So me and my wife are moving soon. Its a simple move into a house from an Apartment and I want her to fill up boxes before the move. She has shown zero interest in this. Its been a week and a half since we paid deposit and the only boxes we've packed are the ones Ive packed (shes helped when Im working).

I also work full time and she has the summer off plus 15 hours part time work. I've stated what I want (ready to move by 1st). She has said she doesnt want to move till the 20th, once. (Fyi we have both the house and apartment till August.) Im having trouble deciding if shes resisting packimg because shes lazy or doesnt want to move yet.

So I plan on packing with my weeknights to get ready. I will probably be withdrawn around her because im a little upset at her laziness. I want to know how to get her to work a bit more, improve myself, and any thoughts?