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Dude, you said you want to do martial arts in your "what would you do without wife/kids" question. DO IT! Join a martial arts club. There's a guy in my club that has a 3 year old and 1 year old twins. You got no excuse, you are the only person standing in your way.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 01:51 PM
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If you don't want kids, don't get married. Unless this girl's making a high six figure salary. But say you discard all the advice and still want to get hitched. I would say about the first 1 to 3 years she is going to try to beat you down into a submissive beta state. You need to resist this beat down, and get her to submit to you. It will take time, and likely something called a main-event. But it all depends on how tuff you are. Also, never miss a day at the gym, never be more than 8 or 9lbs o…
/r/askMRP04/05/18 01:08 PM
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Shit downstairs, what the hell's your problem. Are you being attractive or unattractive? Let me venture a wild guess here...Yer wife does not want to smell your disgusting shit when she is trying to brush her teeth. You know that there are like shit particles flying through the air in that bathroom after you drop the bomb right? She is brushing her teeth and those shit particles are landing on her toothbrush and in her mouth. And she gets it ripe, fresh out of your ass. Can you imagine her waiti…
/r/askMRP23/03/18 01:18 PM
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You: I have invited you several times, you are full of shit.
/r/askMRP14/02/18 06:27 PM
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Yeah, I second this, I would steal the phone and hide it somewhere she would never find it (and maybe put a loaded mouse trap in its place!) Closely monitor her behavior. She will most likely panic. Look for a sudden cleaning frenzy, a sudden spike in internet usage or a welt across her knuckles. I don't know if there is any way for her to delete the messages without the phone in her possession, but she will most likely try to figure out if she can. Plus, you can attempt to crack the passcode wh…
/r/askMRP07/02/18 02:43 PM
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You seriously have to ask this? It takes about 8 seconds to say, "10 bucks says this guys gonna win" "All right, yer on, 10 bucks." Its called action, and it just fuels the shit talking and gloating. One is a season long time investment, the other all happens in one night, and doesn't even impede the process of the PPV. Don't get me started on Fantasy Football unless you are looking for a sizable rant. Even the name sounds gay as hell. Fantasy. What self respecting man would play Fantasy Footbal…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 04:38 PM
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You makes some good points, but some are equating all watching sports with loser behavior. Whereas I feel following sports is a male communal experience, and provides a good opportunity to have a Male Space. For as much as ESPN tries to force female commentators, reporters and anchors down our throats, women will never follow sports to the degree that men do. This makes it a common ground between men who otherwise don't know each other. It is also an easy way to hone your trash talking skills. F…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 03:29 PM
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I am in Taekwondo, but it is kind of a blend MMA school based off of Taekwondo. I do that on Mondays and Wednesdays nights and I lift on Thursday and/or Friday and Saturday. You can treat your martial arts as a cardio day, but be advised that you will most likely be doing tons and tons of burpies, up-downs, push ups and sit ups in addition to the large amounts of kicks, punches and throws. So it will alter your lifting schedule for your chest/ab day. Your legs will be screwed for a while until y…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 06:27 PM
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If she is asking for the "tell me you miss me..." Ignore. Don't put yourself in a position where she can ask you to feel a certain way. That makes you look weak and put her in the position of power. Instead Actually spend some more time with her. However, do not make a big show of it or imply in any way shape or form that you are responding to her test. You admit to being extremely busy. Well try being a bit less busy and get some quality time in with the missus. Think of it this way. Say its a …
/r/askMRP17/11/17 01:47 PM
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I do a couple of things that help. First, if I am anywhere without wife, and see an attractive woman, I approach and start a conversation with her. Nothing sexual or anything, maybe just a bit flirty. I try to steer the conversation to where it is her doing all of the talking, and me just chiming in occasionally. Second, while at the gym, I always try to work out in front of the hottest girl there, but just for a short period of time. Like during a set of curls, I will stand in front of a hottie…
/r/askMRP19/10/17 08:07 PM
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Bingo. Yeah if she's having work lunch with a peer that's one thing. But when you got fishy text messaging, and you add in not giving up the goods to you, it is starting to look bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 02:25 PM
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"Last fuck was in August..." You realize its October, right? This does not bode well for you. You missed a cycle. I was giving you/her the benefit of the doubt until I read this.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 12:46 PM
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Just to clarify. If there is a sleep spectrum, it probably looks something like this. On one side you have kitty cats, who need to sleep all of the time, 23 hours a day, and on the other side you have the Navy Seals. The Navy Seals never sleep. So it looks like: Kittens--------------------------------Navy Seals Look OP, I am not trying to bust your balls, I am trying to give legit advice here. When you complain about not getting enough Z's, you look like a kitten, when you meet the challenge hea…
/r/askMRP02/10/17 02:55 PM
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Yup that's what I said! Real men don't sleep.
/r/askMRP02/10/17 02:09 PM
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First of all, your protocol is all wrong: You get her up a bit earlier than she anticipated, get your mac on and bang the crap out of her, then you help get the kids ready. Second, complaining about lack of sleep is a very feminine thing to do, wouldn't you say? That's your excuse for not wanting to help? You are sleepy? "I'm so sleepy?" Yikes. Lack of sleep should not effect you because you are a man and are not discouraged or impeded by trivial difficulties. You are prepared to handle anything…
/r/askMRP02/10/17 02:01 PM
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So I was at REI this spring, had to buy some new bike tires, and this family walks in. Dad, mom and son with the son's bike. They walk up to the bike repair station, which was located right next to the tire rack, so I overheard everything said. Mom hands bike repair man the bike and says "Junior's bike has a flat tire, we were wondering if you could change it?" Mom is doing all of the talking, as dad stands meekly behind her. Bicycle repair man, "Oh geeze, we are very busy, it will be at least a…
/r/askMRP26/09/17 03:24 PM
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Pro Tip: The more your wife hates your facial hair, the better it looks. I would make a counter proposal: If she sucks you off and fucks you, two nuts a day, every day, for 60 straight days, then you will shave the beard. I currently am sporting a "Hulk Hogan" or horseshoe mustache. Wifey was all "shave that off, its so horrible!" when I first cut it out of my beard. However, the results were staggering. I instantly noticed that with the beard, I would have to approach women. With the Hulk Hogan…
/r/askMRP22/09/17 12:34 PM
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Yes please do this. Don't be that guy who knows nothing about lifting, misusing the equipment and taking up all the dumbells. All us meatheads will laugh at you behind your back. A personal trainer will show you the ropes. Use one for at least a few months until you are comfortable. There is a gym etiquette. Learn it. Live by it.
/r/askMRP21/09/17 05:18 PM
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Has anyone tried this one? Agree and amplify by replying directly to the orbiter's comments? Wife post a pic of herself post workout in skimpy workout gear. Comments: Beta Orbiter: Wow! Great work out! :) :P :)) (lame smiley face) -->You: I know! I can't wait to get her home and out of those sweaty clothes! We's gunna have some fun tonight!!! Work that sweat! C'mon girl!
/r/askMRP20/09/17 12:43 PM
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Part A: Complement her body often. Kino at all times. Fuck her hard and often. Always be saying how amazing she was in bed. Make her stripper dance for you. This tells your wife that you like her body and it turns you on. Part B: Take a bunch of pictures of her naked. This breaks the ice. You will already have a bunch of titty pics of her on your phone, what's a few more going to matter? Part C: Run good text game. Use your phone as a tool of seduction. Once you establish a good push/pull text g…
/r/askMRP11/09/17 01:23 PM
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Take the money you were going to spend on your wife's bike and the trailer and buy yourself a Really nice bike. The jump in quality from a $400 bike to a $900 bike is tremendous. Also, with winter coming, all your local bike shops are trying to clear out inventory. Tips from a cyclist and bicycle commuter.
/r/askMRP11/09/17 12:34 PM
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Ignore. She wants to get you to immediately say "I miss you too." This is the answer she is expecting. Don't do this, never be predictable in text game. Rarely let her lead the conversation, unless you like saying "I miss you, and I love you" back and forth endlessly and forever. When you get the "I miss you", either she truly misses you, like she is on a work trip or something, or she just wants to get you to say "I miss you too." For either case, ignore for at least an hour. After your radio s…
/r/askMRP08/09/17 01:47 PM
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So talking to male buddies -> cheating accusations. Trying to explain your innocence -> bitch mode. Trying to be playful -> bitch mode. Trying to be sexual -> bitch mode. Not to mention, spying on your private conversations. This one sounds like a keeper!
/r/askMRP07/09/17 01:48 PM
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"I never say to any of the guys we hang out with "I think you have a great cock?"" "Really? I say that all the time! Take George, he has such a beautiful cock!" Yeah its a blunder. I would see if she wants to play along first and try to work some aggressive sex out of the deal, but if she gets crabby and nasty, just shut up. Whatever you do, don't apologize. Men check out tits. Better to be a pig than a pussy.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 01:00 PM
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When I first had kids, I was of the opinion: Well, I have poor parenting skills, she has good parenting skills, perhaps she should run the parenting deal. Quickly it devolved into a case of the inmates running the asylum. I remember saying to my wife once "If the boy asked you to smoke some cigarettes, I bet you would buy him a pack and light it for him." I leveled up my parenting skills, we had a change in management and everybody is tons, TONS happier. Wife is an active parent, but loves the f…
/r/askMRP31/08/17 12:34 PM
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Usually when people whine and complain about others they are trying to deflect or mask the fact that they don't know what they are doing. So they try to knock a person down to their level. In meetings, people get talked over all the time, especially if they have dumb ideas. Opinions are often disregarded, especially when they are dumb. That's just how the game works. If you have that meeting, I would insist that your boss be present and I would let her talk. Ask her to explain everything, all of…
/r/askMRP29/08/17 12:44 PM
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The second paragraph is very strong advice.
/r/askMRP25/08/17 02:48 PM
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Way I see it, your wife and your mother in law did something to endanger the well being of your child. Your wife appears to be a child, and has given all the power of your family to her mother. Your MIL appears only out for her best interests. She wants to see the child, she comes over and doesn't give a fuck what you say or if your family is struggling with the care of the newborn. She does what she wants to do. The ride home only displays safety of her grandchild comes second to her personal c…
/r/askMRP25/08/17 01:30 PM
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The feeling that you have to constantly be providing more is called conditioning. Fight through it and be the man nature intended you to be. So she did something to set off your Spidey Senses. My wife once said something to me about another guy and my Spidey Senses went haywire. I went Double-O 7 for the next month or so trying to find the smoking gun. The more I looked and the deeper I dug the more paranoid I became. Turns out it was a big fat waste of time and worry. So you looked and you foun…
/r/askMRP18/08/17 12:47 PM
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Wife had an ex-boyfriend orbiter. At first, I was like whatever, don't care. Then one day I look on her Facebook and this guy is fawning all over every one of my wife's pics to the point of blatantly and openly hitting on her. For years, YEARS!, my wife allowed this guy to openly hit on her, in a public manner. Every one of my wife's pictures had this asswipe openly hitting on her in the comments, all while I as asleep at thew wheel (was not on Facebook.) I was hugely disrespected, and the matte…
/r/askMRP10/08/17 04:52 PM
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I too would like to know why you would orbit your ex. What was your motivation? My wife had an ex orbiter. I always wondered what his motivation was. Was he trying to win her back by fawning over everything she posted on Facebook? I guess that is the only logical reason. Trying to give endless attention and probe for an opportunity to get back with her. Any thoughts?
/r/askMRP09/08/17 01:33 PM
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It really is just that easy. Be fun, don't be unfun.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 04:50 PM
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This event happened about 9 or 10 years ago when we first got married. I was a blue pill conditioned and I didn't have any red pill resources to fall back on. I had no idea what a beta was, I just saw my wimpy father-in-law and how my mother-in-law treated him like a dirty dog and that it was starting to happen to me. I didn't understand why, just knew deep down that I had to make a stand at some point, otherwise history was apt to repeat itself. It was kind of a build up overtime, every time th…
/r/askMRP03/08/17 06:36 PM
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Is her daddy a spineless beta? My wife used to do this, she would be pleasant but when her mom and aunt came around she would turn full bitch and try to disparage me. Like you I was taken aback and confused. I later observed that this is a learned behavior that her mom and aunt do to her father. Mom and Aunt treated spineless Dad like dirt, he is a hopeless beta though and does nothing to stand up for himself. My cure for this was: We went to the horse races one day with her family, her mom and …
/r/askMRP03/08/17 04:52 PM
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"make the gym your hobby" "When your life is under control, then go buy a gun." Sage advice.
/r/askMRP02/08/17 02:39 PM
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The guy admits to being a passive beta, a fuckup and just lays on the couch. I think his wife has every reason not to trust him with proper firearm safety. Just saying, get shit together first, then firearms second.
/r/askMRP02/08/17 01:44 PM
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Simple really: Kids under 16 in house? Yes - no gun No - do what ever you want Introducing a potential murder weapon in the house with kids is usually a bad idea. Especially if you are a passive beta who is prone to fuck-ups like, I don't know, leaving the loaded gun on the kitchen table... If you are an alpha or a beta who at least has his shit together, then that's a different story. But if there is no kids, then I say do whatever you want to do.
/r/askMRP02/08/17 12:22 PM
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Also, with you being 30. I am assuming that your friend group is also approx 30. They may not have much in common with a 24 year old. It is a confusing situation. It is more likely a simple misunderstanding as opposed to a "fuck you." That's my read at least. When I graduated college, I moved a few states away. When I visit the boys back home, it is all about me. They roll out the red carpet for me, not necessarily my wife. They aren't outwardly rude to my wife, but they don't necessarily want t…
/r/askMRP14/07/17 02:56 PM
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What's a more likely scenario: All of your guy friends sat around in a room and conspired to ruin your girlfriend's night. or Your girlfriend was shy and your friends were excited to see you. Your GF being nice and all, was an afterthought to your friends catching up with you. Your shy GF , had little or nothing to say and she could not break the ice with your friend group when left on her own. Trying to figure out why she is having a boring night, she projects outwardly saying your friends did …
/r/askMRP14/07/17 12:37 PM
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Dude, you convinced me. You are right. Topic creator: do nothing. This guy openly hitting on your woman in front of your peers might be a black belt. Be fucking careful man. Shit. Black belt. Black. Fuck. Dude you're fucked. Change your name. Move to another state. A goddamn black belt. He can openly demand your woman hug him, again in front of all of your peers. But dude, he might have like five friends. They would totally kick your ass. Seriously. Be careful. Those guys are ruff. Aww man. Wish…
/r/askMRP08/07/17 05:00 AM
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All avenues should be explored. Every choice should be examined. I am arguing that the topic creator has been disrespected. I don't understand why this is not a viable option that should be discussed if we want to fully explore the situation. Where in the sidebar does it say that when someone disrespects you, you should tuck your tail and roll over on your back exposing your belly? Was that a Rational Male post? I missed that one.
/r/askMRP08/07/17 01:48 AM
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Are you asking me to leave? Because I don't 100% agree with you? Sheesh
/r/askMRP07/07/17 07:31 PM
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Do we live in a world that no longer adheres to man-code? Should the clear violators of man-code go unpunished? If Sarah's BF knew Bulk_king was attached to this woman, this is man-code violation. Plus he ruined her night out which she rarely goes on. That's a double whammy. If Sarahs' BF was a stranger, not knowing if she was available or not and took a shot, then so be it. Ignore is the play. If not, then I don't think it is so cut and dry.
/r/askMRP07/07/17 07:07 PM
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I mean guy commenting on this thread.
/r/askMRP07/07/17 07:01 PM
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Your situation has raised a good question. You are looking to respond in a protective manner, this is kind of like mate guarding. Mate guarding is beta-ish behavior. Which would fill her need for comfort. You claim her and are willing to fight to keep her. OR you could feel disrespected, in which case, your alpha cred is called into question by Sarah's boyfriend. He is a outta line and needs to be put in check. You are the fucking top dog, and you ain't having that bitch disrespect you. In which…
/r/askMRP07/07/17 06:52 PM
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Reading your scenerio and putting myself in your shoes, I would feel disrespected, not by her but by Sarah's boyfriend. Your woman did the right thing by telling you. Perhaps she is telling you she feels disrespected and by proxy you are disrespected. Corrective actions may be called for. What say you pill gallery?
/r/askMRP07/07/17 06:04 PM
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Are you thinking that if you break the rules, and steal that it will give you some undisputed alpha credit? It will. However, it also may net you a 18-36 month stint in the big house. That will also land you some undoubted alpha credit. It also may net you a real alpha having his ways with you in the communal shower. You missed your chance. You were susposta be doing all this petty crime alpha stuff when you were a teenager. Sorry but if you were not a alpha hoodlum back then, that boat has sail…
/r/askMRP06/07/17 03:42 PM
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Work on getting more sex. The rest will follow naturally. After she wants to fuck you, she will want to cook for you. When she needs the fuck you, then she will need to cook for you. And if she doesn't, at least you will be fucking your wife with more regularity. That and you work too much. 12-14 hours a day, what the fuck? Are you a slave? I am awake 16 hours and sleep 8, that means you only have on average 3 hours of down time, and half of that is spent arguing with the wife. This is no way to…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 12:29 PM
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Oh no, I very much enjoy talking theoreticals, that is how we learn and expand our knowledge.
/r/askMRP05/07/17 07:34 PM
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Agreed. But I believe that you looking at this from a theoretical or singled man's perspective. Most here are married, and up and leaving the bitch is not really an option, as there are kids involved, your family and everything you built would be destroyed and there is this whole "divorce rape" term people throw around here quite often. I don't really know what that "divorce rape" term means, but I know I don't want to be any part of it. Kind of like the term "ass torture." Don't know what that …
/r/askMRP05/07/17 06:10 PM
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If you are waiting to marry a woman who respects you, you will be waiting a long time. Hate to break it to you but AWALT. This is why there is a Red Pill. If women still played by the old books or the traditional rules, there would be no Red Pill, but they don't and they will never go back to the way it was. We live in a state of nearly open hypergamy, for married and single women alike. There will never again be a time when a woman accepts the old rules, such as, "since I am married, I should n…
/r/askMRP05/07/17 02:55 PM
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I disagree, in general women have little to no concept of respect or disrespect. Unless that disrespect is happening to her, that is. In her mind, she thinks everything is just fine and dandy, and not only is it OK for her to flirt with and audition other men, she is entitled to it. Teasing her is mildly disrespecting her. You are sending a covert message, "you are disrespecting me and acting like a asshole, therefore I am treating you like the asshole you are." By mercilessly, yet playfully, te…
/r/askMRP05/07/17 02:05 PM
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Few points: Your no flirting rules are seriously limiting your alpha cred and your ability to foster dread. You probably know this by now. No flirting rules also hurt your game. Don't be afraid of the competition, dominate it. Your game should be designed to beat the competition, even while married. If you eliminate the competition, you will get stagnant and relaxed, your game will suffer. Remember you are always in competition. Always. I am not trying to call you a liar, no insult is intended, …
/r/askMRP30/06/17 07:37 PM
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Her: Take off your shirt. Takes shirt off Him: Now your turn. Seriously how can you fuck that up.
/r/askMRP30/06/17 02:46 PM
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AWALT. She is flirting with other guys. All women will openly flirt with other guys. She is probably freaking out because there is a "flirting gap", and she is at the wrong end of it or she senses that she is losing the lead. So her plan to close the "flirting gap" and possibly put her back on the positive end is to constrain your ability to flirt. Fuck that noise. You do you, she deals with it. I have been doing some research on an idea I call the "flirting gap". Goes like this. In your beta/bl…
/r/askMRP30/06/17 01:10 PM
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Reward good behavior, punish bad behavior. If you see the jealously outburst as bad behavior, remove your time and attention. No flirting, touching or affection. Become a Vulcan, no emotions. Remove it until she asks for it back. Be prepared to go for many days on this stalemate. She is punishing you for her bad behavior. She says "I'm jealous = no sex for you." You respond, "I'm OK with that, going to the pub, be home before first light." Up the ante. Might be extreme, but it is removal of atte…
/r/askMRP30/06/17 12:30 PM
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If you come to the Red Pill because your marriage is a complete shit show, and you think this red pill is some magic bean that can turn it around, then you are in for some tuff sledding. From my perspective, the Red Pill philosophy is something like this: Nearly every man to some degree has been conditioned to act like and worship the feminine. To forsake all things masculine and alpha and adopt everything feminine, supportive of feminine and beta. In spite of what every woman, school, TV show, …
/r/askMRP29/06/17 05:03 PM
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Maybe try: Next time J and you girlfriend are flirting say: "Yo! J, make sure you wear a condom when you hit that, I had better not catch that nastiness you got growing on your dick!" Calling your girl a whore, your friend an asshole and implying he has a dirty dick. All in the space of one sentence.
/r/askMRP28/06/17 11:27 PM
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If you need to make a list to order your thoughts, then make a list. If you really don't need a list, but make a list because she is crying about you making a list, then that's a bad play. You are falling into her vortex. She will see exactly how many hoops you will jump through for her, judging how weak you are with every leap.
/r/askMRP27/06/17 01:54 PM
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Might be a good opportunity to get rid of some of her shit that you don't like. That shit could be lost, left behind or broken in the move. If you are doing all of the packing, you could easily lose something. Play stupid, and keep the "well if it was that important to you...." card in you back pocket. You see crisis, I see opportunity.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 06:56 PM
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There was a rational male blog post about how women in general are fearful of trying new things that they feel that they are bad at or lesser than their peers. Wish I could site it for you. I found it to be in interesting read, and insightful for your situation. There are a whole bunch of thing that could be going on in her head. You chose comfort to calm her, that might have been a good play, seeing as how she was actually crying. When my wife starts freaking out like that, when faced with simi…
/r/askMRP26/06/17 06:14 PM
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When I use the phrase, "or you'll regret it." That usually means I am fixing on kickin' your ass if you cross me again. Be more specific, or better yet, don't use that phrase. The statement would have been just as effective without the veiled threat of violence at the end of it. Also keep in mind that women tend to lose their marbles when there is a newborn around. Probably for about the first 6-10 months or so. So try to keep in mind that she might not be playing with a full deck of cards for a…
/r/askMRP26/06/17 01:01 PM
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Interesting theory. I pretty much insist on having tons and tons of sex, but since I am married, I only have tons and tons of sex with my wife. If my wife did not have tons and tons of sex with me, I would either leave her or have side action. Lucky for me, my wife also wants to have tons and tons of sex with me. So I am not looking for any side action. Plus I got kids and build a great team, why would I want to fuck this up. In my travels, it dose seem like I am in a 10 or 20% of guys who have …
/r/askMRP23/06/17 02:47 PM
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Though I find you write up a bit lacking on information, it appears that you are beginning to grow the chase mentality, this is excellent work. However, depending if and for how long she has been in charge, you may be in for the mother of all shit tests. I predict, wifey, after getting you worked up into a sex-crazed lather, will all the sudden clam up this weekend and you will gets no action. She will want you on your knees begging for it. Remember your training, don't give a fuck, and you will…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/17 12:25 PM
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Not outrage at all. In fact, there should be little emotion attached to it. This is simply what happens when somebody disrespects me. I am playful, funny and can roll with the punches, but I do not tolerate anybody, wife included, disrespecting me. Now usually when the wife is disrespectful, it is something minor or some kind of test. I usually take it with a grain of salt and deal with it in a more private/conversational manner. But if she started pulling public disrespecting, you better believ…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 07:29 PM
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Solution: Go through your pictures on your computer, find the 10 most unflattering pictures of your wife and save them in a different place. Next time she post some shit on you, post 3 of the unflattering pics of her on Facebook, tag her in the photos. Enjoy the ensuing chaos. When she blows her stack on you, say you thought it was just a game. Play innocent and don't apologize, but have a cocky "fuck you" smile on your face while doing so. If your first salvo does not work, at least you will ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 05:57 PM
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I don't really see any cause for major concern here, but I do think she is testing the boundary and trying to get under your skin. I can see how this is irksome. Don't get mad bra, get even. You got a single or recently divorced guy friend? How's about you go out on the town, cruisin' for chicks with that guy and ghost the shit outta her. Like leave you phone at home. Come back home way late and parrot the exact same excuses she gave you. She thinks she can behave like this because you have no f…
/r/askMRP22/06/17 12:34 PM
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I did a while back, but I was super tired. Like couldn't keep my eyes open. Had to disappoint the wife. Other than that, I can't remember a time when I turned her down. If you want to be the couple that has crazy amounts of sex, you have to have crazy amounts of sex. She's out having a good time, comes home and wants the good times to continue in the bedroom with you. Fuck yeah, I am game! You mean I get to watch the ballgame all night and you walk in the door and demand that I bang you? You are…
/r/askMRP21/06/17 06:57 PM
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The latter indeed, why would one ever even consider the former. One scenario involves getting crazy-wild sex, the other does not. Pretty easy choice in my book.
/r/askMRP21/06/17 04:48 PM
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So you were relatively sober, she is "shitfaced" and wanted to bang? And you gave her the pass? Man-oh-man. She's drunk, she is uninhibited, her guard is way down and she is horny? Dude, its time to get crazy, she is trying to tell you, lets get crazy! You want her to wake up saying, "I can't believe we did that last night!"
/r/askMRP21/06/17 02:40 PM
1

The hamster would KNOW that you are a fake. A poser. Anytime you tried to run some game on her she would say "Yeah! is that what those assholes on the internet said to do?" Blowing all your shit up! You want to deal with that?
/r/askMRP21/06/17 12:08 PM
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5 flowers in 13 years is a very good average. Well done. You get good sex by earning it. You earn it with good game. Forget the flowers, perfume, jewelry, chocolates and cards, for this is the way of the man with no game.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 04:58 PM
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My advice: We were discussing this in another thread a while back. Make sure the kid's bed time is early. Like 6:30pm early. Go and find scientific studies that say kids need 13 hours of sleep. Present this as evidence to your wife. Subtract 13 hours from 7:30am to come at the logical 6:30pm bed time. Try to be covert about it. Make it look like its her idea to put the kids to bed early. Don't let her use the kid to cockblock you. If she is angling to have a later bedtime, you got a whole lot mo…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 01:52 PM
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Not sure how we ended up in this debate, but we are overlooking my original point. It is good to take care of shit that needs taken care of. Like if there is a big pile of laundry, do it. I know I am not gaining any popularity on a pro-men's site by saying this but laundry is woman's work. However, it is woman's work that needs to be done for the greater good. If the woman is slacking off, then the man should step in and do what needs done. And the topic creator said he was taking care of shit, …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 12:44 PM
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Depends on what's being baked. Cooking a pork roast, baking potatoes, roasting a chicken - OK Baking cup cakes, making cream puffs, baking cakes - not OK. You could probably establish that "I make a mean cream puff" and get away with it, but if you start whipping up cookies and cup cakes out of the blue, she may see that as odd. In fact, I would wonder if you had lost your marbles. Banana bread falls into the female cooking department. Would you let your wife "Man" the grill if you were having a…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/17 07:38 PM
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Not trying to take away from your progress or results. However, I would be careful encroaching on her, "female territory." Making her unnecessary is dread, making her feel unwanted is not. You may be walking a fine line when you "bake banana bread" which I view as a feminine activity. Could be a cultural thing, but in my book baking banana bread/cakes/cookies is clearly defined woman's work. If I went home tonight and baked cookies, my wife would be very confused and sad. Cookies are her departm…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/17 05:49 PM
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This is true. AWALT. Your wife flirts with other men. Your wife will always flirt with other men and she will imply to them that she is available. Your wife may or may not act on such things. Your wife most likely has a back-up man ready to replace you right now. You can probably open your wife's Facebook page and see other men openly hitting on her, and her facilitating this. Your wife can and will drop you like a 200lbs sack of rocks should a better man come around. This is the way of the worl…
/r/askMRP19/06/17 02:55 PM
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Here is a free tip. She finds the word "no" sexy. My wife was similar. For some reason she could not say no to anyone in her family. She would never go to the extent of giving away money, but if her family asked her to go to a never cleaned and heavily used port-a-potty in the middle of a corn field, she would go and arrive ten minutes early. She would freely and totally inconvenience her life for a very minor favor for a family member. And every time she would do these favors, she would leave i…
/r/askMRP19/06/17 01:21 PM
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I would go see a doctor, I think they have pills for that. Seriously, why wouldn't you. The doctor won't give a fuck.
/r/askMRP16/06/17 12:10 PM
1

Not sure if this is applicable for you, but, vasectomy. I was never a two pump chump, but after the vasectomy, I became porn star quality. These results may be atypical, consult your doctor. Also, quick whacking it, quit looking at porn. Only feed him your wife's pussy. When you whack it, you are trying to get it done as fast as possible, with the highest amount of visual stimuli possible. Stop that, you are mentally putting yourself in unrealistic scenarios and you are training yourself to suck…
/r/askMRP16/06/17 11:59 AM
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On the autism spectrum, I am rated Grade-A Badass Mother Fucker. As for the rest, I thank you for your input. But I think you are getting too personal, whereas I am trying to view this from a purely scientific perspective. Let's for a minute remove all feelings and enjoying facets and just look at the x's and o's. My main idea is that the Alpha behavior set is to never submit to a woman, or in its purest form, anyone/ever. However, when the wife vents, she is expecting a behavioral compliance fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 02:17 PM
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Bedtime 8pm. I have always thought of the children's bedtime as a beta tell. If your wife puts the kids to bed early that a pretty solid indication that she wants to spend alone time with you. She keeps them up late, bad news for daddy. Couple that with the facts that most studies indicate that young children need 12-13 hour of sleep per night and you can really see where you stand.
/r/askMRP14/06/17 04:41 PM
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Bedroom on one side of the house. Game/Nintendo room on the other side of the house. Get a nice soundbar or stereo for your room too. Install locks on your door. Kids occupied, tunes on, doors locked. If you build it, they will come.
/r/askMRP14/06/17 04:05 PM
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Whether I like my wife or not is irrelevant. (I do) This whole "listening to her vent" or as I call it the bitching/listening test is something I, as a man, I don't understand. I don't need to vent. Why does she? What does she have to gain by venting? If I consistently refuse to hear her vent will she be inclined to vent to another man? Is there a "correct" posture to show for this test? Is it a test at all?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 03:55 PM
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I am a happy 6-8bang per week husband who found the red pill. It's been 6 to 8 per week for about the last 8 years. I used to, and still do say "i won the mother freaking marriage lottery." One day, last year, was looking for new and interesting ways to seduce my wife, did a google search on 'how to game my wife' and the whole world changed. I see your point about most finding this place as a last resort, but the knowledge of the Game and the pill are beneficial to every man. Men with a thirst f…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 11:49 PM
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This is a subject I have been doing some research in. The whole listening to her bitch thing is some kind of test, but I cannot figure out the play where I do not have to listen to it. It seems this is a test where your submission is the correct play, which is contrary to everything taught here. When she starts bitching, you have to stop whatever it is you are doing and listen to her bitch, which is an act of submission. Here is an experiment that I ran, and hopefully some of you guys can do it …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 12:35 PM
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I think you done fucked it up. Apparently, she thinks your game is cut and paste out of a book instead of coming from within. She thinks you and your game are disingenuous. I might sit her down and say "Look you are fucking up my game. I love my game and my game is who I am. It is not out of a book. If I can't run game on you, we probably won't bang as much as we should be, we probably won't be as close as we could be. So forget about spouting off this shit test crap, that's against the rules of…
/r/askMRP12/06/17 07:13 PM
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I am of the opinion, rarely to never reward. Unless there is above and beyond the call of duty. Seems to me like she should have been behaving like this the whole time. Do you celebrate when you press the power button on your TV and it turns on? Now if you press the power button and hardcore porn comes on, yes that is cause for celebration! Don't reward her for behaving how you expect her to behave on a daily basis. You are trying to foster a chase mentality. Giving her a treat may give her the …
/r/askMRP12/06/17 04:33 PM
2

She comes home with unexpected shit storm, perhaps she expected you to be hurt by the whole deal. Perhaps she was already planning on you being bitchy, and had her shit storm already lined up. When she came home and you appeared to not give a fuck, then she acted out to make sure you gave a fuck. She sucker punched you, the proper play was to continue to not give a fuck and not get sucked into her artificial drama. Also, "don't give her enough space." is woman code for something. I would be conc…
/r/askMRP12/06/17 01:30 PM
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Prepare yourself for anger. You will find that on some level, you have been bamboozled. Whether it has been by your mom, wife, church, community. You will want to lash out at the people who fooled you. Exact some kind of revenge. But you can't, people won't understand your anger, to them everything is exactly how it should be. Let your anger motivate you to become better. Let your anger kill your beta.
/r/askMRP09/06/17 12:54 PM
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Exception: If you got text game, then go for it. I love text game, I play it almost every day, however, you gotta keep on you toes. It is literally like a daily chess match I play with my wife. You have to come up with a good punchline, joke or sexual innuendo every day or at least every other day. You have to be able to seamlessly weave a sexual scenario into your daily texting. It has to be fun and fantastic, or she will reject it. Yo-yo her, bait and switch her, give her some line, reel her b…
/r/askMRP09/06/17 12:09 PM
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No panties policy? For reals? I mean, for real reals? Why that's brilliant, hope you don't mind but I am stealing that one. Edit: Just to trade, I have the required booty shorts around the house in the summer policy.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 06:49 PM
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Yeah you are over thinking this. You do what you can to facilitate her orgasm, with good technique and variety, but at the end of the day, her orgasm is her responsibility. Just enjoy the ride, and if you see she is ready, then go for it. If not, finish up and call it a day. She should probably have a better "finish up" tell. She probably has to be overt about it because you are getting weird. Stop it.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 05:06 PM
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Oh yeah dude, do the reading. It is truly amazing. It is like you are trying to solve difficult math problems and somebody hands you a Calculus book. Even if you are the dominant one in the relationship, there is still a ton to learn. Not all of us here are in dead-bedroom, I am in an amazing high sex relationship with my wife, and the reading is invaluable. Learning counters and proper reactions to her shit is easy. Learning why she is acting they way she does is amazing. Learning why I act lik…
/r/askMRP08/06/17 12:32 PM
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Well said!
/r/askMRP08/06/17 12:03 PM
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From my observations: Wife marries beta - Wife's mother calls the shots, husband's family is froze out. Wife tries to shield his family from the stupidity of her and her mother running the show and all of her retarded decisions about his money. Wife marries alpha - families generally get along. Just saying. My brother-in-law is a born and conditioned beta and he is freezing out my mother-in-law. Mother-in-law is very hurt, but she is the one who raised him that way. She has nobody to blame but h…
/r/askMRP07/06/17 04:51 PM
2

Wife and I go clubbing (heath clubbing) every Saturday morning. Couple of the meatheads there call us the "husband/wife team." We love it. Sometimes she just wants to go on the treadmill, sometimes she wants to lift with me, sometimes we go play 1 on 1 basketball (she is a very good basketball player.) We often go on long bike rides and runs together too. You can still get after it, plus you can show off a bit. What's not to like here.
/r/askMRP07/06/17 03:37 PM
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Never. She's the emotional one, you be the confident one. A phrase from the Family Alpha's site (creating your slut) really rings true here. Paraphrasing 'you have to display an irrational sense of self confidence.' You are bulletproof. Nothing physically, mentally or emotionally can harm you. Learn it, live it, own it. Also, in all of my travels, I have yet to find somebody who wants to hear about my feelings. You go to a shrink, you have to pay him to hear about your feelings. Any of my friend…
/r/askMRP07/06/17 03:10 PM
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Duuuuuuuuude! ... Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuude!!!!! You need to direct that anger outwards. Not towards your family. I am a reformed angry guy myself. Are you taking supplements? I found that creatine made me super aggressive, so I quit taking it. Hard liquor too, almost guaranteed fight. Beer only, never do shots. Even eating excessive protein or a whey protein supplement would get me juiced up too. Maybe even you gym time is making you hyper aggressive. Try a bicycle and go on long distance rides. Somet…
/r/askMRP06/06/17 01:27 PM
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My insecurities? I can usually ignore them. Her insecurities? Not my problem. However, if you are a good, supportive leader, you are leading by example, and she feels like you two are a team, then her insecurities will melt away. Looks like you got a good attitude and know the price of constant gym time. Just make sure its a total team effort. You can't have a post workout Big Mac, and tell her that she should get the salad, what you should do is drive right past Micky-D's and forget it exists. …
/r/askMRP06/06/17 12:29 PM
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The whole fat thing is a tricky subject. However, as the man, you need to set the fitness baseline for your relationship. Did you just get back to going to the gym or have you always been going to the gym? That's the main difference. Are you a, well I am getting a bit of a belly, better go for a run, or I am trying to break 26 minutes on my 3mile course today? Its not a chore, its a lifestyle. Set the bar at never missing a workout. Working out is addictive, all you got to do is get her hooked. …
/r/askMRP05/06/17 01:15 PM
1

Not saying you work out the deal ahead of time, but if you give her a proper back rub, strip her down butt naked and rub/caress her body with scented oils, you are in prime position to execute some tomfoolery, and there is a real good chance your touch has her a bit worked up as well. Literately, you just have to remove your pants and you will both be naked and you will have a boner. I don't know how you guys are doing it but for me: She's naked, I'm naked, boner. That's a good recipe. Maybe it …
/r/askMRP02/06/17 02:31 PM
1

May seem counter intuitive, but I wrecked my shoulder playing football and I could not flat bench for many years. However, I would be able to do dumb bell bench press and incline dumb bell press pain free. Try light dumb bells and work your way up. Seriously though, snap crackle pop - be careful.
/r/askMRP02/06/17 12:43 PM
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Good point. Maybe you just need a trigger for banging. Like a back rub. Might help ease a the transition. I too have noticed that even when my wife is not really in the mood, throw a back rub at her and it becomes a slam dunk. Probably come combo of Kino, relaxation and comfort being naked in front of you. Of course, it helps if you are a back-rub-mother-fucking-master, like yours truly.
/r/askMRP02/06/17 12:31 PM
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You should never try to lift through an injury. Well you can if you're 18 or 19. But after 30 you are just asking for a snap crackle pop - out indefinitely. This guy is right Go see your doctor, get an MRI to find out exactly what going on and rehab it proper with physical therapy. Those PT guys know what they are doing.
/r/askMRP02/06/17 12:00 AM
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Yeah dude, ya win some, ya lose some. My wife blows about 30-40% of my planned shenanigans. Your plan didn't work, probably too complicated, maybe your timing was off, maybe you don't have the proper punishment for non-compliance (spanking), maybe you just aren't dominant enough. What ev's shrug it off and forget it ever happened. Pro Tips: Only try these types of shenanigans during the ripe time of her cycle You can only do them if you are in a very dominant mood, and she in a very submissive m…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 01:18 PM
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THIS She will NEVER, EVER, EVER, pass up an opportunity to flirt. If you limit your flirting, and she does not, then you are not playing on a level playing field.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 02:01 PM
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Don't change anything, just don't screw around on your partner and you'll be fine. Its called prize mentality. You are the prize, other women should want to screw you. This is the natural way of things. You do nothing to deter this, in fact you should be facilitating this. It is always easier to deal with women who are at least somewhat sexually attracted to you. You, at minimum, want them thinking about what it would be like if you ravaged them. Then when they drop something in front of you, pi…
/r/askMRP30/05/17 01:57 PM
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For FIVE YEARS! If this is true, I see no reason for you NOT to take on a girlfriend and be banging the shit out of her on the side. Check that, multiple girlfriends. Start today. Plan operation SIDE ACTION. 1) Get in shape. 2) Create a believable alibi. 3) Sharpen your game. 4) Practice. 5) Score. 6) Never, even under penalty of death, tell your wife. Deny Deny Deny. 7) Come home and pretend like everything is hunky-dory -- exactly like she does. Way I see it, you are entitled to fuck at least …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 01:06 PM
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Not sure what world you live in where whacking off infront of a woman you want to fuck is acceptable on any level. It is mind-boggling to me. It really has to be the most unattractive, most unarousing, least sexy thing you can do. If I ever laid in a bed and whacked it while a woman I was living with just continued to read her magazine, I would finish, pack a bag, get in my Cadillac, burn rubber in the drive way, move three states away and never talk to her again. Never get caught wacking off. S…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 12:57 PM
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I think he is just looking for some cool gym music.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 05:49 PM
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NFL Power and Glory all the cool 1960's NFL Films tunes. Give it a try.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 05:44 PM
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I'm in my late 30's, and my formative years being mid 80's through the 90's, here are some selections. Metallica, ACDC, Zepplin, Ozzy, Sabbath, Rob Zombie, Pantera, GnR. If you don't already own, Kill 'em All, Ride the Lightning, Master of Puppets, And Justice for All and the Black Album, then go head and get those. ACDC if you lean a little more hard rock than metal. or Wu-Tang, NWA, Snoop and Geto Boys, there's a lot of good rap music, don't over look it, my fave being the Wu-Tang Clan. or Gru…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 05:33 PM
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Don't think declining will hurt your standing if you are getting it as regularly as you say. I would ask myself, does she get me off when she is not in the mood? If so, then you should always return in kind. Fair is fair, and she gets horny too.
/r/askMRP24/05/17 03:30 PM
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You see this as a crisis, I see it as an opportunity. With you wife being so involved with work, make the move to Undisputed Captain of the Family and she will fall very deeply in your frame. In fact, I bet inside she is begging you to do this. I know this because the same has happened to me. You are the boss, the buck stops with you now for everything. Don't think of doing extra housework as beta/girl jobs. Its the shit that's got to get done in-order for the family to survive. And you do it fo…
/r/askMRP24/05/17 02:29 PM
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Screaming is a feminine display as well. Cold and calculating is what you should be looking for. Intimidate with the eyes, not the voice.
/r/askMRP22/05/17 01:11 PM
3

This If she objects to you going for a run, which is a habit that will improve your overall health and mental well-being, then she is playing psyche games on you. Nobody on Earth should object to you taking up a habit that will improve your cardiovascular performance and general health. People who do object do not have your best interest in mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 12:15 PM
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Showing off feels like what an insecure person would do...sounds like woman-speak to me. Showing off is what cocky and confident guys do to get chicks. You don't quit showing off just because you get a girlfriend or wife. That's called settling down. You can't expect to be treated as confident and cocky unless you live it everyday. Maybe that's your problem. Maybe you have a behavior set when you are single, then change to a different behavior set when you are in a relationship. If she was treat…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 07:09 PM
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Being publicly sexual with your woman is akin to bragging about banging her. If you are openly bragging about banging, you had better be a stud. You had better be hitting no doubters in the bedroom. For instance, if you make a crude comment about her eating a banana, she will think its playful and actually suck off the banana if she really wants to blow you, and she will think it is insulting if the thought of your dick in her mouth makes her want to puke. By being overtly sexual in front of you…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 07:22 PM
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You are a mustache away from being badass. Shave my head every other day. Starting opening weekend for the NFL, I lose my razor and grow a thick beard (I am a cross country skier, beards are a necessity), then once the ski season is over, I rock a thick Hulk Hogan mustache. Interest level from other ladies skyrockets when the mustache comes out. Sky-rock-ets. I think that's the shit test. Your woman is very comfortable being (or at least thinking she is) the better looking one. Now she's the one…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 02:22 PM
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Hi, relatively new here. Why did she confess the whole infidelity? What was the angle on that? What did she have to gain? It looks like she is giving you a cheat card. I think she is saying change or cheat and end it. So change or cheat. She gave you the card, and you have not played it yet. Taking over the finances may be an "aw shit, he's getting his ducks in a row." deal. Its a power grab that she does not like, I would continue with power grabs until you decide what to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 05:09 PM
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