What qualifications do you personally look for when genuinely qualifying a woman?

thisisgonnabe_good · 2013-01-10T23:41:52+00:00

I look for:

Intelligence

I want women who are smart and will be able to challenge me mentally.

Passion

I want passionate women. This goes into multiple categories. What are they passionate about? Why? Are they passionate lovers?

Confidence

I want women who are absolutely confident with who they are and don’t need anyone to justify their personality (i.e. not needy).

Adventurous

I want women who like trying new things, and are always looking for the next adventure.

Humor

I want women with a great sense of humor, as well as a wide range.

Ambition

I want ambitious women. I want women to have an idea of where they are going with their life, and have a plan do get there.

Social Intuition

I want women who are social butterflies and have no problem with social interaction.

Active

I want women who are active. I lead an active lifestyle, which I am very passionate about, and I would like any potential women to be able to keep up with me.

RiskyWarrior · 2013-01-11T00:26:38+00:00

In a LTR I look for:

Christian. It's a big part of my life and something I would have to share with a SO
College educated. Besides knowledge/intelligence it tells me she'll stick with something for the delayed gratification. Though I guess this isn't a deal breaker.
Sense of humour, especially relating to herself. It seems this trait carries over into so many other things like being lower stressed, less of a perfectionist, etc.
Attractive, for me this is maybe 25% beauty and 75% caring about herself and staying fit
Passionate about where she is going in life, which also requires she have some idea about where she is going. I know several otherwise great women who just aren't that attractive to me because they're in their late 20's still working retail jobs with no real desire to move up in the world
A mature interest in sex

Sed-Throwaway · 2013-01-11T03:24:34+00:00

I like some sort of intelligence(i think i have to be smarter than her), passion(cares about her major, career, people in her lifes), loyalty(should be a stickler for any man), caring(mom-like, she might mother your children one day), funny (makes me laugh), slightly naive, cute, attractive.

I mean, basically look at the qualities of females you have in your life right now and see what you like about them, i.e., picking one thing from 5 of your girl friends and make a list.

leodoestheopposite · 2013-01-11T04:40:42+00:00

HB7 to HB9, then she must be smart. Everything else falls within he smart category.

celarent29 · 2013-01-11T07:51:31+00:00

I disagree with all the other posters; there are things way more important than intelligence, passion, or ambition. My list in order:

1) loyalty 2) compassion 3) trust 4) respect

5) humor, healthy mindset 6) intelligence 7) physical attractiveness 8) passions

9) similar interests as me 10) cultural similarity 11) et. al

2013-01-11T15:51:41+00:00

I look for:

Fun (needs to say yes, be up for anything, etc)
Funny
Sexual (i.e. comfortable with her sexuality)

I don't care about common interests and shit like that because I'm not looking for an LTR. Longest relationship I'd get into right now would be a few dates, most likely, or maybe like FWB.

Pure ONS criteria are just physical and then being good in the sack and, as a bonus, not being crazy, but that's whatever.

Title	What qualifications do you personally look for when genuinely qualifying a woman?
Author	thisisgonnabe_good
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	January 10, 2013 11:37 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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