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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	💁‍♀️	MOOD FOR LIFE	throwaw9876	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 07:34 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contact Honestly my personal peace was never that disturbed. I did see the Red Flags so much earlier this time, which was powerful for me (maybe it's similar for you?). So powerful. Like a shield/armor. The past lessons HAD taught me. A lot. I stayed mostly because it was comfortable (I almost want to say necessary, but that would sound like I had no options when I had plenty but yes they would have been stressful too), and because I wanted to see how correct my intuition was. I do admit: I bit off more…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 07:23 AM
24	NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contact I have this ahead of me. I get giddy just thinking about it. Exit strategy was calmly made weeks ago :) I'll also be moving 400k's away into renting an appartment, so needed to sort out things in the background. He will just come home to an empty house. And Karma will have slapped him too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 05:28 AM
32	Only pickmeishas get mad at the other woman If they know the person they are cheating with is taken, they still disrespect the fuck out of my relationship. Don't get me wrong, the best is saved for the cheater. But sidehoe might get her ass whooped too, depends on my mood.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 05:23 AM
5	Seriously? Because dudes like this are laughable clowns :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 05:09 AM
32	Seriously? OUF the facts. You also forgot: peer pressure. Tremendous peer pressure. And, in the case of abusers & porn addicts: they want to tell themselves they are "normal". They're decent guys after all. Able to hold down a relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 08:42 PM
5	Seriously? This is so triggering 🤣 fml	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 08:40 PM
8	Seriously? You didn'y have to call me out like that 💀	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 08:39 PM
99	Seriously? ikr ... I nearly became that woman, literally witnessing this exact insecurity unfold in front of me. WhAT dO yOu mEaN ... cHArAcTeR ... m-mAtTerS ?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 08:38 PM
13	Seriously? Thissssssss.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 08:35 PM
15	If you’re going to do OLD, I recommend OkCupid The algorithms are soooo good 🤣🤣 "Hello, I present to you: the bare minimum" OKCupid: whoa that's gotta be at least 87%	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 07:30 PM
15	If you’re going to do OLD, I recommend OkCupid STOP I AM ON THE FLOOR Yeah, Starbucks coffee dates definitely implies stbx. I see why you were confused, it's like they mEaN the same 💀⚰️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 07:26 PM
38	Seriously? Am there right now as I type (ofc he will never admit it), makes 0 difference what league, dimension or solar system we're in. You start to take for granted -> you get dumped.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 07:16 PM
11	If you’re going to do OLD, I recommend OkCupid I'm screaming	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 07:11 PM
16	If you’re going to do OLD, I recommend OkCupid "Soon to be ex"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 04:47 PM
7	Straight from the horses mouth. "Soon to be ex" Yea and it's funny because he obviously says the same, trashtalking people. But after a short while I realized: "Wait.... he IS that person. His family IS that family. They are exactly those people that should honestly just leave this planet ... the racist, sexist, backwards hillbillies, who make humanity so damn rotten..." Like yeah, there's always someone "lower" than yourself, I guess. Doesn't make your self a good person, though. It makes you simply "not AS bad" as [insert …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 03:42 PM
16	A reminder to drop the LVM and focus on love and leveling up for yourself. First of all, and this is the most important fact of them all: Love is unconditional. When I sit on my couch, makeup free and smelling, doing absolutely nothing except looking out the window and merely being, I let NO ONE tell me I'm not loveable in this state. Whoever tries to take that away from me can only fail. I know my worth and value as a human is only and exclusively tied to who I am as a person, the heart that I carry inside. Not what I do, the job I have, or the number of friends I sur…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 03:32 PM
5	A reminder to drop the LVM and focus on love and leveling up for yourself. Sorry but why does that hurt... ? Genuine question. x	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 01:06 PM
116	If you’re going to do OLD, I recommend OkCupid OKCupid is the same company as Tinder, namely Matchgroup Inc. Met my abusive af stbx on okcupid Enough guys with the exact same bs as on Tinder ("this is not my real photo", and everything else) Questions will still be lied to Different picture, same brush strokes. Use it, but stay woke.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 01:04 PM
48	Straight from the horses mouth. Stbx is the best example for this. The stuff he told me about his childhood and how they were raised in this cesspit of absolute 0 nestwarmth... Both parents did not love one of their 6 children (i know, the wrong people keep breeding), it's so blatantly clear. They love my stbx's "achievements" cause he's the only one with at least somewhat of a career (guess what it is haha), and that's it. Yep, you guessed it - he's become an angry narc.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 05:57 AM
8	The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of men ouf 🎯 I was gonna write about that. How MEN are the ones who con, dupe, trick and manipulate women. Into cheap sex, mostly, but also often narcs luring their next target into a relationship. Not even mentioning cheating of course...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 05:41 AM
42	The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of men The second paragraph Damnnnnnnnn. SPOT on. The presupposition for any manipulation is that it is HIDDEN. That I somehow, secretly, want you do X by obscurely saying Y and Z. OPENLY displaying and verbalizing my standards, and sticking to them consistently and transparently, though, is literally telling you: "I want you to do X." It CANT be manipulation. By definition it can't be. It is so completely and utterly absurd to argue this in these cases, men do this sooo often. "You're trying to manipu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 09:58 PM
13	The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of men "Friends with benefits" - words can't describe how long and how much I've hated that term for. Why is it not called "sex with benefits" ? Why is the sex part the benefit, not the friendship ? o_O seriously wtf ? I'm millenial gen, and I never never ever understood this, or engaged in it, until this day. You may also call it: "Two people with 0 boundaries meet each other. Guess what happens." If you are friends with someone, and you have sex with them, that is called a relationship.........…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 07:09 PM
15	The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of men This sub is technically for everyone, yea it’s female only but, It’s about building and knowing your self worth! You shouldn’t put up with a person who doesn’t uplift you and compliments you as a partner. Can the mods pin this, please ? Also everything else you said, especially the last paragraph. Less work gets more praise, women's harder work gets less praise, less money, less everything. Look at how many more comments any male post on cheating/infidelity subs gets, how much more applause wh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 06:53 PM
16	The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of men Spot on. Legacy, Dad title, being the auThoRity iN tHe hoUseHold. Original quote from my stbx (don't ask): "I'd be open to dating a single mother if the kid is older." Straightup. What kind of woman allows this ?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 06:51 PM
13	The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of men I'm your age. Don't give up. Healing is never linear, it is cyclic. But nevertheless, it is healing. We're getting there, it's slow, it's exhausting, but we're getting there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 06:46 PM
43	The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of men "they would rather accuse other women" This makes my head spin. It is so... I can't even describe it. hE chEatEd oN mE wiTh mY siSter, I toOk hiM bAcK, noW he chEateD aGaiN. hoW do I woRk pAsT mY iNseCuriTies ? I can't.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 06:43 PM
19	The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of men You forgot "with kids who won't miss me because, well, I was some person in their lives, not a true father who loved them unconditionally and set healthy, consistent, transparent boundaries of society with them"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 06:40 PM
36	The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of men Sis speaking FACTS. Those same guys go for only the most beautiful, youngest women. Shocker: super shallow attracts super shallow. Crazy world we live in, I know.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 06:37 PM
59	The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of men Where would all the couples therapists make their money from, if women decided to leave their abusive marriages/relationships ? Where would the porn industry make its money from, if men decided to stop (or at least REDUCE) their consumption ? Half of Reddit is porn, as we all know. I wouldn't be surprised if this subreddit here got banned altogether sometime in the future.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 06:34 PM
116	The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of men Literally this. What the original post mentioned, men arguing "maNipuLatiOn" - you fool, how is it manipulation if literally all I say is: YOUR.FREE.CHOICE ? How ? Anyone ? Wanna be with me = treat me right. Don't wanna be with me ? EASY. NO BIGGIE. Auf Wiedersehen.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 06:26 PM
17	The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of men "It's almost as if they know they have been getting an extremely good deal at the expense of women." What do you mean "almost" ?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 06:23 PM
13	What were some pivotal things your friends said that made you reconsider your relationship? This. A lot.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 06:58 AM
101	Men think that it's WOMEN'S fault they're addicted to porn 🙄 A LITTLE LOUDER FOR THOSE IN THE BACK. Willing, groomed, fit, rolemodel gf who treated him like a king, with her own life and everything together - nup. Quote (yes, really): "Sex is exhausting, it mEAnS wOrK. Wanking to porn is a transaction, that's easier." Ok, clown.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 07:35 PM
51	REDDIT CEO STEVE HUFFMAN: PoRn iS EmPoWeRinG 🤡 I oNlY gO aFteR whAt pLeAsEs mE aEsTheTicAllY	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 07:29 PM
95	Men are perfectly capable of identifying body shaming when it happens to men. They just don't care when it happens to women, because they see us as their property. When women critique male bodies, we are upsetting the power dynamic in which men are whole human beings and women are consumable objects So recently on the dating advice sub there was yet another thirsty tinder boi complaining how the tables have turned/women having turned male shitty games of complete shallowness against them. He argued this. Slapped him with the age discrimination. Women can't control that either. But nice try.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 08:19 PM
0	If he isn't on this level, he's beneath you I don't agree with calling a fellow human being "beneath" others. Please don't adopt LVM/ZVM vocabulary or mindset. If person A is different, then they are not automatically worse. Just different.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 08:15 PM
69	This is what dating a scrote looks like. Pass. This. The dude saying HE'D break up with HER if she doesn't tolerate it: Me: kk, holla babe 😌👋 here, lemme help you with your things. Byee 😊✌️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 11:48 PM
23	If most men can't help being attracted to teen girls "because of their biology", then most men should not get to be fathers. The truth of it all 💀💀💀 OP but also these two here. 100%. Can report from first-hand most recent pleasant encounter with what turned out to be a PA. Tons and tons of Asian and teen porn (plot twist: his closest female "friend" is the shiest Asian girl....) 💀	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 04:55 PM
71	I feel so sad and angry for her! The comments are all calling him a “king”. Literally the only reason. Exact same way LVM howl when you slap em with the "If she has to be a TEEN/substantially younger than your age bracket (emphasis on bracket, 5 years is totally fine), this is 0 about biology, only about psychology (of manipulating boundaries)." Bitten dogs howl. Exposure hurts. Cue narc rage 😌🥂✨	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 02:00 PM
67	The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter). No other comment needed. Except maybe: why is everyone here outraged ? When my first response was 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 12:42 PM
6	ItS A jOkE! lmaoo this	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 05:10 AM
66	ItS A jOkE! THE ONLY REASON EXTREME YOUTH IS FETISHIZED. LOUDER FOR THOSE IN THE BACK. As if men can tell the looks of a 27-year-old from those of a 19-year-old. Fertility peak my ass. More like manipulation peak.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 09:59 PM
2	Image being so addicted to porn that you associate winged eyeliner with being a cmslt... Disgusting Notice also: "he compliments my ACTIONS" - and then, of course, its her COOKING. FOR HIM. He passes on the conditional love (ie. no love at all) he grew up under onto her. And yet SHE is the one who has to do personal growth ? Wtf is this ? What ? Anyone ?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 06:21 AM
6	She didn't lie literally. Dumbdumb brain. Baffling, but... literally, this is why. Simply too dumb.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 06:11 AM
13	Potential Red Flag Questions Currently leaving what turned out to be (caution, shocker): a covert narc. By diagnosis of other redditors. And, well, he was: looking for a relationship, talked a lot, reasonably attractive, age appropriate, nice enough and into me. And YEP, sure enough showed these massive red flags of sexism and almost hatred towards women from day1. Hmmmmm! I checked out mentally after 3 months, hung around for a while to confirm gut feelings - I bit off more than I could chew. Wowza, yikes and double yikes.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/21 08:17 AM
2	The audacity 🙄 Who knows. Yea she defs has pickmeisha issues, she said in the same interview how she comes from a rather toxic family who made her small and conformist and it was a struggle for her to break free from it, and she still struggles now. She likely carries old habits & mindsets of trying to impress, I'm really sure she does. I still dig that quote, though. Haters gonna hate. And attractive women with boundaries always have been, and probs always will be the favorite target.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/21 07:43 AM
18	The audacity 🙄 Even if Brad Pitt said this, it's pathetic. Those men are the loudest to screech gOLd diGgEr, too. Double standards, anyone ? Oh, and since I am rather fit and well groomed and living my femininity while also chillin in my hoodie no makeup enough of the time, I'm ofc still a stuck up bitch and have been since puberty to so so so so so SO many men (and pickmeishas ofc). When I just value my attention and set boundaries and show my kindness and warmth only to those who deserve it. Bottom line: you…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/21 05:36 AM
19	No trousers. lmfao this 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/21 05:27 AM
49	Men’s magazine glamorizes 20 year age gap between old scrote and beautiful woman for their “modern love” edition. 🤮 Ikr. On her: Jackie Kennedy syndrome. As long as she gets her glamorous life including this shoot, he can behave like a total dick to her. Hard facepalm.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/21 05:26 AM
35	Why are men such assholes about women's muscles??? I AM ON THE FLOOR 💀😭❤️ To answer the question: in👁se👄cu👁rities. PS fellow climbing enthusiast here 😍	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/21 11:04 AM
53	Why being single is preferable over dating for many women- especially when unlearning pickme behaviours. "Mom, I am a rich man." 😊	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 09:11 PM
95	Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years). The "I'm number 3-4 after work, videogames, addiction" HIT HOME SO FUCKING HARD RN.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/21 03:44 PM
1	Girl gets physically abused and sexualy assaulted, reddit: you need to coMMunICAtE. Girl makes some harmless jokes: dum her, she's the devil. BTW this post is totally fake Obvs. ALSO, BTW: Men about women every day. "Can't trust the sl... !" (who's in constant need of sex again?), "Men ARE the more rAtioNal sex", rings a bell anyone ?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/21 12:16 PM
162	Men who don't ask questions (99.9%) "They are only concerned with what you can do for them and how you make them feel." This is so.. I can't. The whole reason why men can watch porn is because they do not view women as TRUE, FELLOW human beings. And they can't love them as such. They can't love a woman simply for being. Sitting on the couch and doing nothing. They can only love her for doing. Which is not love at all. She is valued according to her assets (looks, most importantly), because those assets make him look good. Her …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/21 12:12 PM
3	"Women can have a man who is either attractive or a good person, but not both. If you want to date a hot guy, expect him to treat you like shit. If you don't want to be abused, you have to put up with having sex with someone you're not attracted to" Over and over and over again. This.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/21 08:15 AM
7	While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄 The comments here are SO awesome. Especially those pointing out how she probably sought external validation to start with, because he and his limp dick neglected her over porn. Re original guy and his hypocrisy: LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/21 08:11 AM
74	🚨DON'T BUILD UP A MAN- Via Deborrah Cooper's channel Yes. Also when she lOsEs hEr LoOks. 50 ? Meh, not sExY aNd pErK aNymOre. Forget you'd be a fucking nobody without all the confidence she's instilled in you, and nowhere you are in life at 50 without her. She's not a "teen" anymore (and I kNoW 19 fRom 16), that's all that matters, right ? Facepalm.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/21 08:05 AM
19	There are at least 5 things wrong with this that made it to a usually cute sub. bUT sEx iS tHe mOsT bAsiC nEEd eVeR !!1111eleven	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/21 08:01 AM