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| 273 | A Porn Producer's Take on Bridgerton and Similar Explicit Shows: They Are No Different From Porn.I wish there were fewer sex scenes in shows, it’s gotten to be way too much in some shows where the sex scenes don’t advance the plot at all! Some of the sex scenes in bridgerton season one advanced the plot but many were definitely unnecessary. The worst offender I’ve seen lately was you season 3. Soo many sex scenes and basically all of them felt gratuitous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 04:08 AM |
| 4 | Such a refreshing example of how a HVM would respond to his wife’s fear of laborEver heard of adoption? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 01:06 AM |
| 26 | Such a refreshing example of how a HVM would respond to his wife’s fear of laborWhile I think this is nice in the context of the relationship, overall I think hiring a surrogate is not ethical. He’s accepted that his wife is scared of pregnancy and doesn’t want to go through it so his solution is paying someone who is so poor that she has to sell her body? It doesn’t make pregnancy less traumatic or dangerous to be paid for it. It’s still commodifying women’s bodies and treating them like objects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:43 AM |
| 58 | I need support, I think I need to break up with himDoes nobody here read the handbook? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, I need your advice!Read the handbook, if you did that you’d already know what we are going to say. No, it’s not worth your time - don’t be a rebound | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Do i even need to say anythingBye scrote 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Fast ban challenge: I support equalityLol bye scrote 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:08 PM |
| 150 | Why “safewording” is not as safe as the kink community paints it to be. 💔 ‘consent’ here really doesn’t mean much when it comes to trying to claim it isn’t abuse. There’s an unhealthy power dynamic where the ‘sub’ feels like they cannot deny their ‘dom’ of pleasure through being put through torture.This is so disturbing. I’m glad to see so many based responses though. Side note: this post has no upvotes right now and 4 hidden comments, so you’ve clearly triggered some disgusting bdsm scrotes who are mad that we are telling the truth about them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 11:59 PM |
| 133 | What are some good dating green flags?Of course you need the usual big things (respect, generosity, genuine care, etc) but they also should surprise you with small green flags specific to you. When I started dating my bf I commented one time that I liked the seat warmer in his car. Since then, every time he picks me up, the seat is preheated for me, and if we get in the car at the same time, the first thing he does is turn on my seat warmer. I can give lots of small examples like this, but I guess the main thing to look for beyond a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Ia Zelensky a HVM?I completely agree that it wasn’t up to the staff, and that it’s absolutely messed up that individuals were being racist and not letting POC on some of the trains. I’m just saying I don’t think it’s fair to blame Zelenskyy for this, since it wasn’t government policy and furthermore the government is currently doing what it can to get POC out. Furthermore, while I do believe racial issues are important, I don’t believe that this should be a major focus of the president when his country is being b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Ia Zelensky a HVM?This is true. But keep in mind that it is hard to make decisions during a war and during the initial evacuations priority was given to women and children. There are also tens of millions of Ukrainians who want to get out but still aren’t able to. The president has literally been on the frontlines of the war and is more concerned right now with keeping his country existing separately from Russia and not getting bombed to oblivion. People are getting hurt everywhere and inevitably some are being l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 06:37 PM |
| 5 | Ia Zelensky a HVM?Ukraine is evacuating all foreign students (who are the BIPOC in Ukraine) today. The Ukrainian minister of foreign affairs Dmytro Kuleba tweeted a hotline for them to call today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 06:17 PM |
| 40 | What's the difference between harmless dirty talk and objectification?Girl no. He sounds like a love bomber and possessive. Pedo vibes too with calling you a “little girl” and being obsessed with how small you are. 🚩🚩🚩 I think deep down you know something’s wrong because you wouldn’t be posting here otherwise, and you wouldn’t feel the need to preface it with “he’s so great, here are all these great things HOWEVER…” if a behavior is a red flag, it’s a red flag - regardless of all the other great things that he does. If you took out all the positive things you wrot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:15 AM |
| 19 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”The difference is that turning it off and then on again actually works 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 05:01 PM |
| 8 | Jewish Women- Please Be Careful Out ThereMy ex in high school made an antisemitic joke early on in our relationship and then when I told him it wasn’t funny and he shouldn’t joke about things like that he said “nothing in humor should be off limits” I stayed with him for 4 years 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:28 PM |
| 15 | FDS approved TV-shows?I really liked “The Great” on Hulu. It’s a not very historically accurate telling of Catherine the Great’s (of Russia) coup against her husband to take the throne. The first season shows her evolving into a badass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:25 AM |
| 21 | Congrats ladies!This is awesome! Great to see that the article is quite positive too. Sounds like more and more women are picking up on the fact that we’re right on this subreddit :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 08:19 AM |
| 30 | ' gOlD DigGeR 'Bro wtf 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 11:54 AM |
| 11 | How do you dress at home when living with an SO? Do you feel pressured to dress for his “male gaze.” Does he complain or suggest things? Y’alls experience?I generally wear whatever I want and often (especially during the pandemic) it ends up being sweats and sweaters or baggy shirts. I never get any negative comments from my bf and he regularly says I look cute/beautiful. He does compliment me and my outfits when I put more effort into dressing well, but it’s never in a way that indicates that he expects or wants me to do that more often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | What's the WORST COSMO ADVICE you've ever seen on the topic of dating, sex, and relationships?What does Jewish have to do with it 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Real article from a real estate agency in Bathurst, regional New South Wales Australia🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 11:06 PM |
| 19 | Let's spread some hope and remember there ARE HVM out there! :)I’ve been with my boyfriend for just a bit over a year so I’m still vetting but so far I believe he’s a HVM. Some examples: He’s incredibly supportive of my career. Recently my phd advisor invited me to spend a few months at an institute in a different country to do research, and my boyfriend was immediately supportive and reassuring. I was honestly overwhelmed by how incredible it feels to be supported when making decisions like this rather than being asked to sacrifice career opportunities for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 08:02 PM |
| 11 | Vegan vs. Non-vegan menMy bf is vegan but he went vegan after we started dating (by his own choice). I love being in a relationship with a vegan and honestly if we ever break up I don’t think I would be in a relationship with a non-vegan, it’s just one of my standards now. I would start dating someone who isn’t vegan yet, but if I can tell that they wouldn’t be open to the lifestyle then I wouldn’t continue dating them. I definitely have seen what you mean about vegan guys though, very often they are LV and super miso… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:14 AM |
| 16 | i think my eyes rolled back so far i saw my brain.I met my HVM boyfriend on tinder. I know it’s rare and overall the apps are a cesspool but they do exist on there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 05:01 AM |
| 25 | What are some characters in films you think are HVMs or women who follow the ‘strategy’ (FDS)?I love Diane! It bothers me so much how much hate she gets from male viewers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:54 AM |
| 107 | Honestly, this wakeup call really is what I needed to turn me off the idea of spontaneous blowjobs for goodWhat is this obsession men on Reddit have with compliments?? Literally every post it’s like “iT is sO HaRD to bE a MaN beCaUSe ComPLiMenT” I know many men who get compliments, maybe it’s because they have qualities worth complimenting?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Duck hunting is akin to breathing for duck hunters and wives should be happy that their spouse abandons their family 60 days every year. This post is viral and the comments are so awful. And- where im from, duck hunters literally only sleep, eat, work and duck hunt during duck season.This is disgusting 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 10:15 AM |
| 37 | So I have a question and while I don't know if it necessarily fits in this sub, but I don't trust other women's subs to give me a straight answer.You should definitely do it. Preface it by saying you know this conversation might be a little awkward but it’s important because you care about her and you want to do what you can to make sure she doesn’t have to go through the horrible things that some of your friends/acquaintances have. You should tell her your goal isn’t to freak her out but to make sure she’s aware of some really real dangers in the world. Good luck! I’m glad she has someone like you looking out for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:45 PM |
| 33 | Whelp it’s the end of an era y’all. r/UnpopularOpinion moderators and their selective application of the rules only on women who have actual unpopular opinions that they don’t personally like strikes again.Wow I’m interested to see how they try to justify this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:16 AM |
| 26 | They think they can last a day without women, let alone a life time! Goodbye, and good luck to them!I would LOVE it if they went their own way. Leave us the fuck alone thanks 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 11:26 AM |
| 76 | Hard to choose just one flair for this NVM...He’s literally using her body as a fleshlight while watching porn on his screen and she’s worried she’s a bitch for not feeling comfortable with that. Girl needs a rescue mission | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:17 AM |
| 80 | Hard to choose just one flair for this NVM...Yeah it’s horrendous. I know that it’s terrible to be a woman in this patriarchal world but I still find new ways to be astounded every day. I can’t believe she’s gaslit herself to this extent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:15 AM |
| 5 | When a HVM messes upIt’s amazing once you realize it doesn’t have to be the way it is with LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:05 AM |
| 4 | When a HVM messes upThey’re out there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:58 AM |
| 24 | When a HVM messes upYeah I thought it would be good to make a post about this topic, obviously there are other hv behaviors to look for but even HVM do mess up and it’s important to see how they’d react! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:38 AM |
| 17 | When a HVM messes upThanks, yeah it’s been almost a year!They’re out there 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:36 AM |
| 11 | When a HVM messes upWe’re long distance for a few months because I had a career opportunity in a different country (I posted about it earlier). It isn’t ideal but I trust him at this point. Always vetting though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:35 AM |
| 70 | Which one of you ladies did this? 😂I hope people aren’t telling her she’s too harsh! But that’s probably expecting too much from reddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:29 PM |
| 46 | This LVM is ruining her life without her consent. HOW IS THIS OK??Yes absolutely. It’s not a funny joke at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:06 PM |
| 220 | This LVM is ruining her life without her consent. HOW IS THIS OK??This is either a joke or this idiot is admitting to a crime on video. Either way he’s an idiot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:37 PM |
| 38 | MGTOW on Tinder lolLmao he actually expects to find someone who will respond “omg you’re SO right 😍please let me be your mommy bang maid who splits all the bills while you tell me how inferior I am 😍I go to the gym and look like the Instagram models you jerk off to without any makeup! Pick me! Pick me!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:54 PM |
| 8 | Go read Tanqueray’s story which is currently being told on humans of NY! She is an absolute queen - she didn’t lower her standards for anybody, not even one of the temptationsShe was passing him notes as a way to tease him.. and it’s the temptations lol I’m sure she enjoyed their concerts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:06 PM |
| 38 | “I don’t want to fuck her. Therefore, I can’t possibly endure even 30 minutes of conversation with her that won’t result in penetration.”More like he can tell she won’t fuck him 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:04 AM |
| 28 | Go read Tanqueray’s story which is currently being told on humans of NY! She is an absolute queen - she didn’t lower her standards for anybody, not even one of the temptationsThere’s a fb/instagram page called humans of New York where this guy posts photos of people he meets accompanied by some quote of theirs. This is a special 32 part feature on a 76 year old woman who has lived quite a life! I highly suggest reading it 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Men are to Women what Police are to Black PeopleNo. They’re much worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:52 AM |
| 4 | My bf threatened to take away my unborn child in a fight we had. Now he says he was emotional and didn’t mean itThis relationship is not what you deserve for the rest of your life. Please leave him and spare your unborn child (and your other children) from seeing you in an abusive relationship. Sending love and strength your way❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 10:28 PM |
| 6 | visiting my PhD advisor in a different country vs long distanceCan you elaborate on what you mean? I’m going to quarantine until I get a test if/when I go, and the country I’d be going to has done a much better job controlling the virus than the US, so I’m not really concerned about health. I am able to do work over zoom, but my productivity and motivation really doesn’t compare to when live meetings are possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 06:01 PM |
| 4 | visiting my PhD advisor in a different country vs long distanceYes, I am planning to go, but I’m trying to decide for how long! I guess I didn’t word this super clearly but I’m considering going for just 2 months out of the 5 that I could go for. It’s honestly not just the bf but also that I would feel kind of isolated in a new country with few friends during a pandemic, but I’m not sure exactly how much of my hesitation is due to not wanting to be long distance for so long. Part of my reasons for posting this was to sort out my own feelings, haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 05:56 PM |
| 4 | visiting my PhD advisor in a different country vs long distanceHonestly I think he would. His work is completely online so he can work from wherever and our whole relationship he has chosen to live near me. When I started grad school he got a place near me and then when I moved to my parents house during the pandemic he got a place near them, and he plans to move back up when I move back to my school too. It works out because both places were places he had lived in the past and has a lot of friends, so it’s not like he’s just following me around, but where … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 05:50 PM |
| 3 | visiting my PhD advisor in a different country vs long distanceHe can’t come because there are serious travel restrictions. People from the US aren’t really allowed to come unless they’re citizens, but my advisor was able to secure an exception for me. If it weren’t for the pandemic, I’d definitely go for the full time and then it would be up to my bf to come with me or visit (his job is entirely online so he could do it from any place) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 05:46 PM |
| 22 | We've got fans!So many of this dude’s complaints are like “they said that some men don’t deserve to reproduce! They said it’s ok if some men can’t have a family!!” The horror!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:25 AM |
| 10 | Vetting starts here and ends here before we meet. Ladies, cut to the chase. Let me know in the comments if you even ask a guy his stance on all these things or if you wait for an HVM to do it- getting tired of asking all the QsOf course! Yeah I think a true HVM would come to believe that porn is bad by himself. I wouldn’t want to date someone to whom I’d need to explain that an industry where women are trafficked and raped on camera is not something to support! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:40 PM |
| 21 | Vetting starts here and ends here before we meet. Ladies, cut to the chase. Let me know in the comments if you even ask a guy his stance on all these things or if you wait for an HVM to do it- getting tired of asking all the QsI didn’t have a stance on porn when I started dating my bf (just didn’t watch it and didn’t like it but I didn’t verbalize yet that I was morally against the industry) and he was the one who brought it up about a month in. We later had another discussion in which we talked in more detail about how harmful it is for the women involved, men who watch, and especially young teenagers exposed to it and reiterated that it’s not an industry either of us wants to support. I feel better about it knowing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:26 PM |
| 42 | Scrote mad that gf exchanged a pair of heels he got her for sandals and negs her saying she’d “look good if she wore heels more often.” One of the top comments says “maybe you were supposed to wear them in the bedroom” 🤮Exactly! She’s not a doll for him to dress up! And how someone can comment that she was “supposed to” wear them in the bedroom and then other people can upvote that without addressing the fucked up language baffles me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 07:28 PM |
| 0 | FDS works! HV Men are turned on by self respectThanks for your concern but this is kinda out of line and drawing serious conclusions from a small amount of information. I’m definitely not isolating myself and my boyfriend loves my family and my other friends, of which I have plenty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Is there any saving my friend? In a relationship with a man 16 years her senior.Sad :( do you think she’ll resent me once she gets out of this relationship and wonders why I didn’t do more to discourage her? I don’t want to lose her friendship now because of this but I also don’t want her to be hurt later and wonder why I didn’t do anything to get her out of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:51 AM |
| 22 | FDS works! HV Men are turned on by self respectHey, thanks for this comment! I was wondering if my post history would get brought up haha. I know that it can come across the way you read it, and I totally get why, but I can’t always give all the context because I don’t want to make my posts too long. I didn’t at all mean that I did what I did to get his approval. Browsing this sub has increased my self respect and my self love and confidence, and that mindset was what allowed me to respect myself in this situation. I didn’t expect it to do a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:47 AM |
| 3 | No words... what happens when you don’t make a big deal of special days in a relationship: you end up married to an LVM who doesn’t get you anything or acknowledge you when you have a baby, a birthday, an anniversary, and Mother’s Day in the span of two weeks (text in comments)A present given to a woman for pushing out a baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 07:09 PM |
| 81 | No words... what happens when you don’t make a big deal of special days in a relationship: you end up married to an LVM who doesn’t get you anything or acknowledge you when you have a baby, a birthday, an anniversary, and Mother’s Day in the span of two weeks (text in comments)He didn’t even forget! He sent a message saying he wasn’t going to do anything for her for any of these days so she shouldn’t expect anything. How tf do you get so deep in a relationship with a man like this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:39 AM |
| 196 | No words... what happens when you don’t make a big deal of special days in a relationship: you end up married to an LVM who doesn’t get you anything or acknowledge you when you have a baby, a birthday, an anniversary, and Mother’s Day in the span of two weeks (text in comments)What makes me SO mad about this is that she told him she’s unhappy that he didn’t do anything and he got upset because it “made him feel like a bad husband.” He’s a HORRIBLE husband!! LV men do this all the time - if you bring up something they’re doing that upsets you they get mad at you for making them feel bad and then you end up apologizing. Dump these men immediately! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:00 AM |
| 53 | No words... what happens when you don’t make a big deal of special days in a relationship: you end up married to an LVM who doesn’t get you anything or acknowledge you when you have a baby, a birthday, an anniversary, and Mother’s Day in the span of two weeks (text in comments)Here’s the text: AITA for being upset my husband ignored multiple special days in a row I'm just going to lay it out straight. My husband is across the country for work and has been since January. He won't be home until mid-June. He was supposed to be able to come home this past week, but can't because of current world circumstances. After a long pregnancy that was filled with me being very sick throughout, I gave birth last week to our second, obviously alone. It was outside of his control - wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 03:57 AM |
| 2 | What's up with girls watching their boyfriends play video games?!?!It baffles me that men seem to think that it’s acceptable in a relationship to use the time they spend with their girlfriends making them watch them play videogames. I remember getting super pissed at my ex for playing videogames for 40 min while I waited. The relationship ended pretty shortly after (he was a LVM who I stayed with for 4 years but this, among some other things was the final straw). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 10:48 PM |
| 27 | Men are so supportive.Are you fucking serious? “Have you tried telling your husband who obviously knows you are recovering from an eating disorder that it’s triggering when he tells you that your attempts to get healthy make his dick soft? Because he might not know that!!!” This shit makes me so mad. He OBVIOUSLY knows! He just doesn’t care at all about her health because her suffering to be skinny makes his dick hard and his dick is the most important thing of all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 10:06 PM |
| 17 | Do Porn-Free Men Even Exist?My bf doesn’t watch porn, but I think it’s definitely nonstandard. I started dating him before finding FDS and before forming my opinion that I wouldn’t date someone who watches it, so I got lucky in that sense. The reason why I’m sure he doesn’t watch is he was the one who brought it up, asking if I watch porn. I didn’t want to express a judgement either way so I said “not really” and then he proceeded to talk about how he doesn’t support it and would rather use his imagination. He still doesn’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 10:09 PM |
| 13 | I just realised I have no other qualities aside from what I can do for people..holy shit! I could have written this post lmao. following | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:52 AM |
| 127 | Not dating related but wtf..This is what frustrates me most about working with men... it's that if you express your boundaries you're viewed as a "buzzkill" because your comfort matters less than them having fun (aka being sexist/assholes) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 07:32 PM |
| 19 | Give up your personal life if you truly love methe men who agree with this are the same ones who will say that a woman who asks her partner to stop watching porn or to play fewer video games is "controlling and toxic" l m a o | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 10:41 PM |
| 37 | He finally showed me his true colors.Idk why people are being mean to you in comments. Most of us came to FDS after seeing LVM behavior for ourselves and FDS just explained it to us better. This just confirmed FDS for you and now you’ll be able to implement it in the future knowing it works and how important it is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 04:28 PM |
| 10 | Most unusual piece of dating advice you've heard?This is interesting and it makes sense (especially considering my ex was insecure and that, among other things, made being in the relationship unbearable) but I’m wondering how the guy should feel about you? Surely you don’t want someone who thinks you’re not worthy of him? And if he thinks he isn’t worthy of you but is a HVM won’t that make him work harder to be worthy of you and keep you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:44 PM |
| 8 | How to be a doormat: “Boyfriend of 16 years doesn’t pay forces sex”Dang if I hadn’t left my last relationship of 4 years this would totally be me. It’s crazy because I can totally relate to the feeling “I’m not happy and he sucks but I feel bad because if I leave him his life would get so much worse” but once you’re out of the relationship it becomes so clear. We don’t owe these men SHIT #kickhimout2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 11:04 PM |
| 23 | Is it normal for your boyfriend to masturbate to your friends? How would you react to finding out?Dump him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 08:11 AM |
| 4 | At what point should a guy say he loves you?Thank you, I needed to hear this! This makes a lot of sense and after reflecting honestly I think I probably want to hear him say it because then I’ll feel like it’s “safe” for me to fall in love with him. I definitely have a lot to learn and process but I definitely appreciate your advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 10:45 PM |
| 3 | At what point should a guy say he loves you?Thank you! This is why I love this sub! I think you’re right and I just want him to say it because it would make me feel more secure and more open to loving him. I can feel that he’s someone I want to fall in love with but tbh I’m scared to get hurt. I can feel myself pulling away because of this but I will make an effort to not have this fear get into my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 10:41 PM |
| 4 | At what point should a guy say he loves you?I’m open to having a conversation but I don’t really know what I would say. Any tips? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 07:33 PM |
| 3 | At what point should a guy say he loves you?Hmm I wouldn’t say it’s too soon because we’ve been dating for 8 months. My reasoning is if he doesn’t feel it now then maybe that means I’m a “for now” girlfriend and not someone he sees a serious future with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 09:31 AM |
| 4 | how to raise standards in a relationship with a HVM after having some pickme tendencies (pre-FDS) when I expressed that I don't like compliments, sappiness, being overly romantic, etc?Yes, thank you! I am so bad at expressing my needs/wants but I think I can do the ways you suggested :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 07:08 AM |
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