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| 2 | I really have no idea what to do about this text."I'm not looking to date anybody right now" always means "I'm not looking to date you right now" Hit on other girls in front of her and treat her like she has a dick between her legs. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 03:31 PM |
| 2 | [FR] HB8 with boyfriend; Number closeShame on you, when she says she has a boyfriend, tell her it was nice meeting her (put her in the friendzone) and leave. Do NOT be that guy or you're life will turn to shit (karma is real my friend). | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 02:31 PM |
| 1 | I really have no idea what to do about this text.You could have also done, "That's fine", then precede to hit on every girl you see in front of her and make her become jealous you don't pay attention to her and she will start chasing you. Might work might not, but at least she would start chasing you if that's the way it worked out. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Post your job, and lets work together to frame it in the best way.Same here, I either tell people I'm a dolphin trainer or that I fix things that aren't broken. | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 03:06 PM |
| 2 | How would you handle a really successful, older HB?I'm not going to be any help here, just wanna say that usually those bridges collapse after you cross them, so be careful. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Knowing when to quitI don't know.... is it worth your time? Only you can make the judgement of how valuable your time is, if she's wasting too much time, that's time spent you could have been meeting girls who are more into you. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 01:36 PM |
| 3 | How do you turn down a girl that isn't your type?Make it abundantly clear that you aren't interested, if girls are persistent when I really don't like them I kind of become a huge dick. By huge dick I don't mean saying shit to her, I mean acting like she's a fucking ghost and not even there, look over or past her and never act like she's there. She will get the hint pretty quickly. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Discouraged. Friend Zone issues. Tips?Good job, she doesn't want to "see" anyone, but she wants to hang out and waste your time. If you were a beta you would have said "ok" and she would have treated you like her boyfriend except you wouldn't have fucked and she would have used you emotionally. If you want to try and salvage something, wait a few days before texting her again. Ask her to hang out, escalate, and if it doesn't go anywhere then I would personally cut it off. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 03:19 PM |
| 1 | BallsWell most of us programmers are smart as fuck, there's no reason we shouldn't be able to figure this stuff out as well. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 02:16 PM |
| 1 | They can't take me seriously...Good thing, because I think only 1 in 10000 girls would respond to that, and she probably would give you aids. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 01:49 PM |
| 1 | They can't take me seriously...Ok creeper | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Got a number. Called no answer. Now what?I agree with DaggerStone, she could just be busy. Text her again Saturday telling you to meet somewhere for drinks. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Got a number. Called no answer. Now what?In this situation, I probably would have at least txted her the next day letting her know that I am busy but I'm gonna call her in a few days to ask her out. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 05:04 PM |
| 7 | Got a number. Called no answer. Now what?Don't wait 4 days next time... 3 day rule is bullshit | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 04:52 PM |
| 1 | They can't take me seriously...There's a difference between direct and stupid. I would never tell a girl I don't know her ass is amazing... that's just going to set off creep alarms in her head. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Looking for a little advice on creating some sexual tensionNo mean's yes and yes means anal? | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How old are you? (basic question)24 | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Advice for dealing with AMOG's/Assholes in day to day context.Situation 1: Tell the customer to hold for a second, put your hand over the mouth piece, and say "Excuse me guys, I'm trying to take this order so can you go have girl talk over there, thanks". Say it really fucking loud and really sarcastically so everyone hears you and knows you are half joking half serious. Stare them all down when you say it, stand tall and look fucking pissed. Situation 2: Bring a voice recorder, wait for it to happen again, get him to say that shit on a voice recording and… | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I even try since I can't get it?I bet your parent's would be more open to the idea of you bringing a girl home if you had a job. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Can't approach.. don't want to feel patheticNever settle, you are awesome and you deserve the best | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Starting a new life. Could use some starting help !Just meet everyone you see, talk to them, and show genuine interest in them. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 03:52 PM |
| 1 | [txt] Had Sex but messed up my game after! What did i do wrong?Me: Mumford and sons. Your such a hipster. What a fucking idiot... why would you say that? That's not even teasing that's just downright disrespectful. She's going all the way out there to see a band she really likes and you don't even tease her you just put her down completely... I stopped reading here and gave you a downvote. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Having stuff to talk about?Yea pretty much, people love to talk about themselves, and if you make people feel awesome by becoming truly interested (or even at least appearing that way) in their life they will love you for it. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 08:58 PM |
| 9 | Having stuff to talk about?This stuff applies to more then just picking up girls. The first thing you should realize is that this community is about two things: self-improvement and pick up. I take more out of the self-improvement part of this community then the pick up, but that doesn't mean I don't want to get laid. I've been a beta my whole life, get into a conversation and constantly seek validation from the other person by saying "I do this or I've done that". The biggest thing I've learned is to STOP THIS, stop seek… | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Having stuff to talk about?Sounds like you are an AFC. This is okay, because you can become better than an AFC. Start first by reading the information in the sidebar, especially the stuff about giving value. If you don't like something about yourself, change it. Only you can make you happy, no one else can do it for you, realize this and put it in action and I guarantee you see improvements. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 08:34 PM |
| 2 | How much does a polar bear weigh?Or with a bigger girl you can be a complete asshole and say, "not as much as you". Just kidding don't ever do this it's horrible and you should never pick on somebody because of their weight. I just remember using this line my freshman year of college and my asshole roommate used to use the not as much as you line on fat chicks just to be a dick. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 06:41 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Day game on the train back home, #-close.Dude that seemed incredibly solid to me. I wouldn't text too much but what you did seemed like it reinforced comfort plus now you guys have an inside joke with the spy thing. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 07:07 PM |
| 7 | Who do you think is the best example of the seduction community in media?The Dennis system from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 06:52 PM |
| 2 | (FR) Night of "success". Ran into a girl from high school who seemed very interested.Regardless, if she breaks up with him for you, what's to say she won't do that to you for another guy? | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What are your horror stories? Worst blow ups and goofs?Was making out with a girl. She bit my lip so fucking hard I started to bleed I know that feeling bro, I was hooking up with a girl about 3 weeks ago and this was happening. I told her to stop biting so hard 3 times before I eventually gave up and kicked her out. Biting hurts and it's a complete turn off to me, a little bit is okay and actually kind of nice, but when I'm sure I'm going to be the next miami zombie victim it's kind of alarming. | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Stop getting into AFC/chode mood?Honestly, stand up straighter, take your hands out of your pocket, and make your shoulders wider. Be bigger and take up some space. Always be aware of who's around you through your peripheral vision and when people bump into you, be more solid. You wanna be alpha, then be an alpha and don't let people move you around, you are a person who deserves their own space, so stand up for yourself. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Approached a girl for the first time in a while, where to go from here?It's not only to build tension, it's so you don't come across as needy and clingy. Nobody want's to meet someone and then having someone become instantly attached to them. | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 03:38 PM |
| 1 | 10 rules for getting and keeping hoes from actual pimp.it is to us... | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 08:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Approach practice at mallYou should have physically picked her up and been like, now you make 5. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Are attractive men more interested in Fat chicks/.?That is a really good point and I'll definitely reevaluate my opinions because of it and because this does happen. What I mean however, is I won't go out of my way to hang out with and be around people like that all the time. The people I spend my time with are highly motivated individuals both intellectually and physically. With fatness (imo, because I used to be fat) comes lazyness and a lack of motivation. | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Opened a girl today for the second time. Got totally rejected. I feel devastated.Yea it might of been a bit of a reality shock, but how fucking good did that feel? Honestly, forget about being rejected, how amazing did it feel to finally grow a pair of balls, be a man, and do something like approaching a girl. All those times you've been afraid, those past weeks of "eyeing" her, everytime telling yourself, "I should talk to her, what should I say?" then waiting and inevitably not doing it and seeming like a creep. You will get better in time. But next time, instead of thinki… | /r/seduction | 15/08/12 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts, MILF nextdoorDude just walk over there and introduce yourself, say welcome to the neighborhood, and start teasing her like you would any other girl. Just get really flirty with her, at the very least you'll get to meet your neighbor instead of just staring at her from across the street. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Are attractive men more interested in Fat chicks/.?I am not interested in fat chicks, I'm no 10 but I won't touch fat chicks. I won't even be friends with fat people. Imo it shows you are friends with people who don't care about themselves. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 05:10 PM |
| 1 | HBitty incubator: Setting yourself up for an easy re-entry to dating after breaking up by planting seeds during the relationship.This is honestly a pretty shitty thing to do, don't be exclusive if you are just going to break up with them. Always (or at least try to) leave them better then you found them. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 05:05 PM |
| 7 | [FR] My fasted #-close yet - and a question to go with itThe girl next to you scoffed because you ignored her and picked up another girl right in front of her lol | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Advice on a recent bar hookup, how to pursue? Did I make a mistake?I just feel bars are more for ons/snl type deal. Whereas daygame, you can come off as natural and build more a rapport and get her more invested and maybe then you can do a fwb. | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Advice on a recent bar hookup, how to pursue? Did I make a mistake?If you want a stable hookup, she's probably not it. She seems like she has her own thing going and doesn't want anyone to be a part of it right now. Try going to the bars again it might just surprise you! Also in my opinion, bars are not the place to go for a fwb type deal, daygame has way more opportunity. | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 07:16 PM |
| 7 | Talk to muchCompletely unaware of problem Aware of problem hours after it happens Aware of problem minutes after it happens Aware of problem while it happens and corrects it Always aware of the problem and never lets it happen again. Almost there! | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Very ImpracticalDude, haha that shit happens to me. When it's really bright my right eye can't handle it and I walk around like a friggin pirate all day | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 05:34 PM |
| 8 | I have a really bad case of oneitis. [Updated]The best payback is to never talk to them again, just live your life to the fullest and never look back. It sucks but you'll find someone else, I'm going through my own oneitis, although at this point I really don't care about her anymore. I get the urge to text her and I just go, na fuck that. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 04:06 PM |
| 1 | How I dealt with "Can I bring a friend?" [Mini-FR]You're an angry little man, you're profile shows you mostly being downvoted into oblivion, that usually indicates you doing something wrong. Also the way you write tells me you are a bit younger. I didn't think his text was beta at all, it was funny and to the point. Although I would have said, "So, does that mean you're coming alone then?" If she shows up alone you're good, if she brings her friend ignore her and hit on other girls in front of her. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Girls I'm dating pressuring me into sex. How do I respond.Yea I was under the impression that that is how most relationships these days start. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Abundance mentality and the dream girl.Dude it's your life, the best part about all of this is it's up to you what you want. I view PUA and gaming as something to do that will help improve me until it leads me to the girl of my dreams. Fuck oneitis and all that, if you think you like someone enough to be in a relationship with them, then go try it. It's your life do what the fuck you want, only take what fits into your morals from this community, don't try and be someone you are not. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 09:01 PM |
| 1 | You don't need Inner-game, its just one path to successSure, you can sleep with women without having strong inner game, but you'll never be the best version of who you are, which should lead you to finding the best people possible. Imo, just because this is r/seduction doesn't mean it shouldn't be about improvement. Nobody want's to be with a shitty person. Be the best person you can, then everyone will want to be with you and you won't have to fake anything. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 07:52 PM |
| 12 | How I dealt with "Can I bring a friend?" [Mini-FR]Great line, I liked it. Definitely keep us updated. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Working On My RebirthGood read, this gives me faith. If anything, imo people down south are more rude then compared to up in New England, so good job there. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 01:54 PM |
| 7 | Another painful example of ignorance towards our communityI don't give a flying fuck what anyone says about this community. Without this community I would still be the same AFC beta who sips on his beer in the corner of the bar all night. I would be the guy who can barely order his meal from a cute waitress because she might judge what I'm ordering. I would be the guy who still has oneitis over someone who took me for granted and used me until they found someone else. I would be lost, useless, and only at 5% of my true potential. I owe a lot to this co… | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Men of Reddit, Is Being Called a Dork a Good Thing?It's teasing and teasing is usually an IOI, unless she was like "You're such a dork!" and then stormed out all mad, I would say "Yea well you're a total knucklehead!", kino, and tons of flirty eye contact while you say it. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 02:05 PM |
| 1 | I owe a lot to seddit, thanks a lot guys!Instead of putting her on the pedestal, put her on the toilet? Interesting... | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 11:45 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with one night stands/girls you like and never hear from again?That's because seddit is about abundance. | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 11:43 PM |
| 1 | I want to bag this girl, she has a crush on my younger brother...I would: 1. Show interest then stop completely 2. Invite her out with other people (have a girl there you also like) 3. Flirt like crazy with the other girl in front of her, make it hard for only her to get your attention, everyone else gets it easily. If she doesn't go for it from there then well, you should have flirted with the other girl enough to where you now have her if you want. Kind of sounds like you might be getting oneitis though? | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 08:49 PM |
| 20 | How do you deal with one night stands/girls you like and never hear from again?Find more girls | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Shit test help - are you interested in [girl name]?"No... why are you?" | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Seddit I need your help to transition out of being a textbook betaAs a fellow programmer who was experiencing this same sort of stuff at the beginning I can relate to what you are going through. Sometimes it just sucks talking to some people because you might wanna talk about coding, but obviously they have no clue and can't even begin to relate. What I've found that helps is to get more hobbies and interests, you can't be an awesome person who gives value if you just sit around surfing reddit watching cops in your underwear playing drums. You have to meet peo… | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Anxiety leading up to going out"I'm a little worried that people will think I'm weird for being there alone/trying to meet people there" If you make it weird, it will be. Otherwise just be a good guy that provides a lot of value to the people you meet and they won't let you go anywhere, but obviously never overstay your welcome. If you are about to approach people and you start having second thoughts, then you are thinking too much. Just walk up to them and start talking. Don't worry about being rejected, it's not like you wi… | /r/seduction | 20/07/12 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Living with my parentsI slept with a girl at my parents place, if you let it be awkward it will be. At 20 I would make an attempt to live on my own though, regardless of how much I have to work during school. | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Getting out of the third wheel position"I know if I ever find someone I will treat them like a princess" You're putting women in general on a pedestal. Why would you ever treat someone like a princess? Treat them like a human being, give and get emotionally if you really like them, but don't go out of your way trying to please them by treating them like a princess, that shows you value them more then you value yourself. Some girls may like this, but those are the kind that will use you, get out of this mindset. I moved in with friend… | /r/seduction | 17/07/12 06:08 PM |
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