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The thing that starts manifesting beta tendencies in me is comfort. When life sucks and you're lonely and poor then you're driven by pain to take a hard look at yourself and work hard on your mission every day. When you have a pretty, submissive girlfriend who cleans your house and gives you blowjobs whenever you want and your bank account is overflowing then it's like there's no longer a reason to care and it's incredibly easy to enjoy that comfort while you gradually turn soft. My life is real…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 03:12 PM
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What are the pros/cons of going ahead with the move now?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 03:14 AM
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If I get there I'm going with, "I don't have any problems with you but I do have some hangups about marriage laws. Here's how we can make it ok for both of us. Just a few formalities for what should be common sense."
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 07:32 AM
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paying her compliments You're using compliments wrong. Let's make this a video game analogy. Well received compliments might get you some bonus points, but that's not going to get you past the level. The only way to do that is to move forward while avoiding fatal mistakes. If you do nothing but sit there and get bonus points then you're just going to run out the timer and then it's player 2's turn.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 06:38 AM
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I spotted two fakes in that collection. One is from a worth1000.com - a photoshop contest site. The other one was from hardees in the 40s, except that it uses their current logo and ignores the fact that the first Hardees was opened in 1960.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 03:06 AM
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I think it would be better if you used a keychain with a panic button to start the recording. That would make it easier to reach in your pocket and start it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 02:57 AM
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Those are fair points but I still think your example of what you would have said wouldn't accomplish any of that. Just saying a message isn't going to get you in someone's head - you have to say it in a way that they're open to and it sticks. "This is why society is fucked up, etc..." Won't work. Ever. That's the kind of stuff that losers say out of frustration. And anyone who can spot a loser (aka a high value woman or man) isn't going to listen once you start in that direction. Other losers mi…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 01:33 AM
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IDK I saw it as some pretty funny shit. Even the girl that said it laughs whenever I tell that story. In this case they both speak the female language so I'm sure they both knew it was superficial talk. And as a guy, the more you see it the easier it is to spot the fake stuff.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 01:25 AM
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I want one of those things.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 08:54 AM
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I mean my list is practically the same as hers for a potential relationship. Pretty basic stuff there and some it like no smoking or drugs is just so lifestyles don't clash too much. Except I don't care about video games. And the vehicle thing isn't an issue. But yeah, seems reasonable enough just not super attractive to list them out like that.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 08:51 AM
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That was my point, the way you framed it is not going to have the impact you want. Might make you feel good while you're ranting and she might nod her head to shut you up, but If you are using words to influence someone else you have to do so in a way that gets through to them. A woman is still a woman and her concept of what's right and how society is so fucked up and loyalty is not going to match yours, no matter how much you value her. Either way, going cranky grandpa style and slowly alienat…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 08:31 AM
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how the character in the movie was a complete slut with no morals, and this is why society is so fucked up, etc etc etc Yeah, that will make her feel so loyal to you seeing how much you relate to the baker and his beta muffins. She will think to herself, "My man is such fun! He always says things that make me feel good about the time I spend with him."
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 07:03 AM
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That's the cancer strain referenced in the Wikipedia section you linked. I have the warts kind and it has been at least 4 years. 2 without treatment because it was small (two tiny warts) and I didn't realize what it was and the last two one of them tries to come back every 5 or 6 months. I just treated it again last month. The other one seems to be gone for good.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:38 AM
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A doctor will tell you to disclose it if there is a reasonable amount of risk that you will spread it to your partner. If you're not symptomatic it doesn't spread as easily. This combined with how common it is and the low severity if you do catch it is why they will say you're ok with not disclosing. Do you think a Dr is actually going to write in your records, "Had slut face so recommended no-disclosure"??
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:34 AM
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This is true. I've read that specifically the strain that causes warts is not the same as the one that causes cancer.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:30 AM
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I did a fair amount of research on this and I think you can get rid of it, but it can be dormant just as easy and you can't tell the difference. It depends on your immune system and on how well any treatment you have works on the area.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:28 AM
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It's actually not bullshit. Life isn't an after-school special, now relax and be happy that you never had to deal with this before.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:24 AM
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See how the freezing thing works first. I guess it would probably speed things along but it's going to sting if the skin is broken from the freezing. Or you can test with some vinegar and a q-tip to see if it's a painful mistake or not. Also scarring might be a concern if you overdo the trauma to the spot. I didn't get any scarring from any of my experiments, but I tried to be careful about it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:20 AM
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From CDC: http://www.cdc.gov/STD/HPV/STDFact-HPV.htm HPV is so common that most sexually-active men and women will get at least one type of HPV at some point in their lives The "best practice" on this is to treat it until it's gone, and not to have sex with anyone if you're ever showing symptoms (warts). If you're not showing symptoms it's not the kind of thing that you have to tell people about (A doctor told me this). The reason is you're not doing anyone any favors by doing so because there i…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:01 AM
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Well fuck it good thing I'm on my throwaway. I had two of these and tried a few conventional and non-conventional treatment methods. The one that worked the best was vinegar - where you take a small bandaid and a little cotton from the end of a q-tip so you can soak the wart in vinegar until it turns white. Anywhere from 30 min to a few hours is what I read - it really just matters that the wart is saturated and turns white. Do this daily and within a week it will turn black and some or part of …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:53 AM
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I almost married a woman. At the beginning of the relationship when she assumed I would be the successful one we discussed our thoughts on prenups and she was super offended and said she would never sign one for the same reasons in OPs post (trust, love, etc...) A few years later her career took off and she started making much more money than me. We were in the process of planning our wedding when suddenly she starts talking about this lawyer that we need to go see for a prenup, citing all the r…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:21 AM
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If you post the title then people can find it easily using reddit's search feature.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:06 AM
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What gives? Yeah I know, right? What's your deal?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:00 AM
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Each food was given a score relative to white bread used as a reference at 100%. That means that white bread is not very high, it's average. It was chosen specifically for how average it was. Also potassium has nothing to do with sugar and insulin. I would highly recommend reading up on some of the basics of how nutrition works. Being confused about this stuff can have serious consequences as you age.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 06:49 AM
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I feel like something just happened here but I'm not sure what.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 06:14 AM
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I'm not familiar with how GI and insulin index levels work, or how this compares to consuming pure sugar. Edit: I don't think you're familiar with how insulin index levels work either, since when I looked it up it was a relative number that used white bread as the middle of the road reference, and jellybeans were significantly higher. http://graemethomasonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Insulin-Index.pdf
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 06:03 AM
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OP (and most of the commenters) are sour grapes hating on a guy who goes on baller vacations with his wife who is still pretty when he's not running his wildly successful business. We have no idea if his money is protected from divorce but you can do that with trusts. But no, he's obviously doing it all wrong and the pretty girl is clearly a bitch too because fuck her. Who exactly is missing the concept?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:09 PM
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I hate everyone I see on facebook too, OP.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:02 PM
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I get a lot of attention sometimes and I like it. I can see the appeal.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:00 PM
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I was under the impression the reason sugar is unhealthy is because it takes your insulin and blood glucose levels on a wild ride where these things are more stable and change gradually by eating more complex carbs. The spikes affect your mood and energy short term and are also rough on your body long term if they are a regular thing. That's my understanding anyway.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:30 PM
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love to hear how you handled it Lately I tell them I don't care. I need to stop doing this because that shit is gross. I always think I'm not going to mind but once there's blood everywhere I just want to gag. Usually I'm just like that sucks lets do something else then. I'm not sex deprived so it's not really that big a deal. It's not like they do it on purpose.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:21 PM
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That's all I could think too. Of course I'm lucky enough that I get blowies on demand right now so maybe that's fueling my laziness.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:06 PM
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Perhaps...girlwriteswhat Even better, OP can say she's a feminist he's found that makes sense when he sends the link so OP's brother will have a fully open mind for the first couple videos. Then it's like "Oops, I thought she was one or something. Well she still makes a lot of sense"
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 09:09 AM
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Living with blue pill ideals would be a nice comfortable life if it got you what it seems to promise you. It's appealing and I totally get it. I think people want it to work really bad because the alternative is scary and harsh. People don't like to admit that we're competing against each other in such serious ways and that some of us will lose out bigtime out of necessity.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 08:58 AM
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"He's just a friend...." Do you not see why she doesn't want to go there? The girl is smart and the men involved need to settle this between them because then it will actually be settled.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 08:48 AM
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This happened to me... I was with a female friend while she was saying goodbye to her female friend (who was moving away or something). Took them like ten minutes to hug and hold hands and cry a little and say how much they love each other and will miss each other, etc... As the girl gets in her car to drive away my friend turns to me and deadpan serious says, "I fucking hate that bitch."
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 08:43 AM
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Of course she didn't say anything, a big part of that was theatrics. The new boyfriend was drawing a clear boundary with the friend. He was basically saying "you're a man so you only get a certain level of closeness with her while I'm around" He was also demonstrating to her how he's willing to get physical without actually having to get physical. The friend was a moderately safe way (safe for everyone involved) to show this because he knew an actual fight would be avoided easier than if it was …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 08:35 AM
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Sorry you had a shitty night. You remind me of a good friend of mine, his family has a similar dynamic. My advice to him years ago was that he didn't have to have these kinds of problems in his life, but the only way to make that happen was to put some distance between himself and his family since that was just how they were. Not to abandon them, just put some distance so they weren't such an every day influence. I actually had to cut off contact with the guy because I felt like the friendship w…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 10:33 AM
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Clever. You get to feel like you're more goal oriented than people who are setting goals for themselves without actually setting any goals for yourself. I think I'll try it - my resolution for 2015 will be not to make any resolutions for 2015. Edit: It worked! Even as I failed I felt like I succeeded!
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 10:04 AM
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This fucker right here... http://imgur.com/zGDnpH1
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 09:43 AM
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It's a literally actual clusterfuck.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 09:42 AM
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OP you should go out solo even though it scares you. The way to make it easier is to tell yourself ahead of time that you are only going to stay for a limited amount of time (whatever feels comfortable) Don't even worry about the game part of it. I rarely do this, but if I do my only mission is to be cool and talk to people. Doing stuff like this can move your life forward in unexpected ways.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 09:11 AM
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I support your efforts, but the best I've been able to do with people who have wronged me in the past is just to take opportunity revenge. In other words if it's convenient I'll milk a situation where they have to sit there and hate me, but I'm just not motivated to go out of my way for it. Which means it doesn't happen that much. Not sure if this makes me lazy or smart or what. Usually works out well for me though, somehow.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 12:31 AM
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Whenever I hear someone complain about how rough a day they've had, I laugh right in there face and walk off You sound like a genuinely shitty person.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:52 AM
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a bunch of shit thrown together to impress civilians Or maybe a bunch of shit thrown together so the author could publicly attempt to justify leaving her family?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:47 AM
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I almost never ask where they want to eat. They might get to choose between two places and I'll respect a veto if they dislike a certain food or I picked an unusual place. But I'm picking the spot. It can be annoying to have to think of places sometimes, but it sets a certain dynamic between me and her. Also I don't split the bill. I always pay for first dates - on the surface it's unfair but the reality is that it buys me a strong first impression. That first impression sticks with them as who …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:06 AM
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When I see a really attractive girl my mind is usually on other things TBH.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 07:42 AM
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This seems to be a hot topic here today. I think your reply is the best point of view I've seen though. The whole talk about how morality fits into it is basically a distraction and a derailment of our central ideas and reason for this sub existing. I think there's a term for when something like this is used to attack a community's cohesiveness but it's late and I can't be bothered looking it up.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 06:54 AM
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That sounds like good advice. But what's the top 10% work out to? I'm not a dick statistician.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 06:16 AM
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I've never sent one before. I have no clue what the context is that makes one a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 04:30 AM
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You used way too many words to say, "I think it's morally wrong to fuck married broads." You also made a ton of assertions without anything really backing it up. For example "an enemy will wait years and then smite you" Are we supposed to just take your word on that? That's really what usually happens when some wimpy dude's wife gets turned out? I'm neutral on your actual point because it's a complex question, but reading this all I got was a bunch of pseudo-moral masturbation in long form.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 03:24 AM
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You could also throw in a little agree and amplify and make it an expensive trip to vegas. Which also means no extra money to take out the LTR for the next 1 or 2 times she asks.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 03:13 AM
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A flake is a flake. You don't prevent a flake you put them on your flake list and you don't do favors for anyone on your flake list. And you make sure it's takes extra work to remove their name from your flake list if someone really wants a second chance. With that said, if you want a flake to be reliable then you have to dangle something in front of them that they want. (If they still flake then they didn't actually want it that badly and you need something else) This is what you call people us…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 03:07 AM
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Hello nice to meet you, let me judge the shit out of you and show my insecurity before brutally self-sabotaging because that's what you do on a first date. You should have just told her "OMG Really?! So I'm popping your asian cherry right now? I feel so honored!" and then joked on her every once in a while explaining funny/non-threatening cultural stereotypes to her like she's never met anyone who's asian before. Also why are you doing dinner for a first date?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 10:45 AM
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Best way to learn is to do. This will get you started: Decide on something simple you would like to make Find out what languages you have to choose from that would work for that Take a few basic tutorials on that language to get the fundamentals Try to make the thing from step 1 Google "how do I do this in X language" whenever you get stuck Stack Overflow used to be awesome for someone learning. It's just ok now but it would still be a good place to turn when you get stuck on something. And yes,…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 09:37 AM
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Not to mention this kind of stuff actually makes you more attractive to women, which doesn't get brought up a lot here. I've actually noticed it a lot indirectly, and the last time I asked a girl about what she thinks is sexy about guys, being able to fix shit was high on her list. Not because she needed shit done, but just because it gives you a manly aura. And for those of you wondering she said no it's not really the same thing if you can fix computers but it does count somewhat. I am a sexy …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 09:28 AM
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Nothing wrong with being called an asshole when they say it with that twinkle in their eye.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 09:04 AM
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Oh FFS that was clearly an example and not the topic of the post at all.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 08:32 AM
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Dear /r/TheRedpill, Some women are really attracted to me. What am I doing wrong? Sincerely, Strangely Concerned OP
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 06:40 AM
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I saw it as a date movie. I was expecting it to be super blue-pill and was pleasantly surprised. Both of us really enjoyed it and had a great time.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 06:13 AM
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I automatically hate most movies but this is actually a good one.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 06:11 AM
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I do this every day and it's a good habit. I don't even keep them I just hit delete when I'm done. Sometimes difficult stuff starts coming out when I'm being super honest and I feel myself getting really tired - like my eyes are closing on me tired where all I want to do is take a nap right there and then. I'll slog through whatever I'm writing about and suddenly I'll feel wide awake and feel like a weight has been lifted. It's not usually that intense anymore, but when I started that would happ…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 06:00 AM
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If depressing thoughts are dominating your mind then you need to adjust the things you're thinking about. I've gone through this - it really is your responsibility to spend your time thinking about things that put you in a better place than you are right now. It's difficult in the same way that pushups are difficult when your arms start getting tired, but it's also worth it in the same way when you realize you've worked hard and changed your outlook. It will make tackling your other problems muc…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 05:52 AM
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Crazy just doesn't know how to hold back. That's why they come across as crazy and that's also why the sex is uninhibited.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 07:21 PM
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You're clearly focused on the wrong person's number.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 07:42 AM
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This is core TRP stuff for me. I feel like it gets glossed over a lot by guys who just want to bitch about women, but I think this POV is much more valuable to me if I really want to understand how male/female dynamics work at their best.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 05:47 AM
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the person that articulates a particular truth in not necessarily the person lives such a truth I feel like that a lot on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 05:41 AM
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We talk about uncomfortable things and people don't like to feel uncomfortable. Example from my bluepill days: I had some experience with women, but I was young and trying hard to figure things out. I had a best friend who did pretty well with women, and one time he was talking about how it's good to remember that no matter how awesome you are, there's always going to be a guy somewhere who is more awesome that could steal your girl if he wanted to. I didn't get upset at him or discuss it too mu…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 05:34 AM
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He's also showering them with "Playmate" status, which they can only get from him. It's like how women like to get flowers, but they LOVE to get flowers at work in front of their female co-workers. "Look at me you bitches! I'm special and you're not!"
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 04:38 AM
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Depends on the girl. There are some gorgeous and very sweet black girls out there.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 04:30 AM
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My answer is yes, kind of. My best example - I went out on a date with a girl who I would definitely hook up with, but we hit it off really well as friends. There's probably a little sexual tension, but it just doesn't seem to go there with either of us - it would seem forced at this point. I'll text her just to joke around with her. I usually don't do that with girls I'm dating or interested in very much. There's a little bit of a feeling that a drunk hookup might happen eventually, but that al…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 04:18 AM
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Did you seriously just break out the "I've been here since day 1" card?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 04:18 AM
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I saw it and thought of you guys. It's tough to discuss it here because spoilers would really take away enjoyment of the movie. I'd definitely recommend it though. Surprisingly red pill and not at all what I was expecting.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 04:01 AM
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It stops being stupid and gay the exact minute you learn how to do it yourself. That's when it becomes just another form of communication.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:12 AM
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Oh! He was trying to say cues! Haha, how quet.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:06 AM
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I don't have a source but I read about a study that statistically bullied people tend to be less successful and bullies tend to be more successful. So if that was a properly done study then the stereotype is backwards. There is a lot of money in some fairly nerdy professions though, so people who are fairly normal socially or just a little awkward can end up doing really well, as can super-nerds who are highly motivated. The opportunity is definitely there. I think practically it's no good to th…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:04 AM
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I can understand why one would see it as awesome. It's the idea that the things that are used to exploit men in family courts are being used to exploit women and so it's more likely they might finally be opposed in a way that makes things more fair for everyone. It's the idea of, "Great, this shitty system is finally breaking so we can get a new one" Unfortunately that idea may or may not line up with reality. It could just keep getting worse for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:59 AM
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It helps to realize that LOTS and LOTS of people have experienced horrible things in their youth. We're all trying to live happy lives despite our problems and the things that are difficult for us. Many of the happy people you see have issues and demons that they battle with that are just as hard as the inexperience and loneliness in your past. This isn't meant to say your painful experiences didn't shape you or don't matter, just that you're not alone in your struggle, and proof is all around y…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:52 AM
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showing you can game a woman is a precursor to being able to control your children at the difficult ages Makes sense to me. Knowing how to be in charge should apply in plenty of situations.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:22 AM
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I think that's ideally what I would want as an end goal, and I certainly don't want to see girls fight. Around here it might happen though, these girls get crazy sometimes. What do you think is the best thing to do in the moment if they were to actually start getting physically violent with each other in front of you?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 05:19 AM
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Excellent and practical advice.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 05:14 AM
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But what would you do in the moment that the fight is actually happening?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 05:14 AM
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Sometimes unexpected things can happen even if you're doing everything right. By knowing what you would do in a certain situation you are able to show decisiveness and strength in dealing with it. What would you do in the moment that the girl fight is actually happening?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 05:07 AM
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TL;DR; OP is going to use the internet less. But for real, good for you OP. I'd actually focus on being a social person rather than trying to be a lone wolf though. Don't worry about deep friendships or anything, just always take advantage of opportunities to share time with positive people, even if it's just an acquaintance or a stranger. It's good for you and makes you good at conversation. I went through something similar and had great results. I mostly focused on gym/diet, work, cutting down…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:26 AM
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Who cares if he seems butthurt, her hamster will spin blah blah blah... It's weak and petty. She's out of the picture. She doesn't matter. Also, blaming her for how YOUR life was? The one that only you are responsible for? That's immature. Out loud it's like you're trying to say, "You don't matter to me" but anyone with good social perception can clearly hear, "I'm still hurt and nothing better has come along for me. I rehearse saying things like this to you." It's not even about seeming butthur…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 06:45 AM
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Best response. (If you were to respond) "Haha. Thanks!"
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:49 PM
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That's something a woman would say. Also makes it sound like you're still butthurt 3 years after the breakup.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:48 PM
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I was afraid she wanted to fuck my dog. And that's my cue that I've had enough internet today.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:39 PM
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I tend to stay off the whole topic of rape, but I think "false rape bullying" would probably be a suitable support buzzword to help guys who are dealing with this. Bullying has significant social momentum right now so it's harder to demonize, and the word also has a little built-in defense against aggressive shaming.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:28 AM
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Oh yeah? Every book and magazine ever written and all oral traditions even unrecorded ones clearly support my viewpoint. Also all books in the future say that too and specifically mention that you are wrong. Also I have a team of scientists here who are snickering at you. What horemone are you even talking about by the way? Name one and the actual levels released for sex vs porn. In measurable amounts please. You are clearly well read on EVERY STUDY EVER IN EXISTENCE.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:14 AM
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Woah, defensive much? I wasn't calling you names, I just think the concept you were talking about fits a scavenger, rather than a man who leads his sphere of influence and who people rally around. I was talking about the actual idea of what alpha/beta is, not about you. I'd actually like a kick-ass society I should probably change this to "a kick-ass social circle" as that's more what I meant. I'm pretty sure we agree on the fundamental stuff at least.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:55 AM
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When getting laid starts getting easy you realize it's not as great as you expected. If that's the best that you can do then life is barely an improvement on not getting laid. Also it's super beta to just care about yourself. I'd actually like a kick-ass society to be proud of my participation in. I get what you're saying and it's an ok point, but it's a little fatalist for me.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:41 AM
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Skinner box From http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operant_conditioning_chamber An operant conditioning chamber (aka Skinner box) permits experimenters to study behavior conditioning (training) by teaching a subject animal to perform certain actions (like pressing a lever) in response to specific stimuli, such as a light or sound signal. When the subject correctly performs the behavior, the chamber mechanism delivers food or another reward. In some cases, the mechanism delivers a punishment for incor…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:24 AM
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No studies show that. The moderate exercise associated with sex by itself would be enough to cause a difference, ignoring all of the hormonal responses that happen when you interact with people in close proximity. That's why you couldn't even source one study, especially not a study that actually measures any of this stuff. I bet you think you get the same hormone response from eating dinner as watching the food channel too.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:00 AM
2

Knowing what a shit test is evens the playing field just fine for me. When you pass them you gain an advantage - that's how they work. The male equivalent is basically just watching her actions to see if she's a shitty person in general, bad girlfriend material, bad prospect for a mother etc... and being cognizant enough to bail if she's no good. We don't have to "shit test" in the same way because we're not women. Besides, I don't think it's even rational thing when they do it. They might kind …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 07:45 PM
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I keep getting a vibe that she's still a virgin. Furthermore, she is kind of socially awkward and she herself admitted she doesn't have much life experiences Leave that poor lady alone.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 07:33 PM
1

I think we get it backwards when we think about media "programming" What's that rule - 80% of the women fuck 20% of the guys? So 80% of the guys are going to look at alphas with jealousy and contempt. They're going to see them as "the bad guy" and themselves as "the noble good guy". If you want ticket sales then what group do you want to appeal to? The 80% group or the 20% group? Especially when the 20% are probably out there being awesome without as much time to watch movies. It makes sense to …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 07:20 PM
2

I would be labeled a racist. This phrase needs to die. You put yourself into a victim mindset when you say this and that's the opposite of pride. Stop worrying about double standards. Unless you're smashing them to bits then it's just another rule of the game. That goes for race stuff, and redpill stuff, and anything else where a double standard is in your way. Either destroy it or work around it.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 07:05 PM
2

Her: Do you really think I'm going to check it at 11 PM? Me: Yes. It was due today. Her: You should have sent it sooner. Now we don't have it finished because of you. Me: You didn't bother to finish it? That's just fucking great. Thanks a lot. Her: blah blah Me: Fine. Great. You didn't do your work I get it. She didn't want to admit her part. As soon as she got aggro about it you have to flip it on them. As a side note, he probably should have sent it to her sooner. 11PM before it's due is kind …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:45 PM
1

if some guys started out as nice and just learned to become more aggressive Assuming you're talking about life in general - I started out super nice and passive in a bad/naive way, which I'm sure is that same as many young boys who are just trying to do the right thing. After realizing that wasn't the way to go I experimented with different levels of aggression and being a dick to people over the years, with varying results. At this point in my life I try very hard to be super nice again, but at…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:13 PM
2

Exactly. It's not about SMV for you, it's that it's difficult for you to maintain a regular social outlet. If you want girls that's what you need to work on first. Wish I had a better answer, but you just need to make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 10:47 AM
1

HOW is it the same? WHEN did you measure this, using what equipment & where are you, or the studies published? Your false rejection is rejected.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 10:44 AM
1

It's tough but it sounds like you're getting it now. If you start to feel lousy about it just remind yourself that you're just seeing a challenge for what it is. It's disheartening to look at such a tough and unsure challenge because it makes you think about how hard it will be and that you might fail. Pretending it's something else or easier might not be as scary, but it also won't help you face the actual challenge and do what you need to do.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 07:45 AM
1

Finally, an example response I can use on here.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 07:36 AM
2

The same thing happens in your brain, same chemicals are released This statement is about as "broscience" as you can get. You're assuming so much. That's like saying, "Isn't sex the same thing as doing cocaine? Same release of dopamine bro. What's the difference?" Having sex is waaaaaay different from masturbation with porn. This is easy to test. If it feels different and affects your mood differently (do you feel like a champ after you rub one out?) then there's different stuff going on in your…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 07:27 AM
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There's tons of evidence to suggest it hasn't. Ignoring the debate at hand - you can't really have evidence for something not having bad effects. It's either "OK we know this caused something to happen" (evidence) or "It looks like nothing bad happened yet, and we checked everything we can think of" (lack of evidence one way or the other)
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 07:22 AM
2

I pretty much gave it up too, starting about 2 years ago and noticed something weird - after I got used to not seeing it any more, it all seems really lame and not hot now. None if it seems good at all now. I think porn as a habit does some weird stuff to you.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 07:17 AM
5

or if I'm going to Red Lion (local party bar), and I'll say no, I have a homework or a test ... less attraction Ok, so you know that saying that doesn't work. So say something else. Like "maybe, are you going?" Who cares if you don't show up. Yeah it's bullshitting but it's like a socially correct form of bullshitting that isn't necessarily a bad thing. IDK personally I think you're worried too much about SMV and IOIs when it sounds like your problem is a lack of a social life. Dating and women …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 07:11 AM
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That's not a shit test. You should read up on shit tests again - it's important that you understand them better. In red pill terms what she did is an example of plausible deniability - she's letting you know that you have an opportunity with her if you want to try, but without saying anything that would actually incriminate her for doing so. You're supposed to just understand. In layman's terms it's called "dropping a hint" A girl in a relationship told me literally the exact same thing the othe…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 06:25 AM
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You're not listening. Red pill = accept reality It's not a pill that changes women into something else.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 03:54 AM
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Not feeling this one. I don't like the idea that we have to "trick" women, or the idea that it's weird or unusual when they have genuine feelings about us. Isn't that one of the major RP truths? That women put a huge priority on what they feel and it can override nearly everything else? Their feelings may suddenly change when their situation changes, but that's still being genuine and true to yourself. If they're showing feelings then they're likely genuine as long as we're not imagining too muc…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 02:03 AM
1

Yes, exactly. And the blue pill response is way more common, correct? Assuming you agree, then they are not clueless about it, they just expect the thing they are used to seeing.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 02:42 AM
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to realise that too much boundary pushing will result in pushing you out entirely Is that really how it happens? Is that what every average bluepiller does when his boundaries are pushed all day long? Nope, they push that far when they get away with it, and most of men let them get away with it. A lot. They're fairly on-point with knowing how much they can push. That's why passing shit tests makes them happen less often.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 02:11 AM
1

What if I enjoy the comment that you made, since you obviously enjoyed making it? Where does it end?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:44 AM
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"Everyone can see you love it anyway." Deliver this like you're enjoying the banter and waiting for her next snappy comeback.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:26 AM
1

I never have, and I never wanted to until recently. Now I think I'd like to do it one day for the experience, but I don't want to do it if it's ever during a dry spell. I want to look at it like I'm enjoying a luxury, not paying a bill because I'm struggling. I think the hooker thing would be a good learning experience, especially coming at it with a TRP mindset. It's a very old and strongly ingrained part of human nature, and I want to understand why.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:22 AM
1

Yeah I agree and that's pretty much what I did. Except I didn't do that whispering stuff I just got aggressive in return so there would be no mistake about what kind of guy I am.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 12:53 AM
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Lots of approaches get turned down for everyone, guys and girls. That's what happens when you try to connect with people, only some of them are into it. And you missed the point of my story. It wasn't about pride it's about understanding how men/women come with a different perspective, and how there is strength in not ignoring that.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:51 AM
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You are monumentally dense. (That was just a username joke yuk yuk!) Edit: Ok I'll overexplain it. It's like saying that the young version of the woman was too picky (puppy didn't want me) and now that she's aged the cuteness wore off and nobody is interested (don't want the dog)
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:30 AM
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A puppy is a younger, cuter version of a dog.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 04:40 AM
1

You're talking like a guy should expect to be approached? A new girl kissed me the other day. I was embarrassed because I didn't make the move a few minutes earlier, meaning she felt like she had to. I felt lame for not taking initiative and she may have felt like she wasn't attracting me strongly enough. Nobody feels their best in the situation where a girl has to approach. So get your 6.5 ass out there and hit on some 5s!
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 04:36 AM
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in our growing police state If that's the case, wouldn't knowing tact be just as if not more important than knowing your rights? Not that t I'm against knowing your rights, I just think that without tact you're going to lose them anyway.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:05 AM
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She probably was sick. I believe that part, but it doesn't have anything to do with the radio silence when there were tentative plans, which is the tell that makes this a shit test or some other nonsense. As for 3 being better for LTR that makes sense and #1 seems to have worked just fine, although I'm going with "demote" (from your link) by being a little colder and less responsive than usual for a little while.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 05:33 AM
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I don't know you and I don't get off on hurting people's feelings. Ashamed might sound a little harsh. I don't want you to beat yourself up but what I mean is experience some literal shame that you made a social blunder. That's what shame is for, to remind you to behave in ways that get you results. Honestly though, what do you want me to say? If I saw a friend do that I'd cringe. It's not sweet or romantic because you don't care how she will see it you just think it sounds nice to yourself, whi…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 05:15 AM
1

Maybe. I've been assuming that to be true the whole time. Also I'm editing my post again at the end of it.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 10:01 PM
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I have less of a problem with expressing those sentiments to her, and more of a problem with this: I posted it on FB That's not just beta, it's embarrassing and not at all sweet. Be ashamed and don't do it again. Who do you honestly think wants to read that? Did you consider that now your wife has to pretend she's not embarassed about your cringepost and that might have to deal with subtle comments from people about it. Imagine a guy like me sending her a private message and teasing her about wh…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 09:59 PM
1

Thanks, that's what I'm leaning towards.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 09:31 PM
3

Good, I've been waiting for Facebook to die.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 08:55 PM
1

So don't spin hot plates and try to find a nice relationship instead? Got it. Great redpill post OP. /s
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 09:44 PM
1

None of what you just said makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 09:20 PM
1

If she calls you and invites you to stuff then it's fine to hang out. Otherwise don't give her a second thought or call her. This isn't even redpill stuff, she's just being a shitty acquaintance. Still that's no reason to blacklist her if she invites you to a good party or somewhere you can meet other people. If she starts acting like a better person then it's ok to re-evaluate later. Just do it because it makes sense to keep her in your circle, not because you feel obligated.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:16 PM
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what has she done to earn anything more than plate status In your opinion, what kinds of things would earn an upgrade from plate status to something else? Kind of going through this right now.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:05 PM
1

And usually the person could get the money to pay if they wanted too You really don't understand the issue at all do you? There are serious consequences to not paying. People don't just stop paying on a whim, it's because they are out of money and unable to get more.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:47 PM
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He's not a troll, I believe he is sincerely presenting blue pill arguments that are difficult for us to overcome in public discourse. We should actually take these seriously and find stronger arguments to counter them with that will actually work on people who aren't redpill. We should appreciate people like this, it's an opportunity to refine an argument that might actually go somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:40 PM
1

It's not just the face that a woman is untrustworthy. It's the fact that there is significant incentive for her to turn on you which is presented at a time when she is the least likely to resist. If men had that kind of incentive to fuck over women it wouldn't be a great idea to trust us either.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:27 PM
2

Step up and be an indian role model then. But seriously, why does your role model even have to be indian?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:15 PM
2

I don't think it's the act that's inherently alpha or beta or honorable, it's that he could have, he knew he could have, it wouldn't have fazed him, and the only reason he didn't was his own principles. If you don't have the balls and you pretend it's your principles then that's beta. (Classic creepy nice-guy) If you have no fear in taking what you want but you actually live by your own solid principles then that's an alpha trait. I think it gets trickier depending on what you're basing your pri…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:07 PM
1

I don't admire that story at all. I admire leaders who get results and take care of their own, not showboaters. He wouldn't save the life of one of his people because he had to keep up appearances? He couldn't handle the responsibility of deciding who should get the water? Sorry, I can't get behind that one.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:56 PM
1

Care to explain why it's not well protected? Are you into cryptography or programming by chance?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:07 PM
1

Ok, I see now. Yeah, the accent/dialect makes a big difference.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:05 PM
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I admire Elon Musk and everything he's done. I saw a particularly good interview where he was asked about how he stays motivated and on task to be productive. He almost seemed a little baffled by the question, like he couldn't think in those terms, and the closest he could say is that when something needs to be done it's just automatic that you do it. Like it was inconceivable that he could sit there and not do it.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 09:04 PM
1

Unstable in that it might lose or gain value, but also well protected in that a court doesn't have the means to freeze the account or take it from you. I wouldn't agree to put everything you have in there, but it's an excellent way to hide money.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:57 PM
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I disagree. You only plate an ex when you're good at being cold and you want to be cold to her. I get the impression OP is not experienced in the former and not interested in the latter. Also, OP is holding the cards right now, not her. She's asking for him back, remember? He gets to pick.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:46 PM
1

Then I guess the whole argument falls apart then, since it depends on local housing conditions which appear to vary greatly.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:25 PM
1

Maybe it sounds better when you do it, but to me that sounds about as good a comeback as "Get a life!" (If there is any confusion that is not a good one)
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:07 PM
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I say it but I have a good sense of humor and I can pull it off. It's almost a wild card for certain shit tests because you don't have to think of a come back. It's a canned answer that just works as long as you're not taking yourself seriously. Example: "Ew, you asked out a 21 year old? What are you some kind of predator?" "Don't judge me. We all deserve to enjoy life sometimes. Even a 21 year old." ...change subject...
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:03 PM
1

Split what difference? Mortgage payments are significantly cheaper than rent where I live for a similar living space.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 07:55 PM
2

where you tried anti-herd, sacrilegious advice and it worked? play tabletop RPGs ... it's not an issue That wasn't something that "worked", it's just you doing ok with something that doesn't necessarily look good on paper. I feel like we all get a certain amount of passes on doing unconventional , weird, or antisocial things. The more acceptable stuff you balance it with, the more passes you get. For example, I can be into reddit and tell anyone about it and I'm fine. If I say I'm into reddit, a…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 07:38 PM
1

I have a simple rule that might help. When you are doing something, always think to yourself, "Can I admire myself when I do this? Or is this something that makes me feel shame?" Sometimes we feel so uncomfortable or afraid that we think it's better to do the thing that feels like shame. Try very hard to do the one that makes you admire yourself. It might be very painful to do so, but you will understand something very important after you do it, and it will make things better for you. Even just …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 01:11 AM
1

An easier realization is that women are less willing to marry a man who earns less. The marriage doesn't cause the salary, the salary provides the opportunity for marriage.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:28 AM
1

Heh, I have. The rule is you make sure they're ok with it, or make it a friendly competition if they're up for it. Actually makes it less serious that way and some girls are all for it. That's how real bros before hoes works. In the words of Bel Biv Devo, "Me and the crew used to do her"
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:04 AM
1

He effectively: Demonstrated low value, other girls not wanting him, thirstier than my dog and had to resort to auto swyping (desperation) to increase his chances You have a point, but he didn't do it to increase his chances. He was just being tit for tat rude and expecting nothing. This guy is lame, but I think the awkward over-analysis I read here is more lame. I think my issue is I visit TRP to improve my grasp of sexual/social interaction so life makes more sense, not to learn lingo or be pa…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 11:51 PM
1

I like it! Good use of question mark.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 11:17 PM
1

Yeah I think he was implying she was classless for that, and I kind of see his point but honestly that seems like a normal thing to put in a dating profile. But if you're going to make a post bitching about something, you might as well bitch about it, right?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:59 PM
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You're not good at reading interactions OP. Let's try again: She can unmatch without saying anything. If I understand tinder correctly the "Sorry wrong swipe" is rude because she's making sure he'll see the rejection instead of it just not being an option to message her. So he was responding in kind to someone being kind of foul on purpose. Not exactly mature but definitely not what you've made it into. I feel like she could have been the one Oneitis? You're joking, right? If you can't read the …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:39 PM
2

Is the "k" still considered rude? I've been seeing more and more people using it in neutral situations lately. Guys and girls. I still find it rude but I think it might be turning into a socially acceptable acknowledgement.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:17 PM
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Nofap didn't drag me down, the porn did. It was basically interchangeable with the other stuff I was doing to waste time and as escapism. Also it had been a habit long enough that quitting was surprisingly difficult - it had become a compulsive daily thing over the years and I didn't even realize it until I tried to quit. I never got my 90 days but just taking it from a once a day thing to once every week or two made a significant difference in my quality of life. (Along with the other changes I…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 08:58 PM
2

You're exactly right. For me those things were all tied into how I wasted time - I had to cut them all out because otherwise I would just substitute one thing for another as a means of escape. For people who don't use them in that way then there's no reason to cut them out. But they could have other things that they need to worry about. For example someone who eats shitty food to distract them from being depressed. Aside from the health issues they're using it as escape, so cutting it out means …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 08:23 PM
5

So you're saying your strategy is to base your actions as a man on what you think a woman would do? Still plugged in.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:51 AM
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After a long relationship/tough breakup I went through a relatively dry spell for about 2 years. At the start of that I had literally no close friends and few acquaintances that I saw regularly. My social/sex life is super busy these days. Here's some of the things that helped me along that transition in no particular order: Being ok with baby steps. For example in the beginning I was super stoked just to initiate a conversation with a pretty girl I didn't know and end it on a high note. I didn'…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:26 AM
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I'm going to withhold judgement - maybe she was being bossy by wanting your backpack chair or maybe you were being mildly dickish about it. It doesn't matter either way. What matters is that you're thinking about this stuff and trying out different ways to hold on to your personal power. It's up to you to look at each situation and decide if you went to far or were well calibrated, but you did good by trying something you knew would be uncomfortable and experiencing that the response wasn't so b…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 04:42 AM
1

I think I agree with you and that's why I worded it as I did. "We're doing it wrong" doesn't necessarily have to mean "Here's who we blame" And maybe part of it is just a side product of millions of years of trying to make life safer and more comfortable for everyone. Maybe eradicating that struggle and pain means eradicating a lot of what builds us as men, leaving us feeling alone, unsure, and without purpose? It has certainly opened up a lot of room for various social movements.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 10:06 PM
-1

You don't even know what any of those words mean. Don't be a parody.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:30 AM
2

I feel a little removed from stuff like that. I generally don't feel the need to cringe or laugh, but I definitely feel a sense of wrongness that it's such a normal thing to shape people with such screwy ideas about how to live life. I don't blame myself for making those sorts of mistakes - nobody teaches us this stuff and it's tragic because it holds us all back and breeds distrust, confusion, and pain for both men and women.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:06 AM
1

Maybe just be a little more impulsive and learn to quickly recognize when you want something (and immediately take action without shame) I'm super nice, smart, drink only to buzzed rarely drunk, don't start shit with people, and never been arrested, and it does not hold me back at all because I move towards what I want often enough that it's comfortable to do so. With that comfort comes glorious nice-guy success. (I do pretend to be a little dickish on occasion but everyone knows it's just a jok…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:55 AM
2

I have a 150+ IQ and this was an issue with me for a long time, not just with women, but with social interactions in general. I'm very lucky that I have enough distrust for authority that I became willing to experiment and ignore convention and learned to discard behaviors that are taught but not followed. I do very well now, with social and sexual stuff. I was always very uncomfortable with the idea though, in a very 2+2=5 way... I was actually thinking about it recently in terms like you just …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:39 AM
-4

We actually just had sex through the internet and I maintained frame the entire time. I sealed the deal with a math joke.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:51 AM
3

I found it before reading any bad press. I remember being super surprised that people had such a visceral reaction to it, but that seems to happen to a lot of ideas that I discover and think make sense. It's weird.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:45 AM
-6

I can not fathom why you got downvoted for siding with reason (and math!). Some of my fellow dudes are apparently thinking with their feelings today.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:14 AM
2

I don't know man. I've been on this path for a couple years now and after a dry spell ended and I started having a lot of good experiences with women my focus changed very quickly. I'm not even going to pretend I get to sleep with 10s all the time (it's not like that at all) but my focus very quickly changed from gaming girls to "being a better man". If someone is saying that to appease some other person then I see what you mean and agree with you, but it's kind of the next level (and way more r…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:34 AM
1

You should lighten up OP. That kind of teasing isn't the same as genuine flirting, but they're giving you a chance to surprise them with some good banter, and showing off to each other with bantering you. I had an experience where a group of girls having a similar "girl outing" came up and were doing the flirt/make fun of thing with me and a friend. Like half of it was flirting and the other half was half-mocking teasing. I stuck my hand up the hottest one's skirt. She ran away with her friends …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 09:57 PM
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I could tell she was definitely attracted to me why didnt she kiss me? i see her making out with another guy I have a bitter pill for you. She liked the attention but she wasn't attracted to you enough to kiss you. It sounds like she probably considered it but you didn't quite make the cut. On the plus side this doesn't necessarily mean you did anything wrong. There really is no accounting for taste, even when your game is on point. You said you had fun and I'm sure other girls saw you getting h…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 09:18 PM
1

I want kids so no, I'm not turned off to commitment. But it's helping me to remember to stay uncommitted and motivated while I work on myself and how I look at my relations with the women in my life. I want experience right now. Also it's given me a lot of insight into what kinds of things to look at when deciding if a women deserves my commitment. I think it's kind of strange how bitter a lot of guys on here are. I was kind of bitter from a lot of relationship experiences for years, but a lot o…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 08:49 PM
1

At least they aren't videos.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 08:24 PM
0

It sounds like you passed her test and then got clumsy and overreacted by dumping her. The whole point of passing these tests is to show that you can handle difficult scenarios without giving up your power, but it kind of defeats the purpose if you get all resentful and lose the girl on purpose when she comes to her senses without crossing any serious lines. The rule: Women are going to shit test you. Don't be bitter about it, be grateful. Learning how to address these tests like a king builds y…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 07:48 PM
1

If that's true you should explain how.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:01 AM
1

But then that only happens once and it's no longer a problem for you.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 10:05 PM
6

Where did you learn from? All I got was platitudes about this stuff and not even very much of that (and most of it conflicting)
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 10:04 PM
1

It sounds like he took a bullet. That happened and he feels like shit. If he had fucked her then he would feel just fine the next day and not have to worry about having that same conversation for a while. Does blue pill just mean pretend everything is the exact opposite?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:57 PM
3

Better response would always be "I haven't really slept with anyone in a little while." Let them fill in the blank with whatever makes them feel comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:48 PM
1

It's not about that though. It's more about respecting yourself and that what you want is valid and isn't something to be suppressed. I mean we're all guilty of it sometimes, I just think it's an important thing to be conscious of. Because when you're telling yourself "why bother" you're essentially just devaluing your wants and needs as unimportant.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 06:30 PM
1

I agree with you, but since you mentioned making a move on her I have to ask how honest you were about what you wanted the handful of times you talked to her? Even if there's no real chance, it's liberating to own up to what you're thinking and it makes you more worthy of respect.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 04:44 AM
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I don't know about your question but I don't think sitting around thinking how sad and ugly you are is very manly.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 04:34 AM
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It gave me a good laugh and I'm a great person!
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 04:31 AM
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IDK, I can't get worked up about this one. Today, I walked in on... Today She's super upset because it just happened. I don't even hear her rationalizing her cheating as being ok. She expected that if this happened she would see it as "fair" and is shocked at how much pain she feels. That's what she's rationalizing - it's not how she expected to feel so she's trying to force it into making sense. She's learning the hard lesson of what being cheated on actually feels like when it happnens. Even t…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 03:12 AM
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I'm not even sure what you're trying to say OP. It's women holding up male-friendly statements. There's no trick going on - this is just what it looks like when popular thought changes. It may not be changing to exactly where you want it to be, but that doesn't mean it's some kind of a trick.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 06:25 PM
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Are we talking about Jagger or the Cuban dancer who was like, "pffft, I'm not marrying you" ?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:21 AM
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Doesn't matter if they recognize it if they like it.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:17 AM
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I think most of you guys are misinterpreting the article. They didn't conclude that unresponsive men were more attractive, just that responsiveness didn't matter to women in terms of attractiveness in a meaningful way. This matters because responsiveness does matter to us when we look at women (also supported by the study). So the RP message is that what's attractive to us isn't the same as what's attractive to them. If you expect being nice and responsive to work you're going to be frustrated, …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:22 AM
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I honestly think that when they are smiling and twirling their hair at you, half the time they don't even realize what they're doing. It's just an instinct. I mean, I'm sure it kind of registers and can be done on purpose, but haven't you ever had a hot girl walk by and your eyes just go on auto-pilot? I think it's kind of like that.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 03:08 AM
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I'm confused, are you agreeing with me? I'm confused as well. I may have actually just raped you but I'm not sure. It didn't involve genitals or sexual stimulation but I hear this may still qualify.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 11:15 PM
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Ok you just made me realize I've done this before by telling a story about two girls who were fighting over me and acting insane about it. I knew it was a fun story to tell but I guess it was a bragplaint. PS they were both hot and I hated every minute of it
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 09:39 PM
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I've slapped a girl before. She knew she deserved it and was also off the deep-end hysterical at that moment and we never discussed it again. Still it was terrifying because I knew the moment I did it that she could pile the world on top of me because of it and there would be no way to defend myself.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 09:26 PM
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I pretty much disagree with 80% of the vitriol on this subreddit, but theres a 20% here that is gold I haven't done the numbers but yeah, something like that. I try to see it as guys who are struggling with figuring it all out and I'm ok giving them somewhat of a pass because I understand their frustration.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:52 PM
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I don't know, what good does "letting them know we're wise to their tricks" do? I don't dislike women even with all their nonsense. I don't need to be a black knight, but I do like to be extremely socially proficient and that means not just being able to spot things like this but being able to use it. This is the modern world, we don't get to hit each other to settle conflict so a lot power rests in simple communication. That's most of what we talk about here - how our society's collective conve…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:33 PM
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If you're seeking eye contact and not looking away then you're just staring at people so stop that. If you happen to catch eye contact then that's what this is about. If someone can tell you're trying to look at them then you need to communicate why you're looking at them. This is a nonverbal thing - they need to understand "I'm looking at you because X" even if X is just "How dare you be that hot" or "I saw that thing you just did". If you happened to just catch eye contact then X is "I noticed…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:00 PM
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Ok, I think we've established this concept as a thing, now how can I use it? Shutting someone down when they do it is ok and is easy to do by saying something like "Wow I guess that happens to more people than you would expect!" but that not really doing anything constructive. I want to use a bragplaint to my benefit, or to co-opt the idea so I can use a version that works for me. I guess complaining about the inconvenience of something that shows I have money, or about girls that are talking to…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 07:55 PM
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This sounds like a much friendlier version of rape than the one I'm familiar with. What do we call forced sex now? Because that is definitely a thing. Also are downvotes rape if they're sexy downvotes?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:42 AM
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ignore and stay politically correct and not break social rules Thank you for saying this. It's what I do but I'm always very frustrated when I do it. I can't stand it when bad logic is alive around me, but I feel a little better knowing that it's a recommended approach and I'm not letting things slide I shouldn't be.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:36 AM
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I've noticed this before too, and not just with TRP. There are plenty of niche "idea" communities out there. But some of them seem to inflame people for absolutely no reason. I've noticed it with bitcoin before - nobady cared about it forever and then all of a sudden people that had nothing to do with it just started getting MAD at bitcoin for existing. I was actually at a bar one time and this guy who barely knew what it was started going on a tirade making fun of it. Nobody had even mentioned …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:10 AM
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At first I read this as "To effectively communicate for points" and I thought to myself what a great way to describe reddit.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:58 AM
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One of my best friends a number of years back is the person I think of when I imagine what "alpha" is like. He fit that description to the core. I've always had some leadership traits and alpha tendencies but for most of my life have been pretty confused about how to strengthen and express that side of myself. Anyway, I've actually thought about the differences in how we related to video games before. For me, I've always been drawn to video games and computer, ever since I was a kid. I had a rou…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:53 AM
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This is one of those posts where I can't tell which part is sarcastic.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:02 AM
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is essentially a psycho has an essentially different perspective Language is powerful stuff. Careful about framing someone you care for in a way that makes you hate them. who will never love me in the way I want. She touched me more, hanging on me in public. She fawned over me like a little girl over her hero Do you not enjoy this kind of love? It's real, it's just something that you have the danger of losing. She won't love you like you love her, but I think if you wanted a man's love you would…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 05:02 AM
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I'm dealing with this right now. Here's how I'm trying to keep from crossing that line. This is to avoid developing feelings myself and to communicate through my actions what I'm looking for. It's not intended to make them like me more or influence how they are with me. No staying the night. Even at 4:30AM I will take the time to drive them home. I'll make an exception to avoid drunk driving but a cab is not a bad idea. Usually don't see them more than once a week. More is fine if there's a reas…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 04:40 AM
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You can be famous on a small scale and it works just the same. For example "the guy who always throws the good parties" or "the bartender" Honestly just having a handful of really cool friends can be enough. It's like you soak it up via osmosis or something.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 04:28 AM
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Attractiveness is more important than anything. The purely physical stuff matters but not as much as it does when we (men) judge a woman's attractiveness. Aside from that every time I hear someone repeat this tired line I just imagine them giving up, which is attractive to nobody, ever.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 04:23 AM
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Ew! Sex with your dog? I mean I get being alpha but come on!
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 04:19 AM
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OP, I think your question is ultimately what brought me here to figure out, and I really don't know at this point. I do want kids. I would like raising them but would just spawning some would be a second option I'd be ok with. Divorce/child support rape would keep me in a constant state of fury but I would feel good providing support that isn't coerced. I'd love to bang 20 somethings for the rest of my life. I'd love to have a monogamous marriage with a faithful woman as well. I'm smart enough t…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 03:39 AM
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IDK to me it sounds like they saw you as a drunk guy who was fun to talk to for a minute and didn't want to encourage you any further. The flower may have been the turning point but I think it's more likely they didn't read that much into it and didn't feel like carrying around a flower from a random. Probably wasn't a big deal to them either way. I doubt they saw you as either hook-up potential or a creep. You were just a late night drunken interaction, no more, no less.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 03:16 AM
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I think it depends. I used to receive gifts from women more than I gave them (not on purpose, I just never thought about it and they were generous), and I've thought before that it would be more advantageous to give vs receive in certain ways. I think a lot of it has to do with your intention. A "pure" gift where you're simply exercising your power to create delight/happiness in the other person is awesome and creates a dynamic where they see you in a very positive light. Transnational gifts can…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 03:03 AM
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9 or 10 style, not looks. I've seen some funky looking people that know how to dress and can pull off being the only suit in the room - I'm ballsy (and handsome) enough to do it but I'm not up to date enough on clothes right now so I know better.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 10:09 PM
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Maybe you need a different suit?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 10:00 PM
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I just want to smack you right now and I'm saying this because I care.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 09:58 PM
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About the suit thing - I think this is highly dependent on the crowd and venue, but I agree that you should try to be one of the best and most appropriately dressed guys there.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:55 AM
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Someone had a spaz attack and got banned/deleted.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:09 AM
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Even though I agree with him, gamification of an idea can be a great motivator if you're using that to your advantage. I certainly wouldn't want to cross a level 30 beardsman.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:07 AM
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I agree. You can be alpha as fuck on Monday and beta like a bitch on Tuesday depending on the context of what you're doing and how you're feeling that day. The point isn't to look at all the ways you're not making the cut, it's to see yourself when you're slipping and self-correct to get your head straight IMMEDIATELY. My beta moments have always come from not clearly seeing my actions and attitudes, or knowing that it's ok and a good thing to strive to dominate in many situations. Just like my …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:04 AM
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After. And the only thing you should say is, "You should have listened and it would have been you."
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 06:55 AM
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I don't like tattoos myself, but the appeal was described to me well by someone saying it was about how you can't take them back - you have to know yourself enough and be really solid that your choice is going to be a part of you even if fads come and go. I don't think many people will say that by thinking about it logically, but I understand how in a subtle way this makes sense. I'm still not getting one though.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 07:22 AM
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I'm pissed off at society for not teaching me this. This right here is such a big issue for me too. I've always tried to live as a good person, and so much of what I was told that meant has been bad for me and bad for people I love.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 07:09 AM
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Yeah, that's not alpha. WTF is wrong with you?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:27 AM
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They're trying to fight fair against an opponent that is fighting dirty I see them as trying to use the exact same tactics but hijacking the goals. Kind of a roundabout "agree and escalate" kind of thing that hijacks the different methods the feminist movement uses to support their ideology. I think they're effective in a way, but have shitty focus and don't have a clear vision of what they're actually trying to achieve as a group. I think it's good that they're a movement though. Some of them f…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:23 AM
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Appropriate response, "Not when you describe it like that, hahaha!"
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 01:16 AM
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I'm new in this sub, so I'm not that familiar with what a lot of the content in here is like, but what about other options? Personally I have always felt like I have a natural tendency to dominate situations but I've always been confused that doing so is inappropriate and felt guilty like I'm somehow hurting people when I do it. It's taken years for me to understand how giving up my power is actually detrimental to everyone, not just me. It doesn't make much sense but it's not something I ever e…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 01:05 AM
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Wow, that was an excellent post. I've been working on the right way to address and deal with emotional stuff in a masculine way for a while now and you did a very good job of describing that in a way that makes sense and is healthy. I really wonder why this sort of information has been so hard to find? Thinking of the people I've encountered over the years it seems like some guys understand this, but aren't willing to discuss it, and tons of people just preach advice that doesn't line up with re…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 12:01 AM
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If it's a situation that matters then the mistaken party will very quickly learn their error. Otherwise you're not going to worry about it because you're not weak, right?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 03:45 AM
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It seems to me that only requirement is that you're not the absolute lowest rung on the ladder. Changing contexts of day to day life mean that we all have the opportunity at times. I think this is where the advice comes from to watch how someone treats their inferiors rather than their equals when trying to discern their character.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 03:30 AM
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I don't drugs at all in recent years, but I've been around it plenty in the past. It sounds like probably he's done enough partying before that he doesn't see it in as much of a negative light as you. More like a night of hard drinking (Have fun, waste money, stay up really late, feel like shit the next day. That's usually how it goes.) Personally I wouldn't approve of an SO doing hard drugs but just considering it is pretty normal for anyone who has ever experienced that lifestyle. You forget t…
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