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I actually am well-versed on medieval royalty and history in general. Yes, it is absolutely acceptable to divorce over a dispute like that today: however, in the past, only men could initiate divorces. In most of medieval Europe, if a wife did not produce heirs, he could divorce her; however, she had no legal right to divorce him, no matter what he did. As for "have you ever known women to be obedient servants"... we live in the modern era. I'm talking about history.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/26 02:43 PM
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The ruling queens of Europe only had privileges by not marrying men. Non-ruling queens were subordinate to their husbands. Marie Curie was indeed allowed to do science in her own name, but how many before her were not? Jane Austen had to publish under a man's name because publishers would outright refuse works written by women. Also, do you not think that having an average of EIGHT KIDS was perhaps a fully intended aspect of the gilded cage? For quite a while, it was legal and expected for a man…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/26 02:15 PM
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I've been single for many years because I haven't been looking. Now I'm looking and doing okay, but I'm still occasionally getting judged for choosing to be single for a while. It feels weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:44 AM
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People who view these things as tools are offensive to the human spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:43 AM
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Women did not have the freedom to participate in society or governance on an equal footing with men. That is a cage.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/26 06:27 AM
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Women had to stay home... nearly no danger... A gilded cage is still a cage.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/26 12:12 AM
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Ah, thank you for clarifying. I'm not going to be able to sway you from your insane beliefs, but I will just say that I don't entirely understand how you expect people who don't know certain things to then be able to teach those things to kids. My parents are wonderful, intelligent, amazing people, but they never could have taught me the three other languages I know, nor could they have organized the theater club I participated in for years. I also haven't encountered many supposed "lies", altho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:17 AM
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I said "most". If your child is in the small group for whom homeschooling is better, great. However, your rhetoric seems to coincide with the people who want to get rid of public education entirely, which is an opinion I cannot stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:26 AM
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Schools are infinitely better than homeschooling for most parents and children alike. Don't buy into that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:21 AM
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You are a degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:12 AM
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Ludicrous bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:33 AM
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It's not anybody's job to do anything, and I'm not saying you have to fix somebody you don't like. I am saying that if somebody seems attractive to you but then does a social thing incorrectly, it's not great to just write them off forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:35 AM
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"This poorly socialized guy does poorly socialized things. What a bastard! Better not give him any chances to get socialized or have any patience with him whatsoever, that would be just terrible."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:29 AM
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Those women were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:14 AM
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when men support feminism, it is never because of "women" as a group so we already know men don't care that way. This is weird and reductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:45 PM
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I agree. I think lots of men need lots of therapy. There is still a significant difference between "Go to therapy" and "Jeez, that really sucks, dude. I don't know exactly what to say about it, but I think a therapist would really help."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:30 AM
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Men don't know that they are allowed to want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 08:37 AM
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If your partner disrespects you for showing emotion, they are not a worthy partner for you and should be discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:58 AM
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It is not a biological fact. Nurture (or lack thereof) creates dangerous men, not nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:57 AM
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...what? I don't believe any of those things are inevitable. Also, you didn't address the scenario I was talking about, which was people who go abroad and stay there. Furthermore, men going overseas just to have sex are passport bros, that's the whole point!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:23 PM
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This is the absolute truth. The real pill has been the green pill of money all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:18 AM
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We're not going to go extinct. We're not at replacement levels because the baby boomers were such a massive generation. Once they all die, we will return to a sustainable replacement level.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:17 AM
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imo, if they learn the language and the culture and move long term, they're not a passport bro. They're just a regular immigrant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:00 AM
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I've felt this way for my entire life, lmao. I'm trying to teach myself that I really do have value beyond my usefulness to others, but it's hard to unlearn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:52 AM
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I (single, unattractive 26M) just stayed in a bunch of hostels and made great connections. It was awesome. Maybe actually try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:53 AM
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I see what you mean and that's a good point. However, I think that just furthers the overall point of the OP that men being the expected initiatiors just doesn't make sense anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:39 AM
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I am attracted to the people I like specifically. I still have to talk to them, though, and they have to select me as someone worth building a relationship with. I'm as bluepilled as you can get and I still know that men are culturally expected to initiate these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:33 AM
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How can I know if someone is attracted to me if I don't try to pursue them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:25 AM
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I have a semi-counterpoint: people are generally extremely suspicious and angry when people from the "in-group" deliberately take on traits that would put them in the "out-group". People from the "in-group" get upset because the movers are percieved as traitors, while people from the "out-group" are suspicious because the movers could in theory reenter the "in-group" at any time. Feminine men are one such group of "movers".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:42 PM
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Andrew Tate and his ilk should be executed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:47 AM
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Yeah we are... we're talking about sex acts, which involve physical sensations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:06 PM
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Neither does the physical sensation of a given act.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:02 PM
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If I don't like having a cucumber jammed up my ass, I won't like it regardless of who is jamming a cucumber up my ass. If a woman knows for a fact she doesn't like a given sex act, she doesn't have to do it and you do not have to take that personally. I don't think that will get through to your glass-like redpill ego, but you should try actually being emotionally strong. Edit to add: If she had never tried something before but categorically refused to try it with you, I would agree - she probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:52 AM
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and you're complaining about stupid bullshit on the Internet. That's way more fragile than crying about a lizard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:23 AM
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That's unbelievably stupid. If you know you don't like pilsners and your best friend wants you to try a pilsner, does your refusal to try a pilsner mean you hate your friend? Are you seriously this insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:20 AM
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You are way more fragile than women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:18 AM
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Being a fragile dillweed: the post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:14 AM
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South Korean men being fragile, whiny little morons is what's killing their birth rate, not government policies or women's rights. If they could stop crying and pissing their pants about fucking everything all the time, women would happily date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:29 PM
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I draw a line between "people who move abroad and happen to meet a woman" and "passport bro". Passport bros disrespect both their homes and the places they move to, often refuse to learn their wife's language, are looking for an archetype rather than actual people, and usually dream of moving said wife back home and being controlling. Because these assholes are everywhere, everyone who lives abroad or has a foreign girlfriend or wife gets tarred with the same brush, and it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:06 PM
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every guy wants to be thought of as more desirable than other guys That is childish. Demanding that you be seen as the best, rather than merely good, is so unbelievably pathetic and babylike that I can hardly believe you advanced it as a serious argument. It brings to mind a toddler stamping his feet and wailing about some other kid using his blocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:48 AM
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Every aspect of human existence is "transactional" if you squint at it. Being kind is "transactional" because you receive good feelings afterwards. Going to the gym is "transactional" because you receive fitness and social benefits. Relationships are no more "transactional" than any of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:04 AM
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Comphet describes the idea that heterosexuality is the default and that other orientations are aberrations, instead of heterosexuality being one of many normal orientations. It also covers the notion that women should be married to specific men they do not actually like, simply because that's how "it should be". It does not mean that heterosexuality isn't real or that women are not attracted to any men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:09 AM
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"Most" is a weasel word, but I believe that more than half of existing heterosexual marriages would continue to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:56 AM
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"Any woman who disagrees with me is a comphet"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:54 AM
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Any man approaching a woman from my family for whatever reason would give me a motive for violence and for a fight. "Excuse me, ma'am, I think you dropped your wal-" "HOW DARE YOU SPEAK TO ONE OF MY WOMEN"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:41 AM
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It sure is convenient when you can dismiss anyone disagreeing with you as a liar, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:57 AM
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I'm an adult man. If you think I'm doing something wrong, you can tell me directly instead of treating me like a four year old. If you are an adult man and you can't handle household responsibility or being told to shape up and do better, you should be executed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:27 AM
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you need to shut up and do all my chores, specifically. get over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:24 AM
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I think all surgery should be covered, including cosmetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:37 PM
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Yes, sounds fine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:36 PM
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I think people are inherently good, and that those who are not good are failed aberrations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:37 AM
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1000% agreed. Reestablishing third spaces and truly encouraging in person social interaction would do wonders for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:20 PM
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You can't go through life expecting to never upset someone I think a very large number of men struggle with this, far more than many would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:07 PM
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Proper, scholarly debate, absolutely. Getting into it with your uncle over Thanksgiving dinner, much less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:49 AM
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In their defense, what's the point in arguing with people who you know aren't going to agree with you? You're just getting upset for no reason. I'd say that's probably smarter on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:19 PM
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Buy a gun and learn to use it. If you're in a country where you can't get a gun, buy a big stick and learn to use that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:18 PM
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I agree, but it seems like, for a lot of people, white guys in non-white countries are passport bros until proven otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:38 PM
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Is there a divide between "western man in non-western country" and "passport bro", in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:58 AM
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Every single social change required a period of rather painful adjustment. We are in that adjustment period. Dating will suck until it improves, c'est la vie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:38 PM
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This only makes sense if you believe every single human interaction is a transaction in a logbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:50 PM
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well maybe men should
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:32 PM
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If new man meets past man, there might indeed be an altercation of some kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:26 PM
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The point is that if you trust your partner, you never worry about it in the first place. You just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:50 PM
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A fetus inside of a woman is an organ. It would be manifestly insane for anyone to have any opinion or say about anybody else's organs. This is why pro-life arguments don't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:47 AM
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"When the fetus leaves your body..." ...implying that before the fetus leaves your body, you can do whatever you want to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:33 AM
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...so every nice woman I've ever met has been made up, is that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:24 PM
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It allows you to downvote, but it won't show a post score below 0. As for the other subreddits, that's fair, but I still think those expressing the opinions are wrong and deserve to be harmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:45 PM
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This subreddit doesn't allow downvotes, I think. I also think that assuming any differing opinion is virtue signalling is a bit reductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:59 PM
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I'm sure there are 300 wacko fart sniffing women in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:36 PM
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Men who say that are wrong and should be dealt with harshly. They're full of shit. Nobody needs sex. It's just a want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:35 PM
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If you are a man and you are bothered that women feel this way, do me a favor: next time you see another man saying something degrading or derogatory to a woman, speak up. Call him a loser. Hit him, I don't know. The only we are going to redeem ourselves is by pruning the rotten fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:35 PM
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This is... insane, I'm sorry. Any man unable to restrain himself around a woman is an aberration who should be executed. That is not the standard for men. It is not the way men are by default. Men do a lot of evil things, but the men that do those things are wrong, abnormal, and malformed. To assume that men need sex to live and are therefore always on the verge of losing their minds is to remove their humanity and personhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:20 PM
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$15,000 divided by $50 is 300. 300 men is not really that many in the grand scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:10 PM
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A good partner makes a boring life feel exciting, that's the point. Even if all you're doing is going grocery shopping, the right sort of person for you makes feel fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:13 AM
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Would you play the lottery if you had a 58% chance of winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:28 PM
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Sure, I'll chime in - red pill ideology assumes women are a consistent group with consistent thoughts, ideas, and notions, when they are in fact 50% of the human race and therefore are all completely different. Redpill advice and thought processes claim that women are X and if she does Y it means Z, which is not how reality seems to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:47 PM
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If you make the effort to learn the language and understand the culture, you are no longer a passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:15 PM
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"Passport bro" and "man who meets a woman while abroad" are not the same thing. Being a passport bro is a mindset - it's a refusal to learn the language or understand the culture, an unwillingness to actually get to know or understand the women they encounter beyond a surface level. If a guy's been living in Vietnam for 5 years, for example, and he can't speak Vietnamese, doesn't know who the president is, and expects those around him to cater to his needs, then he's a passport bro and deserves …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:18 PM
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I'm a man and I don't need sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:10 AM
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Have you ever encountered a single version of any of this in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:16 PM
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I'm against grooming standards for anyone. People should dress and act as they wish to dress and act - then they'll find out if it's actually attractive or not, rather than trying to meet an ill-defined standard. If we acted more authentically, we'd have more authentic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:37 AM
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the entire notion of "objectively beautiful" is just ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:35 AM
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I'm a man, you're wrong. I have types that I like and types that I don't like. If someone from a type I don't find attractive offered me something, I'd say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:11 PM
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Random blow jobs don't make me happy, though. Giving women orgasms pleases both me and the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:57 AM
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I am happy both because and when others are happy, because being a good person releases seratonin in my brain and ensures that I have friends who want to make me happy in kind. I do this because I have basic social skills and empathy and am not a miserable selfish bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:34 AM
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When other people are happy, I am happy. That's because I'm not selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:26 AM
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You think this way because humans are too good at pattern recognition for the modern age. It only takes three inputs to establish a pattern in our minds - and they don't have to be directly experienced, either. Things you hear from others have as much impact on the unconscious pattern recognition center as things you witness yourself. In the past, you had to get these three inputs from the people around you, but now, because the Internet gives you access to everyone in the world, you can find hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:12 PM
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No, it's not. What's logical is that people's attraction can change when their partner changes. We see this with men as well - "oh, my wife got fat after the baby and now I'm not attracted to her", "she's just so sad all the time and it turns me off", whatever. It's the change itself. not the specific state of said change. If men were up front with their emotions it'd drive away all the women who can't handle it and ensure they get with women who can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:33 AM
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Well, why can't you do anything boys can do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:59 AM
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ah, you mean r/pipelinetoscientology1 and r/pipelinetoscientology2
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:08 AM
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When you make sacrifices in the short term, you reap rewards in the long term. To think otherwise is selfish, pointless, and stupid, and (seeing as you seem to fit all three) means you deserve absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:55 PM
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That sounds painfully boring on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:11 AM
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Okay, sure, but having a good bio is better than having a bad bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:10 AM
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I give a fuck about 1 or 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:06 AM
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Talk about your interests and hobbies, share a funny fact about yourself, stuff like that. To illustrate, which would you rather swipe on? 1) I'm Emily, I'm kind, interesting, and fun. 2) I'm Emily, I work as a florist, I will destroy you in chess, and I ate a grub once.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:03 AM
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Hell, maybe she's the millionaire here. Are you going to perform wifey duties?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:07 PM
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Why is that part of the equation now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:37 PM
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3:00 PM - 5:00 PM: Build the castle 5:00 PM - 7:00 PM: Make and eat dinner simple
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:01 PM
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Why the fuck aren't you building the castle together?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:57 AM
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What is "wifey behavior" in your eyes? When I think of my ideal relationship, I think of our skills and interests complimenting each other, not her doing wife things while I do husband things. I love to cook and find mowing the lawn tedious, so if she can't cook and loves mowing the lawn, that'd be awesome. It doesn't have to be "wifey".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:49 AM
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If you meet a woman that doesn't like cooking or cleaning, but adds other things to your life, what are you going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:36 AM
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Why are you unwilling to cook and clean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:08 AM
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Me! I exist! It's nice to feel heard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:06 AM
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that guy is getting laid more than you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:13 AM
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That's not true, I'd just rather have lots of sex with one woman who I love than several women who I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:32 PM
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I genuinely do not understand (or, honestly, sympathize with) men who value sex more than love and companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:23 PM
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Then most people are garbage. Everyone should care about everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:39 AM
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"Your views don't align with what I expected, so you must be lying" you, 2021
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:27 PM
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Sex is 100% safe for women Nonwithstanding all of your absolutely hideous takes about rape, what about the possibility of getting pregnant? Having a baby show up unexpectedly inside of your body is a big deal whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 12:54 PM
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Yeah, but being with boring, shitty people is hardly a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 01:30 PM
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Uh...yeah. Hobbies and interests are basically synonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 11:48 PM
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Do you really think you can build a deep and meaningful relationship of any kind based off of small talk alone??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 11:38 PM
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But what did they talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 11:34 PM
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With no hobbies, how did he make friends? Why would he go places? Without hobbies life is just the bare necessities of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 11:04 PM
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How do you have a social life with no hobbies? What the fuck do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 10:35 PM
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First of all, did you read the name of that subreddit? It's specifically for writing English using the Cyrillic alphabet. Second, the fact that I study Russian doesn't somehow make me not American.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:48 PM
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I'm from America
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:45 PM
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Garbage answer. There is no law forcing men to marry fat women, nor do market forces have anything whatever to do with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:40 PM
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I am willing to take that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 01:27 AM
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I wholeheartedly disagree. Being generous whenever possible affords you longer-term benefits than insisting on equality in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 10:53 PM
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Is it more important to be equal overall or every time?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 06:49 PM
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That amount is based on a combination of personal experience and reading what FDS has to say on the subject, but it of course depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 02:53 PM
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I don't think FDS thinks the date should be extravegant, just that it should show some effort. $200 is too much, $10 is too little. $40-50 is probably just about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 12:21 PM
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I'm not most guys, I'm me and I like what I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:48 PM
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wanting a submissive woman in 2020 couldn't be me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:34 PM
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I suppose what I mean is if I'm not friends with the person I'm having sex with then I don't want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 12:52 PM
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I'd rather have friends and no sex than sex and no friends
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:58 AM
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What about connecting on common interests and personality? Can't be friends with somebody you want to have sex with now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:47 AM
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It's not fun for you. I find it exciting and interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:34 AM
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This does not at all reflect my past relationship experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 11:55 PM
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Go to therapy. I'm not saying this as a dismissal of your troubles - I'm saying this because being unable to trust others is genuinely harmful to your psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 08:03 PM
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This one, because I'm the normie who literally said that in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 08:01 PM
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That's just so weird to me - I have no desire to fuck a woman I'm not already dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 03:12 PM
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Sounds good, thanks for explaining!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 02:07 PM
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I've been found out!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 02:07 PM
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That's also definitely a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 02:07 PM
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Cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 02:06 PM
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I think it's worth spending money to have an enjoyable evening with another person, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 02:06 PM
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That's misrepresenting it a little bit, I think - factories closed as well and Iceland later raised their pay and became the first country in the world to elect a female president. I think you are giving the action far too little credit for what it did.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 07:07 PM
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Right, but why insist on that? I hate making a big deal out of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 11:47 AM
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Even if they ask you, it's still more complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:34 PM
-4

I'm a man and I'm uncomfortable with splitting the bill 50/50 because a) it sucks for the wait staff and b) it feels weird to insist on something like that. Why not just pay for things instead of making it complicated?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:04 PM
2

If you don't give a fuck about being a douchebag, it means that your self-importance bar is too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:17 AM
3

If somebody doesn't condone a practice, but partakes in it anyway, isn't that pretty hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 05:16 PM
2

How are they not contradictions??? If you like the book, you like reading. If you like Hot Topic, you like shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 05:15 PM
3

I feel like we're approaching this issue from two different angles - a guy who happens to see an instagram model and says "Wow, she's hot" is more like what you're talking about, right? I was thinking of a guy who thinks modeling is a terrible industry or morally flawed or whatever but then follows seven models.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 05:09 PM
8

"I like this book, but I hate reading." "I like Hot Topic, but I hate shopping." Don't these sound like total contradictions to you? That's pretty much what "Some dudes like Instagram models, but don't like the act of Instagram modeling" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 04:59 PM
13

Egalitarianism means that everyone has the same basic opportunities, not that everyone gets treated exactly the same by everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 04:56 PM
11

The idea of the bangmaid is a relationship where there's no emotional connection and the guy doesn't really contribute anything, he just wants somebody who will clean his house, make him dinner, and fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 10:01 AM
4

My dad is pretty damn wealthy and he takes the bus because driving is a pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:00 AM
1

No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:19 PM
2

Pretty much every pre-Christian civilization had much freer sexual standards than we have today. Hahahaha! Stupid idiot! Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:50 PM
1

Technically you could say the sky is purple, but that doesn't make it true - especially for interpersonal relationships, which is what we're talking about here. Sure, the species wouldn't be here without it, but PPD isn't a subreddit about propogating the species, it's about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:17 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:09 PM
-1

Money and loyalty are important, sex is not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:08 PM
-1

You think I'm the ignorant and idiotic one? Have you ever looked at real people before?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:45 AM
4

Stop being a paranoid idiot maybe? If you can't trust any woman then you're the issue, not them. Confront your trust issues first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:44 AM
-1

Are you serious? Women are already dedicating their lives. Consider this: Average Man: I don't like that you go to so many parties Average Woman: Okay, I'll stop. Average Woman: I don't like that you go to so many parties. Average Man: HOW DARE YOU TRY AND CONTROL ME LIKE THIS THIS IS MISANDRY REEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:41 AM
1

This is sociopathic. Lying to women to get sex - leading them to believe that there's something there when there isn't - is just awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:38 AM
16

But why does being "easy" matter? It only matters because we have decided it matters. Also, I'm waiting to have sex and have many peers who aren't and that hasn't really affected me in the slightest. Maybe you just need to grow some willpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:36 AM
2

Я считаю, что вы тупее, чем камень
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:34 PM
4

I'll date a taller woman, hell yeah. Sounds awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:54 AM
2

Alright, thank you! How does one go about waxing their back? Would you need a second person for that?
/r/askFDS07/04/20 08:51 PM
3

Don't be sorry! You're telling the truth.
/r/askFDS07/04/20 08:50 PM
3

I appreciate that you're trying to give helpful advice, but I asked this on r/AskFDS because I wanted to hear from women, not men.
/r/askFDS07/04/20 07:21 PM
3

Thank you! This is really nice to hear.
/r/askFDS07/04/20 06:27 PM
8

Thank you! That's nice to hear (and that is really hypocrital, so it makes sense to mock the hell out of them, hah)
/r/askFDS07/04/20 04:26 PM
5

Thanks! I appreciate the advice.
/r/askFDS07/04/20 04:26 PM
1

Homo Sapiens Sapiens is also the only species in the world that has developed a system to call somebody an idiot from the other side of the planet, so I don't really think standard measures of animal-ness apply to our relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 12:26 AM
5

That would result in the same scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 07:15 PM
1

That makes sense, yeah. I've personally never felt that way but I can see that how most men would find that to be a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 11:40 PM
1

I'm not personally bisexual, but I have dated bi girls without worrying about it, so I'm sort of confused why the other way around is so difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 11:35 PM
1

I'm glad you're open to that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 11:34 PM
1

I can understand the homophobic family bit, but I don't really get the difference thing. I'm a straight man and I've dated a few bi girls - it really doesn't make any difference to me whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 11:31 PM
1

Campness, sure, I can understand that. But if you were into a guy and he told you he was bisexual, would that shut off the attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 11:30 PM
1

Why? What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 11:26 PM
1

Why couldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 11:25 PM
1

She shouldn't be cooking for me, but for us - that's the part I take umbrage with. Also, the idea that it's the wife's job to cook and not something that both can share in and take turns doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:05 PM
1

personally, i think that doing things simply for the dopamine is altruism, but anything more would taint it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:58 PM
1

Lazy men are common both in real life and in media - many women grow up thinking that's all there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:57 PM
1

Have you actually spent any time looking at FDS? 90% of it is just "Hey, women, don't settle for people you don't like/who disrepect you", which is excellent advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:02 PM
1

...I'm a man, how could I possibly end up a bitter old woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:56 PM
1

I think a lot of people think like me, but I also know a lot of people don't, so I'm prepared for both eventualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:54 PM
1

They're right about a lot of things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:51 PM
1

Sure, I don't go into an event others have invited me to expecting that, but when I make the invitations I always pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:07 PM
0

Generosity is nonsensical now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 03:42 PM
0

Uh, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 03:31 PM
2

Or...they're miserable because they're tired of doing everything? I don't think it's a power play to expect your husband to get off the couch and do the laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:50 PM
2

Some people don't like it, some people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:49 PM
0

My view is that whoever invites somebody to an event should pay for it. This goes for friends, dates, family, whoever - if I make the invitation, it's my event, so I expect to pay. If a girlfriend invites me somewhere, she pays. Easy-peasy and it seems like FDS agrees with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:48 PM
3

I catch feelings at the drop of a hat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 10:26 PM
4

What? Do you not enjoy spending time with your lover? Do you not like her in ways other than sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 10:24 PM
3

I'm pretty sure the liars are the problem, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:42 AM
8

What's his excuse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 07:09 PM
97

I'm always shocked by how little other men know about basic life skills. I can cook, clean, do laundry, repair stuff, and generally take care of myself and I still don't think I'm where I should be. The fact that some dudes get freaked out by nail clippers, the vaccuum, or a box of mac n cheese absolutely boggles my mind. Edit to add: also want to thank the sub in general for helping me realize LV traits in myself. I'm leveling up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:22 PM
4

God damn, do we need to create a #notallwomen hashtag too? This thread is about as filled with rididculous generalizations as you could possibly get. Yeah, plenty of women are shallow - so are plenty of men. Yeah, plenty of women can be lying, cheating assholes - so can plenty of men. I've had several relationships with people I thought were excellent, and I'm a fat goody-two-shoes 5'7" guy. Sure, that's anecdotal evidence, but that's all you have to offer as well, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:44 PM
1

I'm an American and both of my parents worked, but my mom was always the discipliner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 01:20 PM
1

Unironically, yeah, shoot those guys. Why do we need them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:01 PM
-1

I'm not that guy, but I'd teach my daughters to carry pistols and shoot any fuck-ass man they find.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:45 AM
1

I can decide for myself who I choose and choose not to associate with and/or criticize. On a societal level? Who knows, but I'd say the majority rules on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 12:43 AM
2

What would that accomplish, exactly? You're taking the fact that some women are tired and thus wary of men and being mad about it. What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 12:38 AM
0

I'm confused by what you mean. Racists make the choice to hate first, therefore it is acceptable to hate them. Mysoginists are the same. If someone is a hateful person they have no right to compain when they are themselves hated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:14 PM
4

I've been reading a lot of r/FDS, and it seems to me less like anger and more like jadedness over there. They don't hate men - otherwise they wouldn't want to date them - but they are incredibly tired of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:52 PM
0

Yes, because racists are making a choice to hate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:50 PM
0

Well, it isn't. I only want to have sex with somebody I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:09 PM
-2

Good thing regular sex isn't tremendously important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:40 PM
-2

I'm not going to post any girls, because I didn't ask first and that'd be rude, but this is me. I'd like to add that I said "to my satisfaction" - I'm not drowning in pussy, but I don't want to be either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:45 AM
-1

I don't do that shit, am fat, and still get girls' interest to my satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:25 AM
1

Imagine needing your wife to cook for you, jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:11 PM
2

Idiocy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:45 AM
1

I still think this, ack
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:38 AM
1

Sex shouldn't be the most important thing in a relarionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:21 AM
1

Okay, genuine advice: I am not attractive. I do terribly on swipe-based apps. However, I do best in places where words are the first impression, like r/r4r or 4chan's /soc/ board. If you're willing to put in a bit more effort - like, sometimes you write a paragraph and nobody cares - and sift through a lot of garbage, then you'll do quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:38 AM
2

Okay, so don't invite the girl to a fancy restaurant! Invite her to something in your price range!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:31 PM
2

A suggestion about a shared activity is an invitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:47 PM
2

If you invite somebody to an event, you should plan to pay for everyone at the event. If you're hosting a party and don't explicitly plan for BYOB or something, it's your responsibility to provide the food and drinks. Same with a date. You're inviting the girl, so you pay. If the girl invites you, she should pay. Plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 01:55 PM
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