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I definitely understand all that would go into creating flair if you didn't want to user-enable flair (which I understand, because it allows users to put in whatever they want, not just location). Evolving and making a subreddit better is one of the jobs of a moderator. If you feel you are being spread thin, perhaps its time for you to add new moderators.
/r/seduction27/06/13 04:50 AM
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As with many things, you get out what you put in.
/r/seduction03/04/13 03:07 AM
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You have a point, but it depends on the context. The whole point of a shit test is for women to make sure you are congruent with your persona. Most women don't have confident, charismatic men trying to seduce them, so they may try to test them to make sure they are "for real." So, in a preliminary seduction context, I have no problem with these. I have no emotional attachment to the strangers I interact with, so I shouldn't take offense or be affected by anything they say. if you want to "test" …
/r/seduction10/03/13 08:22 PM
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Just read the top post. That user elaborated perfectly.
/r/seduction10/03/13 08:13 PM
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This is a perfect example of the shit that is stinking up /r/seduction. The worst part is all these beginners reading and upvoting this crap because they think it is actually a good template to build a relationship on.
/r/seduction10/03/13 07:11 PM
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Once you've read all of the basic information in the sidebar and maybe a PUA book, you've got about all you need. /r/seduction is still good for a worthwhile post every now and again, but don't expect me to wade through all the BS. The only reason I saw this was because it was on my front page. I agree with your message to the mods: take some sort of step to making this subreddit better, or its going to keep going deeper into a newbie circlejerk of bad information, "I know them feels" posts, and…
/r/seduction04/03/13 09:54 PM
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What? Why are you paying without her knowing? If I were her I would probably think you were trying to dine and dash.
/r/seduction21/02/13 02:50 AM
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This is very true. I fell into this trap years ago. I did all the steps, made my life awesome, was totally confident and happy with my life (excluding the social aspect). I thought that everything was just going to fall into place, I didn't meet anybody because I didn't approach anybody, and things fell apart rapidly. Approach people, talk to everyone, and make expanding your social life just as important as improving yourself.
/r/seduction20/01/13 07:45 PM
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It depends. Most people don't mind being hit on - as long as the person is attractive. It's possible that this guy came off as creepy immediately from the start. No woman wants to be hit on by creepy, undesirable men. Also, you shouldn't dismiss other opinions with "white knight" accusations because they differ from your own. I agree with you that women should be open to meeting new people in social environments, but if they find obvious or creepy attempts at "hitting on them" uncomfortable, the…
/r/seduction20/01/13 07:24 PM
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I'd be happy to. Send me a PM. I'm heading out right now, but I'll be back later. The thing I want to emphasize for this exercise is that you should focus on improving yourself, and the women and social circle will follow.
/r/seduction19/01/13 06:16 PM
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You're very welcome. I'm going to give you a solid recommendation, because it's what I did to rebuild my life: Get a notebook and take a seat. Write down everything negative about yourself floating around in your head. Give it a read. Now identify what you can do to improve the physical things, and challenge the mental thoughts. Systematically make goals to improve every single little thing. I wrote down every goal I wanted to accomplish. Under each goal I wrote "Why was I making this change" (t…
/r/seduction19/01/13 06:04 PM
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I imagine some women don't feel comfortable telling men off, hence taking it to the management to deal with it. I've seen plenty of women sit uncomfortably through creepy "pick-up" attempts.
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:59 PM
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Definitely emphasize what areas of game need to be adjusted for day game. There is a ton of information out there on night game, but all of that isn't necessarily applicable to the daytime. The same general model applies, but it needs to be introduced in different ways. I would like to see: How to best open women during the day (i.e. direct openers, to a lesser extent, functional openers transitioned). How to build attraction during the day (this is something I struggle with from time to time, s…
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:57 PM
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I'd hardly categorize women being made uncomfortable by someone whose game is coming off as creepy and wanting him out of the club so they can enjoy themselves "bitchy."
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:43 PM
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If you genuinely do the things you first mentioned in the above comment, they are perfect ways of flirting. Women eat up that humorous schoolyard teasing. Like I said, just work on your fundamentals a bit and apply them to what you are already doing, and I'm sure that you will see positive results. Also, on the note of being insecure about moving back home and being a bit overweight, try to frame it in a positive manner. For example, with the weight loss, instead of looking at yourself as someon…
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:41 PM
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Don't focus on what you did before. You seem to be insecure, and those women probably were into you for reasons that won't practically apply on a larger scale. As I said, you really need to read the sidebar, and I would recommend at least skimming through a PUA book to get an idea of the general model of things. I don't agree with all of the things in the books, but they give you a good foundation of information to work off of. I recommend Magic Bullets. There is a free PDF of it in the sidebar.…
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:32 PM
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I'm not even going to read an article with a headline like that. Seriously, true confidence will amount to massive success in ALL areas of your life.
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:27 PM
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If your friends aren't supportive of you changing, why don't you focus on yourself for a while, try some new things, and develop a new social circle?
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:25 PM
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Being outgoing enough to talk to anyone is great; I'm happy for you that you are able to do that, but that's just the first step. You need to build attraction immediately after opening, and qualify the woman. You need to build comfort before you seduce, or you will be denied. You should take a day or two, read up on this information, then get out there and experience it for yourself.
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:23 PM
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If his advances make the women in the club/bar uncomfortable, it definitely gives them reason to kick him out. No business wants someone making their customers uncomfortable, and it will look bad on them if they don't take care of the situation.
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:20 PM
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The general rule of thumb is that anyone who feels it necessary to emphasize (and especially over-emphasize) their confidence, are not really confident. They are insecure and over-confident (i.e. cocky). Being cocky is saying you can do something, while being confident is knowing it. You say that it's in your nature to be humorous? Women love funny men. If you aren't getting women when being outgoing, truly funny, and flirting, then you aren't doing at least one of those things as well as you th…
/r/seduction19/01/13 05:11 PM
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Ah, you're right, I misinterpreted the quote. Good advice both ways, however.
/r/seduction15/01/13 06:47 PM
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TL;DR: Stop reading/studying, start living/experiencing.
/r/seduction15/01/13 08:28 AM
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I understand that it is rude, but complaining about things we cannot control gets us no where, that was the point of the down-vote. "Man, that shit sucks" posts are useless. You cannot control the socially inept and disrespectful women of the world. You can; however, improve your game and/or be thankful you didn't waste time with a woman who was willing to show that level of disrespect. Concern yourselves with the things within your control, and don't let anything else bother you.
/r/seduction14/01/13 12:29 AM
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I down-voted you. While I understand (as everyone does, we've all been through it) that flakes can be frustrating, and downright feel disrespectful, it is something that you have to overcome. If you are allowing flakes to rattle you this much, it will show up in the way you interact with women (i.e. confidence). Also, lack of game is almost always what causes flakes. Sure, sometimes women just have other things going on and no matter how great your game is she may flake, but it's been shown time…
/r/seduction13/01/13 09:58 PM
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Well, first, it's good you know why she flaked, but you should take this as a chance to evaluate why. There are a few things here: I don't know because the intro wasn't detailed, but I'm going to assume that you didn't show enough DHVs and didn't build enough attraction. It's very easy to get carried away when a girl starts flirting and just assume you can move forward. Don't, build up the attraction. You'll thank yourself later. It doesn't seem like you qualified her either. A vital part missin…
/r/seduction13/01/13 09:30 PM
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I look for: Intelligence I want women who are smart and will be able to challenge me mentally. Passion I want passionate women. This goes into multiple categories. What are they passionate about? Why? Are they passionate lovers? Confidence I want women who are absolutely confident with who they are and don’t need anyone to justify their personality (i.e. not needy). Adventurous I want women who like trying new things, and are always looking for the next adventure. Humor I want women with a great…
/r/seduction10/01/13 11:41 PM
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Saying the looks don't matter has always been a farce to attract "hopeless" guys to buy PUA programs. The fact is, looks matter. They always will. Is it a deal-breaker if you aren't good-looking? No, but you better step up the other areas of your game to a high level to make up for it. Essentially, the better-looking you are, the less game will be required to win over a woman. The best situation here is if you are good-looking, and use the tools of the PUA, maximizing the potential.
/r/seduction10/01/13 06:20 PM
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First, you're bordering on pathetic here for multiple reasons. You come on a forum about seduction and self improvement to brag about your lifestyle. You demand upvotes for a story that people are only interested in because it is a train-wreck. You clearly want attention for your story, which we can all see isn't congruent with your "awesome I can fuck anything that moves because I'm making it rain Benjamins" lifestyle. Now, even assuming any of that is the truth, you are still allowing yourself…
/r/seduction10/01/13 05:54 PM
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