thewordofmouse Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	The Art of Seduction by Robert Green (Audiobook)		thewordofmouse	/r/seduction	07/08/13 02:01 PM

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1	Thoughts on asking a girl out through facebook? I would just start with "Hey how are you"	/r/seduction	10/01/14 03:00 PM
1	Tips on how initiate a kiss without freaking out Just say "kiss me", be kind of demanding about it. She'll likely do it, and then you have no choice.	/r/seduction	10/01/14 02:59 PM
2	Why she chose me Everyone longs to experience the things they're not allowed to experience. They aren't 'sexual' until they get to fulfill it, they're just toying with the idea of something taboo and rebellious.	/r/seduction	10/01/14 02:54 PM
1	What's the major differences between high school dating/game and adult dating/game? There's no major difference, everything was just easier in high school because the girls had a much smaller basis for comparison.	/r/seduction	10/01/14 01:41 PM
4	Complexities of dealing with 9/10's with busy schedules... Do you cut them loose? It honestly depends, but I'd just walk away here and tell her to get in touch with you next time she's in your city. There's no real benefit to continuing conversation unless you simply enjoy talking to her.	/r/seduction	10/01/14 01:38 PM
6	Just came across this number in my phone game? Best of luck. I had the same problem when I used to get promnight wasted on a regular basis. In the future, make a better effort to remember the girls you meet, the little bit of extra effort goes a long way. Plus they're just such lovely creatures, they're all worth remembering anyways.	/r/seduction	08/01/14 06:36 PM
-1	How do you escalate in social circle situations? Put your hands on her shoulders, grab her, steer her, and remove her from the group. Intro to kino IDGAF All alone Nowkiss.jpg	/r/seduction	08/01/14 06:34 PM
-9	Just came across this number in my phone game? Text something completely fucked up that makes no sense without context demands a response. Then, when she responds just be like... "...yeah disregard that, but hey, I'm this incredibly handsome & charming guy, I just found your number in my phone and I wanted to message you, because I only allow the loveliest girls to have their numbers in my phone." If you have absolutely 0 recollection of this woman, afterwords just be like... "could you add me on FB - Insert Name - Because I'm in and out of …	/r/seduction	08/01/14 06:16 PM
1	What is a good topic of conversation w/ girls I don't know, and girls I know through friends? Her.	/r/seduction	08/01/14 06:10 PM
0	Does anyone know how to go from the playful joking touch stage to the intimate touch stage? I often ask, to be honest. Many girls find it humorous and cute, which contrasts my sort of serious and intense personality. Maybe not with touching, but I'll almost always ask if I can give a girl a kiss, and I sometimes make jokes like "may I please give you an over the pants crotch rub?" if we're watching a movie or something... it's hilarious. On more than one occasion, I've had a girl tell me that hearing me say the words "can I kiss you?" was one of the sexiest things they've ever heard. A…	/r/seduction	08/01/14 06:09 PM
5	First time to a club, never even been to a school dance, what should I expect? can you give me some tips? Just walk in and be like "whatup I got a big cock"	/r/seduction	08/01/14 06:04 PM
1	Do you guys usually think you're the shit and does it get good results? I don't really think I'm the shit. I just make it my goal to have fun and meet lovely women and share experiences with them. I always reach that goal. I think as long as you project a frame that's congruent with who you actually are, then it simplifies the process. If you overthink it too much and try to play this facade then you'll have a tough time making it convincing.	/r/seduction	08/01/14 05:49 PM
1	How do you talk to women? (Almost) every woman has an interesting story, something you can learn from them, or something to improve or add value to your life, your attitude, your day, or who you are as a person. If that's not reason enough to want to talk to every girl you see, then the problem here is bigger than just a confidence issue. Furthermore, quit whining jealously about 'wiggers' running off with your girls and do something about it. These guys have those girls because they're so self-satisfied with their wangs…	/r/seduction	08/01/14 04:38 PM
1	Approaching vs waiting to get approach by people you know I think your friend is an idiot.	/r/seduction	08/01/14 03:28 PM
3	Short guys with sucess stories? "You're short": "I'm glad you noticed. I was thinking about wearing a pair of heels on my date tomorrow night, any designer you'd recommend?" "Yes, I am." "Good observation, did you also notice my good looks and charm?" "Yup! It gives me an advantage to survival in anamalia and makes me a great companion for a post-apocalyptic world, that's why I chose to be short." "Yeah, I actually donated my bottom 5 spinal plates to an orphan, the deal was brokered by a really nice Nigerian Prince" Already l…	/r/seduction	08/01/14 03:24 PM
2	Great lesson learned from a girl on a date Well said. I agree, although I approach because I love women. Each and every one of them, they all have an interesting story and some majestic stroke of individuality and beauty about them... I love to meet them, and I love to listen to them talk. So I don't really know much about this issue. I think if every guy learned to just appreciate women more, they'd all have significantly better 'game' overnight.	/r/seduction	08/01/14 03:17 PM
2	I don't know when to stop talking, halp! The easiest way to quit a habit is to change who you are as a person and perceive yourself differently. I.e. becoming a non-smoker as opposed to 'quitting smoking'. So, why don't you make an effort to be a person who's interested in what other people have to say? Genuinely take an interest in others, their words, dialogue, and their stories, and just shut the fuck up and listen. Ask questions and make an effort to learn about the people around you. The more you know about the people in your life…	/r/seduction	08/01/14 03:11 PM
3	Advice on how to be witty? Improv is by far the best course. I also find watching characters in TV shows with a lot of wit, I find watching characters who are captivating gives me a temporary buy in to their demeanor... so I'll kind of have a bit of their wit behind me for maybe an hour or a day after watching. Best examples are: Hank Moody (Californication) Jack Donaghy (30 Rock) Casablanca has some good dialogue Harvey Specter (Suits) Alfie both new & old There's tons more but I'm at work right now with little time to l…	/r/seduction	08/01/14 03:07 PM
1	How long have you been single? Single for 1.5 years. You don't need to be in a relationship to share those experiences with a girl. I have a good number of FWBs who I have an intimate personal relationship with... just learn to love women and appreciate their company and the time you spend with them, and you can become intimately involved without this whiney dependent bullshit you're spewing. Plus, the sex is a lot better when you're closer with the girl.	/r/seduction	01/01/14 12:00 PM
20	Seddit, I've had a terrible night. Please help me reframe and avoid in the future. Stop fucking your ex.	/r/seduction	01/01/14 11:42 AM
11	How do I keep on improving on my game, whilst in a relationship? You can still talk to women as much as you want. You don't have to be trying to close, just talk to them for your own enjoyment and because you're a good, fun, social guy. To be honest, having a girlfriend will give you a confidence boost and a better frame, because you're indifferent to the outcome of the situation. If you're in a relationship where you're 'not allowed' to talk to other girls, then get the fuck out.	/r/seduction	01/01/14 11:42 AM
3	Seddit guys who are successful with women, how often do you get rejected and what do the rejections look like? More often than not, I'd say. But I reject a lot of girls I meet as well, once I get to know them and realize they're not worth another minute of my time.	/r/seduction	01/01/14 11:37 AM
1	How to talk to women about sex Just read it.	/r/seduction	06/12/13 01:47 PM
1	How to talk to women about sex Fake it till you make it homie. Sex ain't all that hard. Pun intended	/r/seduction	06/12/13 01:47 PM
5	How to talk to women about sex Typically I'll just explicitly ask a woman "how's your sex life?" It shows you're bold and it makes your intentions pretty clear. Plus most women love talking about that shit.	/r/seduction	06/12/13 01:46 PM
3	I keep downplaying women in my life Watching Californication could help.	/r/seduction	30/11/13 03:58 PM
1	Being a male and a friendly male puts his arm around you over your shoulders. I'd say just suck it up and gradually distance yourself. It's not a big deal, it's definitely more subconscious anyways, and it's not really all that 'alpha' of behaviour.	/r/seduction	30/11/13 05:31 AM
1	I keep downplaying women in my life Very interesting read.	/r/seduction	30/11/13 05:29 AM
2	I keep downplaying women in my life You need to learn to love and appreciate women.	/r/seduction	30/11/13 05:29 AM
2	24, dont know where to go Honestly my friend, the best place to meet good quality women is getting involved with community groups of people with similar interests (i.e. meetup.com), and volunteering in your community. If you volunteer, you will meet good, quality women who value giving back to the community and are nice. And nice girls are the best in bed. There's really absolutely no point to surround yourself with bitches. You'll also be volunteering, so you'll be getting off your ass and doing something positive for t…	/r/seduction	27/11/13 03:11 AM
1	Tinder game. Best Practices. Tinder me bb	/r/seduction	10/10/13 03:43 PM
1	After the F-Close: Should you ever be the one to send the first text or propose the next meetup? Who cares dude? Be a man & do what you want. If you want to see her again, then get on that shit.	/r/seduction	30/09/13 09:07 PM
2	Is anyone here learning Game while they're still in a relationship? (For the benefit of their current partner) Thank you for this.	/r/seduction	30/09/13 09:06 PM
1	What to do when you forget her name I just say "I'm sorry, I forgot your name. What is it?"	/r/seduction	13/08/13 04:39 PM
0	Any advice on how to overcome negative jealous feelings? Quit being a pussy and realize that these women are allowed to talk to/spend time with/be attracted to other men. Women aren't controllable assets that you own. Jealousy comes from possessiveness, and while a little bit of it is good for a relationship, it typically serves as a reason for a relationship to die a slow and painful death.	/r/seduction	13/08/13 04:37 PM
3	I've never touched women, where do I start? It's pretty natural, dude. Be a gentleman but make your intentions clear. Actions speak louder than words.	/r/seduction	13/08/13 04:33 PM
2	Coffee vs drinks for first dates Neither. Go mini putting.	/r/seduction	11/08/13 07:55 PM
2	How does increased confidence lead to improved conversational skills? When you're confident, you let things happen as they should. The conversation therefore becomes very natural, you're generally interested in learning about the person, and generally interested in sharing your stories because you're confident in them. Talking to a confident person is a very comfortable feeling because they hold the conversation, there's no "awkward silences" or extra effort put in to try to keep the conversation alive.	/r/seduction	11/08/13 07:54 PM
8	Where's the line between being persistent/showing interest and being desperate/creepy? Confidence and entitlement is the difference. If you show a girl that you feel entitled to her and as a result, you're showing interest and persisting because she should pick you. Being desperate or creepy occurs when you believe you don't deserve the girl but you still go after her... without confidence, you're just a loser who's swinging for the fences.	/r/seduction	11/08/13 07:51 PM
0	Guys I've given you some quality advice because you deserve it. Now, shamelessly, I need some back. Help a fellow out. Unhappy in her current relationship, she's begging you to fuck it up. It's like the scene from Californication... I think S03E07, where Hank's like "fine I'll do it" Just before he drops the glorious "Wilder, go brew yourself a big cup of word tea. And dip your balls in it."	/r/seduction	09/08/13 02:33 PM
3	Pheromones? Source.	/r/seduction	09/08/13 02:12 PM
3	Pheromones? "Pheromone" is actually a verb, derived from the Greek words "phero" which means "smell like" and "mone" which means "man". It literally means "smell like a man". How does one "pheromone"?: Don't shower too often so you develop a nice manly musk (that smell that is just on the border of B.O.) Work on an engine Stand by a bonfire briefly or smoke a cigarette Eat some beef jerky Drink a peppermint tea Put on some cologne that doesn't smell like a flowery garden Put on some relatively classic scent…	/r/seduction	09/08/13 02:09 PM
5	Giving myself bullshit reasons not to "talk to everyone" You're making excuses. Reasons are valid and logical. So, to combat your excuses, come up with reasons you should talk to everyone: You could learn something from them, or teach them something. You could change their life, or they could change yours. Everyone has an amazing and interesting story you can listen to. You will become a more skilled and engaging conversationalist. If you're lucky, one day you will be an old human being gradually approaching the end of your life, do you really want to…	/r/seduction	09/08/13 02:04 PM
1	A Saying At My New Sales Job's Office, Thought It Was Applicable No. Coffee is for closers only.	/r/seduction	07/08/13 07:16 PM
3	How do you know if she's uninterested or playing "hard to get"? You don't know. But you can find out. This is elementary shit. Beat her at her own game, stop paying attention. If she doesn't make an effort to keep you around, on to the next one. If she does, you won at the 'hard to get' game. If you enjoyed the 'great conversation' you had initially, why can't that just be enough? Once you start doing this because it's what you genuinely enjoy doing, without the ulterior motive of getting validation/laid/attention/etc., it becomes a whole different thing alt…	/r/seduction	07/08/13 02:37 PM
7	Tinder App Can a mod make an effort to put this in the FAQ so we can just send tinder questions there? The first step is to get your mindset in the right place: you need to think of this as online-speed-dating. How to win on tinder: Have attractive photos that girls will click 'yes' on... If you're not attractive, start hitting the gym and get a nice body, do a pre-contest carb-depletion for 10 days, and take some Calvin Klein Model pictures. Actually though - this is a shallow app. This will increase your…	/r/seduction	07/08/13 02:16 PM
2	A Saying At My New Sales Job's Office, Thought It Was Applicable There is nothing better than ABC.	/r/seduction	07/08/13 01:56 PM
1	Tinder game. Best Practices. Live an unreal life, and have photo evidence to document the exciting things you do. If you're interesting, chances are they'll give you the 'Yes'	/r/seduction	07/08/13 03:11 AM
1	How do you ensure a huge turnout to your party and make it memorable and fun for everybody? Give away alcohol.	/r/seduction	06/08/13 06:50 PM
35	How do I create sexual tension in a conversation, face to face, and by texting? And when they point out that it's bullshit, you start a sexual string of jokes that eventually leads to requesting them to take your virginity (which you both know doesn't exist) and then you win.	/r/seduction	06/08/13 06:40 PM
2	Tinder game. Best Practices. Just under a month. I have enough matches that it takes like... 10 iPhone screen swipes to get to the bottom of the list. Hooked up with 4, F-closed 2, I'm regularly texting about 10 of them, but I moved 20+ to text me outside of tinder.(I got bored of a few of them). It's hard to determine quality with a lot of these girls... And be aware that about 6/10 of them are going to be 30-40% uglier than they pretend to be on tinder.	/r/seduction	06/08/13 06:21 PM
27	How do I create sexual tension in a conversation, face to face, and by texting? Say you're a virgin	/r/seduction	06/08/13 06:10 PM
8	How do I create sexual tension in a conversation, face to face, and by texting? When you're doing the small-talk bullshit... "whats up, how was your day, etc." drop in a how's your sex life?. Pretty easy way to sexualize the conversation instantly. You'd be surprised how many girls want to open up about that kind of thing, and even if they're taken aback by your boldness, they'll still admire you for being bold. Also, turn everything into an innuendo. Literally. Just do it. Make your intentions clear.	/r/seduction	06/08/13 05:13 PM
1	Tinder game. Best Practices. This is certainly true. Either be good looking, badass, or doing something cool in all your photos.	/r/seduction	06/08/13 04:05 PM
3	Tinder game. Best Practices. There is no 'most successful time' - this isn't a statistical game. At the risk of sounding like an absolute douchebag, I clean up on Tinder. A lot of this has to do with having a very Abercrombie-model esque photo to begin with. Post-match, my tinder conversations usually start with 'oh hey there' and the next step is being genuinely interested in their life. Typically, during the summer, girls in my demographic are working at upscale restaurants. Since Tinder is geographically focused, a lot o…	/r/seduction	06/08/13 04:01 PM
6	What do you guys think about this uni library routine? My go-to number close is just telling a girl to give me her phone, then when she does, I send myself a dirty text. 70% of the time, it works every time. If she doesn't agree to give me her phone after 1 rebuttal, I literally just walk away. Only drawback is every once in a while I end up running around the club trying to give a girl her cell-phone back because her friends dragged her away while I was in the process. I've actually ended up going home with girls phones twice, and when they come to…	/r/seduction	19/07/13 03:30 PM
0	I'm so lost... You are the best novelty account in the world.	/r/seduction	19/07/13 03:09 PM
3	What do you guys think about this uni library routine? 'Annoyed bitch' is your first problem. Don't get all butthurt when a girl doesn't want to talk to you. Just be like, "ok can I just borrow your cellphone briefly" If they ask why, "to put my phone number in so you can notify me when I'm allowed to talk to you" If they don't ask, just put your number in her phone and send yourself a mildly dirty text or a heart. You can try that, or just ask what she's studying and go for the gold and get her to the point that she either tells you to go away mult…	/r/seduction	19/07/13 03:07 PM
1	Can someone explain to me what it means to both be outcome independent and to let you intentions be known at the same time? Easiest way to look at it: Sleeping and sex are equally great things. Just go out to a bar knowing that you will do one or the other upon leaving, and you will be satisfied either way.	/r/seduction	19/07/13 02:57 PM
3	I'm so lost... Focus on your grammar and delivery through written word and then we'll talk.	/r/seduction	19/07/13 02:54 PM
2	Can someone provide us with examples of openers in different situations (clubs, on the street, at school, grocery stores, pubs, gym, park, concerts, festivals, parties...) Her: "Oh, hi...?" Then you just be a man and have a conversation with a woman. If you don't know how to do that... ask someone who does.	/r/seduction	19/07/13 02:52 PM
1	I have over 100 numbers of attractive girls I approached last year on the street with day game. Most of them never picked up the phone. With my new smartphone, I can text them. How should I do it? This is gold.	/r/seduction	19/07/13 02:46 PM
2	What do you guys think about this uni library routine? Meh. "hey im [that fucking guy who is about to interrupt you getting done what you came here to do.]" That seems better to me. Making them read a card is more likely to annoy them more. When you go up and say hey, you imply: talking to you is more important than whatever they are studying you don't really give a shit about offending or annoying her you have the balls to talk to someone without some postcards And all of the sudden you're in a position of power and you came across significantly mo…	/r/seduction	19/07/13 02:44 PM
3	Game in a foreign country as a tourist Typically, local people will catch the vibe that you're a tourist off the bat. Broseidon's opener is pretty foolproof, when I'm abroad I usually open making it immediately clear that I'm not a local. Sometimes that's as innocent as jokingly pretending I'm lost, other times I've literally opened by asking if women from X country that I'm in are good in bed, and had a lot of success with that. Things to make sure you do as a tourist: play up the language barrier if there is one, helps your get awa…	/r/seduction	19/07/13 02:25 PM
3	Overcoming oneitis and jealousy This is all great advice here. Like everyone says 'approach more women', but you need to understand why. Once you start approaching a lot of women, you will come to understand that you are in abundance. You are surrounded by great women, and any girl out there could be the girl of your dreams, realistically. Once you come to terms with the fact that one girl isn't the end of the world, and there will be another if you lose her, you put yourself in a position of power. Another thing you need to u…	/r/seduction	19/07/13 02:16 PM
4	Seddit, I have two questions. Tap her on the shoulder and ask what song she's listening to. = You have balls.	/r/seduction	02/07/13 06:31 PM