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| 3 | [FR] Overcoming approach anxiety in different perspective | Field Report | nottraceable | /r/seduction | 25/05/13 10:12 PM |
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| 4 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."Fine example here. How can you learn if you can't reflect upon the material? What you are proposing is not learning, it's memorizing. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 10:20 PM |
| 12 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."The problem with this sub is that it does not tolerate any criticism, no matter how constructive. THAT is what makes it so bad. The smallest hint of opposition gets downvoted to oblivion while accompanied with stuff like 'bluepiller' or whatever name you come up with. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Dark Triad Traits Are Beneficial in Everyday LifeThere are no downsides because he is blinded by his own ignorance. Dark triad is a very dangerous game and you have to play it carefully. If people find out you are manipulating them you will lose all that you desired. People don't like to be fucked with. Also, you will feel very empty, trust me. I can't deny that it has some benefits but the way some people portray it here is like it is the second coming. If someone does that, you should really be critical. Just imagine a world where everyone i… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 01:48 PM |
| 7 | [MOD] If you fail the reading test, I will ban youLet's be honest. This is so easy to abuse. You can just ban whatever you don't like, what is the voice of dissent. How can you ensure that not some crazy mod will just abuse this for his personal gain? How can you ensure freedom of speech? I've seen cases where people were banned for just disagreeing (not per se in this sub). Reddit by its nature is already kinda hive mind like (upvote for shit you agree with, downvote stuff you disagree with). This rule will at best keep the situation as it is,… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/14 09:01 AM |
| 1 | 'Sex without love isn't worth it': Virgin schoolboy tells fellow pupils they should not have casual relationships because it won't make them happyYou don't need to jump off a tall building to know it kills you... So do you really need the experience of the jump to know the end result? And would you take advice from some random guy on the internet? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/14 08:23 AM |
| -9 | Unconditional Love is extremely retarded. Conditional Love is the Essence of TRP.Unconditional love isn't retarded, it's an ideal. Like how equality, freedom and 'the american dream' are ideals. They are things we should strife for, how unobtainable they are. What you are doing (and many TRP'ers) is just throwing in the towel. And is that what TRP is about? Just give up if it is convenient to do so? That behaviour should be very familiar to you, isn't it what you always accuse those damn 'feminazis' of doing? What difference is there than in blaming the 'patriarchy' or the '… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/14 11:05 AM |
| 0 | One in three strippers 'are students paying for their education'You know it's sad if you have to sink this low to have a shot at the top. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/14 10:50 AM |
| 4 | Guy finds out his buddy is unknowingly dating a former porn star and wants advice. r/relationships reaction? "A woman is about to be held responsible for her actions? Quick, white knights! To the Chivalrymobile, away!"You want to know why? Imagine a society where people keep resisting, struggling, strife etc. How would such a thing even function? For one to be alpha, at least one beta must exist. A leader only exists because of its followers. A leader only has power as long as the followers grant him that power. Just be glad that they exist. For without them, society itself wouldn't be what it is now. And don't hold any illusions you are independent. You are not. If you were thrown in the wild, all alone, you… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/13 09:37 AM |
| 0 | Is suicide the only logical solution for a beta unwilling to be alpha?Look man, I feel the same way. I will be heavily downvoted for this but most of the content here is just plainly crap. From time to time, there is however a gem. I might be wrong but I think it's not about all that shit you just described, those are just the consequences of the mindset and are most desirable in the Western (mostly US) world. In other parts of the world, this is not the case. In fact, I think those characteristics attract a specific type of women which I would call "club women". … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/13 08:12 AM |
| 2 | I was just reminded of the Fable with the Frog and the Scorpionexcept, you know, people do what they THINK is best for them.. You're not telling me some people jump off bridges because it is their nature to do so. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/13 12:15 AM |
| 6 | Why is red pill thinking so 'controversial' outside of this sub?Hehe, reason in a mountain of garbage. It's like finding a needle in a haystack. This is actually good unlike some conspiracy stuff here. To add to this, many don't seem to realize most stuff here is not gender exclusive. I've seen dicks and pussies for all genders. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/13 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Example#3 of doxing from /r/thebluepillYou know, the only difference between a psychopath and a gun hobbyist is how they use their weapon.. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/13 10:56 PM |
| 8 | Borderline regretting that I swallowed.Prepare for even more hell. This is just the beginning. But the best teacher is life itself. You will soon find out it's not just women, men and society itself is full of lies. Always watch your back. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/13 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill and MoralityIf you think about it, redpill encourages you to hold your principles. I think it's called maintaining your frame. Which person seems more 'alpha' to you? The guy who abandons all his principles for some pussy or the guy who vehemently sticks to his principles, even if it means his will be less wet? I think the latter one will make more women tingle to be honest. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/13 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill and MoralityMorality is a flexible thing. Everyone has his own personal code of honor, a border. I think in discussing redpill stuff, we should leave these things out (just as politics). Redpill should be about sexual strategy. But if you want my opinion. I think one of the tennets of redpill and seduction is that you should never betray yourself. If you cross your own personal moral boundaries to 'become alpha', do you really think that is what meant? Instead of putting women on pedestal, you put the 'alph… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/13 04:35 PM |
| 4 | My story and why I am hereGood luck to you OP. I too grew to maturity without a father. Not because he was manipulated, he died when I was young. I think a hard lesson you have to learn is that is not only about malehood. It is about being a human being in the first place. The older you grow, the more you will realize that most people have very dark secrets. When things are getting ugly, people will always choose for themselves. Rarely will you find people who put others' needs first. Even siblings are capable of backsta… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/13 12:04 AM |
| 4 | The House Dog and the Wolf, How Privilege Breeds WeaknessExcept it doesn't work that way for personal riches. The rich stay rich because they use their money to exert power and secure their position. Their children inherit that shit and the cycle continues. It truly takes enormous effort, talent and luck to escape your social class and end up as a top dog. Maybe your story works. To a certain amount, hard work alone can get you far. But the top? I doubt it. I can ensure you, you will never become a billionaire unless Fortuna smiles upon you. You thoug… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/13 09:40 PM |
| 4 | An incredible alpha widow story: woman falls in love with mentally handicapped bad boy, it lasts a few years and she never recovers.Because at one point, you'll unavoidably become a "weak" old member yourself. You are useless from the very moment you were born and without help, you wouldn't have been here at all spewing your shit. That "perverse" mentality you speak of got you this far. I can guarantee you, you were born helpless and will die helpless. I hope you will never have to rely on others because only then, will you realize how foolish your words are now. You never know what you have untill it's too late. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/13 10:26 PM |
| 8 | Opinions about EthicsMy personal view is that if you do that what you loathe, you are no better then that what you hate. And don't hamster yourself out of this one. A liar is a liar, a cheater a cheater. Men who fuck around but at the same time complain about women being unloyal beings are no better than the hamster they are criticizing. If you pride yourself on honor but then use 'logic' to 'rationalize' (aka, hamstering) your unethical behaviour, you are a hypocrite. In my book, that's worse than someone who at le… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/13 10:02 PM |
| 3 | I can't help but laugh whenever a woman declares herself to be strong and independent.I agree. It's for most of the cases here in TRP. Sure, there are gems of wisdom but it seems like the quality keeps dwindling. I think most people should realize that what holds for women, also holds for men (maybe to a lesser extent). It is retarded to assume all men are innocent, loyal blah blah, while all women are devious creatures. I think the real pill to swallow is that most people will stab you in the back if the opportunity arrises. Strangers, your friends, your family, your SO. NOt eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/13 08:56 AM |
| 12 | In what way do you differ from the majority of Red Pillers?Being non-conservative. I'd say most people here never have truly suffered or they wouldn't tell what is told here. Leave politics out of TRP. Also, hypocrisy. We keep highlighting how shitty some women are but I know men as well that are equally crap. I think humanity in general is just what TRP describes, not just male of female. Also, nobody knows here what alpha is, otherwise we wouldn't be here. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/13 12:09 AM |
| 2 | The pill is on my tongue and I'm ready to swallow but I'm really sad about it.To the OP. This might not be a popular opinion at all and I expect mass downvotes. But to me, it is all about balance. Sure, the ideas of theredpill definitely make sense but there is also a (small) core of truth from the 'betas'. You said it yourself, your family is the prime example of how it CAN work. Does that mean theredpill is wrong? Nope. Are the 'bluepill' people wrong then? No. As you will find out in life, the truth is often blurred. Leaning to extremities is unhealthy, be open minded … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/13 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Today I had an epiphanyI might get downvoted for this a lot but... it could also mean that you fancy the thought of having a girlfriend, not the actual girl as a person. Thus, you don't care because it's the idea of being in a relationship that you like and it could have been with anyone. | /r/seduction | 13/07/13 10:19 PM |
| 1 | YOU ARE THE PRIZE - How to be Cocky after Self-ImprovementI guess as a mentality, this could be a start. But a true leader is someone who doesn't need to flaunt it. They radiate it. If you are truly skilled, you don't need to talk about it. People will do it for you. | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 09:23 PM |
| 4 | Internal moral debate.I read somewhere that if you feel uncomfortable with it, DON't do it. We are humans and one of the things that might separate us from animals is that we act in a self-controlled way. Besides morality, there is another reason: It goes against the seddit mentality anyway. Why her when there are SO MANY other girls out there? This is a test to see if you've truly adapted the abundance mentality. | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 06:44 PM |
| 2 | I am stepping down as moderator to focus on my writing. Please read, I have a big announcement.Alright man. Thanks for all the time you've invested in this seddit. Know that while at times, it seems you only reach few, there are many silent who are grateful for your contributions. Even though we've never met, know that your guides were one of the most life-changing things I read. So, at the risk of sounding like an AFC ;) , I wish you the best of luck in your endeavors and may you inspire many more! | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 07:30 AM |
| 1 | How to get immune to rejections from your computerSo what does it mean if I found it funny? | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 08:47 PM |
| 1 | The Hard WayBut what is the end goal of all this strife? What is it that drives you to put yourself to such extremes? If the end goal is to become 'attractive' to get that beautiful girl, was it really worth it to invest and keep investing the greatest resource man has available (time) just for power? Do you really want a person to love you for your achievements? Do you reallly want a 'glory hunter' that only cares for your fame? How about you? What defines a person? His personality? His achievements? There… | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 07:56 AM |
| 5 | A different view on the way you use the things you learn from this sub.I thought one of the big lessons is that you have to seduce everyone. But thanks anyway. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Graduating with EE bachelors, great job lined up, in shape... still low self esteem. When will things get better?I'm in the same situation as you except the job part. I'm still learning but after reading a lot on seddit, some words stuck to me that some very bright fellow sedditors responded to me and it really made me think. First, you have to love yourself and what you do. How can you expect someone else to love you if you yourself are ashamed of what you do? If you like what you are doing now, you have a passion for your job and field, then don't be ashamed of it. Why, you might ask? Well, if you're loo… | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 08:04 PM |
| 1 | If you start meditating and it feels like your motivations disappear, read thisBut what if you don't love to learn? What if you hate to work? I think both sides have their benefits. Sometimes, you have to go through hell in order to reach heaven. | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Just lost my fatherI've been and still am in the same situation as you are. Except, for me it was even harder as I was in my early teen years when my dad died and I had to take care of administrative things because my mom was not able to... I've been struggling to find out what it means to be a 'man'. I've read a lot and come to the conclusion there is no 'man'. If there is something like 'the man' it is about being true to yourself. Never forget who you are and carve your own path. Also, keep your spirit high. Th… | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Do guys often fuck around with other guy's girls?It's quite sad to see how people are justifying the encouragement of cheating. It's probably one of the darker sides of seddit. | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Combining sales and seduction to control your life.For me, seduction is not only about women. It's about using social interactions as a tool to advance my career. Skill can only get you so far, but whole empires were built through social interactions. | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Question about availability of girls of college-age.Don't you see that all those good qualities you mention are exactly the ones that seddit promotes? It's a bit annoying yes and even worse at my age (24) but I guess you should go in with the mentality of not worrying to much and perhaps accept the possibility of staying alone (which increases your confidence and thus your chances). Maybe an experienced sedditor can shed more light on this. | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 10:18 PM |
| 1 | The top discussion in r/TwoXChromosomes is demonizing the PUA community based on one bad example.Doesn't being alpha also mean not giving a f*** to useless conjecture like this? | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 10:13 PM |
| 1 | How important are social networking tools like Facebook?I wouldn't know since I'm not an expert but I can only tell you how I would use it. Take my advice if you will. That said, I keep my social profile at a very minimum. It contains virtually no information on me as I believe it can hurt me sometimes in the future. It does contain my name and my photo and some info that is general knowledge anyway. However, I use the messenger of facebook to keep in touch with people/friends whom I can't reach due to distance/time troubles. Further, I always tell p… | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 10:24 PM |
| 3 | You would think after 50 years that feminism would make women happier. Wrong. 1 in 3 women taking anti-depressantsOr here's a better alternative: societal pressure is taking it's toll. Working, having children, 'fun' etc. It all takes time and you also need to sleep. Many people are desperate and lack goals for the long term, it's not gender exclusive. Combine this lack of time with a decline in morals/psychological guidance (think philosophy, introspection, religion) and a decline in community and you have a perfect market for pharmaceutical companies. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/13 11:47 PM |
| 2 | What qualifications do you personally look for when genuinely qualifying a woman?It's funny because that list is exactly what is proposed to define an 'alpha male'... I guess, in the end male or female, there is no difference when it comes to likable traits. | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 11:24 PM |
| 9 | Where is the rest of TofuTofu's Above the game?No need to rush man. We really appreciate what you and the seddit community's been doing. Just gives us more time to go out and just 'do it' | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Reddit, here's the story of your least typical college grad who's 55% along the way to being a 40 year old virgin...I can relate to this, except I'm 2 years older and never had a relation at all. However, I've got some things that are changing me. For one, I just recently graduated and I took a vow that I will change myself and open up. (I've been very shy before). To change however requires that you recognize your flaws first. What are your shortcomings you try to hide? Are you really introverted or are you afraid to expose yourself? Are you really 'polite' and such or are you just scared to be yourself? Als… | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 01:05 PM |
| 3 | Confidence for BeginnersA short tip on finding out what holds you back. Look at the people you hate without any reason. These persons usually have a characteristic or something that you actually (unconciously) recognize but don't want to acknowlege or supress. Improving starts by acknowledging and accepting yourself. Read the stuff from Jung (individuation) if you're interested | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 09:14 PM |
| 3 | How do I not care about getting laid enough to keep cool and calm with a girl, yet care about it enough to actually try and get better at my game?What seems to work for me is that I view seddit as a way to improve my life and carreer. I read somewhere that the best way to do this is to seduce everyone. Not only women, also men. So I'm less focussed on getting laid (though honestly, that really is not my goal to begin with) and more on advancing the 'game'. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Of not letting yourself involved in other people's dramas and don't giving importance to things that doesn't concern you.I don't know, your title is misleading. If someone asks you for serious help, isn't it 'alpha' to help? (of course not be a 'nice guy' who helps all the time) Aren't great leaders of men the ones who are givers of value? If someone really needs help and approaches you with it, isn't it best to help if you can? Can some more experienced sedditor shed some light on this? | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 04:31 PM |
| 1 | [Inner Game] If you want confidence, you need to accept yourself as-is right here and right now. It doesn't seem like it, but it's how you move forward.Sounds alot like this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shadow_%28psychology%29 PS: For beginners (like I am) and if you're into video games, play persona 3 and persona 4. They changed my life for the better. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Social Proof can turn you into a God.I don't know. This sounds like you attach your value to a bar/specific location while you should radiate value purely from yourself. I'm new to the 'game' though so correct me if I'm wrong. But it's good to hear you're happy. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleAlright, thanks alot. I've actually been doing alot of selfreflection lately and I really appreciate the help of the seddit community. Know your posts are helping me tremendously (and probably heaps of of others) so keep up the good work! | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 08:43 PM |
| 4 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleGreat post. I do have trouble with being authentic though. I feel my true self is someone who according to seddit's standard is boring. I like my study alot (biochemistry). I also like to push myself to the highest limits possible carreer wise. It means that I need alot of time for this and I can not have time for other things, which I am honestly ok with. (for example, I need to read alot of literature at home). Also, I don't like to hang out with alot of people or small talk and value having m… | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I don't want as many women as I can handle. I just want one. Someone I can love and treasure until I die. How many other sedditors are looking for monogamy?I am one of them. However, I treat seddit not as a way to get laid as much as possible but as a way to improve myself, learn to talk with people and therefore advance my carreer. (since I realize skills alone will never get me to the top) It also helps me with talking to women though ;) | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 12:38 PM |
| 3 | My life has gone downhill. I'm 24 and seriously considering suicide. Help?Just telling you this... Imagine that life is like a movie. What you see from other people is their biggest moments, their highlights. You're comparing your bad scenes against their biggest moments... Everyone has their own problems. Nobody is flaunting them however. I was in the same boat as yours, basically feeling so bad I just embraced death. However, time has passed and I learned to appreciate life more. (I also played a video game which made me realize everyone has his own personal dark si… | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 10:22 PM |
| 1 | How Do YOU meet people? I'm 23/F with social anxiety. I have no friends, and I'm SO bored with my routine life. Advice?Force yourself. For me, I litterally did that by going abroad for 3 months on an internship. I only spoke the supervisor a few times, but for the rest I knew nobody at all. But to make things worse, the guy wasn't there the first few days so I had to introduce myself to his group members... And I did. It felt great. I never felt so lively before. This coming from a guy who is super shy. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 08:58 PM |
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