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Lol, that applies to all of crypto.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 09:27 AM
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You can tell a lot about someone by how they deal with adversity. You either grow to meet // beat it, or diminish in the face of it The first one is always preferable ;) And mindset - how you let it affect you on an emotional level, your thoughts, perspective - matters most. Once you have that, productive action easily follows.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 08:28 AM
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True - I just think his manner actually allowed for that entitled cuntitude to some extent - not her being it, but her displaying it. He could have taken the exact same position, but used a more commanding emphatic tone, and her attitude may have been quelled. I'm not saying he should have gotten the tazer out... although that would have made for wonderful viewing.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:59 AM
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The whole way in which the cop dealt with this, his tone, manner of questioning, and even later when she is practically mocking, was passive as fuck. He exerted almost zero authority - and the girl consequently tries a whole bunch of shit that she would not do if the situation were handled differently.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:23 AM
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Cynicism is one thing - Considering people to be mostly hopeless, mindless, losers is another. The two are not equated, and its more about perspective and value judgement at that point. The fact you can provoke weak men is proof that human beings are emotional and egotistical. Stocisim, awareness of emotional manipulation, psychology etc. can limit the extent to which that dictates behaviour - but it is still there, in everyone. And again is not proof that people are mindless or hopeless. You ma…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 08:01 PM
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The entire mod team agrees with your political views / cultural views. Agrees with the idea that ideology is worthwhile spreading and being pursued - irrespective or in spite of truth. Or that this place should be ideological? And that every instance of you trolling, mocking or writing from the perspective of "look how laughable and pathetic most people are" has zero to do with ego - and everything to do with individual strength / humour?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 06:26 PM
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I actually agree with you - you're talking in a more moralistic sense about what can encompass a healthy, productive relationship, and mindset towards things, in which both parties compliment each other. The trouble with that though is you can act in profoundly different ways - in which you do take on a role of treating her as being beneath you. Think yourself superior in a value judgement sense, care little for her emotional wellbeing, use her, manipulate etc. You can do all that and be extreme…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 07:26 AM
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You are talking in a detached, objective sense. When it comes to people, relationships, then a philosophical concept of equal value is meaningless. Women will respond to a dynamic in which a man is "above" them. and one aspect of game can be considered acting in a way to encourage that dynamic - and yes it will cause attraction. Now that dynamic doesn't need to be some artificial egotistical contrivance on the guys part, and if it is - as you have mentioned above - it is fundamentally weak and m…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 10:09 PM
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Those are character traits im going to have to develop. I'm young and tend to be very impulsive - and whilst intelligence and adaptability can offset the fallout from that, it has still gotten me into trouble. Your story, how you outlined your thought process, and the steps you took - really emphasized how important being deliberative, planning for multiple outcomes and mitigating risk are. Thanks for sharing, been very useful.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 05:12 PM
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The way you handled this was admirable. A lot of foresight - anticipatory planning, so when the trigger was finally pulled on divorce, you had the direction of it mapped out. I get a strong sense from your post that you are deliberative, thoughtful with money. You are very aware of what you have at any one time, keep track accurately, are conscious of "what if's" and work to mitigate that. Your creating another source of income - outside surgery - due to the concern of lawsuits being a good exam…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 07:00 AM
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Yeah you're absolutely right - you can notice it at loads of points. In particular she does the hand covering mouth thing constantly as a way of hiding her expressions - I just pinpointed on a specific moment that showed it as a fake performance most clearly. The thing that should perhaps give people pause is that she is not even good at this. There are women (and men) FAR more capable at lying and manipulating - and who will give far less tells away. Figuring them out is more fun and challengin…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 08:52 AM
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Part 2: Brutal Aftermath video. Go to minute 3:28 - and focus on her body language. He tells her she's gone She reacts almost with shocked amusement - look at her eyes and smile as she reacts - she puts her hand over her mouth to cover this aspect to her reaction as best possible - it would undermine her authenticity. She also briefly turns to the host Jeremy - spiritual leader of the proles - Kyle, and does so observingly - she's paying attention on whats going on to be able to react to it. Peo…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 08:27 AM
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We're going to have to disagree on this. Nothing in the OP's post was remotely scientific - apart from perhaps vaguely relating to a principle of hypothesizing and prediction. It is a single persons, subjective, anecdotal interpretation. If that strikes you as "raw scientific merit" then wonderful, it doesnt me.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 04:38 PM
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I never actually shared my lay understanding - so it's curious you are capable of judging its veracity. This post was not scientific. OP's example was not scientific. Using some concepts to predict something, and that thing happening, does not mean you are engaged in science. However, prove me wrong, submit this scenario to a scientific journal for peer review. I have my own predictions on how successful that would be.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 09:15 AM
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Actually - snide criticism is fairly tedious and unwarranted - but your post title does hit on an issue which I've seen a lot here. People mistakenly calling something scientific evidence when it is not or taking individual - specific examples, interpreting the results of them narrowly, then fitting that into a redpill narrative.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 08:33 AM
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Well this is novel. A post about the raw scientific merits of TRP - that contains only an anecdote, and zero science.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 08:16 AM
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I remember your old account - you struck me as intelligent and I tended to approve of what you wrote. A lot of people act like fucktards when it comes to politics. Left and right. Anything touching on ideology causes people to emotionally attach to it - identify with it - become biased towards it. Then you get in-group / out-group thinking etc. Differing views and ideas are attacked. Rationality and civil discourse are far less fun than playing the victim. Or pepe memes. Or LARPing in some parod…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 02:50 PM
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Girls looking away shyly when you eyes meet is a good sign. Then glancing up and locking eyes as you get close is either her wanting to see if your still noticing, or taking interest in her. OR her trying to get you to notice / take interest in her. The hair fix is another classic sign of this - she's conscious of being noticed and subconsciously wants to look good. Also for most girls hair is a way of enticing // attracting men, and playing with it, drawing focus to i can be a way of signalling…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:22 PM
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The mental health issue is interesting. There is a significant aspect of dealing and overcoming mental health issues which comes from being able to vocalise it. Talk it over, understand it, rationalise and process it - in order to then get the fuck over it. Also in terms of shame from mental health - the two can often go hand in hand - and overcoming that will often require being capable of talking about it - with zero shame or insecurity. Face the judgement of others, and in so doing realise th…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 03:15 PM
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Never take advice from an ex ;)
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 09:11 AM
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I'll keep should - it is subjective, and based on my own assessment, I am not suggesting it as an objective statement, if that's why you're taking issue. Guys absolutely need to adopt a 'take what works' attitude towards sociopathy and macheavellianism. In fact, get really good at it. So if you decide someone is valuable enough to not use the tools on them, then you can pat yourself on the back for how nice a person you are. Agreed. But there is a significant difference between using something a…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 04:39 PM
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People who are actually dark triad and don't mitigate that, should be avoided like the fucking plague. Self absorbed, vengeful, untrustworthy, lack empathy, manipulative, coercive. There is another irony in people here decrying dark triad traits in women, yet idolizing or applauding them in men. There is a to learn about strategy, social and sexual conduct etc. from understanding dark triad behaviour, mindset, and being capable of employing it when neccesary. But it is not something people shoul…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 04:15 PM
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Learn from him. Don't vote for him. Couldn't phrase it better. There is a wealth of things to learn from Donald Trump - if you want to see the effectiveness of emotional manipulation in action - he has a singular capacity for it that is profound. He also strikes me as narcissistic sociopath, who has zero integrity. Should not be trusted AT ALL and is generally contemptible as a human being. But he is effective and certainly talented, whatever you think of his character.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 10:03 AM
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The vast majority of people favor convenience over security. One thing I've been considering is that instead of backtracking when confronted with being doxxed. Just stand by it. All of it. Every taken out of context comment, joke that is being treated as seriousness, etc. "I said it, I stand by it". That is far easier said than done, and the understandable response is panic and to try to mitigate fallout, but I actually think alot of the damage is done irrespective of how the person responds - a…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 09:58 AM
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There's a lot of useful stuff here for privacy: https://medium.com/the-intercept/surveillance-self-defense-for-journalists-ce627e332db6 Might also be more productive to use existing tools rather than create everything custom - there are a lot of encrypted - secure chat apps. Signal being the obvious. It also presents a risk just to organise in that way - someone joins some private secretive internet group - and even if it secure as fuck technically - 1 human error - or person leaking, and it cou…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 10:10 PM
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There's a lot of insight in that article, people skilled in rhetoric - who are emotionally intuitive - and academically proficient, certainly can use those talents to present a narrative that is not true. Or do so insincerely for their own gain. There is a lot of spiritual, good vs evil, magic etc. aspects to that article - unnecessary at best - superstitious nonsense at worst, unless you happen to find those metaphors appealing, but some of the substance is insightful. However Your method of pr…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:14 PM
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It is possible to have a debate with someone - and ego not be a part of it. If your strongest condemnation of debate is people get emotionally invested, and ego invested then I have a solution. Don't get emotionally invested or ego invested, and don't debate someone if they can't seperate ego + emotional investment from it. The trivium does not say fuck debate... You say that. The trivium recognises the usefulness of debate in trying to come to truth. Logic (also dialectic) is the "mechanics" of…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 05:55 PM
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Conspiracy Theory Accusation Would conspiracy theorists be an accurate criticism to the Branch Dividians? How about Scientologists or Flat Earthers. Or the multitude of people who have fervently believed the earth will be destroyed. I understand your point - labelling something, or someone a conspiracist can be a way of undermining them, without actually engaging in their ideas or arguments. A form of Ad Hominem, emotional manipulation etc. But the trouble is I have seen numerous people actually…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 02:13 PM
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I don't disagree with you. It is naive to think everyone is completely responsible for their circumstances, and equally able to address them - in a factual or literal sense. Addiction - mental health - behaviour, are complex issues. However, in a pragmatic sense. No matter what the circumstances - considering yourself to be responsible for, and capable of addressing and changing it, is fundamental to that person actually dealing with difficulty - whatever that difficulty might be.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 12:08 PM
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That Headline... Broken relationships. Zero self-esteem. Spiralling depression. The terrible price being paid by the young women addicted to porn None of those issues are actually her responsibility. She's just a victim of porn.... If you're addicted to something - that's on you. Porn, food, drugs, validation, video games, social media. Whatever it is, addiction is something entirely the responsibility of the person who has it. Broken relationships, self esteem, mental health (with some exceptio…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 09:33 AM
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That would be profoundly 444 of you. The chopra one is fantastic, lol.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 12:03 PM
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Your chakra's are off. First look around you - Light (TRUTH) shines - Darkness (FALSITY) shrouds. To see truth you must aquaint yourself with light. Gnostic proverb # 24567 He who speaks in riddles shall dance with kings - let not coherency tear you from the path of transcendence. Taken from Alastair Crowleys lesser known "Rantings of inanity" - A great read - seriously mind opening. DEVIL --> DVIL --> 554 (Roman Numerology) 554 is known in many texts as the number of the suplexus The suplexus i…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 08:32 AM
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I was not saying data input doesn't matter - we do not disagree on that point at all. You picked up on this: My knowledge base is irrelevant to whether something is true or untrue. And interpreted it as me saying that knowledge base is unimportant - and a disregard for finding truth. That was not my point with it at all - I was saying whatever my knowledge happens to be, does not make something true or untrue. Originally you had said I was a skeptic and considered something bullshit if it is out…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 09:31 PM
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Truth - and understanding truth - are two separate things. You are conflating them in order to make a point of ignorance, that has no relevance to what I actually said. Nor have you addressed any of the points I made. If I didn't know better I would think you were dodging the issue.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 07:32 PM
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Let me guess you are a self defined "Skeptic". In other words anything that falls outside of your knowledge base you define as "bullshit". Would that be correct? In a word, No. My knowledge base is irrelevant to whether something is true or untrue. In terms of skepticism - your characterization above reads like the kind of argument a religious zealot would make to undermine critics. "Ignore the "skeptics" they are mentally flawed people who just dismiss as bullshit that which they do not underst…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 05:25 PM
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We're probably not going to see eye to eye on this. I could go through that video, and other of his - pointing out the moments that are delivered with manipulation - or that use fallacies - or claims made without evidence, but I suspect we would just interpret it differently. I didn't mention Mark Passio, he seems to use some similar techniques in his videos and line of thinking. Appeals to authority - linking "ancient" idea's, symbolism etc. into some grand narrative. I don't get the sense from…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 04:15 PM
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So. Be cautious of people who influence via emotional manipulation. Let's apply this to someone whose ideas you are influenced by, David Icke. He is someone who - I would argue - is extremely good at emotional manipulation. Indeed his capacity for it is why he has followers - people buying tickets to his talks - some degree of notoriety. Let's take a video of his: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EKS2e3-z2js Among some of the insanity he argues for in that video is that: junk DNA contains the cod…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 09:49 PM
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Elaborate. What does it mean vs what most people think?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 10:24 AM
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Yep, and those most adaptable - who can thrive in a changing environment. Such as the circus of insanity that is the 21st century!
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 09:25 AM
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Alot of this can be described in a simple sentence The strong exploit the weak It can be men exploiting the weakness of other men to Establish social dominance // hierachy over them Increase their SMV by exploiting the weakness of other men to establish themselves as better - by way of comparison (Read Rollo's recent post) For their amusement and entertainment It can be women exploiting men For emotional support // validation To be provided for To test the mans strength to determine if he's some…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 08:10 AM
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You could also just turn to the others - flick your eyes towards her and say "this... is why i wear headphones.". She's acting like a petulent child - treat her like one, make fun of her, tease - ignore - or as ozaku said, strike in a way which is clear and to the point. The way you reacted seems like overkill - and that you let her get to you.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 10:29 PM
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I wanted to disagree with you. Point out the flair categories - Implying far more than just a sexual strategy subreddit. Disagree with: It's correct, that you can only change yourself As individuals can - and have impacted significant change in the world. Yada Yada.. However... Currently my ability to assess, and pick apart an argument is quite strong. Currently my ability to slay 10's is quite weak. There's some uncomfortable truth in your post.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:55 PM
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Generally speaking - When someone feels the need to convey how just much they don't care about something. They care about it....
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 09:28 AM
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Learn to read body language - it communicates intention. Learn to understand the nuance of how people speak, their tone, word choice, what ideas do they put forward. By doing so you gain insight into their thought process - and ultimately can guage their character, intention and value. Learn about psychology - if you can understand what makes people tick, how they think, how they act - and why. etc. then you can accurately gauge whether someone is worth your time. When in doubt trust your instin…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 06:24 PM
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No worries, glad to help. You've the right attitude to it. Your health - mental and physical - is more important than whatever the circumstance ends up being, best of luck with it all.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 04:45 PM
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From what I can find, it looks like the obligation to provide child support is dependant on you being the biological father. Copied from: https://www.gov.uk/child-maintenance/disagreements-about-parentage Named person proves they’re not the parent When this happens, the Child Maintenance Service or CSA may: refund any payments made after the date they first denied they were the parent, or offset the amount against maintenance for another child refund the cost of any DNA tests arranged through th…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 03:41 PM
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This was the first one: https://www.samharris.org/podcast/item/what-is-true And this where they came back to go over things: https://www.samharris.org/podcast/item/meaning-and-chaos
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 08:42 AM
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This is intriguing. Who do I appear to have been influenced by? The strongest sense I got in terms of people, was Jordan Peterson, a lot of what you wrote runs in alignment to ideas I have seen him espouse. You also have a detatched, analytical view of the role that religion, beliefs, "values" have in terms of structuring peoples reality - informing their life, their meaning, and ordering people both on a psychological and cultural level. This kind of perspective on it is very reminiscent of Nie…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 08:31 AM
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Very True. However, when you're in a debate with someone fundamentally opposed to your position - There can be just as strong a motivation for you to assume they are being insincere - biased - using "logic" or "science" as a veil for what is actually emotions. As there is for them to actually be that way. I did agree with a lot of what you wrote, could tell from your latter paragraphs that you've been influenced by some similar people, and ideas.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 08:01 PM
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Ah I see your point - it doesn't suddenly change its fundamental nature, gotcha.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 10:19 AM
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It's not like protons turn to neutrons or the quarks "do something different than what they usually do when" we're not watching. Doesn't it actually show the opposite - that the mere act of observing which slit the photon travels through causes it to do something different than when not observed? And that by observing you interact with the photon in a way which changes its resulting behavior?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 09:19 AM
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My point was that scientific knowledge is not the only source of knowledge that we have I'm aware - at no point have I suggested it is. our knowledge of the scientific method's validity is not actually scientific in and of itself. This point we disagree on. The effects - of the application of the scientific method - to our lives, have provided plenty of evidence for it's validity. With the increasing application of science as holding greater value in our decision making, lives, and in advancing …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 11:50 PM
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This reminds me of the "Nihilists believe in nothing - which is in itself a belief - therefore not nihilism" line of argument. Tie a position to it's own tail, in the hopes it will flail in absurdity trying to regain its balance.... You are more than welcome to throw out of the window, the view that scientific evidence holds any value in assessing the strength, truth and utility of a position. It is quite rare for people to actually follow that path though - the ones that do tend to be strongly …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 10:43 PM
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I am most intrigued by individuals who believe the absence of scientific evidence is sufficient grounds to invalidate a premise Lack of scientific evidence for a position - whilst not sufficient grounds to invalidate it - is sufficient grounds to criticize that position, particularly if the person is presenting it as truth. It is lazy because it permits the individual to dismiss a thing without consciously evaluating an argument based on its individual merits Not neccesarily. If you would consid…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 10:03 PM
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This is not an artistic performance It's a rather vivid display, of what happens when you combine mental illness, insecurity and narcissism.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 12:17 PM
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There's a lot I want to say on this, but it's not easy to do so within going quite in depth into the psychology of it, and of mental illness - and treatment - generally. My short answer would be, hormones and gender transition can be effective - and for a small number of people perhaps it is the best option. But a significant number of trans people who go through with it should not do so, and would be better off working on embracing masculinity - exercising - healthy habits - therapy to try to d…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 07:18 PM
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Thanks, it's not difficult for me to talk about, in fact its actually quite refreshing in a way. There is so much about my experience that is interesting and has taught me a lot, and being able to share that understanding is good. The whole topic of transgenderism - and how it relates to male//female dynamics, is one most people cannot discuss rationally. Too strong or emotional views on it, either very negative - or very liberal // delusional.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 10:55 AM
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Thanks, I might do, if I can write something worthwhile on it, and that would be useful.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 10:50 AM
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I went into some detail on it on the past posts I made a while back, in the comments: http://archive.is/LHfRp http://archive.is/0iThQ Bear in mind at the time I wrote those, my testosterone had not yet returned and was still taking estrogen. And it was not too distant from when I had decided to detransition. I was still in quite a feminine way. A summary though of: What made you want to "come back"? There is a tendancy when you buy into the transgender "thing" that any psychological issues, or s…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 06:25 PM
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Joke response: I'm bringing it back. I rather nobly subjected myself to hormones, social transition, and made a new life living ostensibly as a girl. In order to then go back on it successfully, and serve as a beacon to those mentally ill souls who fall into the delusion of transgenderism. Actual response: Not really, it's rare.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 09:50 AM
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From my own experience the best way to hack female neurochemistry, from a sexual perspective, is to oscillate dominance, "abuse", control - and intersperse it with affection. So gripping hair - calling a slut - slapping - treating roughly (etc. etc.) By mixing in some occasional - unpredictable - affection in the midst of that, it will hype up oxytocin - and on a subjective level she will feel drawn to, connected with... a level of bonding that is mind dizzying. Showing affection can be somethin…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 08:41 AM
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Just how pathetic am I? As pathetic as you let yourself be. By which I mean own it, all of it. You have had experiences that have left emotional scars. You're saying you are not a weak person, and repeating that, because something inside you wants to fight against the ways you have been weakened, and become stronger. Something that helped me deal with a different situation - although likewise something that was psychologically difficult - is to try to process the emotions rationally. So for exam…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 07:28 PM
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The - Thank you TheRedPill, for saving my relationship - post is a good example of just that.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 09:09 AM
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Often true. To tie in with this post, the reddit voting system also serves as its own dopamine manipulator that is better ignored.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 08:59 AM
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Your being downvoted means you clearly triggered someone - nothing hurts quite like the truth....
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 08:43 AM
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I've never met someone in real life that was incapable of having an intelligent discussion - although If I sense a person couldn't I wouldnt engage them in the first place, but people like that are the minority If you are capable of doing what I suggested in my comment: remove ego from it, understand their position, and argue intelligently Then almost everyone can - and it can be a good way to understand other people - even if you disagree with them, and even if - in the extreme - they believe s…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 05:18 AM
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Online is more likely to be pointless, but even online you can have intelligent discussions with people who think or hold different views. I don't agree with the majority of RP thinking for a variety of reasons What are those reasons? From my perspective, if you can overlook the political views - ego factory mentality and anger. This place is practically spot on when it comes to attraction. And on top of that the posts on improving habits, mindset, skills, success are very high quality.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 05:15 AM
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You could well be right, but you know this - possibly that's exactly what the OP means as well. But the way it's written doesn't make that clear. The problem with arguing with SJWs, blooper, liberal regressives, lefties and manginas is that these people will not listen. This line easily plays into the kind of thinking I was criticising in my comment - and it misses a fairly obvious point. A significant amount of people here have - at one point - been bluepill - or strong leftist views - or taken…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 12:23 PM
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I don't buy this at all - the world is not split into "enlightened" right wing RP and "deluded" left wing blue pill. People who hold SJW, progressive, left-leaning views can not all be characterised as being emotional - evidence avoiding - powertalk > honest discussion. Sure you find lots like that - youtube is littered with good examples of leftist sperglords trying to shout their way to ideological victory. But that is not a characterisation of every person who has those views. You should avoi…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 09:34 AM
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Lol, it made me laugh, but I thought you might be serious.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 12:37 PM
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Lol, I can understand why. I am sane - although thats a hard thing to convey in text, but as situations go it is quite beyond most peoples idea of normal so I get your reaction... Try this on for size - when I decided to go back, there was a place I was working for 2 days a week, where they knew me as a girl - didn't know I was trans. As I was only going to be there a month, thought it unwise to explain further. Which meant for a short while I was having to come across as a girl and at the same …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 09:02 PM
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Insight: yes..... same thing: no. I concurr. Although bear in mind I have basically had TRP legitimized in reverse. I know what character traits girls find attractive in a guy, ways guys can act to heighten this. Subjectively experienced the kind of feelings that TRP hypothesis' girls will have. There are posts here on how to act, that match my own experiences with the ways guys act, character, frame etc. - that match that. But yeah not same by any means - but similar enough that I can confident…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 07:10 PM
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I was not saying that at all Anjajutta, if you want my personal view on the quality of this subreddit, I view it highly. My quote was in response to GLO - not the OP of this thread, so you've misinterpreted.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 03:54 PM
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If you intentionally pander to a low quality of audience - then that is who your writing will appeal to.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 03:24 PM
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It's not like women don't know they're doing this. In order to be able to lie effectively, you have to have a plan in mind. You have to know what men like in order to pretend to be that. They have to know the truth and they have to know about men in order to know exactly how to lie ...... and lie they do. The degree of subterfuge in women is stunning and I don't believe that TRP has gotten to the bottom of it all yet. I think in a lot of circumstances when women lie, they do not think that they …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 09:52 AM
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I agree with a lot of what you write, but this in particular is well phrased. Most people do not find it comfortable to understand opposing viewpoints - particularly ones they have strong emotions on. Far easier to assume the person that thinks different is lacking in some way - than to suspend your convictions and weigh up their perspective impartially.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 09:41 PM
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I never stated otherwise - nor do I disagree with your assessment. I found the explanation insightful at a psychological level - but you are correct it does not justify that type of behaviour. I think it does explain it however. What makes you think I lack abstract reasoning?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 02:18 PM
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I actually think that bolded post is fairly accurate. This part: She got hurt and lost it for a moment, but never did anything evil to you Is fairly absolving of responsibility and not holding someone accountable for acting like a fucktard. Beyond that though it strikes me as an insightful analysis of what was going on
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 02:03 PM
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Someone misinterpreted something you said. "Whatever" and just ignore them. The world is a magical and wondrous place when you can contentedly ignore the fuckwits.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 02:02 PM
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Depends on the girl. Some won't, some will. Some would think they wouldn't accept that kind of dynamic.... until a guy comes along who they can't say no to. A good quality girl is unlikely to accept a situation where a guy is only giving sex, for a prolonged period of time. She'll develop feelings for him... push for more... feel conflicted... act out.... issue "ultimatums".... then renege on them... go distant... then "please come back" etc. etc. However that happens in the extreme when a guy d…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 10:00 PM
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You're missing the nuance. Girls will happily - eagerly - enjoy being treated like a sex toy for the right guy. Irrespective of age. And doing so is not incompatible with them desiring to be valued. Wanting the feeling that the person they are with has some commitment to them. Really you respect and value her more by recognizing that what she desires is a dominant, powerful, force of masculinity - one that she can give way to and embrace her instinctual feminine nature. Also on your earlier poin…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 08:53 PM
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What has happened is a sort "fake scientific pose" has emerged over the years where a person with heavy emotional investment in the "official understanding" simply becomes closed minded. Sometimes - on the posts and comments you write - I do have a close minded attitude towards. By no means everything, when you talk about female psychology, attraction and dynamics I often find it very insightful and on point. But on politics, world affairs and - for lack of a better term "the nature of reality" …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 08:10 PM
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Quantum theory is limited - And there is no complete scientific understanding to merge general relativity with quantum theory. The more you go into the fringes of theoretical science, the more it becomes "educated conjecture". However the OP seems to favour religious philosophical "laws" and making speculative inferences between them - and redpill ideas, then ties it together with the suggestion this is objectively true. Religion is insightful, ancient philosophy, culture, tradition can have dee…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 06:42 PM
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Your first point doesnt go against anything I said - if anything it adds weight to my point. Something being consistent with subjective experience, does not make it more likely to be objectively true. Quantum theory doesn't take the stance that everything is random - and it may well be that the "randomness" inherent within quantum theory is a result of our current limited understanding of the quantum world. However the bit I quoted was: Nothing. Is. Random. And quantum theory - as it is currentl…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 06:34 PM
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You've pre-empted my criticism: That’s total pseudo-philosophical bullshit Hermeticism is a religious philosophy. They are not "Laws" in a scientific or objective sense. To take some specifics: The Truth is not something you find by just reading a book, or writing an essay, or having a Socratic dialogue. You need to live it. So what do you say to the countless numbers of religious people who say a significant reason for their belief is that it has manifested in their life - their lived experienc…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 01:12 PM
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Compassion is a virtue that can often be overlooked here - in favour of selfishness, arrogance etc. It's understandable why - this forum is largely concerned with sexual strategy, and really compassion is not going to get you very far on that front. In terms of becoming someone of admirable character, and a strong, well rounded human being however, it's essential.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 08:59 AM
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Your first paragraph - I don't agree with. I think the "emotional jealousy" of women is more due to the important risk of losing the resources of the BB man they invested in And in an equivalent manner as "physical jealousy" in men is due to the important risk of losing the certainty of paternity in the woman they invested in These are possible evo-psych explanations behind why a man might be more aggrieved if a girl physically cheats - and why a woman more aggrieved if a man emotionally cheats.…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 02:19 PM
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This is a great reply, thanks for expanding on it. You're right on the scientific side - it doesn't help that universities are practically infected with political and social bias. Science doesn't operate in a vacuum. Seeing it in terms of dualistic motivations is interesting. That men desire sexual variety - but also have some desire for individual emotional attachment to someone "special". Girls intuitively understand this I think, it's why a guy sleeping around - but maintaining a special inte…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 12:00 PM
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Haha, I've not heard that quote before, but it's fantastic! I think that monogamous pair bonding is certainly a thing in the short term - that's "love". Which might suggest there is wiring towards that too - so "We are wired to seek sexual variety" could be a simplification that overlooks contradictory behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 10:43 AM
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Take men for example. We are wired to seek sexual variety, yet not every man cheats, has a harem of women or are unexclusive plate spinners. Is there any scientific evidence for this? I'm aware it is consistent with RP theory. To play devil's advocate - could you not say men are also wired for monogamous pair bonding? The lengths to which people here have to go to avoid falling into the "trap" of developing feelings too strongly for one girl - could strongly suggest there is something more compl…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 08:42 AM
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why are men more enlightened for having lots of it and women are hurt? I think a significant part of this comes down to biology. Women - on an emotional level - invest more of themselves by having sex with someone. You could understand this hormonally, in the role Oxytocin plays. Or descriptively - most girls cannot casually have sex with someone without it coming at an emotional cost in the same way guys can. Modern society would have you think of this is a double standard of the patriarchy (sl…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 09:26 AM
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Vet someone before hand - its not hard to make a throwaway skype account and determine if a person is likely to be legitimate. There's no completely safe way to do it, but the above measure would probably filter out most people. Something I've been considering recently, since the pk thing that just happened, is this sub is getting large enough - and having a big enough impact on society - that it's going to be seen as a threat, and anonymity is going to be even more important, especially for peo…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 06:49 PM
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It doesn't need to be funny - it's suggestively sexual, and clearly meant to be. If she's attracted she'll find it funny because of him, and the attitude conveyed in it's delivery - not because of the innate brilliance of the joke itself.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 10:16 AM
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I'm #1. That's the first step - you'll do fine ;) Can you elaborate why she's so repulsed by me? In my view this is not accurate - it is Hyperbole used here to slap a guy around the head, and get him to stand up straight and act in his own interest. Women are not necessarily repulsed by guys in your position - but they are not attracted. You may have some idealised fantasy notion of who she is. Auvergnat puts it absolutely clearly below, women are attracted to men who are Above them... Beyond th…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 08:22 AM
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That was a risky google - not what I was expecting. Incidentally, that's the way special forces are trained to shoot, at least in my country.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 08:45 PM
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Perhaps - but it was meant to soften it slightly. If you're saying "You're nothing to me" "You're disgusting", and treating her in a way which compounds it, that can do some fucked up things to a girls psyche. I am not saying it's ineffective, if anything it's far too effective. But it is not beyond the realm of possibility that a guy would not wish to potentially screw with her sense of self - which for some girls, taking it to "extreme" levels will do. Making it possessive does soften this - m…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 10:02 AM
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Haha, I could see this working! Seems overkill though, to pretend to have a personality disorder, to achieve that affect.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 11:51 PM
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Absolutely true - Coming across as moral yourself is also advantageous. People generally think better of someone if they consider them to be moral and considerate. I think there are worthwhile reasons to actually be a moral and considerate person, but also don't let that get in the way of your own success - rather balancing them. However people who are unrefrained from moral // empathetic considerations do tend to do very well, if they are high functioning and can act. Embodying the method of a …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 09:18 PM
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If you want to achieve this without damaging her on an emotional // self worth level. You can try "Does your family know what a whore you are for me" "You're my whore" etc. etc. By making the dirty talk possessive - and linked to you, she can embrace being that way for you. There are some aspects to girls sexual nature that mean they can very easily bond and latch on to a guy who shows abusive behaviour to them. Almost like Stockholm Syndrome - there's definitely a similar mechanism at work ther…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 05:23 PM
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That was just to illustrate that you can come up with plausible sounding - evo psych - explanation for any phenomena you wish. For the record, I know quite well the characteristics women are attracted to in men, and neither weak nor beta are among them. Although a strong alpha guy, who shows some "beta" bonding and comforting behaviors to a girl can easily deepen her attraction - but thats a difficult tight-rope to walk, and generally speaking guys here need to develop alpha traits, and dispense…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 03:14 PM
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He got this from Neitzsche: Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws You also see similar sentiment in Shakespeare: Great it is, to have a giant's strength, but tyrannous to use it like a giant... Pretty insightful though - goodness is having the capacity to act for evil, and not doing so.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 02:29 PM
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That's an interesting point. In this scenario, women are more attracted to weak men Yes which gives weak men all the power All would be overplaying it, but agreed it would suggest weak men have some power deriving from women's attraction prefference. which makes the weak men less likely to settle because they are wanted by many women Not necessarily - I could say that weak men are, temperamentally, disinclined to exercise that power - even if they theoretically do have it. Just because a man has…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 11:46 AM
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Women are attracted to weak men: This is a byproduct of our evolutionary past, in which the well-being of their children, and a stable partner to raise and support a family was an essential concern. Weak men are more likely to be dependable and stay around to help maintain and support a family. Strong masculine men, in an evolutionary sense, are less likely to provide the stability and nurture that is key component of the underlying biological role that women play. Indeed are more likely to aban…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 10:15 AM
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There is an issue with evo psych - at least regarding people who tend to use it to explain things as a layman. You can quite easily explain almost anything under the sun, and evoke evo psych terms to do so. So let's use an example: Women are attracted to strong men Evo Psych explanation: This is a byproduct of our evolutionary past, in which protection from danger was essential for survival of both themselves and children, so women are attracted to strong men capable of protecting. My issue with…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 09:33 AM
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The classic version of the Trivium - from antiquity - is that Grammar, Dialectic and Rhetoric, be taught as disciplines. The idea being that once someone can be skilled in those categories, they are well equipped to working their way toward knowledge and understanding, and that skill in those fundamentals will aid them in greater learning. If you wanted to you could call it Understand -> Interrogate -> Convey Because it calls for an understanding of the information relevant to whatever it is you…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 10:33 PM
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Haha! Firstly - just for fun, would your response to my comment serve as an exemplar of stoicism? And you've missed the obvious: The irony of your comment is tragic The irony of my comment is intentional Look at the wording, it wasn't exactly a subtle joke I was making...
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 10:07 PM
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With body language - Closed, taking up little space, lacking upright posture, uncomfortable with eye contact - or only give it fleetingly. All signs of low status, discomfort, low self esteem. Girls pick up on this very quickly and often subconsciously - small nuances in a persons body language, voice, eye contact, expressions. To make an assessment of the "type" of guy you are. Also worth noting - victims of crime are often picked because they SIGNAL weakness, give signs of being an easily expl…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 12:23 PM
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There's no video evidence of Jimmy Saville Correct - there is however, numerous instances of victims coming forward with claims of abuse, or knowledge of abuse. His is known to have operated in places where abuse took place. There were numerous rumours during his lifetime that he was a pedophile. This is part of my take on this, you seem to have jumped to calling Macron a pedophile on the grounds of - as far as I can tell - "This is just how people like that, in that position, in those circles, …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 10:02 AM
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Everyone who holds strong beliefs on something considers themselves to be logical - and often considers people who don't hold them to be illogical. I've believed plenty of things myself that were ultimately untrue... It's not wise to assume someone is illogical // irrational, just because they believe something that - to you - seems wrong or absurd.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 09:55 PM
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OK. However he's directly linked to and involved with the ring of high profile personalities who are all arguably involved in child abuse and pedophilia. What exactly does "linked" mean here? Because to be frank, someone being linked to personalities who are arguably involved in child abuse, is tenuous as far as evidence goes. I am quite sure I could be "linked" to people who have done illegal things, depending on how vaguely you define linked.... And "arguably" does not seem like particularly s…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 02:12 PM
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I am not hugely up on this, but aware of it enough to get the gist. Let's assume the pizzagate scandal is entirely correct - Is there any evidence at all for your claims about Macron?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 01:07 PM
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I may regret this, but evidence?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 12:02 PM
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I'm distressed by the amount of times this exact same thread gets posted here, and wish I had the power to revoke it at any time. You sure it wasn't Bill Murray that actually said this?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 04:41 AM
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Ah... of course! It's hard to keep track, they've done so many studies on this topic. I'm starting to think if NASA scientists would spend a little less time fucking each other in space, they might have reached Mars already.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 03:51 PM
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Ah the NASA study... despite promising early signs, it was actually flawed - conducted in space, it was found that no-one can hear you scream and thus: "definitely no homo" However, When the same study was conducted on earth, results were harrowingly different, and researchers concluded that it was - "gay as fuck, totally homo, oh god what were we thinking....."
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:40 PM
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You get racists everywhere - it's not representative of all, or any, people here. Not to mention when you see people spouting stupidity, you get to have the fun experience of adding them to the "nothing you say has any value" - list. You can even write it in comic sans, to give the list some extra jauntiness.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 10:33 PM
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If you whisper "no homo" at just the right decibel then it's still heterosexual. It's been proven in actual science, that does exist.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 10:00 PM
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I haven't made an argument for something being right You have implied it is contextually worthwhile, on the grounds it is natural and there are advantages to doing so. To really argue this point I would need you to spell out those advantages, which I could then counter with the ways I think it is dis-advantaged (And I do) to arrive at some conclusion. It is an incorrect extension on my part to say you've argued it's right in any moral sense though. which would imply you and I (and the reader who…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 02:24 PM
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I couldn't agree more with your first paragraph, well stated. Camps are created by practical opposition, they're not an undesirable side-effect. Humans are social creature and thus are factional - we treat each other as brothers in arms or enemies because that sort of arrangement is advantaged compared to not doing that. The tendancy to create in group // out groups... and engage in fractional behaviour and thought is natural - evolutionarily advantageous. But something being somewhat inbuilt in…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 02:04 PM
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Yes - and that is an example of what I meant by cyclical nature... An interest group rises, gains traction, has ideological aims - lets go with feminism. Politicians see this increasing influence and harness it to increase their standing and position. This causes the effect of legitimising and giving weight to that ideology and group - causing it to spread further. Greater influence - media coverage - societal influence, political change.... it gains momentum, propped up by people looking to adv…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:50 PM
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No one mentioned that though The OP of this thread did, and I have seen the view made here quite frequently by some, linking occultism and freemasonry as underlying forces behind societal change. Your points I am largely in accordance with. A significant amount of the change is market forces driven, people looking to profit. There are also ideological interests - feminism being a huge one. A lot is also cyclical - and outside of peoples control. The pushing of leftist ideas, values... groups, pe…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:39 PM
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Not the person you are respond to, but your point is accurate, so I'll respond to the post with something that is an example of critical thinking: It's just so blatantly obvious that some very powerful people are trying to destabilize society and to promote their own set of values. The first part of this: It's just so blatantly obvious A meaningless attribution that, to be clear, is good persuasion, but not an example of critical thinking. Let's journey forward... that some very powerful people …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:15 PM
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Gender obviously isn't though. You have a XX or XY and therefore are either male or female. Square this with claims about lacking masculinity in today's society. With behaviours that have typically been considered "masculine" and "feminine" being observed in people of differing sexes with more frequency. Men behaving effeminately, women behaving in more "masculine" ways. If I find one muscular - high testosterone - strong jaw - deep voice man, and then compare him with a slender - weak - androgy…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 10:59 AM
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As far as I'm aware - there was a flurry of media articles, linking adverts appearing on extremist videos on Youtube. This caused company's pull their ad's - They have to protect their brand image... and be seen to acting in a politically correct "acceptable" way...in order to protect their image, and ultimately their revenue.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 09:40 AM
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You missed the point where he said it was blindingly obvious. Thus making it so. Sometimes it is easier to understand the changing of society as being orchestrated by some malevolent, simple, and understandable force. Jews doing it, soros doing it, globalist elite doing it.... The alternative is you have to try to wrap your head around the interweaving webs of influence, competing agenda's, powerful influences, that do attempt to change and shape society. That is a hard thing to do... and create…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:37 AM
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Undoubtedly Youtube videos that have an authoritative sounding narrator - Using historical events that factually occured, and overlaying them with subjective interpretation specifically designed to further whatever point they are looking to establish as fact. Are going to yield nothing but truth. Frankly it shocks me that the overlord government societal shapers allow the insurrectionist youtube channels to exist, potentially undermining their attempt to enslave society - but then it hits me. Of…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:23 AM
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I understand - low self-esteem and depression can just blanket you, they are somewhat indiscriminate to how objectively successful or unsuccessful you are being - especially if the root is unprocessed emotional trauma in the past. The important thing is not succumbing to it, taking ownership of the situation and working to tackle and improve. Even if it seems hopeless or incapable of being tackled (which mental illness can be like - particularly if the person lacks understanding of how to addres…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 06:39 AM
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There are people here that will mock and belittle "beta's" "bluepillers" or any kind of perceived weakness or inferiority, and revel in it. It's a sign of an inferiority complex. A neediness to be recognised as superior, and think of themselves as better than. Really it is - at root - one of the most pathetic characteristics a human can have, once they reach an age older than about 21. Overtly the justification will be "busting balls" or reminding people why not be be beta's. But let's be real, …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 06:02 AM
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The point isn't that it is a worthwhile thing to do. It's that you test her willingness to go along with it, and can by gauging her reaction, gain some insight into her character. The redflag in the OP isn't even that she would deceptively return fake batteries, in my view, it's this: "Yeah, and I can just tell the clerk that I bought the wrong size! Let me grab the receipt and I can take care of it when I go back." She reacts with a confident ease, so is used to manipulating people and lying ab…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 06:15 AM
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Read - prolifically. Embrace Ideas, People, Arguments that challenge you. Someone holds a belief that goes against what you believe, and is able to articulate it well, or push it effectively? The typical response to this is to find ways of ignoring or dismissing. Do not be that person - it is characteristic of weakmindedness. Have the ability to step outside of yourself. We are all solipsistic, ego driven, emotionally swayed creatures. Consciously detaching from this will enable you to see thing…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:13 PM
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you will have redirected her anger from your masterbating onto traffic and co-workers. People really need to stop masterbating onto traffic and their co-workers! All the emotional manipulation skills in the world aren't going to help you meander your way out of that, lol. Jokes aside - your post is good, the difference between "soft" power and "hard" power is worth understanding for workplace dynamics too. I'm fairly observant, and was watching one - newly hired - high up manager establish himse…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 02:24 PM
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Meaning went through gender transition - diagnosed transexual, hormone treatment to put levels in female range, name change, social change. I passed as a girl, so also know what its like to live as, and be perceived that way. The differences in experience, peoples perceptions, behaviour and interactions etc. Basically everything except surgery. Edit: And used to meaning - went back on the process, now living as a guy, hormones normal for etc. Fortunately I'm young, healthy and adaptable, so it's…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 05:24 AM
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Well this is annoying... A lot of studies you link suggest a correlation between brain volume and intelligence. I used to be transgender, and among the many affects of hormones is that it changes brain volume, http://www.eje-online.org/content/155/suppl_1/S107.full In conclusion, our data show that in young adult humans, androgen treatment increases the volume of the female brain towards male proportions and anti-androgen + estrogen treatment reduces the size of the male brain towards female pro…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 05:49 PM
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Haha you're right! never even knew the association, and assumed it meant anyone born in 88 shouldnt be preaching. So i've made some meaningless response, to what was a clever joke//observation. Fun times.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 05:00 PM
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Someone being young does not make them incapable of having worthwhile and insightful views on morality. I'm younger still, and know plenty of older people who lack any understanding of morality, and would be incapable of preaching meaningfully on the topic. Now I also know what its like to be young and intelligent enough to think you know everything, and overlook the advice of people older and wiser, and face the consequences of that. A hard learned lesson... but by the same token to dismiss som…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 04:00 PM
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Then you can CHOOSE to create a purpose for yourself Yes but any purpose you create could be described as a fantasy, in just the same way as you have characterised higher consciousness, love, god etc. Is it healthy to see the world through a artificially created "lense" that provides interpretation of reality for you? That's a good question. I think in some ways everyone see's the world through an artificially created lense - we are all blighted by solipsism.. Now you could say - and I'd imagine…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 04:40 PM
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It's interesting, even quoted fully there is still some aspects I question, mainly: If you feel it and want to solve it, then you have no choice. I am not so certain you solve it by embracing reality - because reality is barren of solution. Maybe it depends on what you mean by solve - balancing and recognising that dissonance, whilst also having the good sense to ignore it and engage in life, perhaps... One other thing I do know, it is Incredibly easy for someone to rationalise some deep existen…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 01:40 PM
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If you pursue the abandonment of all "myth" - you will end up with nihilism. Morality is illusory - love is illusory - "meaning" is illusory. Arguably our sentience and consciousness is merely a byproduct to better enable the propagation of genetic material. You can take a reductionist stance to love and relationships - Just neurochemical states. You can take a reductionist stance to personality and identity - A interplay of genetic dispositions and social influence to enable our functioning in …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 10:49 AM
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I'm going to expand on this, as your edit made me reflect on the situation. I dont want to cheat, though i can tonight, cus thats what her ex did to her You care for her, her wellbeing herself, you're attracted to and like her a lot. You don't want to damage her, treat her in negative ways she may have been treated - or told you she's been treated in the past. But look at it this way. What do YOU want, and what is in YOUR interest. Because it sure as hell isn't continuing to provide emotional co…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 07:42 PM
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"We need a break" "Ok!" Go complete no contact, enjoy yourself, pursue interests, other girls, and generally have a good ol' time Watch as, after a period of complete no contact // closure, she starts hitting up your phone. And if she doesn't case closed, she lost attraction, it will likely hurt if you opened up to her somewhat and had feelings for her, but time + being awesome will get you through that.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 06:39 PM
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I wasn't actually talking about this issue specifically, she puts on a manipulative performance. You've got two sides, both of whom believe themselves to be ideologically correct. And she's a girl. Hardly surprising she represents the issue in a one-sided way, and plays the victim.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 03:23 AM
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This seems way more alt-right politics, than sexual strategy. As far as I can tell the whole antifa // trump supporters? Berkeley thing is just a childish battleground for a "war" of ideas that has largely played out on the internet SJW, virtue signalling, irrational left on one side. And patriots // defenders of moral decency - definitely not deluded, right wingers on the other. The concept of, and trust in, "truth" is being slowly eroded, and when you do not have strong narratives that bind pe…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 07:27 PM
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I don't see what part of his statement is incorrect. She is one of the most successful business women in history, and one of the most powerful.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 12:01 AM
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So you have: 1) Justified someone being beaten on the floor, on the grounds they threw a brick at someones head 2) Then admit you have no idea if he actually did that 3) Say the point is irrelevant - because he was among a group of people, one of whom did throw a brick, and other things, and you hope they stomped his teeth out The no excuse point is irrelevant - you can find an excuse for anything, real or imagined. And people use "there's no excuse" as hyperbole.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 08:59 AM
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No, I do sometimes like arguing a point for its own sake, its quite a good way to keep your mind sharp, and forces you to consider different viewpoints. In this though I was writing to get across: Women do know what attracts them, and do give that information out in a way which can be useful for guys looking to fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 04:52 AM
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"She's saying what she means, but instead of what she says, it's this other thing." Firstly I am not suggesting you listen to what women say - even in the rare example when they are communicating honestly, it will be an "honest" communication of her emotional reality. TRP puts this as "feels before reals". A more accurate description of this from a girls perspective would be feels = reals. Anyway that aside - what i am suggesting is that women do communicate useful information as to what attract…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:27 PM
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I don't fully buy this, and I see the view expressed often, that women are useless at knowing what attracts them. Really women tell guys ALL THE TIME what they are attracted to - they just don't put it in plain language. When she beams at you after you act a certian way - shes telling you. When she coo's: "I love it when you..." "When you do X it makes me feel so...." She's telling you With every gaze, touch, alteration of body language, intonation of voice, suggestively spoken sentence - she's …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 07:30 PM
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Your points definitely apply if the post is a: "Here is what I did, how I did it, why it worked", Kind. I've just also read a lot of good posts that don't meet those criteria - generally what makes them good is the person Has good experience // understanding of something Is able to articulate and convey it well Another thing worth mentioning would be formatting - it makes information easier to read, and also is suggestive the person put some time and effort into what they are writing.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 02:31 PM
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This seems overblown - and needlessly prescriptive. If it's: On topic The person is clear Considers the perspective "What value will this provide to the person reading?" They speak from experience Then I'm fine with it. Personally I think this place would be an echo-chamber of meaninglessness if everyone stuck to only expressing themselves in a specific way - focused on using "redpill" lexicon - and all projected some "look how alpha I am bro" attitude.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 02:09 PM
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Being "red pilled" has been extended by some to mean: "have the uncomfortable truth of a situation shown to you" So you get people applying it to political issues, cultural issues, and really anything under the sun. It becomes a meaningless term in this context. Also if you look at that guys videos he claims to be transgender - despite not seeming or coming across as feminine at all, autistic might be more apt. I think this represents the dangers of psychological illness + narcissism far more th…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 10:28 AM
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You're playing with fire. Publically undermining the authority // disrespecting your boss in earshot of your other employees. He dealt with it badly too, and now appears weak in front of them. It's a hard thing to guess at without being there, and knowing the dynamics, but the safer move would be to confront him OUTSIDE of anyone hearing or knowing - then he doesn't lose face in front of everyone, but you still get your position across. My suggestion would be to now win him over - making a poten…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 03:58 PM
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I haven't read Zarathustra - I remember starting it, but couldn't get hooked in like I did his others, it seemed like he was trying to to achieve too much at once. I should probably try again though. I used to read prolifically when when I was growing up, but I think the internet//modern culture has fucked around with my focus, and attention span - getting back into it is something I've had to work at! With the Greeks they in many ways form the bedrock of our intellectual history, so much derive…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 08:46 AM
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If you're interested in philosophy Nietzsche is worth reading. I'd recommend Twilight of the Idols, and Beyond Good and Evil. Look for the ones translated by Walter Kauffman. Also worthwhile people reading Shakespeare, Dostoyevsky, Plato, Descartes, Aristotle. And brushing up on Freudian theory, Russian history / Communism and Postmodernism. Our past, present and likely future have been shaped by these three monoliths.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 10:46 PM
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You shouldn't post this here. Your friend is pouring out his heart - Yes it serves as a good example of what not to do, think, be... in relation to women - and the ease with which guys can become obsessed with a girl. But it is distasteful to publically post something that is incredibly private to someone - without them knowing and being ok with it. I've actually had a similar experience - friend met a girl on holiday and was very attracted... wrote a letter expressing all his love, how special …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 02:38 PM
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That makes sense. In which case edgy teenager, who spends his time playing internet games, copies someone else's story for an internet forum to pick over and judge. Likely has almost no experience of being in the guys position. Speaks of red flags he's read about on the internet, but never known in life. I have more respect for the man in the OP
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 08:11 AM
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This is fake, and you are not legitimate. A quick scan of your post history shows that 1 month ago, you were 19. Not to mention your past posting history is completely inconsistent with the kind of person your story presents you to be. So bullshit. That said - it was an interesting read, evocative, so some points for dramatic writing.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 07:25 AM
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Some part of me feels this might just be an elaborate shit test on her part - which you failed by taking seriously. Girls aren't very sexual in general I'll have you scream that out at climax ;) They never really think about sex Of course you don't! I'm sure a good girl like you never thinks about.... (go on to talk about all of the things she DEFINITELY DOES think about) You should have taken nothing she says seriously, play with her silly ideas - which is not to say some of her points do not h…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 09:03 AM
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You affront her expectations - you dissolve her power. She will be used to having a powerful effect on guys, mannerisms, a flicker of eyes, playfulness, soft lingering touch etc.... When a guy shows himself to be completely in control in the face of this it can dissolve her power, her sense of control of the interaction, and her frame. Not the easiest of things to describe - and a guy doing it won't be showing indifference or lack of interest - its more he'll be communicating by his body languag…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 02:11 PM
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It's because a man's SMV is not immediately apparent by his looks. An attractive enviable girl shows clear desire for you - it communicates so much. All of the "I wonder if's..." that women have about men can then be clearer. You likely have an attractive attitude with women. You likely know how to fuck. You likely have value - whatever that is - the other girl has already determined it to be true. Women also compete with each other for the attention of guys, the other girl has already displayed…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 01:45 PM
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Reasons women complain about wolf whistling / male attention: To covertly signal that she is attractive - desirable. And also as a status thing, she has the power to complain about being deemed attractive, and women will often define themselves on how attractive they are to men. If she's complaining about it to a guy - its a covert "im attractive" and maybe an attempt to cause jealousy. If she's complaining to girls - its a way of establishing status. The psychology behind this is not far remove…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 07:38 PM
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Not too long ago I thought I might need this, although lucked out, and now levels are high naturally. Few questions Does TRT not shut down the HPT Axis - or at least significantly lower LH and FSH. And therefore cause you to become dependant on it? I've heard most methods, with the exception of injection, can have disappointing // low results. Which method is most effective, in terms of both health, and raising levels? Fertility - As I understand, goes or is lowered, and may require hCG to maint…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 08:50 PM
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Thankyou. Its not a topic that people speak plainly on. Trans people have overwhelming bias - indeed have to as an act of self-preservation, they've made such a drastic change in their lives that to consider "this might be wrong // inauthentic // I've made a mistake" would in some ways cause the collapse of their reality. And on the reverse side people who tend to criticise it will often have strong negative bias too - and tend to lean towards weak cliched statements. I see a lot of that here, a…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 07:29 AM
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The issue is complex though - certainly far more complex than any trans person will admit to, and more complex than the liberal narrative would suggest. I'll speak from my own example - getting to a point where you consider transitioning your gender takes YEARS. In my case I reached such a low point, that taking some form of action was needed. I won't wax lyrical on it, because lets face it mental illness is a huge downer! But to paint a brief picture - extremely depressed, anxious, bulimic, iso…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 01:53 PM
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Lol, no worries, I write quickly, and it won't be wasted if you take something from it! Gl
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 12:27 PM
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Haha, this might well be my favourite comment on this topic I've seen here.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 08:16 AM
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Firstly - Step 1 in not being beta, is not thinking of yourself that way. It's a habit that I would advise you cease. You don't have to prove yourself to anyone here, or indeed to anyone in life. You are thinking too much, and caring too much about. Guys who are successful with women ACT. Eye contact, direct, communicate your interest and desire, show your confidence and masculinity in your gaze. Touch - it doesnt matter if it is awkward or contrived (although for bonus points make it seamless) …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 05:46 PM
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It should be - I don't actually mind alot of the female nature shit - a significant ammount is not conscious and just a consequence of their sexual strategy. But lying to someone about something lifechanging, about a child that is not theres. That WILL define and drastically change their life. Under the illusion it is theirs genetically, and under the illusion shes been faithful. I'd like to think it requires psychopathy to do it, but what probably happens is a girl will "rationalise" the situat…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 10:00 PM
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In a subreddit of almost 200,000. They have managed to find 4 people. Poorly researched would be an understatement. And this: “If you go to Red Pill and you say something that those guys don't really like then they will just delete your comments or just say that you are a ‘mangina’ or a ‘feminist’ or a ‘cuck’," he told me. "They have this social influence mechanism where they pre-emptively invalidate all criticism by criticising people back… and it is typical of cults to do this.” Other Red Pill…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 08:29 PM
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How do you handle these stupid questions? Pressure flip - turn the questions back on her. Then depending on how she responds keep the dynamic very much her focused on you. So for example, after flipping the "Did you miss me question" back to her - assuming she says yes, you can respond "How much?" "Show me" "Prove it" - this can quickly escalate to good things - and enforces a good dynamic for your relationship (one in which she is proving herself to you, not the other way around) You can also s…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 01:26 PM
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Sounds liberating. I've been stuck at level 50 for a while, need to up my game. As an aside, I listened to part of an interview you gave recently, was a lot of insightful//useful things packed in. Particularly perceiving what superiors need from you, and never allowing a situation where there is a question / situation related to you - that they don't already know, or have the answer to. Very helpful.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 06:14 PM
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Yeah - I think the way I see it is, if you model your personality on exploiting characteristics women find attractive - or obsesssing over being "alpha" - dangerous, masculine, give no fucks (in the deeper sense of having zero care for others) violent, direct, uncompromising, "assholish". etc.... all of which can easily make a girls mind swim. But really in the process you can easily become a "bad" human being, and a caricature. I think its healthier to have the capacity to display those charact…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 05:28 PM
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Careful, your clear love of crayons has made you break frame!
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 05:22 PM
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Lol, I'm quite sure I could top you for past blue pill behaviour. You can laugh about it though, and dont seem to take it too seriously (both of which are good signs) One thing Ive been considering recently is that in some ways the whole "redpill" journey - is really just growing up. Developing boundaries, maturity, taking responsibility, independence, a strong sense of self... all NECCESARY to being a man - especially a man women desire. A lot of the current "crisis" of masculinity in western c…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 11:12 AM
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Yeah its a tricky situation, I hope it all goes well for you. Meditation can help wonders.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 10:59 PM
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A couple of things I picked up from this situation. she texted me "Leave me the fuck alone" Saturday morning... She texts me apologizing for her rant... I just said "No need to apologize" This is disrespect, not subtle, not "testing the waters (which girls will do with alpha guys they are attracted to) this is just plain disrespect. The next morning she apologizes for it. This is not a genuine apology. This is her trying to keep you within her frame, and she's probably "sorry" in that she feels …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 09:11 PM
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Hands down the best post I've come across on here recently. This works, and your analysis of why it works is spot on.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 10:13 AM
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But thats not just one persons written argument on the internet, causing someone to flip reverse their world view... thats an accumulation of so many things - and it takes TIME and happens in stages, with input from MULTIPLE people, and coupled with experience. And most commonly people will first need to be OPEN to it, and usually the thing that opens them will be pain. Naive expectations about girls, relationships - will lead them to a point where something significant hits them, and hits them …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 06:15 PM
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You can change the mind of a person - even people with staunch views, be they political / cultural or whatever. But the internet is NOT a good place to achieve that. Lets say I hold a strong view - call it "X". And its important - holds emotional significance to me, the way I live my life, the way I think, and the way I understand and interpret the world around me. And this is really the way people should be understanding views, they are not merely "ideas" people have, they In Some Way make up w…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 04:39 PM
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Another still is not to mistake legitimate criticism, for someone being a hater. If you put everyone who criticises in the enemy camp, you'll not recognise your flaws, and limit your opportunity for growth.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 03:25 PM
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All of this should have been a comment in response to the post you are referring. There is no reason at all for making a new post, that is simply you critiquing another post. The world does not revolve around you. This forum does not revolve around you. You can - actually - write quality content, and have done so, but that is easily lost because you post too much, and some of it is just noise. It would help if you applied these two principles: Quality > Quantity "What value does this provide to …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 08:27 AM
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Men who have their shit together don't go around calling people "cucks" on the internet. That said, this article is a waste of language.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:50 PM
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Women can spot weakness in a man, like a shark can spot blood in water. If you're not yet at the point of congruency which is so attractive to a girl - congruency being a mans confidence, physicality, status, refined sense of self, masculinity, sexual boldness, strength etc. All of it is in alignment. That comes from experience and development - and really men who fit that description are INCREDIBLY rare, and often very fortunate in their genetics and life experience, or have worked very hard to…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:33 PM
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Very very interesting read, eloquently written. Reminded me of a comment I wrote fairly recently. Women know TRP inherently - it is corroborated by their experiences. They would never explain it in terms expressed here, and would probably vehemently disagree with a lot of the views and conclusions drawn. But ultimately in terms of what women find attractive in a man they KNOW. And they don't know from theory, or evaluation (although some might also apply this) they know from experience and feeli…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 01:13 AM
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Don't overthink, I get the sense from your post you are doing that. I'm aware that is easier said than done - I overthink things, and whilst it can have some benefit, generally it is a weakness - Action > Thought. Instead of "does this make me seem like a beta? should I do this?".... or whatever it is. Act first, then run it over later. Your response: "I'm not sure I can carve a huge time slot from my day, I'll come by for the last 45-30 mins of it and we can go from there?" You could easily tur…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:14 PM
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It's on track to the topic being discussed, and post. But it is abit of a hair splitting line of argument, so I take your point!
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 08:06 PM
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if it were an echo chamber you wouldn't have been able to say anything you did. Remember that. This doesnt neccesarily follow. It is a strong argument that the way TRP is moderated runs against it being an echo chamber, but not that echo chamber-like views and attitudes do not occur. I do not think TRP is an echo chamber by any stretch of the imagination, my experience has been quite the opposite, but you can still see frequent instances of it occurring. One that springs to mind is when a scient…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 04:58 PM
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Absolutely - I meant emotional bias generally. The starting point should always be yourself. I generally find that meaningful conversations, with someone who is prepared to admit they could be biased - or even outline what those might be, are always more enlightening than people who consider their opinion to be fact. Having said that, presenting opinion as fact is a powerful rhetorical device, but that's a more Machiavellian position.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:38 PM
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Lol, thanks. It was weakness and desperation that took me there in the first place, but it did take some bravery to reverse things. Took some bravery to do it in the first place too in some respects, its not the easiest of roads to walk down. But yeah gender confused boys would benefit far more from strong male role figures, and psychological therapy designed to strengthen their sense of self, and deal with past things that might have fucked them up.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 12:55 PM
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I agree with a lot of this too, how you act, speak, think to some extent defines who you become. We have huge capacity for self determination - I do not think people are simply born anything, especially something as diverse as their personality, "identity" (whatever that means), or sexuality. If you embrace masculinity and behave in accordance with that, adopting risk taking activities, competitiveness, developing boundries and a strong, positive sense of self. It's necessary to developing into …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 12:52 PM
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I should be more clear - I do not think you are incorrect in saying the media is pushing a liberal "accepting" narrative on these issues, and it can have, is having, a brainwashing effect. I also think it is damaging society. But to explain the WHOLE phenomena as a eugenics agenda pushed by the media - and those who own it, is a huge simplification, and seems conspiratorial.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 12:46 PM
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Have you posted this in the wrong forum? I'll address some of your points - although your emotional phrasing makes me suspect you have some "issues" on this topic, perhaps I am wrong though. Anyway. Ex-gays and ex-trans people exist en mass, and most are persecuted for their witness of the fact that Gender is genetic and Sexuality is a choice; not the other way around. I am ex-trans. Asin not even a year ago was living in society ostensibly as a girl. I agree to some extent, trans people get del…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 11:36 AM
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This is a great comment, I relate to a lot of it. One exceptionally useful talent to have - on any views you hold. Is to try to think "What arguments would an intelligent and informed person make against this position?" Always try to see things from the other side - at least when it comes to ascertaining truth. In terms of frame and masculine traits there are arguments to make for being belligerently stubborn and self regarding, but they don't help you understand or reach truth - quite the oppos…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:35 AM
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This. I initially found this place about a year ago, from a guy saying things to me that was effective, but I felt sure was not "natural" or "spontaneous" - despite him making it seem so - because it had such a strong effect. Googling took me to a blog, think it was chateaux heartiste - and reading a little there took me here. Even if girls do not know about TRP specifically, the internet is awash with dating advice, manosphere, pua culture, blogs etc. which touch on many of the same topics.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 06:15 PM
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Consider this a frame grab - really it doesn't matter if you respond yes or no, but what you convey about yourself. She's savvy and is going to gauge you based on how you react. These are actually the kinds of tests that are good for assessing someones character, provocative questions to get a feeling for their mindset, or outlook etc. Be interesting to know your response and the outcome.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 05:25 PM
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Thats just how women are - it doesnt neccesarily mean she's some conniving damaged manipulator (at least any more than women are generally) Just be the guy that recognises that - gets it - undermines or ignores her silly emotional attempts to bring you into her frame - be unpredictable, sexually bold, don't take her seriously. If she knows you get it, then you can go into the more fun category of being the guy she thinks about, feels tingles for, and longs to spend time with. And if not? Ignore …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 04:30 PM
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Fair enough. I did actually see some of your responses, although thought you shouldn't have bothered doing so. Being able to take on, and respond to criticism generally is a good thing, if it's coming from a constructive or legitimate place. If it's not then just ignore, engaging with someone who is antagonizing is a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 12:52 PM
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I saw that post - you were getting criticised, and not really in a justified way. However, you have some attention for being someone who posts loads. To an extent it comes across like you might post for attention, and ego, and that you might just be spamming. I have no way of knowing if that is true, but it easily comes across that way. You are right in your post, recognising what is worth reading, and understanding, and who is worth listening to, Vs who you should ignore, is useful in every ave…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 12:44 PM
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You're absolutely right in this, stories tie in to how we make sense of the world, ourselves and others. And often how we socialise and bond. On some sense what is this place? - a community of individuals sharing stories, their own experiences, perspectives, with other like-minded individuals. To increase knowledge, understanding and ability. Even going back to our roots stories have been the lens through which the random chaos of the external objective world, is brought into something manageabl…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:40 AM
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If you take action at the same - or greater rate - that you make posts. You must never sleep...
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 10:56 AM
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Bingo. Can't decide if they are trolling intentionally or unintentionally, but the end result is the same.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 11:50 AM
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excuse, verb seek to lessen the blame attaching to (a fault or offence); try to justify. When your response to what seemed like a calm counter to your statement, is to tell the person to learn english, that reflects badly on you. Particularly when your point about the distinction between "justify" and "excuse" is tenuous at best.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 11:31 AM
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I actually agreed with quite a lot of your statement - the entirety of your second paragraph, and what you say about actually successful women not needing this, and that it undermines - although I expect some of them are happy for it to be there - even if it undermines - because it can advance their success and influence. My post was in response to this: The #heforshe is another liberal-tastic feel-good motivational pom-pom shaking look-at-me movement that is an utter waste of time. I could have…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 10:38 PM
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You want to dismiss this as just a feel good, ineffectual, childish gesture. As do a lot of people posting. Yet at the same time this meaningless gesture is producing headlines - emphasising issues of importance to feminist aims, advancing their narrative. I have seen the argument here before - women only have as much power as men give / allow them. That may well be true. But right now that power is significant. Men may in theory be able in a second to turn the tide, but the reality is that is n…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 01:36 PM
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A quick googling would show you it was made by a woman called Kristen Visbal.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 12:43 PM
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You make your own readings into it. Feminists could just as easily claim it symbolises the quiet rise of feminine strength, defiant in the face of toxic masculinity, standing their ground unflinchingly. That it symbolises the struggle against patriarchal oppression, and the successes that women have achieved. Like all good poetry or art, it is symbolic yet ambiguous - and each individual ascribes their own meaning too it. It's overt meaning is women forcing themselves on a stereo typically male …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 10:55 AM
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Victimhood removes agency and responsibility from the person. They are given sympathy, attention - considered "innocent". For men to claim victimhood they are often automatically considered weak from it, and sometimes mocked. Women don't get judged in the same way. The irony is the ones who suffer silently, without sympathy, and help or assistance are often men.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 01:41 PM
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I can easily be truthful and open with friends, and have a job I thoroughly enjoy. Not sure where this soul destroying aspect is coming from but it seems like projection on your part. I agree with you on the second part - hence why I said this: Ultimately in my view open dialogue benefits society
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 01:20 PM
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There is some truth to your position. By strategy, I was in part meaning strategic self-interest. Speaking up about these kind of things makes you a target, and you risk your social and professional life. This is not something I would be willing to do, I'm not going to pretend its for any reason other than strategic self-interest the bold bit being the most important. I'll do what I can, whilst maintaining my wellbeing, and in situations that speaking out can be done with minimal self risk then …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 10:55 AM
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The whole world is talking about him, half of it treating him as a hero and you're saying it doesn't benefit him? True, he has benefitted. My reading on him is that he has not taken the positions he has for self aggrandisement and attention, at least initially. That has been a byproduct. In that way he is different to Milo Yiannapoulos say - where you can tell narcissism and attention is a primary drive in him doing and saying what he does. You are excusing your own lack of courage as strategy. …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 08:10 AM
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Even if you are completely right, this post achieves nothing. I got some advice once, on emailing when your annoyed//angry, it can be a good idea to write something out - vent - and then delete it. This is one you should have hit delete on.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 06:08 AM
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Intelligence correlates with higher chance of mental illness generally. In some ways its understandable - smart people may have to grapple with why the fuck are we here?.... religions seem like invented stories... morality and "goodness" doesn't exist, and is only subjectively meaningful - which in some ways makes it meaningless... we are all randomly thrown into existence and quite soon will be pulled from it - likely after much pain - and into the blackness of nonexistence. Everyone we have ev…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 11:15 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=04wyGK6k6HE
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:30 PM
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By should I mean from an idealistic standpoint, not a strategic one. It does not benefit him, and he has become a potential target, for advocating the positions he does. But for someone to stand on principle and conviction, in a situation where it benefits them to NOT do so, takes courage. Courage that I can respect. I don't agree though that his approach is not how it should be played though. Society REQUIRES people like him willing to stand out and speak against the status quo, in order for th…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 01:24 PM
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I saw his interview with Joe Rogan recently, exceptionally interesting. One of the things that struck me most about it was the clear sense that he had suffered from taking the positions he has. There was an almost incredulous frustration in his tone, and you could tell he had faced difficulty simply for disagreeing with the prevailing SJW narrative, and taking a stance for free expression, critical thought and scientific rigor. You can tell there is no malice in his views. He is not looking to u…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 11:48 AM
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Agreed - especially when people start trying to equate their own political or religious views as being redpill.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 01:18 AM
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Thanks! In short yes - estrogen has a huge effect. Much more emotional, alot more empathetic, would cry or feel upset or overwhelmed more easily, would feel anxious more easily. It essentially feminises you, in body and mind. It didnt make me more moody or bitchy, but thats more a personality thing, I've never really had those traits. I've written abit about it in posts here before. This was the first one - which was just after I'd decided to transition back: http://archive.is/LHfRp And this one…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 10:10 PM
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I can second this - the solution is to embrace the dominant confident aspects to your sexuality and yourself, work on that, and eventually you'll look back and laugh when you realise how far you've come. You're likely always going to have some aspects to your sexuality that could respond to submissiveness and the same things you found attractive, just accept that and develop in the way which is healthy and in line with the kind of person you want to be. There are even some positives - I went fur…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 09:14 PM
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You should do a podcast // interview sometime. I don't agree with some of your perspective, it seems too heavily influenced by Infowars, David Icke and often comes across as conspiratorial. It would be extremely interesting though.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 08:47 PM
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what about the rest of women who do not use tinder? are they as slutty? For right guy Yes. All women are - or can easily be.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 12:02 PM
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This is a word for word copy, of a post written some months ago by /u/virusofthemind
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 10:31 PM
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Actually dealing with the world at large - when I was living as a girl, and now living as a guy - has been easy. I get along well with others. There are lots of ways the process has been difficult - particularly emotionally and psychologically - I can see why the suicide rate is so high. I doubt I am the first transexual to realise "I was not mentally well before starting this, perhaps ive made a mistake". And then dealing with the overwhelming sense of confusion and conflict from undoing the pr…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 03:00 PM
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From my experience, male attraction to transexuals is distinct from homosexuality. When I used to be transgender I primarily got interest from men. The effect hormone therapy has is significant - your skin changes, body changes, psychologically in some ways you think and behave in ways more consistent with girls than guys. If you look like a girl, sound like a girl, and behave in a way consistent with that then ultimately it is hetero, or bisexual men that will find you attractive. I never got i…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:47 PM
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Strategically, by over staying, he had more opportunity for her to make it clear shes faking or trip up. And by calmly discrediting the things she says, his reaction contrasts completely with what she is accusing him of. I agree though, when she moved away from the door I wondered why he didn't simply walk away,
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 02:50 PM
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The way your friend reacted in that situation was impressive. There are some huge red flags in here - She's faking distress, to a level asif she is being abused or in danger and upset. The particular bit that is extremely fucked up is that is is consciously faked. At one point early she says "Stop filming me you dick" and the faked emotion is lifted, and you can see she is thinking calculatingly. Then reverts right back to the panic'd, desperate, in danger, emotional show. She also around 1min..…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 02:29 PM
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Well done keeping your mindset on point. Losing a job unexpectedly, and the uncertainty from that, sucks to go through. Sounds like you'll bounce back from it with ease.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:58 PM
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Those texts are what he should be getting from her, when he ghosts. NOT what he should be sending her.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 08:52 PM
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Indeed, had thought that was obvious!
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 08:51 PM
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I agree with the sentiment of this post, but you're missing a distinction. You can be aware of how others will perceive you, and adapt to certain situations // people. Yet still not - actually - give a fuck about what others think of you. You cannot however isolate yourself totally from the views of others - we are a social species, and one of the strongest motivators of human behaviour is how you will come across to others. Even if you consciously have the DGAF thing down - subconsciously every…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 01:33 PM
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and have been texting every day There's one problem. Be Less Available. You could try ghosting her for a week, or more, you'd be amazed the effect that can have. And if she doesn't message you, try to initiate contact, apologise, act confused, upset, conflicted... "I really want to talk to you" "I miss you..." "did I do something wrong?" etc. then next, or drop feelings you have for her and relegate to sex only.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:17 PM
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Point 4 is very accurate. There are ways in which this is not even overt manipulation when a girl does this - by which I mean she will not be thinking "I'll do X to manipulate him into feeling this way about me". It can be "genuine", she feels strongly for him, and wants to show that, as well as wanting him him to sexually and emotionally connect with and care for her - and so acts in ways to foster this, some of which you've described. It can also just be something she does on autopilot with gu…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 09:28 AM
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This is spot on. Especially this So I conclude that they secretly know and won't admit that TRP is correct. Women know TRP inherently - it is corroborated by their experiences. They would never explain it in terms expressed here, and would probably vehemently disagree with a lot of the views and conclusions drawn. But ultimately in terms of what women find attractive in a man they KNOW. And they don't know from theory, or evaluation (although some might also apply this) they know from experience…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 11:05 AM
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The thing that struck me about that place - there is no advice. No self improvement. No concerted effort or insightful analysis. There is literally nothing there that will improve anyones life - it exists merely as a place for people to vent. The criticism is not even insightful or developed. There is a WEALTH of things about this place that could actually be criticized, if someone were willing to do so in a thoughtful manner. But the posts are poor parodies, for people to vent their emotions an…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 09:32 PM
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This post and your last one haven't gotten enough credit - both are on point. In terms of developing the directing mind - or having your super ego supersede. A lot of it is a case of focus, and creating positive feedback loops. If you keep your focus, and commit yourself to change - and then achieve it. It becomes easier the next time, and you can set your goals higher, and the positive feedback from achieving will carry over into the next thing you set your mind to. In terms of mental illness -…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:43 AM
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You could Fibonacci it. HB1 = 1 HB2 = 2 HB3 = 3 HB4 = 5 HB5 = 8 HB6 = 13 HB7 = 21 HB8 = 34 HB9 = 55 HB10 = 89 Fairly sure all applications of the golden ratio have just been leading up to this noble purpose.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 08:19 AM
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People come with their own agenda's, most people critical of this place already have their views on it formed, and then will selectively look for, and twist evidence that supports that, while ignoring anything to the contrary. The inverse can also be true, people who support can be incapable of finding weakness or criticisms in views given here, because they accept it as dogma. You can easily see biases, if someone claims something is redpill then it will be accepted. If an idea is claimed to be…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 07:28 PM
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This is great, lots of useful information, thanks. I jumped into Stronglifts 5x5 a few months ago, and initially had poor form with the exercises, and was overambitious with the weights. Chilling out, and focusing on form, combining it with yoga, and being observant of the people in the gym who know what they are doing, helped a lot.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:05 PM
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While we all say don't give a fuck of what other people think, I think it is dangerous to just really don't give a fuck, at least regarding outward appearance. I think this is best tackled in stages. In terms of caring what other people think, and not giving a fuck, I've experienced the extreme ends of both spectrums - and going between them teaches you a lot. I still remember what it is like to be anxious about the views others have, a sense of neediness for their approval. Wanting to be liked.…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:11 AM
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This was mentioned in a book someone brought up here a while ago - about guy called Iceberg Slim trying to become a pimp, back in the day. I can't remember the exact bit, I read it on a plane a while ago, but he is trying to get in with an established guy who is a pimp, who he wants to impress and learn from - and is in a situation where he can tell hes being tested and watched. The pimp he's trying to get in good with has been watching him, and tells him to wipe that stupid bitch grin off his f…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 10:09 PM
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Sure, http://archive.is/0iThQ
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 03:41 PM
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It might not be for karma, they could just be a troll. You're right though.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 03:02 PM
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Well this is strange given I wrote this post a few months ago. We've either had a remarkably similar experience, or you've been spending too much time on the internet... I'm capable of proving I've been honest and legitimate when it comes to the posts I've written. Can you?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 09:43 AM
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There are so many of these posts recently. About cuckoldy, or extreme beta's. The comments then get filled with analysis over what a pathetic little beta the guy is, and AWALT for the manipulative girl. It's asif this place has a morbid fascination with it. Why do any of you care? Is it just the cliche "I used to be beta, so now can't help being obsessed with stories about beta's as it gives me a much needed sense of superiority?" The overt justification is - look at this example as a reminder o…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 10:23 AM
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Nietzsche summed this up quite well: “Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws.”
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 04:44 PM
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If the posting quality seems bad and repetitious, then counter it with something of value. This is not something of value.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 03:20 PM
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Agreed. OP should link the thread in question, but from the quotes provided I think a guy wrote this.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:43 PM
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Couldn't agree with you more. The idea that the creation of feminism was a concerted and controlled effort to destablize the family structure, and brainwash the minds of the youth - in order to establish a new world order does not hold up to scrutiny. It has existed and grown for many more lifetimes than any one individual, and changed multiple times - so the argument that it could be purposefully steered by a group with a specific end goal is immediately less likely. When asked for evidence you…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 12:22 PM
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Very true. Empathy does help you bond and connect with others, and will deepen relationships no matter what the dynamic, friend, colleague, lover. I suspect people who lack empathy will often have a very skeptical attitude to social relationships, and view them mostly from an angle of self interest and opportunism. In some ways they are right as well, many relationships or interactions are predominantly like that.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 04:11 PM
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I didn't mean it in that way, although you are right in some sense if taken to the extreme. There are levels of empathy too, you can have an awareness for the emotional state of another, without actually "feeling" it yourself - the more abstract form of empathy, intellectual, that comes from observation and analysis for example. And this latter kind can actually help you alot with fucking women. You can observe her emotional state - attracted? interested? disinterested? submissive? nervous? lyin…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 04:06 PM
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Learning to control your own emotions will help you with this. That way even if you do empathise with another person, and take on some of their emotional reality, you can restrict the extent to which that will influence your behaviour. Meditation in particular assists with this. In terms of actually stopping yourself empathising, I don't have a good explanation, its just something I learned to do. Taking a detatched, logical or objective assessment can help. Let's say someone is incredibly upset…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 02:26 AM
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I like your tool analogy - being capable of dark triad behaviours without the limiting psychological state of a dark triad individual. my brain isn't missing that empathy module Good, this is an advantage, if you are emotionally intuitive // intelligent then you have access to a whole world of information. Empathy is now something I try to selectively control, rather than just have "On" as a default setting. I score very high for empathy and emotional intelligence - and whilst this has many adva…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 12:28 AM
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This strongly ties in to how human beings make sense of the world and themselves. We create stories, narratives, that tie into our concept of reality. This forum often emphasizes objective reality - no delusions or believing something because it feels good, embrace the cold hard reality, of gender dynamics, our place in the world, the lack of objective moral meaning etc. etc. Yet ironically there is also quite a heavy push to "define your own reality" create your narrative - and it can be fictit…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 12:38 PM
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Thanks, glad you liked. I wasn't certain it would work very well as a written post, especially considering most people would have to watch and listen to the video in tandem with reading, but was interesting enough I thought I'd try.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 02:50 PM
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Good example. This scene from Doubt also reminds me of it quite strongly https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aI6vV-Yge-c
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 02:48 PM
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Thanks very much! These descriptions are great.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 11:53 PM
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Lifting, exercise, took supplements Vitamin D, Boron, Astaxanthin, Fish Oils. Don't drink or do drugs, cut out sugars and processed food. Eat lots of high fat healthy foods (nuts, eggs, avacado whatever - lo carb high fat) Can't say how big an impact any of that individually made, but it worked.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 10:51 PM
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Ah thanks. No, definitely not the same place, testosterone has a significant impact, and really if you have very low T it will hinder you immensely. Testosterone is a male sex hormone for a reason, and a lot of alpha, masculine and strong independant traits - physiologically and psychologically, are influenced by it. At the same time however there is lots that you can work on and cultiavate to achieve these things, without touching testosterone. Mindset is something you can work on - and this fo…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 10:49 PM
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Perhaps, explain what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 10:17 PM
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I've fairly recently experienced what it is like to go from very low T levels to the high range of normal (was 8 ng/dl for a long time, latest measurement was just over 1000 ng//dl) To say it has an affect on your behaviour and the way you think would be an understatement. Some objective differences I've noticed so far. Calmer More energy Emotionally FAR more grounded More prone to take an aggresive // combative // competative attitude The last one could use some extrapolation. Before I was very…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 10:10 PM
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This is a naive view of how human beings come to form beliefs. People quite capable of rationality can come to believe or hold views that are irrational, or would seem it to others. And likewise irrational people can chance their way into holding rational views. In SJW land, to some of them, it is rational. Consistent with their world view and they have quite developed arguments as to why the views they hold are rational and correct. Throughout history there are countless examples of people beli…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 03:45 PM
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Just different tolerance thresholds I suppose. You're right with this I think. Alot of it is down to the situation, relationship with the person, and how you react to it. There's little that phases me, and it's usually easier just to set a boundry than cut someone out. Usually cut outs are reserved for people who cross a line, or bring no value. However, as you say, where that line is drawn is up to the individual. Also as an aside for you to put this in dismissive terms (narcissistic, selfish, …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 10:49 PM
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Recognize what they're doing, immediately cut them out of your life, and use it as a filter to see who actually has the balls to join you on the journey of extreme self-improvement. This is an overreaction in my view. Unless they are constantly trying to bring you down, and are providing no value in your life, then cutting them off isnt needed. If they are poking holes or trying to undermine, laugh it off, reflect it back to them, look them in the eye and tell them to fuck off, completely ignore…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:56 PM
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This place is in some ways a learned masculinity forum. Wayward souls find it, and if they can put in the effort and focus needed, will come out the other end confident, self actualized, masculine and live more productive lives. The last bit is attractive to women, a man who seems authentically alpha, confident, owns himself, his surroundings... pursues his interests and goals with determination and without apology. I could go on ad infinitum, but you get the point, authentic alpha man = attract…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:04 PM
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You want, and most women, want a guy who is naturally alpha... who has it all effortlessly, is confident, attractive, masculine, powerful etc. Now there are some men that may fall into this category, but they are few and far between. The idea of a guy who has not always been that way, or naturally developed that way, is distasteful. He's trying too hard... it's fake... not genuine... there's an element that is deceptive about it. This is the reason the redpill works when hidden. But if a guy tel…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 03:02 PM
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I took your comments to be irrational anger. Might have judged too swiftly. From your comment just now im guessing these kind of thoughts and anger were directed towards yourself in the past as motivation to change.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 04:57 AM
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Did that make you feel better?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 03:44 AM
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Hope isn't going to change it, action is. Talk like this I feel like my entire personality is just too feminine and pathetic. I'm pretty much a pussy. Ends now. Start by respecting yourself, no matter your situation, your flaws, or strengths, you respect and value yourself. Almost everything in your post are things that you can work on. If you have the right mindset the rest will fall into place. Difficulty socialising? Fuck you - force yourself to socialise until it starts to feel natural and n…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 03:19 AM
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There is some conflating going on here. You are saying women are not rational with their attractions and it is based off of feeling and emotion (I agree with you here) Then there is a counter argument suggesting otherwise, where sisko above says Women appear emotionally-driven and irrational on the surface, but their behaviour is very rational and quite predictable. I think the idea of this is that their emotional tendancies and attractions lead them to a mating strategy which is advantageous to…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 04:00 PM
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Sometimes you've gotta break in order to rebuild. Just come back from this stronger. Having your reality fail - whatever it is - trust in a girl, a marriage, a blue pill idealised notion of the world. But having that fail can cause you to go through some quite serious emotional shit (hence the anger stage being a thing). Just keep your focus, grow from it, and you'll get to a point when you look back on this moment, and laugh.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 10:01 PM
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Possibly, there's definitely lots of people who lack the mindset to change, or confront and deal with some of life's uncomfortable truths. Most people in fact. Your description makes it seem fated though, which is unlikely. There's betas out there in the world now, who could develop a strong character, and alpha traits, if kicked onto the right path, but won't.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 09:10 PM
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This sounds like a preamble to a hitlerian address. People are not born alpha or beta, they become it. Genetics may strongly direct the likelihood of which way that will go, but it is not deterministic.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 03:30 PM
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You make a lot of posts, this one is the best I've read. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 10:33 AM
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That's why I deleted my comment. It is extremely rare for me to be unwilling to speak to someone, usually I dgaf and enjoy seeing things from anothers perspective no matter who they are. This whole post though showed zero effort, and is an attention grab rather than a genuine attempt at dialogue.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 02:09 PM
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Your post has 20 "I" 's in it. Narcissism is a hell of a drug. You're not here at random, you clearly have your own views and perspective on things. Explain them, that would then enable someone to respond. Otherwise read the sidebar, it outlines the perspective of this place quite clearly.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 01:45 PM
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That was in the original post, 4th link down.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 10:01 PM
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I've not been here that long, but two posts that stand out are these: HumanSockPuppets Guide to Teasing Bitches Every aspect of this post will work with women, the tone and style of it even matches the kind of teasing attitude it is advocating. It's well written and a goldmine. The next one is nothing to do with sexual strategy, there's not many posts that have a profound change on the way I see the world and myself, this one did, extremely insightful. Narcissism and self-esteem cannot coexist
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 02:34 PM
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Some suggestions. Physical Long feminine hair, don't dye it aim for natural and healthy. Aim to be slim but curvaceous, squats can help with this, and lifting generally will improve your posture, which is universally attractive. Eat healthily, and exercise regularly, if you have smooth youthful and healthy looking skin it will make you more attractive. Keep yourself clean, well groomed, smell nice, tasteful makeup - or sometimes even none if you are healthy and lucky with your looks. Personality…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 10:35 AM
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Vocal tone/deep voice (inherited - can't be changed) Not true at all, you can adjust your voice significantly. If I could adjust my voice to sound like a girls you can bet most men can make adjustments to their voice to sound more masculine. Tonality is only one aspect, rhythm and pacing, enunciation, not supplicating (going up at the end of sentences), being louder and more emphatic. There's loads that can be done.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 01:26 PM
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One interesting aspect to personality is what is stable, and what is changeable. So for example you write: I am a classic introvert in the MBTI sense. I mostly exist in my own brain This is something I relate strongly to as well, and would say it applies also. However on personality tests I come out extrovert. Drawing the line between what is a core aspect of "you" vs what are changeable traits, behaviors, and thoughts, is interesting. TRP often emphasizes biological determinism, but this can ov…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 10:52 AM
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I think he was just listing things as examples, not that he is them!
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 10:40 AM
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Good post, sometimes people think things are absolutes. "I'm an introvert... can't socialise" and it can stop them pushing themselves. Go out and do the thing you fear, adapt to the situation you are not comfortable in, or unused to. Quite quickly you'll find it's easy and suddenly you have new experience and skill to draw on, and you can push yourself further. With MBTI, it is quite highly criticised, there are many that think it is incredibly useful - companies will sometimes even screen peopl…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 07:46 AM
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She wants to compel you, not convince you, and she wants to terrify you, not reason with you. Once you recognise this in a person - and women are far more common for it, then avoid arguing with them on logical or reasoned grounds. If you want to continue then turn it into an emotional argument, that is the wavelength on which they operate. And in terms of attracting this is also true - logic, reason, straight talking, blunt practical to point words, kill attraction. Weras things that cause her t…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:24 AM
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You take critique well, some people would react defensively, good on ya! Looks and reads much better now. Your post has some useful perspective, especially for people who are in the anger stage or generally disillusioned with life, society and women. I especially like this bit We are volatile, emotional, and unpredictable creatures. Embrace that part of you. Control your emotions but don't snuff them out. Appreciate things as they come, but stop trying to entrap them and own them. Be fluid, be f…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 08:54 PM
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You've bolded too much, it makes your whole post seem erratic and alarming.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 08:11 PM
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Stop overthinking and going over past things in your mind, it serves no practical purpose. Live in the now, fuck the past. For mood, exercise regularly, take vitamin D. If that isnt solving it, then see a therapist and vent your emotions, form the tenor of your post you could probably benefit from that. You are posting in absolutist terms, which is a reflection of your depressed mentality currently. So for example: But the glass is already broken and after so many years of being a bluepiller, fo…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 07:31 PM
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This is an insightful post, the more genuine the girl, less partners she has had, less experiences she may wish to hide, the less negative aspects to her character there are (manipulative, dishonest, controlling, unbalanced, narcissistic etc....) In effect the less she has to hide, the better quality she will be, because the "self" she presents to you will not be far removed from who she is. Partner count is only one aspect of this, although a significant one. Seeing through whatever image of he…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 05:50 PM
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You've got a lot of work to do. My advice would be do these things. Forget about her completely - from the sounds of it she was using you for validation and emotional support Start working out regularly - Lifting Push past your comfort zones That can be as simple as going out and forcing yourself to talk to people, if you are socially shy. Or it can be throwing yourself out of a plane - or anything that you would find challenging, and change to your routine. You currently spend too much time ins…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 10:09 PM
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Usually I have very little care or judgement for peoples stories about cheating, even though I disagree with it. The argument that she was going to do it anyway, and it might as well be you, is usually quite accurate. The bit that makes this story different is that I'm not sure she was going to do it anyway, the way you've described it, it seems like you played her like a fiddle... got her to a point where her rational mind shut down, and just led her completely. This one action could potentiall…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 09:38 AM
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Read my post history - I have been fairly open. I'm not seeking to justify anything. The strongest argument against my position would be that I am projecting my own - fairly unusual experience - onto people generally, and as such am biased. However, lets say you're right, and my post is just one long justification for an insecurity over my sexuality. That's a possible interpretation so we'll run with it. Your response doesn't actually counter anything I wrote - it only addresses my motivation fo…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 01:30 PM
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Just as we can't change what fires up our hormones and dopamine. On this point I happen to disagree with you. Many aspects of society now are geared specifically toward manipulating dopamine. Your comment leans more toward desire though - and I am aware this opinion will not be popular - but my view is that sexuality is not necessarily fixed. It's been a trend in recent times to hammer home the idea that sexuality is something you are born with - in order to remove responsibility or negative sen…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:19 AM
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She's refreshingly self aware until the end. Logically, I know that I want a relationship with someone who pursues me as much as I pursue him. Logic doesn't stand a chance vs what she will actually be attracted and responsive to.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 12:35 AM
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That's a good way of bypassing ego - by self deprecating you show you are capable of humility, People then find it easier to talk openly. When people lash out like children it is often because their ego is threatened, or are just having a strong negative emotional reaction, for whatever reason that might be. Here, or any conversation based on text, it is harder as well. There are no social cues - body language, tone of voice, inflection or emphasis on words etc. to give more information, so it i…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 06:49 PM
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You hit on pretty much every aspect of this, and do so well. From my own experience with the guy who I was closest to back in the fun days when I was living as a girl, and on estrogen. He did share things with me. Initially this was not the case, his interest was mostly sexual, and I knew I felt strong attraction for him but didn't really know him. Over time, he opened up slightly. But when he shared things he did so when he wanted to. I would ask or want to get to know him more deeply often, an…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 01:11 PM
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Great post, I would add that if you have your shit together - you do not even need to lie about seeing other girls. Although neither should you overtly state it. Suggestivity, indirect communication and boundary setting can go a long way. Liked the Robert Frost reference, all is transient...
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:32 PM
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If someone really loses attraction over something so trivial and stupid, why even pursue them for anything past a casual hookup? Intellectually it is trivial and stupid, a fairly irrational reason for someone to find their attraction lowering. But some aspects of attraction are not rational - they are emotional, limbic. I didn't consciously think "now I find him less attractive" or even think about it in those terms at all - but it did reframe my perception of who he was, and in hindsight cause …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 05:51 PM
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Some experience - I would say this. You should be perfectly comfortable, and able, to reveal your biggest flaws, weaknesses, past mistakes etc. to anyone, without concern or worry for their response (which is not the same as simply ignoring or disregarding their response - there is some nuance here) Having this capacity is usually a sign you have both moved on and grown from it, and also are someone unconcerned about the potential judgement of others. HOWEVER You will need to have quite a good a…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 03:12 PM
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To quote the gervais article What distinguishes Powertalk is that with every word uttered, the power equation between the two speakers shifts just a little. Sometimes both gain slightly, at the expense of some poor schmuck. Sometimes one yields ground to the other. Powertalk in other words, is a consequential language. By definition it has to be powerful because it seeks to create a change, be it of hierarchy, information, money, opportunity - but whatever it is there a specific end game goal th…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 06:44 PM
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I happen to agree with you fully on this, and relate to a lot of what you just said. You value truth though and may be projecting your own values onto people generally when you say But when you understand God-Talk, you understand it trumps all other types of talks invariably and for that reason is the talk of choice. It might be more accurate to say God-Talk trumps all other types of talk - for someone with similar values, intellect and perspective to you. I would agree. On some level when I rea…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 12:22 AM
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But if the POWER rests on it being true and YOU KNOWING its true then by your own definition it is something other than powertalk, because it is more narrow. One response to this could be that if its power rests on it being true then it is limiting in some way. Pro's We are meaning seeking creatures, people crave truth, or to be skeptical - the feeling that they have it. So arguing with truth as an emphasis has persuasive power, and it is easier to speak with conviction when you actually believe…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 11:13 PM
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But when you understand God-Talk, you understand it trumps all other types of talks invariably and for that reason is the talk of choice. Its a mix of Believing your own bullshit, Kanye level of confidence and projecting that out to other poeple, whilst actually backing that up with elite level analytical, debate and communication skills to ruthlessly crush anyone who wouldnt fall for the confidence and belief alone. What you have discovered is just an advanced form of power talk. Powertalk does…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 10:32 PM
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You're pedastalling her. Even if your description of her is accurate and she is a shining ray of innocent beauty, this is not a good thing for you to do. She will pick up on it. The slight inflection of a word, a pause before a response, a small adjusting of body language - tiny gestures speak volumes to girls, who are generally better than guys at recognising them. I also get a slight sense that narcissism is driving part of this, and it is about you more than her. I know soon that I will strik…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 10:00 PM
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Vague long term goals - Life live, enjoy it, make connections with meaningful people, improve yourself, grow as a person, challenge yourself, push past comfort zones, excel. More pragmatic short term goals - Develop independence and maturity, develop masculinity (Something I have journeyed a little too far from in the recent past...) become more accomplished physically and sexually. It's going to be different for everyone, and will change as their life changes, and once you hit goals you'll find…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 06:16 PM
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Mindset and Focus If you have these two little qualities then you can overcome almost anything. Its why there are people in the world who can achieve things that seem superhuman - beyond the scope of any ordinary person. Yet also people who are stuck in negative cycles with problems that could easily be fixed - and yet they feel powerless to fix them. And this feeling of powerlessness translates into a lack of willpower, motivation and ultimately achievement. Assuming you are healthy, you are no…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 12:23 PM
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Hateful people make the best puppets. Emotional people make the best puppets, and hate is one hell of an emotion. People emotionally invested are more loyal, they click more, spend more, comment, share and consume more. It can be right wingers angry at the status quo, political correctness and the stupidity of liberals throwing away years of tradition and societal stability to demand the obscene be labelled normal. It can be liberals angry or impassioned about the next invented slight, to give t…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 11:21 PM
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Just organised this with a friend, it's good advice, adds an element of competition and accountability - if you fuck up they know, and all the reasons you mention at the end. And just something I've found out over the last few months, it is FAR easier to replace something than it is just to say "I will no longer do X" So for example, instead of "I wont waste time on Social Media, Video Games, Porn or whatever negative you are looking to change" Simply replace it with other things, Gym, a class, …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 06:58 PM
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You think I am arguing for something that I am not. I agree with every point you have just made. I was mainly responding to a flaw in the argument Arch made, and to emphasise that physicality is not the be all and end all. Guys not in their physical prime get laid all the time, if they have the right attitude. Guys not in their physical prime succeed in the workplace all the time if they can maneuver themselves and have social skill. Hence why I said this: Thats why lifting is not enough, nor is…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 04:27 PM
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I'm aware, his post was specific to being professionally accomplished, not maximizing sexual strategy. There are plenty of professionally successful people who are not sexually successful - and vice versa. dont like it? too bad, this is reality I'm fine with it, I like a challenge.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 02:53 PM
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The good looking gymbros with social skills that get laid on the weekends are also more professionally accomplished than non social IT cubicle workers Yes, but you point out the reason yourself - "with social skills" vs "non social" The corollary of your point is also true, the IT cubicle worker WITH social skills is making far more than the gym bro who slays pussy but lacks them. Thats why lifting is not enough, nor is just being social, if you want to achieve success, power, influence you have…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 01:24 PM
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I've experienced what it is like to have hormones in female range, and now back to male. They do not rewrite who you are as a human being, but you do change in a core way. Ironically the process has actually had a strengthening effect in some ways - if you go against societal norms to the extent I did, and find out people still like you, find you attractive or interesting or just comfortable to engage - despite the extent to which you are undermining social norms (albeit social norms that are be…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 10:42 PM
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The ones in question, 2 were in LTR and 1 single and dating. It wasn't that they can't touch a girl, it's more what I was suggesting was not just wait for easy opportunities to touch, make them, and do it far more boldly and directly. Less incidental light touching, more hands on her body in a way which leaves no ambiguity other than "You're mine and I want you" You don't need a reason, an excuse, a hand on the back to lead through a door. Hand on the arm as you're stressing a point or whatever …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 08:38 AM
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Physicality can be pretty important generally socially. You can use it to establish dominance, being overly touchy with a guy, arm around their shoulder etc. an invasion of their personal space, and if they allow it you on some level establish hierarchy over them (not advocating doing this this, just observed it happening) You see presidents and leaders of countries practically tripping over each other to be the one who puts their arm around the others back and leads them to wherever they are go…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 06:51 PM
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This is something that is counter intuitive to guys, if she has initial attraction//intrigue to you she wants you to touch her, and doing so will increase the attraction, sexual tension, her comfort with your hands on her and her sense of connectedness to you. I remember telling a group of friends to basically be touchy on dates, hand in small of back, on her arm, touch her hair, waist, etc. Their response "That sounds so rapey". And one said it would just feel awkward and fake to him and discou…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 06:34 PM
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I'll go into it in some depth, although a swift answer would be vegie burger - people who transition are very much not identical to a women//man they can however be very similar, and display similar behaviours, thought patterns, and if they are lucky genetically look very convincing. On the brain structure - there are a lot of studies that have shown Trans people have distinct brain structures that may put them closer to women than men are generally. And some of these are before any hormones. A …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 09:00 PM
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As you mentioned transgender, I'll give my perspective as your topic is something I have been considering recently. My experience - subjective - of the effect female hormones had with regard to logic and rationality. The single greatest difference relates to emotion, it is now far far easier to emotionally detach and assess situations, and this is a fairly key component to being rational. I could assess things logically whilst on hormones, however the closer it related to me the less easy it wou…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 07:28 PM
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Disagree with the social perspective. I've been in numerous situations that many people would consider socially harmful in some way. However, doing so has taught me quite a few things. People respond to the energy // perspective you present to them. If you are confident, unphased and likeable then you can get away with almost anything socially. The anxiety is often irrational, in exactly the same way it is for approaching women. Take someone starting out, they approach a girl, she mocks and unde…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 10:08 AM
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Epiphany describes that process generally, but not your specific example You could always redefine the word "Parenthesis" lol
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 10:50 PM
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The concept, definition, of rape has been redefined in recent times. Your post is largely grappling with two phenomena: Many women seem to have experienced some form of rape, or sexual assault Men - as you see it - are largely uninterested and unlikely to engage in this However, what if rape no longer means physically forced to have sex against their will. And sexual assault no longer means, assaulted in a sexual way? The categories of both have been widened systematically by a subtle shifting o…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 11:54 PM
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They do not state that it improves women's brain power generally though, just that it gives them advantages when it comes to child rearing. So not sure it is quite an example of women being wonderful in spite of evidence. Although it does list advantages without explaining or speculating on possible negatives, which now I think of it is exactly your point. Edit: This is a much better article on it http://arstechnica.com/science/2016/12/pregnancy-brain-means-reductions-in-grey-matter-for-new-moth…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 08:24 PM
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I agree with you. I like to view TheRedPill as very much focused on truth, and not so concerned with ego, winning arguments, status, valdiation etc. Now many people here do fall into that category, it is one of few places you can actually talk openly about aspects to human nature that some would deny, or find distasteful. However there are also a lot of ego seekers, people who love the validation of an upvote, or people incapable of having their mind or views changed on a topic, because they cli…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 07:01 PM
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Alot of it comes down to attention. By claiming to have been raped - they also covertly claim "I am sexually desirable - someone couldn't control themselves and risked so much just to fuck me" Theres the sympathetic side - I've been raped... victimised... hurt unjustly...... there is an outflow of support from people white knights, other women, sometimes news outlets etc. so much focus all on this one innocent little girl and her plight. It's enough to make any narcissists head spin. There's the…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 09:42 PM
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Having irrational self confidence is - to me - something completely different. It ties closer with developing a DGAF attitude, developing a strong and independent sense of self, and simply going out in the world and achieving whatever you set your mind to. What kind of answer do you expect to see in a man starting out? I'm starting out, and in many ways far behind most people here, but what I mean is this. The recognition that some doubt in your beliefs, values, theories and world view is actual…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 09:06 PM
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Your attitude in this post, intellectual attitude, is refreshing. We, as a group, think we’ve got a better handle on reality than most… at least, when it comes to sexual strategy. But there’s a chance we’re very, very wrong. And that’s okay in my mind. It stands in stark contrast to a more common attitude I see here, where people are pushing ideas with 100% certainty. There is no nuance, no doubt... we understand how women work, how men work, society, politics etc. I'm aware that from some persp…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 07:18 PM
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Morality is something you have to determine for yourself. Alot of it will not be determined by grappling with moral philosophy, but will be guided by personality traits you have, and your life experiences. i'd argue for selective circles of morality - people meaningful to you, close, who have value to you? Treat them with decency, consideration, go out of your way to help them, understand them, as long as its reciprocal. People generally - Treat with decency too, recognise they are individuals w…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 10:54 AM
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lol understood. They do this for your own good Could be the opening line of an Orwell novel...
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 03:01 AM
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You've just done exactly what you are criticising.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 02:17 AM
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Pavlov isn't actually too relevant here, as the examples in the OP are Operant conditioning. Where the reward//punishment comes after the behaviour you are seeking to influence. Classical conditioning is where you have a random stimuli that over time comes to be associated with an involuntary response - Bell ring before food -> dogs salivate -> over time dogs salivate just at sound of bell ringing.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 08:19 PM
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I remember making a similar point in the first post I made here, here's the extract: A couple of times with the guy I’m currently seeing I’ve acted in a way, or said something, that could be taken as disrespectful or a “breaking” of the dynamic. The motivators for me doing so were, a situation i was in the right over, and two, an insecurity over whether i could trust him. His response both times was actually quite brilliant. Silence From a frame perspective this was the best response. The outcom…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 09:00 AM
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I get that you didnt like the mental changes from HRT. Other than that, was the main reason social (like not fitting/not wanting to live as a female in female role) or more "physiological" It wasn't anything to do with mental changes and liking or disliking, it was more that once I realised it wasn't genuine, I couldn't go on living a lie and had to drop it. The mental and physical changes were not something I disliked, they simply became a part of who I was, and I like myself, so liked them too…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 11:03 PM
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She should be made to pay a fee for inconveniencing the court system.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 09:14 PM
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Indeed. I am fairly sure that played a huge part. When you are locked in the delusion that you are a girl (and you are not) a strong part of you desperately wants to be perceived as feminine, and a guy desiring your femininity is a direct form of validation in that way. There are other elements though, its suggestive of a adult // child dynamic, as well as working for his approval, and therefore encourages a submissive, obedient mindset.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 06:02 PM
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What my current sexuality is I couldn't say, as a guess bisexual. Are you medically being supervised by an endocrinologist who is watching your male hormones come back? Yeah. Currently testosterone is returning, I've already noticed it. Down the line when I get into normal range for a guy I might make a post on the change back, im young and healthy so with a bit of luck it will be a smooth process.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 10:04 AM
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I only know about this from others experiences, but my view is I wouldn't touch the stuff, the problems it can cause hormonally are not worth the benefits to hair loss.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 02:13 AM
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The girl wanted you to open her. Overthinking eyecontact is a waste of time, but generally speaking if you are getting regular eye contact from women, then yes, she likes what she's looking at, or is at least interested. However ignoring all this, some of the best advice I've seen on this place is not to wait for IOI's. Assume the girl is attracted to you and desires you, and if you want to speak to her, go out and do it. Edit: Actually to be more helpful on the "how to tell if she likes what sh…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 05:41 PM
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Can't relate to your mindset, it seems unhealthy. You are purposefully looking to cause emotional damage, not because they have specifically wronged you, or anyone else, but from your dissatisfaction with society generally.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 08:41 AM
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Your assessment of this situation sounds very off to me. You don't have to treat everything as a challenge, or overthink every interaction. DGAF - And consider yourself equal or more to people around you. Hierarchies exist in people minds, not in actuality.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 10:00 PM
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I agree with the sentiment, but you have overstated this, and used a dumb form of argumentation to emphasise it (do this or be a faggot) Communicating feelings rather than thoughts is a more feminine trait. But your post implies people should actively avoid communicating feelings because it necessarily is less masculine. If you never communicate your feelings, because you concerned about being perceived as not masculine, that is similarly as pathetic as always going on about them. There are heal…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 04:54 PM
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I'd say a combination of screening girls, and boundary setting. At every opportunity show the limits for what behaviours you will tolerate. She is being emotional or trying to manipulate you, walk away, don't text back, ignore her. She wants to create some drama, cut contact for some days, a week a month or more. She's testing the waters with something? Tell her "I don't play games" or even just directly "Cut that out" Basically if you control and set boundries for little behaviours it will neve…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 06:35 PM
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I can understand the frustration, but this is an opportunity, and you've already pin pointed why: "look .... if you are paying this much for THAT ..... then we need to look at my salary again. I either am or am not a value for my wages and if THAT is what is valued at certain price tags ... then my price tag is higher". This just gives you an opportunity to get paid more, as well as provide motivation to increase your job searching. On some level it is annoying if someone is paid that same as yo…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 05:47 PM
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I think one aspect that gets overlooked is that men may be far more likely to have character traits to them that lead to securing higher pay. To get paid more you need to fight for it. Over-confidence, determination, assertiveness. Simply put women may be more willing to put up with lower pay, and prioritise other aspects (job security, good working relationships, comfortable environment) and men more willing to actively demand more.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 09:29 PM
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Good for you. Just for some translations; I offered her a platform, three times, to share what her daughter said about me so I could help her understand both sides. She never bit, so the conversation ended. This has nothing to do with who is in the right, she is just another playing piece in her daughters fucked up game of manipulation and truth twisting. You wasted your time offering to explain more than once. She continued texting me, saying I can't turn this around on her she's not racist and…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 07:41 PM
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You've made more than 50 threads in the last 4 days. What drugs are you on... lol
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 08:34 PM
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Well I have some great news for you OP. Not only do you recognise your problems, but you have also come to the right place to fix the fuck out of them. You are going to need discipline. Getting through this will require determination, change, and positive mindset. As an aside I can relate to the position you are in, and not in a vague, i've experienced difficulty way, but literally have been in the position I dont know who I am anymore, I feel completely fucking lost If you don't already lift at…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 07:13 AM
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Women swoon when a famous model gives them attention. You do not surprise me. Women on a core level - most women, there are exceptions - desire a strong, independent man. That they can submit to, connect with, give themselves to. Now women also want to be taken care of, provided for. If a guy only shows the taking care of, providing for side. She wont desire him, may grow to despise him, and will ditch him. If he only shows the dominant, powerful, independant side, she will fuck him, but will de…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 08:52 PM
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Your argument is idiotic. Take a guy... he is attractive, tall, muscular. Top 10% in looks. Now there are two versions of this guy... one is supplicating... always is polite to girls, and people around him, avoids conflict, is shy, not socially confident. He just wants to make his partner happy. He'll bring flowers or make sweet romantic gestures. compliment girls often, smile at them. Has sex romantically, softly, and is keen to make sure the girl isnt uncomfortable. The other exudes confidence…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 08:11 PM
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If you know the girl already (asin acquainted a little) then silence is a great way to respond to shit tests. Ignoring, removing your presence, not responding at all. It's a good way to show her you are not willing to put up with that kind of behaviour, and establishes you as in control and unrattled by her.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 07:38 PM
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Just for the sake of fun, I'll try to argue this from a feminist perspective: Patriarchal society imposes expectations and norms on relationships. Lesbian women are expected and pressured to fulfil a stereotypical role where one is the "man" and one the "woman". Coupled with this, most women have experienced sexual violence at the hands of men by the time they reach adulthood. In lesbian relationships, obviously the likelihood of one partner being the victim of male violence vastly increases. Vi…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:56 PM
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The trouble is, at the same time that trickle effect is taking place, society - and masculinity - is being held in a vice that is slowly being tightened. People who speak out openly against it risk their careers or social standing. The goal posts are constantly being moved and shifted, language itself takes on new meanings. Words like "Violence" "Rape" these have power, so they are redefined as a means of control - violence is redefined to any include speaking, looking, touching, texting...... r…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:32 PM
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I decided to read the learning material on this, located here: http://fusecontent.education.vic.gov.au/b74ae78a-995a-4a73-8361-3a200d448bd7/RRRR%205%20and%206.pdf At the start there is a lot of emotional intelligence stuff. A bit wishy washy, watered down and leans very much on the "lets all help and understand each other". However can't say it is explicitely bad, and there is useful things on recognising and dealing with your own emotions and those of others. Where it enters into the realm of i…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 03:42 PM
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He thinks you're a troll, and you think he's delusional. This divide causes an impasse where you cannot actually argue or discuss in a worthwhile way with each other. Couple that with the animosity, and arguing back and forth in text is not going to be productive. Hence why I suggested a spoken conversation // argument using a throwaway account, it would cut through all that bullshit. There's a huge difference between how people can seem via text, and actually speaking to someone. edit: Ad Perso…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 07:05 PM
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You both clearly have very little time for each others viewpoint. One thing I would suggest is make a throwaway skype - or some communication medium - and talk to each other, argue it out, try to see each others perspective, it would be interesting given the vast difference in views. Having your views challenged or discussing with people who disagree with you is worthwhile. It's a good way to learn. Perhaps unlikely though, I saw the deleted posts and there's clearly animosity from his side, and…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:17 PM
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Because the quality of posts in the last couple weeks has been low, and if this works it could be a useful to employ again as a technique to refocus, and serves the dual benefit of encouraging endorsed contributors to write and contribute as their posting will have more visibility. Is my guess.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 06:42 PM
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This place doesn't advocate that you abandon your identity in order to fulfill someone elses idea of "Alpha" What it does do is Teach you how to fuck attractive women Advocates and gives guidance on how to better yourself physically, mentally and socially Women don't want to fuck betas. Now there may be women that value kindness, honesty, decency, truly connecting with a guy. But what kind of guy do they want to show those characteristics? A muscular, powerful, intelligent, dominant, successful,…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 09:49 PM
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Thoroughly agree with your post. People can internally beat themselves up over their past. The reality is the only person who actually cares is you. With regard to ownership of the past, it is much easier to do once you have changed significantly. At that point looking back and owning it will be easier - it isn't "you" anymore, and that detatchment will make it easier to do. Now I am a lot like you OP and prefer to start by owning your past, mistakes, properly owning it, and then changing. Livin…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 06:52 AM
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He clearly had elements of Dark Triad to him, just seeing the Louis Theroux documentary on him, and the way he dealt with questions about his sexuality., and his interactions generally. He was a skilled manipulator, who could ingratiate himself with important people, and commit horrific abuse - for years - and not have any genuine flack thrown his way other than vague suspicions. Machiavellian check. I'm going to go out on a limb here and say only someone psychopathic, or with strong psychopathi…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 07:58 PM
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Things like this can be extremely important. Everyone has an incredible capacity for change and achievement, but when shit gets tough, especially psychologically, it can cripple you. Having respect, love and value for yourself is a necessary bedrock in life. If you come across someone struggling, who does not have it, showing them unconditional positive regard can be the catalyst to change their outlook and possibly their life.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 08:20 PM
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Great post, bookmarked. Recently helped a friend negotiate pay. He had a couple of the fundamentals down, so had already: Worked out his market rate, and could give clear evidence that he was being paid less than he could get elsewhere. His boss was somewhat new, and he had helped them acclimate and helped with their work, and knew enough that this made him valuable. However, he was also going to do a number of things that would be red flags. Firstly he didn't have a clear strategy so I gave him…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 07:12 AM
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I've never actually come across anyone who expressed that they found the idea disgusting, even very religious people who arguably have the strongest motivation to think so I do know a lot of people just have very little time for it though. They think it is either, mentally damaged people or attention seekers, or both. Or just don't think its normal. Some people also just do not know how they should interact with or think about someone who "switches gender". So just will find being around them un…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 07:41 PM
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Agreed on your latter point. I don't on your first. There is a whole world between these two: extreme feminist, toxic masculinity, gender is a social construct, victimhood sjw nonsense. The views on society and gender from a redpill perspective A large number of people fall into this middle ground. By redpill standards it would still be deluded and bluepill, but a large number of people do not agree with the extremes pushed by feminists, sjw's or otherwise. However that middle ground is forever …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 07:28 PM
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Universities are not representative of society at large. Most people don't buy into this nonsense. And even within universities there is growing dissatisfaction with the inability to criticise views on gender, identity, etc.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 02:03 PM
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With family, with friends (one on one), with a therapist. You can also try to bring out your emotions yourself, experience them, vent, process rationally, and move on from. Edit, I'll expand on the bringing out yourself part, on the off-chance it is useful to you. Firstly you have to be completely honest and open with yourself. If you have a smart-phone, record yourself saying anything that could be troubling you. Be completely honest. Depending on how bad it is, you may even struggle to say it …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 10:40 AM
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I likely had low testosterone before starting, and I think it will have influenced. And not offensive at all, had I been in a more rational state of mind, I think I could have avoided this fun little mess, with a few months of therapy, changing my lifestyle habits, and getting my T levels checked. You live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 07:14 PM
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For mine I score exceptionally low for psychopathy, just below average for narcissism, and high for Machiavellianism. What you say on it I agree with. Women - once you understand them its easy not to get conned, they play it at a very simple level. Men, who study it, and perhaps have a natural proclivity for it, and also no moral qualms about acting that way. They are the people to be cautious of.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 07:06 PM
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I think part of it plays into the innocent, vulnerable - no responsibility shit that women project to men, as a strategy to appeal to mens protective natures, make themselves seem more attractive, and also absolve of responsibility. There are even some ways it is true, some girls can be brought to emotional states where they will legitimately be very vulnerable and "innocent". I think what happens is when guys are intimate with a girl, they will sometimes see this side of them and think that is …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 07:01 PM
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Thanks for the info and your experience. It has been in the back of my mind. I'll see how things go with it naturally returning, as my preference would be for it to be at reasonable levels naturally. What you are saying about emotionally unavailable men is true in some ways, but women also want to feel like they emotionally connect with someone they are intimate with (unless they are beyond bonding). So that may cause some conflict if you didn't, as you say, use a carrot on a stick method.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 06:54 PM
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Hmm, I think you are right and I have over generalised it. My perception is that there are elements of powertalk within all communication, even honest communication, where people are meaning what they say and talking openly. Aspects like body language, tone of voice, stress on words, or choice of words etc. all can influence. From my experience, one of the more fucked up aspects about female power talk is that they can actually end up believing the lies and manipulation that they come out with. …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 06:49 PM
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This is a very good post. The things you describe touch more on the things I actually do, "soft" manipulation if you like. So for example, listening attentively to a person, asking questions to gain insight into their views or thought process, revealing information that is honest, but is also trying to conform to a narrative of yourself that you want the other person to see (wanting a guy to see you aspects of you that are good//innocent//sweet natured being an example). Wanting to give them a s…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 07:00 AM
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That's really situation dependant. On some level, backing down and resorting to honesty would be giving way. You give power to the other person to direct the outcome. See it as maintaining frame, you know what the persons is up to, and get the impression they know what you're up to - Who is going to blink first? You see this in politics all the time, or people in positions of high power - Even if the person they are talking to knows they are bullshitting, and they often do. You maintain composur…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 09:25 PM
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Haven't got a clear answer, my experience of estrogen was that I became attracted to guys, and my interest in girls largely went, but as my hormones change - and testosterone comes back - so might my attractions. I'm not trans now, although it depends how you define it, still look like a girl, but no longer on estrogen or living that way, and don't consider myself trans.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 09:00 PM
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I did not, fortunately the only thing I took leave of was my senses.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 05:29 PM
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To be clear, my assertion is that estrogen made me far more empathetic. It did not make me more Machiavellian. Although increased empathy and emotional awareness of others can lead to more success in Machiavellian behaviours.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 03:07 PM
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It was a few months ago, I made a post about eye contact, silence and signalling, from experiences I had had with guys. Although I since deleted it. I was living as a girl at the time, and trying to get my head around going back on things, and was having a breakdown, so was partly writing to reach out to this community as I suspected I might need it. Later found that neediness to be pathetic. And decided to Stfu until I had my mind, life, career and things under control, and could post rationall…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 09:40 PM
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You're insightful, this has made me stop and think. I recognise some of those traits you are describing. Not so much chasing emotional highs, but certainly: The fear of missing out That fear can lead to inaction, and a lack of decisiveness. And if you throw in the emotional tides that estrogen causes, you can be in situations where you change your mind quite rapidly and overthink things. Getting a grip on that is an almost Sisyphean task. You once accused me of being a troll, which made me assum…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 08:53 PM
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Looking down achieves nothing, other than making the person doing it feel superior. To truly enact change you need to guide, encourage and bring out characteristics in people. Now sometimes a hit in the face and a "what the fuck are you doing?" is needed to snap someone out of stupidity. Men in society now lack groups to organise amonst themselves, and bring out competitiveness, develop leadership skills, to become strong in body and minds. And masculinity itself is treated as a threat and negat…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 02:24 PM
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I never considered me or any of my friends short but when some 7 footer stands next to you then even a normal tall guy appears so. Everything is relative, if you are 6'1 - 6'3 then height is one of your strongest points. On some emotional level girls want to feel like children in the arms of a tall strong man.. just by your height you can probably evoke that feeling in them. From everything I've seen and read it's usually the guy that has to take the burn. Agreed - Guys if they had an alternativ…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 06:05 PM
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What I'm getting at though is would a woman fantasize about all of us or only the tallest/biggest. Or do those thoughts amplify the taller/bigger a guy is. For example, would a girl have a heavier reaction to a friend of mine who's 7' and 280 lbs. On some level the biggest, strongest, "leader of the pack" style guy might be the focus of initial fantasising. Just on a neuro-biological level I suspect there is a draw toward that for female attraction. Does it have a limit, in terms of size, and he…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 06:17 AM
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I have mostly gotten rid / over mental illness and stuff that I was dealing with before. Some of it went with transition, I got a good career, socialised a lot more, put myself out of my comfort zone, and just developed, which helped. When you have the "This is wrong, I should go back to being a man" epiphany, then this brings with it a lot of mental anguish and confusion to get your head around. And thrown on top of that dealing with the past things that influenced you transitioning in the firs…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 06:16 PM
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If you are tall, muscular and hold yourself well then women will be having those thoughts about you. Some of it is attitude too, and its a harder thing to explain, but if a guy has a dangerous or adventurous look about him, or is wearing a top that shows off his muscular arms, or tattoo which accentuates // draws the eye there. Masculine facial features too. To be honest I very much had a type of guy I was attracted to, so it could be as simple as, if I found him attractive, I would have "he cou…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 05:54 PM
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So what triggered this 'feeling' inside of you? Usually it would just be physical characteristics - tall, strong, coupled with how he's holding himself, or the way I've observed him interact. A guy who is strong, reserved, has presence, and holds himself well, observes the world around him, gives off signs of dominance and control. Also if I could tell a guy was interested in me, and had those above characteristics, then I would feel that way. There you have it gentlemen, another example of fema…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 09:12 AM
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I don't have deeper insights on that topic, what I do know I've shared.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 04:39 AM
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The increased empathy definitely helped. To be blunt so did finding this place, observing the way women talked sometimes, or just people generally, it was like I could see unspoken aspects and dynamics to interactions in a way I just didn't before. Understanding how people manipulate was also something I was interested in. When I was living as a girl I had known for a while that I had personality traits that were susceptible to people with dark triad traits, - trusting, honest and people pleasin…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 06:16 PM
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I actually quite liked the title, but I take your point and can see the benefits of a more direct one. I was quite direct in the opening, on what the topic was about.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 05:57 PM
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Trust me, it's He. Has taken me a while but that's one thing I can be certain of, lol I'll take this on board, if I can craft a good enough post on the topic I'll do so. To say its estrogen that opened my eyes to the nuances of powertalk and female communicaiton might be a stretch though. During this process I became much more capable, healthy physically, confident, socially able. It may be just getting rid of mental illness symptoms was as big, if not more of a factor, in understanding powertal…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 03:01 PM
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If you read my post you would see that I covered this. The media point, and that it is a subjective experience are worth saying, but you are largely repeating points I made.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 08:28 PM
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Succinctly put. The thought has crossed my mind too, I don't so much have to kill the beta, as nuke it.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 04:55 PM
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Well done getting through it and improving, now get out there and start slaying!
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:45 PM
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It would be a waste of time, 50 shades is just what women think they want. Billionnaire, infatuated with girl, protects, dominates, loves her. Takes on on new journeys and experiences, roller coaster of emotions, is completely loyal. The whole situation is nonsense, its poorly written and the characters not realistic in any way, but it is attractive to women for the emotions it causes. If you want to incorporate aspects to your text game, that touch on dominance and hit on the same kinds of spot…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 10:57 AM
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Authenticity. One thing I've noticed is that there are people here who have dazzling success with women. To a degree that many wouldn't believe possible. Yet even those people still need to find meaning, identity, drive and purpose beyond that. It's why philosophy is so popular and widely discussed, and self improvement. Finding intellectual and creative pursuits to work at, enjoy and excel in. Good post, you hammer down the authenticity point, and for good reason.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 11:38 PM
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What does 555 mean in this context, where are you getting it from? Edit: Ok, unless I'm misinterpreting it seems to be associated with mysticism - Great if you believe in it, or find it to be useful way of understanding. When it's slipped in unexplained like this though, it needlessly confuses and detracts from what is otherwise a good post.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 09:36 PM
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If it's working for you, and you're channeling it to make positive changes, then great. Also all of the things you listed as having shame for are easily fixed. Improvement is a journey, eventually you'll be able to shrug off shame completely, and be better for it.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 06:25 PM
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I see the angle you are coming from, but shame is corrosive. Cut it from your life and mind. in my experience of having gone from someone crippled by shame, to having almost none, trust me shame is a massive waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 06:10 PM
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Not really thought of it in this way before, interesting. Can see where you get your name!
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 01:13 PM
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You were able to stay clear thinking, not get caught up in the hostility of the moment, or the wrongfulness of the accusation. Which meant you could pinpoint his emotional state with this: So I told him "Are you mad at me, or are you mad at her". Perfect thing to say, and way to say it. The statement "you're mad at her not me" would likely not have done it, but by phrasing it as a question you got him to introspect. Nice example of the power a simple statement can have.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 08:47 AM
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No. Any response is potentially evidence that could be used against you. Silence, no reaction, response, no texts. Also do not show this message to friends or people she might know. If it gets out and she has to defend herself, she may hamster it into further accusations, and things could get worse. Complete radio silence - and speak to a lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 08:04 PM
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My advice would be completely ignore her. If you happen to run into her, try to embody an attitude of "i honestly have no idea what you are talking about, but i dont dislike you". Silence will serve you better than any response here. Consider talking to a lawyer, but I would play that by ear. Really hope you come out of this fine. edit: Im assuming you're from the UK from the use of "uni" here's a couple of links that might help http://www.daftmoo.org.uk/mooforum/forumdisplay.php?18-Help-and-Adv…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 07:28 PM
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Machiavellianism - Moreover, studies show that it is much more associated with men, which makes sense, given their more methodical and logical nature. I'd be interested to see those studies. My idea on this is that when men are behaving in a machiavellian fashion they KNOW. They know why and how they are doing it. They have the forbearance to see it through to the end, unflinchingly, and keep a pokerface whilst they do. Women however, engage in tactics and strategies, methods of communication an…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 10:42 PM
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Posting here is very beneficial, this is a place where ideas can stand on their own merit and writing in general is good, but you need to assess why you are doing it. I have in the past posted here from a position of neediness, I put effort into making whatever it was informative and well written, but ultimately neediness for peoples understanding and sympathy. Later came to think of this as pathetic and not the kind of person I am or want myself to be, deleted them, and decided to cull that fro…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 06:26 PM
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The best thing to compliment a woman on is her appearance, but not on the parts that come naturally to her. The things she was given - her looks or genetic traits - don't feel earned. Better is to compliment her on her CHOICE in appearance. The easiest way to do this is to compliment her on her clothes or jewelry. I don't disagree with this, but it does depend on the context, how well you know her, and if the flirting is playful and teasing, or much more sexual, or a mixture of all three. There …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 03:17 PM
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Prioritising yourself, getting a clear understanding of who you are, who you want to be, and living authentically, are worthwhile aims. But it is not all about you. Sure you can adopt that mentality as a heuristic, and it may possibly lead to some tremendous success and development. It can also lead to narcissism, egotism, arrogance and being so consumed by youself that you don't truly connect with people and the world around you. Balance - You are nothing, and you are everything.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 01:37 AM
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Emotional control in a post. Disagree - put it blankly not an invitation to further discuss. but I respect you bringing it up - really? or is this just a way of politely managing emotions. Probably won't change the language - finalized, "probably" thrown in to make it casual, but discussion over. BTW your OP post is great, well written and very informative, have bookmarked and very much look forward to the next part.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 02:32 PM
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Imagine the reverse of this article. How women drive men to cheat, and what you can do about it. Not giving sex. Our highest reason given, when their partners stop providing it, men are driven to look elsewhere - Give sex often and enthusiastically Nagging, and being negative. Another strong contender, when your annoying to be around he's going to look elsewhere, improve your attitude to keep him committed. Getting fat and letting themselves go. A lesser reason, but still up there. if your looks…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 09:51 PM
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The few I can think of Text Game It's sometimes advised to avoid texting, other than arranging meetups. In some ways I can see this working. Its easy to fuck up texting, do it too much, say the wrong thing, have something be misinterpreted. But you can easily generate desire, build comfort and attraction and simply get a girl thinking about you by texting. It can easily do more damage than good, but it also can also work for you extremely well when done right. Globalist Political//Cultural Views…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 07:44 AM
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Frailty is perspective. For arguments sake, lets assume this premise "Goodness is learned, not core to our nature in any way, and easily stripped away when circumstances change" My position was, and is, an appreciation of goodness in others even accounting for this being true. The position is not frail, rather goodness itself is. For fun, lets try the skeptical viewpoint to all this. "good" and "evil", "goodness" these are human inventions to make sense of each other and external reality. They h…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 02:42 AM
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Maybe I agree with you more than I initially thought. Human beings are born with natures that predispose them towards acting selfishly, and all do. However we are also capable, through our intellect, connections to others and experiences in life, of tempering this nature, and acting in good ways. Perhaps no human beings are good, especially if you demand absolute goodness to qualify. But with this in mind, just appreciate the people who show goodness all the more. Edit: I think this may come dow…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 06:26 PM
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I disagree with you strongly on this, you can find goodness in almost anyone if you look for and appreciate it. In one of your responses you give a description of base human nature being; greedy, self interested, self absorbed, and evil. I agree, all humans have and frequently show these traits, but you overlook some other ones. We are social beings, capable of connecting to each other through language, physicality, emotionally, intellectually. Empathy, for all its flaws, is the means through wh…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 06:05 PM
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There are lots of ways to counter this. Women are more willing to give up their time for a strangers attention because they are narcissistic and enjoy the attention. They are more likely to be lenient on grades because they want people to like them. to say again they want people to like Them. This is not about being kind to others in order to help and improve their lives, it is about making themselves feel good. You could also counter this by saying, yes woman are nicer, however when women show …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 11:00 AM
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Definitely, if you can see how someone treats those they stand nothing to gain from, you see an aspect of their true character. I think being considerate of others and kind are positive traits, but you need to be selective with it. There's a time and a place for decency and empathy, having that switch always set to On will make you weak and exploitable, but lacking or never showing it strips you of forming meaningful connections to others.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 11:27 AM
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Nietzsche summed up this concept pretty well. “Of all evil I deem you capable: Therefore I want good from you. Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws.” Essentially he's talking about people who are incapable of acting to harm, and who then rationalise this weakness into some form of moral virtue.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 08:51 PM
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Recently started lifting too, people don't care, just get in, do your thing and make sure you stick to it. The times i have had to ask people things about the equipment or w.e they've been helpful and friendly.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 12:18 PM
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You're right, I'll go back to lurking and figure things out. I think part of my posting here was reaching out to a community that I suspect I may need in the future, but my doing so now is a distraction from the aims of this place.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 10:05 AM
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Not forgetting, but you're right its very easy to see things only from the experience during, rather than take an objective look at the whole picture.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 03:52 PM
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It does change in that way, also it becomes so much more emotional than before, the idea of curling up against a guy, his arm around me, hand in my hair, after things have happened. That kind of intimacy is almost as enjoyable as sex itself. Thats probably a good example of how hormones change things. I bet this changes from giving to taking, and this selfishly received experience gets hamstered into "giving" the guy something. This is interesting, subjectively when I am sexual with a guy, it do…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:41 PM
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lol, some people just want to watch the world burn! :P In many ways this place is a breaking of false realities, in a hard hit to the gut. I'm mentally strong - even with estrogen having its way with my mind and body - and trying to understand and deal with this is probably one of the hardest things I've ever felt (euphemisms aside) If i posted to some sjw echochamber then it would be rationalised away by the majority, "this person is a troll, liar, not genuine etc." (Which is ironic given someo…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 11:33 AM
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Apologies for the wall of text, didnt intend it to be long, but just kept writing lol As some people have pointed out, my perspective may not be an accurate reflection of the other side - I personally think theres more nuance to it than skeptics care to admit when it comes to the question "how similar to a girl is a transgirl" we are certainly different in lots of ways, upbringing, biologically, neurologically. But estrogen does also change lots of things, your skin, your smell, your sexuality a…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:23 AM
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Not supposed to do anything, discard it at whim, or if any of it seems useful then take it as that. Im likely going back to living as a guy, and this place has helped in coming to that decision. But in the meantime i've been fortunate enough in my looks and personality to attract high value guys, and figured i'd share some of my perspective from that, a perspective which is unusual i'll grant you.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 01:41 AM
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You've read into this things I hadn't meant to convey, although I can see why the examples and situations i gave could be seen as implying girls are honest in their communication, which you're right is not true. A means B criticism is valid, observing behaviour is not an exact science, there will always be dishonesty, hidden thought processes, cognitive biases, subtlety and nuance, that make things less simple. Even when it really is "come talk to me" it could be because she wants validation, wa…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 06:47 PM
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Fair point, that's why I did mention it when you prompted :)
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:44 PM
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I'm mtf trans, live and pass as a girl, it wasnt particularly relevant so I didnt put it, and it also mentions in the rules not to.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:05 AM
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Very true, my point about self esteem was eye contact generally reveals it. Someone purposefully ignoring attention or eye contact is not the same as someone who looks down to the floor, or looks uncomfortable and turns away. Reading the differences will be very body language based.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 07:40 PM
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Didn't want to ramble, I might elaborate on that more specifically some time.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 07:32 PM
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I mean to do that, hopefully doing so will give a clearer perspective, and your right about good friends, maybe one day I'll laugh about this with them.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 11:18 PM
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Thanks, I intend to take things slowly whatever happens, I suspect there isnt a clear cut right and wrong choice.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 11:08 PM
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