about dating your t…	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/23 03:50 PM
-8	No one talks about the loneliness men go through. So a small handful of incels commit heinous crimes and a whole group of people get labeled as terrorists. Just imagine applying this logic to any other group of people. There’s plenty of room in society for conventionally unattractive women. Have you looked at magazine covers recently? They have women of different shapes and sizes. Not necessarily saying it’s a bad thing but why isn’t body positivity applied to men as well? We also come in all shapes and sizes. Look the bottom line is this: both…	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/23 07:47 AM
-7	No one talks about the loneliness men go through. Those are valid concerns but I'm willing to bet many of these women would still be crying themselves to sleep if absolutely no one cared for them at all and they would most definitely be petrified if the DHS classified them as a terror threat https://www.dps.texas.gov/sites/default/files/documents/director_staff/media_and_communications/2020/txterrorthreatassessment.pdf Men have a much higher sex drive than women that's why you never hear attractive guys complaining that women only care about th…	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/23 06:28 AM
1	No one talks about the loneliness men go through. "At least an unwanted human is assumed to have valid feelings and real pain" On what planet do you live on? Unwanted people are...unwanted. If people cared unwanted people they wouldn't be unwanted in the first place. The DHS literally classified incels as a terrorist group https://www.hstoday.us/featured/with-focus-on-domestic-extremism-be-vigilant-for-escalating-incel-threat/ Once the national security state classified lonely females as terrorists, then we'll talk. "but dismissing someone else…	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/23 05:29 AM
-23	No one talks about the loneliness men go through. The point is that at least there’s someone who wants you even if it’s just for sex. People wanting to have sex with you is still better than not being wanted at all for anything. The concept of a “femcell” is such a fuckin joke. There are married women that consider themselves femcels LOL.	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/23 04:38 AM
-1	Approaching women? It’s not about “when”, but if. If you know you’re not genetically well endowed, cold approach can actually severely backfire. If you’re not good looking, focus on other things in life and then maybe that will attract some women.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/23 06:56 PM
-7	Approaching women? The only reason it worked is because she found you physically attractive, that’s it. Everything else is secondary. If she doesn’t find you appealing she will consider any nice gesture as desperate or worse, creepy. I’ve learned this the hard way.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/23 06:44 PM
1	i have escaped the redpill and black pill communities The reason these women don't have romantic feelings for you is because they're not sexually attracted to you, it's really that simple. Unfortunately the black pill is correct when they say that era of social media has artificially inflated the importance of looks in finding a romantic partner. I'm technically a 33 year old "mentalcell" as they say in incel forums as I have Asperger's, but I'm well aware that my autism is a large reason behind my inceldom. The best advise I can give you is to sim…	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/23 05:15 AM
-2	Hypothesis: men who fail at relationships with women must learn to think like women Simple--these girls are not physically attracted to you, that's why they're close friends to begin with. Women that have a genuine attraction to you don't want to be your close friend. I feel like most commenters are ignoring the elephant in the room to not seem like a lookist black piller.	/r/ExRedPill	27/01/23 06:28 AM
1	Being Anti Red Pill Does Not Equal Feminism "There's a difference between needing to be led by a man and needing a man just to survive. Don't confuse the two." I'm very well aware of the difference. I guess I should have elaborated more on my "dominance" comment. In my personal experience, I noticed that women take a liking when I decide what to do on dates, which restaurant/coffee/tea place to go to etc.. Women like assertiveness and like men who know what they want and make no excuses to achieve their goals. In my naivete, I once decide…	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/23 03:58 AM
0	Being Anti Red Pill Does Not Equal Feminism Modern day feminists will tell us that your gender is a social construct, when it isn't. Or whenever you point out that women tend to choose specific career paths feminists will claim that it's due to patriarchal norms as if these women have no independent agency. We could go on and on. I also hate the term "partner" in a romantic context. I think it reduces it to a business transaction. But in any case, I did say that women like men to be dominant "when the time calls for it"--which implies tha…	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/23 12:31 AM
1	The Red Pill is the way. We need healthy masculinity—a masculinity that does not frown upon men helping and being there for each other. It should not be considered unmanly to express platonic love for each other. I think this is key to improving men’s mental health. The idea of Adonis is only good if you do it for yourself and not to please some chick. A good woman should love you for your soul. I’m very much against the black pill and the manosphere in general, but the reality is that we all have areas we can improve o…	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/23 05:35 AM
2	Why is it that some guys get made fun of for not getting laid? (Brutal honesty is appreciated) I agree, but I would argue that the reason so many incels only value women for what they have between their legs is because they never had a chance to value them any other way. Most incels are officially diagnosed as being on the autistic spectrum or self diagnose themselves as such, have some physically undesirable traits (according to them) etc...and so they were never approached by women, or every women they approached rejected them. We also need to consider the possibility that many incels m…	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/23 06:39 AM
2	Female Sexual Responsiveness I was trying to understand the statement made by the author. This is what she wrote: "From this point of sexual neutrality — where a woman is receptive to being sexual but does not initiate sexual activity — the desire for intimacy prompts her to remain open to becoming sexually aroused" Does this mean that for many women, attraction can be "negotiated", so to speak?	/r/ExRedPill	02/01/23 05:13 AM
-3	Female Sexual Responsiveness I guess this explains why so many couples meet at places like work and other various social functions. The woman is not initially interested in the man, but she becomes attracted to this person as a result of seeing and communicating with him on a daily basis. Did I understand that correctly?	/r/ExRedPill	02/01/23 04:50 AM
1	Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process. Men have a higher libido than women, which is the reason I think it’s harder for men than it is for women to have a platonic relationship with the opposite sex. Not saying it’s impossible, but I noticed that it’s usually the guy that falls in love first. The man who is not romantically lucky wonders what he’s missing that everyone else has. I fell victim to the incel black pill ideology and I’m still in the detox process. I don’t think incels feel “entitled” to love and affection, but they feel …	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/22 05:00 AM
1	Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process. Ya I think there’s definitely an element of lookism on their part as well. What I’ve noticed generally is that people are very often looksmatched. It’s not like all the girls only go after the top tier chad lol. But to some extent looks do matter. This is why an incel’s looksmatch may approach an incel for a date but he will turn her down. All of us are shallow to an extent, unfortunately.	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/22 03:02 AM
1	Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process. I don’t agree with incels for the most part, but the reason it’s close to impossible to convince them is because they’re convinced their recessed jawlines, short height, nerdy interests, in some cases race—basically immutable characteristics—is the reason for their inceldom. They’ll cite papers that state physical attractiveness is a major predictor of a LTR and will misquote some evo psych paper. For these people, advising them to go to therapy is like telling them to go eff themselves because …	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/22 02:36 AM
6	Attacking a man because of the medicine he takes is literally a part of toxic masculinity. Every time Sneako brought up the anti depressants, Avallone should have brought up Sneako's cuckold fetish.	/r/ExRedPill	20/12/22 06:17 AM
1	I'm jealous of people who can get dates/be in a relationship. I know this is going to look like a cop out response but…so what? Why do you need female validation to the point of insanity? And I’m speaking as someone who’s in a similar situation as you. I’ve never been a ladies man. I just turned 33 last month and don’t have much sexual experience, suffer from Asperger and am awkward around women that I like, some times. I do feel bad about it sometimes, but maybe it’s just not meant to be for everyone. I’m lucky to come from a loving family, great friends,…	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/22 04:55 AM
3	How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them? Or maybe you perceive these individuals as attractive just because you see them with a girl. My friends and I are average looking and most of them have girlfriends as does most of the adult male population. Just something to think about.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 09:29 AM
6	How should one detox from the red/blackpill when their surroundings constantly confirm them? Dude I'm sorry but I'm going to have to call you out. I don't know where you live, but if you reside in any Western metropolis you will see that most couples are "looksmatched"--meaning that average looking guys are with average girls and so on. You simply don't see only good looking people with partners, you simply don't and people that say otherwise are simply seeing what they want to see.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/22 08:23 AM
4	Is internet lying ? Wheat waffles charges people to have their face ranked. I can't believe grown ass men actually pay a total stranger on the internet to rate their looks and are ecstatic when they get rated a 7 or above lol. I'd be hard pressed to think of something more pathetic. Also the black pill has given the cosmetic surgery industry a huge boom in business as more men are getting limb lengthening surgery and other surgeries to change their jawlines to look more like "Chad". Tldr, it's a huge grift.	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/22 05:21 AM
2	Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and women Of course not. You can’t have a relationship just based on things like money and looks because then it’s strictly transactional. So it makes sense that relationship satisfaction can’t be measured by looks or money. These things are a plus for sure, but they’re just part of the relationship mosaic.	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/22 08:39 PM
1	Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and women Ya well most men would like to marry supermodels but they don’t, now do they lol. People marry with whoever they can pair up with and that person will be most like them in terms of looks and character. And yes—if you’re already in a relationship and you’re a kind and caring bf, then it’s a major plus.	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/22 08:35 PM
8	Turns out that kindness and companionship is the biggest turn on for men and women Yeah...that's literally what the OP was saying lol. People will generally end up with partners that are similar to them in terms of looks, character, income bracket etc.. So an average woman will say she wants a handsome man, but will more often than not end up with an average looking man who is kind and compassionate because that's closer to her.	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/22 06:04 AM
1	I have an important question in this sub Dude what do you mean “bad justifications for dating”? The reason many people—including women—don’t think they should enter the military or LE is simply because women are physically weaker and smaller than men, on average. It had nothing to do with their perceived dating advantages. Ugly guys get into relationships too, what’s your point? It doesn’t take away from the fact that average and below average looking women don’t have the same advantages that a “Stacey” does. I wound just focus on impr…	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/22 06:24 PM
2	I have an important question in this sub Lol bruh it’s not a “justification”. It’s a simple biological fact. Women get pregnant and so they carry all the risks that come with it. As a result, she’s the one who chooses the mating partner and due to the risks involved, she needs to choose wisely. Even in the most patriarchal societies like in the Middle East, the woman is still the one who chooses her mating partner. The dynamics are different ofc but the concept is the same. And like I said, only the beautiful girls have the advantage y…	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/22 03:13 PM
3	I have an important question in this sub Men will always be the one that will have to approach women because of simple biological reasons. Men are the pursuers and women are the choosers--always has been this way and always will be. Being approached by a suitor doesn't really mean anything if you're not into that person. I'm an average looking man who is also losing weight and I also got approached a few times but I did not enter into a relationship. Why, you may ask? For the simple reason that I was not feeling it, despite never havin…	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/22 05:04 AM
5	I have an important question in this sub The reason you think women have it easier is because you’re looking at it from a male lens. Most men would dream of having a rotation of women so in our eyes, a bunch of dudes approaching women must mean that women are privileged in the dating market. There is definitely a bit of truth to this, but what you’re not considering are the type of men that approach women online and irl. I asked to see one of my female friend’s Hinge account and most of the messages are from fuckboys, dick pics, “show …	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/22 03:07 AM
3	Looks is all there is in dating? You’re missing the point. The gym body indicates that you have discipline, self control and determination. It’s not about the muscles themselves. It takes years of hard work and dedication to get an optimal body.	/r/ExRedPill	26/10/22 07:18 PM
2	Looks is all there is in dating? Looks do matter, just not to the extent that TRP or Black pill thinks it does. While you don’t have to be 6ft chad to get a gf, there’s no denying that being in shape and grooming increases your dating prospects.	/r/ExRedPill	26/10/22 01:46 PM
1	Why the redpill is poison \| This video details as to why the redpill is poison and harms men. It dissects the harm that can be done by it. It also discusses solutions The only way to combat bad ideas are with good ones. Banning Tate will just be viewed as vindication of the Red Pill.	/r/ExRedPill	17/10/22 04:20 AM
-3	Why the redpill is poison \| This video details as to why the redpill is poison and harms men. It dissects the harm that can be done by it. It also discusses solutions I disagree. While Tate is extremely toxic for males, such is the cost of living in a free society—that people should be free to espouse heinous opinions so long as you don’t advocate for violence. Banning people we believe to be toxic is a slippery slope to Big Brother type censorship.	/r/ExRedPill	15/10/22 08:24 AM
2	What is worse: Redpill or Blackpill ? I made a post debunking the main tenet of the black pill ideology--that is that 80% of women are only sexually active with 20% of the top men. A simple genetic survey completely debunks this theory. If this were indeed the case, you would expect to see 6 ft + plus chads/tyones everywhere, but you don't (unless you live in Latvia or the Netherlands or something). The vast majority of the men and women are average and people generally date within their own mating value so hypergamy doesn't exist i…	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/22 06:55 AM
1	Debunking the Black Pill Both.	/r/ExRedPill	13/09/22 02:22 AM
1	Debunking the Black Pill Lol you guys are now backpedaling. First it was “it’s over for normies bro” and now it’s “it’s over for sub5s” LOL. Wait till you read that people generally date within their own mating value…	/r/ExRedPill	12/09/22 08:33 PM
3	Men, what is one thing you wish you could freely share with your other male friends about your mental health without judgement? Same here. I’ve had food addiction forever and it’s the hardest form of addiction to overcome because not only do you need it to survive, but it’s literally everywhere the minute you leave your house. My weight has yoyoed over the years. Having said that, I still manage to throw in some exercise at least 5 times a week.	/r/ExRedPill	03/09/22 01:43 PM
28	To those who have parted ways with Red Pill, what was the most eye-opening thing that helped you see through the mirage? For me the main reasons were two fold: So many of these Red Pillers like Rollo, Rian Stone and Donovan Sharpe have ugly ass wives by Red Pill standards and Sharpe's wife is also a single mom, which we all know is a big nono in the RP community. If their theories worked, these RP dudes should be slaying models left and right and have a rotation, but instead they just like to mentally masturbate on these theories. I remember someone asking Rollo what happens when someone takes the RP and he said "…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/22 03:49 AM
3	What are your thoughts on Gerbert Johnson? "Denying science" is the biggest cope ever. Not once did I deny that women like certain physical features in a man. Please look at my other comments and posts. All I said is that these preferences don't translate to dating outcomes in the real world and that looks matter in the context of everything else. If women only dated the tallest, strongest men then that's that we would see when you go out in the real world, but it's not. I would not call flat earthers morons if they presented reasonable …	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/22 04:25 AM
1	Debunking the Black Pill The the data gathered is for the general population, which I'm assuming includes all races and ethnicities. People globally are getting shorter: "According to a new study from Imperial College in London, the average human is getting shorter. The report looked at 1,472 studies from more than 200 countries that included the measured heights of 18.6 million people between 1896 and 1996. Overall, average human height seems to have peaked about 30 to 40 years ago" https://www.globalcitizen.org/en/con…	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/22 07:10 AM
1	Debunking the Black Pill Most people--including average 5/10--still end up getting married or at least having a number of sexual relations in their lifetimes. Therefore, even the 66/33 rule is nonsense. The vast majority of incels are poor, are on the autism spectrum or have some type of body dysmorphia. Also remember that our current generation is much less promiscuous than Gen X or boomers. So clearly all these thots we see on Tiktok are a tiny minority of women. "the easiest rebuttal here is before the 20th century W…	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/22 05:56 AM
2	What are your thoughts on Gerbert Johnson? The problem with channel like his are the same as all the other black pill channels. They cite studies that say women like men of a particular height, jawline, fat/muscle ratio and so forth. But yet none of these channels address that it's not what we actually see when you get off the internet. That's not to say that women aren't actually physically attracted to these characteristics, but that's like saying that men are attracted to women with large breasts, wide hips, big ass and etc.. However,…	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/22 04:59 AM
1	Do I have to be a leader/ dominant in sex and the relationship Unfortunately yes dude. Most woman do want a “dominant” man as a partner. And the reason I put in quotations is to differentiate it from the way TRP uses it. What I’m referring to is the fact that women appreciate a man who can make decisions and is confident in himself. It doesn’t mean they want a man to control their every movement. Remember that NAWALT is the rule and is so I’m sure there is a niche market of women who like to dominate. From what I’ve witnessed though, these types of women ar…	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/22 07:46 AM
1	Debunking the Black Pill Generally speaking, the red pill teaches that women are cold, calculating hypergamous people and so men have to “ascend”—that is becoming muscular, gets lots of money, have frame and an all around douchebag. The black pill says that unless you’re at least 5’9 and above or look like a chad it’s over for you and “self improvement” is a big cope. This idea is what I aimed to debunk in my post. The truth is that women only cheat when the relationship itself starts to deteriorate. They’re not on the …	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/22 04:18 PM
-4	RedPillar's X girlfriend. Hi there. I would also be down. You can send me a private message and we can arrange something.	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/22 12:42 AM
2	Debunking the Black Pill There are always extremes and exceptions to every rule. I don’t think people in this subreddit are saying women are lining up to have sex with Quasimodo lol. But I think even people in this category would be able to find someone if they humbled themselves. I’ve seen dwarfes date each other, for instance. That’s another problem with our modern society—everyone thinks we deserve the best. We always make fun of average women for complaining about getting dumped by chad, but I think this applies to …	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/22 02:01 PM