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I read the sidebar, didn't find anything concrete. Disciple “No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.” ― Socrates Physical Appearance Sexual Market value increase to women
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:39 AM
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I cant really directly ask her out because honestly- im a little scared it'll kill whatever i was building up untill this point If you don't ask her out, you're building up a friendship. The only way this situation ends is with a date or you moving on to a new girl. If you're scared of finding out which path you take on this fork, you do have oneitis. She's dating someone, she doesn't belong to that person. She is allowed to change her mind. Ask her to hangout with you to practice whatever class…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 01:36 AM
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She is unstable, because she's a kid. Never give an unstable person power over you. Your life is worth more
/r/askTRP04/11/17 10:31 PM
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There's going to be a whole lot of meat and potatoes between sitting down for a coffee and walking her to a rented fuck room for her to want to consider you anything less than a serial killer. But I mean knock yourself out, failure is part of growing.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 08:57 PM
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What should I do? Don't ever focus on quitting something cold turkey. Don't make the process about quitting gaming. You need to focus on new habits and hobbies. Focus on getting a gym membership, focus on a workout schedule. Read and learn all you can about the workouts you want to do, study proper form, conversate with people and ask for tips. If we're being honest, gaming is a bad habit. The only way to get rid of that bad habit is to replace it with good habits. That's true for everything in …
/r/askTRP29/10/17 08:54 PM
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The first thing I would like to know is does she know you're a virgin? This girl is going to destroy you dude. You will be on that good boy leash for years until one day she comes to you crying and admits to sleeping with another dude. The simple matter is she is not sexually attracted to YOU, and doesn't want to have sex with YOU. YOU are not the right person, she would sleep with someone she was sexually attracted to. You need to seriously consider breaking it off with her, that's your way to …
/r/askTRP29/10/17 08:47 PM
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The way to get away from bad habits is to try new things. You don't focus all your energy on NOT playing video games. Focus it on other things you could be doing. If you want to start the gym, use that time there. Eventually, you find yourself in a place so far from where you currently are you have to go out of your way to relapse into your old habits. You change as a person, and who you used to be isn't satisfying to you anymore. This is when you know you're truly free. If you want to get rid o…
/r/askTRP28/10/17 04:38 AM
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What's really important for your career is a work history. Your resume needs to be able to show concrete progression and continuity between jobs. Serious employers, the kind where you are going to make a livable wage, will want to know what you have been doing for the past 7 years at a minimum. You should be working a job somewhere while you're trying to find your niche. You still live at home, that gives you a ton of economic freedom. Any income would be incredible for you, saying otherwise wou…
/r/askTRP28/10/17 04:35 AM
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You have to move out of your parents house. Here, this video will change your life. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QctT0Oc_uQQ
/r/askTRP28/10/17 02:18 AM
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kept pushing and eventually got her snapchat. ... Not a phone number? Not a date? She's not interested. Your attention is a little dopamine hit for her to wake up to in the morning. Move on.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:19 PM
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It's honestly a complete waste of time to even wonder if she is sleeping with someone else though. If she doesn't want to sleep with you all the time anymore, next! Don't get caught up wasting your time trying to catch her cheating or whatever. Everything this guy just said. Most of us were raised on disney movies where everything is explained and there is satisfying closure where the hero moves on and is fulfilled in his new life. That's never the case, having these answers isn't going to give …
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:12 PM
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It's going to be important that you not break frame for their bullshit.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:55 AM
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Being unemployed and unable to take care of yourself is blue pill. A job is not blue pill. If you don't like where you are, improve it.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:00 AM
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She asked for a reschedule and didn't give you the ole "no call no show" this is still a favorable outcome. Tell her to let you know when she would like to hang out next. If you're free that day, go.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:58 AM
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should i text or ask in person? Whatever is most convenient to you. You really need to make your intentions obvious as early in the relationship as possible. Texting should be restricted to logistics only, meaning you don't get involved with her world and live through her texts. Use your phone to set up a date with her, I wouldn't wait until next Friday unless you are genuinely too busy with your own obligations. Just gives her more opportunities to park you in the corral with the other orbiters…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:52 AM
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why are you turning this shit into a book report? Here's a scenario for you, what are you doing this weekend? Send her a text and say "hey I'm doing X this weekend, you should come" if she doesn't respond positively to this, forget her. Fuck the airplanes bro, she wanted your attention. It doesn't need CSI analysis.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:39 AM
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At first she started casually telling me that she would suck my dick, sleep with me, etc. and when I called her out and told her she has a boyfriend she would tell me she’s just “joking”. Lmao, she's a total neckbeard. Right now I’ve just been acting like none of it phases me. Your actions may be the reason you're getting these results. The rejection is just amplifying her desire for you. If she's in a sexless relationship and out for validation chances are she would move on the second she knew …
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:33 AM
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women view relationships the same way us men evaluate job prospects. Once I started breaking it down, this is the natural conclusion I came up with as well. It's fucking exactly the same.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:30 AM
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She has essentially told you she can comfortably be a rogue. She is decent with deception and capable of doing bad things. The thing about bad things is they only get easier with experience. If they're enjoyable in any way, they also become harder to avoid. I've NEVER been with a girl who was willing to cheat and also capable of putting that on hold for the guy they were dating at any given time. Push the right buttons and they will cheat with you every time. Even when they're with really high v…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 02:26 AM
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Good for you, hard lesson learned. Grow stronger and move on. Be thankful you get to see behind the curtain, the only reason I'm able to nail the situation is because I learned the hard way 2-3 times.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 04:00 PM
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By the sounds of it, all of this was done through text. My immediate guess would be she is playing pen-pals with you because you make her feel desirable. She is using you for validation because as long as it's through a text she doesn't have to worry about slipping up and fucking you. Texting is a SAFE way for her to get the validation she desires. You are her validation orbiter. Your options are to escalate every situation to a meetup or move along. Every time you get a message from her you sho…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:43 PM
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So how do i approach a friendship with a women without coming off as another orbiter? Simple, nothing changes. Your time is primarily focused on your goals and success. You are cordial to these women in passing but never extend invitations or ideas first. If it is a true friendship, there is nothing to be gained from it. That means you don't enter it expecting it to eventually turn into a sexual thing and she doesn't enter it expecting you to help her move out of her dorm at the end of the semes…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:31 PM
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This is the best thing that could possibly happen, the beta males around you are spinning out of control and essentially functioning like hamstering females. They are attempting to devalue you to hold back your success. You need to practice your agree and amplify, basically learn to shoot the shit with these guys until you're so good at it they're the ones leaving the situation embarrassed. The next time one of them calls you gay ask if it was him you swiped on grinder last night. This is great …
/r/askTRP21/10/17 07:29 PM
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Is a musical actually something you're interested in? To me it sounds like you are moving into relationship territory. It's probably best to show up with nothing since she invited you. Not sure why you would go out of the way to be the one who pays. Offer to buy the first round of drinks or something.... popcorn? IDFK musicals.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 01:41 AM
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Her guilt is overwhelming her and justifyably so. I doubt the party was cancelled, either she backed out because she got wind you were not willing to put up with that shit, or she's telling you lies.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:31 AM
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I just dont want it to become "oh haha he asked her out ans got rejected what a fucking weirdo loser lol!!!" who cares? The answer is no one. Everyone is busy with their own shit. No one who will ever be significant in your life is going to care about you being rejected by one girl. Hell, no one should care anyway. What a fucking stupid waste of time. Stop hanging yourself on the theoretical.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:17 AM
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what if she tries to make a fake claim against me. You can't plan for theoretical situations or you'll find you never act at all.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 10:24 PM
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Does your life belong to you, or to her? You need to figure that out. Stop talking to her, when she threatens suicide call the police. You are being manipulated and emotionally abused. Figure out who your life belongs to, because right now you are in the passengers seat.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 10:16 PM
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How do i ask her out without being weird, creepy, or a a loser? You send her a text that says "Hey I'm going to be at X on Y are you down?" If she says yes you go hang out with her. If she says "I can't on Y but I am available on Z" you go hangout with her on Z if it's not an inconvenience to you. If she says no you move to the next girl. Which part of that is confusing?
/r/askTRP15/10/17 10:13 PM
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The definition of the friend-zone is being in orbit around a girl who doesn't regard you as a sexual partner. By definition, you were not in the friend-zone if you ended up sleeping with the girl. What you should consider, is how much of your time was wasted from an economic standpoint. How much of an investment did you have to make to be with this girl? We see this every day, a guy "swallows the pill" and starts to make changes in their life. You get resistance from women who regard you as just…
/r/askTRP15/10/17 10:07 PM
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You're worried about the dude who's sending snapchats to the unobtainable girl that's laying in bed with you?
/r/askTRP15/10/17 02:26 PM
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You can either ghost or hang around and listen to her story about the dude she banged. She's going to want to tell you all about it since someone will need to validate her. Ghost or friend-zone, should be an easy decision. Either way we both know she doesn't regard you as a sexual partner.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 02:20 PM
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It's normal to be upset, how you control the feelings is key. In this case it could be debated you made an incorrect response, but it sounds like in the grand scheme of things it does not matter. We know you were developing feelings for this girl, you were probably thinking about promoting her to LTR material. In my opinion she did you a huge favor by telling on herself. Listen to her words. I was blackout drunk Not if you remember the story you weren't I was taken advantage of by a friend Every…
/r/askTRP15/10/17 02:14 PM
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I think I was pathetic. So there's a rule around here about not going back to women who knew you "before" your change. I don't remember the exact words, but the idea was they are never going to unsee what you used to be. The best thing you could do for yourself is see new women. You legitimately get to make new connections and enjoy yourself, and maybe one day she sees you out with someone way hotter than her and comes crawling to your feet. Either way it's a win for you.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:58 PM
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Ltr of 7 months is going to a rugby house party Rugby parties are the worst of the worst, there's never a situation where a girl in a relationship should be at one. This is speaking from experience. what should I do in this situation? In bed sick, suddenly fine, out at party. She values the scene more than you. Sounds like the end is near my friend.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 03:27 AM
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this is awesome though, thanks for having the balls to share. At least you know you are growing as a person.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 03:22 AM
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