I'm the best there ever was. You want to be like me? It's not easy. I'm the pinnacle, and I didn't get that way by pissing around on message boards. Here's how I did it-

I've worked my ass off since adolescence to be the best version of myself possible. Worked out like crazy from 4th grade til now, I just turned 28 and I'm still cut. Food isn't pleasure, it's fuel. Used organized sports to learn what it means to compete and be a part of a team. Joined the drama club and a performance studio in elementary school to learn to dance and play with girls and be comfortable in front of a crowd. Honed myself intellectually by trying to consume as much literature as possible and never neglecting my studies. I was captain and all state in football by putting in more time and effort than everyone else, and by studying the game. I was the homecoming king because I never treated anyone with disrespect and learned that making people feel good makes me feel good. I got scholarships for academics because I studied harder than my peers. I learned how to be a leader by following worthwhile people and joining great causes. In undergrad I forced myself outside my comfort zone by running for student senate at one of the largest universities in the country and joining clubs that I disagreed with. In law school I learned how to argue and persuade by being better prepared and having more passion than my opponents. And in my adult life I've built 3 businesses now so that I'm never beneath anyone professionally, I will never rely on others for my or my loved ones financial well being.

Women have always been keen on me, but I'm not conventionally attractive. I have acne still to this day and my nose is so big it arrives in the room a few minutes before I do, but they don't care about that. They also don't care that I'm kind, secure emotionally & financially and that I'm generous with my time and affection. That's not what makes me the pinnacle: The things I've done and continue to do, does.

You're probably here looking for a means to an end, that end being womens' affection to validate your worth. I'm here to tell you that that thinking will only get you so far. If you build it, they will come. Women want me to love them because of what I've done, not because of how I act towards them or even how I make them feel.

So you can practice your openers, work on your self esteem, try and be "above the game." But I'm going to continue building things of value and accomplishing goals outside of romance. It is the surest way to make women swoon. They admire men that get shit done. So I guess my point is, why are you reading here instead of doing something out there?

If you want to compete with guys like me you better get your shit together, because I've been working my ass off my whole life to impress myself. And while it's not a magic bullet, it is a much better gun. Good luck.