throwawaaaaaaaaaay18 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	The first few months.	Rant	throwawaaaaaaaaaay18	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/25 02:56 PM
8	The first few weeks.		throwawaaaaaaaaaay18	/r/Divorce_Men	28/05/25 03:21 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	I’m honestly just angry now. One of the most helpful things I learned in therapy is that Anger is usually disguising the real emotion: Grief, Fear, Sadness, Betrayal. I was pretty angry for the first few weeks and I took some time to understand the subtext and it helped me move on quicker.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/25 08:06 PM
1	The first few months. No kids, no debt, no shared assets, and we both make similar amounts. The ball’s in her court and I’ve been accountable with my own part of why this didn’t work out. If she doesn’t want to build something new, I understand. Life’s long and we’ll both be okay.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/25 06:34 PM
1	The first few weeks. I think this is what I was looking for. Thanks.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/25 05:01 PM
1	The first few weeks. I’m a pretty fearful person who masks really well, and who has a lot of self loathing. I’ve got a strong disconnect between my physiology (tremors, stomach butterflies) and mental state. I don’t really panic mentally, but I panic physically. I’ve had circumstances where I’ve been in full-blown anaphylaxis and been having a very normal conversation with the EMT while barely being conscious, but still fully mentally there. When I do eventually get overwhelmed emotionally due to being scared, I alm…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/25 03:14 PM