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Red Pill Theorythisisathrowawayheyy/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 07:48 PM
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thisisathrowawayheyy/r/askTRP28/07/16 08:32 PM
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I've heard of it. But since we only have his side of the story you can assume all you want, but it is, and will always be, pure speculation. I've seen my share of women who, if they get denied anything, act out.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 01:13 PM
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Wow chill out white knights in this comment section. She didn't ask whether she could work in between, and in no way did he have to offer it to her. If she wanted that, she could've easily asked. You did nothing wrong, she was just being a typical women (most likely pretty in her younger years, thus expecting you to make room for her as boys have always done).
/r/askTRP11/02/15 01:03 PM
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No, although it is full of blue pillers and idiots. The science and idea behind it is interesting. In moderation it works, testosteron levels peak at 7 days. So it does work in moderation.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 05:09 PM
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/r/nofap /r/weightroom /r/swoleacceptance /r/diy
/r/askTRP27/01/15 11:25 AM
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You have a long way ahead of you, and be aware of that. For example: I began claiming if she's not going to be physically available to me i'm going to be emotinally unavailable to her. ( mistake i think as it implies i've been sore for her turning me down) This is a guideline of TRP, but the thing is. You don't fucking tell it to her. It just removes all the power out of it. Furthermore, you keep talking about women grinding up to you etc. Then go fuck them, I think it won't be as easy as you th…
/r/askTRP18/01/15 12:03 AM
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So what? You use your kids as an excuse to not be able to work out. I bet you spent more than 4.5 hours a week behind a television / computer? Switch those for working out. Stop making excuses for yourself.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:06 PM
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In my opinion this has to do with momentum. Girls live in the moment, so when they swipe you, they get a rush, and while on that rush they will most likely be more receptive. If you don't respond right away (or rather fast), she will have 10 more matches and the feelings for you are gone, so she is no longer interested.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 03:41 PM
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Yes it is what he needs. He needs to have a role model. Going to the gym takes 4.5 hours a week, that is not much. Moreover, it is what you need.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 02:17 PM
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Try everything, you will find out. You are looking for excuses for why you have no passion by saying that some kids did this from early on, so it's logical that they have a passion. Get one for yourself man, you can decide for yourself now can't you? I got plenty of passions, I'm an adrenaline junky (rollercoasters, ride a motorcycle, jumping out of airplanes etc), love sports (futsal, soccer, running, fitness), I play guitar (started around half year a go), am a programmer (as a job, which I li…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 03:50 PM
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Is he on a sport team? That stuff can help him toughen up, because boys tend to be more rough in sports teams (at least with soccer in Europe) and if he doesn't stand up for himself there, he will get bullied. This can help him become less of a pussy. Furthermore, putting him on a martial art can definitely help him as well. But my best advice is: show by example. If you are a guy in his 40's(?) who is ripped, has a great social life and natural leader. He will take an example in you.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 12:37 PM
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Hey, I'm new to the neighbourhood, you look like someone who knows where the party is at, could you tell me some places. Hey, do you know who of the bartenders I should get my drinks at. Hey, I just went to this and that bar and enjoyed myself. Do you know any similar joints. Hey, besides this bar, what other good bars are around here. Make it so that she is helping you, by helping you, she invests in you and hereafter you walk away saying somethin along the lines of: "Thanks for the help. Have …
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:58 AM
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Yes. Let it go, just focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:51 AM
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but i wanna better myself, and the complete opposite of what i am or have been is the dark triad. growing up without a very dad makes you so. (bet alot of you can relate) If you want to better yourself, don't become a dark triad alpha. In my opinion they are not much better than beta's as they tend to destroy society just like betas do. (Drugs / leaving single mom's etc) However, going dark triad for a while can maybe help you in some way and if you want to do that the single thing you have to t…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 11:39 PM
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Girls are emotional beings, so for the time being just let it rest. I rarely text/chat with girls for other reasons than for meeting arrangements, so I am not in the best position to help you on this point. However, what I would do it just contact her in 4/5 days, and asks her to go out with you at this place at this time. If she accepts, don't ever mention it again. If she doesn't, you could always say that you didn't handle the situation well and admit it to her (there is nothing to lose now a…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 11:30 PM
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It wasn't a shit test. Not everything is a fucking shit test man. She just didn't get the joke the first time around. Then when he made fun of her for not getting it, she didn't want to admit to not getting it anymore as she got slapped in the face with his response.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 11:07 PM
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"There are people starving in Africa. Single every.."
/r/askTRP08/01/15 10:43 PM
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It's what arises in my mind when I'm about to approach. "Why even bother, you can't last long enough to please her." So you sleep with girls to please them? Well, that doesn't sound all to solid now does it? Sleep with a girl, because you want to sleep with her, you want to get off. Her getting off is a bonus and will come automatically once you start having sex for yourself. Girls get a huge rush out of a guy who does with them as he pleases, they like to be dominated in bed. So instead of lett…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 10:41 PM
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There is no optimal answer. Here are some of my suggestions: Yes she is good looking, lets ask her for a threesome. Yes, (take a look at her), even better looking than you actually (with a smirk on your face) She looked even better without the shirt on Etcetera. Just agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 10:33 PM
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It is not a shit test, you are just emberassing her. What did you want to get out of her? Admit that she didn't get the joke? Your social skills are lacking mate. The first time around, she didn't get it and admitted it (which is a hard thing to do), and you just make fun of her for not getting it. That's not amused mastery, that's just being an asshole. Next time she asks, just respond by saying: "Look in the mirror ;)" or something of that sorts.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 10:31 PM
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Go watch some great comics to learn about quick come backs (especially those who do well with hecklers like Jimmy Carr). Furthermore, just learn more about social game in general, I feel like you are definitely lacking on that part.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:28 PM
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So, she's barely paying anything. But that is not that big of a problem on itself. So you made a compromise on rent by income. Make a compromise on work at home based on hours that you both work. You work 60 hours? She works 20 hours? Well then she has to work at the house for 40 hours. Oh wait, cleaning a house/dishes etc. only costs around 2 hours a day maximum, x7 = 14 hours. Even if she did everything she is short 26 hours each week. I guess a taxi ride takes 1-2 hours? Well that means she i…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:25 PM
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What's wrong with condoms, I wouldn't make that big of a life decision when you are 20 years old.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:21 PM
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You can still drink and be ripped, just don't get completely wasted (don't drink too much). Beer are calories just like any other, however they are empty calories which is annoying as you won't get any benefit out of them. Furthermore, you can go to a bar without drinking.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:20 PM
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BrunoOh did great work in analyzing your story. My opinion is that she is no wonderful girlfriend. At the same time, while I'm working 60-70 hours a week and she's surfing facebook, she gets pissed off and complains that I don't make an equal share of meals at home or if I leave a cup in the sink etc. It pissed me off recently. She also gets infuriated if she has to do things - for example I asked her to drive me to a store so I could buy a heavy piece of electronics (I don't drive - work from h…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:17 PM
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Why get aggressive towards your friends if they make fun of you? Don't you make fun of them in return? Amused mastery, respond to jokes about you with a joke. And if you can't do this, just ignore it. If they are really your friends, they are most likely fucking with you, and just joking around, don't be so uptide.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:10 PM
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What about in a bar/club?
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:07 PM
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Any girl will swallow if the guy has high enough SMV. Do you think some girl would reject swallowing Ryan Gosling's cum? I don't think so.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:07 PM
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Don't talk alpha, be alpha. Show by example, not by talking about it. It feels like you are in no way close to alpha. Start improving yourself, lift heavily, become ripped, get the job you want, go do the hobbies you want to do. Get a big group of people around you (friends / plates). Your son will follow naturally by seeing what you accomplish, and you can simply stop whining about your ex wife whining because it will be irrelevant. Don't slut shame her, you are the reason she left you.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 06:15 PM
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Oh and Game is the least of my priorities. I work hard on pretty much everything else right now. I just threw it to the wayside. Here we go, your ultimate goal is getting girls where you tell yourself you don't need to learn game or approach girls. You use becoming a better man as an excuse to not have to approach girls. I would suggest just going out and start hitting on girls, learn game, and actually internalize the confidence. Maybe you will fail in the beginning, but once you get some succe…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 06:10 PM
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I wouldn't say, what's your number. I would pull out my phone, offer it to her while saying something like. "Here, put down your number" (of some sort, I'm no native English speaker, so in my own language it is easier).
/r/askTRP08/01/15 05:25 PM
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Fnordsnord has got a good point. How I do it, is just walk up to a girl, start talking to her and be clear about your intentions of why you are talking to her. Start flirting and either number close her, or close her in another way, but don't spend too much time with her. If she doesn't show interest back, walk away and approach another girl and repeat. Even if you misjudged the situation and she actually was interested in you, you only increased her interest now that you walked away. Often she …
/r/askTRP08/01/15 05:16 PM
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Whenever she has a problem, in a LTR you listen to her. Depending on what she wants (just whine / or really needs help) you respond in a certain way. Now when she starts talking just ignore her, or say something like: I'm not in the mood for talking (I'm doing this and that). This acounts for attention in general, woman always want attention. By not giving her any, you are emotionally unavailable.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 05:10 PM
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Besides just getting bigger: In the beginning I had the same problems. I made some gains after 5/6 months of lifting, and I wanted to show it. So I started wearing really tight t-shirts and stuff, but then I just figured this would come off as needy for attention and just a show off. So now I just make sure my clothes are well tailored (vests / shirts / everything actually) so that it is not too obvious, but if you pay good attention it shows. Some girls will notice, some simply won't. A beautif…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 04:36 PM
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Listen to fnordsnord. He knows the deal. Living together is the ultimate test, it is really hard to keep her sexual drive up, but the only thing you can do is focus on yourself. Keep improving yourself in all sorts of ways, don't stop going out with friends to show her that you have options. If you initiate sex, and she consistently doesn't want it (not just once, because everyone can refuse some times) become emotionally unavailable as well. The phrase I saw a couple of days a go on the main fo…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 04:32 PM
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I'm Dutch, so I could, but I don't have the time today. But darktardoom did a great job in summarizing what is shown.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 11:50 AM
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Dude, you're still in the beginner's fase. I am 5'5 myself, and I'm Dutch where the average person is even taller than in the US. First things first: Stop thinking about girls as an achievement, which is easier said than done Start working out, go get ripped (I'm 5'5 now, weigh around 140 pounds with BF 10%, I am aiming for 145 with 6% BF) Go do the things you want to do: I'm jumping out of a plane soon, getting my motorcycle driver's license, picking up dancing classes, learning to play the gui…
/r/askTRP01/11/14 08:45 AM
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As I mentioned it is a questionable sub. However, it can definitely help, and it has helped me.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:04 PM
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This is a good add-on to the post. Thank you for this.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:03 PM
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Might be better advice indeed.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:03 PM
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