As you can see from my posts, I am very much against lookism and don't believe that women select partners solely based on looks. I think that the black pill ideology is--for the most part--a coping strategy for people who are not romantically lucky. It gives people an excuse to not do anything to improve things about themselves that can be improved. However, on the flip side, there are extreme situations that we cannot deny. For example, we cannot deny that life as a man is much harder if you're like 5'2 AND below average in looks. It is also socially acceptable to mock short people. When tall guys have nice cars, it shows confidence but when you're short, it means you're compensating. Complete hypocrisy. I firmly believe that if you're the type of man that's shy, introverted, awkward and what not, getting in good shape and hitting the gym will automatically make you more visible to women.

The only reason I do not support feminism is because it denies basic biology--which is that men and women are biologically different in most aspects. There is a reason that despite having the same legal rights in the Western world, men and women tend to choose different career paths. We look for different things in partners and have different mating strategies. Many women are upfront about wanting confident man and being able to lead a relationship. This doesn't mean that the woman is just there to be seen and not heard, but that a man is able to take the lead when the time calls for it. I've seen all these things play out in every successful relationships that I've seen in my life. Whenever I had a gf or even dating someone, I felt proud to be able to protect her and make her fell safe around me.

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So in conclusion, rejecting red/black pill toxicity does not mean rejecting basic realities that we've known since the beginning of time.