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Good story. I have similar things happen with girls and while it was good at the time, it's made me not take women seriously anymore. I could never trust a girl after the shit I've seen doing seduction. Also, I se women as really easily manipulated.
/r/seduction05/04/13 10:25 AM
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Does he realize he is doing it? I had a friend do that once but he was just so accustomed to interacting with girls that way that I don't think he really intended to fuck with me in that way it just happened a lot until I started to go more independent and improve.
/r/seduction03/03/13 04:37 AM
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You teach people how to treat you by the vibe you give off. If you are self-conscious about being alone, they will pick up on this. If you are really comfortable with it, they won't think about it. Just focus on giving other people a good time.
/r/seduction27/01/13 06:21 AM
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If you don't dance well, just drink more till you do. You'll learn eventually.
/r/seduction27/01/13 04:36 AM
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This is exactly right. Don't go "hunting" for a chick. If you are too forward and just kind of grab her, she will push you away or retreat to her friends. Just go and have fun. Dance like a fool, you'll notice chicks coming up to you. It's about leading with your energy. Make other people feel like they want to be apart of your party.
/r/seduction27/01/13 04:35 AM
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I had this issue once. 4 girls all co-workers/friends. All overtly interested in me. Almost fucked one of them, but she was too afraid of her friends hating her, and she didn't trust me not to go for her friends too. Despite a few weeks of effort I never did get with any of them. It's tricky. Best of luck.
/r/seduction25/01/13 04:03 PM
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Yeah I'm not saying don't fuck lots of women. I'm saying, after awhile that isn't your goal. You start to screen for chicks who are going to be more trouble than they are worth. Is fucking a girl you aren't serious about one night worth her annoying the shit out of you for the next month w/txts and phone calls. When you have enough options and have gotten over your ego and the need for just one more notch, it isn't worth it. You start looking for quality with as little bullshit as possible. For …
/r/seduction25/01/13 08:43 AM
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I think there are two general types of confidence men can possess. The strong hero type. He is tough and stoic. Prepared to deal with some kind of problem, usually physical danger, he is focused on his task and doesn't talk much or show emotion. This makes him appear "capable" to women, but in everyday circumstances his serious presence doesn't put people at ease. A woman may find him "hot" but she probably doesn't feel his warmth. The second type is "charismatic" confidence found in the politic…
/r/seduction24/01/13 03:12 PM
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Are we that desperate? Consider the consequences of a hook up. Is this chick really into you? Is she going to call you 5x a day after? Could having her as an enemy disrupt other things in your life? Is she married/has a boyfriend?
/r/seduction24/01/13 02:35 PM
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Yeah this is good stuff. You also kind of get to the point where you start wondering if you really even want to put up with the shit a particular girl brings with her. You start screening more. When I first started I would've done anything to get a HB9 into bed with me. I would've cancelled any of my plans and put up with anything just to have her. Now, I first ask - do I have enough free time in my private life for her now? If yes, then I ask lots of questions to get a feel for the girl. If I t…
/r/seduction23/01/13 06:28 PM
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"Action seems to follow feeling, but really action and feeling go together; and by regulating the action, which is under the more direct control of the will, we can indirectly regulate the feeling, which is not." William James Solution to the chicken and egg problem is acting like you are already in state. You do the power poses, smile a lot, laugh loudly, make eye contact with people, kino everyone.
/r/seduction14/01/13 07:09 AM
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I've been thinking about this stuff a lot lately myself. It's motivated me to cut drugs and masterbation out of my life. I drink less, eat better, exercise more. I'm still not "there" yet, but I notice it's easier for me to become conscious of my state of mind. When I'm about to do something I frequently ask myself - is this coming from a place of "state"? Other times I get rejected and I realize I just wasn't drawing energy from the right place. The key is to push through though and laugh about…
/r/seduction14/01/13 07:04 AM
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This and just smile to yourself.
/r/seduction07/01/13 07:11 AM
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I would rather "win" the girl and you don't have to do that if you just pay for sex. Also, I think it is ridiculous that men have to pay for sex. If we're all about gender equality in these times, and the woman is receiving pleasure as well, why the fuck should anyone be profiting?
/r/seduction06/01/13 09:48 AM
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Yeah I learned this myself. There is "opportunity cost" but there's also another price you pay for not settling at the right point in the night. If you don't pick sets you end up with nothing. Doing 15-20 sets in a single venue can make you look like a desperate fool.
/r/seduction06/01/13 02:09 AM
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I know what you mean man. It's about being outcome independent too. I was out with friends at a club a week ago. They had It in their head that they were out to find a girl to take home and fuck. The whole time they just went around from girl to girl hunting. When one rejected them, they would move to the next. They went home without any girls. I played that night a little differently. Instead of "hunting" or even paying any attention to girls, I just decided to have fun. I took shots with frien…
/r/seduction06/01/13 01:58 AM
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Yeah - for one, my logistics are messed up. I don't have my own place in the city, so must either close the day I'm there at a friends place or get a number and hope she is still interested next week. Two, I'm still not great at day game. I am good at the club/dance game. But, approaching out of nowhere in broad daylight still doesn't feel right to me. So yes - to 2013 and improvement!
/r/seduction06/01/13 01:32 AM
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Here is the thing - some of this red pill stuff is true in theory. Sometimes I am angry at the way women act as a gender. But, ultimately you can't change it and ultimately, you want love/sex in your life, so this kind of thinking serves no purpose. Being angry at women isn't going to help you with seduction. It isn't going to help you be positive and contribute value. It isn't going to help you be happy.
/r/seduction02/01/13 07:15 PM
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There was a post a few days ago about a guy who had cops called on him
/r/seduction02/01/13 06:33 PM
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No underage girls. Avoid prostitutes at all costs. Use condoms and get tested. Avoid married women. Generally, I don't lie.
/r/seduction01/01/13 07:12 PM
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Dude, I'm at the same place as you. In someways booze has taught me a lot since I started - like how it feels to be in the right mindset, how to approach, how to dance like fool, etc. The problem is waking up hungover and realizing you are your boring self again. This has actually hurt me quite a bit. I'll get a girls number at night, hit it off with her really well, and then plan on f-closing her the next day, But, the next day comes and I'm all tired, boring, and hungover. I've decided to star…
/r/seduction01/01/13 10:48 AM
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This post is a joke.
/r/seduction30/12/12 07:29 PM
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Dude, as someone who is good looking, let me tell you that it is barely anything. I've lost girls to dudes who are shorter and uglier than me. My looks only ever really become relevant when I've already put my seduction work in. That's when they start with the "your so attractive/handsome. You look like Christian bale/etc. bs." it hardly matters in getting uninitiated IOIs, I've found.
/r/seduction30/12/12 07:13 AM
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Do people really have conversations through text? I only use txts really for logistical stuff, ie. setting plans. On rare occasions I use a flirty text with girls I want to maintain a connection with but can't feasibly "close" atm.. it Anything else I'd rather talk on the phone.
/r/seduction28/12/12 06:24 PM
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This is a good question. Obviously, bars and clubs are the big ones. I also like meeting girls on the beach. For some reason, I can never get the confidence to approach a girl in a coffee shop or randomly on the street.
/r/seduction28/12/12 09:30 AM
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This is right. I heard someone on here say once that you should act like someone is pulling your hair on the top of your head. This gets your neck straight. But also, remember to relax your shoulders.
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:23 AM
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Just spit out my drink
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:13 AM
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I gotta agree with Insickness here
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:12 AM
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No I'm reflecting on what I did wrong and sharing that with the group. Obviously my game is not good if I overdid something and lost a girl I liked. I think we push the confidence/alpha thing hard here, but obviously it needs to be calibrated. That's what I learned from this. Thats what I want others to be aware of.
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:00 AM
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I don't think I was clear enough in my post. I was way past needing to kino her. She was into me and the plan was we were going home to fuck. Haha, she actually caught me trying to buy condoms at the bar and said, "no don't do that, I already have some in my purse." As others have said, I think I just alpha - ego-tripped the fuck out.
/r/seduction27/12/12 06:31 PM
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Doing anything on the computer, playing with my phone, playing video games makes me feel less social and hurts my ability to pick up girls.
/r/seduction27/12/12 05:43 PM
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It sounds weird, but it's the culture here. Girls won't go for just any guy either. It isn't like picking up a whore on the street (those exist too). You'll have to work to get them, but then when you do, they still ask for a "cab fare" to get home in the morning (which is really just payment for the sex because they want 5x what the actual cab fare would be). I've tried to kick girls out, but they will throw a fit and get violent. One time I hinted during the evening that I refused to pay for s…
/r/seduction27/12/12 05:34 PM
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Ah fuuuck you are right. One thing that I didn't mention in the post though is there are a lot of prostitutes in the country I live. Even if you think you've won a chick, she sometimes turns out to ask for money in the morning. I try to screen for this with little hints and questions but it is still super prevalent (sometimes girls get offended if you outright ask). So, this played a factor in it. I was trying to get her so invested that it was obvious she wanted me no matter what. Still have so…
/r/seduction27/12/12 04:53 PM
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Good find. He has some luck here even though he never speaks a word of English. For real life situations, I think he pushed it a little too far. It's best if you do know a bit of the local language. This way they feel they can actually communicate with you. Also, when you do transition to their language they feel somewhat relieved and also like you're doing them a favor (creates sort of a feeling of inferiority when someone knows your language but you don't know theirs). You may also just strike…
/r/seduction27/12/12 09:05 AM
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Yes, this is important too. I find I have the best luck in clubs where no one can really speak anyway. Showing confidence and a fun attitude through body language is key.
/r/seduction27/12/12 07:53 AM
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I kind of started out this seduction thing just wanting to get laid at any cost. After awhile, I realized I was just wasting my time, energy, and money with a lot of undesirable but easy chicks. I also started to find random hook ups emotionally unsatisfying and ultimately meaningless. They're great for an ego boost and another notch in your belt, but I don't need sex so much that I am willing to put in a lot of effort "gaming" a chick for a one night drunken fuck. This doesn't mean I don't stil…
/r/seduction26/12/12 10:26 AM
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